Hosam Helal – Saviours of Islamic Spirit Episode 1 Aisha bint Abi Bakr

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The transcript discusses the history and characteristics of a woman named Aishaippedah Alayhi wa sallam who was the fourth most narrator of Hadith. She was a mother of two children with a history of drinking alcohol and anxiety and sadness, as well as a woman with a history of drinking alcohol. The conversation also touches on the shift in perception towards women and the importance of Heridic Law in shaping women to have value. The transcript provides insight into the perception of women in the Middle East and the shift in perception of women due to the depiction of the Prophet Muhammad's teachings in the Quran.

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			Smilla Rahmanir Rahim Al hamdu
Lillahi Rabbil Alameen wa salatu
		
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			salam ala Muhammad Abdullah Al
Amin, Salem Allah and Muhammad Ali
		
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			who are early he have little Salah
to attend with the slim. May Allah
		
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			Subhana Allah bless you, your
families, your loved ones keep you
		
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			safe keep you protected, keep you
resilient in the best of ways.
		
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			Your Amin, amin amin, welcome back
to another episode of Series of
		
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			Islam. Tonight we look at Aisha
bint Abu Bakr, Radi Allahu Allah,
		
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			the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam his wife and the
		
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			daughter of Abu Bakar his best and
closest companion, sal Allahu
		
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			Allah wa salam. She is the fourth
most narrator of Hadith. She
		
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			narrated 2210 to 2250, a hadith
directly from the Prophet Muhammad
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, she
had more than 100 students who
		
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			learn directly from her, including
Ursula imidazolium. She had some
		
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			of the greatest companions narrate
directly from her alma Bob
		
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			narrated from her um, the live
neuroma narrative from her IV
		
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			fluid Ira narrated from her side
and then we'll say a narrative
		
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			from her and the teachers of Al
hacer el bacillary learn directly
		
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			from her. She left a beautiful
legacy behind and the beautiful
		
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			legacy can be summarized in one
moment. One episode that is really
		
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			incredible. I blindness Zubair who
was the son of a smart mint
		
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			Abubaker. So his aunt is a shot of
the Alana is the nephew of Arusha.
		
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			He comes into the house and he
used to come in and out, you know,
		
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			she was his Maha Schumacher
Muharram. So she would be
		
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			comfortable teaching directly, and
he will be spending a lot of time
		
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			in and out of the house. So he
would see her given lessons. And
		
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			he's just amazed with his with her
person. So we asked her, yeah, OMA
		
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			and used to call her my mother out
of respect, because she's in the
		
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			same age and the same level of
respect as his own mother. See,
		
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			oh, man, and she's the mother of
the believers. Yeah. Oh, man, I
		
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			get why you're so good at poetry.
Because your father is a
		
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			boubakeur. And he was good at
that. I get why you're so good at
		
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			lineage knowing people's lineage
and profiling and knowing which
		
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			families what and which tribe is
what because Abu Bakr was good at
		
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			that. And he pass that knowledge
on to you. I get why you're so
		
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			good at Quran and Hadith, because
it also Los Alamos, your husband,
		
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			you're privileged in the area, I
get all of that. But can you
		
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			explain to me, how did you come to
know so much about medicine? How
		
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			did you come to know so much about
the various ingredients in the
		
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			various healing herbs and the
things you're always going around
		
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			and giving ingredients
classifying, categorizing,
		
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			treating illnesses? Where did you
pick up that from? So she turns to
		
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			me, he says, My son, look at that
respect. When the Prophet Muhammad
		
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			SAW Selim was ill, at the end of
his life, out of tribes used to
		
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			send their women to suggest try
this and try that and try this and
		
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			try that. So I, I was interested
in medicine and I was trying to
		
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			put all these things together to
heal the Prophet Muhammad Salam,
		
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			of course, Allah subhanaw taala,
as will always transcends anything
		
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			else. When the Prophet Muhammad
Selim passed away, I picked it up
		
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			as a hobby as something that I
enjoyed, and I carried it on and I
		
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			pursued it. So one thing that we
don't usually mention about Ayesha
		
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			is she was involved not just as a
teacher, not just as a Mahadeva
		
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			not just as somebody who carried
the Sunnah and transmitted the
		
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			Sunnah, the tradition and the
legacy of the Prophet Muhammad
		
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			Salah Salem, but she was also a
healer, a doctor in her own sense.
		
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			Why because she would go to the
community to lumen in the
		
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			community, and she would for
example, in one Hadith, she would
		
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			see the woman who are going
through anxiety or stress or
		
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			experiencing bereavement after the
death of somebody from their
		
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			family she would say I recommend
that you try to eat tell Bina look
		
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			it up what is still being a look
at the Hadith, t a l Vi n h so I
		
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			recommend that you eat tell Bina
because the prophet Mohamed Salah
		
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			Salem taught that there is a
healing property and it helps
		
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			somebody cope with anxiety or cope
with sadness and sorrow. Can you
		
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			imagine and she would add on some
of her own things that she also
		
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			picked up from the tribes and from
what was available at her time. So
		
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			she was combining the Sunnah
prophetic medicine with the
		
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			medicine that was available to her
to suggest these various healing
		
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			entities to the people that were
available to her to the people
		
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			that needed it. And that goes to
show you Subhanallah the
		
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			incredible personality and the
curiosity of eyeshadow Delana I
		
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			shared with Alana and maybe once
heard her put someone else in
		
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			their place you know, someone was
kind of you know, crossing the
		
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			boundaries a little bit and I
showed up and I'm looking at the
		
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			Prophet Mohammed Salah should
should I should I respond or will
		
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			you get a smile? Okay, you take it
on. So she gives this verbal
		
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			incredible verbal conversation and
if you
		
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			Selam just smiles. I think he's
been to everybody. She's the
		
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			daughter of Abubaker. We expect
you know, some really, like more
		
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			out here himself, he says elf so
out of the most eloquent of the
		
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			Arabs, not just the women, the
most eloquent of the Arab desert
		
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			Isha let that sink in some, some
of the women themselves would say,
		
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			we would listen to the whole bus
Abubaker and the whole bus of
		
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			Roma, and the whole bus of Earth
man and the whole bus of many
		
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			philosophers, but we have never
heard anyone more engaging, more
		
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			captivating, more eloquent than a
shot of the Allahu anha
		
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			let this sink in some of the
companions themselves, there is an
		
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			opinion attributed or a saying
attributed to Ramadan support, in
		
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			which Jesus before Islam, we used
to disregard we didn't really care
		
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			much about the feelings and the
emotions of women, and we didn't
		
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			really think of women to be able
to contribute and to have value to
		
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			the society. And that was the pre
Islamic, you know, impression, the
		
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			pre Islamic perception towards
women, it was disgusting, you
		
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			know, the burial of women, or
burial of female daughters that as
		
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			mentioned in the Quran, although
it wasn't as prevalent, it was
		
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			still socially accepted, it was
still a norm.
		
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			That was before Islam. Now I'm
gonna stop according to that sing
		
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			attributed to him, he says, but
when the ayat of inheritance, the
		
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			verses of inheritance were
revealed in the Quran, it caused a
		
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			paradigm shift that women can
inherit. The women are not to be
		
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			inherited as property, which was
the case before Islam, but they
		
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			can inherit, so that those ideas
in the Quran the way the Quran
		
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			frames, women and the rights
really changed the perception of
		
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			the Sahaba and find that it was I
Isha, as a figure that change the
		
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			perception that we had towards
women.
		
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			I shall not the law on her, had
her own school of fic, she would
		
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			dispute some of the opinions of
the scholars around the
		
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			companions. For for example, when
she heard the hadith of how the
		
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			Prophet Muhammad Salam is supposed
to have said that, you know, women
		
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			when a woman walks, interrupts
your Salah, and the Hadith,
		
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			according to the Hadith, you know,
the woman has put on the same
		
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			category as a, as a dog walking
by, or, you know, so I should only
		
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			heard this is I completely
disagree. How dare you. And she's
		
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			I used to be in the Prophet
Muhammad salams room, and he would
		
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			pray while I'm right next to him.
And sometimes when he would come
		
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			down in sujood, he would make you
know, he would he would, as soon
		
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			as you would come down, I would
have to move out of the way
		
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			because of the limited space. So
you misunderstood the Hadith. Let
		
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			me explain to you what is meant
when he said this outside to the
		
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			public. Well, let me actually, let
me tell you also, other things
		
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			like, you know, when it comes to
when it comes to a hadith about
		
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			inheritance, a hadith about the
end of times, many things that the
		
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			companions had, in terms of an
opinion I showed her the Alana
		
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			would be there to correct that
opinion, because she had direct
		
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			access to the Prophet Muhammad
Sallallahu sallam. And there are
		
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			books that are published on that
subject opinions of the companions
		
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			that were corrected by Aisha, Radi
Allahu Ana.
		
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			She was known for her
determination and her confidence,
		
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			she was very confident from the
very beginning. So she would ask
		
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			very curious questions, she will
say, Oh, Sue Allah, what is meant
		
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			by this is what is really meant by
this, what is meant by that? How
		
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			does this make sense in terms of
this? So she would ask those
		
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			questions. And if for example, in
question is your suit Allah, the
		
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			Hadith about how in the day of on
the Day of Judgment, people are
		
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			going to come to Allah subhanaw
taala unclothed? How is that going
		
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			to be? So many? She's imagining
the ayat. She's imagining the
		
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			Hadith. And he says, Yeah,
everybody's going to be on that
		
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			day minding their own business.
This makes sense. So she was
		
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			curious who would ask those
questions? There's one one
		
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			incident that very interesting in
it when we look at the Prophet
		
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			Muhammad Salah has a relationship
with with ash. It's incredible, so
		
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			many lessons that we can learn
from there. You know, for example,
		
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			and maybe some of them would take
the cup after he drank and he
		
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			would rotate it, and she will say,
What are you doing out of solar?
		
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			I'm looking for the place where
you lips touch so I can drink from
		
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			the same spot. To show that
respect. She wants ask the metal
		
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			solo. Do you love me? Of course I
love you, Asha. Tell me how much
		
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			do you love me? Beautiful
composition between husband and
		
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			wife? Because yeah, Aisha I love
you. My love for you. If you want
		
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			to look for a symbol of my love
for you imagine a rope that is
		
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			tied onto itself like a loop.
		
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			So you know when people say a ring
is round, it turns forever. And
		
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			that's how long we'll be together
that kind of stuff. Right? So let
		
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			me so let me saying my love for
you is infinite. It's looping. I
		
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			love you so much that you know,
like it's like a knot together
		
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			held together strong enough. So
she would once in a while See ya
		
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			rasool Allah How was the not doing
so and maybe some made her secure
		
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			in that relationship?
		
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			Ship. Wish you could ask any
question where she felt
		
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			comfortable to ask any question.
And she contributed to the
		
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			confidence of the tambourine and
the Sahaba women that were around,
		
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			and that would cover students as
well that would come after that.
		
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			She was also amazing at reading
people and reading situations in
		
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			and she knew the Prophet Mohammed
Salim so well, on his deathbed.
		
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			She looked at the Prophet Muhammad
cinemas, and she She always tried
		
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			to say without him saying
anything. So she quickly grabbed
		
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			the miswak all the other women
like how did you know? It's like I
		
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			know my husband. I know my
husband. So she gives him his work
		
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			and he smiles, he appreciates it.
Of course, he is sick, he can say
		
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			much. And she tries to use them as
well. They doesn't have the
		
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			strength. So she uses her own
hand.
		
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			And he said, How did you know I
know my husband? Subhanallah you
		
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			know, there's one one incident and
the Prophet Muhammad salams that
		
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			there's actually in our books of
our books of narrations where I
		
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			share with Alana it's a long story
but she's she's she's saying the
		
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			story of 11 women talking about
all the qualities in men and
		
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			things that happen, things like
that. So I shall run is narrating
		
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			this of the Prophet Muhammad salam
to get his input.
		
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			So what do you imagine? I shall
run is talking for half an hour an
		
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			hour, maybe even two hours
continuously about this long
		
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			story. And the Prophet Muhammad
Salim is listening to her and
		
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			interrupting, listening
completely. And then finally he
		
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			comments and how she should you
know she should proceed. And then
		
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			many times we just listened to her
for a long time just venting,
		
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			talking, making himself available,
giving her that security, giving
		
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			her that security. One incident
that really really highlights her
		
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			strength, her tenacity. Her
confidence is what happened in the
		
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			if when people miss, you know how
the Lakota level attributed
		
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			terrible things accused her of
terrible things. Whether it
		
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			whether they verbalize that or
they didn't assume that or not,
		
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			you know, people accused her of
infidelity, how does it lift
		
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			mentioned in sort of a norm? Now,
of course, the rumors got so so
		
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			toxic, that it affected the
relationship with an abuse of our
		
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			salon. And when he walked into the
house, Mother evaluation of a
		
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			worker told her you know, say
something to said, What do you
		
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			want me to say? I have nothing to
say whatever I say at this moment,
		
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			it's going to mean nothing to
anybody. All that I can say is
		
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			what Abu Yusuf the father of us
have said to his his children.
		
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			Right well Lahoma stand for saloon
Jammie wala Hindustan metal. So
		
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			all that I can say is May Allah
give me beautiful patience. And
		
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			Allah's help is what I seek
regarding the things that you
		
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			attribute to me, and the things
that you say and the things that
		
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			you describe. So we'll get that
confidence strength. Finally, when
		
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			the ayat of the Quran will reveal
proving her innocence. What does
		
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			she say? She says, I never thought
of myself worthy enough to have a
		
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			ton of Quran revealed about me.
Abu Bakr his wife says she should
		
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			thank your husband. I don't think
anybody on this day except ALLAH,
		
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			immeasurable Salah Salem is theirs
and I'm not gonna thank you. I'm
		
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			thanking Allah subhanho wa Taala
because he is the one who set the
		
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			record straight. And there is no
justice beyond the justice of
		
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			ALLAH SubhanA tab. So look,
despite the love that she had with
		
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			Rasul Solomon, and there was a lot
of love you know, that, that that
		
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			beautiful story of love. And the
most beautiful story of love that
		
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			we have in our tradition, is a
story of a new Salam with Felicia
		
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			and there's only so Salam, Salam
Salam with ASHA with Alana to the
		
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			point where one of them had
defeated would narrate from
		
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			Russia, they would say, I heard
from heavy but Rasulullah Sawsan,
		
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			that beloved of Rasulullah, Salah,
Salah, that was what she was known
		
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			as.
		
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			And that's how she would transmit
this hadith and her teachings to
		
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			the community. As we mentioned,
she founded a school of fish.
		
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			She disputed the Sahabas opinions
when she had evidence and despite
		
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			the fact that she was number four
in terms of the quantity of the
		
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			Hadith, there are many a hadith
was she was the only one narrating
		
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			because she was paying attention
to Rasulullah Salah and she was
		
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			the only one to notice. And in
many times she corrected the
		
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			perceptions of the companions
towards women, and more
		
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			importantly even towards some main
principles within and peripheral
		
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			issues within the Sharia. So when
it comes to the codification of
		
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			the Sharia and when it comes to
the foundations and the text and
		
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			how to deal with it, I shouted
Allahu anha plays a central role
		
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			in all of that. May Allah Subhana
Allah bless us all Europe Amelie
		
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			Allah keep you steadfast keep a
sincere. Here's a small glimpse
		
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			from the life of Aisha to
encourage us to learn more, to
		
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			connect more and of course, to
challenge the way that we look at
		
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			our sisters and to give them
options
		
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			didn't invest and to allow for
that potential that teaching
		
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			potential that inspiring potential
that confidence in our sisters and
		
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			our daughters and our mothers to
grow because that woman will fail
		
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			and we'll set them on a coma
rahmatullahi wa barakato