Husain Sattar – Serving Others

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The church's focus is on serving others, not just oneself, and the church's approach is centered around serving others rather than yourself. The Prophet Mohammed's example of serving humanity was the best of examples of services to achieve Islam, as he would serve at 2 times during the day and at 3 times during the night. The church's service levels are centered around serving humanity, and the church's approach is centered around serving others rather than yourself.

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			If you look at the life of the
		
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			Folsom,
		
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			you can basically divide it into 2 main
		
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			categories.
		
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			So
		
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			there are the deeds of the Folsom and
		
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			those can be divided into 2 main categories.
		
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			The first are the Ibadat
		
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			and the second are the Muammarat.
		
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			Those Ibadat means those acts which the Prophet
		
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			did between him and his Lord.
		
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			And
		
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			the Muammarat are those acts in which the
		
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			Prophet interacts with mankind.
		
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			And if you want to divide up the
		
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			or if you want to look at the
		
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			gist
		
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			of
		
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			the prophet's
		
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			interaction with mankind,
		
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			you'll see
		
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			that much of it was centered around the
		
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			concept of khidma
		
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			or serving.
		
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			So the prophet
		
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			was someone who regularly
		
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			served
		
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			the people around him. And that's fairly unique,
		
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			because you would think that he's the prophet
		
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			so people should be serving him.
		
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			But actually he would seek opportunities
		
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			to serve other people.
		
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			And in fact, if you can understand this
		
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			from the sunnah of the Prophet
		
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			then you'll be able to understand a very,
		
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			very central
		
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			means by which we gain closest to Allah
		
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			and that is serving other people.
		
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			And in this society, it's so strange, because
		
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			in this society, we're taught that we should
		
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			be served.
		
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			So you go to a store
		
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			and you think about how was the service.
		
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			And when you pay for your oil change,
		
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			they want to know how was the service,
		
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			how can we serve you better.
		
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			Anytime we interact in this society with this
		
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			consumer society
		
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			with these various outlets, they're always talking about
		
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			how they can serve you better. How can
		
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			we make your experience more pleasurable?
		
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			But actually, if you look at the sum
		
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			of the pulsation on them, it's not about
		
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			being served, it's about serving others.
		
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			So on Friday, I was speaking at
		
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			Wassa's
		
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			wedding
		
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			and I raised some of the ahadith, which
		
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			deal with the Pulsar Shlomo how he was
		
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			in his house.
		
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			And Aisha
		
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			says that
		
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			the Pulsar Shlomo when he was at home,
		
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			he was always busy.
		
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			He was always up doing something.
		
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			He was cleaning the house,
		
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			washing the dishes,
		
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			doing something in the house
		
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			in order to serve his family. He would
		
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			never be sitting and waiting to be served.
		
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			That was his sunnah that he would constantly
		
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			be
		
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			serving the people in his family.
		
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			And then you look at how the was
		
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			when he was outside of his family. He
		
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			would be visiting the sick. He would be
		
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			looking for ways to donate to people
		
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			or to give share his wealth with people
		
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			to the extent that we know from several
		
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			Hadid that the folks who will take loans
		
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			using his own property as collateral in order
		
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			to make donations to other people.
		
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			That's how much the population would serve. One
		
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			thing is, okay, I've got $5
		
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			$50 in a bank account. So let me
		
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			empty my bank account and give you that
		
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			$50 as a donation. Now people would say,
		
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			wow, what a great man. He emptied out
		
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			his entire bank account so that he so
		
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			that I could be fed.
		
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			But it's another thing when you have nothing
		
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			in your account and then you start mortgaging
		
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			your assets
		
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			and saying, okay,
		
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			my house is collateral, let me borrow $500
		
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			so I could give it to this person.
		
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			That's how the Fosterschendlens
		
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			generosity was.
		
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			And if you look at even just there
		
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			anything that would come in the house to
		
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			Fosterschendlens, it would be given away
		
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			to the poor. That was the Fosterschendlens'
		
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			concept of serving. He was constantly looking for
		
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			ways in which he could serve people.
		
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			So one is he served humanity.
		
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			And the second is that the prophet Shalam
		
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			would serve Allah
		
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			So when it came time
		
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			to decide between serving humanity and serving Allah,
		
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			then it was clear cut that the service
		
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			would be for Allah
		
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			So take for example,
		
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			the same Aisha
		
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			who says that when the popsicle was in
		
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			the house, he would not stop serving the
		
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			family is the same Aisha
		
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			who says that when it was time for
		
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			prayer, the prophetessian would not even recognize us
		
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			as members of his family.
		
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			Meaning, when it was time for salah, the
		
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			adhan was called, the prophetessian would not even
		
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			recognize that this is my wife, Aisha
		
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			He will be so caught up in his
		
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			service to Allah
		
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			So there are levels of service and each
		
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			degree has its place.
		
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			Now in this day and age, you find
		
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			such a variation in people's thinking,
		
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			which is so much away from the sunnah.
		
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			So for example, some people, they don't want
		
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			to serve at all. They don't want to
		
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			serve anybody they're waiting to be served. They
		
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			want their wife to serve them. They want
		
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			their parents to serve them, which is ridiculous.
		
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			They wait for their parents to serve them.
		
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			They want the members of their society to
		
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			serve them. They want to be praised. They
		
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			want to be raised.
		
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			So there's that group of people that don't
		
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			even understand the need to serve. And then
		
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			there's a second group of people, they've taken
		
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			serving to an extreme. They think they have
		
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			to serve humanity, but they don't have to
		
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			serve Allah.
		
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			So they don't want to pray, but they
		
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			want to donate all their wealth. They're ready
		
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			to donate
		
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			different amounts of wealth, but they won't show
		
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			up for prayer. Or they'll say, well, I'm
		
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			not going to pray because I'm busy getting
		
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			a good job and using my job and
		
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			serving people. So that's much more important. I
		
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			don't need to come to the masjid to
		
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			pray. So then they've taken service to the
		
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			other extreme. They think that serving humanity is
		
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			more important than prayer.
		
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			And then there's a third group of people
		
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			that don't serve humanity, don't serve humanity and
		
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			they just want to serve Allah. So they
		
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			want to sit in the masjid the whole
		
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			time and they don't want to serve
		
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			humanity. They think that that's part, that's they
		
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			think that they've achieved complete Islam by doing
		
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			that. And that's not the case either. The
		
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			prophet Mohammed was the best of examples.
		
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			If he left the masjid in order to
		
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			serve people,
		
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			then that's exactly what the best means of
		
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			progress will be towards Allah
		
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			So the best example of services is in
		
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			the life example of the Prophet
		
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			And you have to understand these limits,
		
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			because this is the way that we should
		
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			get close to Allah
		
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			So when did the Prophet served and how
		
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			did he serve? Well, the general
		
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			principle is that the Prophet would serve Allah
		
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			at 2 times during the day. 1 is
		
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			during the night.
		
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			Always the night was devoted to Allah
		
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			to the extent that the Pope Paysanmen would
		
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			tell people after the Isha prayer, you should
		
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			not speak to anyone.
		
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			You should not speak to anyone.
		
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			And the debate among the ulama arises
		
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			as to should you speak with your wife
		
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			before you go to bed, when they study
		
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			this hadith. And then they come up with
		
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			the answer that, yes, the postulshanon did so,
		
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			but not in excess.
		
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			So once the night came, the Prophet esshemim
		
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			reserved it for 2 things, rest
		
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			and ebadah, serve meaning service, but service
		
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			alone.
		
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			And then when the day came, the day
		
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			was devoted for the sake of serving humanity,
		
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			except when the prayer times come. So when
		
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			it's time for obviously, the day begins with
		
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			the Farsher, but when it's time for Ruhr,
		
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			when it's time for Usid, when it's time
		
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			for Mabhrim, those are the times in which
		
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			the Prophet Shalam would return back to the
		
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			service of Allah
		
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			and it was as if humanity didn't exist.
		
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			But all the times in between, the Popesarena
		
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			would be serving humanity. Now you look at
		
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			examples during the life of the Popesarena
		
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			where
		
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			people would
		
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			extend their Ibadan beyond the night. So for
		
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			example, on one occasion, the Tolstoye Selim's wife
		
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			was sitting and after the pagan prayer and
		
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			she spent all her time right before the
		
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			Zohal, right up to the time of Zohal
		
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			and Ibadan. And the Folsom on the other
		
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			hand without serving people, doing the things that
		
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			he did, visiting the sick, etcetera, when he
		
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			returned home, he asked his wife, what have
		
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			you been doing?
		
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			And she said, I've been sitting here ever
		
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			since the the time of pleasure
		
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			in this e dada. And the prophet told
		
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			me that I said
		
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			4 I said a few lines three times
		
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			and those are more valuable than anything that
		
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			you did this morning, because the prophet said
		
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			those lines in praising Allah
		
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			and then used the whole morning to serve
		
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			people.
		
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			So putting service in its right place is
		
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			also very important.
		
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			So there's 3. One is you've got to
		
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			get the general schedule of the Prophet down.
		
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			That's the first point,
		
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			That the serving of Allah is at night
		
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			and at the times of prayer and that
		
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			the serving of humanity comes at all times
		
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			in between.
		
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			And the second is, and you've got to
		
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			understand
		
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			where the levels of service fall. So it's
		
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			not that we say you should only serve
		
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			Allah and you shouldn't serve humanity. And it's
		
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			not that we say you should only serve
		
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			humanity and you shouldn't serve Allah.
		
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			Everything has its tougher time and its proper
		
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			place. And then the 3rd and most important
		
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			point is, in this day and age, especially
		
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			in this day and age, we should not
		
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			seek to be served.
		
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			We every one of us does this. We
		
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			seek to be served. We want our parents
		
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			to serve us. We want our brothers and
		
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			sisters to serve us. We definitely want our
		
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			wives to serve us. If they don't serve
		
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			us, then we wonder what's wrong with this
		
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			marriage. What kind of what kind of wife
		
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			did I find that she's not gonna serve
		
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			me? And then we start quoting 50 headwinds.
		
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			Look, the post settlement said this about serving
		
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			me and that about serving me. That's completely
		
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			missed the point.
		
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			Any opportunity that you can get to serve
		
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			another person, you should take it and run
		
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			with it because that's your opportunity to get
		
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			closer to Allah
		
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			And you should shun away from opportunities
		
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			where people will serve you because anytime you
		
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			lower yourself, Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala will raise
		
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			you. So it's very, very important that we
		
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			understand
		
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			when the professional would serve, who he would
		
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			serve and we put the proper emphasis on
		
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			service and not being served. So these are
		
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			the 3 important things that you should pick
		
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			up from the sunnah of the folks at
		
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			Southern's life and the counts of the quidnah.