Hussain Yee – Dont Be Sad #127

Hussain Yee
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The importance of Islam is discussed, including guidance and following laws to achieve success. The speaker emphasizes the need to be wary of others' behavior and negative thoughts, as well as learning and being aware of the word "meditation" in order to value one's spirituality. The challenges of traveling and being encouraged by the Prophet are emphasized, along with the importance of being proactive and not just stop them. The speaker also emphasizes the need for men to be encouraged to stay in one and not traveling to a mosque.
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In the name of Allah, the Most Gracious,

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the Most Merciful.

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All praise is due to Allah.

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We praise Him, ask His help, and ask

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His forgiveness.

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And we seek refuge in Allah from the

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evil of our souls and the evil of

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our actions.

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Whomsoever Allah guides, none can misguide us, and

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whosoever He sends astray, none can guide us.

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I bear witness that there is none worthy

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of worship except Allah, and I bear witness

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that Muhammad is His servant and Messenger.

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I bear witness that there is none worthy

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of worship except Allah, and I bear witness

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that Muhammad is His servant and Messenger.

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Peace be upon you.

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Alhamdulillah, all praise is due to Allah for

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His blessing, His mercy, that all of us

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are still healthy, Alhamdulillah.

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And may Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala protect

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all of us from all the trial challenges

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known as fitnah in general.

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Fitnah is the plural of fitnah, trial and

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tribulation.

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May the mercy of Allah subhanahu wa ta

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'ala be upon all of us who always

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show mercy to one another, who love one

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another, who care for each other, at least

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the minimum we pray for each other.

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That is very, very important in our life.

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Nobody can do everything, but we can do

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something.

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And that is what we have to be

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focused on.

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Try to do what you can do.

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Allah created everything for a reason.

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And He reminds us, that I never created

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anything without a reason.

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Anything that happens in life is also a

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lesson learned, a reminder.

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What happens around the globe is a reminder.

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What happens in the Middle East is a

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reminder.

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So every one of us, as Muslims, always

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remember what Allah said, meaning anything that happens

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is a reminder for people who reflect.

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We all are aware that our iman is

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always being tested up and down.

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Most of the time it is down, downward.

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You want to know whether our iman is

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strong, stable, you look at one hadith, that

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will help you to understand.

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And that will help us to know whether

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our iman is okay or not.

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Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him, said, مَنْ

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رَأَ مِنْكُمْ الْمُنْكَرُ فَلْيُغَيْرُ بِيَدِي فَإِلَّمْ تَسْتَتِعْ فَبِلِسَانِ

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فَإِلَّمْ تَسْتَتِعْ فَبِقَلْبِي وَلَيْسَ وَرَاءَ ذَلِكَ مِنَ الْإِمَانِ

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What is the minimum?

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Meaning, when you see something that is wrong

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happening in front of you, you have the

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authority, you do nothing.

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If you can't do because you don't have

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authority, but you are able to speak out,

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you are able to say something, you say

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nothing.

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Neither your heart react towards that negative, bad

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thing that happen in front of you.

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Especially in our house, we have full authority

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in our house.

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You'll be very sad to see parents don't

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have authority when their house belong to their

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parents.

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You allow someone to come in, or you

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allow your children to control you.

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It's very, very wrong.

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Just an example.

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It's like you allow your employee to control

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you.

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Something is not right.

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You must be in control as an employer.

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So the Prophet said, if you can, use

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your authority, your hand.

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If you can't, use your tongue.

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If you can't, you are not a speaker,

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you are not a good scholar, but at

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least your heart reject.

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Your heart feel that that is wrong.

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Acknowledge what is wrong is wrong.

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But if your heart don't even feel for

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anything, that's not my business.

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I have nothing to do with that.

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Then the Prophet said, you know there's no

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more Iman in you.

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I've said maybe there's a doubt there.

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Because you still believe in Allah.

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You still believe in the Prophet.

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That's all.

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That's why the Prophet, peace and blessings be

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upon him, remind us, Now

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the Prophet is sharing with us again to

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show us who have a sound Iman.

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Whose Iman is considered okay?

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Is a person who loves what Allah loves,

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hates what Allah hates.

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Give for the sake of Allah, you withhold

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for the sake of Allah.

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Why don't I give?

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Why can't I help for the sake of

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Allah?

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Because he or she is not helping herself.

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If I keep on giving, I'm going to

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destroy him.

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Then you should not give anymore.

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There's a limit for everything.

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So it's very important for us to have

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this guideline so that we know where we

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are.

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We know why Iman is so important because

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the Prophet said, لا تدخلون الجنة حتى تؤمنوا

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Nobody can enter Paradise without Iman.

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Without money, without any degree, any diploma, you

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can go to Jannah.

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As long as you have Iman.

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And the Prophet said, لا تدخلون الجنة حتى

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تؤمنوا Nobody enters Paradise until he believes.

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Today, inshallah, brothers and sisters, according to the

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book, we will be continuing page 199.

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The secret of guidance.

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Is that the thing?

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The secret of guidance.

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We are so blessed as a Muslim because

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Allah has given us a divine guidance.

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We don't have to look to the east,

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to the west, here and there.

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We just look into Islam.

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When you say Islam that belongs to Allah,

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you just look in the Holy Quran.

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Everything is there.

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But so sad to see the ummah today,

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when they have problems, they don't refer back

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to the book of Allah.

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Everybody uses their rationale.

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Everybody thinks they know better.

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Their way is better.

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And every day when we are praying, we

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ask Allah for guidance.

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اهدنا الصراط المستقيم Oh Allah, guide us all.

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It's just a word.

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It's just a recitation.

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It's a lip service.

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Nothing to do with our feeling anymore.

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Our feeling is no more there.

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When you say to Allah, اهدنا الصراط المستقيم

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You must have an open mind, open heart.

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You are ready to seek and follow the

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guidance.

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But no.

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We don't feel anything actually now.

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We can ask, we can pray, but no

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feeling at all.

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That's why there's no changes.

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Correct?

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Do you feel that?

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In our life today, you don't see changes.

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Brothers and sisters, contentment and happiness are blessings

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that are given only to those who follow

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the straight path.

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Those who follow the guidance.

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It's like what the Prophet, peace be upon

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him, said, contentment is not because of money,

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how you look, how rich you are, how

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strong you are.

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Contentment is you are satisfied with what you

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have.

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Even the little you have, you are happy.

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Alhamdulillah.

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Nobody can have everything.

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Do you think that other people who have

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authority, they feel satisfied?

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No.

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People who are billionaires, trillionaires, they are satisfied?

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No.

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They still want more and more.

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Everybody is feeling that, I need more.

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Allah knows best.

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That's why the Prophet said, Richness is not

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because you have a lot of money.

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You are contented with what you have.

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That is very, very important in life.

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Now how to gain contentment?

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Allah, subhanahu wa ta'ala, has given us

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the guidance, the straight path, and of course,

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nobody, none of us can say, I am

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guided by just read the Quran, but you

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don't follow the way of Prophet Muhammad, peace

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be upon him.

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You must follow the way of the Prophet,

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peace be upon him.

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Because Allah himself have decided to choose this

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man, Muhammad, peace be upon him, to be

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his last messenger.

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And then he said that he is Qataman

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Nabi.

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He is the seal of all prophets.

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No one else can come after him and

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can guide all of you except him.

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He is the way.

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To the extent that Allah said, Anybody who

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said, I love Allah, I believe in Allah,

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this is how we feel.

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Inshallah, I believe all of us have that

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feeling.

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We love Allah, we believe in Allah.

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But then Allah said, O Muhammad, say to

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them, Follow

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me.

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Follow who?

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Follow Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon him.

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Then he will guide you.

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He will show you.

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That's why from the beginning of Islam, nobody

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can be a Muslim until he is ready

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to make the declaration of faith.

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There is none in the Quran.

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Quran never said that.

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Quran only said, O you who believe, if

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you want to be a believer, enter Islam,

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accept Islam totally.

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Not half-heartedly.

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Not quarterly or three-quarters.

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I choose what I want.

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What I disagree, I ignore.

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You cannot.

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You must submit to Allah totally.

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You must believe what Allah said is true.

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Whether you can do it or not is

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a second matter.

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But you cannot ignore the command of Allah.

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You cannot say that I disagree.

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No.

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You're not ready to do it.

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That is your weakness.

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But you cannot deny what Allah has said

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in his book.

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Today we have a lot of issue.

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They may not say, but the way they

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react, you know.

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They are not a believer.

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It's just a name.

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So Prophet Muhammad was sent by Allah.

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And Allah said, follow him.

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He is the way.

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You ask me to show you the way.

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I send you the guidance, the secret guidance.

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And also a man to show you the

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way, how to do it.

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How to be a Muslim?

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The first is the Shahadatain.

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Ash'hadu an la ilaha illallah wa ash

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'hadu anna Muhammad ar-Razza.

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See how it starts?

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Meaning Allah and then our Prophet.

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You pray for the sake of Allah.

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The way you perform your prayer, Muhammad ar

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-Razza.

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You fast for the sake of Allah.

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You give Zakat for the sake of Allah.

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But the way you do it, you follow

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Prophet Muhammad.

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Is that easy?

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How do you feel brother and sister?

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Is that easy?

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No response.

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We should respond, yes it's easy.

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Because everything is ready, it's laid out.

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Just follow.

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Anything you do in life, if you just

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follow, is that easy?

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You want to drive a car, you follow

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the law.

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The law of the road.

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When the traffic light is red, what do

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you do?

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You horn?

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You still want to go?

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No.

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Stop.

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That is the law of the traffic.

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Simple, you just follow.

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You don't have problem.

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You don't create problem.

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But today there's a lot of problem in

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the traffic light.

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When you reach the traffic light is red,

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then everybody is so addicted to their handphone.

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Now phone.

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Now green, and he's still phone.

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And that's why the one behind you is

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going to get upset.

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What happen?

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Those who have patience, Alhamdulillah.

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Because the one who behind you also is

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on the phone.

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So no problem.

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But the one who is beside you is

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waiting.

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He is rushing.

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Now he is going to be very upset.

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But this is what happen.

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So it's important to understand.

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Just be a good follower.

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Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam left us upon

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one end of this path, the way, and

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at the other end of it are the

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garden of paradise.

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Because whatever we do, brother and sister, if

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you follow the guidance, that will be your

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destination.

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You end up contented and happy.

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You'll be happy.

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Because you don't create problem to yourself.

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Neither you create problem to others.

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You should be very happy.

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And Quran, chapter 4, verse 68 says, And

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we indeed, we should then have guided them

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to the straight path.

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The way.

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That's why in other ayah, even Allah said,

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This is my way, I show you my

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way.

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You have been asking Allah to guide you.

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So now he is showing you the way.

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You just follow.

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That's why Allah said, We have problem until

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today.

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We are just asking.

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Tell me what to do.

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After that you don't do.

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It's a big headache.

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In anything in life, you ask for guidance,

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but then you refuse to follow.

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This is not just Jahil.

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This is Jahil Muraqab.

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Double ignorant.

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You are not ignorant at all.

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Because you ask for guidance, that is good.

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Then people is there to show you the

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way.

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And then while people is showing the way,

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everybody seems to understand and follow.

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You refuse to follow.

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So it's not easy to teach this kind

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of people.

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It's not easy to help people who do

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not want to be helped.

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By happiness we mean this, when one adhere

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to the straight path.

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Why?

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Because you save yourself from a lot of

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confusion and problem.

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If you don't lie to people, you don't

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cheat to anybody when you do business, you

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don't have to worry people don't come back

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and scream at you and say you are

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lying, you are cheating, because you are not

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doing that at all.

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You don't break any law.

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Do you think a policeman will come after

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you?

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But sometimes it will happen that he likes

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to stop at your house.

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Are you worried?

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Are you worried?

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Nothing to worry because you know you are

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not doing anything.

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But if you have not been doing something

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right, the minute you saw the car come,

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even if he is just passing by, you

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thought he is coming after you.

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The fear is there.

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So anybody, if he follows what Allah wants

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them to do, whatever Allah wants us to

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do, brother and sister, it's not for him,

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it's for you.

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It's for us, for our own benefit.

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Eat what is halal and good, for your

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own good.

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You want to be healthy, so you must

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be careful with your intake, your food and

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drink.

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You want to have a positive mindset, then

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you must have the right knowledge and information.

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Don't entertain all this AI information today.

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You get headache.

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I also got headache sometimes.

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Suddenly, my face is there, talking about something

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that I don't even know.

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How can?

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And then somebody will say, Oh, thank you.

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And then say, Dr. Hussein Yi, I got

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a new title.

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I become a doctor in health now, in

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medicine.

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People are sending this to me.

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I say, wow.

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This is what technology today.

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You can bring one face, this face, and

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then they make changes and say, And then

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they can create a lot of havoc.

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If husband and wife are not careful with

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what is going on today, people who don't

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like you want to create, or people make

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joke only for fun.

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They're not serious.

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Suddenly, the other party saw, Wow.

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You are kissing a stranger.

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And they can even put a picture, male

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and male, stuck through.

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Now my husband become a gay now.

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Anything can happen.

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May Allah protect us from all this fitna.

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Now, though he may be afflicted with hardship

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along the way, he is confident of a

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happy ending and a future born in paradise.

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Of course, when you follow the right way,

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sometimes it's not easy.

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By right, it should be easy.

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But it's not easy because a lot of

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people around you are not following the right

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way today.

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Like I was teaching my student 40 years

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ago, not now.

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40 years ago, I'm teaching a custom officer

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to be honest, not to be corrupted.

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He was a custom officer.

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You know custom officer is a gate to

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get more money.

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You want anything fast?

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You don't just show what you buy, what

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you import.

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You must have something behind it.

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They don't want to see anything on the

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table.

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They want to see something under the table.

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It's not easy.

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The business-minded people, he want everything fast.

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So in the north, they said, No problem.

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Settle.

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So when I always remind my student to

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be honest, your dignity is more important than

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money.

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So he was Alhamdulillah.

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He never take any corruption.

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People offer, he said, no.

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Just go by the book.

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You have no problem.

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Just go by the book.

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You are happy, I'm happy.

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And sometimes they don't.

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They bypass him.

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So when he arrest them, he have to

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pass them to the higher authority.

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There are some people who will take over.

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Suddenly the guy just walk out freely in

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front of him and smile at him.

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Wow.

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There are people who are untouchable.

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You cannot touch them.

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They want you to help them.

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They want to give something.

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You are honest.

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Now, after you have done your arrest, you

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pass to your higher authority.

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The problem is the higher authority have their

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own understanding.

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They have their own value.

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So these people who are down, they don't

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fear you anymore.

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You are a small fish to them.

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It can be less.

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They have the tuna with them.

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Just an example.

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But Alhamdulillah, for him, he have done his

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job.

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So later on we found out to be

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honest, not to be corrupted today is so

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difficult because your surrounding majority are corrupted.

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So you don't have gang anymore.

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All your friends look at you, you are

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an obstacle.

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You are really a problem.

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But if you can just be part of

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them, remember, now they are grouping.

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There are a lot of groups.

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Even on handphone we have grouping also.

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Be very careful.

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If you want to have happiness, so you

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find happiness in the way Allah have shown

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us, the way Prophet Muhammad have shown us.

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That's all.

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You know our Prophet, peace be upon him,

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when he start his mission, calling people to

00:29:04 --> 00:29:07

the truth, to the straight path, so that

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they will be happy, here and the hereafter.

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A lot of people are not happy.

00:29:15 --> 00:29:17

Because they are not happy, you are telling

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them to stop a lot of bad things

00:29:20 --> 00:29:21

that they are doing.

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Even about worshipping the one God, they don't

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like.

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Because they have been doing a lot of

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business through idols.

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They are selling idols, they are making new

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idols, a stronger one, a bigger one, and

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they are selling.

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And now if you say no more worshipping

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idols, no more business.

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It's a big business.

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Worshipping other than Allah is a big business.

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Worshipping Allah is free.

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You don't have to buy anything.

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No joystick, no candle, no idols, nothing, zero.

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See how simple to worship Allah.

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Just come in with your pure heart, take

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your ablution, worship Allah, finish.

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So even committing shirk is a big business.

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That's why the community today, if you try

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to tell them to show the way of

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the Prophet, the Sunnah, they dislike you.

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Why?

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Because you stop them from doing their business.

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If you do a lot of bid'ah,

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innovation, there are a lot of this gathering,

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that gathering.

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It's money.

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If when you are dressing, the Prophet want

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you to dress simple.

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Innal bazaza.

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You say, innal bazaza.

00:31:00 --> 00:31:03

Simple city is part of Iman.

00:31:06 --> 00:31:07

What is simple city?

00:31:07 --> 00:31:09

Look at the dress of our Prophet, simple.

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The dress of Omar, the great Khalifa.

00:31:15 --> 00:31:19

And he, if it's tear here and there,

00:31:19 --> 00:31:20

he would just patch it.

00:31:21 --> 00:31:25

He didn't wear like how normally people who

00:31:25 --> 00:31:30

are somebody, dress themselves, very simple, down to

00:31:30 --> 00:31:30

earth.

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Their life is simple.

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And simplicity is part of Iman.

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Just to show us how you can attain

00:31:44 --> 00:31:45

happiness.

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Again, I repeat.

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By happiness, we mean this when one adhere

00:31:52 --> 00:31:54

to the straight path.

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Though he may be afflicted with hardship along

00:31:58 --> 00:32:01

the way, he is confident of a happy

00:32:01 --> 00:32:05

ending and a future abode in Paradise.

00:32:06 --> 00:32:09

As a result, he will follow the way

00:32:09 --> 00:32:14

of Prophet Muhammad, Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, who spoke

00:32:14 --> 00:32:16

not from his own desire.

00:32:16 --> 00:32:18

Prophet is very unique.

00:32:19 --> 00:32:21

He's a human like you and me.

00:32:21 --> 00:32:25

He said, Qul innama ana basharun mislukum.

00:32:27 --> 00:32:31

Allah revealed an ayah to the Prophet so

00:32:31 --> 00:32:32

that the Prophet will make it clear to

00:32:32 --> 00:32:33

the people.

00:32:34 --> 00:32:39

Said Muhammad, Qul innama ana basharun mislukum.

00:32:39 --> 00:32:41

Said to them that you are a human

00:32:41 --> 00:32:43

like them.

00:32:45 --> 00:32:46

You are no angels, you are human.

00:32:48 --> 00:32:52

You eat, you drink, you sleep, you fall

00:32:52 --> 00:32:57

sick, you got married, you do business like

00:32:57 --> 00:32:58

any other human.

00:32:59 --> 00:33:00

What is different?

00:33:02 --> 00:33:05

The difference, Yuha ilayhim.

00:33:06 --> 00:33:08

Qul innama ana basharun mislukum.

00:33:08 --> 00:33:09

Yuha ilayhim.

00:33:10 --> 00:33:11

Annama ilahkum ilahun.

00:33:12 --> 00:33:14

I receive a revelation.

00:33:15 --> 00:33:17

Do we receive revelation?

00:33:19 --> 00:33:21

Nowadays there are some people who say, there's

00:33:21 --> 00:33:22

still revelation.

00:33:23 --> 00:33:24

I also receive.

00:33:25 --> 00:33:27

When anybody said to you they receive revelation,

00:33:28 --> 00:33:29

you cut them off.

00:33:29 --> 00:33:30

Don't waste your time.

00:33:30 --> 00:33:33

Don't get headache and then, why?

00:33:34 --> 00:33:36

Try to, you don't understand, you don't believe

00:33:36 --> 00:33:36

what I said.

00:33:37 --> 00:33:38

It's okay.

00:33:39 --> 00:33:40

You don't waste your time.

00:33:41 --> 00:33:42

Let them explain to you.

00:33:42 --> 00:33:43

You don't need.

00:33:44 --> 00:33:48

Anybody who said they still receive revelation, you

00:33:48 --> 00:33:49

just stop there.

00:33:49 --> 00:33:52

Because Allah have said, he is the seal

00:33:52 --> 00:33:53

of all prophet.

00:33:54 --> 00:33:56

No prophet after him.

00:33:56 --> 00:33:59

When there's no prophet, there's no more revelation.

00:34:00 --> 00:34:04

Revelation only be sent to prophet.

00:34:05 --> 00:34:10

You may have good dreams, but no revelation.

00:34:11 --> 00:34:13

Just simple as that.

00:34:17 --> 00:34:20

So the prophet who spoke not from his

00:34:20 --> 00:34:21

own desire.

00:34:22 --> 00:34:27

In other ayah, Allah said, Wama yantiku *

00:34:27 --> 00:34:30

hawa, idn huwa illa wahyun yuha.

00:34:32 --> 00:34:36

Prophet Muhammad will never utter, say anything based

00:34:36 --> 00:34:37

on how he feel.

00:34:37 --> 00:34:41

My thought, my feeling, I think.

00:34:41 --> 00:34:43

He don't use this term.

00:34:44 --> 00:34:47

Today we use a lot of this term.

00:34:48 --> 00:34:48

Is it not?

00:34:49 --> 00:34:52

Wama yantiku * hawa, I will never say

00:34:52 --> 00:34:55

anything, except what was revealed to me, not

00:34:55 --> 00:34:56

through my feeling.

00:34:58 --> 00:35:01

My feeling as a human, okay, I like

00:35:01 --> 00:35:03

this, I dislike this, that is his feeling.

00:35:04 --> 00:35:08

But anything to do with Islam, under the

00:35:08 --> 00:35:12

name Islam, he never add or minus anything.

00:35:13 --> 00:35:16

He accept Islam like how Allah revealed to

00:35:16 --> 00:35:20

him, and he just convey it to the

00:35:20 --> 00:35:20

people.

00:35:21 --> 00:35:22

That's how it goes.

00:35:23 --> 00:35:25

For us it's very different.

00:35:25 --> 00:35:27

You may learn something, after that you add

00:35:27 --> 00:35:28

some spices here and there.

00:35:31 --> 00:35:33

And then you say, this is from the

00:35:33 --> 00:35:33

Sheikh.

00:35:34 --> 00:35:36

The Sheikh say something, you say another thing.

00:35:36 --> 00:35:38

And now the Sheikh is having problem, and

00:35:38 --> 00:35:39

he don't know.

00:35:40 --> 00:35:44

You become the second Sheikh now, among your

00:35:44 --> 00:35:44

small community.

00:35:46 --> 00:35:47

So that is the danger.

00:35:47 --> 00:35:50

We are not, I would say that we

00:35:50 --> 00:35:53

don't have amanah, we are not truthful to

00:35:53 --> 00:35:53

ourselves.

00:35:54 --> 00:35:57

If you want to quote my saying, you

00:35:57 --> 00:35:59

must remember what I say.

00:36:00 --> 00:36:01

You don't add.

00:36:01 --> 00:36:03

If you want to add, you say, that

00:36:03 --> 00:36:06

is the word Sheikh say, but this is

00:36:06 --> 00:36:06

my addition.

00:36:07 --> 00:36:07

Nevermind.

00:36:09 --> 00:36:12

All the book, the big book written by

00:36:12 --> 00:36:16

all the great scholar, Abu Hanifa, Malik, Shafi

00:36:16 --> 00:36:19

'i, Hanbali, if you look into their book,

00:36:19 --> 00:36:22

if you are just and fair to them,

00:36:23 --> 00:36:25

anything, if there's a saying of the Prophet

00:36:25 --> 00:36:28

about a subject, they will just quote the

00:36:28 --> 00:36:30

saying, kalas, end there.

00:36:31 --> 00:36:33

Anything that they don't come across, they may

00:36:33 --> 00:36:35

not come across.

00:36:35 --> 00:36:40

Everything, something they are exposed to, something they

00:36:40 --> 00:36:41

may not exposed to.

00:36:42 --> 00:36:44

Nobody can say, I know everything now.

00:36:46 --> 00:36:48

Nobody is good in everything.

00:36:49 --> 00:36:51

That's why Imam Malik is known as people

00:36:51 --> 00:36:54

of Hadith, Imam Hanbali is known as people

00:36:54 --> 00:36:55

of Hadith.

00:36:56 --> 00:36:58

Anything to do the same, they are very,

00:36:59 --> 00:37:00

very precise.

00:37:01 --> 00:37:03

Imam Shafi'i is known for fiqh, Imam

00:37:03 --> 00:37:07

Abu Hanifa is known for fiqh, and Imam

00:37:07 --> 00:37:13

Abu Hanifa is very worse about business, about

00:37:13 --> 00:37:18

zakat, because he was a businessman.

00:37:19 --> 00:37:24

So business people are very particular about numbers,

00:37:25 --> 00:37:31

about calculation, because that all is money.

00:37:32 --> 00:37:35

Because he was a businessman, so he's very

00:37:35 --> 00:37:37

good in that area.

00:37:38 --> 00:37:41

This is just to share with all of

00:37:41 --> 00:37:41

us.

00:37:41 --> 00:37:44

You come across their book, if there is

00:37:44 --> 00:37:48

no evidence as a scholar, they have to

00:37:48 --> 00:37:51

give some guideline to the public.

00:37:52 --> 00:37:55

Then they will say, this is my opinion.

00:37:56 --> 00:38:00

You see how sincere and honest these scholars

00:38:00 --> 00:38:00

are.

00:38:00 --> 00:38:03

If it's not from the Prophet, they stop

00:38:03 --> 00:38:05

there, and then they say, this is my

00:38:05 --> 00:38:08

opinion, my ra'i.

00:38:09 --> 00:38:12

And then he will say, when you come

00:38:12 --> 00:38:16

across any saying of the Prophet, in the

00:38:16 --> 00:38:20

future, knowledge, there's no limit from time to

00:38:20 --> 00:38:25

time, knowledge becomes easier for us to refer

00:38:25 --> 00:38:25

to.

00:38:25 --> 00:38:28

Before, you don't have this technology, it's very

00:38:28 --> 00:38:30

hard to learn, you have to go to

00:38:30 --> 00:38:34

the classes, and the teacher is so far

00:38:34 --> 00:38:39

away, but in the early period, students of

00:38:39 --> 00:38:43

knowledge are ready to travel hundreds of miles

00:38:43 --> 00:38:47

to seek knowledge, and stay with the scholar.

00:38:50 --> 00:38:53

Today, scholars have to travel.

00:38:55 --> 00:38:59

Because students, I have no time, you come

00:38:59 --> 00:38:59

to me.

00:39:01 --> 00:39:05

Alhamdulillah, good scholars will go, as long as

00:39:05 --> 00:39:07

they are healthy, they have the means, they

00:39:07 --> 00:39:08

will go.

00:39:09 --> 00:39:12

And sometimes, they are so close to you,

00:39:12 --> 00:39:14

you still give excuses.

00:39:14 --> 00:39:15

Oh, I'm too busy.

00:39:15 --> 00:39:16

Can you imagine today?

00:39:17 --> 00:39:20

You don't even know how to value knowledge

00:39:20 --> 00:39:20

today.

00:39:23 --> 00:39:35

The Malay word, they say, before people, Normally

00:39:35 --> 00:39:38

the well, you take a bowl, and you

00:39:38 --> 00:39:40

go and look for the well, and then,

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you will take the water from the well.

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Now the well has to come to you.

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Yeah, Alhamdulillah, water comes to us now, correct?

00:39:51 --> 00:39:53

Before, you think you have this, no.

00:39:53 --> 00:39:55

You want water, you get out.

00:39:56 --> 00:39:58

You take a pail, something, go out, look

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for the well, and you take up the

00:40:00 --> 00:40:01

water, and bring it home.

00:40:01 --> 00:40:03

Now, water supply, direct.

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And we are still complaining.

00:40:08 --> 00:40:09

And we still give advice.

00:40:10 --> 00:40:12

I cannot pray, so difficult.

00:40:13 --> 00:40:15

Water is just beside you.

00:40:15 --> 00:40:17

To take evolution, what is so difficult?

00:40:19 --> 00:40:22

That is, the reality that we are facing.

00:40:23 --> 00:40:24

We are ungrateful.

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The Prophet never say anything, except what was

00:40:28 --> 00:40:29

revealed.

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And the scholar before us, is like that.

00:40:32 --> 00:40:38

Today, the scholar, the way they talk about

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Islam, is like Islam belong to them.

00:40:42 --> 00:40:43

They can do anything.

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They can say anything.

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And can they use the word of the

00:40:49 --> 00:40:49

Prophet?

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They dare to even use the name of

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Prophet.

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Sunnah.

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Sunnah.

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Prophet Muhammad said.

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But there is none.

00:41:00 --> 00:41:02

None in the authentic reference.

00:41:03 --> 00:41:05

Can you imagine?

00:41:06 --> 00:41:09

And what did the Prophet say, about this

00:41:09 --> 00:41:10

group of people?

00:41:17 --> 00:41:20

Whoever dare to use the word of the

00:41:20 --> 00:41:23

Prophet said, Prophet say this, but I did

00:41:23 --> 00:41:23

not.

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He just use my name.

00:41:27 --> 00:41:29

Then he is booking a place for him

00:41:29 --> 00:41:30

in * fire.

00:41:32 --> 00:41:35

You can use my name.

00:41:35 --> 00:41:39

You cannot go to * fire by doing

00:41:39 --> 00:41:39

that.

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Except, if I come to know you create

00:41:42 --> 00:41:43

fitna to me.

00:41:45 --> 00:41:47

But if you use the name of Prophet

00:41:47 --> 00:41:51

Muhammad, you know it is not for him.

00:41:51 --> 00:41:53

You just say anything you like.

00:41:53 --> 00:41:55

Come up with a phrase in Arabic.

00:41:57 --> 00:42:01

The Prophet said, You are just booking a

00:42:01 --> 00:42:03

place for yourself in * fire.

00:42:04 --> 00:42:05

Don't say that.

00:42:06 --> 00:42:09

One the Prophet said, Man qala alayya.

00:42:09 --> 00:42:12

Second time the Prophet said, Man qadhiba alayya

00:42:12 --> 00:42:13

muta'midan.

00:42:14 --> 00:42:17

Whoever lie upon my saying, I say this,

00:42:17 --> 00:42:20

you twist and turn, you say, but you

00:42:20 --> 00:42:20

use my name.

00:42:21 --> 00:42:24

Because the Prophet name, the saying of the

00:42:24 --> 00:42:26

Prophet have authority.

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For the believers, when you say, Prophet Muhammad

00:42:31 --> 00:42:32

said, reference is here.

00:42:33 --> 00:42:41

In any religious court, even the judge have

00:42:41 --> 00:42:41

to listen.

00:42:43 --> 00:42:45

If the judge are not well versed in

00:42:45 --> 00:42:48

that particular area, somebody quote the saying of,

00:42:49 --> 00:42:52

if not, you fail to be a religious

00:42:52 --> 00:42:52

judge.

00:42:53 --> 00:42:58

In a maqamah shariah, the judge will ask

00:42:58 --> 00:43:01

you, but if you have your hujjah, your

00:43:01 --> 00:43:04

dalil, a good judge would then not say,

00:43:06 --> 00:43:08

no, I don't follow that.

00:43:09 --> 00:43:10

They only listen.

00:43:11 --> 00:43:13

Because what is shariah?

00:43:15 --> 00:43:17

Islamic law, what is Islamic law?

00:43:18 --> 00:43:20

Where do you get the Islamic law?

00:43:20 --> 00:43:23

The Islamic law is what Allah said in

00:43:23 --> 00:43:26

the Quran, and what the Prophet Muhammad have

00:43:26 --> 00:43:27

taught us.

00:43:27 --> 00:43:28

That's all.

00:43:30 --> 00:43:32

Opinion can be argued.

00:43:34 --> 00:43:36

You say opinion, but I have another opinion.

00:43:37 --> 00:43:37

There's no end.

00:43:39 --> 00:43:43

But when Allah said, no Muslim judge dare

00:43:43 --> 00:43:44

to say, Allah is wrong.

00:43:45 --> 00:43:46

Nobody can.

00:43:47 --> 00:43:51

If the Prophet saying is authentic, nobody can

00:43:51 --> 00:43:54

deny, unless they can come up with another

00:43:54 --> 00:43:56

saying of the Prophet.

00:43:57 --> 00:43:58

But the Prophet did say this.

00:44:00 --> 00:44:03

Both can be true, then you harmonize it.

00:44:04 --> 00:44:06

One is false, one is true.

00:44:06 --> 00:44:07

You follow what is true.

00:44:09 --> 00:44:10

That's how you move on.

00:44:14 --> 00:44:16

So the Prophet, peace be upon him, who

00:44:16 --> 00:44:19

was immune to the whispering of the devil,

00:44:20 --> 00:44:25

the Satan, and who's saying approved upon mankind,

00:44:27 --> 00:44:32

and Surah 13, verse 11, Allah remind for

00:44:32 --> 00:44:36

each person, there are angels in succession, before

00:44:36 --> 00:44:39

and behind that person.

00:44:39 --> 00:44:42

They got him by the command of Allah.

00:44:42 --> 00:44:46

Every one of us have angels with us.

00:44:50 --> 00:44:54

But also in other ayah, Allah say, we

00:44:54 --> 00:44:55

also have one jinni.

00:44:56 --> 00:44:58

Every one of us have a jinn.

00:44:59 --> 00:45:01

You like or not, he is there.

00:45:04 --> 00:45:08

The old days, the traditional way, they call

00:45:08 --> 00:45:08

Saka.

00:45:10 --> 00:45:13

You remember the Malay use this term, they

00:45:13 --> 00:45:14

call Saka.

00:45:15 --> 00:45:21

That mean you inherit, your grand-grandparents inherit

00:45:21 --> 00:45:27

something, something spiritual, and then now, if they

00:45:27 --> 00:45:30

die, somebody must take over, inherit it.

00:45:32 --> 00:45:35

That is the traditional way of expression.

00:45:36 --> 00:45:39

The real thing is, every one of us

00:45:39 --> 00:45:41

have a jinni in us.

00:45:43 --> 00:45:45

That's why when Allah say this in the

00:45:45 --> 00:45:49

Quran, then Aisha ask the Prophet, so you

00:45:49 --> 00:45:53

also have a jinn, Karim, the word that

00:45:53 --> 00:45:54

Allah use, Karim.

00:45:56 --> 00:45:59

First talk about angel, and also talk about

00:45:59 --> 00:45:59

Karim.

00:46:02 --> 00:46:04

So Allah is telling us, what is with

00:46:04 --> 00:46:05

us.

00:46:07 --> 00:46:09

We should know, know yourself better.

00:46:12 --> 00:46:15

But then the Prophet say, yes, I also

00:46:15 --> 00:46:16

have a Karim.

00:46:16 --> 00:46:23

Every one have, but my Karim have became

00:46:23 --> 00:46:28

a Muslim, because the Prophet is so good.

00:46:29 --> 00:46:32

He never entertain all the whispering.

00:46:33 --> 00:46:35

He is immune from all this whispering.

00:46:36 --> 00:46:39

He come, he will just brush it away.

00:46:40 --> 00:46:44

Overcome with positive, overcome anything negative, you overcome

00:46:44 --> 00:46:44

with positive.

00:46:44 --> 00:46:49

That's why the Prophet is so blessed.

00:46:51 --> 00:46:52

He stay calm all the way.

00:46:53 --> 00:46:55

Nobody can corrupt him.

00:46:56 --> 00:46:57

Dunya cannot corrupt him.

00:46:58 --> 00:47:03

Even people offer him all the dunya, he

00:47:03 --> 00:47:03

don't accept.

00:47:08 --> 00:47:12

Our Karim never become Muslim until today.

00:47:13 --> 00:47:16

Because we entertain him a lot.

00:47:18 --> 00:47:22

All the whispering, we love whispering.

00:47:23 --> 00:47:26

All the doubtful thing, we love.

00:47:27 --> 00:47:32

All the doubtful, the waswa, like this.

00:47:33 --> 00:47:36

We like to go into the gray area.

00:47:37 --> 00:47:39

When we know gray area, we just create

00:47:39 --> 00:47:41

confusion.

00:47:42 --> 00:47:47

That's why the Prophet said, stay away from

00:47:47 --> 00:47:48

bad thoughts.

00:47:49 --> 00:47:50

Iyakumozun.

00:47:52 --> 00:47:55

Because anything that whisper into you, you don't

00:47:55 --> 00:47:57

have hard evidence.

00:47:57 --> 00:47:58

That's he said.

00:47:59 --> 00:48:05

If you entertain the ending, you know that

00:48:05 --> 00:48:09

you have been unjust to yourself, and unjust

00:48:09 --> 00:48:10

to other people.

00:48:11 --> 00:48:12

Just ignore.

00:48:12 --> 00:48:14

That's why you know, I always share with

00:48:14 --> 00:48:16

all of you the Hadith.

00:48:16 --> 00:48:17

You remember short Hadith?

00:48:20 --> 00:48:22

You just follow me to recite this.

00:48:23 --> 00:48:24

I want all of you to memorize this

00:48:24 --> 00:48:26

for your future.

00:48:27 --> 00:48:29

Da ma yaribuka.

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Follow me.

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Da ma yaribuka ila ma la yaribuk.

00:48:41 --> 00:48:41

Again.

00:48:42 --> 00:48:49

Da ma yaribuka ila ma la yaribuk.

00:48:52 --> 00:48:52

Continue.

00:48:57 --> 00:48:58

Again.

00:48:58 --> 00:48:59

Follow me.

00:48:59 --> 00:49:00

Last one.

00:49:00 --> 00:49:09

Da ma yaribuka ila ma la yaribuk.

00:49:12 --> 00:49:12

Right?

00:49:17 --> 00:49:19

Ma la yaribuk.

00:49:20 --> 00:49:22

The yaribuk, yaruk is the same.

00:49:22 --> 00:49:25

Only da and then ma yaribuka, then the

00:49:25 --> 00:49:28

next one, ma la yaribuk.

00:49:29 --> 00:49:30

Got the addition of la.

00:49:32 --> 00:49:36

Meaning the Prophet is teaching all of us

00:49:36 --> 00:49:38

how to move on in life, how to

00:49:38 --> 00:49:42

be happy, and make other people also happy.

00:49:42 --> 00:49:47

Stay away from anything doubtful, anything that is

00:49:47 --> 00:49:55

great, to some area that is clear for

00:49:55 --> 00:49:55

you.

00:49:57 --> 00:50:00

Mean don't entertain whispering.

00:50:01 --> 00:50:05

We have no time to entertain all this.

00:50:07 --> 00:50:12

Don't unnecessarily develop bad thoughts to one another.

00:50:12 --> 00:50:13

Always have good feeling.

00:50:14 --> 00:50:16

Good for you, good for everybody.

00:50:19 --> 00:50:21

It's very important.

00:50:21 --> 00:50:25

Life, if you are guided, alhamdulillah.

00:50:27 --> 00:50:31

So for the angel, of course, angel is

00:50:31 --> 00:50:33

there to guide you, but the Karim is

00:50:33 --> 00:50:36

there to whisper into you.

00:50:36 --> 00:50:37

And that's why we have a lot of

00:50:37 --> 00:50:39

trial and challenges.

00:50:40 --> 00:50:43

One can sense the joy of righteous person

00:50:44 --> 00:50:49

by his mannerism and by his treating or

00:50:49 --> 00:50:50

trading the straight path.

00:50:51 --> 00:50:54

He know that he has a lot, that

00:50:54 --> 00:50:57

he has a role model in the messenger

00:50:57 --> 00:51:01

of Allah, means Prophet Muhammad, peace be upon

00:51:01 --> 00:51:01

him.

00:51:02 --> 00:51:05

He has the book of Allah in his

00:51:05 --> 00:51:06

hand, alhamdulillah.

00:51:06 --> 00:51:09

Every Muslim today own a Quran.

00:51:11 --> 00:51:13

Anybody who don't have Quran, if you have

00:51:13 --> 00:51:15

friend who want a Quran they don't have,

00:51:16 --> 00:51:17

you can come to us.

00:51:18 --> 00:51:20

You want in Mandarin, we have in Mandarin.

00:51:21 --> 00:51:23

You want English, we have English.

00:51:24 --> 00:51:26

You want Japanese, we have Japanese.

00:51:27 --> 00:51:29

Arabic, Arabic is common.

00:51:30 --> 00:51:35

Quran is in Arabic, inshallah.

00:51:35 --> 00:51:38

It's good that all of us have a

00:51:38 --> 00:51:39

Quran.

00:51:40 --> 00:51:45

Illumination in his heart, by reading the Quran

00:51:45 --> 00:51:51

with right intention, your heart will be lightened

00:51:52 --> 00:51:59

because the truth is nur, light.

00:51:59 --> 00:52:01

Light upon light.

00:52:03 --> 00:52:07

And a conscience that prompt him to do

00:52:07 --> 00:52:09

what is good.

00:52:10 --> 00:52:14

Once you have connected yourself with the Quran,

00:52:14 --> 00:52:17

you know whatever Allah want you to do

00:52:17 --> 00:52:18

is all the good thing.

00:52:19 --> 00:52:23

Never once Allah say he create good and

00:52:23 --> 00:52:23

bad.

00:52:24 --> 00:52:26

Qadar, halal, haram.

00:52:26 --> 00:52:28

But he never call you to eat haram,

00:52:29 --> 00:52:29

no.

00:52:30 --> 00:52:31

So eat halal.

00:52:31 --> 00:52:33

But he is the one who create.

00:52:34 --> 00:52:35

Good and bad he create.

00:52:35 --> 00:52:36

He create the jinn.

00:52:37 --> 00:52:38

He create the angel.

00:52:39 --> 00:52:41

Good, bad, right, wrong.

00:52:41 --> 00:52:43

But he said follow what is right.

00:52:46 --> 00:52:46

That's what.

00:52:47 --> 00:52:49

So you cannot say, why you blame me?

00:52:49 --> 00:52:50

Allah create what?

00:52:53 --> 00:52:54

So I just follow.

00:52:55 --> 00:52:57

You follow this way, I follow the other.

00:52:58 --> 00:52:59

It's from Allah.

00:53:00 --> 00:53:00

Yes.

00:53:02 --> 00:53:04

He create jannah, he create *.

00:53:05 --> 00:53:07

So where do you want to go?

00:53:07 --> 00:53:08

You want to go jannah?

00:53:09 --> 00:53:10

Then you follow the way to jannah.

00:53:10 --> 00:53:11

You want to go to *?

00:53:12 --> 00:53:13

It's your choice.

00:53:14 --> 00:53:18

Allah said, I show you two ways.

00:53:20 --> 00:53:22

You choose.

00:53:23 --> 00:53:25

But I choose for you this way.

00:53:28 --> 00:53:30

I choose the right way.

00:53:30 --> 00:53:31

Follow.

00:53:32 --> 00:53:35

But if you refuse to follow, then you

00:53:35 --> 00:53:37

don't ever dare say you are right.

00:53:38 --> 00:53:40

Don't ever say that.

00:53:43 --> 00:53:45

That's how we move on.

00:53:45 --> 00:53:45

Simple.

00:53:46 --> 00:53:48

We have the guidance.

00:53:48 --> 00:53:50

And you don't want to follow the guidance.

00:53:51 --> 00:53:52

You still say you are guided.

00:53:56 --> 00:53:58

You don't waste your time to talk to

00:53:58 --> 00:53:58

this kind of people.

00:53:59 --> 00:54:02

In the Quran, in Surah Furqan, what did

00:54:02 --> 00:54:02

Allah say?

00:54:17 --> 00:54:22

The believers, the righteous people, when they move

00:54:22 --> 00:54:26

around on the earth of Allah, they will

00:54:26 --> 00:54:28

come across a lot of people.

00:54:29 --> 00:54:31

Of course, when you travel, you will be

00:54:31 --> 00:54:33

exposed to a lot of people.

00:54:34 --> 00:54:37

But when you come across a group of

00:54:37 --> 00:54:41

people who are jahiluna, who don't want to

00:54:41 --> 00:54:46

follow what is right, who don't want to

00:54:46 --> 00:54:49

be in the positive side, always negative, negative,

00:54:50 --> 00:54:53

always entertain all the whispering, always like to

00:54:53 --> 00:54:56

go into the doubtful area, the grey area.

00:54:56 --> 00:54:57

What did Allah say?

00:54:58 --> 00:54:59

Don't waste time.

00:55:00 --> 00:55:03

Just say to them salamat.

00:55:05 --> 00:55:08

I don't want to be around this environment.

00:55:09 --> 00:55:11

I have no time to waste.

00:55:12 --> 00:55:16

To entertain this nonsense and to listen to

00:55:16 --> 00:55:21

all the whispering that don't benefit me at

00:55:21 --> 00:55:21

all.

00:55:25 --> 00:55:28

This is very important, brother and sister, how

00:55:28 --> 00:55:29

to move ahead.

00:55:32 --> 00:55:36

So what Allah and the Prophet want us

00:55:36 --> 00:55:38

to do is to be a better person.

00:55:41 --> 00:55:45

In Surah 6, verse 88, Allah said the

00:55:45 --> 00:55:48

meaning, this is the guidance of Allah with

00:55:48 --> 00:55:52

which he guides whomever he will of his

00:55:52 --> 00:55:53

slave.

00:55:53 --> 00:55:53

It's up to us.

00:55:53 --> 00:55:55

He said, I show you two ways you

00:55:55 --> 00:55:56

choose.

00:55:56 --> 00:55:59

But remember, I choose for you my way

00:55:59 --> 00:56:03

and I inform you about the other way.

00:56:03 --> 00:56:06

Like what Allah said, this is my way.

00:56:10 --> 00:56:12

Don't follow other ways.

00:56:13 --> 00:56:19

Because the other way if you follow, That

00:56:19 --> 00:56:22

other way is sure, Allah said, will bring

00:56:22 --> 00:56:25

you further and further from the right way.

00:56:28 --> 00:56:30

Sometimes we are right, brothers and sisters.

00:56:31 --> 00:56:34

But because we are weak, we allow ourselves

00:56:34 --> 00:56:36

to be influenced by the environment.

00:56:37 --> 00:56:44

Then we get indirectly, we get influenced and

00:56:44 --> 00:56:45

we follow.

00:56:48 --> 00:56:50

There are two ways.

00:56:51 --> 00:56:53

One that is figurative and the other that

00:56:53 --> 00:56:55

has a physical reality.

00:56:56 --> 00:56:59

The first path is that of faith.

00:56:59 --> 00:57:01

It must be guided with Iman.

00:57:02 --> 00:57:05

Iman means, at least you must remember the

00:57:05 --> 00:57:07

six articles of faith.

00:57:07 --> 00:57:11

Remember Allah, the all-knowing, all-seeing.

00:57:13 --> 00:57:14

Then you know.

00:57:15 --> 00:57:17

If he knows everything, you should come back

00:57:17 --> 00:57:17

to him.

00:57:19 --> 00:57:20

Remember he created the angels.

00:57:22 --> 00:57:23

The angel is with us, don't worry.

00:57:24 --> 00:57:25

You are not alone.

00:57:25 --> 00:57:28

Brothers and sisters, never feel that you are

00:57:28 --> 00:57:28

alone.

00:57:29 --> 00:57:33

When there is nobody, you know there is

00:57:33 --> 00:57:34

someone else.

00:57:35 --> 00:57:36

That is better.

00:57:37 --> 00:57:39

Because the ones are the angels.

00:57:41 --> 00:57:44

But some people, they fear loneliness.

00:57:46 --> 00:57:48

All prophets go through seclusion.

00:57:50 --> 00:57:51

Why?

00:57:52 --> 00:57:55

Because they need that kind of peace.

00:57:58 --> 00:58:00

Some people fear darkness.

00:58:05 --> 00:58:08

Some young children who came to me and

00:58:08 --> 00:58:12

whispered to me, they used to call me

00:58:12 --> 00:58:14

also their grandfather figure.

00:58:15 --> 00:58:18

You know I fear darkness.

00:58:20 --> 00:58:22

If you need to go to the toilet,

00:58:22 --> 00:58:22

go.

00:58:23 --> 00:58:23

It is there.

00:58:23 --> 00:58:24

He cannot go.

00:58:26 --> 00:58:28

He needs somebody to guide him.

00:58:29 --> 00:58:30

He fears darkness.

00:58:30 --> 00:58:31

It is not dark, it is just that

00:58:31 --> 00:58:33

area, there is no light.

00:58:33 --> 00:58:36

But the light from here, it is okay

00:58:36 --> 00:58:36

for you.

00:58:36 --> 00:58:37

I don't know.

00:58:39 --> 00:58:42

So okay, we understand because they are children.

00:58:42 --> 00:58:44

We try to help them, guide them slowly.

00:58:45 --> 00:58:46

We hope they can get out of that.

00:58:47 --> 00:58:48

Faith is important.

00:58:49 --> 00:58:52

Which one treats in the transient life, a

00:58:52 --> 00:58:55

life that is fraught with temptation and desire.

00:58:56 --> 00:59:00

The second part is in the hereafter.

00:59:00 --> 00:59:03

Every person will have to go across the

00:59:03 --> 00:59:07

second, that second part, in order to reach

00:59:07 --> 00:59:08

paradise.

00:59:09 --> 00:59:13

Anyone who fails will plunge into the fire.

00:59:14 --> 00:59:17

This part, or you call it Sirat.

00:59:20 --> 00:59:24

Here, and there is a Sirat in the

00:59:24 --> 00:59:26

Day of Judgment, a bridge.

00:59:27 --> 00:59:31

It is teeming with spikes and there are

00:59:31 --> 00:59:32

a lot of thorns.

00:59:34 --> 00:59:35

It is not easy.

00:59:36 --> 00:59:38

It is like here, life is not smooth

00:59:38 --> 00:59:39

always.

00:59:39 --> 00:59:43

Full of challenges, obstacles, up and down.

00:59:44 --> 00:59:45

It is like the weather changes.

00:59:46 --> 00:59:48

Today raining, tomorrow sunny.

00:59:49 --> 00:59:51

Other countries, winter and then summer.

00:59:52 --> 00:59:53

Alhamdulillah, we are tropical.

00:59:54 --> 00:59:56

We always have rain, Alhamdulillah.

00:59:57 --> 01:00:00

We don't experience drought so far, Alhamdulillah.

01:00:01 --> 01:00:05

Even sometimes, you may feel it but not

01:00:05 --> 01:00:07

as severe like in Africa and in other

01:00:07 --> 01:00:08

countries.

01:00:12 --> 01:00:15

Whoever is guided to the path of faith

01:00:16 --> 01:00:20

and believe in this life, will safely cross

01:00:20 --> 01:00:22

the path of the hereafter.

01:00:23 --> 01:00:26

When you are guided with Iman, and you

01:00:26 --> 01:00:29

follow what your Iman wants you to do,

01:00:30 --> 01:00:35

then you will safely cross the bridge, Sirat,

01:00:35 --> 01:00:36

in the hereafter.

01:00:37 --> 01:00:40

The speed at which he crosses will be

01:00:40 --> 01:00:43

proportional to the level of his faith.

01:00:44 --> 01:00:46

That is why the Prophet said in one

01:00:46 --> 01:00:49

Hadith, Prophets all will pass through.

01:00:50 --> 01:00:51

They also have to pass through.

01:00:52 --> 01:00:55

But without any problem.

01:00:56 --> 01:00:58

They just move like lightning, cross, gone.

01:01:02 --> 01:01:04

But then there are people who will cross

01:01:04 --> 01:01:07

like running, very fast too.

01:01:08 --> 01:01:10

Then walking.

01:01:12 --> 01:01:15

Then there are people who cross like crawling,

01:01:16 --> 01:01:17

different, different level.

01:01:18 --> 01:01:24

As long as we can walk through, Alhamdulillah.

01:01:25 --> 01:01:27

Crawling is not a good sign.

01:01:29 --> 01:01:32

So, there are people who cross.

01:01:32 --> 01:01:35

Whereas the Prophet did say, after all the

01:01:35 --> 01:01:40

Prophet, there will be 70,000 among my

01:01:40 --> 01:01:45

Ummah who will cross the Sirat like lightning

01:01:45 --> 01:01:45

too.

01:01:49 --> 01:01:49

So fast.

01:01:49 --> 01:01:56

But then everybody before entering, that means you

01:01:56 --> 01:01:57

are out from *.

01:01:59 --> 01:02:02

But before you enter the gate of paradise,

01:02:03 --> 01:02:07

there is another smaller bridge called Al-Qantarah.

01:02:10 --> 01:02:11

That smaller one.

01:02:13 --> 01:02:15

For us who have not been a problem

01:02:15 --> 01:02:19

to anybody, you never oppress anybody.

01:02:19 --> 01:02:23

You are not zulm to anyone among Muslim.

01:02:24 --> 01:02:26

You don't owe your fellow brother or sister.

01:02:26 --> 01:02:27

You don't pay.

01:02:27 --> 01:02:30

You pay them back or they have make

01:02:30 --> 01:02:31

it halal for you.

01:02:31 --> 01:02:34

You don't have all this, then you go

01:02:34 --> 01:02:35

to paradise.

01:02:36 --> 01:02:39

Those who have commit sin to the fellow

01:02:39 --> 01:02:46

brothers and sister, create fitna to them, borrowed

01:02:46 --> 01:02:48

money and they don't pay.

01:02:49 --> 01:02:52

Remember, you may cross the long one, you

01:02:52 --> 01:02:54

got stuck over there.

01:02:54 --> 01:02:56

It's a waiting zone.

01:02:57 --> 01:02:59

Wait for the brother to come.

01:03:02 --> 01:03:04

And if you have been committing a lot

01:03:04 --> 01:03:07

of sin, gossiping about that person, talking, now

01:03:07 --> 01:03:09

pay back time.

01:03:10 --> 01:03:12

You have crossed the *, but you cannot

01:03:12 --> 01:03:13

enter paradise yet.

01:03:14 --> 01:03:15

You have to settle.

01:03:16 --> 01:03:17

Settlement day.

01:03:23 --> 01:03:24

Alhamdulillah.

01:03:24 --> 01:03:26

But you are not entering paradise yet.

01:03:27 --> 01:03:28

How do you feel?

01:03:29 --> 01:03:31

You are just at the gate of paradise.

01:03:31 --> 01:03:36

You can see all your friends enjoying the

01:03:36 --> 01:03:38

delight, but you are just at the gate.

01:03:40 --> 01:03:42

Of course, you don't feel good.

01:03:42 --> 01:03:44

Just waiting to go in.

01:03:45 --> 01:03:47

But you have to clear that.

01:03:48 --> 01:03:51

For those who have been gossiping, talking bad

01:03:51 --> 01:03:55

about the fellow Muslim, nobody is perfect like

01:03:55 --> 01:03:56

I said.

01:03:56 --> 01:03:59

But people change, but we don't change.

01:04:01 --> 01:04:04

Then you have to be there to wait

01:04:04 --> 01:04:07

for him, and now pay back day.

01:04:08 --> 01:04:10

He has gone through some pain in this

01:04:10 --> 01:04:15

life because of your fitna, gossiping, or you

01:04:15 --> 01:04:16

take money.

01:04:16 --> 01:04:19

He also borrowed money from other people later

01:04:19 --> 01:04:21

on, but he cleared it.

01:04:22 --> 01:04:24

But you owe him, you don't clear.

01:04:24 --> 01:04:26

You have to wait for him to come.

01:04:28 --> 01:04:33

And then Allah will show you His justice.

01:04:35 --> 01:04:37

If you commit a lot of sins by

01:04:37 --> 01:04:44

gossiping now, first thing, his bad deeds have

01:04:44 --> 01:04:46

been transferred to you.

01:04:47 --> 01:04:49

Because you like to entertain the bad one.

01:04:50 --> 01:04:53

So all these bad things back to you.

01:04:53 --> 01:04:54

Now not enough.

01:04:54 --> 01:04:57

You still, because your gossiping is worse than

01:04:57 --> 01:05:01

that, your good deeds will be transferred to

01:05:01 --> 01:05:01

him.

01:05:03 --> 01:05:04

If you think you have a lot of

01:05:04 --> 01:05:06

good deeds to transfer, Alhamdulillah.

01:05:09 --> 01:05:11

If you think that you have a lot

01:05:11 --> 01:05:13

of good deeds to share with other people,

01:05:14 --> 01:05:14

Alhamdulillah.

01:05:14 --> 01:05:15

If you know, I don't know.

01:05:16 --> 01:05:17

My good deeds, no?

01:05:18 --> 01:05:19

Is how many percent?

01:05:20 --> 01:05:21

Then you better be careful.

01:05:22 --> 01:05:26

If you take money, you promise to pay

01:05:26 --> 01:05:28

back, but you have the intention not to

01:05:28 --> 01:05:28

pay.

01:05:29 --> 01:05:31

You try to escape, you try to run

01:05:31 --> 01:05:34

away, ignore the whole situation, you wait.

01:05:35 --> 01:05:36

That day of judgment.

01:05:37 --> 01:05:40

If he forgive you, Alhamdulillah.

01:05:41 --> 01:05:43

If you say, pay back.

01:05:44 --> 01:05:45

Why you don't have to?

01:05:45 --> 01:05:46

There's no money in.

01:05:48 --> 01:05:50

But it's your good deeds.

01:05:50 --> 01:05:52

You have to pay back.

01:05:53 --> 01:05:55

You don't want to do that.

01:05:55 --> 01:05:58

You need your good deeds to help you

01:05:58 --> 01:05:59

to go to paradise.

01:06:00 --> 01:06:02

And paradise, they got 100 levels.

01:06:04 --> 01:06:07

And for us, the Prophet said, don't be

01:06:07 --> 01:06:09

shy when you ask Allah for paradise.

01:06:10 --> 01:06:11

Ask for the best.

01:06:12 --> 01:06:14

Fardaws Al-A'lam.

01:06:14 --> 01:06:15

No problem.

01:06:15 --> 01:06:18

Hope that you will be in the highest

01:06:18 --> 01:06:19

paradise.

01:06:20 --> 01:06:23

If you're given a choice to take a

01:06:23 --> 01:06:29

flight, business class, first class, economy, what do

01:06:29 --> 01:06:29

you choose?

01:06:32 --> 01:06:34

What class do you choose?

01:06:36 --> 01:06:37

Any class?

01:06:38 --> 01:06:39

You give a choice.

01:06:40 --> 01:06:40

You're going to pay.

01:06:40 --> 01:06:41

It's me.

01:06:41 --> 01:06:42

Which one?

01:06:42 --> 01:06:43

Okay, first class.

01:06:45 --> 01:06:46

Why not?

01:06:46 --> 01:06:49

If you're given a choice, you don't burden

01:06:49 --> 01:06:50

anybody.

01:06:50 --> 01:06:51

They already said, no problem.

01:06:52 --> 01:06:54

Because somebody don't like to be in the

01:06:54 --> 01:06:55

first class.

01:06:56 --> 01:06:57

Too lonely.

01:06:58 --> 01:06:59

One.

01:07:00 --> 01:07:02

It's like you isolate yourself.

01:07:03 --> 01:07:04

They like the third class.

01:07:06 --> 01:07:06

We don't know.

01:07:07 --> 01:07:08

Different people have different taste.

01:07:09 --> 01:07:12

First class, not very quiet.

01:07:13 --> 01:07:13

Not a lot of talking.

01:07:13 --> 01:07:16

Third class, just side by side.

01:07:19 --> 01:07:24

Sometimes I experienced, in the third class, I

01:07:24 --> 01:07:26

got five passengers.

01:07:27 --> 01:07:28

They are wrestlers.

01:07:30 --> 01:07:31

All body built.

01:07:31 --> 01:07:34

They're going to a country because there is

01:07:34 --> 01:07:35

a competition.

01:07:36 --> 01:07:38

They talk only Allah knows.

01:07:38 --> 01:07:40

Because they are big size.

01:07:41 --> 01:07:43

They are not afraid and nobody can challenge

01:07:43 --> 01:07:43

that.

01:07:44 --> 01:07:45

They will talk.

01:07:47 --> 01:07:48

So loud.

01:07:49 --> 01:07:52

Even the stewardess, they're not even stop them.

01:07:55 --> 01:07:58

That's how sometimes third class have a lot

01:07:58 --> 01:07:59

of noise.

01:08:01 --> 01:08:02

But if you're given the choice.

01:08:03 --> 01:08:08

So this is just another example.

01:08:08 --> 01:08:10

You ask for the best.

01:08:12 --> 01:08:14

But people who take money, borrow money with

01:08:14 --> 01:08:16

the intention they will not pay.

01:08:17 --> 01:08:17

They have to wait.

01:08:18 --> 01:08:20

You create zulm to your brothers.

01:08:23 --> 01:08:26

But then if you really want to pay

01:08:26 --> 01:08:28

but you don't have the mean.

01:08:30 --> 01:08:32

You really want to pay but you don't.

01:08:32 --> 01:08:34

And then you ask them to forgive you.

01:08:34 --> 01:08:35

They say no.

01:08:38 --> 01:08:39

A debt is a debt.

01:08:41 --> 01:08:43

Then you are very sincere.

01:08:43 --> 01:08:44

You are not lying.

01:08:44 --> 01:08:45

You are cheating.

01:08:45 --> 01:08:47

You don't make zulm to him.

01:08:47 --> 01:08:49

Then you don't have to worry.

01:08:49 --> 01:08:52

You know what will happen in the day

01:08:52 --> 01:08:52

at Qantara?

01:08:55 --> 01:08:58

The man that we follow, Prophet Muhammad, if

01:08:58 --> 01:09:04

we follow, then he will be there waiting

01:09:04 --> 01:09:05

for us.

01:09:06 --> 01:09:09

Can you imagine how important to follow the

01:09:09 --> 01:09:09

sunnah?

01:09:10 --> 01:09:14

When the Prophet love us, he will be

01:09:14 --> 01:09:14

there.

01:09:15 --> 01:09:17

And what will he do?

01:09:18 --> 01:09:20

Then he will negotiate for us.

01:09:21 --> 01:09:24

He will talk to the one who give

01:09:24 --> 01:09:24

you the money.

01:09:25 --> 01:09:30

Would you just forgive him or her?

01:09:31 --> 01:09:35

In replace, I give you my intercession, shafa

01:09:35 --> 01:09:36

'ah.

01:09:38 --> 01:09:41

What is more valuable than the shafa'ah

01:09:41 --> 01:09:42

of the Prophet?

01:09:44 --> 01:09:46

Even you get back the money, there is

01:09:46 --> 01:09:48

no supermarket there, no shop.

01:09:50 --> 01:09:52

When you go to paradise, everything free.

01:09:54 --> 01:09:55

You don't have to buy.

01:09:56 --> 01:09:58

You want diamond, diamond come.

01:09:59 --> 01:10:01

You want Kentucky chicken, Kentucky will come.

01:10:02 --> 01:10:03

You want pizza, pizza come.

01:10:04 --> 01:10:07

Anything you want, you just name it, Allah

01:10:07 --> 01:10:08

send it to you.

01:10:09 --> 01:10:12

And everything is organic.

01:10:13 --> 01:10:14

No ajimoto.

01:10:15 --> 01:10:18

You don't have all this nonsense.

01:10:18 --> 01:10:21

Everything is very healthy.

01:10:23 --> 01:10:24

Allahu akbar.

01:10:25 --> 01:10:28

So the Prophet will come and say, if

01:10:28 --> 01:10:30

you forgive him, of course.

01:10:30 --> 01:10:31

Who don't want to forgive?

01:10:32 --> 01:10:35

To get the intercession, shafa'ah from the

01:10:35 --> 01:10:35

Prophet.

01:10:36 --> 01:10:39

The most valuable reward.

01:10:41 --> 01:10:42

Then clear.

01:10:43 --> 01:10:46

You can go in and we also can

01:10:46 --> 01:10:46

go in.

01:10:49 --> 01:10:49

Is that good?

01:10:50 --> 01:10:51

Good news?

01:10:52 --> 01:10:53

Alhamdulillah.

01:10:54 --> 01:10:58

Try our best not to do anything that

01:10:58 --> 01:11:01

can stop us from entering paradise.

01:11:02 --> 01:11:04

You have done something wrong, stop.

01:11:05 --> 01:11:07

And if the person pass away, you can't

01:11:07 --> 01:11:08

do anything anymore.

01:11:09 --> 01:11:11

If you still owe him money, look for

01:11:11 --> 01:11:12

his next of kin.

01:11:14 --> 01:11:17

Your father, your mother was very kind.

01:11:18 --> 01:11:20

He lend me thousand ringgit but I forget

01:11:20 --> 01:11:21

to pay back.

01:11:21 --> 01:11:22

Now I have the mean.

01:11:23 --> 01:11:25

You are the daughter or the son, thousand.

01:11:26 --> 01:11:26

Give.

01:11:27 --> 01:11:31

Now you don't even know any of the

01:11:31 --> 01:11:32

next of kin.

01:11:33 --> 01:11:34

We don't have any contact.

01:11:35 --> 01:11:38

You still can do and say, this is

01:11:38 --> 01:11:40

my sadaqah on their behalf.

01:11:41 --> 01:11:44

To some poor and needy, a thousand ringgit.

01:11:47 --> 01:11:48

You still can do all this.

01:11:48 --> 01:11:49

Allah knows.

01:11:51 --> 01:11:53

Any day of judgment, don't worry.

01:11:54 --> 01:11:56

You have done your best and every good

01:11:56 --> 01:11:58

deed will be taken into account.

01:12:00 --> 01:12:02

It's very, very important.

01:12:05 --> 01:12:08

And know that if one is blessed, we've

01:12:08 --> 01:12:10

been guided to the straight path.

01:12:11 --> 01:12:11

Siratul Mustaqim.

01:12:12 --> 01:12:16

His or her worries and anxiety will quickly

01:12:16 --> 01:12:17

vanish.

01:12:18 --> 01:12:20

We all have this issue.

01:12:20 --> 01:12:22

Worry, it will go.

01:12:23 --> 01:12:27

Normally, do we sleep in peace every night?

01:12:29 --> 01:12:31

Is easy for us to sleep at night?

01:12:33 --> 01:12:34

I think it's easy.

01:12:35 --> 01:12:36

When you get tired, you sleep.

01:12:39 --> 01:12:41

But somebody has a sleepless night.

01:12:42 --> 01:12:48

A lot of worry, anxiety, uncertainty disturb them.

01:12:49 --> 01:12:49

Nothing.

01:12:50 --> 01:12:52

They can't feel peace for themselves.

01:12:53 --> 01:12:54

And what did Allah say?

01:13:00 --> 01:13:04

Indeed, by remembering Allah and what Allah wants

01:13:04 --> 01:13:06

you to do, you try your best to

01:13:06 --> 01:13:06

do.

01:13:07 --> 01:13:09

And what He forbids, you stay away.

01:13:10 --> 01:13:11

That's how you remember Allah.

01:13:12 --> 01:13:13

Not just zikr, zikr, zikr.

01:13:13 --> 01:13:14

But you still do a lot of bad

01:13:14 --> 01:13:15

things.

01:13:16 --> 01:13:18

Remember what He likes you to do, you

01:13:18 --> 01:13:18

do.

01:13:19 --> 01:13:22

Remember what He dislikes, you stay away.

01:13:22 --> 01:13:24

You may not be able to do everything,

01:13:25 --> 01:13:31

but Allah said, See how Allah is talking

01:13:31 --> 01:13:32

to us?

01:13:33 --> 01:13:40

If you can't do everything, Allah said, Do

01:13:40 --> 01:13:42

what you can first.

01:13:44 --> 01:13:46

Don't say, I can't do, I don't want

01:13:46 --> 01:13:46

to do.

01:13:47 --> 01:13:48

Do what you can.

01:13:51 --> 01:13:51

Simple.

01:13:52 --> 01:13:56

Allah said, I will not burden you.

01:13:56 --> 01:13:58

Do whatever you can.

01:13:59 --> 01:14:02

Is that a good sign from Allah?

01:14:03 --> 01:14:04

And you must be sincere.

01:14:04 --> 01:14:06

You know what you can.

01:14:06 --> 01:14:10

You don't create unnecessary problems to yourself.

01:14:10 --> 01:14:12

You know what you can, what you are

01:14:12 --> 01:14:14

able, just do it.

01:14:17 --> 01:14:19

To say sorry, can you say that?

01:14:19 --> 01:14:20

If you have done something wrong to somebody,

01:14:21 --> 01:14:23

can you say, I am sorry?

01:14:25 --> 01:14:25

Can we say that?

01:14:26 --> 01:14:27

So simple.

01:14:30 --> 01:14:31

Now you have the handphone.

01:14:33 --> 01:14:34

Give them a call.

01:14:37 --> 01:14:41

You have hurt your father, your mother, hurt

01:14:41 --> 01:14:43

your sibling, give them a call.

01:14:44 --> 01:14:46

Brother, I am sorry, I just said something

01:14:46 --> 01:14:47

that just now.

01:14:48 --> 01:14:50

I know, I may have hurt your feeling.

01:14:50 --> 01:14:51

I didn't mean it.

01:14:52 --> 01:14:53

I am sorry for that.

01:14:54 --> 01:14:55

I am regret.

01:14:56 --> 01:14:57

Is that easy?

01:14:58 --> 01:14:58

Easy.

01:14:59 --> 01:15:04

What stopped you?

01:15:05 --> 01:15:07

What stopped you from moving forward and be

01:15:07 --> 01:15:08

humble?

01:15:09 --> 01:15:10

What stopped you?

01:15:11 --> 01:15:11

Right.

01:15:13 --> 01:15:15

Ego, plus super ego.

01:15:17 --> 01:15:18

Who give you that?

01:15:20 --> 01:15:22

Then you know where it come from.

01:15:23 --> 01:15:24

Your jinn, your kareen.

01:15:25 --> 01:15:25

Don't.

01:15:27 --> 01:15:27

You are okay.

01:15:28 --> 01:15:29

Don't show your weakness.

01:15:31 --> 01:15:32

Hold on, hold on.

01:15:34 --> 01:15:35

You know where it is coming.

01:15:36 --> 01:15:39

Because if you always remember what Allah said,

01:15:39 --> 01:15:41

Allah is talking to us.

01:15:41 --> 01:15:45

All the bad thing, the whispering, come from

01:15:45 --> 01:15:45

the other force.

01:15:46 --> 01:15:49

All the good thing come from the good

01:15:49 --> 01:15:50

force.

01:15:50 --> 01:15:51

Just follow what is good.

01:15:52 --> 01:15:54

Then you can sleep in peace.

01:15:54 --> 01:15:56

Because you have said to him, I am

01:15:56 --> 01:15:56

sorry.

01:15:58 --> 01:16:02

Or, when you call call, he don't want

01:16:02 --> 01:16:03

to respond to your call anymore.

01:16:06 --> 01:16:06

Are you worried?

01:16:08 --> 01:16:11

The person that you always communicate suddenly don't

01:16:11 --> 01:16:12

want to respond to you.

01:16:12 --> 01:16:12

Are you worried?

01:16:14 --> 01:16:15

Sometime ya.

01:16:15 --> 01:16:17

Wow, he must be very upset.

01:16:19 --> 01:16:25

Send a message to my fellow brother, my

01:16:25 --> 01:16:26

respected brother, my sister.

01:16:27 --> 01:16:29

I love you for the sake of, I

01:16:29 --> 01:16:31

did, I know I have said something wrong.

01:16:32 --> 01:16:34

I regret, I am sorry.

01:16:34 --> 01:16:35

Please forgive me.

01:16:36 --> 01:16:37

Send a message.

01:16:38 --> 01:16:39

Can we do that?

01:16:40 --> 01:16:41

Simple.

01:16:42 --> 01:16:44

No, no, no, no, no.

01:16:44 --> 01:16:47

Suddenly, he just said, it's okay.

01:16:50 --> 01:16:52

He just said, okay.

01:16:52 --> 01:16:55

Alhamdulillah, you can rest, you can rest in

01:16:55 --> 01:16:55

peace.

01:16:56 --> 01:16:59

If you die that night, you will die

01:16:59 --> 01:16:59

in peace.

01:17:01 --> 01:17:04

Because, you have done your best.

01:17:05 --> 01:17:08

Why Satan is being cursed by Allah until

01:17:08 --> 01:17:09

today?

01:17:09 --> 01:17:11

Because of his stubbornness.

01:17:12 --> 01:17:16

No, Allah was stubborn, pride and said, no.

01:17:18 --> 01:17:22

Adam commit a sin, Eve commit a sin,

01:17:22 --> 01:17:26

Satan commit a sin, but then Allah forgive

01:17:26 --> 01:17:29

Adam and Eve because he ask for forgiveness.

01:17:30 --> 01:17:32

Satan never ask for forgiveness.

01:17:35 --> 01:17:37

So, choice is us.

01:17:39 --> 01:17:41

If you are guided, follow the guidance.

01:17:42 --> 01:17:44

May Allah help us, protect us.

01:17:44 --> 01:17:49

If not, we have a lot to be

01:17:49 --> 01:17:49

sad.

01:17:50 --> 01:17:53

When Allah show you a way out, Islam

01:17:53 --> 01:17:56

always guide us to be a better person.

01:17:57 --> 01:17:58

We refuse to follow.

01:18:01 --> 01:18:02

Are we sad to see people who don't

01:18:02 --> 01:18:03

want to follow?

01:18:04 --> 01:18:05

Very sad.

01:18:06 --> 01:18:09

And then you pray again, and then you

01:18:09 --> 01:18:12

say, and then you don't follow again.

01:18:13 --> 01:18:17

And then you pray again, you don't follow.

01:18:18 --> 01:18:20

We feel very sad.

01:18:21 --> 01:18:23

Time to change, brother and sister.

01:18:25 --> 01:18:27

And for those who have been with us

01:18:27 --> 01:18:29

consistently, may Allah bless us.

01:18:29 --> 01:18:31

Whatever you have learned, please share with your

01:18:31 --> 01:18:32

loved one.

01:18:33 --> 01:18:37

Convey the message to them, encourage them to

01:18:37 --> 01:18:43

learn too, because sometimes by day attending classes,

01:18:43 --> 01:18:45

they will get also reward from Allah.

01:18:47 --> 01:18:49

Every step you make, there is a sin

01:18:49 --> 01:18:55

been forgiven, a status been upgrade, and a

01:18:55 --> 01:18:56

reward given.

01:18:57 --> 01:18:59

Can you measure how many steps you have

01:18:59 --> 01:19:00

done to enter this place?

01:19:01 --> 01:19:03

From your car to here, from your home,

01:19:04 --> 01:19:05

Allahu Akbar.

01:19:06 --> 01:19:09

If there's any question, now we open for

01:19:09 --> 01:19:09

Q&A.

01:19:12 --> 01:19:18

Any question from the...

01:19:18 --> 01:19:20

Peace be upon you, Dato' Shaykh.

01:19:20 --> 01:19:21

Peace be upon you too.

01:19:22 --> 01:19:24

I just want to share something and I

01:19:24 --> 01:19:26

want some clarification from you.

01:19:27 --> 01:19:30

Alhamdulillah, two months ago, I happen to be

01:19:30 --> 01:19:33

in Amsterdam, and then there happen to be

01:19:33 --> 01:19:37

Ijtimak Tabligh for all the Muslims around Europe

01:19:37 --> 01:19:38

in Holland itself.

01:19:38 --> 01:19:39

In Holland.

01:19:39 --> 01:19:42

And then recently there was Ijtimak in Sri

01:19:42 --> 01:19:44

Petaling which is for the what do you

01:19:44 --> 01:19:45

call it?

01:19:45 --> 01:19:46

Kuala Lumpur.

01:19:47 --> 01:19:51

I noticed that the talk, the one in

01:19:51 --> 01:19:53

Holland and also the one in Sri Petaling

01:19:53 --> 01:19:57

here, they seem to focus on the issue

01:19:57 --> 01:20:00

of Masturat.

01:20:01 --> 01:20:01

Masturat.

01:20:02 --> 01:20:02

Is it the right?

01:20:05 --> 01:20:05

Masturat.

01:20:06 --> 01:20:09

I mean, the participation of ladies in the

01:20:09 --> 01:20:09

Kuroj.

01:20:10 --> 01:20:11

In the Kuroj, okay.

01:20:11 --> 01:20:12

And in the Da'wah.

01:20:13 --> 01:20:13

Okay.

01:20:13 --> 01:20:18

So, they propose ladies to follow maybe the

01:20:18 --> 01:20:19

husband something like that.

01:20:20 --> 01:20:22

But the ladies more on a home-oriented

01:20:22 --> 01:20:24

basis, the husband will go to the mosque,

01:20:24 --> 01:20:28

the ladies at home receiving other ladies to

01:20:28 --> 01:20:30

their house and they do Da'wah in

01:20:30 --> 01:20:30

that sense.

01:20:30 --> 01:20:30

Okay.

01:20:31 --> 01:20:35

Now, my question is one of the examples

01:20:35 --> 01:20:38

that they give to show the active participation

01:20:39 --> 01:20:42

of ladies is during the Uhud War where,

01:20:42 --> 01:20:44

this one I need some clarification.

01:20:44 --> 01:20:50

When the enemy was almost dying, the ladies

01:20:50 --> 01:20:55

even helped them to kill, you know, in

01:20:55 --> 01:20:58

the course of Fisabila, to kill the enemy

01:20:58 --> 01:20:59

because they're dying.

01:20:59 --> 01:21:02

I mean, finish them off to say that

01:21:02 --> 01:21:05

how ladies were encouraged.

01:21:05 --> 01:21:06

That was the point.

01:21:06 --> 01:21:08

Encouraged to participate in Da'wah.

01:21:08 --> 01:21:10

Even in war or something like that.

01:21:10 --> 01:21:13

Now, my question is the simple hadith that

01:21:13 --> 01:21:15

we learn from Rasulullah peace be upon him.

01:21:15 --> 01:21:16

Correct me if I'm wrong.

01:21:17 --> 01:21:19

Even if to go prayer for ladies to

01:21:19 --> 01:21:23

a mosque, it is not encourageable but if

01:21:23 --> 01:21:26

at all they want to go, we are

01:21:26 --> 01:21:26

not supposed to?

01:21:28 --> 01:21:29

That is the basic one.

01:21:29 --> 01:21:32

So, what place in my mind is if

01:21:32 --> 01:21:37

a normal Salat which is wajib, which is

01:21:37 --> 01:21:42

very important, Allah never forced ladies to go

01:21:42 --> 01:21:44

out even to a mosque.

01:21:44 --> 01:21:48

How come in this Da'wah ladies are

01:21:48 --> 01:21:48

encouraged?

01:21:50 --> 01:21:52

Even with the consent of the husband.

01:21:52 --> 01:21:54

So, there was some confusion that I need

01:21:54 --> 01:21:55

to clarify.

01:21:55 --> 01:21:56

Thank you.

01:21:56 --> 01:21:57

Good, good.

01:21:59 --> 01:22:02

If I understood clearly what you're trying to

01:22:02 --> 01:22:04

share with us is that through your exposure

01:22:05 --> 01:22:07

that the Jama'at Tabligh when they estimate

01:22:07 --> 01:22:10

you can see now their force is increasing

01:22:10 --> 01:22:12

not only the male before only the male.

01:22:13 --> 01:22:15

So, the female would just be at home

01:22:15 --> 01:22:17

and make a lot of Dua'a for

01:22:17 --> 01:22:20

the husband, for the children so that they

01:22:20 --> 01:22:24

have a safe journey go and back home.

01:22:25 --> 01:22:28

Also, there is another challenges a lot of

01:22:28 --> 01:22:31

challenges for that that these people who like

01:22:31 --> 01:22:34

to travel go to Khorush, to Tabligh and

01:22:34 --> 01:22:37

so on they don't prepare themselves properly.

01:22:38 --> 01:22:41

They say, oh, I leave my wife Sabar,

01:22:42 --> 01:22:43

you know, Allah will help you because I'm

01:22:43 --> 01:22:48

doing Allah's job that is the beginning before.

01:22:49 --> 01:22:52

I am involved in Tabligh from the 60s

01:22:52 --> 01:22:54

that's how long ago.

01:22:55 --> 01:22:58

I knew then people have a lot of

01:22:58 --> 01:23:02

problem family problem you know that because they

01:23:02 --> 01:23:05

just travel, they love to travel they forget

01:23:05 --> 01:23:06

their responsibility at home.

01:23:07 --> 01:23:09

If you want to leave you don't leave

01:23:09 --> 01:23:11

them like that but give them whatever the

01:23:11 --> 01:23:16

necessity everything they want to survive the food

01:23:16 --> 01:23:17

you must get things prepared.

01:23:19 --> 01:23:22

You cannot just leave them Allah will help

01:23:22 --> 01:23:22

you.

01:23:24 --> 01:23:27

That is not the right manner number one.

01:23:28 --> 01:23:30

Things change like you said now they say

01:23:30 --> 01:23:33

the woman is going out only the way

01:23:33 --> 01:23:36

they participate is they don't go to Khorus

01:23:36 --> 01:23:39

door to door and the mosque they will

01:23:39 --> 01:23:42

stay in one the house home and then

01:23:42 --> 01:23:43

they get sister to come in.

01:23:45 --> 01:23:47

Now, Islamically there's nothing wrong.

01:23:49 --> 01:23:54

Like what you say the prophet don't encourage

01:23:54 --> 01:23:57

woman to go to the mosque but if

01:23:57 --> 01:23:59

any of the woman want to go don't

01:23:59 --> 01:24:00

stop them.

01:24:00 --> 01:24:04

That time you need to encourage the wife

01:24:04 --> 01:24:08

the one to participate to be proactive if

01:24:08 --> 01:24:10

not then there will be a problem to

01:24:10 --> 01:24:10

the man.

01:24:11 --> 01:24:13

You want to go they don't want they

01:24:13 --> 01:24:15

stop you what is this what is that

01:24:15 --> 01:24:20

no then there's a lot of unrest between

01:24:20 --> 01:24:20

both party.

01:24:21 --> 01:24:25

So an ayah of Allah is the best

01:24:26 --> 01:24:32

way out Allah said وَالْمُؤْمِنِينَ وَالْمُؤْمِنَةَ بَعْدُهُمْ أَوْلِيَا

01:24:32 --> 01:24:38

أُوبَعْ يَأْمُرُونَ بِالْمَعْرُوفِ يَنْحَوْنَ عَنِ الْمُنْكَرِ وَيُقِيمُونَ

01:24:38 --> 01:24:42

الصَّلَاةِ وَيُعْتُونَ الزَّكَّةِ until the end male and

01:24:42 --> 01:24:49

female believer compliment one another help one another

01:24:49 --> 01:24:54

in calling for what is good and forbid

01:24:54 --> 01:24:59

what is evil pray together give zakat also

01:24:59 --> 01:25:03

both also must give zakat so based on

01:25:03 --> 01:25:05

this ayah it's a duty of a family

01:25:06 --> 01:25:10

we help one another if the husband feel

01:25:10 --> 01:25:13

that I need your support come come out

01:25:13 --> 01:25:17

to help other sisters because you are more

01:25:17 --> 01:25:22

senior more learned Alhamdulillah if they feel that

01:25:22 --> 01:25:24

they don't need you then you feel don't

01:25:24 --> 01:25:27

worry I'll be okay at home I'll take

01:25:27 --> 01:25:29

care of the children I'll take care of

01:25:29 --> 01:25:33

the other things but there is nothing wrong

01:25:33 --> 01:25:36

if they feel that they need them to

01:25:36 --> 01:25:42

help other sisters that is very important we

01:25:42 --> 01:25:46

know that sometimes certain thing it's not easy

01:25:46 --> 01:25:48

it's just like yesterday people was asking me

01:25:48 --> 01:25:54

about woman going to the graveyard many countries

01:25:54 --> 01:25:59

other than our the Asian they don't allow

01:26:00 --> 01:26:02

you go to Sri Lanka you go to

01:26:02 --> 01:26:07

India Pakistan Afghanistan Middle East woman is not

01:26:07 --> 01:26:13

allowed to go to the graveyard enough because

01:26:13 --> 01:26:16

the prophet forbid there is hadith on that

01:26:17 --> 01:26:20

but later on a group of sisters in

01:26:20 --> 01:26:23

the time of the prophet when they went

01:26:23 --> 01:26:27

to visit the graveyard the prophet was there

01:26:27 --> 01:26:30

Omar was there but they were somewhere a

01:26:30 --> 01:26:35

bit far away don't disturb the man Omar

01:26:35 --> 01:26:38

was upset he know the prophet had forbid

01:26:38 --> 01:26:42

woman visiting the graveyard Omar was going to

01:26:42 --> 01:26:46

chase them the prophet stop him leave them

01:26:46 --> 01:26:51

alone that's why Umm Atiyah said the forbidden

01:26:51 --> 01:26:55

of the prophet is not very strong that's

01:26:55 --> 01:26:59

why he allowed some of them to visit

01:26:59 --> 01:27:03

the grave the reason he forbid because mature

01:27:03 --> 01:27:07

woman are very emotional they start to cry

01:27:07 --> 01:27:11

weep and then why, why you know it's

01:27:11 --> 01:27:15

something that they're complaining so the prophet don't

01:27:15 --> 01:27:18

like this for the woman who know how

01:27:18 --> 01:27:21

to control the feeling you know to respect

01:27:21 --> 01:27:24

the adab of visiting the grave just to

01:27:24 --> 01:27:29

make prayer and the prophet like to visit

01:27:29 --> 01:27:35

grave why to remind us about death that

01:27:35 --> 01:27:39

time the prophet just you know midnight he

01:27:39 --> 01:27:44

left his house with Aisha and then went

01:27:44 --> 01:27:49

to Bakyat and one day when Aisha was

01:27:49 --> 01:27:52

awake in the middle of the night and

01:27:52 --> 01:27:55

don't see the prophet around she's having some

01:27:55 --> 01:27:59

doubt tonight is my night suddenly the prophet

01:27:59 --> 01:28:02

disappeared did he went to the other wife's

01:28:02 --> 01:28:07

house he's trying to the prophet going to

01:28:07 --> 01:28:12

other other wife now it's my night and

01:28:12 --> 01:28:14

then he tried to look he can't find

01:28:14 --> 01:28:18

the prophet so when the prophet came back

01:28:18 --> 01:28:21

then he was trying to get some signal

01:28:22 --> 01:28:27

the prophet then realized that Aisha is awake

01:28:27 --> 01:28:31

and then she is not happy and then

01:28:31 --> 01:28:35

Aisha asked him where do you went I

01:28:35 --> 01:28:39

went to Bakyat I went to visit the

01:28:39 --> 01:28:44

grave so sometime for us to go to

01:28:44 --> 01:28:45

the grave in midnight I don't think where

01:28:45 --> 01:28:51

to go we have the phobia of ghost

01:28:51 --> 01:28:56

again but anytime visiting the grave is good

01:28:56 --> 01:28:59

reminder for the living one day we are

01:28:59 --> 01:29:03

going there but in general the women also

01:29:03 --> 01:29:05

can play their role if the husband need

01:29:05 --> 01:29:08

them it's good and if they have good

01:29:08 --> 01:29:12

reason that they don't it's ok you can

01:29:12 --> 01:29:16

go I will pray for it's also good

01:29:18 --> 01:29:24

Alhamdulillah any last question from the sisters none

01:29:24 --> 01:29:29

anyone any question online no good Alhamdulillah we

01:29:29 --> 01:29:32

end here brothers and sisters and please don't

01:29:32 --> 01:29:34

forget to keep on praying for each other

01:29:34 --> 01:29:39

and always think positive and try to follow

01:29:39 --> 01:29:41

the way that we have been asking Allah

01:29:41 --> 01:29:47

that is Ihdinas Siratal Mustaqim until we see

01:29:47 --> 01:29:49

all of you again that is end with

01:29:49 --> 01:29:54

Tasbih Al-Khifarah Subhanak Allahuma Wa Bi Hamdika

01:29:54 --> 01:30:01

Ashhadu An La Ilaha Illa Anta Astaghfiruka Wa

01:30:01 --> 01:30:06

Atubu Ilayka Assalamu Alaikum Wa Rahmatullah Wa Barakatuh

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