Hosai Mojaddidi – Author Visit Girl Scouts Troop

Hosai Mojaddidi
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The speakers discuss various aspects of Islam, including being helpful and caring for people, respecting manners, and being a Muslim. They emphasize clean and safe manners, clean speech, and being mindful of one's behavior. The importance of praying, laying a prayer mat, visiting sites, and visiting families is emphasized. The conversation ends with thanks and a mention of a new group they will attend.
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fantasy Very good. Mashallah. And what about Yes? You in the back?

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Would you like to write? Thank you?

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Stories Very good. What kind of characters do you have in your

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stories?

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There? What

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picky in jail? Is that? I get that right. Cool. Very nice. Very

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creative. Yes.

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What is it?

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You'd like to just draw well, hey actually, is anybody an artist

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here too? Who likes to draw? Very good? Mashallah. A lot of hands.

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That's excellent. Who else likes wants to share what you write?

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Yes.

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Different animals. Yeah, I love animals. Who else loves animals? I

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love animals. Awesome. Very good. Michelle, does anybody here write

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poetry? Or like rhymes? You like to do? Ryan's Very good. That's

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awesome. So when I was a little girl, maybe like, middle school,

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actually not too young. I love to write. And I like to write

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everything I used to write. Like, I had a journal. Anybody journal

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here? Yeah, sometimes just write your thoughts. Right? I did

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journaling. And then I started doing poetry. I liked writing

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poems, I would write like cards for my friends on their birthdays,

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and tell them how much I love them. And all the fun things that

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I like to do with them. So I always like to write, write,

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write. And then as I got older, you know, I tried to write more

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adult kind of things like articles and things like that. I don't know

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if you guys know what that is. But that's like part of a magazine or

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something online. And then I always had people telling me you

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should write a book, you should write a book. So I said, maybe one

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and inshallah one day when my kids are old enough, and I have the

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time. So about two and a half years ago, I actually wrote a

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book. And that book was on someone superduper special. Okay, if I

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asked you right now, to name me someone that every single person

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in this room should think is super duper, duper, duper special, like

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the most special person ever. Who would that be? Yes. Okay, Allah.

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Well, Allah is not a person, right? You're right that he's very

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special. But I'm talking about a human being. So try again. Who

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else? Yes.

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Who, Khadija? Oh, I love that. You said Khadija. MashAllah amazing,

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very good. She's very, very special. But I'm thinking of one

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other person. Yes. Yes. Excellent. Prophet Muhammad. And what do we

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say after his name? Salaam, Allah who it was salam, very good.

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Mashallah. So my book is actually based on everything that the

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prophet Mohamed Salah Hideyo said, I'm taught us, but I tried to

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focus it because it's a children's book, actually, it's not an adult

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book. I mean, adults can read from it. But it's a children's book,

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but I wrote it to talk about his teachings. And his teachings. A

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lot of them had to do with the things that you guys, the we're

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talking about right now. Right? Being helpful. Being courageous,

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being strong, being caring, right? All of those wonderful things that

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your teachers and your parents are teaching you. They all are taught

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to us by the Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu. It was set up. Why was

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I the only one who said that? Let's try it again. So Allahu

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Allah, he was up every time we hear his name, we say that, okay.

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So I'm going to share with you guys today, my book, this is the

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book, okay. And I know it's, I hope you guys can see it. I'll try

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to hold it up as high as I can, so that you can see the images, but

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it's really more important to listen to the words, okay. The

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book is called Clear the path. Okay? And the reason why I named

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it clear the path is actually in the book, so I'm gonna see who's

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paying attention. Okay, and I'm gonna ask you some questions after

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I'm done. So try to pay attention. Yes, sweetheart.

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You.

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Well, that's so sweet. I feel very honored. Who else has this book at

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home? Oh, wow, you guys just made my day. Thank you. That really,

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really means a lot to me that you guys have my book. I hope you like

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it. Well, you might be familiar then more than other people, but I

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hope you still enjoy it. I'm gonna read it the way that it was meant

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to be read. So this is actually a rhyme book. So if you ever

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attended one of my sessions here or anywhere else, you might have

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heard me sing it. Do you want me to sing it? Or do you want me to

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read it? Sing it join me to rapping.

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I'm not a good rapper. I don't think that'll turn out to good,

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but I'll sing it. Okay, Inshallah, and I'll try to hold it up for

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you. You know what I'll do? It'll be easier for me if I can sing it

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and then I'll hold it up and show you the pictures. Okay. Does that

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work? Alright. Bismillah so the first section of the book is about

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greeting and visiting. So a lot of times we have to go to our

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relatives homes, right? Like grandma, grandpa uncle

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Auntie someone invites your parents for over for dinner and

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you have to go right. So this chapter or this section teaches

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you all the important things you should do when you go and greet

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and visit people. Okay? So here we go. Are we ready? Alright

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Bismillah we always start with Bismillah, right? I am a Muslim, I

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say the truth. I mind my manners. Yes, I do. I say salam before I

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speak. I love Allah, his happiness I seek, I shake hands so my sins

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will fall. I turn around when My name is called, I take my shoes

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off, no tracking dirt. I clear the path so no one gets hurt. I say

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Bismillah before I eat and drink, I rinse my hands and then dry the

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sink. Okay, so let's talk about why did I choose all these verses?

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Well, here are the pictures. First of all, before we greet each

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other, just like your teachers taught you. We always say salam,

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right? Why? Because Salam is it? Does it have the same meaning like

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Hi? Or hey, what's up? Does it have the same meaning? What does

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the law mean? Someone I haven't called on yet. Want to give

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everybody an opportunity? Yes. What does it mean? It means well,

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that's how you use it. You use it to say hi, but what does it

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actually mean mean? What does the word sell Salah mean in Arabic?

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Anybody I haven't called on? Yes.

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Peace, very good Peace be upon you. So when you say salam to

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someone, you're actually making a DUA, because the opposite of peace

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is when you're when things are not very peaceful. Like it's loud and

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noisy and things are kind of uncomfortable. So what you're

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doing when you see someone for the first time is you're saying, I

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hope that you have peace, peace be upon you, right? You're wishing

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them peace. So that's why Salam is the first thing we say we don't

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just say hi. Okay, so the first verse says what I say Sudan Before

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I speak, I love Allah his happiness, I see more than anybody

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else. We always want to please Allah subhana wa Tada. And then

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the next verses, I shake hands, so my sins will fall. Where did we

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get that from? This is actually a hadith, the prophet Isaiah them

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said, when two Muslims meet one another, and they shake hands,

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whatever sins they did are falling, you have to imagine

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falling. So if you look closely to the picture here, I have like

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these little kind of drawings that represent sins, okay, you can't

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really draw a sin, right? But you can draw something like a symbol.

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So I drew little, we had little things picture, a picture that

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showed that, that every time you shake hands, your sins are

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falling, so it's a good it's part of the Sunnah of the prophesy

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centum. The next is I turn around when My name is called, this is

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super important. Why? Because we're talking about manners,

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right? Or a dub dub in Arabic means manners. If someone calls

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your name, and you're just walk, and you don't even turn around, is

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that polite? No, it's not very polite, especially if it's like,

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you know, your teacher, your parents, your grandparents, even

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an older kid, okay? Even a younger kid, it doesn't matter, either is

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for everybody. So if someone calls your name, the kind and polite

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thing to do is actually turn around, okay? So you want to, you

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know, turn your whole body and this was the way of the prophesy

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setup. If someone was walking, or ever called his name, he didn't

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just go Yeah, what's up and then keep walking? He never did that.

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He would turn fully around and look at them and say, Yes, how can

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I help you. So this is why another very important Senate, we turn

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around. And then the next line, I take my shoes off, no tracking

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dirt. Part of being a Muslim, a good Muslim is that we keep our

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spaces clean, our bodies clean, and our space is clean. If you go

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outside, especially like on a rainy day, and then you run inside

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because you want to go grab your water bottle, or you're just

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excited to go grab a snack or something and then you're not

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paying attention. What's gonna happen to all that dirt?

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What's gonna do you tell me what's gonna happen? You can just say,

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right? It's gonna get all over the carpet. And then who has to

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usually clean all that up? Your mama, if your dad's home,

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hopefully he's helping to but if he's not home and your mom's home,

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then usually she and she already has so much else other work to do,

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right? So you want to be mindful not to track dirt in the house or

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even in the masjid Always clean your shoes, so that they don't

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track dirt. Another is I clear the path so no one gets hurt. This is

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also from Hadith, that if you ever see something like for example, is

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it a good idea to like throw your backpack in the middle of the

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hallway? Mm hmm. Or your books? Do you leave them around on the

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ground? Or even your shoes or anything? No, because someone

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could not be paying maybe someone's not paying attention and

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then boom, they tripped over that and now someone could break their

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Leg there, neither hip, that's really bad, right? So we don't

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ever want to injure people. So you want to always make sure that you

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leave the pathway where people walk, clear. And it even if it's

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not your things, you can always move them over, right? You don't

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have to just move your own stuff. If you see shoes in the walkway,

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by the door at the masjid, and there, maybe you know, they're in

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the way, you can just scoot them over. Just because they're not

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your shoes. It doesn't matter, right? This is all part of being a

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good Muslim. And then we say I say Bismillah before I eat and drink.

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Very important to always say that the name of Allah before we eat

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and drink, because we want his blessing. We want the food to be

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good for us. We don't want to get sick, right? So we always remember

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that. And then what when we wash our hands right? After we're done

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if we go and we clean up ourselves, because we got maybe

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sauce all over our face and our fingers, spaghetti sauce, right?

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That happens. You want to make sure that the sink is clean, you

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don't want to leave it wet and like a big puddle of water all

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over the place. Right? This is all part of having really good

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manners, especially when you visit someone else's home. Okay,

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everybody got that? All right. And I'll take your questions. Maybe at

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the end. Let's because there's a few different sections. Okay. So

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that was the first section. The next is called listening and

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speaking, okay. I am a Muslim. I say that truth. I mind my manners.

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Yes, I do. I never frown or whine when I don't get my way. I speak

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my mind when I have nice things to say. I trust good people who I

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know don't lie. I'm not suspicious and will never spy or pry. I pay

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attention and don't interrupt, I remain quiet and never say Shut

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up. Don't say that. It's not nice. I praise Allah when I feel

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grateful and glad I praise Allah when I feel upset and sad. Okay,

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so here's the pictures for that. So this is all about how to listen

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to people when they're speaking to you, right? And also watching the

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way that you respond. So if your mom and Baba are telling you to

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clean up your room, you don't do this pouty face. But I wanna

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I want to clean my room, you know, you don't do that. Right? We try

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to listen with respect. Because there whenever they tell you to do

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something, or don't do something, it's always because it's better,

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right? You speak your mind when I have nice things to say. So it's

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not nice if someone says, Hey, do you like my dress? And then you

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go, No, that's ugly. I don't like that color. That's not polite,

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right? So if you don't like something, you don't have to say

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something mean about it. You can just focus on something better,

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like, Oh, your hijab is nice, or, you know, give it if you want to

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give someone a compliment, right? But you don't have to point out

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the negative things. That's not nice. You pay attention and you

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don't interrupt. So right, just like you guys are doing right now.

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You're having excellent edit very good manners, because you're all

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listening. No one's interrupting. And I appreciate that. And then

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you remain quiet. And you don't say shut up. Those two words are

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not nice at all right? We don't ever say that to people because

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it's just not polite. And it's not the way of a Muslim. And then we

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praise Allah in all situations when you're happy. And if you're

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sad, okay, you don't you always want to be grateful to Allah

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subhanaw taala because he's given you so much. Right. So that was a

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section on listening and speaking. Now we're going to talk about

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sharing and caring. Okay, which again, I know, I heard some of the

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themes that you guys have been looking over, this will talk to a

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lot of those things. I am a Muslim, I say the truth. I mind my

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manners. Yes, I do. I save my money to help people in need. I

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give my time to increase my good deeds. I share my food and offer

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the best thing first, I drink three small sips to quench my

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thirst. I visit the sick to help ease their pain, I pray their

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strength and health will remain. I sit with my elders and ask them

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how they are. I help them walk to and from the car. So this is all

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about sharing and caring, right? How many of you here have a sadaqa

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jar or some thing that where you save up your own money? That's

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awesome, very good. Inshallah all the parents can help you maybe

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make one. It's a really good idea. If you have a piggy bank and bank

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that's also sometimes people will use their money from that which is

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the same thing. But if you have a separate thing that's for setup,

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it's even better because now you're saying Allah, I'm choosing

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to all this money to go to those who are in need, right? So it's a

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really good idea to do that. And and then your time, right? You

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don't want to waste your time if you have nothing to do at home

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because you finished all your homework and you're kind of just

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you know, sitting around doing nothing. The best thing to do is

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actually go and ask mama or Baba to guys need help with anything

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Can I help with dinner? Do you have a chore that I can do? Right?

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So using your time wisely and not just wasting it, okay? And then

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sharing. If you and your friend are sitting at lunch, let's say,

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at school or masjid, or here, even here, and you guys are sharing a

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snack, and you have a giant cookie, okay? And your cookie has

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a lot of chocolate chips, okay, like a lot.

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And then you have another cookie, and it's got like, half of the

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chocolate chips, right? And your friend says, Can I have a cookie

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with you? Which cookie do you give from?

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Very good as Muslims, we should always give from what we want for

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ourselves we give to each other. So if you want that chocolate

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chippy delicious, Chewy, gooey cookie for yourself, then the best

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thing to do when you want to please all of us, pat that is say,

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oh, a lot so hard for me because I really want this cookie for

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myself. But I'm going to share it because we're Muslim. And that's

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what we do. And then next time, you might find that your friend is

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the one who has the chewy, gooey, delicious chocolate chip cookie

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and you don't and guess what? She'll remember that right?

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Hopefully, right? Hopefully, we'll remember that those things that

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people do for us. So we always offer the best part of our food

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first. And then when we drink three small sips This is also from

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the Sunnah the prophesy said I'm taught us to not like chug water

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or food and like inhale it right? We shouldn't do that because

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you'll actually get sick, right? And there's also another Hadith

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that says you should divide your stomach into three parts. Who can

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tell me the parts? What are the three parts that you divide your

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stomach in? Hmm, yes.

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Very good. Mashallah. So we have food, water, and then air. So

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those are the three sections if you look at your stomach and just

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imagine two lines going across it. Keep one for the top one is air

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right food and water. And if you stuff yourself too much, then you

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might not have room for the other stuff. And they're all important,

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right? So three small sips you drink with with a dare Bismillah

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and we just drink that way we don't

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we don't do that.

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I visit the sick to help ease their pain. Who has visited

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someone sick lately? Anybody? Masha Allah, that's amazing. Mel

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was proud to reward all of you. That is so beautiful and you're

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fulfilling a sunnah. It's very good that you visit someone who's

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sick, okay? Even if you just get to see them for a few minutes in

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the hospital. Trust me, it means so much them to them to see your

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beautiful face. Come into that room because being sick, does not

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feel good, right? We've all been sick before, right? But when you

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have someone sharing and caring for you, it's really nice. It

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makes you feel better. So may Allah reward you. And then you sit

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with your elders. How many people here sit with their grandma and

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grandpa if they're still alive, inshallah? Very good. You actually

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talk to them? You have questions and like Storytime with them,

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maybe or do they read to you? Yeah, very good. So that's also a

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very big sunnah, that we respect our elders, when they come to

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visit, or when we visit them, we don't just go in and go, Hey,

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where are the toys and then just run off right or? So I'm gonna go

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and then you're back to your room. You want to sit with them a little

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bit? It means a lot to them. Or even go ask them. Can I get you

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some water? Would you like a snack? Can I get you anything? An

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extra pillow? Maybe they're sitting? You want to watch them?

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And if they feel comfortable? Then you can ask them? Would you like a

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blanket or a pillow? Just trust me. If you ask your grandparents

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next time that question that's gonna really make them happy.

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Because it means that you're showing that you care. Okay. And

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then when they leave, do you just go by grandma, my grandpa know,

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right from the door. The Sunnah is to do what? Yes, in the back? Yes,

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absolutely. Get up and hug them for sure. But even if they're at

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the door, what's the next step? What do we do next? Yes.

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You wait until they leave? Yes. Because that's they're leaving,

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right? And so you want to not go off and do something else? Very

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good. Yes.

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Yes, very good. So this is another very good, important sun that if

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it's not like freezing outside or raining, always want to think

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about those things, right. But if you can, it's really good to walk

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them actually to the car and offer to help them if they're elderly.

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And they have a cane, for example. You can be their extra cane,

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right? And that's like when my grandfather was alive. That was

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what I did. Every time he would go anywhere. I would tell him, I'm

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your second cane. So then I'd have him put his hand on my arm and I'd

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walk him wherever I needed to go, or he needed to go. And so that's

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always something special you can do but always remember that don't

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just go by and then go to your room. Think about walking them

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with your parents to the car. Okay, the next section

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Shin is on

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cleaning and dressing. Okay, so we have two more and then we're done.

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And then we'll we'll take questions if you have any. The

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next section is about cleaning and dressing. So I am a Muslim. I say

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the truth I mind my men are is Yes, I do. I brush my hair back

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and keep it in place. I wash my hands and scrub clean my face. I

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brush my teeth, so they're shiny and white. I floss before I sleep

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every single night. I keep the things in my room looking nice and

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neat. I make my own bed and dust clean the sheets. I hang my

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clothes and fold my socks and a ball. I put my books away and

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never write on the wall. No, nobody writes on the wall. Right?

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Good. So this is all about keeping yourself clean and keeping your

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room and your belongings clean. Because again, part of being a

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good Muslim is mean is being cleaned as much as possible. As

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always, if you can, right, so brushing your hair back, right?

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And if you don't brush your hair everyday because you don't like

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it. Well guess what happens? You get those terrible knots, right?

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Oh, and those hurt even worse, right? So it's really good. I

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know, some kids don't like to get their hair brushed every day. It's

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like, oh, that you feel like it's torture. But think about if you do

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it every day, guess what, you won't have all those tangles and

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knots. So you should get a nice good brush, ask maybe mommy for a

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good brush and just get in the habit of brushing your own hair

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just like you do for your dolls, right. I know when I had dolls I

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used to brush their hair all the time. So we should brush out here.

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Okay. So and then washing your hands and scrubbing clean your

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face. So when you're getting ready for bed or making will do, you

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don't want to do it like you know, messy or just quick because you

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want to get it over with, you want to actually clean because germs

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are everywhere and you want to clean the germs off. But also you

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want to show Allah that this body that he gave you, you respect it,

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and you are grateful for it and nobody else can clean it right for

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you the way you clean it so, so be mindful of that. And then that's

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the same for brushing your teeth and flossing every night you want

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to keep your teeth nice and clean and shiny. Okay, that's how we

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keep you know, we save our teeth. Otherwise you see all these

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adults, they don't have many of their teeth because they didn't do

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it. They didn't keep them clean. So what happens is they have to go

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to the dentist every year and the dentists pull teeth out and that

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is super painful. So if you start from this age, be smart then you

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will keep all your teeth for your life and you won't have to worry

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about that. Okay, and then keeping your room nice and clean and

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dusting the sheets. All of these by the way are sunnah every single

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thing that we're talking about the prophesy son taught us to do, even

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dusting the bed this is from the Sunnah, so you clean your own bed

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and dusted off every night and then you know hanging your clothes

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taking care of your clothes Okay, and of course we don't write on

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the wall the next section is on praying and supplicating okay so

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this is the most important because the reason why we were created

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almost pant that a made us was to worship him Okay, so we should

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know how to do that and that's why hopefully all of us are most of us

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here know how to pray right? Raise your hand if you know how to pray

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your dear so awesome, masha Allah, may Allah reward all of you and

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accept your prayers. So when you pray, well, first thing and we'll

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talk, I am a Muslim, I say the truth I mine my men are is Yes, I

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do. I make fresh will do and then say my daughters, I lay my prayer

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mat out and stand in pause. I face the Qibla and say Allah is great.

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I don't move around and keep my body straight. I bow and rise as

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my eyes stay cast down. I press my forehead gently on to the ground.

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I say sometimes and face left and right. I love praying to Allah day

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and night. I am a Muslim. I say the truth. I love my deen and so

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should you. So this is all about prayer, right? And all the

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different movements of prayer are very important, like I said

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earlier to when you're making will do to do it, right. But also, you

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know, laying your prayer mat out having your own how many people

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have their own prayer mat? Like it's, there's very good, you

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should have your own prayer mat and maybe a hijab for prayer. Very

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good. And then do you know where to look when you pray? Because if

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you're like praying, but then your mind your eyes are all the way

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over there looking at the TV. Is that a good idea?

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You are looking out the window and watching the birds know. Right.

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Okay, or looking, you know, at the dinner that's waiting for you at

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the dinner table? No, Your eyes should be focused on where you're

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going to make your such that right, which is when you put your

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head on the ground when you're standing. So every place of prayer

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has somewhere that you should be looking. All of that is to show up

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before a lot, right? And then also making sure you don't move around

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right. I know sometimes, Kid energy you want to move around a

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lot, but in prayer

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Should we move around? Is it a dance? The time to dance and

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wiggle? Do right it's a time just try to be as still as possible.

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And focus right. And then just to be gret grateful for for your deen

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Alhamdulillah. So that was the book. And then at the end of the

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book, every single line that I just read, it has a hadith that

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goes with it. So at the end of the book for your parents and

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teachers, they can then go over these Hadith with you and teach

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you why we do this and how the prophets of salaam taught us about

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all of these things. So are there any questions from any of you?

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About the Book or me or anything that you want to ask? Yes?

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Yes.

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Can you still visit them? Are they in the grave? Are they in a

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graveyard nearby? You like maybe you can visit with your parents?

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Right? No, they're far from you. You can always still make it off

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for them. If you can't visit them, you can make dua for them, but if

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they were buried somewhere close by Inshallah, that's also another

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very important thing to do, we should visit those who have passed

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on right? And we have at hamdulillah a lot of different

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places nearby where Muslim Muslims go every day I've gone to several

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of them and I always see a lot of people there Mashallah. visiting

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their family that's already passed away. So it's a good, it's a

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Sunday

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you can read it, too. You can totally read every single whatever

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you're comfortable with. I like I did it as a song because kids

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usually like rhyme books. But if you would like to just read it,

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you can read it, too. It's entirely up to you. Yes,

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sweetheart.

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Where did I get it from? The book. So the book was written by

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someone. Guess who? Me?

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I wrote the book. Where did I get it? Well, I made I worked on it. I

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wrote the book. Where can you get it? Oh, I'm so sorry. I'm like not

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hearing you. Maybe my hijab is on too tight. I apologize. Where can

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you get it from so you can order it from Amazon? Your parents can

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but the masjid inshallah we ordered some copies, they're going

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to be selling it soon. They've sold it before but maybe ask in

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about two three weeks and they'll have it here inshallah. Okay, I'm

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good enough. I have to say guys, and I'm super impressed. I have

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done this. Like, I don't know how many times now because it's been

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two and a half years. I've done the book reading. This is probably

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the best group I've ever read to you guys were so well behaved.

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There's no noise you're actually sitting calmly. I'm very

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impressed, mashallah to Batticaloa. So we need to give you

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guys all round of applause everybody for this wonderful group

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of young girls who are know how to show their their guests respect. I

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really appreciate that. Yes.

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You know what, I always signed them when we sell so signed copies

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will be available here at the masjid. So yeah, thank you. So

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sweet. Mashallah, any other questions? Yes.

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Oh, you know what, I can't assign those because the company sends

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them directly. But if you see me and I come here a lot, I can

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always sign it for you. I'll keep a pen in my purse. Just run up to

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me and go Hello. sigh I will happily sign it for you. Okay.

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So sweet. Anybody any questions or comments from the parents anything

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you wanted me to further elaborate on? I'm happy to do that.

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Inshallah.

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Well, thank you so much for oh, yes, you do have

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just like go ahead and thank you. That's very sweet barnacle Luffy

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come thank you so much, Nadia instead of I believe she here yes,

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they're your thank you they've been following up with me very

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patient Nadia Marshall I think since after Ramadan Forgive me

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please. I've wanted to come and hopefully we can come again and

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I'd have be happy to sit with all of you I'm very very impressed by

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all of you Mashallah. May Allah bless you and reward you and your

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parents, and inshallah I hope we can see each other again. Thank

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you so much. We will end with di Okay.

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Excuse me Subhanak hola como behind the crescendo en la ilaha

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illa. Antenna stock Furukawa to buoy Lake Bismillah R Rahman

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Rahim, WA Sir, can you say it with me? While acid in El in Santa Fe

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hawser Illa Lavina Manu, I'm a little salty, Hattie. What I was

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so Bill happy, whatever. So this summer, I'll hang

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It is just like a love hate and thank you so much ladies. All

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right so I'm gonna take

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yes

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oh my god I would love that should I come there would that be easier

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and then maybe we could do a timer oh

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oh sure okay

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got it

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perfect so from the back okay no worries

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Don't look at me

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can you do the 123 so I'm ready for you. Oh

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sure

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sweet I think she's almost done. I just heard a cube or so. Okay, now

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everybody turn around I'll have sweet

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Oh yeah, I would love that. Oh, how sweet. Please join me.

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Awesome. Thank you.

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So sweet

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to see it. Thank you. So thoughtful.

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q1 t

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is everything everybody?

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