Sheikh Hussain Yee speaks about the regulations and exhortations when it comes to funerals – Episode 12
Presented on April 4, 2017
Hussain Yee – Funerals – Regulations And Exhortation 12
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The importance of learning to be a good wife and not wasting time is emphasized in Islam. Personal development and expression of oneself are also emphasized. The importance of not regretting and not feeling regret is emphasized. The importance of following the Prophet's instructions and not letting anyone go to burial after the burial of a woman is emphasized. The importance of not forgetting words and expressing oneself is emphasized. The segment ends with a recap of the class and a invitation to write in their details.
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or praise due to a lot of blood and mean May Allah Allah Allah means strengthen our Eman, increase our sabara
and make us among the carnitine the Punnett that the Zachary namaha casilla was accurate. Meaning makers, people who are steadfast with whatever we know who will act according to the knowledge that we have acquired. And also remember Allah, Allah, Allah mean always good time, bad time, when you are alone, when you are with your friend, you will not forget a law, audible and I mean,
I mean,
brother and sister we always start our class with a prayer. We ask a law for these for that, to bless our morning to bless our evening to bless our living where a living and or to bless us when we die, to have a good ending.
We ask Allah for protection from all the bad things that can happen to us think that we have no control.
We want the best, what will happen to us only Allah knows.
We have been asking Allah always to give us a good life in this world and a better one in the next life.
What whenever you are asking Allah for something is important for us to be committed with our prayer.
That we are very sincere in asking Allah for things. We really want what
we want from a lot we asked him
most of the time our prayers have been answered, but we do not know.
This is something that creates a lot of misunderstanding among the believers. They say I'm asking God by the sea and the response from him.
give you one simple example. Do you think guidance is very important in life? Very important that every day we are asking Allah for guidance in a Serato Mr. Kim or Allah, guide us through the straight paths to the right way we want to stay right.
So when you ask Allah for this, what do you think?
along do not get us?
Do you think Allah is not guiding us?
But we are asking almost every day.
Yeah.
We have been asking we pray is reset but they are asking for guidance.
Are you waiting for another guidance to be revealed to you?
Are you waiting for another book to be revealed to you another profit to be sent to you? No more Chronicles
Book profit is cut the manabi no profit after him.
The book is review. Remember I don't know where they sit here on the class is time for the recite at least one page of the Quran every day
one page
without doing that, how can you be guided by the Quran the Quran was revealed by Allah as a guide in Hoda Lynas
but I do not say they're Muslim, I'm not reading the Quran, but they don't understand. So how can this book guide you, when you're reading the book without understanding?
You can.
There are so many classes going on,
every day,
in our hamdulillah in our country,
you have in the masjid, in the sorrow, the smaller Masjid office,
lunch them they have classes, so many classes every day, if you want to learn,
you can keep on moving from one class to enter the class.
But what is happening to us the more we learn the more we get confused.
The more we attend classes, the more we get
uncertain, what are we doing? Is this the right way? Is that the right way we get confused?
Why? Because the way we are learning is not correct.
And the best way
is to understand the basic foundation of our religion first before we move to another subject.
How do the Quran was revealed to the Prophet it was revealed based on the incident that took place and his time when something happened? Allah sent down the verses to guide the Prophet answered them in this manner, when the question come to them, the prophet have to give them an answer. And then Allah revealed another Ayah said to them, this is what Allah
said in the in his book. So the best way is we have to learn to questioning we must engage ourselves in a class
and you should ask what is more important first thing have some relationship with your daily life. That is very important.
Example,
most of us are sisters here.
What is the most important thing in the family for us? Happy Family.
Very important.
We want the happy, the family to be together to be happy. Mashallah. This is what we hope and we pray for you.
And how do you attain happy family?
How do you
attain happiness?
Do you want to be happy sisters? Yes. Do you think it's important for you to make your children happy? Yes. Do you think it's important to make your husband happy? Yes. So how are you going to do that?
example a simple example why the Prophet said
after you just got married if the one who are married is Yeah, it's the first marriage. You have to have seven days. privacy.
Don't let any party get involve your close friend, your father, your mother, everybody. You just put them aside first. You spend time between the both party one solid week
the West said honeymoon.
Yeah.
why that is so important.
That is a time for you to get to know each other and learn what he disliked what he liked.
And also you must express your feeling what you like and what you dislike. So ever they know how to make each other happy.
When you know what they like. You give it to them. What they dislike. You don't do it. You will be very happy.
When we be happy.
Okay, you should be happy. That's how you find happiness. You cannot say my right my right my way.
My way How can you be happy only my way?
And then your husband says, I also have my way, then the children say, this is my life.
Now everybody will have their own value. No, you have to sit down this girl.
You have to learn how can I make my own become a good wife? example. How many of us asked the teacher how to be a good wife?
None of us asked myka we believe we are good wife.
So we don't have to learn anymore. We don't have to add. I know. overconfident, you thought that you know everything. That is our problem.
The same goes to the men. How many men as their stance, says, How can I be a good husband?
They don't ask.
When you don't ask, then the teacher thought that you all are okay. They don't have to address that method.
Just another simple example. basic, very important. Is our communication with Allah, how
many times that we have been asking, How can I perfect my prayer?
How can I get closer to Allah through this prayer?
We don't even ask a lot.
We just learn how to pray. But we don't really engage we don't ask.
I have shared with all of you a few times, how the companions acknowledge Mashallah.
The minute they are free, they will come to the Prophet they will ask important things, something to do with their daily life they can act upon it immediately.
They don't waste time.
Example in general.
Whatever the Prophet want them to do, they will do then if they think they want to do more they'll come to the pro era Salah tell us what is the thing that Allah love most we want to do now. Now we want to do
are you Armando Hama Illallah? They will come to the prophet and ask him directly. If you don't ask the Prophet don't even know what you really want what you really need in your daily life. But they want to do something now now after this, that may Allah very happy.
See how they learn. And that's why they are the best nation because these are the best people who always ask the best question and do the best thing.
The improved very fast can you imagine brother and sister from uncivilized nation, Jamelia, pagan
in 23 years, everything change in our chain, the way they think, the way they behave, the way they talk the way they communicate with people. The environment change.
We have been learning for 40 years.
Something go forward, backward again.
forward backward again. And the more we learn the more problem we have.
We create more problems sometimes we have problem husband don't go to class anymore. You learn so much. Now you become so demanding and you always argue with me.
Because you thought you I've learned a lot now you can teach me You can tell me what I do is wrong. And they also not happy.
Now what happened to our children, they're in the IT world now they say we don't know anything about the world today.
They are the one who knows
something is very wrong. Our attitudes have changed.
So it's time for us to focus on
the basic what is very important for you now.
If you think that your relation with the husband is not that good now that is the question that you all have to follow up to us. before things get worse example. You know your children having problems that is the thing that you have to us
to tackle the issue.
Then you see thing keep on moving more positive
and constructive because
You are
responding to the ECU.
You understand that resistant.
That is why
a slalom without questioning is a key of knowledge. We do not know what you really need until you come and tell. Stan Shin I have an issue
and that's Alhamdulillah all the sister here. Issue let's
Alhamdulillah Yeah, we have zero problem and hum that Allah May Allah bless all of us. But if you are aware that there is some problem, please always address that problem before it get worse.
If you don't ask in the class, don't ask because it's very private, but you must be very proactive.
Us Now normally we asked after we got an answer.
some guidance What do we do?
about most of them? We don't
I say read the Quran one page a day Have we started from last week?
Alhamdulillah good.
The use do it every day. hamdulillah
example is that
someone must recite the Quran. The other word he said the meaning. And then if you think you want to discuss, do we have the right same understanding? And that is do what allow us to do collectively, there'll be a lot of blessing.
That's how you move forward.
inshallah, may Allah make it easy. I just want to remind all the good sisters and brothers be more focus in what is important in your life.
learn and understand the basic foundation of this religion before you move to other subjects.
We are entertaining a lot of things difficult, the basic
even our prayer towards Allah the daily prayer we have problem
because we don't focus on that.
If we have parents, brothers and sisters, for those who say have Ferran do we ask? How can I serve my parents in the best manner?
How can I make them happy before
they go back to Allah, so they will be very satisfied. I give the best and they'll be very happy. I mean, Allah. The Prophet said when the parent is happy, it makes Allah happy.
But we try to
to check how can we make them happy?
We don't do that. Why? Because we are too busy.
overconfident, we thought that
I've done enough
as there's nothing wrong to us.
We want we do not want to feel regret in our life.
Being that we can express ourselves when we are live with somebody that we care we love, Express. Don't keep it
so that you don't grieve.
You don't regret.
Today we should be impressed that the area
under the topic of
Yeah, permissible acts of grieving, can you be sad? Can you shed tears? Yes, in Islam,
the time you are happy, the time you are sad.
And one of the Hadith of the Prophet that the prophets of Muslim did mentioned.
You know that that seven group of people received the shit from a law in the Day of Judgment where there's no other shade except a lawsuit.
And one of them
is the people who remember a law
yes grown law. Lee and had def aina.
The person who always remember Allah reflect with Allah when they're alone.
Or even with somebody in a company but especially when you are alone, nobody to talk to you talk to Allah. you communicate with Allah and you shed tears. tears come.
Your dear your shake is not because of people because of you an alarm.
That tears
will allow you to receive the shake from Allah in the Day of Judgment.
When you see a set movie, do you shed tears?
Yeah.
Normally Yes. If you still have you become a TLS person, something is wrong with your heart.
Don't think that you know, when I don't care I am a real person.
I'm a very strong nonon
you should
something you pray a brother and sister. They are timed that your soul pockets in your brain your shed tears. You don't know why something tears is coming along.
When I first became a Muslim, I joined one group that public jamaa
at that time,
is an alien to the Malays.
This is known to the Indian Muslim, not the Malay, the Malay, it's time to go to the house. If you're going for Gosh, they thought that you are a beggar that gives you some money.
We're gonna we're not here to ask any money. We're here to remind you. Let's go to the most of the answer today, near Margaret, there'll be a
reminder, there'll be some citation for that air and spray jamaa.
At that time, I still remember, you don't have more than 10 Malays who follow this movement, you can count
but today,
there's a lot who are joining.
And then when they make prayer,
the one who
will keep on pray and pray until he shed tears.
If he is dead, do not come down come up, he will keep on making dua. So you don't know how long.
And then when he shed tear, and he don't see the others associate there, he will prolong his dog again, until everybody had to hit tears, then only his food
and then and his dog. So if you want to make sure he makes a shutdown, you should do this.
Now that kind of tears have no value
is under pressure. No, you look at your brother's shedding tears not crying that sank, right? So you also have to force yourself I have to cry. And
so began the crying drama,
uncovering and kissing the dead person.
This book is here to show us to guide us. What should we do? When somebody that we love we know very close to Earth pass away.
Those who were permitted to kiss the deceased during his life, allowed to kiss him after death.
Yeah, it's very important to understand this sentence.
Normally, you can kiss somebody when they are your mom.
Your mother, your father.
Of course you don't kiss in the lip anymore. You kiss on the forehead, especially the forehead.
The non Muharram Of course.
You can kiss them when they're alive. The same thing you don't kiss them after they die.
Even you are close to them. Yeah, everything there's a limit. Jabir bin Abdullah reported that his father's body was covered after he was killed and mutilated.
And here's how people do to the dead body.
At that time, he uncovered his face and bad cause when you look at the father, he cried.
those around him tried to prevent him from dead.
No, that mean there are people who say why why do you do that? Except it's other
than paper are very tough. No, you must accept it right off the
bat the Prophet did not prevent him.
When the prophets Allah commanded that he be raised in preparation for burial
they mean to carry his body
his chest fathima that means Yeah,
The sister of who
the father
started weeping.
The Prophet den assured her of her brother's great status with Allah Latapy Do not weep.
Mazar little melodica totally, because the angel continues shading him with the wings, until he was raised
tamina angel is around.
Now the Prophet is not stopping her completely.
The Prophet is trying to console her. And
to make her feel, don't worry, she, he is in good hands.
allow a blessing.
Latapy here is that, you know when a woman cry,
they can be very, very emotional compared with men.
And that's why the Prophet don't encourage the woman to send
the dead body to the grave fear to follow the funeral to the grave fear because they become so emotional, especially when they want to bury the loved one, when they want to put them into the the hole and then to cover with the earth, that is the time they cannot control their feelings, they will come and
stop
the process of burial. No, no, not yet. Not yet.
Then the Prophet forbid the woman for a while makia then say later on, there was a group of lady who went to the graveyard, follow the funeral
and then almost saw them
or might want to chase them out from the graveyard, the prophet just lift them command Oman lift them
alone because they do not disturb the burial.
Meaning the lady a strong enough to control themselves.
They do not stop or delay the barrios the prophecy lifted.
So when the profit per bit for a reason, and when the reason is not there, the profit will allow.
So you cannot generalize that all woman cannot go to the graveyard
because the first incident and that's why in certain country in India in Pakistan, in Sri Lanka
or the graveyard they put a big sign but woman is forbidden to enter the graveyard
based on the first incident,
but they overlook what the prophet allow later on.
Everything there is a reason.
Ayesha also reported that the Prophet Somoza entered to where the body of man demons own was uncovered his face lean over kiss him and cry until I saw the tears running down his cheek. Even the Prophet cry,
shake his
hand men kiss a man's forehead.
men and men Amara.
Even they are not your biological sibling and so on. But they are your mom because Mara means people that you cannot get married with. So men and men, a Muslim woman and woman Amara
maharam means people that you cannot get married with.
Now weeping is permissible to it to cry quietly over the date provided that it does not reach the level of wailing. Now you are hysteria. You are screaming and you're knocking your head on the wall. No, you are starting to pull your hand that that kind of
expression is not allowed in Islam, meaning you are not ready to accept the other of a law.
We came from him in Melilla he
was in LA he arrived even sooner or later we have to go back. This is not our home. Our home is the hereafter.
This is a transit for all of us.
You can see this is here for us to stop over what
you know there's a place there
You will not
complete your hash without
spending some time in where in arafa an RFI is considered a one off
or go means one
just stop over, not for you to overnight, just stop over,
like the rNr or stop over,
put some petrol in your car,
put some food in your body
and then carry on
and does not exceed three days.
How bad you feel? How sad you
you don't wait more than three days continuously.
If you're under than three days stop,
the only one who can
have wailing
wailing there is allow meaning
is the wife
How long?
Four months 10 days.
The wife should not be exposed to any kind of party.
But the normal things she can still go on.
She can go to market if she has been doing that. To buy things to cook to survive. To eat, you can do
she can go to the malls to perform the prayer she can attend classes. Here to strengthen her mind she can go for Amara and harsh no problem.
Just for to enjoy holiday. No, she just had to control herself.
This is expressed in the above her this with the profit and loss on a permitted Jabir and his undoing. This is further supported by other action of the Prophet and his companions on the occasion of death, as in the above hadith of Ayesha, as well as the forthcoming daleel report. And as reported that he ran once rip allows messenger to the house of abuse saved the husband of his son Ibrahim foster mother.
Allah took his son in Brahim Hakeem and kiss him at a later state as a later date, and as also accompany allows me to Abu Sufyan house of the safe. when Abraham Sol was departing from his body,
Prophet Mohammed symbolism I started shedding tears and I'm not a human being of explain, even you or Alas, messenger, shed tears as his deer continue to fall. He said, he said to
Abdur Rahman bin out of
Yagna Olive in the Hara.
Or Edna Olive of it is amongst
the eyes shed tears, the hearts feel sad. But we only say things pleasing to our Lord. While we are having this kind of feeling, we still say in Allah He was in La Jolla, Raji own and then we ask Allah for his mercy, Allahu Allah who were hamo
asking Allah mercy. You do not just cry and don't say anything you don't cry and then go and say why or along why you pay his life. You don't do that as a believer, because he belongs to Allah, every one of us belong to allow we don't own our body.
Or the property we have belong to Him. Our children belong to Him, everything belongs to him.
We are just trustees
and if you have no feeling at all, then you know there's no mercy in you.
Can you go to a funeral and you see the family is crying is so sad and you're so happy.
You better don't go.
The same thing if the person that passed away.
When he was alive, he don't like you at all.
someday he don't even want to offer you the Islamic greeting him
You so much.
When he die, you don't have to go just pray for him from from a distance.
Because his family also wouldn't be happy with your present. Don't be there.
You must know the limit.
Because people miss it. Wow, he must be happy to see my family die.
So you're not giving them a good feeling.
So you excuses.
You may feel for them then pray for them from a distance.
You don't go down to kiss his forehead again. When he hit you so much. And he don't even want to see your face when you are alive. And now he's dead. You come on the kisses for him.
What kind of expression? What kind of sign are you sending across the family?
Don't do that.
You know that he don't like you. accept the fact
why we don't know. Do he have the right to hate you? We don't know.
But sometimes people don't like you just because of what? Jealousy?
There is not a right one. But
we still honor.
Respect.
Yeah, then that they don't want to see us don't see that.
This is adapt.
The I shed tears The heart feels sad.
But we only say things pleasing to our there is a demon. You can cry You can feel sad, but you are not going to blame anybody. You just ask Allah for mercy and forgiveness.
We are indeed saddened by your departure. Oh, Ibrahim
bin human.
The Prophet is a human and a bachelor Miss lucam. I'm a human like all of you, I have feeling you have feeling. So when a person is being passed by along with some close, family member pass away.
They will be sad and they will cry. You don't go and say stop crying.
Who gives you the right to stop them
is a sign that
the people are crying before they miss you. They love you. That's why they cry.
And that's what they have this kind of belief to if nobody wants to cry, they will hire a group of people and pay them to cry.
The show to the public you see now so many people miss him.
You will know
whether you have a soft heart or not. Whether you have mercy or not.
When somebody pass away that you know if you don't feel anything.
There is another good sign. Don't think that you are strong. No, no, no.
You don't have a good heart.
Because you don't feel for others.
So that's why there's no heartbeat to say that you cannot cry. You cannot shake tears for a good reason.
No.
Father and mother
were always saddened by the death of the children.
How bet that children they feel very sad.
They always miss the children even if they have grown up.
There is the father's feeling and the mothers feeling especially the mothers.
A lot have to pester the mother
more than anyone else in the family.
The pain she goes through when she got pregnant.
The delivery pain.
They have to go through all the pain, the suffering.
And this pain, no men can understand.
And men can understand they will love
and
they love the wife more extra care.
Then they have a good planning.
If not the woman has to suffer again.
Before anything they have another side
Referring again.
So men should
give them a good rest
plan a few years.
Can you imagine after one delivery second delivery
sometimes we love to see children
when the same time you must discuss this properly.
The worst thing if something happened if the baby
come out and after a few minutes he pass away
and now a good news to share.
And two days ago I just received another grandson
from my wife from my,
my daughter.
I visit
her yesterday.
Not yesterday two days ago to visit the day that I heard that she delivered
and they had chosen a name is
the first one up to lead the second Monday of the Rahim.
The fourth one is how
Abdullah bin Omar reported that Saad bin Oba once felsic. Allah messenger went to visit him with Abdullah man bin of Abdul Rahman bin of is a very successful businessman and also a very rich man among the companions of the Prophet.
And he is one of the companions that the Prophet said that will go to Paradise.
Why? Because he's one of the men who never allow Well,
yeah, to make him forget Allah. The more he had, the more he contribute for Allah.
Allahu Akbar.
In Islam, brother and sister sacrifices very important.
The people will give more they will receive extra from Allah,
even in a time the Prophet when there is a holy war going on. And those who went into the battlefield without bringing the horse without bringing the weapons, the booty of the war can be shed mud to get lesser.
For those who went into the war with their own with their own money with their own weapon, their own horses and panel,
Eve, after the water booth is, is distributed, they'll get more
why they get more because their contribution is more.
So the more you give our lives, you don't lose anything. And
the more allometry what all of us have the ramen bin out, is known for his
generosity.
So I've been a bit what costs also was there. And Abdullah bin Massoud.
When they went in, they found him unconscious. He asked a comma is he dead?
The Prophet as he was told, no.
Oh, Allah messenger. So he cried. When the other people saw that they cry as well. He didn't say let us my own. Wouldn't you listen to what I tell you?
Allah does not punish for the tears of the I know for the grief of the heart,
but He punished or give mercy because of this. Then he pointed to the tongue.
Inside Buhari the Prophet sallahu wa sallam did mention
in my
life as zebu Boca, de la.
This is very, is an authentic hadith Sahih Bukhari
prophet use the word in my Gita
meaning
Indeed, the dead person
He will be torture in the grave.
In May, Allah you as zebu, LA,
boca de la,
he will be punished by a law in the grave, because of the family who will on him
you know why in the Prophet say that
now in the early had they said you can cry, you can shake tears, but now another had is that the dead person will be tortured by Allah because the family is wailing on the dead person Why
is crying wailing
shitting tears haram know
the Prophet is trying to tell us to guide us
example, in the family we have so many siblings
someone dying before us
then you have some of the members of the family will complain we will and cry and scream like going into history. Why? Why clay
and you witness that, because these are very close family everybody loves each other so much.
So, when something happened to one of the family members, someone lost control, he just cannot control
hitting his head on the ground on the wall.
No, no. I said no, no way.
We belong to a labor laws, they come home we have to go home.
Then you have witnessed that happen. You did not warn the others.
You must say to the family. If I die, please don't do this to me.
If I will die in the future. I don't like all this kind of thing to go on. I don't allow it please don't be crazy. Don't get out of control. If I die.
You did not say anything to them.
Then you die. And the same thing happened.
The other sibling will go crazy again.
But you have reminded him
but they will do you have no sin because you have done your part.
Because anything that is wrong that happened in our life, we must say something
especially to the family members who are close to you How can you say I cannot say anything, tell them what you want what you don't want.
You can tell them if you know that now they are crazy. They bring flour, they decorate their grave, you must data even I die. I don't want this A B, C, D I don't want
but if they do it, you have no sin anymore because you have
told them
there is a male model. Now one
thing that is wrong and you were there to witness you must put a stop Don't let this thing happened to you.
But you don't say anything then you die the same thing repeat.
And that's why the prophecy in my ether lie you azubu be boca de la
the dead person will be punished because of the veiling of those family members upon his death.
You understand Brennan's insha Allah. So if your family don't have that problem, then you don't have to tell them. But if you have seen your witness something have happened because family are very close family. So then you must add that please, my brother, my sister.
I have seen this before. That's why I can understand why the Prophet said
you must control the environment.
You don't want any of the children who believe in our logic why why a latte his life.
Sometimes parents are so good that it can get out of control. Why my son?
Let me go first.
This allows will not your will is not your choice.
We
belong to him when I have the site he has ordained is not we who plan is Allah
just learn how to have
what
patient and fee
under law or Masha
is important rather than system.
But the most dangerous thing that can cause
that's why the Prophet said he pointed to the tongue
why Either you are doing bad thing you like to say bad thing or you did not stop somebody from doing something wrong to you, you know according to the Sunnah what you should do is you die
and then you know that they are not falling. So now before anything had when you call the family members tell them if anything happened to me, I want my body to be that they might my death to be arranged in this manner in the way that please allow. I don't all the other nonsense, you must make it clear. If you have to write down a will write down a will.
If they don't carry out that will they have to be blamed, not you.
That's very important. Now to date, they have gone haywire.
I've seen in my own III experienced that before.
People who was alive he was a very good brothers
who loved the Quran and Sunnah.
He always remind the people that don't do all this thing that is not following the Sunnah of the Prophet.
And he will very close to us.
Well, everybody had their witnesses.
He now make it very clear to the family. But the family was not close.
or nay. He was very, very close. And he got all out when he was alive. Telling me but all these things is wrong. All these things is wrong.
Aloha, very good brother.
But what happened?
Sometimes we forgot to remind our family. We forgot to bring them close. To learn the same thing together we learned but they don't learn
it when I was there.
They didn't call me
to handle
the case. They call other people that is their choice. You cannot just come into the family without day allowing him
to do what you're supposed to do. We're just waiting.
A call at the group.
That is their choice.
We feel pity when he was alive. He fight against all these people who do own the wrong thing.
But when he died, that thing happened to him.
And that made me realize
how important that ilasik qu and fossa como alikum Nara, save your soul and your family. You must educate yourself and the family. So they they have the same understanding so you don't have to worry anymore they know what to do.
But if you are active,
your family are not active.
Just husband and wife example just husband and wife.
The wife is active attending on the Quran and Sunnah plans, but the husband are not active at all. He don't follow but he don't stop you.
Then now you know the sooner is like this, we should follow the way of the Prophet not only when your life even when you admit you want to follow the way of the Prophet
and you forgot to remind them
so I have been way diverse.
Do you think your husband will look for us?
No.
He will look for people who who he is exposed them. And they were going to come with their own kind of thing now.
And now all the thing that is not taught by profit is happening
on the day you die
We want to die Hosni katima. We want to die following the Sunnah. And that's why the Prophet said, when you send the grave that this is what the to the graveyard, before you put the grave that the body down in the grave. You can try to
make a bottle of Earth and pass it down and read the word make a dough Bismillah what Allah miletti rasulillah
you want to go down you understand the date but it down with the name of Allah. And Paulo, the religion of Prophet Muhammad sallahu wa salam, the way of performing not follow your culture.
Follow the way of practice what the prophet said but a lot of people don't know what to say.
And other people are not aware when you want to
carry the body down to the hole. The one that have the right to be in the graveyard
is the one who do not have any relationship with the wife last night.
The prophet will ask anybody want to go down Do you have your religion nearby because we do not know when we are going to die? Maybe last night You're so happy we have wine and then somebody passed away and now you cannot go down.
In the time the Prophet the Prophet asked and somebody say yes I was with my wife last night. You come up send another guy down.
Who do this today?
who care about all this rolling now?
I did because we don't know. Neither the the grave people understand the rule they don't know they are just catheter they don't have knowledge.
Now they are coming to tell you what kind of stone you want what kind of grassy one What is this is this a garden is a graveyard
treat it as a graveyard
a lot of things for us to learn brother and sister before anything happened to us.
If you have the knowledge you don't say anything. We also have problems
or you inform them I want a I want this thing to happen this didn't happen there with the more problem.
I Sharia law who
reported that when Prophet Mohammed some among us and I'm passed away.
Abubakar, the father of Asia came from his house.
And since writing his man,
he dismount and when towards her house to the masjid. Omar was addressing the people
but abacha did not speak to anyone until he entered the house.
He rented a profit salon salon who was covered with an embroidered piece of lined cloth.
He uncovered his face leaned over in case in between the eyes and wet and he said I would sacrifice both my father and mother for you.
Oh prophet of Allah
among will surely not combine for you today.
You have died a death after which you will never die.
They mean the real that is only one.
Look at the Omakase feeling expression to the prophets of Muslim.
Meaning he is saying that if Allah allow, I will sacrifice both my father and mother for you.
They are time people who pray Oh Allah.
I do not know when I'm going to die. You know best. But I've seen somebody who is so beneficial
can do a lot more than I can do a lot. I can be beneficial to others.
If you can,
if you allow me
to sacrifice 10 years of my life and give it to him so that he can live longer than me.
This feeling is very good feeling of God. We don't know when Allah is going to ordain our death but
Feeling is considered a good feeling
that made you realize that you can do a lot in this world to help others. Somebody can do so much. He is worth living more than you
because people need them. People don't need us.
You can hit that call, you know Adam alayhis salam, our Father,
when Allah present him on his descendant,
and one of them is prophet David.
Adam was informed by alarm
to Angel Gabriel, he will leave for 1000 years only
one entry zero.
By when he was in Asia, what 960 angel of death came to him. Time's up.
He asked, how long I believe 960
laws it 1040 years, some 40 years you come too early.
But Angel of Death inform him.
But you have asked a lot that 40 of your years to be given to one of your
descendant, Tao for 40 years. And Allah answer your prayer at that time.
Your 40 years it was given to David doubt alayhis. Salam.
Adam, been a human. He forgot God.
Yella, how long ago you have said, No, no, no, no. When you forgot, normally you deny.
And that's why we will call in Sun in Sun derived from the root was Naseer.
We always forgot. We always forget the very common.
When you forget something What do you always say?
Normally? No, no, no, no, I didn't say that.
No, no, no, you didn't told me you didn't say to me. I do. remember you telling me when you forget you're always denied.
This happened to them. And this what happened to all of us until today?
We have debt. Yeah, correct.
But what really happened brothers and sisters, when the Prophet pass away,
Omar was not ready to accept it.
To the extent that Omar now is telling everyone whoever said Mohammed is dead, I am going to have his head
over a worker came later on and then she just went into the house where the daughter is there
to check and confirm
Omar
have the left was a prophet in different feeling.
He just can't accept that a prophet is no more there for him.
The love towards the Prophet
is no no problem on me. No, he may have left us for us for just 40 days like Moses. Life his people for 40 days. He'll come back he'll come back.
alone he did and is in a color in Apple in my baja my tune.
The prophet will taste death like how the early prophet who have passed away nobody live forever except Allah hayyan
layer mode.
After Abubakar you see how Why is Abubakar
he may just come and join Omar.
Whoever said there mahama is dead. No, we are going to punish all of you marry emotions.
But Abubakar
he just entered the house and confirm by himself as
that the Prophet had passed away.
Now Bukhara a man is
so great that nobody can compare
the man with the man of Abu Bakar
productions
That the Prophet did mention, if you put the man of America on one scale, and the man of all the believers at the scale, the man of Abu Bakar is heavier than all of us. Man, what would happen you'll come to a Muslim who said that Abu Bakar is
stuck philology.
That's why we cannot accept
those who abuse the companions of the Prophet.
And there's only one group who do that.
Those who,
who those who claim the love ali
ali never said that to Abu Bakar.
Ali was so helpful was so close to Abu Bakar.
But this who said he loves Ali so much. He said Abubakar is an infidel.
How can you accept this paper?
Then Abubakar came up?
And is it whoever worship Mohammed Salalah indeed, Mohammed had passed away.
Whoever worship Allah, Allah will live forever.
He had to make the declaration.
Somebody must make a declaration
and Abu Bakar dare to say that good the rest. They're not because Omar is very upset now.
manabu aka his left was the Prophet
his belief is strong and that he said whoever worship Muhammad Muhammad is dead.
Whoever worship Allah Allah will live forever.
Then the whole scenario of now
so everybody was crying.
Everybody
young or because the Prophet is a very loving man. Respect the elders love the young woman who ever heard the Prophet pass away Hi buddy cry
no
insha Allah in the next class, we will the next class not next Wednesday.
Next Wednesday we are not around
and then we will share with you a bit. Yeah.
What really happened
after the declaration from Abu Bakar that the Prophet has passed away.
Today we end until here
and then shall not be then the question from the sisters or brothers is Question Time for Dan.
Sisters any question for the sisters saying
no.
Well Salama.
This is a very good question from the sisters. Normally you whoever are close to the machine, you hear the Amazon five times as an only as an pajara the money as then there is one addition words after Hey Allah so Allah, Allah Allah, Allah Uppsala to Cairo, Amina know
there are people who advise us to respond
by saying sada wa Barra da
da da da da Barra
but they had this is not authentic.
The authentic had these, the prophet just mentioned when anybody called for us and for those who hear that as and should respond that how the magazine? Yeah, recite the Azad.
mean it is it Allahu Akbar, Allahu Akbar. Allahu Akbar, Allah we respond. Long Akbar Allahu Akbar we respond the same shadow Allah in the in Lama we respond the same shadow under Muhammad Rasool Allah, we respond the same high Allah. Allah Sala La hawla wala quwata illa Billah Haryana Sala La hawla wala quwata illa Billah hyah Allah tala La hawla wala quwata illa Billah hyah Allah Allah Allah La hola hola como because the Prophet says so
being that the profit never say anything more than that a solid to hire Amina now you just sit Uppsala to Cairo, Mina? No
you don't have to add any kind of citation that was not taught by Prophet Mohammed samosa even the meaning may be good.
The same go when people make karma, visit karma de Sala karma de Sala, you have some people say, a common law noir Dhamma.
People use that kind of respond. There is no authentic Hadees
sometimes there's a lot of prayer been added with good intention, but it's not from Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam. So we don't have to follow
because this is considered a bad as an is a bad karma is a bad even mm shopping. Is it luck? Yes, feel bad. When a batter is concerned, there is no chaos, you cannot just add and blast without any authentic reference. And last time we do that too, because we do not know. We just follow.
But then we realized it's not based on any authentic IDs. We stop. Yeah.
Just restaurant the safe.
Next question from the sisters.
Any question from sisters
from the brothers?
Brothers also have no more question. Sister. So no more question. And handle Yes. Is the Ayesha
okay.
Yeah, this is just to get your contact number or your email in case there's changes of classes and so on. Then we know how to contact on the jamaa so that you don't have to come on the way and the class is not on. So we need all the cooperation from sister You can check your list here, whether your name your address, or contact number is there. If not, you have to help yourself to fill in. And you get it from SR Asia from here.
They are the class monitor.
And hamdulillah. Yeah. So once again, brothers and sisters. Now we understand that if anybody said to you, when you there's a deaf, you cannot cry. We know that it's not from the Prophet salaallah salaam, the normal kind of crying, sadness. Yeah, to show that we have mercy.
We feel for others.
But sometimes there are people who just can't have that feeling.
No, sometimes it's not that you are a bad person. You just cannot shed tears.
And
I end up with my experience. When my father passed away, I was not a Muslim yet.
And I was very young, I just cannot cry
or don't know how to cry.
But we all must follow.
When the body is more we have to follow. We have to walk behind the
dead body.
The one who already cry and faint that is my eldest sister.
And she is the one who my father left and
most among the children.
She felt
very, very sad and she keep on crying, how very she fainted.
For the family or any members of the public. They say that
this father must be a very, very good father to this daughter. That's why they can cry until they get fed.
We are too young to cry at that time.
So my uncle is the one who pinched me until I cry. So I cry for the wrong reason.
Because pain
Yes, I'm 10 different people cry for different different reason. But at the end of the day, the prophet said, Who ever cry for the sake of Allah, that tears is sacred?
That tears will allow us to receive the shade from Allah in the Day of Judgment.
Yeah, so don't feel sad. Don't feel bad if you can cry.
Someday it's good to cry. We know how relief after we should do something for the right reason.
So once again, we pray May Allah give us mercy inside our hearts, love for each other. We keep on praying for each other.
We never give up and try to learn what is important for all of you.
And don't just wait for the class thing that you know important. When we around collars come in, let us
help ourselves
and be more proactive so that we don't delay ting that we can do it immediately. We don't delay to safeguard our image and to safeguard our family. So this is my last advice for all of you before because today we are leaving for our peace conference
in Oslo
we only be back after
10 days inshallah
pray for us. We will pray for all of you and your family inshallah.
I mean,
I mean inshallah,
in the aircraft they always say formulation, welcome home.
Good word, and
May Allah bless all of us. And please don't forget the one page but they couldn't
get close to the book of Allah. Allah Allah min so hammock. Allahumma Ambika shadow Allah Illa illa Anta estar the Furukawa to LA salaam aleikum wa rahmatullah wa barakato.
Yeah.
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