Husain Sattar – Fundamentals of Tasawwuf #3 Sacred Learning

Husain Sattar
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The speakers emphasize the importance of feeding the soul with spiritual aspects and providing the soul with creative experiences. They stress the importance of finding a marriage between spiritual and physical parentage, learning to grow and develop one's body, reflective learning, living up to people, achieving spiritual maturity, achieving the ultimate experience of being a literate person, and embracing the idea of becoming operationally mature. They emphasize the importance of growing the spirit and embracing the idea of becoming operationally mature, and the potential for becoming a liability.
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So in our last two discussions,

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in the midnight session,

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we have been talking about the science of

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the soul.

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And we covered,

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on day 1, which is lesson 1,

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the concept of, the idea that,

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Allah

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has 2 spheres of creation.

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One is called Alamal Amr which occurs by

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Yaqun

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and the second was called Alamal Khalk which

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occurs over time. For example,

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and we highlighted that human beings are actually

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a composite of both of these two worlds

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so that the human being's body

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is actually created,

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is a created aspect of the human.

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Allah created human beings, for example.

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And, and also the point that we are

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we start from a small drop and we

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grow over time into a big person.

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And then,

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that we also have a,

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ruh.

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And the ruh is actually from the commanded

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world.

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Now,

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we exist at as this composite, and,

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we spoke about the fact,

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on the first lesson that in order to

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grow the body, you must feed it. And,

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in order to sustain and grow the body,

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you must use the aspects of

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khulk.

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So for example, the body is made of

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dirt and the body eats things that come

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from dirt. The body wears things that comes

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from dirt. The body lives in things that

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comes from dirt. I mean, our houses are

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basically just dirt. We just shine them and

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polish them, but really they're come from the

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ground. Marble, whatever it might be, people use

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in this day and age, all of that

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is from the ground in the end.

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So the body basically, it is from dirt,

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and it requires things from the earth in

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order to sustain it.

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And we also highlighted the more important fact,

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which was yesterday's discussion, which was that you

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need to also provide

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the soul with its nourishment.

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And if you provide the soul with its

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nourishment, then the soul will grow. And yesterday,

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we highlighted the individual components, meaning the general

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theme yesterday was that it's the sunnah and

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the sharia that grow the soul.

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And actually, to be honest with you, and

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we'll discuss this tomorrow, maybe to be more

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clear, it's the sunnah and the sharia that

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also control the nafs. Really, the the the

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nafs is the is the center point of

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the body. So if I ask you what's

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the key component of the body, what's the

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the the the, you know, the the central

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command of the body, it's the nafs. And

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if I say to you, what's the central

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command of the soul? That's called the kal.

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All right. So the central command of the

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body is called the nafs and the central

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command of the soul is the heart. It's

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called the Kalb.

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It's also from Alham Al Amr by the

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way.

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So what we highlighted yesterday was that in

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order for the soul to grow, you must

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feed it with things from that are spiritual.

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For example, recitation of the Quran.

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We talked about Suhba.

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And, one of the things that I wanted

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to talk about in more detail today was

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the, was ihikar and muraqabah.

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Now, before we do that, I think that

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we should just be very clear about this,

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that just as we grow the body,

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we must make an effort to grow the

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soul. And I would say that this is

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one of the major lacking principles in this

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day in our understanding of how we develop

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human beings.

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I think that every parent,

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every parent that I have ever come across

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has a concern about how to how to

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raise their child's body.

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For example,

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when a baby is born, the mother is

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very concerned about how much milk she should

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feed the child.

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When the baby becomes 1 year old, the

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mother is very concerned about, is it time

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to start meat?

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The father is concerned about what type of

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foods the baby should eat. From day 1,

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both the mother and the father are worried

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about what color the clothes are gonna be,

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and does the hat match the gloves, and

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do the shoes match the, you know, the

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shirt?

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These are all things that we worry about

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very early on. When the baby comes, all

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the parents are worried. The parents generally make

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a baby room if they can afford to

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do so. They're worried about the paint in

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the room. They're worried about the crib. They're

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worried about the bedding. These are all things

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of the body. So a tremendous emphasis is

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placed on the body of of the baby,

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so much so that then the baby grow

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the child grows up. And, again, every

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school year, the kids are worried about what

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clothes they're gonna wear, what gym shoes they're

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gonna wear. We're constantly complaining to our doctors

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about whether our child weighs 50th percentile or

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70th percentile or 20th percentile.

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There's a tremendous amount of emphasis on the

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body. You know, we want our children to

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be athletic. We want them to run. We

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want them to play. And there's an emphasis

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on the mind, but the mind is also

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part of the body in the end.

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The mind is also part of the body

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in the end. So we've emphasized the mind.

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We want them to be academic. We want

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them to be intellectual. We want them to

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read before any other child reads. We want

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them to understand math. So there's a a

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huge emphasis, a huge emphasis by in parenting

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in this day and age on the body.

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And equal, and I would say sort of

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the corollary of that is the massive neglect

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of the soul that occurs

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in this day and age.

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Very few parents recognize that that this baby

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that's been born and given to me as

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a responsibility,

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that this baby is actually a composite of

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body and soul, and that just as much

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emphasis I placed on growing my baby's body,

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I must place an equal, if not greater

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emphasis, on growing my baby's soul.

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And the problem is that what ends up

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happening is we put so much emphasis. Look.

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A parent will spend 20,000 it's not even

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20 anymore. Now it's 40. Right? A parent

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will spend $40,000

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a year to send their child to Harvard,

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but will never spend $40,000

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a year to educate their child Islamically.

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No no parent will ever spend that much

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on their child to educate them Islamically because

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it's not worth it in a way. Now

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a little bit of that.

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So, again, why? Because it's a Harvard education.

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So for $40,000

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it's worth it, but if some madrassa were

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to charge $40,000,

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there would be no student in line.

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Because we just have we just don't appreciate

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that. We don't have this understanding.

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We don't appreciate it.

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There's a few people that recognize it. But

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even when you go to a mother's side,

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if they ask you to pay a college

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tuition, you would look at them like they're

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crazy. Even if you yourself paid a full

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tuition at another university.

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You know, we go to university and we

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when we let's say we're taking a master's,

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we pay $3,000

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a class, and we do it happily.

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But then when it comes to, for example,

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studying at, you know, some individual registers for

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a course at,

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and they might charge 40, $50 a month,

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and people say this is burdensome.

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The same person who's spending $3,000 on his

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master's is saying my $50 class is burdensome.

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What is he talking about? It's a complete

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imbalance. It should have been the other way

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around. Should have been that you paid $50

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for that university class, and you paid 3,000

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and, for in order to establish the Institute

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of Islamic Learning.

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So

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there's been a tremendous emphasis on the body

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and a tremendous lack of emphasis on the

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soul, and this is the theme, unfortunately,

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running within the Islamic communities.

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You know, the private schools can be expensive,

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but the Islamic school always has to be

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cheap.

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Otherwise, people don't come, etcetera, etcetera. I think

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you can pull out many different examples.

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So we have to recognize this. And, you

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know, like, as a corollary to this, there

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are many things that result because of this.

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And I'll tell you 2 two major things

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that result, which these are a little bit

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tangent tangential, but they're important. Number 1, our

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marriages fail.

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Our marriages fail. Why? Because the parents of

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the of the bride

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raised a girl, but didn't raise a spiritual

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girl.

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And the parents of the groom raised a

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boy but didn't raise a righteous spiritual boy.

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So now what happens?

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You end up getting 2 people married,

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and in body, they look like they're a

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match.

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They look nice next to each other. They

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look nice in the marriage

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hall. They look nice in the car when

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they drive away. They look nice in the

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apartment that you're gonna put them in. But

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what happens?

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They're 2 spiritual

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spiritually immature beings. Now tell me, if you

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put

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22 year olds in a room together,

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how long will it be before they fight?

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They will be beating on each other within

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30 minutes.

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Every parent knows that if you put 2

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physically immature children together in a room, they

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will be tearing out each other's hair within

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30 minutes. So the parents are always watching

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their young children because this is what happens

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when you leave children alone.

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Now, what happens is these 2 people get

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married. They're both spiritual babies. They're both spiritually

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2, you know, maybe 3. And what happens?

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They get put together in an apartment together

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and then the fights start.

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That's when the battle begins. And then you

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see that 50, 60 percent of marriages, even

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within the Islamic community in this day and

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age, maybe we're not at 50, maybe we're

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at 40 or 30, but it's relatively common.

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Even within our own community, we see that

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marriages begin to fail.

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And this is really common. Now that doesn't

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mean that every marriage will always work out.

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That's not what I'm saying. But I'm saying

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a 30 to 40% rate is far too

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high. It's far too high for a Islamic

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community.

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And having be you know, being the one

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who often has to intercede

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in or, you know, act as an intermediary

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in these types of situations,

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I can tell you that when I'm talking

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to people, I'm talking to 2 kids.

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I'm talking to 2 spiritually immature people. They

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don't understand what I'm even trying to say

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to them because they have yet to develop.

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And I have to say, okay. Look. If

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you really want this marriage to work, we

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have to start from z from a. I

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have to start talking to you about this,

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then I need to talk to you about

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this. You need to come into these types

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of gatherings. You need to begin to study

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the deen, and then you will see that

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you'll actually be able to achieve peace amongst

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yourselves.

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And it's it's like this with everything. You

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know? Look. If you have

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who which which at which stage in our

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life do we disobey our parents

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as as as just people?

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The the only stage where it's acceptable that

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you would actually disobey your parent is when

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you're 2 or 3.

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When you're 2, you know, they call it

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terrible twos. The child fights with the parent.

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They even hit the parent sometimes. They're screaming

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at the parent. The parent says go to

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bed. They say, nah.

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And I'm not going to bed. And it's

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acceptable. Nobody looks down upon it. Right? We

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say, well, this is just a child. You

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have to understand that the child will grow

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up eventually.

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So what happens?

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The child grows up, but the child never

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grew up spiritually.

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Physically, the child grew up. We gave it

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its meat. We gave it its milk. We

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gave it its college education. And then what

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happens? They're mistreating the parent when they're 40.

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Right? They get tired of their mom. Shut

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up, mom. What do you think? I know.

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I know what I know what I'm doing.

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I've heard kids say this to their own

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parents in public.

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You know, they're in the store. It's a

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Muslim child. Mom's saying, what do you think

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about this one, baby? Shut up, mom. I

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don't wear that kind of stuff.

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You know? I mean, I suffered a lot.

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This is not uncommon.

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The the way we treat our parents is

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as if we're,

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you know, often as if we're just children,

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and that's because we're spiritually

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many of us are spiritually immature.

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We have no idea of the

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immense reward that exists under the feet of

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our parents.

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And and, you know, I could never put

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it better than the way Mufti Husayn put

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it that first night. And if you weren't

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here the first night, you know, that's a

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talk worth listening to.

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I will tell you that I'll give you

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one piece of advice. Mufti Husayn after the,

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after the tafsir,

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sorry,

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after prayer, he gave a talk about parents.

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And I'll tell you that if any of

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you heard it, then you know what I'm

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saying. And if you haven't heard it, then

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you definitely need to hear it. That that

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is a talk worth listening to. You need

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to hear that. So I don't even need

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to elucidate on this point anymore except to

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just highlight this general principle.

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And this exists in many things. You know,

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we don't under we don't know how to

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live in the world because we're spiritually mature.

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We don't understand the difference between deen and

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dunya because we're spiritually immature. You know, the

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child look, think about the child. When the

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body when the body isn't when the mind

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of the child is immature,

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if the child has a diamond ring in

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his hand, right, and you go to him

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and say, hey. I got this lollipop.

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Will the child trade it? The child will

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trade it. They will trade the diamond ring

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with which they could buy a 1000000 lollipops

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because they don't

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recognize the fact that that they they want

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today's

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satisfaction,

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and they don't recognize the value of what

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they have in their hand.

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Same thing with the spiritually immature.

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When you're spiritually immature, you're willing to trade

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the akhira for the paltry dunya.

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Although the akhirah is in your hand,

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once you take the kalimah and you submit

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to Allah,

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now Jannah is yours. But then what happens?

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We decide that we want to trade Jannah

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for the paltry dunya.

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So then it becomes more important to us

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that we,

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you know,

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have this or that and we begin to

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break the rules of the Sharia in order

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to attain those things. So we give up

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what we had

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for that which is worthless.

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Basically filth.

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Essentially, it's just a mirage.

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Again, it all has to do with spirit

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with with spiritual maturity versus immature. When a

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person is spiritually mature, they will always choose

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the hereafter.

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They will always do choose the hereafter

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over

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the,

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life of this world.

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So, again, this is just a general principle.

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What I'm highlighting to you is that a

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human being is a composite of 2 things,

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of a body and a soul. And that

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as it is important to to grow the

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body now look, I'm not negating the body.

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I don't want anyone to come after up

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after me and say, brother, you said you

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shouldn't get a college education. That's not what

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I'm saying. The body must be grown, and

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it should be grown to the best of

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our ability, and we should develop it. It's

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sunnah to learn how to swim. It's sunnah

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to learn how to horseback ride. It's sunnah

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to

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develop oneself physically, to eat halalom payyban food.

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These are all parts of the Sharia. To

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get a good education and to become a

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servant of creation is an enormous chat is

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a enormous

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blessing. So these are all they all have

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their place, and we should excel in whatever

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we do. When we go out and we

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study, we should be the top of our

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class. And when we go out and do

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anything, we should do it with a level

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of proficiency that shows that we have mastered

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that which Allah has given us the ability

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to perform.

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But at the same time, we should never

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neglect the spirit.

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Right? That's what I'm trying to highlight. And

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that we have to feed the spirit, we

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have to grow the soul so that it

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can be able to exist in a proper

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balance

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of a human of what a human being

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should be. And again, this is what I

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told this is what I've told you that

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my sheikh is always saying.

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He's saying that

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these parents brought the child down.

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You know, they brought the child down from

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the sky to the earth, but then I

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become their spiritual parent and raise them back

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from the earth to the sky.

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He used to say this to us. And

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and he also used to say that and

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he used to say that you have 2

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sets. Often, you have 2 sets of parents,

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except some people who are very fortunate that

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the same parents that

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bring them down into the earth and have

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good birth to them actually raise their soul

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and elevate them. But most people have 2

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sets of parents. One set of parents that,

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you know,

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through which they're born and then another set

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of parents through which they're elevated, meaning a

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parent like a spiritual teacher or a sheikh

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or an olam or something of that nature.

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And and also, Sheykh Zukpukar used to say

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that,

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you know, and I told you this, I

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think, yet the day before yesterday or maybe

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the first day, that

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it's very easy to build cars. It's very

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easy to build planes. It's very easy to

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build computers. It's very easy to build smartphones.

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It's very hard to make human beings,

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to make ensan. Because what is ensan? Ensan

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is a spiritually and physically mature individual,

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spiritually and physically mature individual.

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So we have to be cognizant of the

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fact that we have to grow both. Now

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at the same time, when you grow both,

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you have be careful about how you grow

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both. Now would you ever serve your child

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poison?

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No. Would you ever put your child in

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a bad school knowing that they would be

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getting a bad education?

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No.

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Would you ever, clothe your child in in

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clothing that would produce an allergy and a

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rash? No. You would not purchase that clothing

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if you knew that that would give them

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an allergy or a skin disease or a

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rash.

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Right? In the same way, when we when

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we grow our children spiritually, we should make

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sure that we don't poison them. You know,

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we we poison our children with so many

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different types of sins thinking that it's not

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a big deal, and these are actually poisons

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that * the growth of the child. Just

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like if you don't give a child proper

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nutrients, their growth is *. Let's say they

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were supposed to grow genetically to 6 feet

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9 inches,

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5 feet 9 inches, and instead they grow

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to 52 because you didn't feed them properly.

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Right? Let's say that they have some sort

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of you give them they have some disease

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and you don't give them the right food.

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In the same way, you have to be

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careful about what you give your children spiritually.

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We don't wanna * their growth spiritually, so

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we should be careful. We give them the

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best Islamic education.

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We put them in the company of the

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best best people that we can.

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We

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make sure that they avoid the things that

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they shouldn't be avoiding. Like, it makes no

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sense to me. It makes no sense to

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me why any parent in their right mind

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would ever produce would ever put a TV

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in the house.

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You might as well put a loaded gun

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in the house, just like no parent would

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leave a loaded gun on the floor.

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Why? Because the child will take it and

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shoot themselves in the head, and they'll be

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dead.

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In the same way, what parent would in

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their right mind would ever put a TV

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in the house? It's a spiritual

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death.

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You your child turns on the remote control.

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They shot their soul.

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Now they're sitting there and watching the life

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of every person who doesn't believe.

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And these people are living all a fake

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life.

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I mean, look. These children, they watch this

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Hannah Montana. There's no reality to that, and

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yet they all wanna be that. You know?

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They all wanna grow up like that, and

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it's it's pervasive within our communities.

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Because and the this is like a loaded

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gun, but it destroy but it's a gun

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that shoots the spirit instead of the body.

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Anytime you turn push on push the remote

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control on, you see that you're getting brainwashed.

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You're getting brainwashed with a lifestyle.

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You know, these pre by the time your

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child is 6, they're watching these people dating

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on TV, they're watching them holding hands, they're

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watching that, you know, the boy gives the

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girl a kiss and all the audiences, oh,

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and the kid when you make that kind

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of noise, the kid's eyes open up wider.

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By 6, 7, 8 years, that's what show

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that's what starts showing up on the TV

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screen.

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And we have no clue. We just put

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our child in front of it

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thinking that this is a cheap babysitter.

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That's what it is. Right? It's a cheap

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babysitter. I can be free and do my

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things. You know, I gotta kick back and

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put my feet up on the couch. So

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and this is gonna be a cheap babysitter.

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They can watch this.

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And the and the parents think that it's

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not a big deal. And the funny thing

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is is that it's a detriment not only

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to the soul, but it's also a detriment

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to the mind.

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It's also a detriment to the mind. The

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successful people don't have TVs in their homes.

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They don't have time for that kind of

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time wasting of time. It's not even we're

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not even discussing halal and haram. That's a

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separate issue. We don't even need to discuss

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it because it doesn't make sense to have

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it in the first place.

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You know, you discuss halal and haram where

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there's some benefit in something, and then you

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need to have a debate. Then you ask

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yourself, what does the sharia say? You don't

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discuss halal and haram when something is just

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obviously detrimental in every in almost every way.

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Yes. I mean, there's some rare benefits that

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arise from a TV, but they can be

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made up in so many other ways.

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So we have to be particularly careful about

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making sure that we don't * the growth

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of our children. And I'll tell you because

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I have to deal with it. Then what

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happens? A child comes to me and I

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have to erase

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20 years of, you know, TV from their

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mind or 20 years of music from their

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heart, etcetera, etcetera.

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So

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again, the general principle here that we are

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highlighting is that we we consist of a

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body and a soul, a a a gist

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and a rule. And that just as we

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place an emphasis on developing and growing the

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body, in the same way, we should place

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an emphasis on development and growth of the

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soul, the ruha.

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Now

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and then yesterday, we spoke in detail about

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the fact that there are several components

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or nutrients that are recommended in order to

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grow the ruh. And I highlighted for you

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that Quran is the number 1.

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Quran is the number 1. So not only

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for us do we need do we need

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a daily dose of Quran to sustain our

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spirituality,

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But our children must be raised in the

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presence and the,

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you can say in the environment of Quran.

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If you have to ask yourself what was

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the dominant theme of Medina Sharif at the

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time of Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam it was

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the Quran.

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Day night Quran was being recited, it was

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being revealed, it was being explicated, it was

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being exemplified.

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Quran is the foundation of this deed.

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It is the foundation of this deed.

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So we have to place within our children

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a love of Quran every child

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and adult and adult because we need to

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eat too. Right? Every child and every adult

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needs to have interaction with the Quran.

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So especially as young as parents, we should

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make sure that our children they interact with

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the Quran and we should be

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1,000 times thankful that we have these Madaris

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that teach Quran.

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We should be a 1,000 times thankful.

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I think that this is one of the

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most

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unfortunate realities of our community

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that there's a very minimal appreciation for those

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people that teach the Quran

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when actually they are the key components of

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our society.

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Right? The best of you is those who

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teach the Quran and learn it. So the

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best set of,

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of of, interaction that's occurring anywhere within our

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community are the people that are teaching and

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learning the Quran.

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We should support them, encourage them, develop their

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institutions,

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donate to them, and we should verbally

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thank them.

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We don't do that.

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We're so thankful that there's Harvard and,

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you know, Princeton and Yale. And we think

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for a mile away,

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you know, a child comes home with an

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a on one report card and we say,

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do you think he's gonna get into Princeton?

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He's in 2nd grade. We're already thinking about

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Princeton.

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Right? We're already thinking about Harvard. We're thinking

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about which Ivy League our child is gonna

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go to. But when was the last time

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we thought, you know, can we hook this

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child up? Where can we find the best

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quality to hook this child up with?

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Right? But we just say, oh, because there's

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some always stuff that we can get to

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come into our house for half an hour,

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you know, to just take care of it.

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But we should seek out teachers for our

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children. We should bring them into the community.

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We should support them. We should make them

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realize that we are dependent on them and

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that we need them here.

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And I'll tell you that the under okay.

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You look around the, American

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Islamic,

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demographic

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and you get to see a wide spectrum

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of communities.

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Okay, if you travel, you will see a

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wide spectrum of communities

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and you know Chicago, Masha'Allah, is relatively well

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developed.

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Very funny because there's a individual, a sister

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who

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used to live in the states and she

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used to call Chicago, Chicago Sharif.

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Chicago Sharif because she used to come here

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and she used to see that this is

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a really developed community.

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Actually, we're relatively underdeveloped, but we're comparatively

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more developed in most cities.

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So you come into Chicago and you see

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that there's a distinct difference between Chicago and

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the vast majority of Islamic communities.

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And I'll tell you that the underpinning of

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all of that is the Quran.

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The underpinning of all of that is the

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Quran

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because what happened people like Maulana Abdullah Salim

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who rarely gets appreciated the way he deserves

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to be appreciated, he will get appreciated in

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Jannah, you know, I mean on the day

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of judgment Insha'Allah will reward him far beyond

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what any of us could ever imagine. But,

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you know, he came here and he started

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his work.

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And, you know, people were busy in so

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many other things and had so many other

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ideas. He came just crazy about his mission

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that there should be people and children who

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memorize the Quran in Chicago.

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Now in that day and age, no one

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even thought about children being able to memorize

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the Quran. And I think I've mentioned previously

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that, you know, the challenge in the Sunday

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school was what? The 10 Surah Club.

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I remember I never made the 10 Surah

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Club. I it still scars me to this

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day and age. Now when I was in

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Sunday school, I couldn't make the 10 Surah

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Club.

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Okay. That's 10 Surah. And and Moab Ghislain's

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goal was what? To make hofas

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out of people's children.

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So what did he do? He he opened

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up his basement.

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Now you tell me,

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our wives have difficulty cooking for their own

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children

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and difficulty cooking for their own husbands.

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And what was his wife doing? Cooking for

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the kids of the community.

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Cooking for the kids of the community. Those

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children who initially attended that school was in

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the basement of his home,

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and his wife was you know, they gave

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up their home. We don't want people in

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our home after 9 o'clock because it distracts

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us and disturbs us. They gave up their

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home. They made it a school. They made

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it a garden

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to be able to grow the spirit spiritually

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our children.

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And they sacrificed and they struggled and they,

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you know, they they made their

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they they did not lose focus and they

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never gave up despite the fact that there

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were failures and despite the fact that there

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were major criticisms at points in time.

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And they were able to produce the first

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set of hofas.

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And then people saw that it's possible.

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And once people saw that it's possible,

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then they began to also desire it for

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themselves.

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And then slowly, a young crop of hafas

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began to arise,

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and it was their recitation

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along with the coming of additional teachers and

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then producing additional students

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that that was a magnet that drew in

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Allah's mercy.

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So that, you know, someone like me or

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other people who have gone abroad and studied

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a little bit or in in the cases

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of, you know, for example, Mufti was saying

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extensively,

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they come in here and they can give

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talks and people can understand what they're saying.

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They're not speaking a foreign language because there's

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already a context in which they speak.

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Whereas you go to most communities and you

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talk and people have no clue, you start

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talking about spiritual development, they will look at

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you like you're crazy. They have no idea

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what you're speaking about. You talk about nafs

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and ru and heart and klavw and they'll

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be like what are you talking about brother?

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What are you talking about? People don't even

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get it. You can't even have a basic

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conversation about,

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you know, Itikaf. They don't know what Itikaf

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is. Some masjids

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wouldn't even fathom that that was something that

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happened at the time of Medina. This doesn't

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happen anymore, brother. 10 days off from work,

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you only get 20 days vacation.

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So, you know, that's the reality of the

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vast majority of communities. They're relatively underdeveloped.

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Here,

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you have already, you can say, the foundation

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of Quran. And then you go to a

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few other cities and it's exact same. Where

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you find that development? You're going to find

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that there was a foundation. Now can you

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pick out a couple other communities? Toronto, same

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story, although it's not in the US. Detroit,

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same story.

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Same story. You know, there's, like, a large

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number now of brothers in Detroit that even

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show up to this ethical,

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out and and they're striving and struggling. And

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the ajeev thing is there there's like in

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medical school and law school, they're professionals,

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but you go back and you trace Detroit.

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Where does Detroit trace back to? Traces all

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the way back to 1 Mufti.

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One Mufti.

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That Mufti came, he started teaching hifs to

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the children, he brought the children into his

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own house, his wife cooked for them, they

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they sacrificed, they struggled and they began to

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produce kafas And these hofas, they drew in

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the spiritual food for the whole community.

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They fed the whole community. You know, there

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was no restaurant to eat from. They provided

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spiritual food on a platter for the whole

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community.

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And now you see Detroit, you know, there's

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a certain subset of people in Detroit and

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they're progressing and they all have relationship with

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Muqti Sab and SubhanAllah, it's just amazing. And

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Muqti Sab will inshallah will be here on

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Thursday or Friday. So, you know, you'll be

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able to see who I'm speaking about.

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But again, it all lays it all it

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all rests on this foundation.

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It all rests on this foundation.

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So Quran is essential for our children's development

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and for our development.

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Okay. Then we mentioned yesterday Salawat.

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Salawat is obvious and I don't need to

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repeat it. We mentioned Itiva of Sunnah. Whenever

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you follow the Sunnah it's a magnet that

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attracts Allah's Barakah

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etcetera and it causes the soul to grow.

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All right and we discussed a few other

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points. Now the one point I didn't get

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to discuss was

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in the Arabic language means to watch over.

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Is an in a word in the Arabic

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language which means to attempt to watch over,

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to make an effort to watch over. It's

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from verb form 3. Verb form 3 often

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has the

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connotation of making an effort towards something.

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So

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to make an effort to watch over, to

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attempt to watch over. So in muraqabah, what

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does an individual do? They watch over their

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heart

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to see

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is their heart calling on Allah or is

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their heart attached to the dunya?

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That's what muraqabah is.

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It's a watching over of the heart, a

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guarding of the heart, a you can say

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a monitoring of the heart to attempt to

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determine whether the heart calls on dunya or

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whether it calls on akhirah whether it calls

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on Allah or whether it calls on

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other than Allah.

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And so this is a called muraqabah of

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the heart.

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Now a person can have muraqabah of their

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mind, they can have muraqabah of the grave

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where they sit and reflect on what's going

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to happen in the grave, they watch over

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themselves and think about what's going to happen

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in the grave, you can have muraqabah of

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the day of judgment, you can have muraqabah

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of the fact that we're from the community

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of Rasulullah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. So these

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are all called muraqabah

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and they are an important aspect of they're

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kind of called like a fiqh. They're really,

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you can say more of the mind than

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they are of the tongue.

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They're,

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they're it's a reflection put it that way.

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And this is another way by which we

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develop and in fact it's the demand of

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the Quran.

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Now you see that one of the major

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themes present throughout the Quran is the demand

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that we reflect on the signs around us.

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And it's through the reflection

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of these signs that actually the heart and

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the spirit also grows, that the soul also

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grows. And so these are basically muraqabah. I

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mean to sit down and to do muraqabah

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on the sky

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is to sit down and reflect on the

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sky and to recognize that it's Allah that

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laid it that spread it as a canopy

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and that layered it into many layers.

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To do muraqabah on the ground is to

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sit down and say subhanAllah Allah

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spread this ground along the earth

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and Ajeeb is my Allah

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that he made the ground so hard that

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you can build a Sears Tower on it

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but he made the ground so soft that

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you can also put a seed in it

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and a tree will grow.

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I mean, think about the dynamics of this

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material. You know, anybody material engineer in the

00:31:04 --> 00:31:07

audience, you know, that materials have limited

00:31:07 --> 00:31:10

use, They have limited dimension. They have limited

00:31:10 --> 00:31:11

abilities.

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If, I mean, if I told you that

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I'm gonna develop a material that's so firm

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that you can build the Sears Tower upon

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it, but it's so soft that you can

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actually dig with your finger and put a

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seed and if you water it, it will

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grow. You would be shocked at what type

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of material this

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was. It's beyond the

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the ability of engineering to fathom this type

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of this this width and this this broad

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spectrum.

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And that that's exactly the way Allah created

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the ground. On one place, he's saying that

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he had to peg it down with mountains

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and another place he's saying that from it

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grow crops.

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Ajib,

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Ajib.

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So again, the point is, is that this

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is these are all types of Mura Kaba'at.

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You know, you sit there and reflect SubhanAllah,

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I can't believe the incredible blessing that I

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am from the community of Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi

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Wasallam.

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Just think, I mean, do we ever even

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reflect on how we ended up where we

00:32:02 --> 00:32:04

are? You know, what was the what was

00:32:04 --> 00:32:05

the probability

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of you gaining this blessing?

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You know, first of all, there was no

00:32:09 --> 00:32:12

human humanity. Allah created humanity. I mean, there

00:32:12 --> 00:32:14

was no creation. Forget about humanity. There was

00:32:14 --> 00:32:16

no creation. Allah created creation.

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Then among creation, Allah created animate and inanimate.

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So we were among the animate.

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So that's a blessing.

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Then among animate, Allah created so many different

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types of,

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things like flies, ants, dogs,

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horses, elephants, humans, among all of the animate,

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he you know, there's billions and billions of

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things that are fall under the animate.

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The various bacteria, the various insects, the various

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animals. Among all of that, he created us

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as the most noble of creation.

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It didn't have to be our

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whatever our particles were destined to become. They

00:32:50 --> 00:32:52

could have been destined to be anything else,

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but Allah selected us to be among humanity.

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That's a huge blessing. We lucked out. We

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lucked out that Allah decided to create. We

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lucked out that Allah decided to make us

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animate. We lucked out that Allah made us

00:33:02 --> 00:33:03

among the humans.

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And then the real problem among the humans

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he made from them kafir from the mumin.

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It was read twice today in the third

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way of prayer for those of you that

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were paying attention during the salah

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twice they repeated it first it was read

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by the first

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first

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Hafiz Moqaram

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and then Mufti Usayn repeated some of the

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ayat that Hafiz Moqaram had recited and he

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also recited this ayat

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that from that Allah created man and from

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them was from amongst you are Mu'min and

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from amongst you are Ghafir.

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Now here we really lucked out

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because

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if Allah would have created us among the

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kuffa

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which easily could have happened then it would

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have been better to have been stone.

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Actually, it would have been better to never

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exist.

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So that was a very dangerous point in

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the

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paradigm.

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And then among the people who are Mu'min,

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which

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made us among them, Then among them are

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so many different communities.

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Each community, the community of Nuh alaihissalam,

00:34:01 --> 00:34:04

Musa alaihissalam, Risa alaihissalam and among them, he

00:34:04 --> 00:34:07

made us the community of Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi

00:34:07 --> 00:34:09

Wasallam, which is the most noble of those

00:34:09 --> 00:34:09

communities.

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The most beloved of creation. He made us

00:34:13 --> 00:34:14

his servant.

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So SubhanAllah, what better could we ask for?

00:34:20 --> 00:34:21

You know, in one way you could say

00:34:21 --> 00:34:23

there is one thing better we could have

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asked for. We could have asked that we

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be present at the time of Rasulullah Sallallahu

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Alaihi Wasallam. So you can say we missed

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1,

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we missed on one minor point. But remember

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the same thing that for those of you

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who have that desire to live during the

00:34:35 --> 00:34:36

time of the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, you

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would also have to live up to the

00:34:38 --> 00:34:39

people of the time of the Prophet Sallallahu

00:34:39 --> 00:34:42

Alaihi Wasallam. And that's not so easy

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because

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at that point in time were you to

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have left 10% of your Deen, you would

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have been among the Munafiqeen and that would

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have put you back into that category of

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potentially worse than the kafir,

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potentially worse than the kafir.

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But Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala out of his

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infinite mercy he created us such that we

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were able to retain everything that Rasool Allah

00:35:00 --> 00:35:02

sallaihi wa sallam brought. We have the same

00:35:02 --> 00:35:04

book, we have his words,

00:35:04 --> 00:35:05

we have the same

00:35:06 --> 00:35:08

jazbat, we have the same tradition that has

00:35:08 --> 00:35:10

been brought to us across 1400 years well

00:35:10 --> 00:35:13

preserved but but the scale of accounting is

00:35:13 --> 00:35:14

highly different.

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We got a massive handicap

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in that. Whereas if they would have left

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10%,

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they would have fall fallen under the guise

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of potentially leaving Islam. If we leave 90%,

00:35:25 --> 00:35:26

we still fall under the guise of Islam.

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So it may be that we should reflect

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on the fact that we are present in

00:35:31 --> 00:35:34

a different generation with some degree of being

00:35:34 --> 00:35:36

grateful because we may not have been able

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to live up to what was required at

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that time. So that's also the wisdom of

00:35:39 --> 00:35:40

Allah

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but again the point remains is that, you

00:35:43 --> 00:35:45

know, these are muraq of God. Now, I

00:35:45 --> 00:35:46

just took you through a whole line of

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thinking, I mean this is what a person

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who really reflects on his reality would come

00:35:50 --> 00:35:51

to,

00:35:51 --> 00:35:53

you know, rather than reflecting on how come

00:35:53 --> 00:35:54

I'm not Bill Gates?

00:35:54 --> 00:35:56

Man, I wish I was Michael Jordan.

00:35:57 --> 00:35:58

You know, man, I wish I could pitch

00:35:58 --> 00:35:58

like,

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I don't know whoever the big picture pitcher

00:36:01 --> 00:36:02

is nowadays.

00:36:03 --> 00:36:05

Right? So, you know, these are these are

00:36:05 --> 00:36:06

foolish thoughts

00:36:07 --> 00:36:09

because remember that everything comes in packages. If

00:36:09 --> 00:36:10

you start thinking, I wish I could sing

00:36:10 --> 00:36:12

like Hannah Montana, you would have her life,

00:36:12 --> 00:36:14

which is the life of a non believer.

00:36:15 --> 00:36:16

She's not a Muslim. What would you what

00:36:16 --> 00:36:18

would you want? What what is the you

00:36:18 --> 00:36:19

know, you already have the greatest gift and

00:36:19 --> 00:36:21

then you're looking at what other people have.

00:36:21 --> 00:36:23

You know, you tell your own child he's

00:36:23 --> 00:36:25

greedy if, if he were to do that.

00:36:25 --> 00:36:27

You give your child a beautiful gift and

00:36:27 --> 00:36:28

then he looks at another kid and says,

00:36:28 --> 00:36:30

'I want that, Baba.' So what are you

00:36:30 --> 00:36:31

talking about? You know, you almost want to

00:36:31 --> 00:36:33

slap them. You say, you, I just bought

00:36:33 --> 00:36:34

you the most expensive thing in the store

00:36:34 --> 00:36:35

and you're asking for the gumball.

00:36:37 --> 00:36:38

It's funny. Right?

00:36:38 --> 00:36:40

But that's what we do.

00:36:40 --> 00:36:42

We have the most precious gift.

00:36:42 --> 00:36:43

We have iman.

00:36:44 --> 00:36:45

We have Islam.

00:36:45 --> 00:36:47

We have connection to Rasool Allah sallallahu alaihi

00:36:47 --> 00:36:49

wa sallam, and we're looking around and saying,

00:36:49 --> 00:36:50

wow.

00:36:51 --> 00:36:52

Look at this guy. I wish I could

00:36:52 --> 00:36:54

speak like him. Or look at this guy.

00:36:54 --> 00:36:55

I wish I could dress like him. Or

00:36:55 --> 00:36:57

let me comb my hair like this guy.

00:36:57 --> 00:36:58

Everybody likes him. You know, like, one day

00:36:58 --> 00:37:00

the hair is up, the next day the

00:37:00 --> 00:37:00

hair is back.

00:37:02 --> 00:37:03

It's foolish.

00:37:03 --> 00:37:05

It's foolish because what it is, it's actually

00:37:05 --> 00:37:08

dangerous. It's dangerously foolish because when you start

00:37:08 --> 00:37:10

doing that, you you get yourself into the

00:37:10 --> 00:37:13

potential where you are actually disrespecting what Allah

00:37:13 --> 00:37:14

has given you.

00:37:15 --> 00:37:17

You actually are disrespecting it and then what

00:37:17 --> 00:37:19

happens? Sometimes your wish, you know,

00:37:20 --> 00:37:22

your your wish becomes becomes fulfilled.

00:37:23 --> 00:37:26

You start desiring, desiring, desiring to be like

00:37:26 --> 00:37:26

this model

00:37:27 --> 00:37:28

or this superstar

00:37:29 --> 00:37:31

or or this wealthy individual and then you

00:37:31 --> 00:37:32

get the whole package.

00:37:32 --> 00:37:34

You get the wealth, but you get all

00:37:34 --> 00:37:36

the headaches that come with it. The disobedience

00:37:37 --> 00:37:37

of parents,

00:37:38 --> 00:37:38

the divorces,

00:37:39 --> 00:37:40

the unhappiness,

00:37:40 --> 00:37:41

the misery,

00:37:42 --> 00:37:44

and then eventually the loss of your imam.

00:37:44 --> 00:37:45

So what was the benefit?

00:37:46 --> 00:37:48

We should be a people who are cognizant

00:37:48 --> 00:37:50

of the fact that we've been given the

00:37:50 --> 00:37:51

greatest gift that could be given to any

00:37:51 --> 00:37:52

human being

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and we should cherish it and we should

00:37:55 --> 00:37:56

never look at anything else.

00:37:57 --> 00:37:59

Just as it is unacceptable

00:37:59 --> 00:38:02

for a man who has a righteous wife

00:38:03 --> 00:38:05

to go and look at any other individual,

00:38:06 --> 00:38:06

it's

00:38:07 --> 00:38:07

Bil'ola,

00:38:08 --> 00:38:09

even more accept unacceptable

00:38:10 --> 00:38:11

that a man who has been given the

00:38:11 --> 00:38:13

greatest gift by from Allah go look at

00:38:13 --> 00:38:15

any other thing.

00:38:15 --> 00:38:17

In fact, it's a jib because if you

00:38:17 --> 00:38:19

go through the Quran in the entire Quran,

00:38:19 --> 00:38:22

you're only you're there are only we're told

00:38:22 --> 00:38:23

to use our eyes. We're said, look at

00:38:23 --> 00:38:25

the sky, look at the ground, look at

00:38:25 --> 00:38:28

the earth, look at man, look at the

00:38:28 --> 00:38:30

animals, look at the blessings. Only 2 places

00:38:30 --> 00:38:33

in the Quran are we prohibited from looking

00:38:33 --> 00:38:33

at something.

00:38:34 --> 00:38:36

Ajib, what are we prohibited from looking from?

00:38:36 --> 00:38:38

Looking at number 1,

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Allah gave you this wife and He made

00:38:41 --> 00:38:44

it halal for you. He created within her

00:38:44 --> 00:38:46

love and and the peace, and so you

00:38:46 --> 00:38:48

are not permitted to look at any other

00:38:48 --> 00:38:49

person

00:38:50 --> 00:38:52

and you're not permitted to look at the

00:38:52 --> 00:38:53

dunya.

00:38:54 --> 00:38:55

These are the only two places in the

00:38:55 --> 00:38:57

Quran where you're told to not look at

00:38:57 --> 00:38:57

something.

00:38:58 --> 00:39:00

The dunya meaning the life of this dunya,

00:39:00 --> 00:39:01

the life of the person who is not

00:39:01 --> 00:39:02

connected to Allah.

00:39:03 --> 00:39:06

We are prohibited from looking at that life.

00:39:06 --> 00:39:07

We're not supposed to sit there and reflect

00:39:07 --> 00:39:09

and imagine what we would be like. I

00:39:09 --> 00:39:10

wish I could be like that. That would

00:39:10 --> 00:39:12

be so cool. That would be so great.

00:39:12 --> 00:39:14

I would be so happy. There's nothing there.

00:39:15 --> 00:39:16

It's all a facade.

00:39:16 --> 00:39:18

They're holding on to clouds. You know, there's

00:39:18 --> 00:39:20

nothing in the cloud

00:39:20 --> 00:39:21

that looks big,

00:39:21 --> 00:39:22

but it's empty.

00:39:23 --> 00:39:26

So we should be extremely thankful thankful for

00:39:26 --> 00:39:27

what we're giving and we should develop what

00:39:27 --> 00:39:28

we've been given.

00:39:29 --> 00:39:30

We should take our iman and we should

00:39:30 --> 00:39:32

polish it. We should make it beautiful. We

00:39:32 --> 00:39:34

should make it ready to be presented to

00:39:34 --> 00:39:36

Allah because it will be exchanged for done

00:39:36 --> 00:39:38

Jannah on the day of judgment.

00:39:39 --> 00:39:41

So these are muraqobah. You know, these simple

00:39:41 --> 00:39:43

concepts now, I mean, you give talk anytime

00:39:43 --> 00:39:44

when you give a talk, actually, the talk

00:39:44 --> 00:39:46

is just a anytime you hear a talk,

00:39:46 --> 00:39:48

the talk is just a constellation of muraqobah.

00:39:48 --> 00:39:49

I mean, if I'm sitting here and telling

00:39:49 --> 00:39:51

you about the greatness of our iman, it's

00:39:51 --> 00:39:53

a constellation of the muraqobah that I've heard

00:39:53 --> 00:39:55

from my own teachers. If I'm, you know,

00:39:55 --> 00:39:57

based on hadith and Quran, if I'm sitting

00:39:57 --> 00:39:58

here and giving you a talk about the

00:39:58 --> 00:40:00

fact that, look, we've been created Muslim and

00:40:00 --> 00:40:02

we should be thankful that we were created

00:40:02 --> 00:40:03

and that we were made human and that

00:40:03 --> 00:40:05

subsequently we were made Muslim, that that is

00:40:05 --> 00:40:08

a muraqabat. It's a constellation of understanding of

00:40:08 --> 00:40:10

the Quran and hadith that you gain from

00:40:10 --> 00:40:10

your teachers.

00:40:11 --> 00:40:14

So these are muraqabat, and they're extremely beneficial.

00:40:14 --> 00:40:16

And this is why sitting in the company

00:40:16 --> 00:40:16

of scholars,

00:40:17 --> 00:40:18

spending your own time reflecting,

00:40:19 --> 00:40:21

listening to someone who has wisdom and who

00:40:21 --> 00:40:23

understands and can teach and open your eyes

00:40:23 --> 00:40:25

to the reality of your creation is extremely

00:40:25 --> 00:40:26

beneficial,

00:40:27 --> 00:40:29

extremely beneficial. And, you know, I see this

00:40:29 --> 00:40:30

constantly. People listen to the talks of my

00:40:30 --> 00:40:32

Sheikh Sheikh Zulfekar, and they say, I listened

00:40:32 --> 00:40:34

to this talk and it just changed my

00:40:34 --> 00:40:36

whole life. It changed my whole view of

00:40:36 --> 00:40:38

it changed my whole understanding of who I

00:40:38 --> 00:40:40

am. That's how you know that, you know,

00:40:40 --> 00:40:41

this is a talk.

00:40:41 --> 00:40:42

That's how you know that this is a

00:40:42 --> 00:40:44

talk. That whole talk just opens up your

00:40:44 --> 00:40:45

eyes to something that you would have never

00:40:45 --> 00:40:46

imagined.

00:40:46 --> 00:40:48

And that's what the Quran does as well.

00:40:48 --> 00:40:50

It's constantly opening your eyes to things that

00:40:50 --> 00:40:52

we close them to. Look at the skies,

00:40:52 --> 00:40:53

look at this, look at that, look at

00:40:53 --> 00:40:54

the universe, etc.

00:40:55 --> 00:40:57

So anyway, those are different types of muraqabat

00:40:57 --> 00:40:59

and that's also an important way by which

00:40:59 --> 00:41:00

the soul grows.

00:41:01 --> 00:41:04

Now, the next discussion is that

00:41:04 --> 00:41:06

you understand that when the body grows, the

00:41:06 --> 00:41:07

body grows in stages.

00:41:08 --> 00:41:09

So for example, first you have a baby,

00:41:09 --> 00:41:11

then the baby grows up and becomes an

00:41:11 --> 00:41:13

infant, then the infant grows up and becomes,

00:41:13 --> 00:41:15

you know, an adolescent and then eventually becomes

00:41:15 --> 00:41:17

a teenager and then becomes an adult. So

00:41:17 --> 00:41:20

the body goes through various stages of growth

00:41:20 --> 00:41:20

and development.

00:41:21 --> 00:41:22

In the same way,

00:41:23 --> 00:41:24

the soul

00:41:24 --> 00:41:27

goes through various stages of growth and development.

00:41:27 --> 00:41:29

And just as you have expectations for the

00:41:29 --> 00:41:31

child at various stages of the growth and

00:41:31 --> 00:41:31

development,

00:41:32 --> 00:41:34

so too are their expectations of the soul

00:41:34 --> 00:41:36

in particular and its final stage of development.

00:41:36 --> 00:41:38

And I'm gonna highlight those to you now.

00:41:39 --> 00:41:41

So the first thing that happens when a

00:41:41 --> 00:41:42

soul begins to grow and develop

00:41:43 --> 00:41:46

is that it begins to turn towards Allah

00:41:48 --> 00:41:49

The soul now now I'm going to use

00:41:49 --> 00:41:50

instead of the word soul, we're going to

00:41:50 --> 00:41:51

use the word heart

00:41:52 --> 00:41:54

because heart is really the center point is

00:41:54 --> 00:41:56

the command center of the soul. So, for

00:41:56 --> 00:41:58

example, when a person's heart turns

00:41:58 --> 00:41:58

towards

00:41:59 --> 00:42:02

development or begins to develop, the first thing

00:42:02 --> 00:42:03

is that it turns away from Dunya and

00:42:03 --> 00:42:05

begins to turn towards Allah.

00:42:07 --> 00:42:10

Okay. Now the example perhaps most of us

00:42:10 --> 00:42:13

in this room can relate to, especially because

00:42:13 --> 00:42:15

some of us, maybe many of us, spent

00:42:15 --> 00:42:17

some time away from the Deen. We made

00:42:17 --> 00:42:20

the mistake of not valuing the iman that

00:42:20 --> 00:42:21

we had been given and then Allah through

00:42:21 --> 00:42:23

his infinite mercy actually returned us to the

00:42:23 --> 00:42:24

Deen.

00:42:24 --> 00:42:26

So we can we can appreciate this because

00:42:26 --> 00:42:28

it happened at a stage at which we

00:42:28 --> 00:42:30

were mentally mature.

00:42:31 --> 00:42:32

And so if I say to you, you

00:42:32 --> 00:42:34

know, I grab a person, let's say, who

00:42:34 --> 00:42:35

says that, you know, it was when I

00:42:35 --> 00:42:37

went to college that something clicked and I

00:42:37 --> 00:42:39

and I I woke up and Allah awoke

00:42:39 --> 00:42:40

me to my reality, then I can say

00:42:40 --> 00:42:42

to you, okay, you were mentally mature. Can

00:42:42 --> 00:42:43

you describe to me what happened? So they'll

00:42:43 --> 00:42:45

say that this is what I remember. I

00:42:45 --> 00:42:47

remember that I was kind of very heedless,

00:42:47 --> 00:42:48

had no clue about what was going on

00:42:48 --> 00:42:50

in life. And all of a sudden, Allah

00:42:50 --> 00:42:51

woke me up, whether it be through a

00:42:51 --> 00:42:53

talk or meeting a friend or whatever it

00:42:53 --> 00:42:55

might be. And then my mind and heart

00:42:55 --> 00:42:57

and eyes began to turn towards Allah.

00:42:58 --> 00:43:00

Instead of thinking about the world around me,

00:43:00 --> 00:43:01

I began to focus on Allah. I began

00:43:01 --> 00:43:03

to think about prayer. I began to think

00:43:03 --> 00:43:05

about Quran. I began to think about doing

00:43:05 --> 00:43:07

good deeds, etcetera. Began to ask myself about

00:43:07 --> 00:43:09

my relationships with other people. So this is

00:43:09 --> 00:43:12

the first stage of development of the soul,

00:43:12 --> 00:43:14

and it is also called in the science

00:43:14 --> 00:43:16

of the SAWUF, it's called seir ilallah.

00:43:17 --> 00:43:20

Seir seir means journey. It's Arabic word for

00:43:20 --> 00:43:22

journey. That's called seir ilallah.

00:43:22 --> 00:43:24

Now the next thing that happens is once

00:43:24 --> 00:43:26

a person begins to turn in their life

00:43:26 --> 00:43:27

towards the Sharia and the Sunnah which is

00:43:27 --> 00:43:29

really turning towards what Allah demands from us,

00:43:30 --> 00:43:31

then they enter a new phase which is

00:43:31 --> 00:43:33

called Seir Fillah.

00:43:34 --> 00:43:35

It's called Seir Fillah.

00:43:36 --> 00:43:38

Now Seir Fillah means that you begin to

00:43:38 --> 00:43:41

travel within Allah. Now now you're not literally

00:43:41 --> 00:43:43

traveling within Allah, but what it means is

00:43:43 --> 00:43:45

that you begin to you begin your soul

00:43:45 --> 00:43:47

begins to go through a phase where all

00:43:47 --> 00:43:49

it does is experience Allah.

00:43:50 --> 00:43:51

So it's actually

00:43:51 --> 00:43:54

it actually enjoys the salah because it's a

00:43:54 --> 00:43:56

time that it becomes close to Allah. It

00:43:56 --> 00:43:59

actually enjoys reciting the book of Allah because

00:43:59 --> 00:44:00

it's a time that it's interacting with the

00:44:00 --> 00:44:04

words of Allah. It actually enjoys following Rasulullah

00:44:04 --> 00:44:06

because it brings in the barakat that we've

00:44:06 --> 00:44:07

talked about whenever there's

00:44:12 --> 00:44:14

So just as when Rasulullah

00:44:14 --> 00:44:17

is followed, then you you begin Allah begins

00:44:17 --> 00:44:19

to love you. They begin to feel that

00:44:19 --> 00:44:20

love from Allah

00:44:21 --> 00:44:23

So that's called Sayr Fil Allah.

00:44:24 --> 00:44:25

Now the 3rd stage

00:44:25 --> 00:44:27

is called Sayr Amin Allah.

00:44:27 --> 00:44:30

Now eventually what happens is the person for

00:44:30 --> 00:44:32

a short period of time just gets completely

00:44:32 --> 00:44:34

caught up in Allah. Everything is Allah. The

00:44:34 --> 00:44:37

world disappears around them. They that's they just

00:44:37 --> 00:44:39

are crazy about Allah. You know, they just

00:44:39 --> 00:44:41

wanna pray all the time. They they stop

00:44:41 --> 00:44:42

doing the things they should do. They stop

00:44:42 --> 00:44:44

interacting with the people they should be they

00:44:44 --> 00:44:46

they normally interact with. Then what happens is

00:44:46 --> 00:44:48

they begin to learn a little bit more

00:44:48 --> 00:44:50

about what's demanded from them, from the sharia

00:44:50 --> 00:44:51

and the sunnah, and they begin to see

00:44:51 --> 00:44:54

that it's not permitted to disappear from the

00:44:54 --> 00:44:56

world, but instead that you have responsibilities

00:44:56 --> 00:44:57

towards the world.

00:44:57 --> 00:44:59

So now what happens? They begin to return

00:45:00 --> 00:45:01

back towards

00:45:01 --> 00:45:03

interacting with creation.

00:45:03 --> 00:45:05

So that's called sayd min Allah,

00:45:06 --> 00:45:07

where they now begin to realize that actually

00:45:07 --> 00:45:09

the sharia requires me, for example, to get

00:45:09 --> 00:45:12

married. It requires me to eat food. It

00:45:12 --> 00:45:14

requires me to spend time with others. It

00:45:14 --> 00:45:16

requires me to deal with my parents and

00:45:16 --> 00:45:17

that I get rewarded for these things as

00:45:17 --> 00:45:18

well

00:45:20 --> 00:45:20

and that they're actually part of my responsibility

00:45:21 --> 00:45:21

to Allah.

00:45:22 --> 00:45:24

Then finally, what happens is the person goes

00:45:24 --> 00:45:25

from Sayr

00:45:26 --> 00:45:26

Min Allah

00:45:27 --> 00:45:30

to a final state, which is absolute spiritual

00:45:30 --> 00:45:31

maturity,

00:45:31 --> 00:45:32

which is called

00:45:35 --> 00:45:37

and that's the final stage of maturity.

00:45:41 --> 00:45:42

Traveling

00:45:42 --> 00:45:45

connected to Allah but among the things of

00:45:45 --> 00:45:45

this world.

00:45:46 --> 00:45:48

So that's the final stage. So what happens?

00:45:48 --> 00:45:49

You look at the person, they look the

00:45:49 --> 00:45:52

same as everyone else. They're smiling, eating, laughing,

00:45:52 --> 00:45:55

joking, but their heart is always connected to

00:45:55 --> 00:45:55

Allah.

00:45:56 --> 00:45:59

They're just constantly in connection with Allah. And

00:45:59 --> 00:46:00

the the proof of this, or you can

00:46:00 --> 00:46:02

say the the ultimate example of this is

00:46:02 --> 00:46:04

the famous hadith of Rasulullah of the of

00:46:04 --> 00:46:06

the angels when they came to visit Rasulullah

00:46:06 --> 00:46:07

Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam and he was sleeping.

00:46:08 --> 00:46:10

So 2 angels came to visit Rasulullah Sallallahu

00:46:10 --> 00:46:12

Alaihi Wasallam and he was sleeping. And when

00:46:12 --> 00:46:14

they came, they were quietly saying to each

00:46:14 --> 00:46:16

other, they were saying to each other that

00:46:16 --> 00:46:17

one of them says he's sleeping.

00:46:18 --> 00:46:19

And the other one says back to the

00:46:19 --> 00:46:21

angel that his eyes are sleeping, but his

00:46:21 --> 00:46:25

heart is awake. Okay? So what's happening here

00:46:25 --> 00:46:26

is that apparently he's

00:46:28 --> 00:46:30

sleeping, but he looks so he looks like

00:46:30 --> 00:46:32

me and you. He looks like an everyday

00:46:32 --> 00:46:35

person, but actually his heart is constantly in

00:46:35 --> 00:46:37

the remembrance of Allah. He's he's in the

00:46:37 --> 00:46:38

state of

00:46:41 --> 00:46:42

sayer ma Allah Fil Ashiya. Did you understand

00:46:42 --> 00:46:42

this?

00:46:43 --> 00:46:46

Now this is the final state of this

00:46:46 --> 00:46:48

is the final goal of the spiritually mature

00:46:48 --> 00:46:49

individual

00:46:50 --> 00:46:52

that they act normal. They have a life,

00:46:52 --> 00:46:55

they have their job, they work,

00:46:56 --> 00:46:58

they drive a car, they have all the

00:46:58 --> 00:47:01

responsibilities that any human being would have, but

00:47:01 --> 00:47:03

they're doing all of this connected to Allah.

00:47:03 --> 00:47:05

They live their life according to the Sharia,

00:47:05 --> 00:47:08

they emulate the sunnah, and their heart is

00:47:08 --> 00:47:10

always connected to Allah. They're just thinking about

00:47:10 --> 00:47:12

Allah. They're doing work with their hands,

00:47:12 --> 00:47:15

but actually their heart is just completely connected

00:47:15 --> 00:47:16

with Allah.

00:47:16 --> 00:47:19

So that is actually the ultimate stage of

00:47:19 --> 00:47:21

maturity. That is when the soul, the heart

00:47:21 --> 00:47:23

becomes one strong,

00:47:23 --> 00:47:25

you know, individual. That's when you become an

00:47:25 --> 00:47:26

adult.

00:47:26 --> 00:47:28

That's when you become a spiritual adult.

00:47:29 --> 00:47:30

Now

00:47:30 --> 00:47:33

these four stages, they occur and when you

00:47:33 --> 00:47:35

reach the stage of spiritual maturity,

00:47:35 --> 00:47:37

there are some things that happen oh, actually,

00:47:37 --> 00:47:39

let me take one tangent.

00:47:39 --> 00:47:40

Now

00:47:40 --> 00:47:42

it's Allah's mercy

00:47:42 --> 00:47:43

that actually

00:47:48 --> 00:47:51

the first stage the first two stages are

00:47:51 --> 00:47:52

very easy to achieve

00:47:55 --> 00:47:57

initially. Let me put it that way.

00:47:57 --> 00:47:59

Okay. So what should I say this? That

00:47:59 --> 00:48:00

you know, like, it takes if you if

00:48:00 --> 00:48:02

you have a baby and you want the

00:48:02 --> 00:48:03

baby to become an adult, you know that

00:48:03 --> 00:48:05

it takes 25 years before they reach, for

00:48:05 --> 00:48:07

example, peak bone mass. They they get the

00:48:07 --> 00:48:09

true height and their bones become the true

00:48:09 --> 00:48:11

thickness that they're going to be. Right? So

00:48:11 --> 00:48:13

you know that that's going to take 25

00:48:13 --> 00:48:15

years, and it's going so it's about 25

00:48:15 --> 00:48:17

years. Sometimes, you know, we even say to

00:48:17 --> 00:48:18

our children, you can't get married now. You're

00:48:18 --> 00:48:20

you're just 16. You have to finish college.

00:48:20 --> 00:48:21

You know, you have to finish we want

00:48:21 --> 00:48:23

them to be 25 when they get married.

00:48:23 --> 00:48:24

So we even see it that way, you

00:48:24 --> 00:48:26

know, especially the parents. They see that, no.

00:48:26 --> 00:48:27

This child is still a child. They need

00:48:27 --> 00:48:29

to change some more degree of maturity.

00:48:29 --> 00:48:32

So it takes about 25, 30 years before,

00:48:32 --> 00:48:33

you know, the the human being really becomes

00:48:33 --> 00:48:36

mature. They finished college. You know, their mind

00:48:36 --> 00:48:38

is mature. They their body is mature, etcetera.

00:48:39 --> 00:48:40

Now I'm not talking about the shoddy maturity.

00:48:40 --> 00:48:42

The shoddy maturity occurs at a much younger

00:48:42 --> 00:48:44

age, and then you become responsible for the

00:48:44 --> 00:48:46

rules of the shitty. But I'm talking about

00:48:46 --> 00:48:49

the peak maturity, you know, physical physical maturity

00:48:49 --> 00:48:50

when it just peaks.

00:48:51 --> 00:48:53

So anyway, that takes about 20 years, but

00:48:53 --> 00:48:55

the spiritual maturity can occur

00:48:56 --> 00:48:58

rapidly, like, even in a few days.

00:48:58 --> 00:49:00

So that if you happen to be behind,

00:49:00 --> 00:49:01

it's not so bad.

00:49:02 --> 00:49:03

You can catch up.

00:49:03 --> 00:49:06

And this state, you know, these first two

00:49:06 --> 00:49:06

journeys,

00:49:07 --> 00:49:09

they occur very rapidly. So what happens is

00:49:09 --> 00:49:12

a person can actually rocket up towards Allah

00:49:12 --> 00:49:14

and then actually rocket up in this stage

00:49:14 --> 00:49:17

called say it. Now if I ask anybody

00:49:17 --> 00:49:19

in this room and and and it's funny

00:49:19 --> 00:49:21

because if I travel around various colleges and

00:49:21 --> 00:49:23

I ask this question, it's always the same

00:49:23 --> 00:49:23

answer.

00:49:24 --> 00:49:26

I say, did you ever experience a time

00:49:26 --> 00:49:29

when just Allah was everything to you?

00:49:29 --> 00:49:31

And you were praying and tears would come

00:49:31 --> 00:49:33

down your eye every time you prayed?

00:49:33 --> 00:49:35

And when you were reading you would read

00:49:35 --> 00:49:37

Quran and every ayah would feel like it

00:49:37 --> 00:49:39

had been revealed before you?

00:49:39 --> 00:49:41

And you would sit in the masjid and

00:49:41 --> 00:49:42

you would wish that you could be no

00:49:42 --> 00:49:43

place else in the world,

00:49:44 --> 00:49:46

and everyone can can can relate to that

00:49:46 --> 00:49:47

experience.

00:49:48 --> 00:49:49

Because what happens,

00:49:49 --> 00:49:50

everyone

00:49:50 --> 00:49:51

someday awakens

00:49:52 --> 00:49:54

to this point and with the mere turning

00:49:54 --> 00:49:55

towards Allah,

00:49:56 --> 00:49:58

Allah so rapidly comes to that individual that

00:49:58 --> 00:50:00

they become in the state of

00:50:03 --> 00:50:05

They rapidly enter that state.

00:50:05 --> 00:50:06

Now

00:50:07 --> 00:50:08

if you happen to be, for example, the

00:50:08 --> 00:50:09

Sahaba,

00:50:10 --> 00:50:12

then what they were what what was their

00:50:12 --> 00:50:14

one of their unique characteristics is that they

00:50:14 --> 00:50:16

rapidly went to that state and then they

00:50:16 --> 00:50:18

maintained that state and rapidly,

00:50:18 --> 00:50:20

by by the training of Rasulullah sallallahu alaihi

00:50:20 --> 00:50:22

wa sallam, rapidly became among those who were

00:50:22 --> 00:50:25

just constantly connected to Allah, although they traveled

00:50:25 --> 00:50:26

among the a Shia.

00:50:27 --> 00:50:30

So they rapidly attained their development. Now what

00:50:30 --> 00:50:32

the problem with us is is that this

00:50:32 --> 00:50:34

rapid growth that we get where we enter

00:50:34 --> 00:50:36

into sayr filah,

00:50:36 --> 00:50:39

the vast majority of us, we waste it.

00:50:39 --> 00:50:41

So what happens is we get into that

00:50:41 --> 00:50:44

state, but then instead of going around full

00:50:44 --> 00:50:46

circle and coming to that final stage, which

00:50:46 --> 00:50:48

actually then requires effort, we go the other

00:50:48 --> 00:50:51

way, and we continue to do the sins

00:50:51 --> 00:50:51

that we do.

00:50:52 --> 00:50:54

We continue to live the life that we

00:50:54 --> 00:50:56

wanna live. So what happens is, you know,

00:50:56 --> 00:50:58

you you turn towards Allah, you begin to

00:50:58 --> 00:51:01

experience the Quran, experience the hadith, experience the

00:51:01 --> 00:51:04

talks that the ulama give, experience salah. Everything

00:51:04 --> 00:51:05

in the world is all about Allah and

00:51:05 --> 00:51:08

the deen, and you're just flying on cloud

00:51:08 --> 00:51:09

9, but you don't stop sinning.

00:51:10 --> 00:51:12

You still waste time on the Internet. You

00:51:12 --> 00:51:14

still waste time. You talk to people you

00:51:14 --> 00:51:15

shouldn't talk to, and you think that somehow

00:51:15 --> 00:51:17

this is going to remain forever. And every

00:51:17 --> 00:51:19

college student, for example, that made change in

00:51:19 --> 00:51:21

college tells you the same story. I got

00:51:21 --> 00:51:24

involved in MSA. I was on cloud 9.

00:51:24 --> 00:51:26

It was the most incredible experience, and then

00:51:26 --> 00:51:27

after a year, it disappeared.

00:51:28 --> 00:51:29

Now how do I get it back?

00:51:30 --> 00:51:32

So in order to get it the problem

00:51:32 --> 00:51:34

that they the the worst thing for them

00:51:34 --> 00:51:36

is that they wasted that initial fuel

00:51:37 --> 00:51:39

because it's very hard to get it a

00:51:39 --> 00:51:40

second time.

00:51:41 --> 00:51:42

Very hard. Then it requires massive.

00:51:43 --> 00:51:45

But the first time you get it, if

00:51:45 --> 00:51:47

you can just and swing it back all

00:51:47 --> 00:51:48

the way around, you know, you put in

00:51:48 --> 00:51:50

all this energy to turn the wheel and

00:51:50 --> 00:51:52

boom, it's just about to fall over, but

00:51:52 --> 00:51:53

then it falls back the other way

00:51:54 --> 00:51:55

because the person doesn't give up their old

00:51:55 --> 00:51:57

lifestyle. They think that this is some state

00:51:57 --> 00:52:00

that they've been given permanently for free.

00:52:00 --> 00:52:03

So what happens is most people, they lose

00:52:03 --> 00:52:03

it,

00:52:04 --> 00:52:06

and it turns all the way back down.

00:52:06 --> 00:52:07

And then what they have to do is

00:52:07 --> 00:52:09

they have to make tremendous sacrifice to be

00:52:09 --> 00:52:11

able to get back to that state. And

00:52:11 --> 00:52:13

I'll tell you just from my own personal

00:52:13 --> 00:52:14

experience, I mean, I went through something very

00:52:14 --> 00:52:15

similar. You know, in college, you make a

00:52:15 --> 00:52:18

change, boom, you're awoken. You start thinking that,

00:52:18 --> 00:52:19

you know, you're doing these things, that this

00:52:19 --> 00:52:21

is really where you're going to develop. You

00:52:21 --> 00:52:22

make the best effort you can, and then

00:52:22 --> 00:52:25

you lose it. Now there's 2 important aspects

00:52:25 --> 00:52:27

about losing it. Number 1, there's a beauty

00:52:27 --> 00:52:30

to it because you essentially tasted the high

00:52:30 --> 00:52:31

of the deen.

00:52:32 --> 00:52:33

You tasted the pinnacle of the deen. You

00:52:33 --> 00:52:35

tasted what it meant to be a Muslim.

00:52:36 --> 00:52:39

So now nothing in life will ever make

00:52:39 --> 00:52:39

you happy

00:52:40 --> 00:52:42

until you again experience that.

00:52:43 --> 00:52:45

Nothing in life will ever make you happy

00:52:46 --> 00:52:49

until you again experience that. So that then

00:52:49 --> 00:52:50

be that's a it's a blessing in a

00:52:50 --> 00:52:53

way because now you know what you're seeking.

00:52:53 --> 00:52:55

Now you know what the result should have

00:52:55 --> 00:52:58

been, and now you'll you'll once you lose

00:52:58 --> 00:53:00

it, you'll feel like you lost something, like

00:53:00 --> 00:53:01

you had iman and it disappeared.

00:53:02 --> 00:53:04

So that's one blessing that the so that's

00:53:04 --> 00:53:05

the blessing aspect of it. It's kind of

00:53:05 --> 00:53:07

a double edged sword. The bad thing obviously

00:53:07 --> 00:53:09

is that you reached this enormous state and

00:53:09 --> 00:53:10

you could have gone over the hump, but

00:53:10 --> 00:53:12

instead you went back. And then now it

00:53:12 --> 00:53:14

requires energy and effort to get back there.

00:53:15 --> 00:53:17

And the energy and effort then becomes real.

00:53:18 --> 00:53:19

Meaning, I can say just from my own

00:53:19 --> 00:53:22

life that I did not get that state

00:53:22 --> 00:53:23

back

00:53:23 --> 00:53:26

until after having spent more than, you know,

00:53:26 --> 00:53:30

about 18 months studying in Islamic Institute of

00:53:30 --> 00:53:31

Learning when I when I was studying.

00:53:32 --> 00:53:34

After a tremendous sacrifice. It was very hard,

00:53:34 --> 00:53:36

but it took that much time before it

00:53:36 --> 00:53:39

came back, meaning that was through the effort

00:53:39 --> 00:53:41

of my sheikh, through the effort of my

00:53:41 --> 00:53:43

hadith teacher, through the effort of my fiqh

00:53:43 --> 00:53:45

teacher, through the effort of the environment that

00:53:45 --> 00:53:46

I was in. You know, it took that

00:53:46 --> 00:53:47

much sacrifice

00:53:48 --> 00:53:50

until eventually, you know, you attained some degree

00:53:50 --> 00:53:51

and you say, okay. I remembered this is

00:53:51 --> 00:53:52

what it was.

00:53:53 --> 00:53:54

But, you know, luckily then if you're in

00:53:54 --> 00:53:56

the company of those people that are striving,

00:53:56 --> 00:53:58

they'll teach you to then take it now

00:53:58 --> 00:54:00

down this way full circle so that you

00:54:00 --> 00:54:02

can actually try to maintain it despite the

00:54:02 --> 00:54:03

fact that you might have to go back

00:54:03 --> 00:54:04

and do your

00:54:05 --> 00:54:07

whatever, your engineering school or your computer degree

00:54:07 --> 00:54:09

or whatever it might be. And not that

00:54:09 --> 00:54:10

I'm saying that you have to go abroad

00:54:10 --> 00:54:12

and study in order to attain it, but

00:54:12 --> 00:54:14

you have to make sacrifice to attain it.

00:54:14 --> 00:54:15

You will have to sacrifice

00:54:16 --> 00:54:18

the vast majority of what you deem to

00:54:18 --> 00:54:20

be yours in order to get Allah.

00:54:21 --> 00:54:23

You have to sacrifice basically everything.

00:54:23 --> 00:54:26

You know, you can't have both if this

00:54:26 --> 00:54:27

doesn't work that way. You have to give

00:54:27 --> 00:54:29

yourself to Allah within the bounds of the

00:54:29 --> 00:54:31

Sharia and the Sunnah, obviously.

00:54:32 --> 00:54:34

So anyway, this this is one important aspect,

00:54:34 --> 00:54:35

and that was a tangent that I just

00:54:35 --> 00:54:37

wanted to mention because I think any everybody

00:54:37 --> 00:54:39

in this room or the vast majority of

00:54:39 --> 00:54:41

people in this room should understand what is

00:54:41 --> 00:54:43

Sayr Filah just from that experience.

00:54:44 --> 00:54:47

Now, once a person achieves spiritual maturity, then

00:54:47 --> 00:54:49

some very special things occur. Just as when

00:54:49 --> 00:54:51

the body achieves spiritual maturity, there are some

00:54:51 --> 00:54:54

special things that occur. For example, when the

00:54:54 --> 00:54:55

body achieve one of the signs of spiritual

00:54:55 --> 00:54:57

maturity is that a child begins to become

00:54:57 --> 00:54:58

literate.

00:54:58 --> 00:55:00

So we expect that when a child is

00:55:00 --> 00:55:01

mentally mature, they can read,

00:55:02 --> 00:55:03

and we become we are very proud of

00:55:03 --> 00:55:05

our children when they read. And when they

00:55:05 --> 00:55:09

read, what happens? It opens up the world

00:55:09 --> 00:55:10

to them in a way that they could

00:55:10 --> 00:55:11

never imagine.

00:55:12 --> 00:55:13

Right? So, for example, if you don't know

00:55:13 --> 00:55:15

how to read, you kind of just are

00:55:15 --> 00:55:17

passively going through the world. But once you

00:55:17 --> 00:55:19

begin to learn how to read, the child

00:55:19 --> 00:55:21

will be sort of sitting in the like,

00:55:21 --> 00:55:22

my son, let's say, he's learning how to

00:55:22 --> 00:55:24

read. He's sitting in the back of the

00:55:24 --> 00:55:26

car. He starts reading. S t o p.

00:55:26 --> 00:55:29

Stop. Oh, baba, stop. Right? Then he sees

00:55:29 --> 00:55:31

the world in a very different way. Alright?

00:55:31 --> 00:55:34

Then he begins to read that, you know,

00:55:34 --> 00:55:36

he's going by and he begins to read,

00:55:36 --> 00:55:38

I don't know, the Coca Cola sign. Right?

00:55:39 --> 00:55:40

And and and I don't know. What are

00:55:40 --> 00:55:42

they saying there? Like, you know, they have

00:55:42 --> 00:55:43

some phrase, and then he'll ask you, what

00:55:43 --> 00:55:45

does that phrase mean, Baba? So he sees

00:55:45 --> 00:55:47

the world in a different way. Right? And

00:55:47 --> 00:55:48

he begins to read about the moon, and

00:55:48 --> 00:55:50

he comes and asks you, did people go

00:55:50 --> 00:55:52

to the moon, Baba? So he, again, interacted

00:55:52 --> 00:55:54

with the world in a different way. So

00:55:54 --> 00:55:56

as a person becomes mentally mature, they become

00:55:56 --> 00:55:56

literate.

00:55:57 --> 00:55:59

Now in the same way, as a person

00:55:59 --> 00:56:02

becomes spiritually mature, they also become literate.

00:56:02 --> 00:56:04

But what do they become literate of? They

00:56:04 --> 00:56:06

become literate of the signs of Allah

00:56:08 --> 00:56:10

And that literacy, just like learning how to

00:56:10 --> 00:56:12

read, produces a certain ecstasy

00:56:12 --> 00:56:15

because you can read and now experience the

00:56:15 --> 00:56:16

universe around you. Even

00:56:17 --> 00:56:20

far above that. Once a person becomes spiritually

00:56:20 --> 00:56:22

mature, they learn how to read the signs

00:56:22 --> 00:56:24

of Allah, and it creates

00:56:25 --> 00:56:26

a ultimate experience

00:56:27 --> 00:56:28

ultimate experience. Now what do I mean by

00:56:28 --> 00:56:31

that? Instead of looking at a tree and

00:56:31 --> 00:56:33

saying this is a tree, they see that

00:56:33 --> 00:56:35

in the end, this is a reflection of

00:56:35 --> 00:56:37

Allah's creation. It's in a way a reflection

00:56:37 --> 00:56:38

even of Allah.

00:56:39 --> 00:56:41

Right? So they become

00:56:42 --> 00:56:44

spiritually literate. They begin to see every tree

00:56:44 --> 00:56:45

is a sign of Allah.

00:56:45 --> 00:56:47

Every leaf on every tree is a sign

00:56:47 --> 00:56:48

of Allah. Every branch is a sign of

00:56:48 --> 00:56:49

Allah.

00:56:49 --> 00:56:51

They see that every blade of grass is

00:56:51 --> 00:56:53

a sign of Allah, that the rising and

00:56:53 --> 00:56:54

the setting of the sun is a sign

00:56:54 --> 00:56:56

of Allah, that the moon is a sign

00:56:56 --> 00:56:58

of Allah, that the sky is a sign

00:56:58 --> 00:57:00

of Allah, that the ground that you step

00:57:00 --> 00:57:01

on it, that it's firm is a sign

00:57:01 --> 00:57:03

of Allah, that every human being and how

00:57:03 --> 00:57:05

they've been created differently, yet they're all sort

00:57:05 --> 00:57:07

of from the same parent is a sign

00:57:07 --> 00:57:08

of Allah.

00:57:08 --> 00:57:10

And so what happens? Everything

00:57:10 --> 00:57:12

becomes a reminder of Allah

00:57:13 --> 00:57:15

so that every place they look, they are

00:57:15 --> 00:57:19

just constantly bombarded with Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah.

00:57:20 --> 00:57:22

The whole world is making the dhikr of

00:57:22 --> 00:57:22

Allah

00:57:23 --> 00:57:26

and they become absolutely finished in Allah because

00:57:27 --> 00:57:31

they cannot but turn any place except that

00:57:31 --> 00:57:32

they're reminded of Allah.

00:57:33 --> 00:57:35

The whole world becomes a dhikr for them.

00:57:36 --> 00:57:38

And this is actually the ultimate demand of

00:57:38 --> 00:57:40

the Quran where the Quran demands you that

00:57:40 --> 00:57:43

do you not see the sun, the stars,

00:57:43 --> 00:57:45

the skies, the moon, the mountains, the earth.

00:57:45 --> 00:57:49

The Quran is constantly opening your eyes to

00:57:49 --> 00:57:50

this spiritual literacy

00:57:51 --> 00:57:53

And what Rasulullah salallahu alaihi wasalam taught his

00:57:53 --> 00:57:56

Sahaba was not how to read, although reading

00:57:56 --> 00:57:58

was was taught to them, but it was

00:57:58 --> 00:58:00

how to read the signs of Allah. He

00:58:00 --> 00:58:02

made their hearts mature enough to be able

00:58:02 --> 00:58:05

to appreciate that the world around them was

00:58:05 --> 00:58:08

all just a constant reminder of Allah.

00:58:09 --> 00:58:11

Now you look at this, I mean, you

00:58:11 --> 00:58:12

look at the duas of Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi

00:58:12 --> 00:58:14

Wasallam and just to exemplify some simple ones

00:58:14 --> 00:58:17

like, you know, when the sun rose, what

00:58:17 --> 00:58:19

would what would Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam say?

00:58:27 --> 00:58:29

When he saw the sunrise,

00:58:29 --> 00:58:31

he would not just see that, oh, the

00:58:31 --> 00:58:32

sun rose, I have to go to work.

00:58:33 --> 00:58:35

Oh, the sun rose. The traffic's probably gonna

00:58:35 --> 00:58:37

be bad now. Oh, the sun rose. It's

00:58:37 --> 00:58:38

time for me to eat breakfast. No. That

00:58:38 --> 00:58:40

wasn't what the sunrise was.

00:58:40 --> 00:58:43

The sunrise was a sign that Allah

00:58:44 --> 00:58:45

had rotated

00:58:45 --> 00:58:46

the whole

00:58:46 --> 00:58:47

earth

00:58:47 --> 00:58:48

into the morning.

00:58:55 --> 00:58:56

That we have been

00:58:57 --> 00:58:59

we have been put into the morning and

00:58:59 --> 00:59:01

the entire mulk, the entire universe has been

00:59:01 --> 00:59:03

put into the morning. Why?

00:59:06 --> 00:59:07

Because of Allah

00:59:09 --> 00:59:11

SubhanAllah. That was just the sunrise.

00:59:12 --> 00:59:13

That was the sunrise.

00:59:14 --> 00:59:16

Then the rest of the day comes, you

00:59:16 --> 00:59:18

know, then the sun reaches its peak, then

00:59:18 --> 00:59:20

the sun sets, and when the sun sets

00:59:20 --> 00:59:21

the same principle,

00:59:27 --> 00:59:29

That we have entered into the evening and

00:59:29 --> 00:59:31

the entire universe has entered into the evening

00:59:32 --> 00:59:33

because of the power of Allah.

00:59:36 --> 00:59:37

SubhanAllah. Just imagine,

00:59:38 --> 00:59:40

imagine the state of dhikr of these people.

00:59:40 --> 00:59:42

And this is why it stated that the

00:59:42 --> 00:59:44

Sahaba, they were like crazy people, you know,

00:59:44 --> 00:59:47

in this way that they were constantly talking

00:59:47 --> 00:59:48

about Allah.

00:59:48 --> 00:59:51

Whatever you sat with these people and they're

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just talking Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, Allah, that's

00:59:53 --> 00:59:55

all they talk about.

00:59:55 --> 00:59:58

They're constantly reflecting on Allah. They're constantly caught

00:59:58 --> 01:00:00

up in Allah, they're constantly bombarded by the

01:00:00 --> 01:00:01

signs of Allah.

01:00:02 --> 01:00:03

This is what those people became.

01:00:04 --> 01:00:07

Why? Because they had they they were Rasulullah

01:00:07 --> 01:00:10

Sallallahu alaihi wasallam taught them to become readers,

01:00:11 --> 01:00:12

spiritual readers.

01:00:13 --> 01:00:14

Like we teach our children, you know, the

01:00:14 --> 01:00:16

literacy rate has reached an incredible level in

01:00:16 --> 01:00:17

this society.

01:00:17 --> 01:00:19

Every child, every one of our children can

01:00:19 --> 01:00:21

read. That never existed in the past.

01:00:22 --> 01:00:24

But at the same time, we should make

01:00:24 --> 01:00:26

sure that every one of our children can

01:00:26 --> 01:00:28

read the spiritual signs of Allah,

01:00:29 --> 01:00:30

which are all around us.

01:00:31 --> 01:00:33

It's amazing to me that we've in in

01:00:33 --> 01:00:34

a reading

01:00:34 --> 01:00:36

is all part of reading things as part

01:00:36 --> 01:00:37

of being human.

01:00:37 --> 01:00:39

And you're gonna be taught to read 1

01:00:39 --> 01:00:40

of 2 things. Either you're going to read

01:00:40 --> 01:00:43

Ashiya or you're going to read Allah.

01:00:43 --> 01:00:45

So what happens? People read. They read the

01:00:45 --> 01:00:46

iPhone,

01:00:47 --> 01:00:48

and they get excited about it, and they

01:00:48 --> 01:00:49

look at it, and they say, this is

01:00:49 --> 01:00:50

the newest thing, and they begin to think

01:00:50 --> 01:00:53

and reflect on it. And that, unfortunately, is

01:00:53 --> 01:00:54

what draws the subhanallah from their mouth in

01:00:54 --> 01:00:56

this day and age. You know, they learn

01:00:56 --> 01:00:58

to read the latest notebook and how thin

01:00:58 --> 01:00:59

it is.

01:01:00 --> 01:01:01

Right? Wow. Look at this notebook. K? It's

01:01:01 --> 01:01:03

so thin. I need one of those.

01:01:03 --> 01:01:05

So we read. It's not that we don't

01:01:05 --> 01:01:08

read, but we read things. We read things

01:01:08 --> 01:01:09

that have been created by humans because we're

01:01:09 --> 01:01:12

caught up in the world. But actually we

01:01:12 --> 01:01:14

should learn to read the signs of Allah

01:01:14 --> 01:01:17

and that is the ultimate form of zikr.

01:01:17 --> 01:01:19

It's the ultimate form. And how can we

01:01:19 --> 01:01:21

wake up in the morning and not be

01:01:21 --> 01:01:23

cognizant of the fact that Allah rotated

01:01:24 --> 01:01:26

the whole earth in order for us to

01:01:26 --> 01:01:27

enter into that morning?

01:01:28 --> 01:01:30

How can we wake up in the morning

01:01:30 --> 01:01:32

and and not recognize that Allah

01:01:33 --> 01:01:36

created a new day, a fresh start and

01:01:36 --> 01:01:38

allowed us to bury the sins of yesterday

01:01:38 --> 01:01:41

and start fresh and try to live the

01:01:41 --> 01:01:42

day as a Muslim again.

01:01:44 --> 01:01:46

It's a new opportunity. I mean, if anybody

01:01:46 --> 01:01:49

gave you look, you failed miserably.

01:01:50 --> 01:01:52

You were in college. You failed every class,

01:01:54 --> 01:01:57

every class. And the next day, the university

01:01:57 --> 01:01:59

says, we're going to erase your transcript and

01:01:59 --> 01:02:02

start you here. We're refunding your money. We're

01:02:02 --> 01:02:04

erasing your transcript and we're gonna start you

01:02:04 --> 01:02:05

over again. Try again. Can you do it

01:02:05 --> 01:02:06

this time?

01:02:07 --> 01:02:09

Every day we wake up,

01:02:09 --> 01:02:12

Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala allows us to reset

01:02:12 --> 01:02:14

our life and gives us the chance to

01:02:14 --> 01:02:16

live again one day as a Muslim.

01:02:18 --> 01:02:21

All of the yesterdays erased by sleep.

01:02:21 --> 01:02:23

And again, we start anew.

01:02:23 --> 01:02:25

Every day you have the opportunity to come

01:02:25 --> 01:02:27

for Fajr so much so that Allah opens

01:02:27 --> 01:02:28

the door that somebody has not prayed Fajr

01:02:28 --> 01:02:30

in 20 years, Allah opens the door the

01:02:30 --> 01:02:31

next day.

01:02:32 --> 01:02:34

Every day is a new opportunity.

01:02:34 --> 01:02:36

So how could we deny

01:02:37 --> 01:02:39

that favor and be more caught up in

01:02:39 --> 01:02:40

are we gonna get our coffee from Dunkin'

01:02:40 --> 01:02:41

Donuts?

01:02:41 --> 01:02:43

Where are we gonna get breakfast from?

01:02:44 --> 01:02:45

You know?

01:02:45 --> 01:02:47

What should I listen to on my way

01:02:47 --> 01:02:47

to work?

01:02:48 --> 01:02:50

What's the news? That's the most unfortunate.

01:02:50 --> 01:02:52

Let me hear the news of everybody. You

01:02:52 --> 01:02:54

know? What did this person say and that

01:02:54 --> 01:02:55

person say and this person do and that

01:02:55 --> 01:02:57

person do? And these are just little games.

01:02:58 --> 01:03:00

They're little games with big names.

01:03:01 --> 01:03:02

We should be looking at the sun in

01:03:02 --> 01:03:03

the morning and saying,

01:03:09 --> 01:03:11

We don't even read the dua for god's

01:03:11 --> 01:03:11

sake.

01:03:12 --> 01:03:14

We don't even read the dua, which, you

01:03:14 --> 01:03:16

know, is the sunnah

01:03:16 --> 01:03:18

of at least we could recite the dua

01:03:18 --> 01:03:20

and think about what we're saying. Even that

01:03:20 --> 01:03:21

much would be sufficient to put you into

01:03:21 --> 01:03:23

Sajjad till the day of judgment.

01:03:25 --> 01:03:27

So this is what it need. This is

01:03:27 --> 01:03:28

the ramification

01:03:28 --> 01:03:30

of spiritual maturity. This is why an individual

01:03:31 --> 01:03:34

must develop themselves spiritually because it empowers them

01:03:34 --> 01:03:36

to be able to read. And just as

01:03:36 --> 01:03:37

if you need to be able to read

01:03:37 --> 01:03:39

to survive in the life of this world,

01:03:39 --> 01:03:41

it's the reading of the signs of Allah

01:03:41 --> 01:03:43

that will provide you with a tremendous reward

01:03:43 --> 01:03:44

in the hereafter.

01:03:45 --> 01:03:47

Tremendous reward in the hereafter. So rather than

01:03:47 --> 01:03:49

your eyes being caught up and looking at

01:03:49 --> 01:03:51

haram, you will be so

01:03:51 --> 01:03:53

engrossed in your eyes looking at halal.

01:03:54 --> 01:03:57

Amazing that Allah has provided so many opportunities

01:03:57 --> 01:03:59

to look at so many things, and the

01:03:59 --> 01:04:01

eyes go to the one thing you can't

01:04:01 --> 01:04:03

look at or the two things you can't

01:04:03 --> 01:04:04

look at.

01:04:04 --> 01:04:05

Ajib,

01:04:06 --> 01:04:08

of the billions of options to look at

01:04:08 --> 01:04:11

things, every tree was enough to to remind

01:04:11 --> 01:04:13

you of Allah. Instead, we're looking at everything

01:04:13 --> 01:04:15

that is that

01:04:16 --> 01:04:18

takes you away from the remembrance of Allah

01:04:19 --> 01:04:22

and kills the spirit, kills the heart, kills

01:04:22 --> 01:04:25

the soul, and empowers enough nuffs to become

01:04:25 --> 01:04:28

a ravaged animal that will destroy you and

01:04:28 --> 01:04:29

take you be on a path that you

01:04:29 --> 01:04:30

never imagined.

01:04:31 --> 01:04:32

So we should be

01:04:33 --> 01:04:34

cognizant

01:04:34 --> 01:04:34

and

01:04:35 --> 01:04:36

seek to see read the signs of Allah,

01:04:36 --> 01:04:37

and this is the demand of the Quran.

01:04:37 --> 01:04:39

I'm not making this up. Open the Quran

01:04:39 --> 01:04:41

to any page, and within just a few

01:04:41 --> 01:04:43

aisles, you're gonna hit the same theme.

01:04:44 --> 01:04:46

But do they not look at our signs?

01:04:46 --> 01:04:47

Do they not look at our signs? Do

01:04:47 --> 01:04:49

they not reflect? Do they not see the

01:04:49 --> 01:04:51

turning of the the the the turning of

01:04:51 --> 01:04:54

the day, etcetera, etcetera, etcetera. It's just you

01:04:54 --> 01:04:55

listen in any federal way of prayer. You

01:04:55 --> 01:04:57

listen. It's the same thing being recited

01:04:58 --> 01:05:00

over and over and over again, and we're

01:05:00 --> 01:05:01

just

01:05:01 --> 01:05:02

we don't get it. We don't see it.

01:05:02 --> 01:05:03

It doesn't hit us.

01:05:04 --> 01:05:06

So, again, this is a very, very powerful

01:05:07 --> 01:05:08

aspect of

01:05:08 --> 01:05:10

spiritual maturity, and we should ask Allah that

01:05:10 --> 01:05:12

he provide us with such a degree of

01:05:12 --> 01:05:12

maturity.

01:05:13 --> 01:05:15

Okay. A second aspect

01:05:16 --> 01:05:19

is that when a person becomes spiritually mature,

01:05:19 --> 01:05:22

their heart now remember that the soul the

01:05:22 --> 01:05:23

central point of the soul is the heart.

01:05:24 --> 01:05:25

Their heart becomes receptive.

01:05:26 --> 01:05:28

What do I mean by their heart becoming

01:05:28 --> 01:05:28

receptive?

01:05:29 --> 01:05:31

Now look. The heart basically is an organ

01:05:31 --> 01:05:33

that has the ability to receive. And maybe

01:05:33 --> 01:05:35

the 1st night, we didn't have a open

01:05:35 --> 01:05:37

talk, but there were about a few brothers

01:05:37 --> 01:05:38

and I had this discussion with them that

01:05:38 --> 01:05:40

the heart is both a receiver and a

01:05:40 --> 01:05:40

transmitter.

01:05:41 --> 01:05:43

The heart receives messages, and the hearts transmit

01:05:43 --> 01:05:43

messages.

01:05:44 --> 01:05:45

Now the heart is able to receive. It

01:05:45 --> 01:05:47

interacts with the world around it. It sees

01:05:47 --> 01:05:50

things. It hears things. It tastes things. It

01:05:50 --> 01:05:52

feels things. It touches things. It brings those

01:05:52 --> 01:05:54

messages into the heart, and then they stick

01:05:54 --> 01:05:56

in the heart and the heart drives the

01:05:56 --> 01:05:58

entire human body.

01:05:58 --> 01:06:00

Okay? The heart that

01:06:00 --> 01:06:02

in a person, which arise from the heart,

01:06:02 --> 01:06:04

means the energy, you know, the desire, the

01:06:04 --> 01:06:06

drive to do something. When it arises in

01:06:06 --> 01:06:09

the heart, it takes control over the body

01:06:09 --> 01:06:11

and drives the body in that direction as

01:06:11 --> 01:06:11

well.

01:06:11 --> 01:06:14

So for example, when a person sees, let's

01:06:14 --> 01:06:16

say they see a girl they shouldn't see.

01:06:16 --> 01:06:19

Right? Some young boy goes out and interacts

01:06:19 --> 01:06:20

with some girl they shouldn't interact with, and

01:06:20 --> 01:06:22

he sees her and he falls in love.

01:06:22 --> 01:06:23

So what happens? He starts going crazy. He

01:06:23 --> 01:06:26

starts acting like he he's not himself. He

01:06:26 --> 01:06:28

won't listen to anybody. He won't hear from

01:06:28 --> 01:06:29

anybody. He just wants to go and talk

01:06:29 --> 01:06:31

to this person and be with this person

01:06:31 --> 01:06:32

and thinks about this person all the time.

01:06:32 --> 01:06:35

Why? Because it came into heart, it stuck,

01:06:35 --> 01:06:37

and then it took control.

01:06:37 --> 01:06:39

You know, person is really caught up in

01:06:39 --> 01:06:41

cell phones and computers. What happens? He sees

01:06:41 --> 01:06:43

one advertisement that the new iPhone just came

01:06:43 --> 01:06:46

out. His whole mindset is now he needs

01:06:46 --> 01:06:48

a new iPhone. He'll walk to the store.

01:06:48 --> 01:06:51

He'll go there 5 hours early. He'll stand

01:06:51 --> 01:06:54

in line, and he'll take his hands and

01:06:54 --> 01:06:55

give his hard earned money in order to

01:06:55 --> 01:06:56

have the next one.

01:06:57 --> 01:06:58

So what's happening? The heart

01:06:59 --> 01:07:01

controls and drives the entire body.

01:07:02 --> 01:07:04

The heart controls and drives the entire body.

01:07:04 --> 01:07:06

So if the heart is attached to things

01:07:06 --> 01:07:09

in dunya, then as dunya comes into the

01:07:09 --> 01:07:11

heart, it will respond and it will drive

01:07:11 --> 01:07:13

the body in the direction of dunya.

01:07:13 --> 01:07:16

Now if the heart is spiritually mature and

01:07:16 --> 01:07:19

developed, then it becomes a receptive soil to

01:07:19 --> 01:07:19

what?

01:07:20 --> 01:07:21

To the deen.

01:07:22 --> 01:07:25

So that this individual now sits and he,

01:07:25 --> 01:07:27

let's say, sits in the talk and and

01:07:27 --> 01:07:29

let's say a scholar is giving a talk.

01:07:30 --> 01:07:32

And in that talk, the scholar says that,

01:07:32 --> 01:07:33

you know, it's sunnah

01:07:33 --> 01:07:35

to make wudu before you make hussul.

01:07:36 --> 01:07:39

Okay? Now what'll happen is those ahadith and

01:07:39 --> 01:07:41

that concept will stick in that person's heart

01:07:41 --> 01:07:43

and they'll be able to act on the

01:07:43 --> 01:07:43

deen.

01:07:44 --> 01:07:45

And I'll tell you that the Sahaba were

01:07:45 --> 01:07:48

spiritually mature. Correct? So one of the signs

01:07:48 --> 01:07:50

was that they were constantly in the remembrance

01:07:50 --> 01:07:52

of Allah because they were constantly bombarded by

01:07:52 --> 01:07:54

the signs of Allah. And the second sign

01:07:54 --> 01:07:56

of the Sahaba that highlighted their that is

01:07:56 --> 01:07:58

derived from this spiritual maturity is that they

01:07:58 --> 01:07:59

were receptive to whatever

01:08:01 --> 01:08:02

brought. All all

01:08:04 --> 01:08:06

that had to do was to say something,

01:08:06 --> 01:08:08

and they all acted on it. They didn't

01:08:08 --> 01:08:10

need to have big long conferences to discuss

01:08:10 --> 01:08:12

it. They didn't need to all come into

01:08:12 --> 01:08:13

Ithaca and then be told a week later

01:08:13 --> 01:08:15

that they should do it. They were simply

01:08:15 --> 01:08:17

told, and they did it.

01:08:17 --> 01:08:19

So much so that they were you think

01:08:19 --> 01:08:21

about the Sahaba at the time or the,

01:08:21 --> 01:08:23

you know, people of, at that time, they

01:08:23 --> 01:08:25

were alcohol was

01:08:25 --> 01:08:27

just abundant within their society.

01:08:28 --> 01:08:30

You know, wherever they would sit, they would

01:08:30 --> 01:08:30

drink.

01:08:31 --> 01:08:33

And any occasion always had alcohol associated with

01:08:33 --> 01:08:35

it. They drank it like it was water.

01:08:36 --> 01:08:38

All right? But the day

01:08:38 --> 01:08:41

that alcohol became prohibited within the deen, what

01:08:41 --> 01:08:43

did they say about Medina?

01:08:43 --> 01:08:46

Alcohol was flowing through the streets of Medina.

01:08:46 --> 01:08:49

Now I've dealt with alcoholics because I happen

01:08:49 --> 01:08:50

to be in a profession where you see

01:08:50 --> 01:08:52

those kind of people, And I'll tell you

01:08:52 --> 01:08:54

that even when an alcoholic desires,

01:08:55 --> 01:08:58

somebody who heavily uses alcohol desires to leave

01:08:58 --> 01:08:58

alcohol,

01:08:59 --> 01:09:01

90% of them cannot do so. Let's make

01:09:01 --> 01:09:03

it 60% cannot do so. You have to

01:09:03 --> 01:09:05

plug them into alcoholics anonymous.

01:09:05 --> 01:09:07

You have to meet them every twice a

01:09:07 --> 01:09:09

week and explain, and they all talk to

01:09:09 --> 01:09:11

each other about why alcohol is bad. And

01:09:11 --> 01:09:13

still they have difficulty leaving it, and they

01:09:13 --> 01:09:14

have to be watched over for the next

01:09:14 --> 01:09:15

5 years.

01:09:16 --> 01:09:19

And which Alcoholics Anonymous did the Sahaba have

01:09:19 --> 01:09:21

to set up? Once it was gone, it

01:09:21 --> 01:09:21

was gone.

01:09:22 --> 01:09:25

That's what amazes me, that the Sahaba were

01:09:25 --> 01:09:28

so spiritually mature that the day alcohol was

01:09:28 --> 01:09:30

made haram, they dumped it in the streets,

01:09:30 --> 01:09:31

and you don't read stories of them having

01:09:31 --> 01:09:33

to meet to discuss it again. It was

01:09:33 --> 01:09:34

a done deal.

01:09:35 --> 01:09:37

It was a done deal. Why? Because their

01:09:37 --> 01:09:40

hearts were receptive to the Deen, which is

01:09:40 --> 01:09:42

why I say that the Sharia

01:09:43 --> 01:09:44

and the Sunnah is not the name of

01:09:44 --> 01:09:47

an effort. It's the name of an of

01:09:47 --> 01:09:49

a result of an effort.

01:09:49 --> 01:09:52

A person works on their heart, develops their

01:09:52 --> 01:09:55

heart, becomes mature, and the Sharia and the

01:09:55 --> 01:09:57

sunnah became become a pleasure to practice.

01:09:57 --> 01:09:59

Rather than we're constantly knocking on our head

01:09:59 --> 01:10:01

and saying we should do this, we shouldn't

01:10:01 --> 01:10:02

do this, we should do this, we shouldn't

01:10:02 --> 01:10:04

do this. Of course, we have to do

01:10:04 --> 01:10:06

that. That's our constant reminder. But what we

01:10:06 --> 01:10:08

have to do is soften the heart so

01:10:08 --> 01:10:10

that it gets in there and that we

01:10:10 --> 01:10:12

begin to actually live according to it. This

01:10:12 --> 01:10:14

is the lack in this day and age,

01:10:14 --> 01:10:15

that people don't work on their heart. They

01:10:15 --> 01:10:17

work on their mind. The sharia and the

01:10:17 --> 01:10:18

sunnah is

01:10:18 --> 01:10:20

biology, chemistry, physics, sharia sunnah.

01:10:21 --> 01:10:22

It's a class.

01:10:22 --> 01:10:24

We make notes, and we try to convince

01:10:24 --> 01:10:26

ourselves by repeating the lessons that we should

01:10:26 --> 01:10:28

be doing these things. Yes. It's beneficial. It's

01:10:28 --> 01:10:30

necessary. We get educated, and we do perform

01:10:30 --> 01:10:32

the best that we can. But what is

01:10:32 --> 01:10:34

needed along with that

01:10:34 --> 01:10:37

is that we make our hearts receptive, that

01:10:37 --> 01:10:39

we become spiritually mature so that when we

01:10:39 --> 01:10:41

read these lessons and hear them from our

01:10:41 --> 01:10:43

scholars, they enter into our heart, and then

01:10:43 --> 01:10:45

we can move to the next thing.

01:10:46 --> 01:10:48

We can move to the next level of

01:10:48 --> 01:10:50

development. You know, the sharia and the sunnah,

01:10:50 --> 01:10:52

these are the the sharia is just the

01:10:52 --> 01:10:55

it's often highlighting what the minimal is. Then

01:10:55 --> 01:10:56

you wanna go into the sun the sunnah,

01:10:57 --> 01:10:58

and you wanna drown yourself out in the

01:10:58 --> 01:11:01

sunnah and achieve new pinnacles in your deen.

01:11:01 --> 01:11:03

You know, fasting, has levels to it. Right?

01:11:03 --> 01:11:05

We all know this. I mean, there's the

01:11:05 --> 01:11:07

fast of the of the sort of like

01:11:07 --> 01:11:10

the fast. No food, no drink, no relations,

01:11:10 --> 01:11:12

sunrise to sunset.

01:11:12 --> 01:11:15

That's the classic definition of the fast. But

01:11:15 --> 01:11:18

beyond that, there's another level of fasting, which

01:11:18 --> 01:11:19

is that the person begin to fast from

01:11:19 --> 01:11:21

all of their sins.

01:11:21 --> 01:11:24

Right? That's also a level of fasting that

01:11:24 --> 01:11:26

along with the food, drink, and relation, they

01:11:26 --> 01:11:28

stop their speech. They stop

01:11:28 --> 01:11:31

backbiting, they stop looking at things they shouldn't

01:11:31 --> 01:11:33

look at, they truly fast from the mistakes

01:11:33 --> 01:11:36

that they were making and then beyond that

01:11:36 --> 01:11:38

level of fast there is the final level

01:11:38 --> 01:11:41

of fasting which is what? That they fast

01:11:41 --> 01:11:43

from everything other than Allah

01:11:45 --> 01:11:47

that they fast from everything that's going to

01:11:47 --> 01:11:47

law,

01:11:48 --> 01:11:51

everything that's going to law. And that is

01:11:51 --> 01:11:53

the pinnacle of the fast. And actually that's

01:11:53 --> 01:11:55

what Iftikaf is all about by the way.

01:11:55 --> 01:11:57

That's another discussion another day, but that's really

01:11:57 --> 01:11:59

what Iftikaf is. When you come into Iftikaf,

01:11:59 --> 01:12:02

you're fasting now from everything except Allah.

01:12:03 --> 01:12:05

Right? I mean, that's what it is. You're

01:12:05 --> 01:12:07

supposed to come into the masjid, cut yourself

01:12:07 --> 01:12:09

off from the world around you,

01:12:09 --> 01:12:10

turn towards the qibla,

01:12:11 --> 01:12:12

and fast

01:12:12 --> 01:12:14

from everything now except Allah. So the only

01:12:14 --> 01:12:17

thing you're doing is reading the Quran,

01:12:18 --> 01:12:21

praying your prayers, listening to the talks that

01:12:21 --> 01:12:23

happen to occur. I mean, your focus is

01:12:23 --> 01:12:26

totally Allah. Everything else got cut off. So

01:12:26 --> 01:12:27

that is the ultimate fasting, and that's the

01:12:27 --> 01:12:29

beauty of the. It just allows you to

01:12:29 --> 01:12:31

achieve that. And that's why people come into

01:12:31 --> 01:12:33

the and they say, I experienced something that

01:12:33 --> 01:12:35

I never experienced. I mean, time after time,

01:12:35 --> 01:12:37

there's this line of brothers saying the same

01:12:37 --> 01:12:39

thing. You know, I can't believe what's going

01:12:39 --> 01:12:40

on here.

01:12:40 --> 01:12:42

For allowing me to be here.

01:12:42 --> 01:12:44

For setting, you know, setting this up. Although

01:12:44 --> 01:12:46

the Masjid is really the people to think.

01:12:46 --> 01:12:48

I mean, it's by the way,

01:12:48 --> 01:12:49

this is a potluck.

01:12:50 --> 01:12:52

You know, everybody brought the barakah here.

01:12:53 --> 01:12:54

That should be very clear in everyone's mind.

01:12:54 --> 01:12:56

Everyone comes with their

01:12:56 --> 01:12:58

and some people came to serve and some

01:12:58 --> 01:13:00

people came with their and some people came

01:13:00 --> 01:13:01

to do this, but it's a potluck, we

01:13:01 --> 01:13:04

all create the environment together. But anyway, it

01:13:04 --> 01:13:06

produces an environment to do what? To be

01:13:06 --> 01:13:08

able to fast from everything except Allah.

01:13:09 --> 01:13:11

So again, what was the point? Is that

01:13:11 --> 01:13:13

when you become spiritually mature, number 1,

01:13:14 --> 01:13:16

the signs of the world become you become

01:13:16 --> 01:13:18

literate to the signs of the world.

01:13:18 --> 01:13:19

And number 2,

01:13:20 --> 01:13:22

that your heart becomes receptive

01:13:23 --> 01:13:23

to

01:13:24 --> 01:13:25

the things that you experience.

01:13:26 --> 01:13:28

Your heart becomes a fertile soil in which

01:13:28 --> 01:13:29

you can plant the seeds of deen.

01:13:30 --> 01:13:32

Okay. Number 3. And this will then result

01:13:33 --> 01:13:35

this will then tie in to tomorrow's discussion,

01:13:35 --> 01:13:37

which will be on the nafs. So number

01:13:37 --> 01:13:40

3, what happens is that the heart

01:13:40 --> 01:13:42

takes control of the nafs,

01:13:43 --> 01:13:47

converts the nafs, and then uses the power

01:13:47 --> 01:13:49

of the nuffs to a chain to attain

01:13:49 --> 01:13:50

a new height in the beam.

01:13:51 --> 01:13:53

Now this is a very interesting dynamic.

01:13:53 --> 01:13:54

So

01:13:54 --> 01:13:56

first of all, you have nuffs.

01:13:56 --> 01:13:59

And the nuffs is basically this the center

01:13:59 --> 01:14:01

part part of what body what what type

01:14:01 --> 01:14:01

of

01:14:02 --> 01:14:04

what type of creation? The body. Right? So

01:14:04 --> 01:14:05

I told you that the nuffs is the

01:14:05 --> 01:14:08

central processing unit of the body. Now the

01:14:08 --> 01:14:09

body is from Earth

01:14:10 --> 01:14:12

and and from dirt and created, and so

01:14:12 --> 01:14:14

it requires all of those things. In fact,

01:14:14 --> 01:14:17

the nuffs is an animal. The nuffs wants

01:14:17 --> 01:14:19

nice clothes. The nuffs wants to be with

01:14:19 --> 01:14:22

the opposite gender. The nuffs wants to eat

01:14:22 --> 01:14:24

all the time. The nuffs loves to sleep.

01:14:24 --> 01:14:25

It's like an animal.

01:14:26 --> 01:14:27

Alright? And that's the way our

01:14:27 --> 01:14:29

is. Now what happens is we have a

01:14:29 --> 01:14:32

challenge in life, which is 2 things. Number

01:14:32 --> 01:14:34

1, we have to grow the soul. Right?

01:14:34 --> 01:14:36

And number 2, we have to crush the.

01:14:36 --> 01:14:37

And this is just the paradigm that I've

01:14:37 --> 01:14:40

highlighted for you throughout this entire series that

01:14:40 --> 01:14:42

were created of 2 components. We have a

01:14:42 --> 01:14:43

body and we have a soul. And that

01:14:43 --> 01:14:44

the key thing that we have to do

01:14:44 --> 01:14:47

is crush the body and grow the soul.

01:14:48 --> 01:14:50

Crush the knuffs and raise the soul.

01:14:50 --> 01:14:52

So you have to crush the knuffs because

01:14:53 --> 01:14:54

that animal needs to be whipped and put

01:14:54 --> 01:14:56

back in its cage. Otherwise, it will destroy

01:14:56 --> 01:14:59

you. So you have to restrict restrict enough.

01:14:59 --> 01:15:01

And what is the sharia? The sharia is

01:15:01 --> 01:15:03

the name of the necessary restriction of the

01:15:03 --> 01:15:04

nafs.

01:15:04 --> 01:15:06

So the sharia says, can't look at that,

01:15:06 --> 01:15:08

you can look at this.

01:15:08 --> 01:15:10

So it's telling the nafs you can't look

01:15:10 --> 01:15:11

at that, because if you look at that,

01:15:11 --> 01:15:12

it's gonna get it's gonna grow out of

01:15:12 --> 01:15:14

control, and instead you should look at this

01:15:14 --> 01:15:16

because this will grow your soul. The sharia

01:15:16 --> 01:15:18

says you can't eat that because that's what

01:15:18 --> 01:15:21

the nafs wants, but you can eat this,

01:15:21 --> 01:15:22

which is food for the soul.

01:15:23 --> 01:15:25

Okay? Like, for example, halal and toyiba.

01:15:25 --> 01:15:27

So all of the rulings of the of

01:15:27 --> 01:15:30

the sharia, they contract the nafs. They they

01:15:30 --> 01:15:33

restrict the nafs within a sphere, and they

01:15:33 --> 01:15:35

grow the soul. That's really the sharia looking

01:15:35 --> 01:15:37

at it in a very metaphysical way.

01:15:38 --> 01:15:38

Now

01:15:39 --> 01:15:41

the nuffs the ajeev thing about the nuffs

01:15:41 --> 01:15:43

is really what does the nuffs want?

01:15:44 --> 01:15:45

The nuffs wants pleasure.

01:15:46 --> 01:15:47

The nuffs wants ecstasy.

01:15:48 --> 01:15:51

And the funny thing is, although the nuffs

01:15:51 --> 01:15:53

looks at today's ecstasy and thinks that it

01:15:53 --> 01:15:56

lies in looking at the opposite gender, it

01:15:56 --> 01:15:58

lies in surfing the Internet, it lies in

01:15:58 --> 01:16:00

the home in the grand slam in the

01:16:00 --> 01:16:03

bottom of 9th. Right? The thinks that, that

01:16:03 --> 01:16:04

all the pleasure lies in this because it's

01:16:04 --> 01:16:06

the immediate gratification,

01:16:06 --> 01:16:09

but were the nafs to be toured through

01:16:10 --> 01:16:12

this seer and actually get a chance to

01:16:12 --> 01:16:15

experience Allah, the nafs would far

01:16:15 --> 01:16:16

rather choose to be

01:16:17 --> 01:16:19

in that world and experience those things because

01:16:19 --> 01:16:20

there's more pleasure there than there is any

01:16:20 --> 01:16:22

place else. Do you understand the concept?

01:16:23 --> 01:16:25

So what happens is when the heart becomes

01:16:25 --> 01:16:29

empowered and begins to drag the whole body

01:16:29 --> 01:16:32

through this journey, the nafs, instead of being

01:16:32 --> 01:16:34

addicted to all this garbage, gets addicted to

01:16:34 --> 01:16:35

the signs of Allah.

01:16:36 --> 01:16:38

So the nafs actually converts.

01:16:39 --> 01:16:41

Now they the nafs has a special name

01:16:41 --> 01:16:42

when it converts. When the nafs,

01:16:43 --> 01:16:45

when the nafs is in its animal state,

01:16:45 --> 01:16:47

they call that nafsul amara.

01:16:48 --> 01:16:50

Okay? They call that nafsul amara and the

01:16:50 --> 01:16:52

word nafsul amara comes in the Quran.

01:16:53 --> 01:16:54

And when the nafs gets out of its

01:16:54 --> 01:16:55

animal state

01:16:56 --> 01:16:58

and goes into this state where it begins

01:16:58 --> 01:17:01

to derive pleasure from the deen, from the

01:17:01 --> 01:17:03

sunnah and the sharia We're dressing like

01:17:04 --> 01:17:06

the is more pleasurable than dressing like the

01:17:06 --> 01:17:07

fools of the world.

01:17:08 --> 01:17:10

Right? Then it had changed a certain state.

01:17:10 --> 01:17:11

And what's the name of that? Nafs?

01:17:12 --> 01:17:13

Excellent. Nafsul

01:17:13 --> 01:17:14

Mutumayinna.

01:17:15 --> 01:17:16

And that comes in the Quran as well.

01:17:16 --> 01:17:17

Now, what does Allah

01:17:18 --> 01:17:19

say about Nafsul Mutma'ina?

01:17:20 --> 01:17:22

Allah addresses Nafsul Mutma'ina

01:17:23 --> 01:17:23

saying what?

01:17:27 --> 01:17:30

Allah is addressing nafsul mutma'ina. And what does

01:17:30 --> 01:17:30

Allah tell

01:17:31 --> 01:17:32

nafsul mutma'ina?

01:17:40 --> 01:17:41

Return back to your lord.

01:17:44 --> 01:17:44

Pleased,

01:17:45 --> 01:17:47

meaning you've attained now the greatest pleasure

01:17:48 --> 01:17:50

and pleasing. You've also pleased your lord at

01:17:50 --> 01:17:51

the same time.

01:17:51 --> 01:17:54

So the nafs now is pleased because it's

01:17:54 --> 01:17:55

experiencing

01:17:55 --> 01:17:57

the vastness of deen, the sharia and the

01:17:57 --> 01:18:00

sunnah, and this and the ability to just

01:18:00 --> 01:18:01

interact with Allah because,

01:18:02 --> 01:18:04

look, really, where does pleasure lie? It lies

01:18:04 --> 01:18:07

in being able to understand the manifestations of

01:18:07 --> 01:18:09

Allah. That's what the deen is about. It's

01:18:09 --> 01:18:12

about Allah. When a person becomes hooked on

01:18:12 --> 01:18:14

that, then everything in the world becomes different.

01:18:14 --> 01:18:17

You know, what's the pleasure? Like like Mufi

01:18:17 --> 01:18:19

Saab was saying yesterday, you know, Rabi Abbasuriya,

01:18:19 --> 01:18:21

she wanted to do what? She wanted to

01:18:21 --> 01:18:23

take a bucket of water and extinguish jahannam.

01:18:23 --> 01:18:25

Then she wanted to take fire and burn,

01:18:25 --> 01:18:27

Jannah. Why? Because she said, I want people

01:18:27 --> 01:18:29

to worship Allah,

01:18:29 --> 01:18:31

not worship for Jannah and jahannam because that

01:18:31 --> 01:18:33

was that was really what is the true

01:18:34 --> 01:18:36

reward on the day of judgment. Now look,

01:18:36 --> 01:18:38

it also comes in hadith what? Then on

01:18:38 --> 01:18:40

the day of judgment, after all the judgment

01:18:40 --> 01:18:42

is done and people in Jannah have been

01:18:42 --> 01:18:45

given every pleasure beyond their imagination,

01:18:46 --> 01:18:48

far beyond what they ever imagined, then it

01:18:48 --> 01:18:50

will be asked of them what?

01:18:50 --> 01:18:51

Oh, people,

01:18:51 --> 01:18:53

is there anything more that you desire? The

01:18:53 --> 01:18:54

people will be shocked

01:18:55 --> 01:18:58

saying, what more is there to be desired?

01:18:58 --> 01:19:00

Then it will be announced that there's one

01:19:00 --> 01:19:01

blessing that remains.

01:19:01 --> 01:19:04

And what will happen? Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

01:19:04 --> 01:19:06

will reveal himself and people will view him

01:19:06 --> 01:19:08

just as they see a full moon.

01:19:09 --> 01:19:11

And with that pleasure, people will say there

01:19:11 --> 01:19:13

was no pleasure before this. This was the

01:19:13 --> 01:19:14

reward.

01:19:15 --> 01:19:15

Allah,

01:19:17 --> 01:19:17

Allah

01:19:18 --> 01:19:18

is the reward.

01:19:19 --> 01:19:20

Ajib.

01:19:20 --> 01:19:22

So I'll tell you that once a person

01:19:22 --> 01:19:24

becomes addicted to Allah and begins to see

01:19:24 --> 01:19:26

that in everything is a sign of Allah

01:19:26 --> 01:19:28

and begins to come and pray to Allah,

01:19:28 --> 01:19:30

read the book of Allah, make rotations around

01:19:30 --> 01:19:33

the house of Allah, then there's nothing else

01:19:33 --> 01:19:33

left in life.

01:19:34 --> 01:19:36

That is the purpose of existence. That is

01:19:36 --> 01:19:38

pleasure beyond pleasure.

01:19:38 --> 01:19:39

You know, you got the best of this

01:19:39 --> 01:19:42

life and then you wait, you await to

01:19:42 --> 01:19:44

be able to meet Allah in the hereafter.

01:19:45 --> 01:19:46

You're waiting to meet Allah in the hereafter,

01:19:47 --> 01:19:48

life becomes unbearable

01:19:49 --> 01:19:51

because you can't stand any distance from Allah

01:19:51 --> 01:19:53

for even just, you know, a few more

01:19:53 --> 01:19:54

minutes. You want Allah now

01:19:55 --> 01:19:57

because that's your reward that's waiting for you.

01:19:57 --> 01:19:58

So look at this, look at this. What

01:19:58 --> 01:19:59

happens? Anaf

01:20:00 --> 01:20:02

converts from being this animal to becoming addicted

01:20:02 --> 01:20:03

to Allah

01:20:06 --> 01:20:06

Then Allah

01:20:07 --> 01:20:09

then addresses it further and says what?

01:20:12 --> 01:20:14

Enter into my into the gathering of my

01:20:14 --> 01:20:15

righteous servants. Then what?

01:20:19 --> 01:20:20

That's all we want anyway.

01:20:21 --> 01:20:23

That enter into my servants,

01:20:23 --> 01:20:26

enter into my Jannah. Now you you're a

01:20:26 --> 01:20:27

nafs. You wanna be pleased.

01:20:28 --> 01:20:30

I'm gonna show you pleasure. Go into that

01:20:30 --> 01:20:32

jannah, and then you talk to me about

01:20:32 --> 01:20:32

pleasure.

01:20:33 --> 01:20:34

Ajib. Ajib.

01:20:34 --> 01:20:37

Then the pleasure starts. There was no pleasure

01:20:37 --> 01:20:39

here. The pleasure begins there. Then the nafs

01:20:39 --> 01:20:41

is pleased beyond its imagination

01:20:42 --> 01:20:45

until finally one at one moment, Allah reveals

01:20:45 --> 01:20:48

himself, and the nafs is just going wild,

01:20:48 --> 01:20:49

going wild.

01:20:50 --> 01:20:52

We cannot even begin to imagine. We cannot

01:20:52 --> 01:20:54

even begin to imagine

01:20:54 --> 01:20:56

the blessings of of that type of state.

01:20:57 --> 01:20:58

So this is the goal.

01:20:58 --> 01:21:00

This is the goal to convert over the

01:21:00 --> 01:21:03

nafs, and it's possible. It's it's present in

01:21:03 --> 01:21:05

the Quran as a reminder for us.

01:21:06 --> 01:21:08

So this is what we see. Now

01:21:09 --> 01:21:11

the the development of the nafs and the

01:21:11 --> 01:21:13

development of the heart, you know, they're they're

01:21:13 --> 01:21:15

sort of like they go hand in hand

01:21:15 --> 01:21:17

that you have to grow the heart and

01:21:17 --> 01:21:19

you have to crush the nuffs. And it's

01:21:19 --> 01:21:20

these two things done

01:21:21 --> 01:21:23

congruently, you know, done, you can say concordantly

01:21:23 --> 01:21:25

at the same time that will result in

01:21:26 --> 01:21:28

the nuffs that that a person achieving their

01:21:28 --> 01:21:30

goal. So today, we discussed how to grow

01:21:30 --> 01:21:32

the nuffs, I'm sorry, how to grow the

01:21:32 --> 01:21:35

heart and the soul, and then tomorrow's discussion

01:21:35 --> 01:21:37

will be about crushing the nafs. So this

01:21:37 --> 01:21:38

is also an important aspect. You have to

01:21:38 --> 01:21:39

crush the animal

01:21:40 --> 01:21:41

and turn its head this way. See, it

01:21:41 --> 01:21:43

wants to look here. Dunya dunya dunya dunya.

01:21:43 --> 01:21:46

You have to whip it down, beat it,

01:21:46 --> 01:21:48

you know, weaken it, and then turn its

01:21:48 --> 01:21:48

face towards.

01:21:49 --> 01:21:51

And once it catches the glimpse of, then

01:21:51 --> 01:21:53

it'll run with you, but you have to

01:21:53 --> 01:21:56

make that initial turn. And then it begins

01:21:56 --> 01:21:58

to experience, and then it's done. Now the

01:21:58 --> 01:22:00

same nuffs that drove you to look at

01:22:00 --> 01:22:02

everything that you shouldn't have looked at, the

01:22:02 --> 01:22:04

same nafs that made you talk about things

01:22:04 --> 01:22:06

you shouldn't have talked talked about, the same

01:22:06 --> 01:22:08

nafs that allows you to stay awake all

01:22:08 --> 01:22:09

night and watch movies,

01:22:09 --> 01:22:12

right, becomes the same nafs that now wants

01:22:12 --> 01:22:14

to listen to Quran all day and night,

01:22:14 --> 01:22:16

wants to pray in the masjid all day

01:22:16 --> 01:22:18

night. And then you see the example of

01:22:18 --> 01:22:19

that this was a companion. These were the

01:22:19 --> 01:22:20

companions.

01:22:21 --> 01:22:23

You know, I mean, look, companions are complaining

01:22:23 --> 01:22:25

about what? They start their tahajjud prayer after

01:22:25 --> 01:22:28

isha, and they're praying 2 rakah or 4

01:22:28 --> 01:22:30

rakah or 6 rakah, and they're praying all

01:22:30 --> 01:22:32

the way until the sunrise. The adhan for

01:22:32 --> 01:22:33

Fajr is called, and they're saying, You Allah,

01:22:33 --> 01:22:35

we complain to you that you made the

01:22:35 --> 01:22:36

night too short.

01:22:37 --> 01:22:39

You Allah, we complain to you that we

01:22:39 --> 01:22:40

you made the night too short.

01:22:42 --> 01:22:44

Now that's a very special state,

01:22:44 --> 01:22:46

but it's not far from the complaint that

01:22:46 --> 01:22:48

many people in this world have. You know,

01:22:48 --> 01:22:50

they watch 2 episodes of their favorite movie,

01:22:50 --> 01:22:52

and then they wanna watch episode 3, and

01:22:52 --> 01:22:54

then it's time it's time to go to

01:22:54 --> 01:22:56

work. So they're complaining the night was too

01:22:56 --> 01:22:57

short. We'll watch this one tomorrow.

01:22:58 --> 01:23:00

So look. We have the ability, but we

01:23:00 --> 01:23:02

apply it in the wrong sphere.

01:23:03 --> 01:23:06

We've allowed the body to take control, whereas

01:23:06 --> 01:23:07

the Nuff should have been the one in

01:23:07 --> 01:23:08

control.

01:23:08 --> 01:23:10

So anyway, now we've gone way too late.

01:23:10 --> 01:23:12

I'm sorry. This is keeps happening. But anyway,

01:23:12 --> 01:23:14

the this was the point. Right? Very simply

01:23:14 --> 01:23:16

stated that you must grow the soul

01:23:17 --> 01:23:18

and

01:23:18 --> 01:23:20

that we've talked about the methods to grow

01:23:20 --> 01:23:21

the soul, and we want to make spiritually

01:23:21 --> 01:23:22

mature individuals.

01:23:23 --> 01:23:25

So we hope that our children will be

01:23:25 --> 01:23:27

spirit spiritually mature. It's very important. If they

01:23:27 --> 01:23:29

can be spiritually spiritually mature, they will be

01:23:29 --> 01:23:30

the coolness of your eyes.

01:23:31 --> 01:23:33

Imagine if you can convert them, if you

01:23:33 --> 01:23:35

can convert there enough so that it becomes

01:23:35 --> 01:23:36

addicted to the.

01:23:36 --> 01:23:38

Imagine what type of children you would have.

01:23:38 --> 01:23:40

Imagine what a pleasure it would be to

01:23:40 --> 01:23:42

actually look at them. Imagine if you could

01:23:42 --> 01:23:44

become like that yourself, what a pleasure it

01:23:44 --> 01:23:45

would be for your children to look at

01:23:45 --> 01:23:45

you.

01:23:46 --> 01:23:49

Imagine how how pleasurable life would be, how

01:23:49 --> 01:23:50

happy you would be.

01:23:51 --> 01:23:52

So at the top, is these this is

01:23:52 --> 01:23:54

the opportunity in at the top. Look. 2

01:23:54 --> 01:23:55

things happen in at the top. We grow

01:23:55 --> 01:23:56

the spirit.

01:23:56 --> 01:23:58

Right? We're growing the soul. We're giving it

01:23:58 --> 01:24:00

Quran. We're giving it good company. We're giving

01:24:00 --> 01:24:03

it masjid, and we're knocking down the nafs.

01:24:03 --> 01:24:05

You know, we're sleeping on this floor, the

01:24:05 --> 01:24:07

temperature's hot sometimes, it's cold sometimes,

01:24:07 --> 01:24:09

the bathrooms are not the most comfortable place

01:24:09 --> 01:24:12

in the world. You know, we're fasting all

01:24:12 --> 01:24:14

day, you're totally starving the nafs, then you're

01:24:14 --> 01:24:16

standing in prayer, your knees hurt, you're sleeping

01:24:16 --> 01:24:18

for 2 hours and then waking up and

01:24:18 --> 01:24:19

then trying to sleep for another hour and

01:24:19 --> 01:24:21

then waking up. So these things, they knock

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down the nuffs and they're good for you.

01:24:23 --> 01:24:25

It's a blessing. It's just thank Allah that

01:24:25 --> 01:24:26

it was built into the deen because we

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would have never done it otherwise.

01:24:28 --> 01:24:31

Alhamdulillah that Allah made fasting for us. This

01:24:31 --> 01:24:33

is what we say, Alhamdulillah that Allah created

01:24:33 --> 01:24:35

fasting as a means for us.

01:24:35 --> 01:24:36

You know, some people look at it and

01:24:36 --> 01:24:37

say, how do you do this? How do

01:24:37 --> 01:24:39

you guys fast all day?

01:24:41 --> 01:24:44

That fasting was prescribed upon us because we

01:24:44 --> 01:24:45

wouldn't have been able to do it otherwise.

01:24:45 --> 01:24:47

We would we I would be talking a

01:24:47 --> 01:24:50

foreign language right now. We wouldn't even understand

01:24:50 --> 01:24:50

these

01:24:51 --> 01:24:52

things. You know,

01:24:52 --> 01:24:53

that was,

01:24:54 --> 01:24:56

you know, a sunnah made a sunnah for

01:24:56 --> 01:24:58

us because it becomes a reality, it becomes

01:24:58 --> 01:25:00

achievable, whereas no one would ever think that

01:25:00 --> 01:25:03

any people, any professional person could lock themselves

01:25:03 --> 01:25:04

in a room for for 10 days.

01:25:05 --> 01:25:07

You know, you tell your people that you

01:25:07 --> 01:25:08

tell your people at work, oh, what did

01:25:08 --> 01:25:10

you do on your break? Oh, we wore

01:25:10 --> 01:25:12

white clothes and we sat on the floor

01:25:12 --> 01:25:14

all day and, you know,

01:25:15 --> 01:25:17

we we slept for a couple hour. Is

01:25:17 --> 01:25:19

it vacation? What were you what are you

01:25:19 --> 01:25:21

talking about? No one will appreciate that. No

01:25:21 --> 01:25:23

one would understand what you're talking about. It's

01:25:23 --> 01:25:25

far beyond their ability to even fathom that

01:25:25 --> 01:25:27

there would be some sort of luxury in

01:25:27 --> 01:25:27

this gathering.

01:25:28 --> 01:25:30

That that this for us is greater than

01:25:30 --> 01:25:31

the 4 seasons.

01:25:31 --> 01:25:33

You know? I mean, Ajib, Ajib, you know,

01:25:33 --> 01:25:35

I'd rather be here than the 4 seasons.

01:25:35 --> 01:25:37

And they wouldn't understand that that, you know,

01:25:37 --> 01:25:38

they go to Hawaii, we come here.

01:25:39 --> 01:25:41

Ajib. But anyway, this is the this is

01:25:41 --> 01:25:43

it's Allah's blessing upon us. At least we

01:25:43 --> 01:25:44

have that much of an awakening

01:25:45 --> 01:25:46

that we would even think about coming to

01:25:46 --> 01:25:47

Ithikaf

01:25:47 --> 01:25:50

and we cannot but thank Allah. We cannot

01:25:50 --> 01:25:52

but thank Allah. We cannot but thank Allah.

01:25:53 --> 01:25:54

It's not from our own doing.

01:25:55 --> 01:25:57

It's not from our own doing. We just

01:25:57 --> 01:25:58

are Allah's dependence.

01:25:59 --> 01:26:01

We are absolutely dependent on Allah

01:26:02 --> 01:26:04

By the way, there was another important issue

01:26:04 --> 01:26:06

that that comes up from this discussion, which

01:26:06 --> 01:26:09

is actually a very important issue and it,

01:26:10 --> 01:26:12

it actually involves arrogance and pride,

01:26:13 --> 01:26:15

which relates to the spiritual journey and,

01:26:16 --> 01:26:18

and one very important issue. So somebody tomorrow

01:26:18 --> 01:26:20

remind me to start with that because I

01:26:20 --> 01:26:22

have to touch on that because that's actually

01:26:22 --> 01:26:24

one of the most dangerous aspects of developing

01:26:24 --> 01:26:26

the soul, the pride and the arrogance that

01:26:26 --> 01:26:28

can arise initially. So we have to talk

01:26:28 --> 01:26:31

about that one aspect. So anyway, with that,

01:26:31 --> 01:26:33

inshallah, we'll close. It's become very late again.

01:26:33 --> 01:26:35

I'm sorry. I keep doing this, especially since

01:26:35 --> 01:26:37

we started 15 minutes late.

01:26:37 --> 01:26:38

So may Allah

01:26:39 --> 01:26:40

give us a tawfiq to be among those

01:26:40 --> 01:26:43

who become both physically and spiritually mature.

01:26:43 --> 01:26:44

May Allah

01:26:45 --> 01:26:47

grant us the Tawfiq to be become among

01:26:47 --> 01:26:49

those who become spiritually literate. May he make

01:26:49 --> 01:26:51

us among those who see every tree as

01:26:51 --> 01:26:53

his sign, who see every branch as his

01:26:53 --> 01:26:55

sign, who see every leaf as his sign,

01:26:55 --> 01:26:57

who see the ground as his sign, who

01:26:57 --> 01:26:58

see the sun as his sign, who see

01:26:58 --> 01:27:00

the moon as his sign, who see the

01:27:00 --> 01:27:02

messenger as his sign, who's who hear every

01:27:02 --> 01:27:05

verse and root as his sign, who are

01:27:05 --> 01:27:07

regular in visiting his house so that they

01:27:07 --> 01:27:08

may see his signs.

01:27:08 --> 01:27:09

May

01:27:09 --> 01:27:11

Allah make us among those whose hearts become

01:27:11 --> 01:27:14

very fertile soil such that wherever we sit

01:27:14 --> 01:27:16

and from whoever whomever we learn from that

01:27:16 --> 01:27:18

these things enter into our our heart and

01:27:18 --> 01:27:20

that they grow into beautiful plant plants and

01:27:20 --> 01:27:22

flowers, which we which we and our families

01:27:22 --> 01:27:24

and our loved ones and our communities and

01:27:24 --> 01:27:26

those around us can enjoy. May Allah

01:27:26 --> 01:27:28

make us among those who tamed their nafs

01:27:28 --> 01:27:29

so that it becomes nafsulmudmayna

01:27:30 --> 01:27:32

and may he make our make us among

01:27:32 --> 01:27:34

those who are addicted to the akhirah, addicted

01:27:34 --> 01:27:36

to the pleasures of Jannah and addicted

01:27:36 --> 01:27:39

to all of that which Allah who become

01:27:39 --> 01:27:40

addicted to Allah.

01:27:41 --> 01:27:43

SubhanAllah, he will be Hamdihi SubhanAllah, he will

01:27:43 --> 01:27:44

be Hamdihi SubhanAllah, he will be

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