Hosai Mojaddidi – Purification of the Heart for Muslimahs (Monthly Sisterhood Halaqa Part 1)

Hosai Mojaddidi
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The church representative hosted a livestream event where attendees will participate in a text about the heart, signs, symptoms, and diseases of the heart. The speakers emphasize the importance of protecting mental health and physical health from mental and physical health problems, promoting one's mental health, healing and cleansing, and promoting one's body's health. They emphasize the need to be honesty, acknowledge the importance of promoting one's mental health, and focus on healing and cleansing. The church is working on cleansing and taking in the remedies, which is what they have to do with the culinary techniques.
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Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim Al hamdu lillah wa Salatu was Salam

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ala Chapelle MBIA? Will mursaleen say that our Mowlana What have you

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been a Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam while he was talking to

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Senator Sleeman Kathira Saramonic Warahmatullah wabarakatuh. Again,

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your sisters, thank you for being here. And for all who are watching

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on the livestream, thank you as well for being here. We got a bit

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of a late start today, just for some technical reasons, but also

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logistical reasons. So inshallah we'll try to be more timely next

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month, where now we have our schedule pretty set. But in the

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beginning, we do evicted, just FYI because the time for the Halacha

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on site is at seven o'clock. So we do inshallah want you to come

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here, if you're going to come at seven where we'll do the Likud a

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group that get the right dimension had for me mom and her dad

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together. But for those who are watching on the live stream that

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will delay us maybe about 1520 minutes in terms of the start of

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the head office, so you can stick around if you want. But we thank

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you for being with us. And again, I thank all of you for coming here

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and taking out the time. Welcome, mashallah more sisters are coming

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and Hamdulillah. That's great. So, if you were here last month, you

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may recall that we kind of, we're taking a bit of a poll right to

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see like, what would interest people and because of post COVID,

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there's just so many more new faces, so many more different, you

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know, people coming from different parts of the area, actually, last

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mashella month, we had people from as far as a Sacramento as far as

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stocked in other areas, which is really impressive, mashallah, and

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humbling and amazing. But because of that, and the fact that we're

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not always sure what, in turn, in terms of the turnout, it's going

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to be, I opted this year to do something a little different than

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previous health as if you've attended my class, whether here or

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at live, you may know that we've done a lot of discussion driven

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huddle classes, where I present on different topics related to, you

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know, just spirituality, self development, anything that I think

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is relevant, more contemporary topics, and then each month was

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kind of different, which works Alhamdulillah. And if there is

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time, I would be more than happy to facilitate those types of

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discussions here. But for the purpose of this Halacha, just to

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bring everybody up to the same, you know, on the same page, we're

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going to be actually covering a text. And this text is called

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purification of the heart, the signs, symptoms and cures of the

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spiritual diseases. And this was, it's a translation and a

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commentary by Hamza Yusuf, based on a classical Arabic poem by Imam

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Al Mahmoud, called methodical Kullu which really addresses

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spiritual diseases of the heart, which we are all riddled with, we

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all have different diseases, and different degrees of disease, but

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certainly we all have them. And that's why many of our scholars

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including my mental Rosati considered

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doing this process of you know, tending towards spiritual

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diseases, the Teskey process, one of the four of the is one of the

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obligatory compulsory requirements of a believer because this is

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really, you know, when we talk about Mujahidin neffs, right, what

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does that mean right to struggle against oneself, it is to overcome

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spiritual diseases. And that is our life long struggle. It's not

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something that anyone graduates from, or overcomes, just by virtue

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of practice or by virtue of knowledge.

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And so this is why it's such an important topic that we have to

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constantly tend to, I was mentioning earlier, at the

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beginning that, you know, I've been Alhamdulillah very blessed

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to, first of all learn this from Sheikh Hamza directly.

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Alhamdulillah many, many years ago, maybe before some of you were

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even born. I don't know. But um, the lads been a long journey in

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this community having him Michelle, may Allah bless him. So

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he, we were, you know, in attendance when these classes were

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being given many years ago. And so I'll hand it over the years of

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course, you know, benefiting from from those classes and his

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teachings. You know, I saw it his, I just want to clarify, I saw his

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permission. So by his permission, we are teaching and you know,

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here, but I certainly am in no way.

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I could not,

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in any way, feel what he's doing. I would advise everyone actually

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to if you haven't listened to the original recordings, what he

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offers is next level, I'm just like, trying to give whatever we

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can here, but honestly, I really advise that and I advise if you

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don't have the book to have the book, because just going back to

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it.

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It just, there's so much healing to it. So that's why I wanted to

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do this book with all of us here in Charlotte, because I think

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it'll be a great opportunity for us to benefit from each other. So

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we'll kind of just, you know, do a reading and then open it up for

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discussion.

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I'd love to hear from all of you. And yes, we're being live

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streamed, but I'm the only one that's on camera. So I hope that

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kind of resolves any maybe issues that people have about speaking

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up, because inshallah the camera's not panning. It's not moving to

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anybody else. I mean, that's not right. Yeah. Because typically,

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it's just one person to the speaker. So I'll take all that.

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And I don't mind and you guys, but I would love your input and

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insight, in terms of anything that comes up for you as we read along.

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So with that said, any any questions or anything anything for

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me that you if you're new, and you haven't attended, you know, we can

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do all that now, if you want?

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Does anyone have their copy with them? I know, Sahar has hers and

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Michelle Sarah, do you have that? Anyone else? Okay, awesome, you

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guys. Yay. Okay, Alhamdulillah. By the way, just before I forget,

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make sure please to contact Sahar before we leave, because she has

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the list for the WhatsApp group where you can be added to that for

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updates. Okay, so just keep that in mind in case they've stopped

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for prayer because Aisha will come in soon. Okay, so Bismillah, let's

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go ahead and read and if you want to read next along, you know,

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someone next to you, I mean, keep COVID restrictions somewhat in

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mind, but maybe we can look over. Otherwise, I'll try to read as

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clearly as possible, so that you can,

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you know, follow along, inshallah. So I like to, you know, typically,

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actually, if you asked me, my earlier stuff, I would never read

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a book cover to cover, I'm that person that wants to skip to all

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the good parts, and then fill in the blanks of blanks. But with a

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book like this, you want to start from the very beginning. So we'll

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go straight to, we can go to the acknowledgments actually, or, you

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know, look at the contents. If you want to look at the contents page,

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the diseases that we're going to be covering are listed there.

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Right, so there's a lot of them, I think I counted 27 altogether. So

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Bismillah R Rahman r Rahim. Beautiful, best Mala there, right

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before the acknowledgments. So let's look at the acknowledgments

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here.

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Bismillah, on the Day of Judgment, no one is safe, save the one who

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returns to God with a pure heart. This is in the Quran. Surely in

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the * of humanity is a lump of a lump of flesh, if sound, then

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the whole body is sound and if corrupt, then the whole body is

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corrupt. Is it not the heart, this is a Hadith of the Prophet

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sallallahu sallam, and then bless it are the pure at heart for they

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shall see God. This is attributed to Esau, please.

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Whoever has not thanked people has not thanked God said the Prophet

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Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. This work is the result of

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the collaboration of many people. I am honored to have studied the

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meanings of this poem with my friend and pure hearted teacher,

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Abdullah Medina. I also asked the eminent scholar and spiritual

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master Sheikh Mohammed Hassan within Haldane for giving me

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license to teach and translate the poem and whose outstanding

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commentary on it was my constant companion during the classes and

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remains so today, thank you for Aiden McGeady for your continued

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love and support and for having the zeal to organize the classes

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and the small blesseth school that would become a tuna. More

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gratitude than can be expressed goes to Dr. Hashem Allah Lucy, who

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humbly sat on the floor against the window to attend the original

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classes that would become this text. He saw from the start the

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importance of this work, and through his extraordinary efforts

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helped realize more than I had hoped to with the zaytuna

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Institute and now zaytuna college. I also think my sister Nabila, who

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has worked tirelessly throughout Humber productions now Cinderella,

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and Kansa Academy to spread this message. I'm grateful to Hashem

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mooned for his careful editing of the translation of the poem, and

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to my friend and artist Abdullatif Whiteman. For his beautiful design

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of the cover. I'm also deeply thankful and appreciative to all

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those who worked diligently on the transcription, proofreading and

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editing of the text. Finally, my immense gratitude goes to the

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mother of my children, Liliana, whose pure heart is fortunate

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enough not to need the contents of this book, Michelle and beautiful.

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I'm the dilla s. So now, we go to the note to the reader. So this is

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for us right for us reading this book. I offer this book to you,

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the reader in the spirit of gratitude. Just as I was taught

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this text years ago by my teacher of the love with him Edna, in a

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similar spirit, gratitude and thankfulness to our Lord. The

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purpose of this book is not and has never been for commercial

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gain, but to help us all along the path of purification. So we can

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serve humanity and ultimately God in the best of ways. In an age

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where dignity nobility and honor have become ideals of the past, it

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is my sincere hope that works like this may help rekindle the desire

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for self

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to improvement, and introspection in all of us. Staying true to this

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we will have be happy and honored to give them this book, or any of

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our other products, such as the essence of our tradition shook her

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gratitude. Just as the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa

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sallam said to Lady Aisha, but are the law on her in the midst of his

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late night prayers, should I not be a thankful servant? So to do we

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hope to always return to the station of gratitude in all of our

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affairs. If you are thankful, surely I will increase you. Allah

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subhanaw taala says in chapter 14 Verse seven, Hamza Yusuf Sheikh

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Hamza Yusuf Centerlink Hamdulillah. So that was the entry

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of the beginning the acknowledgments and the note to

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the reader for those who are joining us on livestream of

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purification of the heart and we are going to do our best to read

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it again from beginning to end in this halacha and of course of this

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halacha Inshallah, with that intention, and we ask Allah

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subhanaw taala for Tofik that we're doing this with the purest

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of intentions, to rid ourselves of of spiritual diseases and to help

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our family our loved ones because as we come to understand ourselves

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better Inshallah, Allah will enable us to also be beneficial to

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those in our in our lives and shot love in Allah.

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Now, we will continue with translators introduction, so this

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is now she comes a further message from him speaking to us before we

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actually delve into the poem. And all of this of course, is is

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necessary to read Inshallah, which is why we're doing that. So this

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Mala almost universally, religious traditions have stressed the

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importance of the condition of the heart. And the Muslim Scripture,

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the Day of Judgment is described as a day in which neither wealth

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nor children shall be of any benefit to anyone, except one who

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comes to God with a sound heart. That's chapter 26, verse 88, to

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89. The sound heart halben Celine, is understood to be free of

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character defects, and spiritual blemishes. This heart is actually

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the spiritual heart and not the physical organ per se. Although in

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Islamic tradition, the spiritual heart is centered in the physical.

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One of the extraordinary aspects of the modern era is that we are

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discovering aspects about the heart, unknown in previous times,

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although there were remarkable insights in ancient traditions.

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For instance, according to traditional Chinese medicine, the

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heart houses what is known as Shen, which is spirit. The Chinese

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characters for thinking thought, love, the intention to listen, and

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virtue all contain the IDEO gram for the heart. In nearly every

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culture in the world, people use metaphors that directly or

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indirectly allude to the heart. We call certain types of people hard

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hearted,

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usually because they show no mercy and kindness. Likewise, people are

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said to have cold hearts, and others yet who are warm hearted.

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We speak with people as wearing their hearts on their sleeves,

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because they do not or cannot conceal their emotions from

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others. When someone's words or actions penetrate our souls and

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affect us profoundly, we say that this person touched my heart, or

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touched the core of my being. The Arabic equivalent for the English

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word core, which originally in Latin meat meant heart is known as

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love, which also refers to the heart, as well as the intellect

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and the essence of something. The most ancient indo European word

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for heart means that which leaps, which is consonant with the idea

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of the beating heart that leaps in the breast of men and

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People speak of their hearts as leaping for joy. People also say

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that their heart skipped a beat, when they come upon something

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startling that elicited from them a very strong emotional response.

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When people fall in love, they speak of stealing one's heart.

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There are many other metaphors involving the human heart, owing

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to its centrality in life. These phrases, however, casually, we may

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utter them today have roots in ancient concepts. The ancients

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were aware of spiritual diseases of the heart. And this

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understanding is certainly at the essence of Islamic teachings. The

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Quran defines three types of people and me known believers, you

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care for your own scoffers or atheists. And then when alpha code

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hypocrites, the believers are described as people whose hearts

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are alive and full of light, while the scoffers are in darkness, is

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one who was dead and then we revived with faith and made for

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him a light by which to walk among the people, like one who is in

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darkness from which he cannot exit. The Quran asks, in chapter

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six verse 122. According to commentators of the Quran, the one

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who was dead refers to having a dead heart, which God revived with

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light of guidance that one may walk straight and honorably among

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human beings. Also, the Prophet Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa

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sallam said, the difference between the one who remembers God

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and the one who does not, is like the difference between the living

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and the dead. In essence, the believer is one whose heart is

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alive, while the disbeliever is someone whose heart is spiritually

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dead. The hypocrite, however, is somebody whose heart is diseased.

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The Quran speaks of certain people with diseased hearts, self

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inflicted, we understand, and as a result, they were increased in

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their disease. This is in surah baqarah chapter two verse 10. The

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heart is centered slightly to the left of our bodies. Two sacred

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languages of Arabic and Hebrew are written from right to left toward

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the heart, which is some have noted mirrors the purpose of

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writing, namely to affect the heart. One should also consider

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the ritual of circumambulation or circling around the ancient house

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or Kaaba. In Mecca during the pilgrimage. It is performed in a

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counterclockwise fashion, with the left side of the worshiper facing

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the house, with the heart inclined toward towards it to remind us of

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God, and His presence in life of humanity in the life of humanity.

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The physical heart, which houses the spiritual heartbeats about

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100,000 times a day.

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Today, they know that any medical people,

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shocking 100,000 times a day, pumping two gallons of blood per

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minute, and over 100 gallons per hour. If one were to attempt to

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carry 100 gallons of water, whose density is lighter than blood from

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one place to another, it would be an exhausting task. Yet the human

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heart does this every hour of every day, for an entire lifetime

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without respite subpanel.

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The vascular system transporting life giving blood is over 60,000

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miles long.

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These are I mean, I've read this book so many times, but every time

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I read that isn't that incredible? 60,000 miles, I don't know how to

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comprehend that. Right? It's like can't wrap your mind around that

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type of system inside of us, Allahu Akbar, right?

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More than two times the circumference of the earth.

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So when we conceive of our blood being pumped throughout our

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bodies, know that this means that it travels through 60,000 miles of

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a closed vascular system that connects all the parts of the

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body, all the vital organs and living tissues to this incredible

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heart. We now know that the heart starts beating before the brain is

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fully fashioned. That is without the benefit of a fully formed

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central nervous system. How many mothers here?

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What was it like to hear the heartbeat the first time right? A

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lot of like

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the dominant theory states that the central nervous system is what

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controls the entire human being with the brain with the brain as

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its center.

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Yet we also know that the nervous system does not initiate the beat

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of the heart, but that it is actually self initiated or as

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as we would say, initiated by God, we also know that the heart should

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all of its connections to the brain be severed as they are

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during a heart transplant continues to beat. Many in the

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West have long proffered that the brain is the center of

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consciousness. But in traditional Islamic thought as in other

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traditions, the heart is viewed as the center of our being. The

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Quran, for example, speaks of wayward people who have hearts

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with which they do not understand. That's chapter seven, verse 179.

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Also the Quran mentions people who mocked the Prophet sallallahu

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alayhi wa sallam, and were entirely insincere in listening to

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his message. So God placed over their hearts a covering that they

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may not understand it. And in their ears, he placed acute

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deafness, because it's chapter six, verse 25.

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Their inability to understand is a deviation from the spiritual

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function of a sound heart, just as their ears have been afflicted

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with a spiritual deafness. So we understand from this, that the

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center of the intellect, the center of human consciousness, and

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conscience, is actually the heart and not the brain. Only recently

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have we discovered that there are 40,000 neurons in the heart

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neurons. In other words, why there are cells in the heart that are

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communicating with the brain.

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While the brain sends messages to the heart, the heart also sends

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messages to the brain to physiologists. In the 1970s 70s,

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John and Beatrice lacy conducted a study and found that the brain

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sent messages to the heart, but the heart did not automatically

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obey the messages. Sometimes the heart sped up, but other times it

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slowed down, indicating that the heart itself has its own type of

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intelligence. The brain receives signals from the heart through the

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brain's amygdala, thalamus and cortex. The amygdala relates to

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emotions while the cortex or the neocortex relates to learning and

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reasoning. Although this interaction is something that is

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not fully understood, from a physiological point of view, we do

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know that the heart is an extremely sophisticated Oregon

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with secrets still veiled from us. Subhan Allah, the Prophet of Islam

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SallAllahu Sallam spoke of the heart as a repository of knowledge

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and a vessel sensitive to the deeds of the body. He said, for

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example, that wrongdoing irritates the heart, so the heart actually

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perceives wrong action.

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So when you think of that for just a moment, think about anytime

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you've sinned, right, doing not feel a constriction in the chest,

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right? We know when we're doing something wrong as human beings,

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right, we know it, we feel it. It's that fitrah the, you know,

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it's that squeezing right in the heart that tells us

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you know, this is wrong. And that's because we are, you know,

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created right, the natural disposition is to, to be right,

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right to worship Allah to be, you know, to have a soundness. So when

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we veer from that heart, it communicates to us Subhan Allah.

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In fact, when people do terrible things, the core of their humanity

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is injured. Theodore Dostoevsky expresses brilliantly in Crime and

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Punishment, that the crime itself is the punishment because human

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beings ultimately have to live with the painful consequences of

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their deeds. When someone commits a crime, he does so first against

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his own heart, which then affects the whole human being. The person

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enters a state of spiritual agitation, and often tries to

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suppress it.

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There root meaning of the word COFA disbelief is to cover

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something up.

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As it relates to this discussion, the problems we see in our society

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come down to covering up or suppressing the symptoms of its

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troubles. The agents used to do this includes alcohol, drugs,

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sexual experimentation and deviance, power grabs, wealth,

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arrogance, pursuit of fame, and the like. These enable people to

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submerge themselves into a state of heedlessness concerning their

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essential nature. People work very hard to cut themselves off from

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their hearts and the natural feelings found there. The

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pressures to do this are very strong in our modern culture.

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One of the major drawbacks of being severed from the heart is

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that the more one is severed, the sicker the heart becomes, for the

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heart needs nourishment, heedlessness starves the heart

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robs it of its spiritual manner.

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No one enters into a state of unawareness, a debilitating lack

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of awareness of God, and an acute neglect of humanity's ultimate

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destination, the infinite world of the hereafter. When one peers into

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the limitless world through remembrance of God and increases

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in beneficial knowledge, once concerns become more focused on

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the infinite world, not the finite, one that is disappearing

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and ephemeral. When people are completely immersed in the

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material world, believing that this world is all that matters and

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all that exists, and that they are not accountable for their actions,

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they affect a spiritual death of their hearts. Before the heart

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dies, however, it shows symptoms of affliction. These afflictions

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are the spiritual diseases of the heart, the center of our being the

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topic of this book,

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any questions so far?

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Subhan Allah.

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In Islamic tradition, these diseases fall under two

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categories. The first is known as Shubo, hat, or obfuscations. These

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are diseases that relate to impaired or inappropriate

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understanding. For instance, if somebody is fearful that God will

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not provide for him or her, this is considered a disease a disease

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of the heart because a sound heart has knowledge and trust, not doubt

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and anxiety. The category of Schuberth alludes to aspects

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closely connected to the heart, the soul, the ego, Satan's with

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springs and investigations, Caprice, and the ardent love of

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this ephemeral world. The heart is an Oregon designed to be in a

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state of calm, which is achieved with the remembrance of God. Most

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surely in the remembrance of God do hearts find calm Allah subhanaw

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taala reminds us in chapter 13, verse 28. This calm is what the

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heart seeks out and gravitates to, it yearns always to remember God

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the Exalted, but when God is not remembered, when human beings

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forget God, then the heart falls into a state of agitation and

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turmoil. In this state, it becomes vulnerable to diseases because it

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is undernourished and cut off. cells require oxygen, oxygen, so

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we breathe. If we stopped breathing, we die. The heart also

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needs to breathe and the breath of the heart is none other than the

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remembrance of God. Without it, the spiritual heart dies. the very

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purpose of revelation and of Scripture is to remind us that our

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hearts need to be nourished. We enter the world in a state of in

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the state of Quran cause fitrah, our original state and inherent

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nature that is disposed to accept faith and prefer morality. But we

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soon learn anxiety mainly from our parents, and then our societies.

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The hardest created vulnerable to anxiety and agitation. Chapter 70,

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verse 19, those who are protected from this state are people of

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prayer, people who established prayer and gardens performance

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with a humble and open heart connected with God, the Lord of

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all creation. The highest ranks among people are those who do not

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allow anything to divert them from the remembrance of God. They are

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the ones who remember God as they are standing, sitting and

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reclining on their sides.

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The second category of diseases concerns the base desires of the

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self and it's called shadow out. This relates to our desires

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exceeding their natural state, as when people live merely to satisfy

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these urges and are led by them. Islam provides the method by which

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our hearts can become sound and safe again, this method has been

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the subject of brilliant and insightful scholarship for

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centuries. In the Islamic tradition, one can say that Islam

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is at in essence is a program to restore purity and calm to the

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heart, through the remembrance of God. So Maha Samadhi welcome.

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So again, here, you know that that last line Subhan Allah, you know,

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how many of us have understood our deen? I mean, it's such a simple,

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concise, yet very powerful statement, right? That Islam is a

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program. Right? That's why we don't say Islam is certainly not

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an ideology, or just a religion, right? It is, what?

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A way of life right? It is a dean. It is a complete, perfect system.

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And so what is the system for it's to restore purity and calm to the

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heart through the remembrance of God because the world is so

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distracting, right? You have I mean, if we look at modern

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times I forgot the exact statistic of how many images we're seeing, I

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think she comes in may have even mentioned it in this book or an

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agenda. But the amount of images that we see in a day are more than

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what previous pre modern people saw in their whole life. So the

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amount of just imagery, we're just talking about images, right? So

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images are distractions. Sounds are distractions. People are

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distractions, right? Neighbors, co workers, family members, right?

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How many times? Have you felt that your phone was intrusive? Right?

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Have you ever felt that way? Right? Like, you feel like you're

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trying to just have a moment of peace, some silence some time to

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yourself. And there goes the ringer, or the notifications Ding,

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ding, ding. And, you know, if you're like me, I don't know why I

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don't do it. But I have my ringer off. So my ringer never goes on. I

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have Emergency Bypass for like, two or three people. That's like,

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that's it. But what I haven't done and it's my own fault, is get rid

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of the notifications, right, the red. Those Those come up, and I

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see the banners. So even though I've, you know, turned off my

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ringer hoping that it all stopped me I have that problem of oh, did

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anybody message. So it doesn't really help? Because then you're

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worried, right? Like, if I don't hear it, maybe I have to check it.

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So it really it's a broken system, I need to do something different.

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But the point is right, that we have lives where the amount of

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distractions are just too many. And so if you think about

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the time that we do have left, right, to worship Allah subhanaw

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taala, how does that look? Right? When you have, I mean, let's do

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the calculations, how many minutes does it take to do our prayers,

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like average? Five, every 10 minutes, right? If we're, I think

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if we're being really generous, right, we have a few extra

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minutes, but most of the time, especially when you factor in

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little kids, right? That are needy, or work like you have a

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short break and you have to get right back to work and you got to

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eat something too. So you want to you know, think about the times

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that we do allocate for the remembrance of God, even in that

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time. We're distracted right by what we have to do next. So the

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amount of distractions are so many they never seem to end and that's

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why

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we have to you know, we have to understand that this is why we're

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experiencing all of these problems right? Because our hearts want

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what what do our hearts want to do?

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That's our eyes right? Our eyes and our knifes in our mind but

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what does our spiritual heart want to do? What is it designed to do?

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Worship Allah subhanaw taala so like, one of the

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analogies that I that I found really useful to understand that

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was a plant and he anybody here like a green thumb? Yeah,

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Michelle, you can you can I'm terrible but good for you. I just

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can't I smile I really admire people my mother in law Michelle

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She's like an entire garden like she's really good. But some people

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who care for plants will tell you it's actually an incredible thing

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to observe. Plants are created of course they need what they need

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light right water soil in order to we know this we remember from

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science classroom, photosynthesis, but one of the things that a

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flower plant will do always is seek the light source right? So no

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matter where you put it, if you put it into a shaded area and you

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watch it over time, that plant will turn you know if the leaves

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are faced away from the sunlight or the natural source of light it

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will turn to look for the light it's incredible. I mean I've done

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it tested on the plants that I have kept and also killed. May God

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forbid give me but in the time that they were alive they did it

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and it was just amazing to see the turn because I'm not turning it

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turning. So I love that analogy because I feel that that's so true

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to our hearts right that our hearts no matter which direction

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inshallah is leisure time.

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You can't hear me

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that's fine because it sounds like he's talking to me, but I don't

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think he is.

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I think we can hear you guys loud and clear time. Sorry, brother. I

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thought this was only going to the live stream Okay. Inshallah, we

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will stop Okay, thank you.

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Allahu Akbar Allahu Akbar. Allahu Akbar. Shadwell La ilaha illallah

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a shadow a la ilaha illallah wa shadow anna Muhammad Rasulullah I

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had one

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Muhammad Rasul Allah, Ayala, Salah yada yada yada and for La Jolla,

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la la cama de sala de Sala, Allahu Akbar Allahu Akbar Allah Allah in

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Allah

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Allahu Akbar

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Alhamdulillah Hello I'm Bill al Amin

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of manual locking model Maliki omit the mean he can Abu he can

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Stein

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the nostril out a little monster he

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say lotta Latina and I'm like him very little mark Tobia like him

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Allah doll lean

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in Angela houfy Lila till other mama other la cama La la

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la la Tula. Do they tie them in Alfie Isha Turner's cellule Mala

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Iike Tuvalu houfy be the new up be him in Calais Amma Salah moon here

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had medulla al Fajr

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Allahu Akbar

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Samia Allahu Lehmann Hamidah

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Allahu Akbar

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Allahu Akbar

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Alhamdulillah Heelan Bill Allah me

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of man or he Molly Kiyomi the EOC and I will do II can Stein

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dinner sell out Lumo stocking sell out and loving and I'm gonna lay

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him a little mock Toby or lay him Mala doll only

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for Leah Are you Hello coffee the moon la

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mala and Tong be doing good Mala be Duma but tombola and don't be

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do nama

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lagoon the you know Kamali or the mean

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a lot of magma

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some your luck Allahu demon Hamidah.

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Lor

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Allahu Akbar

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Allahu.

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Allahu Akbar.

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Well

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Last week well

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Sami Allahu Lehmann Hamidah

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Allahu Akbar

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Allahu it was

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a lot who had well

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Allahu Akbar

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Samia Allah holy man Hamidah

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Allahu Akbar

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Allahu it was

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Allahu Akbar.

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Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah.

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As Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah.

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has been allowed on Yamawaki local Hundal aka shukokai Elia Manyata

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him Allahumma salli ala Sayyidina Muhammad wa ala Ali say the name

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Muhammad young radical salam ala webinars Al Anon fossa now I

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limped off ill and out Al Hamdulillah Kunal hassling Allah

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Who mine Allah zyk recover Shoukry co hosts Neva the thick last month

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SLM roaming Casa La Mata Baddeck tele Bernardo dalla del Jalali

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Malik alum,

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Bernard Tina fifth dunya has not done well feel lucky that he has

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not been working as Abernathy Allahumma nirsa Luca al Afia

00:43:19 --> 00:43:22

means Ohana Subhan Allah because I believe that the Amaya CFO or

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salmonella mousseline Al hamdu, lillahi, Rabbil Alameen.

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Sad news, you know, one of the brothers of our community passed

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away just seven o'clock today. His name is job Athiya Yeah, he was

00:43:48 --> 00:43:53

mostly receiver longtime long term resident of Pleasanton. And he

00:43:53 --> 00:43:57

moved to Dublin he was residing in San Ramon in Sharla most rolly

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that will happen tomorrow. And so you will update on the email His

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name is Java Yeah.

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And his wife's name is negative.

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So you just passed away today seven o'clock.

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May Allah gland genital for those forgiveness to village GRV the

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here may Allah grant patients to his family and friends. May Allah

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make his life here laughter blissfully safe.

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I mean, I mean, the other bill element Bernardin after dunya

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don't feel lucky that he has not okay, no.

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I mean, I mean to one another because Bill is at the mercy for

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Muslim and a little Mussolini, not hungry

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smell

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is

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oh you don't know Subhan Allah I wonder I have like I don't know

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how many copies of this I think one of them is what do you have

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like a date in the inside for when that was? Yeah which edition Do

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you have

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minus 2012

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that is to say is your sandela also yeah

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yeah so you need the more yeah you have the older one you need the

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newer one. Okay, thanks

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I have this dude. We should compare signatures where to go

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yeah there's

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a

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nice nice oh same handwriting so

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how are you?

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Good to see you.

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I know when did that obviously

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Oh nice. Michelle has baby

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what Wait please tell me his name. I'm so sorry. Is he here

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oh sweet. I wouldn't see you in sha Allah two and a half.

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Hello Oh, there we go. Okay, Miss one. So we're back. All right. So

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hamdullah we left off. Right before we stop for prayer. We're

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just talking about the second paragraph here

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on page 18

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which we're still in the in the translators introduction. So these

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are still the early pages of the book. But we this last sentence

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just, you know, wanted to comment a little bit on that on the fact

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that you know, she comes and says Here one can say that Islam is, in

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essence is a program to restore purity and calm to the heart

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through the remembrance of God. And that's just really important

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for us to keep in mind that our whole Deen every aspect of our

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deen there's a purpose to it, it's to reorient us where the where

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that, you know, plan to our heart is always you know, seeking the

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light our heart is always seeking Allah subhanaw taala. But we are

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the ones that move right because of our our physical needs or our

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our weaknesses, our distractibility all of those

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things make us move away. So that's why we have to, again

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appreciate that though. It's just really appreciated that So now,

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we'll continue from there. This present text is based on the poem

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known as methodical lube, literally the purification of the

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heart or purification of the hearts, which offers the means by

00:51:07 --> 00:51:11

which purification can be achieved. It is a treaties on the

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alchemy of the hearts, namely, a manual on how to transform the

00:51:16 --> 00:51:20

heart. It was written by a great scholar and St. Chef Mohamed

00:51:20 --> 00:51:26

Mahmoud Jacobi and Musawi and more attorney, and as his name

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indicates, he was formed from Mauritania in West Africa, he was

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a master of all the Islamic sciences, including the inward

00:51:33 --> 00:51:37

Sciences of the heart. He stated that he wrote this poem because he

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observed the prevalence of diseased hearts. He saw students

00:51:41 --> 00:51:46

of religion spending their time learning abstract sciences, that

00:51:46 --> 00:51:51

people were not really in need of, to the neglect of those sciences,

00:51:51 --> 00:51:55

that pretend that pertain to what people are accountable for in the

00:51:55 --> 00:51:59

next life namely the spiritual condition of the heart. And one of

00:51:59 --> 00:52:02

his most cited statements the province of audience that um,

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said, actions are based upon intentions. All deeds are thus

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valid, valued according to the intentions behind them, and

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intentions emanate from the heart. So every action a person intends

00:52:15 --> 00:52:20

or performs is rooted in the heart. A memo would realize that

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the weakness of society was a matter of weakness of character in

00:52:24 --> 00:52:29

the heart. You Mahmoud based his text on many previous illustration

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ilus illustrious works, especially the amendment of Azad is great

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here Illuminati in the river vacation, the Revivification of

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the sciences of the religion, each of the 40 books of a hair owner

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Medina has the underlying objective of rectifying the human

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heart.

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If we examine the trials and tribulations, wars and other

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conflicts, every act of injustice all over the earth, will find

00:52:56 --> 00:53:01

they're rooted in human hearts covetousness the desire to aggress

00:53:01 --> 00:53:07

and exploit the longing to pilfer natural resources. The inordinate

00:53:07 --> 00:53:12

love of wealth and position, and other maladies are manifestations

00:53:12 --> 00:53:18

of diseases found nowhere but in the heart, every criminal miser

00:53:18 --> 00:53:24

abusers scoffer embezzler and hateful person does what he or she

00:53:24 --> 00:53:29

does because of a diseased heart. If hearts were sound, these

00:53:29 --> 00:53:34

actions would no longer be a reality. So if we want to change

00:53:34 --> 00:53:38

our world, we do not begin by rectifying the outward. Instead,

00:53:38 --> 00:53:42

we must change the condition of our inward everything we see

00:53:42 --> 00:53:47

happening outside of us is in reality, coming from the unseen

00:53:47 --> 00:53:51

world within. It is from the unseen world that the phenomenal

00:53:51 --> 00:53:56

world emerges. And it is from the unseen realm of our hearts that

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all actions spring.

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The well known civil rights activist Martin Luther King, Jr.

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said that in order for people to condemn injustice, they must go

00:54:07 --> 00:54:11

through four stages. The first stage is that people must

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ascertain that indeed injustice is are being perpetrated. In his case

00:54:16 --> 00:54:19

it was injustice as against African Americans in the United

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States. The second stage is to negotiate that is approach the

00:54:25 --> 00:54:30

oppressor and demand justice. If the oppressor refuses, King said

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that the third stage is self purification, which starts with

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the question, are we ourselves wrongdoers? Are we ourselves

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oppressors. The fourth stage then is to take action after true self

00:54:45 --> 00:54:50

examination. After removing one's own wrongs before demanding

00:54:50 --> 00:54:52

justice from others.

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We have the modern world are reluctant to ask ourselves, when

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we look at the terrible things that are happening. Why do they

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occur. And if we ask that with all sincerity, the answer will come

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resoundingly. All of this is from your own selves. In so many ways

00:55:10 --> 00:55:13

we have brought this upon ourselves. This is the only

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empowering position we can take. The Quran implies that if people

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oppress others, God will send another people to oppress them. We

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put some oppressors over other oppressors because of what their

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own hands have earned. This is chapter six verse 129. According

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to FUCKLOAD Deena Razia 12th century scholar of the Quran, the

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verse means that the existence of oppression on Earth may be caused

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by previous oppression. By implication, often the victims of

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aggression were once aggressors themselves. This, however, is not

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the case with tribulations, for there are times in which people

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are indeed tried. But if they respond with patience and

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perseverance, God will always give them relief and victory. If we

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examine the life of the prophet muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa

00:56:09 --> 00:56:13

sallam in Mecca, it's clear that he in the community of believers

00:56:13 --> 00:56:17

were being harmed and oppressed, but they were patient and God gave

00:56:17 --> 00:56:22

them victory. Within 23 years, the prophet Salado Saddam was not only

00:56:22 --> 00:56:26

free of oppression, but became the leader of the entire Arabian

00:56:26 --> 00:56:30

Peninsula. Those people who want suppressed him now sought mercy

00:56:30 --> 00:56:35

from him, and he was most gracious and kind in his response. Despite

00:56:35 --> 00:56:39

their former brutality toward him, the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa

00:56:39 --> 00:56:42

sallam forgave them and admitted them into the brotherhood of

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faith.

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This is the difference between someone whose heart is purified

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and sound and one whose heart is impure and corrupt, impure people

00:56:52 --> 00:56:57

oppress, and the pure hearted not only forgive their oppressors, but

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elevate them in status and character. In order to purify

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ourselves, we must begin to recognize this truth. This is what

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this book is all about a book of self purification, and a manual of

00:57:11 --> 00:57:15

liberation. If we work on our hearts, if we actually implement

00:57:15 --> 00:57:19

what is suggested here, we'll begin to see changes in our lives,

00:57:19 --> 00:57:23

our condition, our society, and even within our own family

00:57:23 --> 00:57:28

dynamics. It is a blessing that we have this science of purification

00:57:28 --> 00:57:32

of blessing that this teaching exists in the world today. What

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remains is for us to take these teachings seriously. So let us go

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through what is explained here by this great scholar and learn of

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the diseases of the heart, examine their ideology, their causes,

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their signs and symptoms, and finally how to treat them. There

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are two types of treatments the theoretical treatment, which is

00:57:51 --> 00:57:55

understanding the disease itself, and the practical treatment, which

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focuses on the prescriptions we must take in order to restore the

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heart's natural purity. If we apply the techniques that have

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been learned and transmitted by the great scholars of the vast

00:58:06 --> 00:58:10

tradition of Islam, we will see results, but just like medicinal

00:58:10 --> 00:58:14

prescriptions, the physician cannot force you to take it. The

00:58:14 --> 00:58:18

knowledgeable scholars of spiritual purification have given

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us the treatment as they have gleaned it from the teachings of

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the Quran, and the exemplary model of the Prophet sallallahu

00:58:27 --> 00:58:30

wasallam. The teachings are available, they are clear and they

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work. It is then up to us to learn and apply them to ourselves and

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share them with others. So those were the that was the translators

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introduction, Michelle, any any comments or any perspective?

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Anybody want to share? What stood out to you from this? This

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section?

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Anything that was memorable or that made an impact from what you

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read?

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Yes.

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Absolutely

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Subhan Allah

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No

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judgmental illness and judgment. Like you mean arrogance, like

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looking down at other people.

01:00:29 --> 01:00:30

Anxiety I heard

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he go right and inflated ego.

01:00:38 --> 01:00:41

So did you guys get a chance to look at the diseases that are

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going to be covered in the book,

01:00:45 --> 01:00:48

just that we kind of skimmed through but the contents, just

01:00:48 --> 01:00:51

let's look at the list here. For those who don't have the book this

01:00:51 --> 01:00:55

is these are the diseases that we're going to be covering in sha

01:00:55 --> 01:01:00

Allah in the course of this halacha. But just keep in mind as

01:01:00 --> 01:01:04

we go through this list, you know what, what you are observing what

01:01:04 --> 01:01:08

you are observing within yourself first and foremost, because it

01:01:08 --> 01:01:10

should, you know, I mean, we haven't yet defined all of them

01:01:10 --> 01:01:14

but still, you may recognize some of these names or words.

01:01:15 --> 01:01:23

miserliness is the first one wantonness, hatred, iniquity, love

01:01:23 --> 01:01:31

of the world, envy, blameworthy, modesty, fantasizing, fear of

01:01:31 --> 01:01:38

poverty, ostentation, relying on other than God, displeasure with

01:01:38 --> 01:01:45

the Divine Decree, seeking reputation, false hopes, negative

01:01:45 --> 01:01:52

thoughts, vanity, fraud, anger, heedlessness rancor, boasting and

01:01:52 --> 01:01:57

arrogance, displeasure with blame antipathy toward death.

01:01:57 --> 01:02:01

obliviousness to blessings in derision.

01:02:02 --> 01:02:05

And then there's other sections to in the book, mashallah

01:02:05 --> 01:02:09

comprehensive treatment for the heart. But, again, this is, you

01:02:09 --> 01:02:11

know, these are the diseases that we're going to be covering. So,

01:02:11 --> 01:02:16

just something to think about as we move forward, what you observe

01:02:16 --> 01:02:19

already about yourself, you know, I don't know how many of you have

01:02:19 --> 01:02:25

ever heard me speak before on the topic of emotional intelligence,

01:02:25 --> 01:02:27

which is something that

01:02:28 --> 01:02:32

I've done here, and this other cause was in my head, that leaf

01:02:32 --> 01:02:36

and I write about it a lot online. If you're following me on

01:02:36 --> 01:02:39

Instagram, or Facebook, you may have seen a lot of posts that talk

01:02:39 --> 01:02:43

about emotional intelligence. And the reason why that, you know,

01:02:43 --> 01:02:50

it's something that I really tried to share is because of the actual

01:02:50 --> 01:02:53

framework of emotional intelligence, is defined as having

01:02:53 --> 01:02:58

five qualities, right? If you have these five, then you are

01:02:58 --> 01:03:01

considered an emotionally intelligent person, which the

01:03:01 --> 01:03:06

first is self awareness, right? Then self regulation, then

01:03:06 --> 01:03:11

motivation, empathy, and social skills. And this is based on the

01:03:11 --> 01:03:16

works of Daniel Goleman, who is a psychologist in the 1990s. He's

01:03:16 --> 01:03:23

still alive, but he basically put this term, you know, on the map,

01:03:23 --> 01:03:25

in a way, by writing about it, he wrote a book called Emotional

01:03:25 --> 01:03:29

Intelligence, why it can matter more than IQ. And it was an

01:03:29 --> 01:03:32

instant, like New York Times bestseller, translated into

01:03:32 --> 01:03:36

several different languages. But it was considered a really, as one

01:03:36 --> 01:03:40

review from the Harvard Business Review, they said, This is a

01:03:40 --> 01:03:45

paradigm shattering concept, this idea that intelligence is measured

01:03:45 --> 01:03:48

by the heart. So again, making this connection, right, because we

01:03:48 --> 01:03:52

always think of intelligence as IQ, right? That's how we, we

01:03:52 --> 01:03:56

typically used to measure intelligence. And now, since these

01:03:56 --> 01:04:00

studies have been, you know, published and these works have,

01:04:00 --> 01:04:04

have started to gain more, more popularity, people are realizing

01:04:04 --> 01:04:08

that the higher form of intelligence is actual emotional

01:04:08 --> 01:04:12

intelligence. And, you know, I, when I started studying it,

01:04:12 --> 01:04:14

because I have his book, I was like, This is so fascinating,

01:04:14 --> 01:04:18

because every aspect of his teachings would directly be back

01:04:18 --> 01:04:22

to the prophesy seven, like all of you know, these five qualities,

01:04:22 --> 01:04:25

they're all the problems, they're all describing him. Self

01:04:25 --> 01:04:28

awareness, right, there is nobody who's more self aware than

01:04:28 --> 01:04:32

probably so I mean, every instant he was very present and, you know,

01:04:32 --> 01:04:36

he's teaching us to be self aware, to write self regulation to be

01:04:36 --> 01:04:43

able to control yourself, right? He has again, existence is is a

01:04:43 --> 01:04:48

perfect, you know, model for us of someone who had, you know, these

01:04:48 --> 01:04:52

qualities his virtues of temperance, right I've which is to

01:04:52 --> 01:04:57

hold yourself back to practice. You know, regulating your emotions

01:04:57 --> 01:05:00

being under full control of yourself.

01:05:00 --> 01:05:04

That's not easy to do. A lot of us are very reactive, right? And this

01:05:04 --> 01:05:08

is why it's so important to know your temperament to know what your

01:05:08 --> 01:05:11

disposition is, for some people, they are highly reactive more than

01:05:11 --> 01:05:15

others. And so in our tradition 100 out, we're taught these

01:05:15 --> 01:05:18

things, if you're, if you're learning the denas, you should

01:05:18 --> 01:05:25

this perfect program, right? That Islam is, it's teaching you all of

01:05:25 --> 01:05:28

these things is teaching you to know your temperament to know

01:05:28 --> 01:05:32

yourself to be able to recognize your own spiritual diseases, like

01:05:32 --> 01:05:36

we should know, you know, when we're reading these lists, we

01:05:36 --> 01:05:41

should say, oh, that sounds familiar. You know, I, I'm pretty

01:05:41 --> 01:05:44

I have that one for sure. Like, you know, a little checkbox. But

01:05:44 --> 01:05:49

self awareness is the first one, you know, self regulation, and you

01:05:49 --> 01:05:54

have motivation, you know, to be a motivated person. In this day and

01:05:54 --> 01:05:59

age, when a lot of people have lost right? meaning to life most,

01:05:59 --> 01:06:05

a lot of people out there, they don't really have a belief system

01:06:05 --> 01:06:08

that anchors them. And I'm sure you've noticed it too, right.

01:06:08 --> 01:06:09

Like,

01:06:10 --> 01:06:13

in my lifetime, I've absolutely noticed it, where people no longer

01:06:13 --> 01:06:17

even reference God religion anymore. And they'll even say, I'm

01:06:17 --> 01:06:22

not religious, you know, even conservative people who used to

01:06:22 --> 01:06:26

have some, maybe a religious identity, they just don't seem to

01:06:26 --> 01:06:31

think of it as an essential need anymore. Like, you know, and I'm

01:06:31 --> 01:06:33

not really rich, I don't need religion. And then, you know,

01:06:34 --> 01:06:38

spirituality or whatever other term, they may define, use to

01:06:38 --> 01:06:42

define themselves becomes more comfortable for them, but any talk

01:06:42 --> 01:06:45

of religion seems very constricting, so they avoid it.

01:06:46 --> 01:06:50

So then it's what what do you believe in and, you know, a lot of

01:06:50 --> 01:06:54

people, like I said, they just, they live for, you know, their,

01:06:54 --> 01:06:58

whatever goals, material goals, objectives are, and then they just

01:06:58 --> 01:07:01

think that's it, that's life, and then you die. And, and that's it.

01:07:01 --> 01:07:05

So they don't have a, like a bigger, you know, objective or

01:07:05 --> 01:07:10

another belief that, that gives them purpose. So that's why you

01:07:10 --> 01:07:15

see a lot of, you know, just a lack of concern, nihilism. I mean,

01:07:15 --> 01:07:18

we're seeing it, I'm sure you see it online with people. It's just

01:07:18 --> 01:07:21

shocking, like, they're almost like, there's nothing there, they

01:07:21 --> 01:07:25

can watch someone be assaulted right in front of them, and

01:07:25 --> 01:07:28

nothing compels them to action, you know, you have to wonder

01:07:28 --> 01:07:31

what's happening, right? Why are the hearts deadened? It seems

01:07:31 --> 01:07:34

like, it's like, how would you watch someone being attacked right

01:07:34 --> 01:07:38

in front of you and feel nothing. But if you grew up in a society

01:07:38 --> 01:07:44

that basically, you know, you're not really taught these things,

01:07:44 --> 01:07:47

and you kind of are taught, just mind your own business, you know,

01:07:47 --> 01:07:51

I'm just basically living in my own silo. And that's not my

01:07:51 --> 01:07:54

concern, and I'm just gonna get to work and, you know, go eat and

01:07:54 --> 01:07:59

sleep. And that becomes your purpose of existence, and there's

01:07:59 --> 01:08:04

nothing right that would compel you. So this lack of drive, lack

01:08:04 --> 01:08:07

of motivation is very, very common, you know, nihilism, all of

01:08:07 --> 01:08:11

these things that we're seeing in society is, is the root of that,

01:08:11 --> 01:08:15

right? And then you have empathy, which is another symptom, right?

01:08:15 --> 01:08:18

If you can watch people be, I mean, all the injustices that

01:08:18 --> 01:08:21

we're seeing, right, it's a lot of it has to do with the lack of

01:08:21 --> 01:08:27

empathy. Nobody cares about the suffering, or not nobody, but you

01:08:27 --> 01:08:31

know, people generally have become less empathic when it comes to the

01:08:31 --> 01:08:35

suffering of other people. Because we're too consumed with our own

01:08:35 --> 01:08:40

selves, right? This hyper focus on the neffs, on ego on fulfilling

01:08:40 --> 01:08:44

our own desires. We saw it at the beginning of COVID, right?

01:08:45 --> 01:08:49

When he went to Costco, and there was nothing on their shelves,

01:08:49 --> 01:08:52

because people were hoarding, like, how do you do that? Right?

01:08:52 --> 01:08:56

If you're a person who has some level of concern for your fellow

01:08:56 --> 01:09:00

brother or sister in humanity, you would just take your share, but if

01:09:00 --> 01:09:01

you're like, Yeah,

01:09:02 --> 01:09:04

whatever I'm getting, you know, and then there are people I don't

01:09:04 --> 01:09:08

know if you guys saw those two, I think there were somewhere in the

01:09:08 --> 01:09:12

Midwest who took all of the hand sanitizers, you see that? They

01:09:12 --> 01:09:15

bought them all. I don't know how you do that. Like, I don't want to

01:09:15 --> 01:09:18

save anything for anybody, I'll just take them off. So they can

01:09:18 --> 01:09:22

hike the price up and then sell them. That is definitely something

01:09:22 --> 01:09:24

going on. Right. And it's from a spiritual perspective, there's

01:09:24 --> 01:09:28

something missing there. But this is, I think these new stories

01:09:28 --> 01:09:31

aren't even shocking anymore, right? We're just like, oh, you

01:09:31 --> 01:09:35

know, what else do you expect? So the lack of empathy is felt and

01:09:35 --> 01:09:37

seen. And then social skills, right?

01:09:38 --> 01:09:42

How awkward is it to like, interact with people now, like you

01:09:42 --> 01:09:45

can have, you know, conversations, customer service is very weird.

01:09:45 --> 01:09:49

Now. You know, you go anywhere people don't want to talk, they

01:09:49 --> 01:09:52

want to go in and make eye contact. It's just a different

01:09:52 --> 01:09:57

strange world, right? So we're losing a lot of these skills.

01:09:58 --> 01:09:59

And that's why it's so important to

01:10:00 --> 01:10:02

again, go back to them. But I love that framework, because I feel

01:10:02 --> 01:10:04

like it just gives us a nice structure to work with. But

01:10:04 --> 01:10:08

essentially, it's just describing all of the qualities of the

01:10:08 --> 01:10:13

prophesy seven that we need to be mindful of right that these are

01:10:13 --> 01:10:17

among all of his virtues. These are some of them, but he certainly

01:10:17 --> 01:10:23

has more. But if we could focus on developing these five, you know,

01:10:23 --> 01:10:27

within ourselves, then we will see the benefits of that. So that's

01:10:27 --> 01:10:32

why this book is in a way, related to that first and second point

01:10:32 --> 01:10:36

right to self awareness, because it requires honesty, right? If

01:10:36 --> 01:10:40

we're if we're going to do this program, successful, if we're

01:10:40 --> 01:10:44

going to be successful, we have to be honest, because the nerves,

01:10:44 --> 01:10:50

which is that lower part of ourselves, it will try to delude

01:10:50 --> 01:10:55

us the same way that when someone comes and criticizes us, we

01:10:55 --> 01:10:59

immediately defend ourselves, don't we? It's very uncomfortable

01:10:59 --> 01:11:03

for most people to be criticized, whether it's your spouse, your

01:11:03 --> 01:11:08

parent, your sibling, your child, if you have, you know, some of our

01:11:08 --> 01:11:13

children are very honest. And you know, it could be anybody, your

01:11:13 --> 01:11:16

your boss, your coworker, if someone says something to you,

01:11:16 --> 01:11:20

even if, let's say, maybe there's some truth to what they're saying,

01:11:21 --> 01:11:25

why does it bother us so much to admit that, right, because our

01:11:25 --> 01:11:30

ego, our enough's does not like to be criticized. But if we are not

01:11:30 --> 01:11:34

even willing to do that, within ourselves, we're not willing to

01:11:34 --> 01:11:39

hold up the mirror, right and see our blemishes for what they are,

01:11:40 --> 01:11:45

then we're not going to succeed. And that's why they're, it's, you

01:11:45 --> 01:11:50

know, we need to really have that, that willingness to be vulnerable

01:11:50 --> 01:11:53

within ourselves. Nobody's asking to expose, you know, this is a

01:11:53 --> 01:11:59

very personal exercise this whole concept of, you know, rectifying

01:11:59 --> 01:12:02

the heart, it's very personal exercise, it's not something you

01:12:02 --> 01:12:06

have to necessarily do with other people. But in order to do it

01:12:06 --> 01:12:09

successfully, we have to be vulnerable and vulnerable, means

01:12:09 --> 01:12:14

to be open to being wounded. Right, that's what it means, like

01:12:14 --> 01:12:20

you're actually willing to feel the that, that discomfort of

01:12:20 --> 01:12:26

admitting that you have spiritual diseases, of admitting that you

01:12:26 --> 01:12:29

are in fact that you have this problem. So that's when we talk

01:12:29 --> 01:12:33

about self awareness. That's the level of awareness we need to

01:12:33 --> 01:12:37

bring to this right. So you want to think about all the criticisms

01:12:37 --> 01:12:42

you've ever received, and say, even if I don't like it, because

01:12:43 --> 01:12:46

I've heard them maybe my whole life and not say all of them are

01:12:46 --> 01:12:49

true. So it depends on the person's saying them, some people

01:12:49 --> 01:12:55

weaponize words to hurt you. Right. But for me, the test is, is

01:12:55 --> 01:13:02

it? Am I Is it a common complaint, you know, like 556 people saying

01:13:02 --> 01:13:05

the same thing? Maybe it's true, you know, like,

01:13:06 --> 01:13:09

five people in your life who say, You're so impatient.

01:13:10 --> 01:13:15

Maybe you need to say, Okay, I can't blame them all. But they

01:13:15 --> 01:13:20

will all conspired and said, Let's go and make this up. No, it likely

01:13:20 --> 01:13:24

is true, right. But that level of willingness to admit,

01:13:25 --> 01:13:28

you know, to what people are saying, where people have said, is

01:13:28 --> 01:13:32

hard on the on the neffs, it's very, very hard on the ego. But

01:13:32 --> 01:13:37

it's great for expanding the heart, and making it less hard,

01:13:37 --> 01:13:41

like so that it's malleable, and we can start to work with it.

01:13:41 --> 01:13:45

Right. So that level of self awareness and self regulation. So

01:13:45 --> 01:13:49

those two qualities of emotional intelligence are really essential

01:13:49 --> 01:13:52

for this work, because self regulation is about control.

01:13:52 --> 01:13:56

Right? It's about, you know, once you identify the disease, which is

01:13:56 --> 01:14:02

that first step, then can you follow through with the treatment,

01:14:03 --> 01:14:07

because some of these treatments are going to require work, you

01:14:07 --> 01:14:11

know, they're going to require you to, to go out of your comfort zone

01:14:11 --> 01:14:17

to stop doing things that you've habituated to for maybe years. And

01:14:17 --> 01:14:21

completely change course, do you have it in you? Right, do you have

01:14:21 --> 01:14:24

it in you to do that? And then what's your motivation? So in a

01:14:24 --> 01:14:27

way, we could extend it to all five of those qualities, but what

01:14:27 --> 01:14:30

is your motivating factor? Why would you even want to do that if

01:14:30 --> 01:14:35

you want that money for of Allah subhanaw taala, right. That

01:14:35 --> 01:14:41

closeness, that proximity that we all should yearn for? Right?

01:14:41 --> 01:14:44

Because what's the what's the ultimate price in Jannah?

01:14:46 --> 01:14:49

What is it called or what is it referred to us? Like what's the

01:14:49 --> 01:14:52

highest prize that a person could receive?

01:14:54 --> 01:14:59

Yeah, the what we call the Beatific Vision, right. This is

01:14:59 --> 01:14:59

what

01:15:00 --> 01:15:07

So all of us should aspire to that we don't just want Jana of, you

01:15:07 --> 01:15:09

know, I mean, of course we want gender, but we don't want like

01:15:09 --> 01:15:13

There's levels of gender, right? So the agenda that we read about

01:15:13 --> 01:15:14

in the Quran of like,

01:15:16 --> 01:15:20

rivers of milk and honey and food and all those delights, that our

01:15:20 --> 01:15:24

appetites are like, Ooh, you know, that's considered a lower agenda.

01:15:24 --> 01:15:29

Right? The higher agenda is to be with, of course, the highest is

01:15:29 --> 01:15:31

Allah subhanaw, taala, the province lies on the saints that

01:15:31 --> 01:15:36

oh, yeah, like, that's what we want, right? But if you want the

01:15:36 --> 01:15:40

highest of the highest of the highest reward, which is to see a

01:15:40 --> 01:15:44

loss, and then to finally have that experience,

01:15:46 --> 01:15:50

then you have to think, well, how can I work towards that in this

01:15:50 --> 01:15:54

life? Right, if that's my goal, right, you've read Stephen Covey's

01:15:54 --> 01:15:58

book, The Seven Habits of Highly Successful People, right? Isn't

01:15:58 --> 01:16:01

that one of the goals, or one of the qualities have the end in

01:16:01 --> 01:16:07

mind? Right? So if your end is that, then you want to think, how

01:16:07 --> 01:16:09

do I get there? And

01:16:10 --> 01:16:12

this is it, right? It is.

01:16:13 --> 01:16:16

It's working on the spiritual heart so that you become more

01:16:16 --> 01:16:20

worthy of that prize. But that's the motivating factor, right? That

01:16:20 --> 01:16:24

we want knowledge of all us want that in this life, in the form of,

01:16:25 --> 01:16:29

of getting to know him on a more intimate level, getting to

01:16:29 --> 01:16:33

experience openings, and, and really feel expansion in our

01:16:33 --> 01:16:39

heart. Because if you look around, it's the fact that people are not,

01:16:40 --> 01:16:43

you know, even motivated by those things. And the spiritual diseases

01:16:43 --> 01:16:47

are increasing and growing. And they're looking at the dunya. And

01:16:47 --> 01:16:51

just accumulating wealth and eating and feeding their appetites

01:16:51 --> 01:16:55

and every other base desire they have that we're also seeing, I

01:16:55 --> 01:16:59

mean, you could say causation correlation. I mean, they're both,

01:16:59 --> 01:17:03

you know, you're seeing every form of spiritual disease prevalent,

01:17:03 --> 01:17:06

right? So when I asked earlier, what do you think are the most

01:17:06 --> 01:17:10

common? I would say almost all of them are, you see all of them,

01:17:10 --> 01:17:14

they're everywhere. All of these diseases have just spread like

01:17:14 --> 01:17:18

wildfire. And then on top of that, we don't only have spiritual

01:17:18 --> 01:17:23

afflictions, we also see physical right diseases increasing. So why

01:17:23 --> 01:17:27

because as the very first Hadith, reread the prophesies, and said

01:17:27 --> 01:17:31

that there's a lump of flesh in the heart, if it's sound, right,

01:17:31 --> 01:17:36

that everything else becomes sound. And the opposite is true,

01:17:36 --> 01:17:41

too. If our spiritual hearts are diseased, then the diseases spread

01:17:41 --> 01:17:47

to other aspects of our being, and to our communities or found in our

01:17:47 --> 01:17:52

families or communities or societies, diseases. So it's that

01:17:52 --> 01:17:57

mind body heart connection is all very real. And so, you know, when

01:17:57 --> 01:18:02

we think about ourselves and curing ourselves of spiritual

01:18:02 --> 01:18:07

diseases, we also want to think about just promoting overall well

01:18:07 --> 01:18:11

being, you know, a holistic approach, that if I work on my

01:18:11 --> 01:18:17

spiritual diseases, I will start to feel better, like in my, you

01:18:17 --> 01:18:23

know, in my physical body, right, in my mental clarity, I will start

01:18:23 --> 01:18:27

to have more clarity, because there's a lot of thoughts. I mean,

01:18:27 --> 01:18:34

some research says, 70,000 thoughts we have a day, and 80% of

01:18:34 --> 01:18:39

them are 90%. I think our negative thoughts 80% of repeat thoughts.

01:18:40 --> 01:18:45

So we're just keep recycling the same thoughts over and over and

01:18:45 --> 01:18:51

over again, right? And how can we protect ourselves from that mental

01:18:51 --> 01:18:54

chatter, if it's all negative? Right? That's what spiritual

01:18:54 --> 01:18:59

that's what this offers is the more focus you you work on

01:18:59 --> 01:19:04

inwardly, you know, healing and cleansing, you will start to feel

01:19:04 --> 01:19:09

that residual effect everywhere. And then imagine, once you become

01:19:09 --> 01:19:14

better at regulating yourself and emotions, guess what? People can't

01:19:14 --> 01:19:15

trigger you.

01:19:17 --> 01:19:21

Right, that you don't, you don't get triggered. Because you're now

01:19:21 --> 01:19:25

in control of yourself. So when someone says something to you,

01:19:25 --> 01:19:28

that upsets you and offends you?

01:19:29 --> 01:19:30

I go, okay.

01:19:32 --> 01:19:34

You know, and there are I've witnessed this happening. It's

01:19:34 --> 01:19:38

amazing when you are with people who've worked around the path.

01:19:39 --> 01:19:45

It's amazing to see their level of control, like, you know, which

01:19:45 --> 01:19:49

reminds me of that wonderful story of Sid Nisa, right? When he was

01:19:49 --> 01:19:53

with his disciples and he was walking, and then the men cursed

01:19:53 --> 01:19:58

at him, and he made off for them. And so the men I mean, his

01:19:58 --> 01:19:59

disciples were like, what they

01:20:00 --> 01:20:02

just cursed you. So you know, you want to think about yourself in

01:20:02 --> 01:20:06

this situation you're walking with your, your BFFs you know, your,

01:20:06 --> 01:20:09

your family, your who, your loved ones, and then someone just hurls

01:20:09 --> 01:20:15

curses at you. Be honest with yourself. How many of us, you

01:20:15 --> 01:20:19

know, we're like, Oh, really? At the rings we're coming off, you

01:20:19 --> 01:20:21

know, would you say?

01:20:23 --> 01:20:26

Get a little sass in our voice. And I'm speaking from experience

01:20:26 --> 01:20:32

that was literally me in high school in college. But yeah, we

01:20:32 --> 01:20:35

have that that's our Neff see reaction, right. We don't like

01:20:35 --> 01:20:38

people to step up to us. And some of us our cultures are very hot

01:20:38 --> 01:20:42

blooded, right? We can't help ourselves or our families. So that

01:20:42 --> 01:20:46

might be the the response, right? Because we haven't worked on on

01:20:46 --> 01:20:50

this. But what did say Nisa do, he made the offer them. And so when

01:20:50 --> 01:20:53

the disciples asked, he said, remember this, it's so beautiful.

01:20:54 --> 01:21:02

Vessels only pour out what they contain. Right? So their vessel

01:21:02 --> 01:21:06

was filled. And that's why they can curse. But he's not he doesn't

01:21:06 --> 01:21:11

have filled to pour out. Because He's pure. He's a prophet of God.

01:21:11 --> 01:21:16

So he's teaching that even if they're, that's what they pour

01:21:16 --> 01:21:20

forth. I don't have to match that energy. Why do I have to stoop

01:21:20 --> 01:21:25

low, I bring forth what I have, and he had happy and light he had

01:21:25 --> 01:21:30

beauty. So we have to look at our hearts in the same way that what

01:21:30 --> 01:21:35

we pour into it is what is going to come out. So if we're consuming

01:21:35 --> 01:21:41

garbage in, right? As chef Hamza says garbage in, garbage out.

01:21:42 --> 01:21:45

That's what's going to come out. But if we're working on cleansing,

01:21:46 --> 01:21:52

and then taking in the remedies, which often do have to do with the

01:21:52 --> 01:21:57

kind of Allah remembrance of, of death, right, if you'll see a lot

01:21:57 --> 01:22:02

of the treatments have to do with these types of practical things

01:22:02 --> 01:22:06

that we can all do. So that we start to change the those

01:22:06 --> 01:22:10

thoughts, right, that negative mental chatter instead of being at

01:22:10 --> 01:22:14

90%, negative? Why? Why are we accepting that right? Just because

01:22:14 --> 01:22:18

it's statistics and research? Do you think the Olia of Allah had

01:22:18 --> 01:22:25

80% or 90%, negative thoughts? Or do know, it's us because we are

01:22:25 --> 01:22:29

afflicted with spiritual diseases, and we're around people who are

01:22:29 --> 01:22:33

afflicted with spiritual diseases, and we're consuming the content,

01:22:33 --> 01:22:35

and the thoughts and ideas of people who are spiritually

01:22:35 --> 01:22:37

afflicted. Right.

01:22:39 --> 01:22:42

And so that's why you know, what we consume, what we take in makes

01:22:42 --> 01:22:47

a difference. So Inshallah, for next time, because we have just a

01:22:47 --> 01:22:50

few minutes left, but I wanted to give you guys an opportunity to,

01:22:50 --> 01:22:54

you know, talk amongst each other and get to know each other. For

01:22:54 --> 01:22:58

next time, we'll continue with the first verses of the poem, which

01:22:58 --> 01:23:02

are the introduction to purification on page one, so we'll

01:23:03 --> 01:23:06

formally start the book, but you can read ahead, and that way,

01:23:06 --> 01:23:09

Inshallah, when we come in, we can also have a discussion and I'll

01:23:09 --> 01:23:13

prove I'll prepare some discussion questions based on the reading.

01:23:13 --> 01:23:15

Okay. Any any questions?

01:23:17 --> 01:23:19

I know it's a lot to take in. Yes.

01:23:22 --> 01:23:27

Yes, excellent question. Yeah. About a coffee from pure from a

01:23:27 --> 01:23:31

Rumi bookstore there. It should be available. I'm pretty certain. I

01:23:31 --> 01:23:34

mean, I would be surprised unless they have any issues with

01:23:34 --> 01:23:36

backordering but I would check with Rumi bookstore they're in

01:23:36 --> 01:23:42

Fremont. They're local and he he does have a shop here in Dublin

01:23:42 --> 01:23:46

but I don't know if the hours like what the hours are. But if you

01:23:46 --> 01:23:49

coordinate he can maybe bring some here if you're local. Are you here

01:23:49 --> 01:23:53

in this area? Okay, yeah, so if you call the Fremont store, check

01:23:53 --> 01:23:55

with him there and maybe he can bring some copies here if he

01:23:55 --> 01:23:59

doesn't have some in the Dublin store? Yeah, Rumi bookstore Yeah,

01:23:59 --> 01:24:00

like the poet

01:24:02 --> 01:24:06

Yeah, it's available on Amazon and I because I did some research I

01:24:06 --> 01:24:10

found that the best bargain or deal is through Sun dollar if you

01:24:10 --> 01:24:14

just go straight through Sun Dalek is some of the prices on Amazon

01:24:14 --> 01:24:18

are hiked up this is a pretty popular book it's in several

01:24:18 --> 01:24:21

languages so some of the sellers know that but if you want a good

01:24:21 --> 01:24:24

deal just go directly to send all you'll pay a little bit for

01:24:24 --> 01:24:28

shipping but you're not going to get prime but but it actually is

01:24:28 --> 01:24:33

less than what you would pay with with Amazon sendowl Oh, it's I'm

01:24:33 --> 01:24:36

sorry, it's the name of the publishing so it's like the word

01:24:36 --> 01:24:40

sandal with an A yes and dolla.org I think are calm

01:24:41 --> 01:24:44

under the law. So any other questions?

01:24:46 --> 01:24:48

Well, thank you. I want to thank all of you for coming here.

01:24:49 --> 01:24:52

Inshallah will with this is every the last Thursday of every month

01:24:52 --> 01:24:55

and it is you know, online, but I would love for you guys to join.

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For those of you who are watching too who were here last time. Come

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back

01:25:00 --> 01:25:04

inshallah I know it's what we'll do is we'll leave some time at the

01:25:04 --> 01:25:07

end next time to for more like for you guys to get to know each other

01:25:07 --> 01:25:11

because I know that that was a big reason why so many showed up that

01:25:11 --> 01:25:15

we need more connection after COVID I know it's been a while. So

01:25:15 --> 01:25:18

inshallah but feel free to stick around yes

01:25:22 --> 01:25:25

yes I actually thank you for reminding me because I after we

01:25:25 --> 01:25:29

met that meant put the dates together I was like oh no, I think

01:25:29 --> 01:25:33

I'm gonna have to speak with Brother Muneer. Maybe we might do

01:25:33 --> 01:25:37

that one on the weekend before is that the 21st or the what's the

01:25:37 --> 01:25:38

date for the third week?

01:25:40 --> 01:25:43

Oh no, I'm sorry, the third Thursday, not the fourth Thursday

01:25:43 --> 01:25:43

what's

01:25:45 --> 01:25:50

okay, so maybe we'll do the 18th for just November and then resume

01:25:50 --> 01:25:56

unless Christmas falls also. Yeah, the holidays. So inshallah I will

01:25:56 --> 01:25:59

put it in the newsletter but most likely will not be the last

01:25:59 --> 01:26:02

Thursday because again, Thanksgiving okay. And with that

01:26:02 --> 01:26:05

said we'll do an NDA and then please feel free maybe for the

01:26:05 --> 01:26:08

next 15 1015 minutes to stick around and talk to one another if

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you haven't met everybody and then please SAR to if we can get the

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WhatsApp

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signup list if you can add more people. Thank you. Alright, so I'm

01:26:18 --> 01:26:23

assuming that Rahim Well I said in the in Santa Fe hostel Illa La

01:26:23 --> 01:26:26

Nina m&r mo Salah Hedy with the vessel been happy with the vessel

01:26:26 --> 01:26:30

the sub Sahara Coahoma, we have decrescendo Allah Illa Elantra

01:26:30 --> 01:26:34

Saphira Quwata to Lake Aloma syllabus animal betta Karla say

01:26:34 --> 01:26:36

that our Mowlana What have you been a Muhammad sallallahu alayhi

01:26:36 --> 01:26:39

wa sallam while he was diagnosed with emphysema and girthier Ross

01:26:39 --> 01:26:43

panoramica rubella Hi, Cynthia, my UC phone was salam ala Morsani and

01:26:43 --> 01:26:47

one hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen Alhamdulillah Desikan Lafayette

01:26:47 --> 01:26:51

and everyone again, Inshallah, I will see you all next Thursday and

01:26:51 --> 01:26:54

thanks to all who are watching on the livestream Inshallah, next

01:26:54 --> 01:26:59

time will be a little bit more or on time I think daylight savings

01:26:59 --> 01:27:02

will also be in effect. So I'm delighted Thank you

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