Husain Sattar – Standing in Shukr

Husain Sattar
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The church's body's constantly expanding body and swelling feet is part of human physiology, and actions are driven by a desire to worship and be thankful for actions. The importance of forgiveness and remembering to be thankful for everything is emphasized, as it is crucial for achieving spiritual maturity. The importance of gratitude and understanding the depth of blessings in life is emphasized, and the importance of not allowing anyone to tell others who are the worst brother in the world is emphasized.
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Muhammad

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On one occasion, the companions of Rasulullah Sallallahu

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Alaihi Wasallam,

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they noticed that

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the Prophet

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was so abundant in his worship

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that his feet began to swell.

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And there are a series of ahadith that

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discussed this notion of the prophet alaihi salam's

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feet swelling

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because he was so abundant in his worship.

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Now you know that when a person stands

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and if they stand for a long period

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of time, their feet begin to swell.

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You can ask,

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a teacher,

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a classroom teacher,

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who has to stand 7 or 8 hours

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a day sometimes,

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and they tell you that at the end

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of the day, their feet are swollen.

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You can ask, somebody who happens to work

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in a construction industry,

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and they spend most of the day

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on their feet. At the end of the

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day, they can clearly show you that their

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feet are swollen.

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So it's part of human physiology that when

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a human being stands for a long period

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of time, their feet begin to swell.

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Now

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people

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will have swollen feet for different circumstances. Some

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people say, I stood in line 8 hours

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to get tickets for a basketball game. My

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feet are so swollen.

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Some people will say, I work so hard

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in order to earn

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my wealth. My feet are swollen.

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But in the case of Rasool Allah radiates

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anam, ajeeb,

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that his feet were swollen

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through due to the worship of Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala. And how many people can say

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that I stood so long and prayed so

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long that my feet were swollen?

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Although it's it's not anything aji it's not

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anything particular to Surah

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Surah Alaihi Salam. It's not that only his

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feet were would swell were a person to

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stand that long.

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It's part of our human physiology. If anybody

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were to stand that long, they get swollen

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feet or edema. We call it edema medically.

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They get swollen feet.

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So this is one of the very special

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characteristics of Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam that he

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was so into his worship

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and so driven to worship Allah

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that consistently,

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you'll see in Hadith various people coming to

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Rasulullah SallAllahu Alaihi Wasallam and complaining that, Yeah

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Rasulullah, your feet are swollen

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because you're worshiping so much. It was a

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consistent thing. This wasn't something that happened once.

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It wasn't something that happened twice. It was

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something that regularly happened. He so regularly worshiped

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Allah,

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala,

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especially throughout the night that his feet would

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swell.

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Now the interesting thing is that

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we we should be able to appreciate that

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in and of itself.

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And and it and it's, it should be

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a mark of of a of a messenger

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in a way, because the messengers are the

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closest to Allah

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But the Sahaba, they took it one step

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further.

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And they came on on on some occasions,

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they came to Rasool Allah SAW Allahu Alaihi

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Wasallam and they said, you know, You Rasool

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Allah, you're worshiping so much

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and your feet are swelling when you worship.

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But isn't it that Allah has

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forgiven you?

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Isn't it that Allah

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has forgiven all of any any possibility of

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a mistake? Were a mistake to occur theoretically,

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were a mistake to occurred from you,

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it's it's established

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from the Quran that what is what any

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possible mistake that would be that that would

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occur by Rasulullah salallahu alaihi wasalam is already

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forgiven.

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So they would come to the messenger and

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they would say, yeah Rasulullah, you stand so

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much in prayer. You stand so much in

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worship, but

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everything is forgiven for you.

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And this highlights a very,

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important

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notion,

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in that

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many times the acts that we do, they're

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driven by, you know, by driven they're driven

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by some underlying

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desire. And one of the driving forces of

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acts of worship is forgiveness.

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Right? I mean, there's different reasons why people

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perform worship. One reason we perform worship is

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because we have to. Because my name is

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Mohammed, and Mohammed is supposed to be Muslim,

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and Muslims are supposed to pray. So the

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person simply prays. Either it's part of their

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culture or part of their habit or they

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were sort of raised that way or they

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just feel like it's something they have to

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do. So that's one thing that may drive

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a person to worship. Another thing that may

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drive a person to worship is they may

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be afraid.

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They may say, if I don't do this,

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what will Allah do with me on the

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day of judgment? I don't wanna go to

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the hellfire.

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So that would be a reason for a

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person to, be driven towards worship. Another person

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might say, I just wanna be in Jannah.

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I wanna I wanna live a life of

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a king. I want everything. I want to

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eat, and I want to just relax, and

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I want that all my wishes be fulfilled.

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And that may drive a person to to

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worship.

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And so sohaba, they came to Rasool Allah

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with one of the front under one one

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of the fundamental premises about of why per

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a person were with worship. And they said

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to him, Rasuulullah, you stand so much in

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prayer,

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and your feet are swollen.

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Yet isn't it that all of your sins

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involve the possibility, the fear the theoretically were

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some mistake to arise from you? Isn't it

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that that's already been forgiven, whether it be

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in the future or whether it be in

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the past?

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And so so also I sent him he

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made a statement that is often quoted by

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our scholars, and it's something that it's almost

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something that each of us should memorize.

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He just said a few words in response.

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He said, Afalaaqun

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Abdan Shaqura.

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If it's that Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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was so merciful to me,

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that were a mistake to arise it would

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be forgiven,

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then shouldn't I be thankful to my Lord?

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Shouldn't I do shukr of my lord?

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And that was enough.

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That rhetorical question, and it's a rhetorical question

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back to the Sahaba. It's not they're not

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expecting an answer. Oh, yeah. That's right. You're

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right. Just that statement

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wasn't enough to silence all of the companions

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and the scholars till the day of judgment,

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because it quiets everyone,

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because it highlights

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the underlying premise of the worship of Rasulullah

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SAW Alaihi Wasallam, which was shirkr of Allah

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala,

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Being thankful to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

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And that is the highest, one of the

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highest levels

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of what drives human beings to worship,

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is to be thankful.

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Now,

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when a person one of the one of

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the,

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signs

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of a person progressing towards Allah

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is that

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they

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learn to be thankful for that which they

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have

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as opposed to complaining

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for that which they don't have.

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It's a very important premise in our deen.

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One of the signs of approach of towards

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Allah

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is that the servant learns

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to be thankful for that which they have

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as opposed to complaining for that which they

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don't have.

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And it's when they reach such a status

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that

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the they become thankful to their Lord, and

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when they become thankful to their Lord, that

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becomes the fundamental

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driving force that leads them to worship. And

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it's in that circumstance

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that a person can easily worship hours at

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night.

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Easily worship hours at night. Now worshiping hours

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at night

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is not a laundry list thing it's not

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a listed thing that had if I put

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it on my checklist, it'll automatically occur.

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No. You can't do that. You could say,

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I'm gonna sleep all day, and I'm gonna

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worship all night. You won't be able to

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do it.

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You won't be able to do it with

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the drive and the desire that is is

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necessary in such a beautiful act.

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But what is what underlies that, and what

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allows the servant to approach and achieve that

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is thankfulness.

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It's when they learn to be thankful for

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what they have. Now, the goal of one

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of the one of the goals of Islam

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is that the servant learn to be thankful

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for what they have, and learn to look

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at what they have and say, and

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to not complain about something they don't have.

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These are two things that go hand in

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hand.

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And what is the goal of Shepah?

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The goal of Shepah is opposite.

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It's to make you forget the billions of

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blessings that have been bestowed upon you

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and to highlight and zoom in at high

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power on one

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thing that you don't have,

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and make you think that you have nothing

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because you don't have that one thing.

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And it's Ajib because each of us have

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been given billions of blessings, literally billions of

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blessings.

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Okay? And we've been given we have not

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been given just a few things.

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Everybody's been given billions of blessings and you

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haven't been given 5 or 10 things.

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And the Sharia says, Focus on the 1,000,000,000

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things that you've been given

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and don't worry about the 5 to 10

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things, that's a part of your patience in

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this life to show that you're thankful to

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Allah.

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And Sha'ban

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trains us or calls us to ignoring the

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billions of blessings

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and instead turning to the 2 or 3

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things that we don't have and making them

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the biggest issue in our life.

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And once that occurs now look, the person

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who learns to be thankful for any one

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of the billion things that they've been given,

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it's not even a 1,000,000,000 it's more than

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that. Because it clearly comes in the Quran

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that were you to count the blessings of

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Allah, you would not be able to do

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it. So it's got to be more than

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a 1000000000, but I'm just putting 1,000,000,000 as

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a number so that we can capture something

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in our mind.

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If we were to be thankful for even

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1 of the billions of blessings that we've

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been given,

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then

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our life would be made.

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And all Chaplain has to do is to

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make us complain about one thing, and he

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has his,

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he has you on the path that he

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wants you to be on. Because it wipes

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out the whole force behind worship.

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Now if a person,

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you know, ajeev, most people in the world

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don't even have a home.

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Right? You look at look at just look

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at globally globally. Look at look at all

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of humanity.

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Most people in the world don't have don't

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own their own home.

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Okay?

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But you'll meet Muslims, and they own their

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own home, and it's it's enough space for

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them. But rather than saying, Alhamdulillah,

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I have a home, they'll say, well, you

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know, I could use 500 more square feet.

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And, yeah, no, no, I this I I

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admit, you know, the the little person who's

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achieved a little bit more in the deen,

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no, no, no, no, brother, I admit this

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is a great house. The backyard's a little

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bit small.

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Right? Or, you know, No no no, I

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have no complaints about my house. Alhamdulillah, we

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pray here and everything, but I don't have

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a basement. I don't have a basement. You

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don't know how much how badly we need

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a basement.

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So this is human nature.

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Human nature is to forget about all that

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you've been given

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and to immediately focus on the one thing

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that we haven't been given or the 2

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things that we haven't been given and

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pound you know, hound on them, hound on

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them, hound on them,

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then that destroys human beings worship.

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Whereas the Prophet

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was so thankful for one blessing. What's the

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one blessing that Allah

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had overlooked the possibility of mistake?

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That that one blessing, one blessing

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drove him to worship at night

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over and over and over again, such that

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his feet would swell consistently.

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SubhanAllah. Now, you know, sometimes we hear ahadith,

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right? For example, you hear the hadith that

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an individual who makes wudu,

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his sins are washed away when he washes

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his hands,

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and His sins are washed away when He

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washes His feet,

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and His sins are washed away when He

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washes His face.

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How many of us have even prayed 2

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rakah to just thank Allah for that opportunity

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that occurs 5 times a day?

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That's such an I mean, that is an

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amazing opportunity that Allah gives us the opportunity

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to cleanse ourselves in such a way that

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we don't even have to do anything except

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wash with water,

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which is beneficial to us anyway. And that

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simple washing is not only washing away the

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filth, but it's washing away the sin as

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well.

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And how many of us can say that

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we prayed even one night to thank Allah

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that our wuglu is a mechanism by which

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we can be purified?

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How many of us can say that the

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we we know that the prophet

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established that each prayer wipes away the sins

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between the previous prayer? How many of us

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have prayed to raka even to thank Allah

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that you created you gave us the opportunity

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to pray, and it wipes away sin after

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sin after sin?

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How many of us have said, You Allah,

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thank you for the blessing of Ramadan, and

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we prayed one night to thank Allah for

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the blessing of Ramadan?

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How many of us in the case of

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Hajj, I'm fine, once in a lifetime, have

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not gone for Hajj, have thanked Allah for

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the Hajj.

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Going for Hajj is one thing, you know,

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we go for Hajj. But how many of

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us have come back from Hajj and then

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said, You Allah, you gave me this opportunity.

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Let me thank you in some way that

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I'm so thankful that I'm driven to not

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sleep this week because what you allowed me

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to perform was far beyond what my wildest

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dreams could have imagined.

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We don't we don't have that. We don't

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instead,

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we're looking at the things that we don't

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have,

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and we spend the night fighting about them.

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Husband and wife will stay up all night

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fighting with each other about why the food

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wasn't warm for dinner,

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or why a gift wasn't given on this

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day,

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and they'll argue hours at night.

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But neither of them have ever stood at

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stayed up any night to thank Allah for

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His blessings.

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But they can count so many nights that

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they stayed up and they fought.

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How many times people come and sit in

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front of me and they say, You don't

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know what a headache I have. My wife

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didn't let me sleep last night. She argued

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with me all night.

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People can people can quote the number of

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days,

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yet they can't quote the number of times

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that they thanked Allah.

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We you know, the the sign of a

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child

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is that they forget the blessings that Allah

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has given them, and they focus on the

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1 or 2 things that they don't have.

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And the sign of an Islamic adult, spiritually

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mature adult,

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is that they calculate the blessings, and they

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are so awed by one that they can't

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get to the next.

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They can't even move

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to the next because they're so awed by

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the first blessing the moment they reflect on

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it. They begin to reflect on the fact

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that Allah gave them an eye,

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and they can't get to the fact that

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there's a second eye as well.

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That's the sign of a Muslim.

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That is the true sign of a Muslim.

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Rather than saying, how come my eyes aren't

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landing on a new piece of furniture in

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my house?'

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That person is spiritually immature.

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So if we desire

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the depth of Ibadah,

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it's not something that we just put down

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on a list and we can check off

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the box and Allah will will give it

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to us.

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Depth of Ibadah is driven

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by an underlying

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appreciation of the blessings of Allah.

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I'm so thankful to my lord that the

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sun rose. I can't get beyond that back.

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Let me bow in his worship.

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I'm so thankful to my lord that food

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was available

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at this meal. I can't get beyond that.

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Whether it tasted good or not doesn't matter.

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It's food.

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And they get stuck on that point, and

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they must bow themselves in worship.

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This is the sign.

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This is the sign of spiritual maturity.

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I can tell you, I mean, how many

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times I have a whole laundry list of

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people who wanna come and sit and talk.

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How many times have people come and sit

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and said to me, I'm so thankful to

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it, my lord.

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Everybody wants to talk about a problem.

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Everybody wants to say,

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you know, I can't deal with this part

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of my life. I can't deal with that

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part of my life. My this person doesn't

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treat me this way. The weather's not cooperating

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with me. My job is not cooperating with

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me. And they completely are oblivious to the

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fact that they can stand up and move

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their joints.

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They're completely oblivious to the fact that they're

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eating 3 meals a day.

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They're completely oblivious to the fact that they're

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sitting in the masjid.

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Allah gave them the gift of Islam,

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and they're so caught up in that which

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they have not been given.

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That's spiritual death.

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Spiritual death, now you know I mean

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in anything, in anything there's so many blessings.

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If there's a husband and wife,

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there's 99 good things that exist between that

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husband and wife and each one inherently has

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deficiencies because each one is a human being.

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There is no perfect wife on this planet,

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and there is no perfect husband on this

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planet.

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But what's perfect is that Allah provided that

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opportunity

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to be husband and wife.

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So we should bask in that perfection of

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the opportunity to have nikah,

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rather than Allah left us alone in a

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corner and said, you have to now live

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a celibate life for 50 years, then you'll

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get Jannah, and there you'll be married. It

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could have been that way.

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It could have been that way and we

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would be complaining then. We would be complaining,

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we said we can't have nikka.

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Then the complaint would have been that.

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This is what children do, you know, they

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complain complain complain. You give it to them,

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then they complain about the thing.

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This is spiritual immaturity.

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If we desire to achieve

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a closeness to Allah

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that closeness will come through shukr of Allah

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through being cognizant

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of every blessing,

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learning to appreciate every blessing.

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Now you see that in any particular field,

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the field is always defined by the ability

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to appreciate something that it already exists. For

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example, a physician

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is nothing special.

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What is a physician? It's an individual who

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has the ability to appreciate illness in a

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human being. It's there. We all see it,

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but we don't understand the depth behind it.

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So what is a physician? It's someone who

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learns to appreciate

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how to look at an illness, how to

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diagnose an illness, and then subsequently how to

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treat that illness.

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So they see things a little bit differently.

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So what is a Muslim? A Muslim is

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a person who learns to appreciate

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all the blessings around them. And what are

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the demands of the Quran? The demands of

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the Quran are basically this, the Quran tells

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you look at the sun, look at the

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earth, look at the moon, look at the

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world around you, look at the sky, look

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at history, look at the fact that you

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were given the messenger, look at the fact

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that you were given the Quran, look at

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the fact that you are allowed to circle

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the house of Allah, look at the fact

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that you've been given Ramadan. It hits you

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with blessing upon blessing upon blessing upon blessing,

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And it that should be enough to floor

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the human being, to floor the Muslim because

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the Muslim is the one who perceives these

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things.

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You know, I can give a 5 year

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old a medical textbook, they won't understand it

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because they can't perceive it.

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Although it's fact, they can't perceive it. The

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Quran is establishing fact.

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The question is do we perceive it?

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If we can't perceive it, the defect is

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not the Quran, the defect is us. It's

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in our it's our inability to perceive.

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But the Quran's demand is to realize that

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there are countless blessings around us.

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Right? And to be constantly thankful

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to Allah

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for those.

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Now the funny thing the funny funny thing

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is that

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life is tough and we do have difficulties,

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and nobody can deny those difficulties. But if

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you actually want to uplift those difficulties,

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then it's simply by being thankful that Allah

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takes care of those difficulties as well,

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spiritually and physically.

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Because Allah clearly states in the Quran that,

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That if you thank Me, I will increase

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you.

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So it all goes back to shukr anyway.

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If you have a problem with your brother

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and you're fighting with your blood brother and

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you want that your blood brother be closer

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to you,

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they will never be closer to you if

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you go and knock on his door and

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tell him, you're the worst brother in the

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world. I hate you. Don't you know how

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disgusting you are? Do you know you don't

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let me sleep at night because I'm worried

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about our relationship? Which brother then is gonna

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say, oh, let me hug you. That was

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so deep.

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Nobody's going to say that.

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Nobody's going to say that. You're gonna push

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that person away because complaining

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pushes human beings away. It pushes the mercy

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of Allah away.

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But if you were to turn to Allah

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and say, Yeah, Allah.

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Thank you for providing me with a brother.

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Some people don't even have can't even have

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the notion that they have a brother.

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And, Yeah, Allah. If you were to,

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You Allah, I thank you for this and

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I thank you for this and I thank

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for this. Allah knows the du'a in your

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heart that you hide away because you're so

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thankful to Allah. And Allah is very quick

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to answer it.

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Allah is very quick to answer

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when it's beneficial for us. And if it's

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not beneficial for us, then we're patient with

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it anyway.

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But it I mean, if you wanna look

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at difficult life,

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then we could say that the prophet had

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many things to complain about. He couldn't complain,

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my people are throwing me out. Where do

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you find that complaint? Show me the statement

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of Rasool Allah, where he's complaining about his

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people throwing him out. He could have complained.

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He could have said, my mother passed away.

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My father passed away. Which complaint do we

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see of that?

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Where do we find that complaint? Well, he

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could've complained when I complained when I was

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a child. My parents passed away.

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He could've complained, my children passed away in

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my arms. Which one of us would be

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able to even stand that?

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We wouldn't be able to withstand that. He

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could have said, my people threw me out.

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He could have said he could have there

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are many things he could have complained about,

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yet he was focused on the blessings that

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were bestowed upon him.

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And he's focused on one blessing, subhanAllah, on

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that one blessing that Allah had forget forgiven

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the potential

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for a mistake,

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let alone how many more blessings were bestowed

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upon Rasulullah sallallahu alaihi wasallam, and he was

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constantly thankful for them.

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So we have to if we desire

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to wake up in the night and to

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pray to Allah, if we desire

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that maybe one night, just one night, that

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our feet swell

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rather than standing in front because we stood

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and played video games, but because we stood

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and we prayed,

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then it's going to come from that type

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of attitude. It's not going to come from

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my wife doesn't treat me this way, my

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husband doesn't treat me that way, My mother-in-law

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doesn't treat me the way I deserve to

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be treated. My father-in-law doesn't treat me the

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way I deserve to be treated. My in

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laws aren't treating me with the respect that

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I deserve to have.

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This person my boss doesn't treat me like

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how I should be treated. That's life.

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That's not gonna go away by complaining.

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It goes away

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by learning to turn away from it

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and saying, well, alhamdulillah, look at these other

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50,000,000 things that I do have.

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Look, people are starving, I'm not.

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People don't have a roof over their head,

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I'm fine.

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People are dying of disease, I'm healthy.

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You know how much problems there are in

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the world?

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The problem is is that we live in

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a bubble.

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You know, we don't even know what goes

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on out there. And we just surround ourselves

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in our little bubble, and we expect everything

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to be the way we want it.

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That's bay being a baby.

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You know, we're babies. We're spiritually and forget

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about being infants. We're spiritually babies.

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We have no appreciation of the suffering of

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the people around us.

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We have no appreciation of the difficulty of

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life. And instead,

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we, you know, we grew up with a

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silver spoon, and we want a gold one.

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So we have to And that's not going

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to produce a Muslim.

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It'll produce a Muslim. It's not gonna produce

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the depth of Ibada that we we desire.

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Depth of Ibada comes from thanking Allah

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and seeking out other people's difficulties

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and alleviating them so that they thank Allah

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and they make dua for us. This is

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called Islam.

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And there are very few people practicing this

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type of Islam in this day and age.

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But this is what the demand of Islam

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is,

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to be thankful for that, whatever it is,

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whatever it is. There are some things worthy

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of complaining about, but they're very few.

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But anyway, but we all have something. We

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all have been given so many things. That's

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something, so many things.

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Just try to go beyond your hand. The

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fact that the joints bend, the fact that

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you can perceive, the fact that you can

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touch, the fact that you can move.

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I mean, it should stop there. We shouldn't

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even I should I should I it shouldn't

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be able to go beyond my hand, and

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I should totally be floored and worship for

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the rest of my life because this is

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such an amazing creation. I can move it.

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I can turn it. I can grab with

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it. I can make the with it.

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SubhanAllah.

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SubhanAllah that I can make takbir with it,

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that I have the sense to take these

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hands and to raise them this way. When

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people are doing so many other things with

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their hands, that Allah gave me the wisdom

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that I can make takbir with my hands.

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SubhanAllah.

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That's enough.

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It's enough.

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Life is life. It's always gonna be difficult.

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If one thing is not there, another problem

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will be there.

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But we don't focus on those problems.

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We focus on that which Allah has given

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us and that is enough to pacify. You

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know, a baby gets a pacifier and then

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they don't cry.

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I'm pacified by my hand.

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I'm pacified by the fact that I can

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make takbir with my hand.

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I'm pacified by the fact that I get

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an opportunity to look at Muslims. I'm pacified.

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There's so many things to pacify us.

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Yes. We wanna cry. There's difficulty. It's life.

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Life is meant to be difficulties. Sometimes it

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drives you to cry, but there's so many

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pacifiers.

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So may Allah

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give us a to

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thank him for that which he has bestowed

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upon us, and may he use it may

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we use that thankfulness as a mechanism to

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increase us both physically and spiritually, both in

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this life and in the hereafter.

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