Funerals – Regulations And Exhortation 15

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Sheikh Hussain Yee speaks about the regulations and exhortations when it comes to funerals – Episode 15

Presented on May 2, 2017.

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shalonda on the sisters and brother let us begin our day with the morning smilla rahmanir rahim

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al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen wa salli ala Muhammad

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Ali Muhammad, Kemal sunlighten Brahim, wala and Ibrahim in Mita Majid Allahumma because

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para de hacer una joaquina seminar summon la Juana Muhammad Ali he was on the edge in 100. Allah, Allah Minh and

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operates due to hon Allah mean for his blessing, his guidance, His mercy, his forgiveness. May Allah subhanho wa Taala make us among the people who will always remember him in good time, especially in bedtime.

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May Allah subhanho wa Taala make our hearts have peace with a lot of Malala mean And may Allah subhanho wa Taala make us the oma who love the Messenger of Allah, Allah Allah Minh and tried to follow his Sunnah until we depart from this one I mean

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the Odyssey says and abroad as a demon Today I would like to share a few important saying and the prophets of Salaam that may also strengthen our relationship with Him inshallah.

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If not abass and salmon and Juma he are the Allahu and Houma both related that the profits and losses saved and remain his oma before he died.

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Is that we'll see but I had the can be musi but in for the escort. musi better who be

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for in the heart, Amazon will massage it.

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Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam

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mentioned in this hadith if one of you is afflicted with a calamity, then let him remember his calamity by me.

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Meaning by my death, for indeed, is the greatest of calamities, meaning the death of the Prophet is the biggest trial for this Omar

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The biggest loss for this oma, we are lost for a while.

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We know that in the profit when the Prophet was alive in his time, every problem the complainant encounter, they just have one man to refer to Prophet Mohammed Salah Salah.

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all their problems off by refer to one man.

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After that, of course the

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more choice given to a lot of people to refer to whom they like. And so the more people you refer to, the more confused you become.

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There's always some differences in understanding a lot of things.

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Then the profit and loss alum also remind us if you want to know what happened later on,

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he said an A B Moosa and a B samama Sankara no jumio Martin this summer for his aza but no June at the Summer Oh my UI to

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you I do Anna Amina to the US happy face as to either as habima you are doing what as hobby ama not only Amati for is as a habit as hobby at the comedy my you are doing.

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Abu Musab Rita related that the Prophet said the styles are the peace, the stars of peace to the sky, when the stars leave, when the scattered what has been promised to the sky will come it was split apart.

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Meaning the sky was split apart,

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does that is going to come?

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I am peace among to my companions, when I leave what has been promised to my companion or come to them

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and what is the trial for the companions wall and this order

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they will start to come the feet and start to grow

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my companion a piece for my nation, the companion always

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help to unite the Ummah, when my companion pass away,

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what has been promised to my nation will come the appearance of innovation, the overcoming of desire.

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Then the oma is getting further and further from the guidance of Allah and the teaching of our beloved Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu sallam.

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Then you will see a lot of innovation, ideas, desires, worship, meaning anything you want to do about Islam, you will just

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ping what is good for you.

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You ignore the guidance.

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We thought that our feeling is more important than the guidance of the Quran and the Sunnah of the Prophet some of our salah

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and is happening what the prophet have told us on is happening.

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a man

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and us call our pilot and omachron but the wohlfahrt era su de la his similasan li Amara

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for hire Houma boca de fecha Allah Yep, P and Ma.

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After the prophet SAW Muslim pass away.

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Mo Baqarah said to Omar, Come, let us visit a man whom a man who is my man whom I man is the nurse of our profits on some who take care of the profit and also she was assisted

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slave earlier and later on the profit free. And

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so amacher and Omar said let us visit a man.

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We shall visit her as Prophet Mohammed Salah used to visit her

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Prophet Mohammed Salah is a man who ever

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have been very kind to him. He always tried to visit them when he have time to pay some respect. And

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when we reached her, she was crying.

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So they Abubakar and Omar said, What made you cry? Oh my man.

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It's not what Allah has with him better for the Messenger of Allah.

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She said, I do not cry, being ignorant of the fact that

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wish is with us, is better for the Messenger of Allah

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is not complaining. In Pino that is the best for the prophet to meet Allah. Allah I mean, there is no meeting there is more meaningful, more beloved by a prophet than to meet

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a lot of Vladimir.

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All prophet normally they already

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only if angel of death, approached them

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wrongly within the way the angels talk to Moses that times up because Moses was upset.

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But if you see a lion love to see you now,

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then they're ready. How can I delay know when the Almighty is waiting for me?

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I do not cry, being ignorant of the fact that which is with a lot is better for the Messenger of Allah. Rather, I cry because a revelation has ceased to come down from the sky. Of course, the prophet pass will be known.

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There's no more Why are you?

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Why are you in there? That's why the Prophet command his oma to refer to the Quran

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and his Sunnah.

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Now, when you don't refer to the one you will come to you, what will come to us when the value is been ignored?

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What is the opposite of enough so,

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when there is no value, then the nafsa will come in. Your desire will come in

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how I feel how I think,

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no more guidance.

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So when she said this to the companions, she moved the two of them so much with her words, then they all cry and cry, woman cry.

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And that is very important to have this understanding.

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No matter how much love care or generosity we receive from our loved one or our barons, relative, it does not even bear to be compared to the wonderful love, compassion and care from Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu sallam.

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For him here the prophets Allah has shown us the way to achieving happiness, and all this good.

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While he has won us away from all paths of evil and loss,

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whether it be regarding this world or the next life.

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Most of our parents forget to inform us how to prepare ourselves for the next life. But the Prophet was always there to remind his oma to remind his nation

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who from our relatives, a friend or loved one has made a similar contribution. None of us keep this in mind. And it will help you to truly feel the tragedy of losing Prophet Muhammad sallahu wa salam.

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To further appreciate the significance of the proper guidance and lasting legacy. Consider this question.

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Very basic grits, then, what if you enter the Hellfire?

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What if you were deprived of paradise? What if you're punished in the grave?

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who provide benefit to you and what will save you from own

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The above

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we know that the prophets Muslim that mentioned

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if you have any property left behind that property will go to your family and next of kin,

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the WHO THE who those who have the right to inherit.

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But if you have debt

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and you don't have property, I will be the guarantor.

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No, I will come and save you from your debt, we have a condition you have, try your best to create. Now you don't have the mean neither any of your children have the mean to clear your debt. So the profit is there.

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Yeah,

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I did share with all the good sisters and brother.

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Important thing that we must do duties of the deceased relative, we if somebody passed away.

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Normally what we would do I just recap.

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When inform the death the family members and close friendships show patience, and acceptance of a mouse we'll start by saying in alila, he was in La arogya.

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Although weeping is natural, and to be expected, people must await what was prohibited by the prophet.

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You can feel sad, you can cry. But don't forget what the prophet for beat us.

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What is the thing that the Prophet forbiddance we have shed in our last class

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loud baling and shouting,

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screaming tearing of clothing, slapping the face.

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Some would even shave their hair

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is a sign of

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sadness. So said that they shave their head who the woman the man can shave their head no problem, but not the woman

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and display of grief and anger which reflect the balance against Allah Kadar.

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Now, it is permissible to briefly uncover the face of the disease to see or kiss the disease at their forehead.

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But this only applies only to those who could have lawfully done so, while he or she was alive, meaning is male, any male friend can come and the immediate family who are the Muharram

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if a female any female can come

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and give a kiss on the forehead and also the Muharram on this this is female.

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Then we know the wife of the deceased became her waking period known as it

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as soon as she learned of her husband's death event she was traveling example one is confirmed that the Father and the husband passed away from that time her it does

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not necessarily after the burial, that this is immediately one the death has been announced then the ID of the wife stand for

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10 days

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other than then

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other relative only mon for three days. Yeah.

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Number three, relatives of the deceased or others who might be present in the place of death should hasten to prepare him or her for burial as soon as possible. Don't delay

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because it is dislike to delay burial without a good reason.

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Hence is prefer preferable to bury the disease in the same location in which he or she died

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or in the nearest Muslim graveyard. And refrain from transporting the body long distance

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if possible, unless there's no other Muslim graffia nearby. Then you try to do what is best.

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Number four, any debts incurred by the deceased should be settled as soon as possible.

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The foremost of

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This beam is socket. It says that with Allah, if do

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for one who left? Well, the debt must be paid from his or her property before the fulfilment of inheritance

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and distribution to the legal

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and even it should consume the entire estate.

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Meaning if he owe 1 million, he or she only or he left only 1 million, the 1 million cannot be distributed

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to any of the children must go to clear his debt.

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For one whole left little or nothing.

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The Islamic State is responsible. If you are in Islamic country,

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then the Islamic State take some responsibility.

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This way, you have zakat. And one of Zakat is to pay that

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no islamically death does not no adapt, do not just erase I don't know about the common law in the common law. Maybe they understand if you die. So they just

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they can just close the case.

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If they don't have get into.

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Actually, it's up to the agreement. Normally, they may have their own agreement here. This is just some knowledge that we all should be prepared in case something happened to our loved one. We are living in a very strange community,

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just among family members, we have different kind of understanding about Islam.

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So when somebody passes away, then you will start to have some problem.

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Some will follow their way.

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And we who have knowledge, we cannot betray our knowledge. There is a different they don't have knowledge they will do according to what they know that people have knowledge cannot

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show their ignorance they can do that. Allah is going to question us upon the knowledge that we have acquire, what do you do with the knowledge

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to people who have knowledge and do not act upon the knowledge they are worse than people who have no knowledge?

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Then another reason that a lot of people don't want to seek knowledge they say is better don't have knowledge.

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When you don't have knowledge allow us you you know that seeking knowledge is an obligation. How can you

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excuse yourself, allow one allow that

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according to our my book, our book that we are referring to the same book, we should be continuing on page

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47.

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Okay, punishment in the grave, and the here after.

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So there are two areas that we will have to face. The first punishment is in the grave.

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And the second one and the Day of Judgment, the hereafter.

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How do I love punish us in this grave? Only Allah knows. For those who pass away 1000 years ago, if the punishment is there really is going on.

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For those who just passed away,

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one week before the doom days.

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So maybe they thought that I know I have a lesser punishment of the gray.

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I am factor. You leave it or not. No one knows.

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And that's been Malik reported when Oman was

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happy Ville. And he told her, he told her Oh, haven't you heard a mass messenger said, I don't know. Oh, Allah. He was

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the one over whom people will will be punished.

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Now how did Omar died. We know that Omar wants to

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One of the greatest Khalifa among the four kalif

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that Allah have give him victory upon victory more than Allah has given to the Prophet and

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the first companion, because two

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most powerful nation fall in the time of Omar.

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And a failure than Omar, Rome and Persia.

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The Kingdom of Roman Persia is so huge at that time. Both have this superpower that then

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collapse in the time of Oman.

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People respect Omar so much, and even the people of the book, if they want to give the key of Jerusalem, they say they only pass it to Omar.

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Not to anyone else except Omar.

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But one day, I'm not sure why he was leading

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the prayer, the fudger prayer

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one of the hypocrite

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among the Jews,

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just tuck him from behind

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your brain behind him. But Hippocrates is always there.

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They step him.

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And the way they step him, they use a sign of knife where both sides can cut is like a razor blade.

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That knife is known for the for the Yemenis knife

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in both like a hook.

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So it goes in and then go out both ways.

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Now, Omar just cannot he was he was trying. He's a tough man. He was to try to hold on and continue his prayer, his stand up.

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Then he collapse. Because the blood keep on flowing so much.

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And

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then some of the companion start to

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brush to him and give him some help.

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But they almost don't stop the prayer.

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Somebody leaked.

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But a lot of people panic. And the guy who's tapping also got plenty of grace after you tap that curry. What do you think you have to do you have to run.

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And while he was running out his pet companion, and they both tried to stop him. He kept on stopping them but

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it's not a serious injury. No one died.

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Then they managed to arrest him. And the first thing I asked Who is that guy?

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come from confirm that he is one of them now.

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Then Omar was very proud that he was not killed by fellow Muslim because a monastic is not considered as a Muslim.

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But you cannot judge them.

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Let Allah prejudge that

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nothing is not considered Muslim, they are just people of two phases.

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Physically they are with us spiritually they are not with you. We are long value the spiritual side more than the physical side. And that's why I left out so badly about the manassa pin. That deal will be the lowest of the low in janam.

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And that's why Allah warn us about monopolies. They are the worst people

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but since they declared their Muslim, so we don't pass any judgment but when you know them or not.

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That's why the time of the Prophet he don't perform prayer for them in Africa.

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Eva mana to pass away the prophet who are lugging him the knowledge he stay away.

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And the second man who stay away is

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Jose fi from Yemen. Jose fi is one of the companions of Prophet with the Prophet always informed him the name of the Manasa T.

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Then Omar realized that he was trying to people help him. People come to his aid.

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And he realized more than two days, the blood keep on flowing out because a puncher be one of the organ

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and they don't have the equipment to to repair it anymore.

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So Omar knew that he cannot last long.

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And

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he was a very strong man.

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Then what happened?

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Omar realize they need to have a leader now.

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You cannot

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you cannot leave the oma without a leader.

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So immediately his sama no close companion

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to come in. And then if you do not appoint a leader before I die, don't

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come and attend the funeral prayer

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you must solve this problem.

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So most of them get that few of them and he said left only two at the end.

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A lot of the other one just excuse themselves left to Omar and Osman and Ali.

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And desperate they have further discussion.

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Omar asked us man

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how are you going to judge the people if you become the next leader?

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He said I would just them who the gentlemen of Allah

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with the teachings of the Prophet, the Sunnah, the way the Prophet has shown me

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and if I

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can

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if I don't get any of the daleel then I will just according to the first Khalif

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and the second college

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because they have shown me a lot of

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example

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if then if they don't have an example from all these references, then I will adjust according to my HD heart. Then I will have to make the decision.

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The hours early How are you? I will adjust according what Allah want me to jazz and the profits after that. I will use my SDR

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is nothing wrong you know it is fair to say that

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but when they value the boat, they give us man

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the support because he

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showed respect more to the first and the second.

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is like a leadership in any country. The earlier leadership had left a legacy whatever Good thing you should honor. You are not going to say I don't care what they do. This is my time my way. No, no No, no. That show you're very arrogant.

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You must

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accept and honor the sacrifice and whatever been done earlier that bring benefit thing that do not bring benefit you don't have to follow that thing that bring benefit and then you should just carry on

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now have said the wife of the

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Omar passed away. Of course she felt very very sad.

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But they remind her not to

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scream and get out of control.

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Also so hype well over Omar saying oh my brother. Oh my companions. Omar was not dead yet on him. Also, don't you know that a disease is punished in his grave for the crying of his family over him.

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Abdullah bin Omar and Imran bin Hussein reported that the Prophet said in lomita let you as you observe a fee Cabrini Boca, de la this person is punished in his grave because of his family crying over him this cry is not a normal cry is a baling in kind of loud screaming.

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Now the crying in this head this refers specially to veiling as is indicated in Omar's above words. Some of his family crying and she is expressing in the following report by Robin Sharma. That the prophets Allah have saved the meaning the one who is avail our will be punished on the Day of Resurrection because of that veiling

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This is one about the Day of Resurrection yamapi ama but the first had this talk about Cobra grave and the hereafter

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not mung bean Basia reported that once Abdullah bin rahua have fainted, and his sister amre thinking did start bailing and pasting him

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on my mountain in generosity or must my shots and says, I'm in the system. When he regained consciousness, he told her what ever you mentioned, I was asked in a dream, are you truly like that? So when he was killed, she did not cry over him.

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Meaning a lot of people, Allah Minh allowed him

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Abdullah bin raha to have a dream.

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And then he asked the sister,

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that and one her not to do that again. And she did not cry over him after he passed away.

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Now this is important for us to understand is that if we have informed the family member, and they still do it, you will not be punished.

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But if you asked them to cry, and they'll for you, if not,

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you don't show love to me.

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And then you will be punished. Because you know, this is been a practice in the family members, the earlier family member passed away, this is what happened, you know, and the Prophet had for a bit you you did not

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remind them, you just keep silent, you're silent, also,

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and or cause you to be responsible

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for what they are doing, because you have the knowledge. Now the reason for the punishment, the Hadees in the previous section may appear to conflict. They say a narco, with an established rule in the Sharia, that a person is only responsible for his own doing and cannot be punished for someone's LC is true. Because Allah says so while at 10 00 to this raw,

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meaning, no bearer of burden will bear the burden of another everybody will be responsible for their own doing, is that fair?

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Is that fair? very fair. How can the mistake done by others I

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been punished for them for that knowledge, the only sin.

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There's an ayah Allah said

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la sadly in San illamasqua.

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Meaning no one will be questioned by Allah except what they themselves have

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done. You're responsible for your own sin. So

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now it's very fair. But

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how can this guy Omar will be punished because of the crime the veiling of his wife or his family?

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Because that is forbidden. And you know, the prophet have won us and you have the knowledge that they will do that and you did not

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remind that

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is just like, we have mothers, you know that it's time for you to call your children to pray when they reach the age of 10.

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from it, you start to remind them, but it just play around. Don't force them from the year 10 You must reinforce

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the law of prayer but you just ignore that. Now they don't commit a sin if they don't pray because they are not biblical yet. They don't reach the age of puberty, but you as parents who do not carry out your responsibility, you commit a sin

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for not fulfilling your responsibility as a mother or a father.

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You are praying and you know your husband is not praying.

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What we will do

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is just keep quiet

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unless it You must remind me not one more me that bow to him. Alia ooba

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Yamato double Moravian. Hanukkah is our responsibility to invite him to remembering him. But the problem is that not only that, the problem is that from the first day you went to get married

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Because you are not careful in choosing your,

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your spouse at that time, you are so deep in love with each other. You don't think about the man they don't think about Islam. You look at this guy's so handsome.

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And he looked at you so beautiful.

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Maybe Miss come home can miss village, Ghana and hamdulillah is good. Of course you cannot get married. If you don't love the person, you know, you fall in love. But it is highly recommended to also value their religion.

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Do they pray, if they have been praying, even their prayer is wrong, as long as they are praying

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more fitna is coming in now when you send your children abroad for too long, and they have new friend.

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And they fall in love.

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This way, they said love is blind, they don't care anymore.

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If your daughter is not strong at things, you're going to lose her.

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But the other party is stronger

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than the party said, I respect your religion, your religion, I'm not going to stop you. But don't force me

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to this religion that I don't believe in. But we can be together that says get married no problem. But I stay as a as Who am I and you just continue with a belief? Can we accept that?

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We can, but our children is going to accept it.

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Mother you know she respect my right?

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How can we pause him?

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Why she said like that?

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Why does he say that?

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Because she's in love.

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He loves him more than Allah. She loves him more than the Prophet. She loves him more than her parents, she will just leave her parents because of them.

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We have to do something before it's too late.

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If we know

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and that's why we cannot just take it lightly.

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Of course we know that everybody is responsible to their own sin, but you'll be responsible for what you must do.

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Your duty is to protect your children and last a coup and for Sakuma, alikum. Narrow, but if you are try your best to give them the best.

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They still

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make the wrong choice.

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You will not be responsible and because we are giving the best is like the Prophet, the prophet so called his son but one of his sons refused to follow the son of Noah, then No, I will not be responsible. The wife of loot, loot is not responsible to the wife anymore, but a lot have reminded her Why be a belieber follow what Allah one has to do she refuse

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the father of Abraham, he refuse

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you cannot blame Abraham. Now you cannot blame No, you cannot blame all the profit because they have done the job.

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Then you can say well at 10 00 to withdraw Accra,

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no better of burden will bear the burden of another because you have done what you have to do as a Muslim, as a wife, as a husband.

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As a father as a mother.

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Now the most correct view in his debt, the punishment is applicable to those

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to that who request his family to veil over him after he died or who knew that veiling is a common practice among his people is part of the culture, but did not warn them against doing it. And if he approved it, contrary to what Oman did in the above report, because then you'll be responsible. In confirmation of this understand that Abdullah bin al Mubarak said, if he prevented them from doing it during his life, yet they did it after his death, there is no sin upon him.

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So when this had this was mentioned in Sahih Bukhari are so anti muslim. A lot of people get very confused. how can how can this has this been authentic is authentic, but the authentic hadith cannot contradict the Quran. Now it contradict the Quran.

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Quran says no, how do you say yes.

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They say people who don't have the right understanding

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They will say that that's why I don't want to follow her this I just follow the Quran because a contradict

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How can the Prophet say something against allowance? Why are you the prophet will never say anything against why you

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that's why they said look at the hobbyists and back to the hottest in Miami de la you azova macabre hibakusha you look at that latter almita Do they have la Phantom

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Do they have Olive and lamb before me and yeah and

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after ignite you have Alif Lam Olive lamb is here to inform us that not everyone who died not all the disease not all the mind.

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But if the proper do not put Alif lambdin in mind then everyone who die will be punished in the grave

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Alif Lam is maroof is that you said by Yata by

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I think some of you do attend Arabic class by house, it can be any house, but you put olive lamb

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albedo and talking about that house

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is not general anymore. So when the proper use olive lamb for my means this my the person who died and they do not do what they must do, then they will be punished.

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That's why you cannot say this is not my scene. This is my daughter scene my husband scene it's up to him. No, no, no. If you know if you do not know is okay.

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Your children is staying with you and you wake up for project prayer. During you know that project prayer also is watching upon their you know, their group of children. And you wake up and pray alone. And you acknowledge that you must wake them up.

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We hope that you remind them. I believe strongly. If you have been

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reminding the children the upbringing has been good. And humbler? No problem. There'll be very thankful that the mother or the father is waking them up.

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And we will be double thankful when our children come and knock at our door. Mom pedja Allahu Akbar how beautiful they have children who remind us who come and because I have been human, we can overslept, we can be too tired. And now our children was awake before us and they come to our door. Knock knock. Even the dark is not luck. Children Remember, you cannot just enter you must Knock knock.

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Sometime they don't have they may know the lock the door.

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So, you must have to adapt to not just push yourself in

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there will be more beautiful than your gradual command naka de

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Otto Otto net sobu Allahu Akbar I think the minute you were currency, then you should grab them.

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kiss them be so grateful that you have grandchildren

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who is there to remind you now this feeling is very special feeling for those who are connected to Allah, Allah Allah mean.

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Now, let us continue with the topic announcing death not

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that'd be used.

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And that means analysing a person's death. Normally, when somebody passes away, we have the right to remind the others we have the right to remind others.

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Now let us look at what is allowed and what is not allowed.

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And not you is usually necessary in order to invite the people to pray janazah for the disease, making the art for him and look after his and his family's affairs.

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In the same time, we know that it is forbidden in Islam to make a big affair about announcing anyone's death

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such as proclaiming it from the minutes of the masjid announcing in the market street

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And

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so on.

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Why?

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Because Prophet Mohammed Salah Salem I'm moving to another reference verse

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Cana Hosea is a matter la hora

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con la z no biggie I hadn't

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in half an akuna knocklyon

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in the Islamic tour Rasulullah sallallahu Sallam yaku the Romanian had attained

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if someone died huzefa dibner, a young man used to say, Do not proclaim His death to anyone. For I fear that it may be a deaf announcement. And I heard a last messenger for bit the death announcement with my own two ears, the prophet in command, the Sahaba and when he was saying this huzefa earlier man was there, listening him.

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However, a commonly expressed general announcement is allowed, based on the Prophet practice, and Abby hurayrah. Raja who call nebia Somoza Illa as happy and agenzia to Mata dama soft Phu Khalifa fufa Bara

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Abu hurayrah narrated that on the very day that the king of

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a bit Sina Najafi died.

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The Prophet was in Medina and the king of

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Abba, Siena. He died in a casino.

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They don't have any TV at that time of gods, no internet, no YouTube, no TV, but a lot of trouble. Al amin passed the information

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to the prophets.

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Allah gave him the knowledge that the king passed away.

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And the king pass away without

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the Islamic burial because he was a Christian King before.

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But before he died, he became a Muslim. But none of his people know about that.

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including his family. He did not make an announcement

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and ally informed the profits of Muslim and the Prophet

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do not yet means make that announcement.

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Not going to the street on in the minarets are called below to make Amazon and remind the people we are going to perform Serato janazah now, he just whoever is in front of him, he just make the announcement and then the companion who was with the Prophet just get it behind him make a soft get ready for the funeral prayer. And this funeral prayer is known as Salatu Maya Allah hi

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where the body is not in front of you.

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That is the first incident that took place in terms of profit on Salatin mind

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now, if the prayer is being performed in a sinner, the prophet will not make Serato

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because a lot of other companion pass away in terms of profit and they are not in Medina, the other area and it reaches the prophets.

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knowledge but the Prophet never do salata Maya, because they die among Muslim and other Muslim have performed the Salah to janazah.

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So to say that, we should pray a certain vibe to every Muslim is not from the for profit. So masala

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is just somebody tried to have good intention and forget the way of the Prophet SummerSlam example your family member when for O'Meara are harsh and something happened they pass away with goodness memory, right? Normally, the normal people will do that.

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But can you imagine who is praying over there? by millions? Allahu Akbar. You don't have to worry you just make dua for them is takfeer Rue de Akiko ALLAH forgive their sin. So

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if this is a Sunnah, a lot of Sahaba who pass away, not in Medina and the Prophet came to know the Prophet should have performed the Salah dilemma, right? But it's not

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only twice the prophets are automatically one is

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This is the agenda. The second is to a young, two

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young boy

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who died and became a Muslim and the Prophet make the announcement and not going around the street to whomever is around, gather them, perform them solid, my head without the body in front of them.

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When my mom passed away, she was in a pool.

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Now I have mixed Shahada with her.

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Then we will having the Sunday class here. So we inform the Juma we pray Sir, my

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because nobody is going to do that prayer for her over there.

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And we are worried about the timing. We inform the Juma that the space of the man right here without her body with us. Then we drove after the class with drove down

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in the evening,

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the battle took place.

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Where was she buried in the Christian cemetery. So happened because I don't have any document on her.

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We convert her. I informed my sibling or my eldest sister my younger sisters if you think that what you believe in? They don't stop me from doing what I must do.

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But my younger sister said no, we have baptized mom.

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earlier than that, but I have met her shadow How do you become Muslim as it just by saying I tried to ally my washer, the Mohammed he said

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we don't have any special ceremony to bring you to do this to do that. But because we don't have any document. We don't have time for it. Based on what happened

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in the profit. The same thing we are trying to do it again.

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My brother who passed away so happened he got a document

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one day before he passed away, the document arrived when he was still in coma.

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I was not there.

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Then it later on I think it was the next day.

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And the doctor call us and we went then after a few hours we was

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beside him. One by one all the machines talk. We say don't put any thing anymore Just let the machine stop.

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And he passed away.

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Before maglie about five minutes he passed away. But that point of time we have engaged all our team already because the doctor had advised us that we can do much anymore. Nothing is responding from his side.

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So I told my sibling my eldest sister, my younger sister, this is situation but brother is a Muslim now.

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This is the

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cat hamdulillah

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then they say okay, see we have all document. They will be very I was very happy that I can handle all these things very fast. Yeah, our team was ready. The van was ready.

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And have informed the General Hospital Jays the people was ready to do the washing at night.

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Then about 10

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around 10pm We arrived back here and we have Jamal are more than 6070 of them ready here

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says I'm going to lead the prayer of tomorrow morning.

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So I allow other brothers to lead the prayer at that night hamdulillah

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all my sibling was around

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and the witness how we do it they say it was a blessing also to them they said if not is a problem for them to handle all this thing what to do how many days their quarters bad and so happened my this is the only brother who live like

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he is a lone ranger.

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He's just chose not to have any family

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after the first

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experience of love failed.

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Sometimes people have that

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experience there was in love and something

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happen after that normal.

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I don't want to fall in love anymore

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and handling that in.

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So it is very important for us to understand you announcing someone's death is allowed but there is a limit. However, if the announcement would go to page 50

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is done in a planned manner reflecting dissatisfaction with a loss decree, excessive praise of the disease, or an invitation even implicit or something to the person to the people who will over him, it then become prohibited and count as a form of the act of the

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prohibitionist of nothing. Not at that lead to any of the above concern has been prohibited by the profit when someone dies, who's ever been damaged used to say, to not announce his death to anyone? I'm afraid that it will count as 90 and 100. A loss messengers prohibit

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it no hedger as Kalani said, The prohibited from form of na is that other people have jdf, they used to send someone to announce the death at house doors, doors, two doors, and in the marketplace, that one is not

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allowed by our profit. So most of them similar to this would be announcing the deadly loud speaker in the street over the minute of the mistake. And in magazine and newspaper.

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At the newspaper Sunday it happened

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it happened is because of maybe you are the chairman of the company, the company will want to show

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their sympathy and their respect, because they have mostly not yet mostly in the company. So they start to

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do that.

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Now what is important, we know that it is important for us to announce to all the close family members, those who are nearby so that everybody can participate in the funeral prayer. That is okay. And there's nothing wrong.

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Among the other prohibited action associated with an addicting pay for performing it, there are people who just engage somebody to go and do all this announcement. And you have to pay for their services. Don't do that. And praising the disease excessively and talking so good about the distance where you don't even know him.

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Because you are paid for that.

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It's just like what happened today.

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To do that is very sad.

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After the prayer, the funeral prayer normally the ad that that we experienced in

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our environment,

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the mom some mom not all hamdulillah

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were asked the

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purse the people who pray, what do you say about this disease man or woman. So majority by

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they just want you to sit by

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there is not the way of the Prophet sallallahu sallam. The Prophet did mention that if there is 40 people who attend the funeral,

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and 40 of them talk good about this disease, because of the experience with him when he or she was allowed to go by he's a very kind person, very generous. Allahu Akbar.

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Just 40

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angel who was present will bring his like a prayer up to present it to Allah, Allah all knowing or hearing he don't need the NGO to go and present. But to show you how happy the angel is the product back to Allah and Allah kabu except their prayer

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that he had a good death. He'll been in good company.

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Rafi Allah

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but it must come from people who know him.

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Not like us we go there. What do you say to this man? You've never seen him before only you so happened. He's a Muslim you participate by false witness.

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succeed.

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You cannot be team that you do not know you're silent. thing that you know you have to say but you don't have to wait for the people to ask you.

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You know that he's a good person you know sometime when you go to the Mayan Mashallah you start to talk

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and there's other hobbies talk about just for neighbors

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compares that note, you are a good neighbor.

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then allow for his mercy except their confirmation and you will go to Paradise. So always be good

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and

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there are people who are always good in the beginning, but towards the end they become bad.

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That is not a good sign, trying to be good from now

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and make sure that we are good until we

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return back to Allah roble anime

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insha Allah.

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Allah, Allah, Allah mean live all good things

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that was done for his sake sincerely for Allah horrible and I mean even how good your is, but if your intention is not for Allah, Allah will not accept it. Allah consider that kind of EQ is sheer IQ, because you do it to show to other person, then Allah in the adjustment will go to that person and ask him or her to reward you because you do for their sake not for mine.

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So always trying to make sure our intention is clear.

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Our intention is purely for Allah Ameen and you'll find peace inshallah.

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Now, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam also allowed and he always common what we should do permissible form of na he is allowed to announce the death in a manner that does not resemble that of Jehovah, especially if there is a need for some people to perform the necessary rights for the disease, such as washing, you need to inform the group who is good, who can do the washing, and shouting and praying janazah. Furthermore, when informing about Muslim death, it is highly recommended to ask the Muslim to seek a last forgiveness for him. Abu huraira rhodiola, who reported that on the day when an agency died, last messenger announced his death based on the early holidays, when out to the

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prayer place, form the Sahaba into roles and perform the judge and I pray for takbeer and told them is the pharaoh the Akiko

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and was Allah who does beta, the continuity of the Hadees for inner who an unused

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meaning the profit and loss and uncommon all the companion as a lot of forgive the sin of your fellow Muslim brother and as allowed to strengthen his a man so that when Allah asks him, because after a while, there'll be a question answering the grave, he will be able to respond to the question

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and we know what Allah is going to ask us Mara book, who is your Lord?

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You have accepted a lot that's no problem for you to say a lot of B. And your question again? Who is what is your dean or Medina aka you know Islam. You see an Islam Dini and you will catch it Who is the Prophet? There's no problem we accept that Mohammed Yusuf Mohammed Nabi is my prophet hamdulillah when you pass that means is a good sign. That means you are saved from the common of the grave.

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Yeah. So me a lot of people and I mean, give us this understanding. Don't forget to ask Allah forgive, or the brother, the sister who passed away whether you know them or not, not necessarily you're only made for people who you know, your friend limb is your family. And that's why when you go to the graveyard when you visit the graveyard, or you pass the graveyard when you look at the graveyard, what should you do?

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At least give some prayers Salam Wa Alaikum Allah Dr. Amina most leading Muslim in one moment in the insha Allah become law he may pray for every Muslim. There is an a graveyard.

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You don't call by name anymore. Salam Allah. Allah Allah, Allah Dr.

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They are the people of the grave. So give a general

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because Muslim and Muslim they are like a family now.

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So don't forget to ask that. Anybody who is coming here to the monitors passing

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the camera graveyard

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Give Salah

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anytime Yeah,

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you do the only when you pass a Muslim graffia

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and not yet Muslim girls yeah you can, you can stop you can look, but you just can't do that prayer.

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You know?

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Don't be so good that you're I want to give no to everybody No no no. The Prophet also want to meet for some family member who died as a disbeliever Allah say no

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prophet brahmanda as Allah said no.

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So we just do what Allah permit us to do. Yeah, it's not

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up to you now.

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So inshallah to all the sisters and brothers, we will continue later on. And with the underpad.

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If there's any question now we open for q&a, a photo for that.

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Any question from the sisters first?

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Welcome Salam rahmatullah wa barakato. Now,

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so Miko was the last one.

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And, you know, now it's, it's quite common for people to make announcements about someone's passing away. via Facebook or WhatsApp. Yeah. So

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is that permissible at is okay? That kind of is just to remind each other close family now you have the means that you are not going out? and shower and cream? No, there is not an issue. The issue is, but you don't have to say

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if you do not

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pour wet this something happened to you. I don't have to do that. And now

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sometimes people fear you know, so suddenly you get why is a muscle meat to me announcement? No, no, it's just you got a news and then you'll know maybe people at that time everybody's busy, especially their family members. And you just send some The news is okay, I

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net j Leah is a different kind of guy really go out, knocking the door, the door, I know.

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And sometimes you can see that in certain tradition, if you do not respond.

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They can even buy Cotonou that is wrong.

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That is wrong. Whoever is there they come wherever we're not dead, they can pray for you from far distant, no problem. Just make prayer not solid to me.

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Unless you have that issue about family who are not yet Muslim, suddenly, they become Muslim that last minute, they you know, we cannot interfere in the burial in the washing the Lord do not allow us, let them pick the body will do the funeral prayer. You can even come to us we have few examples happen in the center. The Robertson family came to sit down. My grandma made Shahada with me, as I said, Okay, anybody knew about that? No, I was in the hospital. No, I invite her and she respond and hamdulillah we pray the funeral prayer here. We don't have to argue about other things now.

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Further.

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Yeah. Now, this is another tradition again. For people who don't believe in the law, they may have their own way to show some sympathy, respect, and it's like some time we have people who are not yet Muslim, he known that they are companies and they have a lot of Muslim and he must be one of the leader in the company or one the director,

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of course, to show some respect, he can make prayer because he is not a Muslim. So a silent a minute of silence, to show respect. There is there we know we as Muslim, we respect the disease who is a Muslim by making

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a llama Villa who are humble at least. And now we show respect in that way. You know, for those who are not yet Muslim, they don't have to. And sometimes they realize that we always like to say alpha, they also say to us, let us make alpha to our director.

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Then we get upset again here, non Muslim colosi Fatiha no example so very confusing, but any

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How islamically if they want to show their respect in that manner, they are not availing they are not getting crazy. is okay. Is there a way we make our prayer?

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No, if we are there every day standing From then on, they just sit and then at the time we just say Allahu Allah who are humble.

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Yeah, that's how we do it.

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It's just like when we want to leave that occasion, we will say, Let us make prayer for him. Aloma

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example, just an example where the not yet Muslim, awkward, they will not do that. They will keep themselves silent and let them do

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as long as they don't scream. And if they scream again, because the dental don't do this, don't do this.

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Just they want to be silent and show respect. That's up to them.

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We have a lot of ACA brothers.

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We are a Muslim,

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practicing Muslim people.

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We don't even want to call to lower the flag, nothing to do with a flag. That's not our value.

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But today, they are very confused.

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May Allah protect us from the fifth night? Yes. Further.

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walakum Salama Tomas Mercado.

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Good question for sister. Ramadan is getting closer. We have another kind of tradition sometime this tradition when it started, we really don't know. know somebody start to say let us get together with a family member. And we want to have Condotti or for Ramadan to come inside your scene to get the Talia to get the know we are very confused people actually.

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The Prophet himself and the mother have been a fast thing they fast earlier than all of us and you never come across that they come up with this kind of occasion. If this is something good I think the Prophet ship done that No. But no the Prophet always remind the oma Of course to prepare for the coming month in my making sure that number one, if you still have fasting days that you miss clear.

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If you have anything that you're done before that that

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is wrong, you should start to repent and make sure that you are prepared to come into this man clean, normal owing Allah for the day that you miss last year. If you can pay back a day for a day quickly redeem with India clearly. You come into this Ramadan clean if you have been doing a lot of sin and so on trying to

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stop every pen and wood they get themselves prepared physically mentally and spiritually. You know, that is good.

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But not to have another kind of occasion but if you just want the family gathering because after that normal gathering, you cannot eat anymore in the daytime and no, at night people are busy and we've pm Ramadan. So you just want to have a gathering to remind each other is okay.

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But it's just want to have an occasion to say a Sunnah you create a fitna if something that you want to do just to get the family is not bad. But don't put a whole comb in there

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is a Sunnah to make magalies somewhat Ramadan

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that's how we do we have this problem because in the oma family too, they are so divided. Some who prays some don't pray, some who do the tsunami some day we'll do the beta which is so common today. When they don't have the knowledge to do what they want to do. We who are lucky some knowledge we try to stay away from thing that is not recommended by our profits unless

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you still want to go go format and no problem and you just go a bit late. No. after they finish what they want to do then you come

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and

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that is how we

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show some changes.

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As you

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know, I know it's not easy to not to go and people say cc What are they doing now because they thought that that is the best way

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The best way is to give knowledge prepare everybody for the coming Ramadan is you see let us make this clear I'll get some good stats to come and tell us normally in Ramadan what is the thing that we were encouraged to do and what did you see normally what happened today when it comes to Ramadan? Anybody want to know please I don't want to work full time anymore you know I'll come to the office late I got to go home earlier I got to prepare you become very passive and no, not constructive anymore. You should be more productive Ramadan isn't very active man for everybody to participate in doing more good charity work do your notice that the ramadan ramadan you will see a lot of people

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coming into us from the first Ramadan in the data they know they know Ramadan is a man of blessing and people love to do good deeds. So they are coming we will try to help wherever we can we remind them also. So this is the thing that you can participate be more active now. Yes, sister poser.

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Salama Mata Lanka.

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Should

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we Yes.

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It depends how you approach them.

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Yeah, nicely hamdulillah.

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Yeah, yeah. Sometimes people say we are judgmental because we are passing a hokum. You just gave a very humble reminder.

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The Prophet remind us and said, You don't say you properly mind so please leave it to them? No.

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It is good.

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Not one. Yeah, no mine. They are they are not used to deliver some time.

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You know, give something they got caught? No. This is heavy stuff. No. Now they're coming with delayed evidence, no way for us to argue anymore. You just say no just as to share some knowledge, you know, it's up to them. Of course, when you want to the Prophet did said that in the Day of Judgment, when we were resurrected, no one will move from where they were reject resurrected until Allah asked them 14 and one of the 14 about the knowledge that they have, what do you do with the knowledge? Sometimes there are people who learn before they act upon the knowledge they have been calling other people to do that, but they are not doing and that is not correct. We do it first. And

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then we share with other people, but to convey the message What did Allah say? What did Allah state when you want to convey the message

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bill Heckman number one with wisdom? Choose the best word

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and

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yeah, and then also number two, sabar, whatever, whatever service you want to convey the truth because you have the daleel but they are not exposed to the truth.

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So you must have a lot of patience. Yeah, I know you have been doing that a lot since and hamdulillah Yeah, I follow your Facebook sometime.

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is good but just keep on praying.

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Yeah, important words madness. Everything is very important. Yeah. Now

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why they come Salah Morocco.

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There are two ways.

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Of course anything you do in Ramadan in multiply? It multiplies. That's why Ramadan you should be more proactive. No.

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So normally, if people ask me about this, I will say you have two choice. If normally you pay the Zakat year end December to December. Why not you choose ramadan ramadan

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is better than the end according to know our tradition. That is for literally

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makara Medan is highly recommended to do more good deeds. Now again but if you know that your Zakat is there already do you want to wait for Ramadan if you die before Ramadan was going to happen?

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anything good Allah said first tabula Clara you must always remember Allah is testing our intention.

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Allah did offer extra blessing in this man

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but if you know that you are due to give you are you have it now you want to give now Why must you wait

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about how much our is going to reward you if you give before a mother you leave it to Allah you just do purely for the sake of Allah if what you are doing before Ramadan is more important the need is there than Ramadan then your contribution have more value in the sight of Allah

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you don't have to wait you come on the Ramadan Why must you wait another Ramadan? Maybe before more than a day a ridiculous example

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yeah oh wait for five there

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you are ready I lost it you can live and so on Saturday until Saturday no problem no one know when you are going to die? anything good a basic teaching of Islam be hastin don't wait.

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We have problem anything? Which manner What day? What they the minute you have the opportunity to go to it?

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No, it's like the guest none the Prophet mentioned about receiving guests

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to your house

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is a blessing. There's another blessing

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and this is an example

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so don't have to wait if you think that it's time for you to give give now

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waalaikumsalam or tomato

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pass it to me. Quick one that may have

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this is a title sama highlight the agenda.

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Now I'm just going very fast because of know what is written here.

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Most of the day, I think they can see their references Alhamdulillah they have Bukhari volumes and so on hamdulillah while going to sleep the Dalai Lama bismi camuto Yeah, you have reference a Muslim and hamdulillah Al Hamdulillah Yana but on this Alhamdulillah but now it come back to page 108108 the topic the main topic healing diseases, the sooner we there is the

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topic

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then you start with Bismillah the ultimate cure for any disease is in the hands of Allah subhanho wa Taala as a must say,

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and when I am ill is a married to for Jolla spin he who to me in the Quran and hamdulillah him

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and the Prophet did say there is no disease that Allah has created except that he also has created his treatment near his cure is based on the Hadith Sahih Alhamdulillah. Now we are going further down. The amazing number one effect resulting from listening to the

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number one, increase the immunity of the body. Number two enhance the sense of creativity. Creativity. Number three, improve the concentration ability. Number four heal the chronic and incurable diseases. Number four change behavior to enable people to communicate better and gain trust number as you go on create inner peace and heal the neural tension here nervousness, irritation and frustration, improve ability of taking right decision. This is the craziest fear and hesitation. This is some of the

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comments here. But all of this there is no daleel is just the author's

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kind of feeling that if you do this, listen to Quran, listen to the Quran, brother and sister without really understanding the double, you get the reward of listening but the Quran will not really help you

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the fair that the people of jameela Abu Jihad Allah, they also hear the Quran but they don't respond.

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The Arabs they listen to the Quran the Prophet con they they just don't know what is the benefit of listening. You must listen with understanding and act upon the Quran then you see the benefit here. If not, is Allah Allah was Rabu it during halaal and tyva you don't care you eat what you want you and then inshallah Hannah.

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I'll be okay. No, you will not be okay. No, it all the junk food? How can you be okay? How can you think straight? No. You think like a junkie No.

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Anyhow, yeah. And then it come again here.

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There are some with reference and hamdulillah then you have some to shrink the malignant cell in sha Allah to kill cancer cells, and on this thing, and then they use verses of the Quran. But, of course, there's no more reference over here. That mean, the Hadith was not there to support to say that the Prophet

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introduced these verses to be restated for this disease, there is none.

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So anything that that no one understand the benefit of death, and more than the Prophet. If the Prophet said, if you have this illness, reset this surah do that like if you are disturbed by the whisper of the Satan, what did the Prophet recommend as to recite it to krushi What is that? Allah? tala grace Bina, then you resign? Because he wants backup by the Prophet saying?

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No, but did the prophecy the whole Quran or any surah? No.

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So when you want to say okay, example, you reset surah poha nc fukuhara be nice fun. Yeah. And example, for zodwa car and soft Safa.

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If there's a hadith and Hamza, when this is just an iron isn't I

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know one day, I tell you one story. There is a guy

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whose name is Moosa, his name is masa. He come and pray behind an Imam.

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And this Messiah, he liked to steal.

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He liked to steal. So, so happened this demand recite after party a surah in Baja. And that I add, there was an ayah that Allah says in the Quran, wama pill be minica yamasa.

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What is in your right hand or Moosa? That musasa dynasty?

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How can they know that I have stolen something?

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So he was shocked, I know

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that immediately after the prayer, he made that with a mom said, I know you must be no, wha Leo climate and so on. How can I say? What do you say? You just mentioned my name in the Quran. I mean, just reciting what Allah say is, his name is Moosa, you know, and he just does one thing, and then he reads what do you do with your right hand? Why is the right hand? He really, really I mean, move him hamdulillah But anyhow, when you want to use them to say that to kill cancer cell, you do this? Yeah, to string the seller of anything, you do this? If not this, you cannot fix that.

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We are worried. This is what happened to a lot of people. They have good intention. The Quran is a Shiva. But to fix this for this, you must have daleel if there's no you just say, General Quran is a shipper

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that this is important. If not, if you use the word tsunami, now you create another fitna to the Prophet. We use it so now it must come from the Prophet.

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How can you say sadhana and there's no references, you can do that. It is an example.

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So we asked a lot of bla bla min. to get all of us. Um, the law. I was going through some of that, though I was a humbler.

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Have references. But when they don't have no reference, you just have to

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stay away

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Summa highlights to Jana Suna highlights to Jana.

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Brothers and sisters sometime in any books, you will come across a command by the author. Some of his opinion Just remember, don't jump to conclusion is even

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in any books, you will see even the book of the credit Imam when they don't have daleel or sometimes they will give the opinion

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they cannot say they don't do that. This is my opinion. So there is different because when you use the word Sunnah you are saying the prophets of ma have

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taught us and there's no daleel so the Prophet said, Man, Karla, aleja, ma lamb, COO, Felicia tabaka Madonna, who ever say something I did not say he used my name. He is booking a place for him in Hellfire don't do that. He was a Shia Hussein, he said no prophecy is a number

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that you must have.

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Must have. So May Allah protect us and try to have a better understanding when you want to refer to anything when there's no reference? Just stop there for our double check again. Maybe there is some reference that we do not know that somebody who are more careful about the reference to share to help you. If none then use just stop talking about that is safer. Do what there is reference there are so many references that we don't even practice yet. Why you go for other thing that there's no reference and May Allah guide us by the sisters, bang for the highlight, just for for some good reminder to all the good sister who like to practice the Sunnah of the prophet to make sure that we

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do practice the Sunnah in the proper manner. We do not want the people the student of Sunnah in the same time, you also creepy da we don't want that to happen.

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until we see you again next week in Sharla. Yes,

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you will come across some people may get that some had this but it's confirmed not authentic. They just highlight that for knowledge for us to know so that people know Yeah, people say oh this is hard to say but they had this is not authentic. So just information is okay. But not as a reference you cannot use this as a reference because what is the if you do not know whether it's from the prophet or not,

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and that's why you see the eve la sala who and so on. So, how does that if when people is quoting something in the book of Boko Haram those who are referring to blogger, they also put some Hadith that is good. So that you know this is di is not for you to refer for you to have the understanding that when people talk about this, this referred to a hadith that you don't have to follow in Sahih Bukhari you know in mumble curry he have gathered so much Hadees

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but the one that he puts under cyber curry is very limited because he has to make sure 100% sure according to his knowledge that this is authentic Dan he gathered in cyber curry. Those who are not allowed to have doubts he put it aside but then people say oh hurry Buhari

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Is Buhari collection but not authentic that's why he did not put in zaharie

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there's how it goes. If you would have a book called adapt move right

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about bodies and you have a clear fight in other words, you have some say hey you have some nonsense

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but is good the highlight so that you know

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you only do what is authentic first and then you save your Amal you don't go to waste your mama won't go to waste inshallah.

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inshallah, Allah to

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Allah subhanho wa Taala Madame de a shadow Allah Illa illa Anta stuffer kawakubo A salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.

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Oh next Wednesday.

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So far this class insha Allah, we don't celebrate the Alhambra

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yet