Hatem al-Haj – Manazil as-Sa’ireen #37 – Chapter on Gratefulness

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The speakers discuss the importance of recognizing and appreciating one's success, bouncing back from negative experiences, and bouncing back from stressful situations. They emphasize the need for more satisfaction and desire for clean water to achieve goals, and stress the importance of bouncing back from negative experiences and showing gratitude towards others. They also touch on the negative consequences of not following laws and the need for gratitude to show gratitude to others. The speakers stress the importance of showing gratitude and enthusiasm when pursuing human accomplishments, even in difficult situations, and stress the need to clarify and explain the concept of "by the way" in order to achieve success and achieve human outcomes. They also emphasize the importance of showing gratitude and enthusiasm when pursuing human accomplishments, even in difficult situations.

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			So,
		
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			today we have
		
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			a chapter on gratefulness
		
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			from Vanessa styrene. Bye.
		
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			In fifth, we will have the rest of the chapter on slot to jump on
		
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			from
		
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			there
		
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			Bye,
		
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			says here and follow
		
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			along mighty set
		
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			and field My servants are grateful. And few of my servants are grateful.
		
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			gratefulness certainly you know gratefulness has been used and operand to refer to Islam and refer
to Eman and to refer to gratefulness, which is the special station of so. So, chakra can sometimes
be used as reference to
		
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			belief versus the study. Because basically the root of suffering is belief and the farmer or the
fruit of belief that shook hands And likewise, you know, shoka leads to belief as well as much as
belief leads to Socrates to believe ungratefulness leads to proof
		
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			in the head, the last part of Allah says in Surah,
		
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			Sabine can measure Cara mocha for items we will guide them to the past. We have shown him the path,
		
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			Kiran clima, Guevara is
		
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			usually either grateful Shakira or denied capoeira. capoeira is a superlative from Catholic
		
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			which means that deny and deny or have other favorites of Allah subhanaw taala leading to denial of
Allah subhanaw taala That is why in
		
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			low and he started by the definition of Socrates and Socrates
		
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			is one lemare fits in the arena has been modified in modern
		
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			gratefulness, refers to or is a name for the recognition refers to the recognition of the bounties
because it is that recognition of the bounties is the way to recognize and restore. The recognition
of the bounties is that when you recognize they're restored, the more you're able to notice the
boundaries and recognize accept,
		
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			appreciate, the more you are able to recognize their bestower and love him. So,
		
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			he says when he has a low tolerance limit, He manifests for any shukra because of this because
chakra leads to the recognition you know gratefulness
		
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			or appreciation of the bounties leads to the recognition of the restore the giver of those bounties.
Therefore holla Kanata. Allah referred in the prayer to Islam and M Eman has shocked.
		
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			So,
		
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			when it comes to shock, why do we say shoppers gratefulness versus thankfulness?
		
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			Because sugar is the efficiency of attitude itself. thankfulness is a disposition to express your
appreciation through giving thanks. So showcase the appreciative attitude itself. It's the attitude
of the efficiency of the naturalist, tada and we will come we will come back and talk about you
know, the foundations or the pillars of subclonal, Ganesh the pieces of chalk. So, chakra is the
attitude of being appreciated the name of Allah subhanaw, taala, or being a person of engender.
		
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			thankfulness is the disposition to show this happy initiation through giving thanks, but the
appreciation is much wider than just the expression. You know, the quality itself of soap as much
larger and wider than the expression. And since we're talking about definitions, it won't be
		
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			It would be reasonable here to talk about differences between shock and count.
		
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			So, what is the difference between shelter and
		
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			ham refers to praising Allah subhana wa tada for
		
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			not only the boundaries that he was that He bestows on you, but for his own protection for his
omnipotence, his omnisphere permissions or his Omni benevolence or you know for the perfection, the
absolute attributes of Allah subhanaw taala.
		
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			The the attributes of regular and the attributes of beauty, the use of majesty and attributes of
beauty. So, when you praise Allah subhanaw taala for His perfection for his attributes of Moses the
ability
		
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			regardless of the noun regardless of the bounties or favor, shelter has to do with the bounties and
favors in particular. So from the is wider in that sense, hunger is more general in that sense,
because you don't own the praise Allah subhanaw taala for the bounties and favors of watching praise
Allah, even without the bounties and favors like assuming there are no bounties of favors which is
possible but assuming there are no bounties or favors, he would still be more he will still be
deserving of how the because of His perfection, he praise people for their perfection right even if
you have nothing to lose, even if they have not done anything to do to you. But you praise their
		
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			good qualities you have praised their
		
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			kindness this or that even if they have not been kind to you.
		
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			So shokunin best senses more special than 100 100 senses monitors general
		
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			but from a different angle chakra is wider and is more general
		
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			is is about praising
		
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			you know any appraisal data by you know it's it's an order of verbose
		
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			where you praise Allah subhanaw taala even it could be art by praising Allah subhanaw taala in your
heart, but sugar is wider than this because it is not limited to the heart and time it is also it is
also manifested by the LEM. So Allah subhanaw taala to the metal out of the wood. So Chrome can
illuminate
		
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			that metal out of the Buddhist chakra, which means app or family of the wound to show gratitude, or
out of gratitude, have gratitude and also at the same time, have to show and manifest your
gratitude. So it could be by the limbs, the heart and the time versus handled
		
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			by the heart. And
		
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			then
		
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			Manish Saprissa last
		
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			modified to NEMA
		
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			NEMA semester of obeah.
		
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			There are three meanings for gratefulness, the recognition of the bounties, then their acceptance,
to the recognition of the volunteers, then their acceptance and finally praising their bestower. And
finally praising their purpose toward recognition and acceptance. Why did he separate between
recognition and acceptance? Because he wanted to learn to see the importance of first noticing about
it because often we fail to notice that there is a that that happens before you accept to them. We
accept that and appreciate the bounty. So you're not we're not even notice that he is trying to say
that just notice the bounties were failing to do this.
		
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			And that is what he's trying to say. And this is this is true. How many times does Allah subhanaw
taala say and sort of
		
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			31 times Allah subhanaw taala said,
		
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			Have you seen any phrase being repeated in one sort of this after? No. Why is the last thing you
know which of the favorites of your Lord that you then deny? Which of the favorites of your Lord,
would you deny? Which are the favorites of your Lord? What do you then deny 31 times Why is this
because a lot wants to alert us to the fact that we are in denial, that we're not noticing that we
are taking everything as you know, we're taking everything for granted.
		
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			That's why the profit
		
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			Salam, salam, you know,
		
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			to set the tone right? The prophet SAW some of them every day in the morning is starting up and he's
saying
		
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			Praise be to Allah who give us life after death and 10 is the resurrection. Just the very fact that
you woke up. That's the first Now, every moment that is given to you, is an honor from Allah
subhanaw taala, it's an opportunity the last caller had given to you to examine.
		
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			So, to recognize this is extremely important, but sometimes it will require us to put special effort
because we, as human beings are a little bit forgetful.
		
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			And we have sort of
		
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			lack of attention. And we have a very short attention span. And even if you notice, that you quickly
forget.
		
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			But if that recognition, that very step, which is important, essential for the appreciation, which
will come next, but then very recognition, noticing given
		
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			is not happening to you, you're able to do this, you may need to stop, you need to pause, and stop
and meditate, think think about the now even if you have to write a journal, even if you have to sit
down with a paper and pen.
		
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			Younger people with a keyboard
		
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			even if you have to sit down and to figure out like
		
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			you know how many Now, the last one on gratitude just today, just today. And if you were able to
give, you're able to put down your pen and walk away, because then you're forgetful, then you are,
you don't really know what you're talking about, you know, put your phone and walk away, not because
you're done. Because he has to go to walk away. You know, because you can never do this work and
never have to sit down and figure out how many
		
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			of you just today, you should never be able to get writing.
		
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			So sometimes it requires a little bit extra effort and we need to spend that time and we really need
to spend that time. If it takes like walking away from your video routine sitting down trying to
figure out what you should be grateful for. And how many Allah subhanaw taala bestowed on you, you
know that is, you know, worthwhile we have to do. And then no matter what, no matter how difficult
Your life is, there will always be an hour to thank the last panel Tata for including the fact that
you're here to thank them
		
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			for including the fact that you think because that's another number that you should be thinking
before the OData is samsa the RPK fetch guru, Guru panorama facility moussaka. Oh my Lord, how can a
thank you enough when thanking you is in itself another bounty that calls for giving thanks or that
calls for shock or that calls for you know, grateful.
		
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			So how can I be grateful to you enough,
		
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			have analyst told them now you are now you are grateful. Just when you recognize that, you know,
being grateful is anathema from you being grateful to Allah is an AMA from Allah, for which you
should be grateful. So that's the quote what a virtuous cycle a virtuous cycle.
		
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			So the first one is recognition. The second one is appreciation and for appreciation, you know, to
appreciate the neon
		
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			after you have noticed them, sign out appreciate them and the profits all of a sudden gives us like
a beautiful advice.
		
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			He says zero 11 was 11 zero 11
		
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			and thorough 11 who asked him then come look at those who are the sports when you
		
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			look at those who are below those who are above you but then below and above here means below and
above in the material now the external goods, wealth, health, beauty, all of these things. Look at
those who are below you. Do not look at those who are above you for that is more conducive to not be
listening.
		
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			Then there are a lot of bounties of a lot harder, you
		
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			know, that is when, you know,
		
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			people nowadays say, you know, some people would love to have your bad days, you know, that's
another expression of this Cadiz, some people would love to have your bad days.
		
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			So here in the province of a lot of investigators report a Muslim kamagra look at those who are
below you do not look at those who are above you for that is more conducive to not be lifting. And
now I want to lower the bounties of Allah on you. And just, we have to get used to this. This is
Indonesia and the external goods of dystonia, the bounties of dystonia, you know, like I said,
wealth, power, status, beauty, this
		
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			external goods of this, but when it comes to the dean, you want to compare yourself to people who
are above you,
		
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			when it comes to tough why you want to compare to the people, yourself to people who are above you,
so that you are motivated,
		
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			to reach higher, and, you know, sometimes, like
		
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			this quality of the appreciation of the noun, some people are more grateful. And to some extent,
certainly, that
		
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			part of the gratefulness is to believe in a lot harder to believe in his messenger messengers and
books and so on. But people who are not Muslim even can have this happen to the gratefulness
sometimes more than many Muslims, this attitude of gratefulness
		
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			you know,
		
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			someone told me that the Chinese culture for instance, you know, in certain areas in China, Chinese
culture is not only one thing because China is so huge, but in certain areas, China when they have a
guest to the serve them hot water, hot water
		
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			and the sit down and the SIP on hot water, hot water, you know, like hot water in the winter should
be like good enough, you know, it's it's cold, certainly new hot water. And the beauty of this is
that, you know, the guests would be appreciated about the artwork, and each step of northwater
showcase to the to your host.
		
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			So, nowadays, what does it take for us to be to for our gratification for for us to be gratified and
be satisfied, satisfied with a drink in happy, how rich does the drink need to be to be satisfied,
how sweet is the drink need to be to be satisfied. But the more you are dependent on those things
and gratification, the more is stimulate yourself, the more stimulation you need more satisfaction,
you are you look for and you seek, the less appreciative of the smaller things are, the more basic
things you will become. So try to start appreciating those things, try to appreciate when you open
the tablet, and clean water comes down.
		
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			Try to stop and say
		
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			there are people who don't have that clean water, there are people who even cannot want to clean
water,
		
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			but you have the water in your bathroom,
		
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			in your kitchen you have in your bathroom, open the tap and clean clean water comes down. So that so
after you notice you still have to start out and appreciate and all of this is important for the
appreciation part.
		
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			So,
		
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			first, you have modified to never notice it acknowledged you know notice and observe it
		
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			and acknowledge it appreciated, some we have and then finally praising their bestower finally
praising their schoolwork and praising their bestower like I said, the women we talked about the
difference between choker and that remember
		
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			how do you touch on that will then show
		
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			what actions you add in order to make if you have money show
		
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			your
		
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			your thankfulness and gratefulness by spending from this money. It is God's power status follow the
path part of this also is to manifest abundance.
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala when you because the prophets
		
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			Allah subhanaw taala likes to see the manifestations of Islam on his service a lot, you know,
bestows on you. This is not This is different from Jelena. This is basically another form of
recognition of phenomena by manifesting this to manifest and then Allah Allah subhanaw taala is not
like showing off and he would have to be honest with yourself you'll have to be sincere and draw a
line between showing off and basically telling government, Allah subhana wa tada
		
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			we can
		
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			speak of the favors of your Lord.
		
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			So to speak of the favorites of your Lord is basically like Yusuf Ali Salaam, when he felt that
		
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			they make me in charge of the Treasury or the treasures of the land or
		
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			like the public Department of Treasury would be like, so bad because I
		
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			mean, because he is good at accounting that he is
		
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			knowledgeable, he won't be able to manage it, I won't be able to manage it. So when you feel that
your last caller has given you an hour, man, stare, without it, share that with others, even if it
will take zero.
		
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			Even if it will take a little bit uncomfortable. Even if you don't have to step forward and say I
can do this
		
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			then then you do it. So at least been over to Los Angeles basically manifest it and share it with
others part of this also seems to be thankful to the people to people in general, allows for longer
lasting or less profits. himself. Squirrel,
		
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			squirrel next, he does not he's not grateful to Allah, He who does not show gratitude to people last
for a while Alaska is not grateful to Allah, He does not show gratitude to people.
		
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			So that's also another way to show things or to show gratitude and to give thanks to Allah subhanaw
taala.
		
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			Then does he accept so after he told us of those three
		
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			pillars of short notice, appreciated and then praise Allah for
		
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			Allah added to this time said that noticing noticing them and appreciating them only one you know,
he merged them into one to notice and appreciate them. But he said before this show is not
attainable without love. You know? And when it comes to Allah subhanaw taala. Proper sugar is not
attainable without hoopoe submissiveness. So submissiveness and love are two pillars of sugar
without being submissive and loving, you will not check and then the basically noticing and
appreciating the nominal bill started recording
		
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			in Nevada, just set a key and then the fourth would be set up which is the appraisal for those now
to praise Allah for those now and the fifth, which is the final one is to use them and has service
and can never use them
		
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			against you know,
		
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			forgiveness as well. So, to never use those now in disobedience and to use them only in the service
of Allah subhanaw taala and that is the peak of show that is a shocker. So, show it, show it through
action, show it through good deeds
		
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			of family. So, Alice Coronavirus, so, so many papers on the family of those that would say that
		
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			and a lot of tasks of them to show their gratefulness, their show through actions. Because, you
know, because
		
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			Hello folks and
		
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			although harm is important, is part of it and it is important that we
		
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			Have you heard of the importance of
		
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			the vows? But this show that shows inactions may be harder than just to say, Come to the
		
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			show
		
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			one day What is the meaning of
		
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			Mr. c? He said
		
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			How could you be Shakir says he was the maternal uncle
		
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			said he said to dried out in China at the time was was a child.
		
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			So his uncle was telling him, how do you show thanks to Allah subhanaw taala and
		
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			MRC by not using case bounties for his favors in this obedience in
		
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			in this vein, so sorry, yes,
		
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			sir, surprise, like happily surprised
		
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			by the answer that this child
		
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			gave him. And, and he said to him,
		
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			we're getting this from another woman, by you know, your company,
		
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			through your company or by sitting with you.
		
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			Which again, shows us the importance of having the proper company.
		
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			We don't have space, the company, unfortunately, our model
		
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			goes.
		
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			And then he said to
		
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			somebody,
		
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			so
		
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			I said, this is the path of the commoners because instead of
		
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			the stations of the commentaries,
		
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			on Sunday, this is the path.
		
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			So he's saying the chakras
		
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			the chakras from the Stations of the commoners and time with will disagree, assertively and strong,
		
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			is still extremely politely disagree
		
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			with the concept of a shopper being somewhat alarmed, or sublime or the public or the masses or the
communists? So it because it appears that are we just putting down the station of shock by making it
from somewhere? Did
		
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			he say that, for the elites, choker does not belong to the, you know, shocker is not the station, a
station for the elites show creates a station for the public for the masses? Why is this because for
a moment, are we in his worldview, in his view of things, anything short of finance is short,
anything short of finance, is undefeated for the elites, and for that is the self annihilation, and
if you have if you if you pass away, if you
		
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			pass away, vanished, you're on there to give thanks. And you're not there to even distinguish
between, and then added value between the fever and the tests or the trial part, this stress, good
times, bad times, you're so distracted by, by your witnessing and the holding of a loss
		
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			to the point where you have vanished. And you're not there to be to have any feelings or to be
appreciative of anything.
		
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			But in our time, you know, the idea of completely passing away Yes, we understand where it
		
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			is going and we appreciate what he wants to point out. We understand what he meant. We appreciate
keep in mind that at the end of the day, remember how do we these things are impossible. You can't
You can't you can just pass away when you're still alive. Because at the end of the day, the moment
you know the day before he died the day on which he died. He woke up to pray fast and he went to you
know to make booboo and to stand up and prefetch you did not damage your vehicle you're being
demanded to do this you are complying. You are now facing Allah subhanaw taala you did not damage.
		
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			You're still there.
		
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			You're still required to comply with being with Chicago last time.
		
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			So,
		
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			you know, disagrees here and says that shook is the station of the elite, the elite of the elite of
the elite, or the most elite,
		
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			the most elite of the elite would be.
		
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			then beyond that also
		
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			in the quarter. Last
		
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			quarter, we certainly was a grateful service, Secretary and army it's the
		
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			last
		
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			say that
		
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			he was grateful for his favors. That is a bold statement, Allah subhanaw taala says the same
		
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			sort of xoma
		
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			I'm gonna shakily name worship your worship Allah, what good minister kitty and be of the Grateful
ones. So it cannot be a command to our prophet to the greatest of mankind, it cannot be like an
attribute of praise for the greatest of messengers, only the husband and a rosca like him, and we
have the stations of
		
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			his of the Stations of the Cross. And it is the fitting of the greatest of the elites of mankind.
		
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			Okay, so, but if we will, and we will come back later, when we talk about the third level, we'll
come back and talk about what it means in you know, that level of finance and we sell so many times
that finance is only finance only suppression of the ego to the point where you're completely
distracted by the holding gamma from the holding anything when you're completely
		
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			when when you're completely focused on complying with laws with the being of Allah subhanaw taala.
And, and to the point where your whim vanishes into his antennae or desires are in complete
conformity with what the last panel Tata wants of you definitely Marathi men,
		
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			definitely Marathi men can Marathi Can you will vanish you know by being observing of what he wants
of you, you're being distracted by that which he wants to view from that which he wants to be that
is the subset for him and by him that is a fuckup
		
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			which is after that, you know, you know, after you cross one bucket through and finance finance is
basically to suppress your ego enough where you can have this whole some
		
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			holy type of subsistence, you know, assisted by the divine subsistence, buying the divine for the
divine, you cross this apart on the bridge of, or just an infinite,
		
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			you will not be able to cross there and to subsist
		
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			for the divine by the divine by law for Allah Villa Ilana unless you have crossed that bridge. And
that bridge is when you walked over your ego, you suppress your ego enough that your ego is not
causing you any resistance now, and it is not causing you any distraction. That is all what Farah is
about. It's not about complete existential self annihilation, like you do not exist anymore because
that does not happen. As long as you're here as long as you are required to stand up and pray you
are there in your presence. And
		
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			it is only about the suppression of the ego.
		
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			Welcome back.
		
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			So he said here that showcase three different levels.
		
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			The first level of shotgun
		
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			sukumar, I'm happy to help
		
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			tomato
		
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			juice from inside berries of Panama and
		
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			so
		
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			the first step of that is showing gratitude for desirables for things that you like or things that
you desire for good things, good fortunes. That type of joke, he says and this type of gratefulness
is shared by Muslims, Jews, Christians or Austrians.
		
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			Woman Sati automatic Betty soprano and alto Chopra. It is of the vastness of His mercy exalted as he
is that he consider that gratefulness because that is foremost second nature that you will be
grateful and thankful.
		
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			Unless you are truly sick unless you're truly evil, but it's second nature to be grateful for good
things for good fortunes.
		
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			But it is because of the vastness of His Mercy Mercy he consider the gratefulness he consider
showing things are given thanks for giving thanks for you know, the desirables and good portions he
consider that gratefulness and promised in return on our lazier promised in return bounties was
1009. Shackleton as either nothing more value city. And your Lord has proclaimed that sort of
		
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			seven year Lord has proclaimed that if you show gratitude, I wouldn't I would give you more
		
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			than that.
		
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			And if you deny, if you show denial, denial have confirmed that then my tournament would be severe,
then
		
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			my tournament would be city.
		
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			So why would you be hidden, so bad made the key word worthy and Allah subhanaw taala made it reward
worthy. So we don't have to stop here for long because, you know, for the things that are desirable
for good portions, that is only expected and it is not difficult for most of the people, you know,
unless you can feed the
		
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			like here complete capture or something.
		
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			It will not even for people doing like unless you're atheist unless you don't recognize the
providence of God to begin with. You will show gratitude that is why he said it is shared by all
people this type of show show profound gratitude for good things. But then it gets a little bit
harder when it comes to the second level and he said adonijah to spania has to fulfill mckarrick the
second level is showing gratitude and distracts for times of distress
		
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			will have
		
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			and this is shown by
		
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			limit of 70 an hour There are two different people that will show gratitude in times of distress to
different people that will show gratitude in times of distress. One who is not noticing the distress
to begin with because this one piano has this station of a Steven collar things are all equal to him
and one who is able to recognize the difference between the boundaries and the trials, but he shows
show, despite his recognition of the difference in the field, his feeling of the difference. So
safely, I will say
		
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			this type of show show problem mechanic men men pistoia and I will holla is hard on the riddle.
		
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			So, this will be shown by one of two people one to whom all situations are equal.
		
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			All situations are equal and that is to show contentment that is to show contentment live
		
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			for Him. Everything that comes from Allah subhanaw taala is accepted with complete pleasure in just
complete acceptance, complete acceptance, no resistance whatsoever to him, the bounties and the
trials are equal, because he is looking not from we did talk about this last time and the problem is
we have different people every time. So sometimes
		
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			we send them this is not human, you know, from your end, as a human being, it will not be human
walking through the you know, the pediatric floor.
		
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			In a in a cancer hospital
		
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			is not like watching kids play in the playground of their school, two different images, you as a
human being will not perceive them equally, you will not respond to them equally, but that is from
your angle as a human being but from you know the other angle, which is see, you know, vanishing
into the master plan of Allah subhanaw taala seeing that the master plan is all about beauty. It's
all about
		
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			justice, and it is all about the mercy that will prevail. Once upon a time My mercy will encompass
all things. So if you're seeing it from that angle, then they will be equal to you. In that sense
situations will be equal to inventions being both parts of the master plan of Allah being both parts
of the scheme of justice and mercy.
		
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			That will materialize, you know, that will be fulfilled, and the hereafter that will be completely
fulfilled and unfold before you and you won't be able to appreciate and look at Every Size and
recognize the beauty of it all, then looking from this angle, whole things are equal, looking from
your angle as a human being in this life now.
		
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			No, it will, these things will not be equal. And if they are equal, that people will say you have no
heart, and we give the example of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and Ibrahim and, you know, check,
you know, and how it is important to show that you're a human being with feelings.
		
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			But he says for the person who's always observing things from the other angle, from the angle of the
master plan, or the grand scheme, you know, things are equal to him. So when he is, you know, when a
lot of mountain tops those favorites on him, and he has to go back and look from this angle, from
our angle, from our, you know, human angle, have them give thanks to Allah, he's doing this to show
contentment, his heart of the river to show his river for his contentment.
		
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			So that's the first person and that is certainly the higher one, the higher one who is not, who's
not even be discerning between the different states, or the different conditions or situations and
then there is another one.
		
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			He said when the menu menus available as well, because it was Saturday Shukla when he
		
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			was rookie must have had a second element to the island. Well, in many ways, a way that the other
person
		
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			that will show gratitude to Allah for this test hardship trials, is one who discerns between the
different situations so as to suppress his rage for her rage, suppress his or her rage,
		
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			suppress his or her rage. When you say, Come to the lab.
		
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			And you give thanks to Allah subhanaw taala for an unpleasant event or
		
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			that happened to you, then you will be able to suppress your rate. And keep in mind that most of the
time,
		
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			happiness, happiness, the relationship between happiness and gratefulness is a symbiotic
relationship. And I don't want to be I don't want to be extreme, and I don't want to be unrealistic
and say that happiness does not bring about gratefulness. It is gratefulness that brings about
happiness. Some people could say this, but I believe that the relationship between them is a
symbiotic relationship is a synergy between the two. It's a two way it's a two way street between
happiness and gratefulness two way street in between.
		
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			However, the best two way street between happiness and gratefulness has nine lanes going from
gratefulness to happiness. And one way in going from happiness degree from this. Do you understand
that? There's two ways Street between gratefulness and happiness as nine lanes going from
gratefulness to happiness, and one lane going from happiness to gratefulness. gratefulness is much
more likely to lead to happiness and happiness is to be grateful. Because a lot of people have
everything to be happy, but they are not grateful. They are not even happy. Even though they have
all the reasons for happiness, they have all the external goods. They have, you know, all of the
		
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			things that people desire or want, you know, wealth and health and beauty and power and status and
fame and celebrity
		
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			and fan, you know, they take their own lives at age 46 and age 59 is
		
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			really read the stories about
		
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			suicide and attempted suicide by you know, people who reached the peak of their career, they were
very famous and very,
		
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			and they sort of exhibited happiness, or they showed happiness in front of the people when
internally they were in so much turmoil and they took their own lives, sometimes in their own in
their 20s. So
		
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			basically to have the really the external goals the reasons for happiness and then to be happy and
then to be grateful.
		
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			This the past from external from having
		
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			the reasons for happiness to be unhappy.
		
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			Happy to be grateful is is basically very limited and very narrow. Yes, to some extent, and this is
what I said before us happiness for face. Don't use faith for Catholics, because Faith is the
ultimate goal, not happiness, faith and the pleasure of Allah is your ultimate goal. So make sure
that you're happy enough to be faithful and grateful to Allah subhana wa Tada, because his pleasure
is your ultimate goal. Most of the people are doing the opposite, because happiness is the ultimate
goal for humanity. So most of the preachers are trying to tell people face is good for you, because
faith is going to make you happy. We Muslims even are doing this, you know, faith is going to make
		
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			you happy as if happiness is the ultimate goal, as if it is not the you know, success and prosperity
in the Hereafter, and the pleasure of Allah subhanaw taala that are the ultimate goal. We should be.
It is true that faith leads to happiness, you know, it is true. But what we should be emphasizing to
people is, be sure that you're happy. Be sure that you're grateful, so that you could promote your
faith could you promote and improve your relationship with Allah subhanaw taala Because ultimately,
it is the pleasure of Allah. That is your ultimate goal, not happiness. So that's relationship
between happiness and gratefulness, setting away late night, it's a two way street landlines are
		
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			going from gratefulness to happiness, if you're grateful, the only happy
		
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			parallel people you hear there are a lot of people in this world that have so much less than what we
have. And they're much much happier than
		
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			than us. So it this is proven that
		
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			leads to happiness more than happiness leads to gratefulness. So, he went show this pattern to that
person who was able to spend the sarona between good things and bad when the fortunes and
misfortunes and so on, he will show gratitude, to basically suppress the rage. What's happened is
chukwa. suppressing his rage can see their complaints. What what he is and other observed proper
etiquette with their Lord had that with Allah subhanaw taala proper etiquette with your board is
that you're not resentful of his decrees because you know that everything that happens to you is
from him. So do not be resentful of him.
		
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			In order for you to show that you're not resentful, he you should not be resentful of his decrees
that is that is proper etiquette with our last panel was Mr. Callahan, which means conforming or
complying with
		
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			the revealed knowledge because you know, the IRS and the homies
		
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			shook
		
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			hands and suck. So can soccer, soccer and soccer
		
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			are basically basically the the two ingredients of email. When we say the two ingredients of email,
when they say these are the two pillars of email and email is two halves shokran sub does that mean
that that set was that set from one end? From this angle he managed to have because which angle you
know your own conditions as a human being so you're either going through good times or bad times,
right?
		
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			any bad times your you are required to source up in good times you are required to serve to show so
However, in good and bad times, you're required to actually show both. But for most of the people,
for most of the people who don't, who don't have the ability to show soccer in bad times we tell
them at least shows suck in bad times.
		
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			And we tell the people that even though in good times. What comes to mind is that now I have to
choose to make sure because these are good times we have to remind people that careful because you
need a lot of suffering now
		
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			is not true or not. You need a lot of perseverance and
		
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			perseverance in complying with with the will of Allah. perseverance and combined with the deen of
Allah subhanho wa Taala didn't know how long it will save to the end of the Torah. To Lena Surat
even amongst them. We were infested by good forces with us by misfortunes and we showed patience.
And when we were when we were tested by good fortune. We were able to show patients certainly as the
some of the profits are Southern
		
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			Should patients in good and bad times and good fortunes and misfortunes, but that is a summation of,
you know, that he was saying that after the profits
		
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			and when we
		
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			during the Bible, the Prophet sallallahu wasallam, they lived through poverty, through hardship and,
and after the prophets, Allah.
		
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			Allah, Allah immerse them in the sort of the pleasures of enjoyments. They, they were able to keep
this selves from that.
		
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			But whatever it is, the touch of the rock man of the house still was sort of remorseful about their
conduct their behavior
		
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			concerning the
		
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			you know, the wealth or the riches and madonia that were given to them.
		
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			Okay.
		
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			So,
		
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			in when, when we say that you have to be Sacher, you have to be you have to sort of shock.
		
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			forward this stress for hardship. Is that natural? Can people really show this stress? Can people
really say, you know,
		
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			for taking my eyesight, or
		
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			is that what you're making shampoo for? Are you making sure because a lot took your eyesight.
		
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			But he's saying that you may make it through the hardship, not for the hardship itself, they have to
you have to recognize that this hardship, this trial, this, this is an opportunity for you to seek
to pursue virtue to pursue human perfection, it commanded NFC to pursue verse one human perfection,
in order for you eventually to gain the pleasure of Allah subhanaw taala his reward and ultimately,
his pleasure, which is the highest of your goals, the pleasure of Allah subhanaw taala. Without
mehcad without the stress, without hardship, without trials, he would have been making sugar for
what
		
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			you would have been making sugar for food, you would have been making sugar for you no money,
		
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			you would have been making sure to Like every lever, you would have been making Shoku like, you
know, every creature, you know, for for the same things, as a human being, how would you?
		
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			Where is
		
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			what is your distinction as a human being if you're just going to be making sugar for money and food
and listen,
		
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			and mechanic? Well, this is basically the these are the questions on the test that will distinguish
between the a plus and the students or the eight.
		
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			Because everybody is making sure that I'm showing gratefulness or good people, not everybody,
necessarily or bad people are not showing gratefulness even for good things, but most of the people
are showing gratefulness for good things. But what about my special service? Allah subhanaw taala?
You know, what about my special servants? How do I distinguish that? How do I raise them? How do I
elevate them? How do I allow them an opportunity to show the best of
		
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			them? How could you pursue the virtues of basically forbearance, perseverance, courage,
		
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			Grace, like, if you have an agreeable spouse, and hopefully channel you will
		
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			do and will.
		
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			But if you don't have an agreeable spouse, that is an opportunity for you to show forbearance, that
is an opportunity for you to show, you know, the greatest form of kindness, which is the kind of the
people who are applying to you. Because if you're kind to people that are trying to you that is
reciprocation, that is basically the it is virtuous still because some people are unkind to people
who are kinder,
		
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			but to be kind to those who are unkind to you, that is much greater, and that shows your true
substance. As you know a person seeking human perfection or in command enough see or the virtues of
the self in front of the virtues of
		
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			nice and lightweight, there are so many things so many verses as a human being that you will not be
able to exhibit that you will not be able to show unless you are being tested. So when you are
thanking Allah subhanaw taala when you're making sure that you're showing gratitude to Allah for
hardship, your marginal gratitude for hardship itself, but for the opportunity to seek that
perfection to pursue this life of virtue, which will ultimately earn you the pleasure of Allah
subhana wa tada and his reward and you really want and appreciate that, because that is what makes
you sets you apart from animals. That is what makes you different and that's what makes you a human
		
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			being is basically to live a life of pursuit of virtue
		
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			that is
		
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			that is that is that allows Alaska lob do
		
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			lol one favor say that one a Malibu de
		
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			la Vela men who have net now either say that Who is that? I mean, who sit down the freedom? Yes.
		
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			So he said the first level and this level of self annihilation, this is what the chef said, you
know, and we that we will not repeat this.
		
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			It isn't Someone may say so why, you know, if you will have to?
		
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			Basically, you have to provide All of the explanations, why are we studying this book, because it is
important because these are pioneers that Harley was one of the pioneers without remembering how to
paint would have not had a book to explain and elaborate on. So there's something called public
sees, which is basically the virtue of being the pioneer, the founder, the founder, these are the
founders of you know, these are these disciplines. So, we will have to appreciate what they provided
and we will have to always interpret it in a way that is befitting of their status, as you know some
of the most righteous servants of Allah subhanaw taala whenever there is ambiguity, then we have to
		
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			take the time to explain the ambiguity, because we cannot just be timid, too timid to to basically
study those disciplines and, you know, learn about the subwoofer to learn about Luke and to learn
about those stations, we cannot be too timid and just abandon all of those disciplines and abandon
all of this good. Because there is some ambiguity here there. We have to basically
		
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			learn those things. While we're learning, explain the ambiguity and clarify things in conformity and
compliance with the study on
		
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			the surface saying here, this third level allows an updated model is is when the servants beholds
nothing but the Bestower of the volunteers. The servant the holds nothing in store have developed
these for either side that the owner in the in this case, he is not watching the annamma. He's
watching the Bestower about the bounty for NSA that elbow, the attorney staff on the minimum number.
So when he or she
		
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			does that, you know what beholds the moon I'm the star of the bounties from the position of
servitude, they will elevate the bounty elevate the bounty because they will think that they are
undeserving of anything, you know, whatever bounty that Allah subhanaw taala discovered, he will be
thankful because you are completely aware that you are not entitled and part of the sanctions for
that part of the certainly, you know, correct finance is basically the disavowing of your housing
and your influence and power to disavow your influence or influence and power. It is an important
part of the Sun even or sunny self-annihilation passing away of the Eagles. So you will, you know,
		
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			whatever anomala the last 100 artisans to you, you do not feel entitlement to there are human beings
like you did not get that. There are a lot of human beings that are smarter than you who were not
given the gift of faith. There are a lot of human beings that are smarter than you do not make half
of the income that you make. And they are more that there are smarter, harder working and
everything. So whatever amendment of the law gives you just FPGA to your position of servitude, that
you are not entitled and you're not deserving and if you do this and every normal would look so
great, because you're you're looking at it from your position of service servitude and luck.
		
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			entitlement, and then whatever shahida will help his staff and I mean, who said, when the ARB is
beholding his Lord, from the position of love,
		
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			they will find sweetness and difficulty decreed by him, they will find sweetness and difficulty
decreed by him.
		
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			We talked about this concept when we talked about you know, the station of river.
		
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			And then when I say that with a feeder, let me ask me whenever and when I said that, and from the
position of the free acknowledgement of the oneness. Now, from the position of acknowledgement of
the oneness, this is the position of watching the master plan, not watching from the details, the
multiplicity in this universe, but the oneness of the origin, the oneness of the first cause. And
the one hand the, the one isn't the first cause means one means what it means is Omni benevolence,
it means that every thing is eventually part of this scheme of mercy. So even if you were watching
things from the position of the Oneness for the, which means one part of this one, you know the
		
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			family, a lot of the oneness of Allah, Allah, Allah, it also means the oneness of his clan, the
oneness of his actions. And so watching from the position of from that position of oneness, you will
not see any difference between the man and the belayer, you will not see any difference between the
bounty and hardship, because at this point, you're watching the master plan, and
		
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			asked him as always to make use of the secondary because without him giving you choke, you will
never be able to have it without him giving you this attitude to this appreciative attitude. You
will never be able to earn it on your own. Part of it is cast each part of it is what would be like
SV is the effort that you put into this to be shakin here, remind yourself you sit down, you write
in your journal, the name of Allah Spano file. And so I guess, you know, something that you can
acquire, acquired, or Aran through acquisition and part of it as well it is a gift from Allah hibben
gift from Allah subhanaw taala that you would have to ask for the Amazonian.
		
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			piano in sort of the nebula and it's sort of,
		
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			sort of in this
		
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			era of the uncertainty and as paradigmatic allottee and I'll tell you,
		
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			who, my Lord, give me the power, to be thankful to be grateful for the favors that you have bestowed
upon me and others