Hatem al-Haj – Hadith 25

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The speakers discuss the importance of social justice, deeds, and charity in South Africa. They emphasize the need for a strong heart to avoid loss and prioritize family members' success. They stress the importance of planting trees for optimal impact and finding one's own way to achieve success. They also touch on the negative impact of media sprees on people's views of women and women's sexuality.

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understanding that the need and the connection is accepted by the scholars afterwards and allows
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			notice company for all my servants, I have maybe justice prevailed upon myself, I don't make it for
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			also important to be Muslim, also important from the library to the ferry, not the cargo.
		
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			And, you know, we're starting with the ferry has a particular interest in the meds that deal with
social justice, you know, you picked up the personality of this
		
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			report that
		
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			surfaced from the Sierra Club, but also from the hobbies they report, because everybody can still
remember the things that relate most to him that stick to this vibe and relate to them. So present
was particularly interested in social justice. And that is why many of the activities about charity
in South Africa
		
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			and this praise of wealth and this phrase, you know, having a lot of positions in this way that
these two boats, so for this interest in this lunia are related, ever recording karate alone. So I
just had these reports from the profits of of audio, some of them
		
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			he said that
		
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			tomorrow because I certainly saw some of them. And so for those of us who are going to say some of
them are probably obvious move along in front of it too slowly due to some homework or something.
Right. So we want to come up with a solution.
		
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			What else is on the corner different audio
		
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			devices or something? our liaison for the job matters of the phone in the politis be happening Saba
what could be telling me that in South Africa will put me into Hindi heavy lifting sebata Well, I'm
wanting to know roofie South Africa when I you know, I don't carry South Africa or if you have a
from South Africa, cardiovascular but I actually I had when I said what
		
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			did I gotta write in Java to hold on to Cara Lee, they have always called Bella tonica vatika to
come up with because this is a rather like a vatika in Java in kotlin. can be.
		
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			So the profits of audio seven said
		
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			to those Sahaba into them. Most of them are described in some other reports in an aquarium mostly
from Abbey via a llama, the Sahaba that made this inquiry or asked this question were described to
be of Pokhara and Menagerie the poor part of the
		
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			the poor Menagerie.
		
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			They came and asked the Prophet sallallahu Sallam this question that have been added on to the
story. But for those who come well
		
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			meaning the wealthy people, the people who possess money, they made away with very word.
		
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			The people who are wealthy the people who possess the money made away with very word.
		
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			When we explained what they meant to the Prophet sallallahu sallam, the use of hoonah gamma was
something they pray, just as we pray.
		
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			We also own a cabana, so can be fast, just as we fast, yet they do something extra work on some
Bakula
		
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			and they give some other power, they give charity from the surplus of their money. The surplus, we
don't have surplus, we don't have much surplus to give charity, like they do, but they have a lot of
surface. So they give a lot of charity. They give you much charity, the meaning here certainly is
that they give money to charity. It's not just the big of charity, because even for power manager,
he will give some charity, but they were saying that we cannot compete with them. We can compete
with them in prayers, we can compete with them faster. The first interesting Craven pray that we can
compete with them and giving charity because they have a lot of surplus we don't, then the provinces
		
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			allow themselves to them for a substantial amount of mental support to have a one man giving you
what you could give as charity of Atlanta giving you avenues for charity, which you could give it to
charity.
		
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			Then the professor sort of went on to explain to them what Allah has given them, even they don't
have money, but charity does not have to deal with money. So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said to
them in inadequate, let us be happy in South Africa, it wouldn't count for you as an act of charity.
Every decision would count for you every size of Canada would count for you as an active charity. In
the latest v hot in South Africa, what could lead to happiness in South Africa? What could lead me
that in South Africa, for every say lead I have a lot to leave and it will it will count for us in
our charity for every c'est la vie for me. It will also that will also count for you as an act of
		
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			charity than the process our system went on to say for them.
		
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			maruthi savarkar commandment is a charity when it went out in monteri South Africa and forbidding
evil is a charity was he hiding from South Africa and in you know, the sexual act for him.
		
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			marital relations or sexual acts can be performed by you conducted by you, there is a charity. So
the Sahaba wonder then sent to the Prophet sallallahu Sallam was one of us at work at home where we
will never be had with one of us who clearly has the most of desire and be deserving the reward for
that. The preference of allottee and circumstance. I used to enjoy ALLAH hafiz
		
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			Colombia can hurry up houses have what do you think if you consider if he put a fence around or what
do you think if he fulfilled it in a calm manner in an unlawful manner, would be deserving of
punishment, he says better. And then the Prophet sallallahu wasallam sent to them, they said yes, of
course, he worked in the nonprofit similar circumstances and likewise, if he fulfilled that in a
manner in a lawful manner, he would be deserving of the award, because that is a loss, forgiveness.
And this is all as rocks reversed and held analysis deals with reverse analysis. So, the Prophet
sallallahu wasallam said, many
		
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			people did
		
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			not have to live in
		
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			LA
		
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			Mandela used to be a healer.
		
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			So, when the prophet SAW Selim said whenever someone commits shift, he will enter a number of
dilemmas also. Then I figure whatever it was not to make sure when to enter, observe the opposite
reverse analysis.
		
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			So the province of Sonam, as you know, alerting them to chaos locks them out of the furnace of
Allah, if he punishes you, because you fulfilled your desire in an algo for manner, that he should
reward you if you fulfilled that in a lawful manner.
		
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			This is one of the very beautiful hobbies and you know, the hobbies that show the generosity of
Allah subhanaw taala and the great generosity of Allah subhanho wa Taala
		
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			to begin with, you know, we will have a few stops with this hubby's stops that we will have. This is
the first time we will talk about the different talents that we have different capacities, different
flavors that Allah have bestowed on us. And how would that affect our he said, our recognition on
the Day of Judgment. The second we will talk about the different acts that would count as charity
and the different types. And the third, we will address the issue of the new year. And whether you
do need in India for those acts of charity to count for you as good deeds for you.
		
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			Sorry,
		
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			that was very insecure.
		
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			Whether you need a new year for this, or you're gonna need an area for this. So the first thing is,
you know, what, this hubbies earnings is something that's extremely important you remember the
parable idea before it you have something before, like you're born in Brooklyn, or you're born in
Jersey City, if someone was born in Mexico,
		
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			combined to like, you know, you don't need to go to an Islamic school.
		
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			Schools, but basically, you know, what was taught by his practicing parents and he lives close to a
camera. He goes to pray that each one of those prayers equals 100,000 viewers.
		
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			Oh,
		
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			that is, you know, how could you ever catch up with a person
		
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			how can you ever catch up
		
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			But, the thing is, you could catch up
		
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			because ultimately the thing that will weigh in the most is the loss of the heart. There are many of
our actions are manifestations of something that is present inside conduct is what would weigh the
most, that is what would weigh the most. That is That does not mean that our men are not important
the diamond is not important, because that is blasphemous, the armor is always important.
		
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			The armor is a manifestation,
		
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			but everybody was given different talents can capacities and circumstances and you may not be able
to do much even though you wish keep in mind those Sahaba that came for parameter in English, they
have the money to spend, have they had the money they would have spent but they did not have the
money. Likewise, when the wish to go out to the yard and they did not have the means. What are the
veena is
		
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			Puerto Rico malita Juan Lau
		
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			has an allergy to biology and there is no
		
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			Blame Iver for those who when they when they came to you, to ask you for for you know means to
basically to go out
		
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			with you to have you sent to them, I do not find it,
		
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			you know means that to take you out with me, the, the the back or the Return, return back, found
their eyes were flowing boys fears, out of distress, that they can afford to stand in the way of a
law or in the concept of law. Imagine the sincerity of the heart, those people will never be
deprived of reward, those people are deserving of a word. Basically, they went to the one so badly
to go out with the profits on the lower 70s he had when he could lose the rights do you have that
this is not a trade, but you know that, you know, particularly fighting with the sword. It takes
enormous curves. It takes enormous sacrifice. You see when the two lions meet, and people are, you
		
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			know, their swords are sparkling in the, you know, rays of the sun, and then they come down and
economic arms and legs are next. And so on that, you know, to be engaged in something of that
nature. It requires like
		
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			willpower, courage, sacrifice. So basically these people that don't have money to go out and get
murdered and get killed for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala and so on, they went back home, they
went out like, you know,
		
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			we lucked out, you
		
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			know, they were returning back home from the, you know, the home of the province on Southern to
their homes, and on their way. And they were weeping today where their eyes were flown with tears,
that they cannot go out with the profits of Southern jihad.
		
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			Because they cannot afford them. Those are the people who will not be deprived of reward. It is
about the amen and the heart, you are given different circumstances. But with whatever circumstances
you were given, you will be able to reach the highest rankings of belief. Because what what is the
most is that which is in the heart. Now part of that which is settings in the heart, what's called
faith that's called the man that's called devotion. That's called dedication. That's called
sincerity.
		
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			That is why a robot comes a man would outweigh the amount of the entire room had it been about
actions. Could the actions of Abu Bakr outweigh the actions of the entire owner? Could the actions
of a worker outweigh the actions of tense a habit to the actions of our banker outweigh the actions
of two or three Sahaba of an extreme example, in terms of absence? No.
		
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			Maybe the actions of a banker did not even match up to the actions of someone from a tambourine. The
people that we hear about their stories of February in terms of you know, their perseverance and
Tiamat laid on
		
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			it faster every single day, except for the two of the kids and they pray and this much of the night.
Maybe the actions did not even match up to their actions. But it was not about your actions. The
thing that weighs the most in the design and the scheme is the amount of the heart, the certainty of
the heart of certainty and sincerity and devotion of the heart. That is why that is what the prophet
sallallahu wasallam said, Don't worry about how much they spend. Because it is about the hearts and
the actions are manifestations. So if you are sincere, if you are sincere, you will find avenues to
compete. If you are sincere. You have the sincerity and the heart is the sincerity and the Eman the
		
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			faith in the heart is like a great force. It is like you know,
		
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			basically
		
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			a fountain an ever expanding, you know a body of water. It will have avenues to you know, to
basically make its way through the land. If the water is ever expanding, it will have avenues to
make its way through the lands and to give rise to rivers and so on. So the profit zone sort of told
them Don't worry about the money part. Here is my recommendation for you.
		
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			Every vfio
		
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			will count for you as an active charity. Every Habiba will count free as active charity for every
need for me, that will count for you as an act of charity. So, you cannot be you will, you will not
be deprived of the reward, you will not be the president.
		
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			But in another hubbies that is referred to by
		
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			the prophets of Allah, these people came back to the province of Southern Africa instructed them,
the ADC instructed them, should I tell you of something that will make you
		
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			you know, beat everybody else, and you shall not be no one will be comparable to you, except for one
who does like you. And he told that to make this be handcraft neat and tidy after the salon 33
times. So they went back to the profits of all time, and he said to him,
		
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			you've instructed us to do that can we did what we did, that the wealthy people did like us. And
then when the
		
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			value of money or Indonesia, this is the quality of our money gives it to whomever he pleases. So
the wealthy people keep in mind here, the idea here is that the wealthy people have been tested by a
severe test, that those who are people have not been tested by, which is the test of wealth, wealth
is extracting. Wealth is distracting, you will be busy with growing your wealth, you will be busy
with spending, you will be busy go into places and traveling and tourism, and you know, parties
		
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			and stuff like that.
		
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			That will also make you busy, you're going out to restaurants to eat, you're late to the prior
because you have taken your kids out to places you're going out to gain wealth. But if the wealthy
people were not, you know, beaten to the dose SPSS documents for 30 years of getting close, does not
take them away from that, then they aren't deserving of X ray awards, in the army serving of the
extra year.
		
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			So the prophets of Allah
		
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			is behind, etc. And then the Prophet sallallahu Sallam added to this so it is not just Vic, but the
Prophet sallallahu wasallam added to this, well, I'm in my roofie sadhak whenever you are adding
monka Sava
		
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			model for SATA.
		
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			SATA in the
		
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			sexual actor point of view, there is charity or that counts for him as a charity. So basically, what
could be a charity, how profitable rather
		
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			than automatic and there are different two different types of charity. One of those two types is an
idea and the other one is of concern. One is basically an exam that you do to others, that that
affects others, impacts others and the other one is good deeds that would only
		
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			impact to you or good deeds that are basically not
		
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			limited to you know, they're just limited to you, but the good deeds that will touch others, that
very nice of the profits of some of
		
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			these companies that are that we are
		
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			going over today or tonight. It has other variations. intermediary point of this are these with
other variations.
		
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			It may be in the variation of a third movie or the variance report of the movie The Prophet
sallallahu Sallam said there are so many of us here pika cassava.
		
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			Well, I'm recovering maruthi When are you caught in one carry sadhaka
		
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			Roger de la de Silva was a little harder was silky weather alchemy and creepy Southern.
		
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			So the purpose of
		
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			this study is that you're smiling to your brother is an act of charity.
		
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			He referred within government evil and ordaining of God is an act of charity.
		
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			And then he also mentioned guided
		
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			Last Man is an act of charity. This is not like, you know, abstract or this is actually someone who
lost the way to guide him to his destination is an act of charity.
		
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			And the prophets of Salaam said, I'm removing karma from the way whether it is a stone, or thorns or
bones, removing harm from the way from the road of the people is an act of charity. So the purpose
was not to expand that this is the act of charity. And some of them could be direct, and some of
them may be indirect,
		
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			going for forever.
		
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			So the Prophet sallallahu Sallam for instance, and
		
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			Muslim buy from Amazon, he
		
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			said, like hunger is a Muslim universal, bare, minimum minimal insanity of our dad back in like
Canada, who reports in a
		
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			believer will not sow seeds for alliance with Muslim or grandson.
		
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			He will not climb trees or sow seeds. And then, you know, human being, or an animal or a bird eat
from it, except for that, that would count for him as a charity, in some reports, until the day of
judgment. So the the beauty of this, the beauty of this, to plant one tree,
		
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			whoever eats from this tree, whether it is a human being a
		
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			bird, or an animal, can somebody ports what I use for minimal impact.
		
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			Even if someone stole like seeds from the fruits of the tree, it will set out for so meaning what,
don't worry what will happen to the tree.
		
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			Don't worry, what will happen. Sometimes people when when they come here, they come from like a
country that is predominantly Muslim, they act different, everything is different, because it is not
a Muslim country. But the professors are going to say Don't worry what's going to happen to the tea,
don't worry, who would eat from the tree.
		
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			If 105 do that, which is good. And don't worry, even if someone steals from you get the charity,
		
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			they get the you know the punishment, you get the charity. So
		
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			planting the tree is a good thing, plant. And don't worry what will happen, how it will be used or
abused. It is not your business forward America, that against your affairs to Allah. Because if
you're too calculated, yes, a Muslim should be calculated. But if you're calculating it, like you're
taking a loss, please in calculations,
		
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			then you will lose a lot. And you will always have this, you know,
		
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			an ease in your heart.
		
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			You know, doubts and ease discomfort in your heart, leave it up to a lot. So when you give charity
Don't be too, you know, paranoid. You know, this person does not look like you know, he's poor, I
see that he's wearing a watch.
		
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			You know, the watch looks like it is it is an expensive watch, it looks like more than $100 watch.
		
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			So you need to be somewhat calculated, so that you place the money in the right place where you
spend the money in the right place. You give it to the people who are more deserving. But if you
become too calculating, then it takes away from the sweetness of the act itself
		
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			that I get here I'm first well boss pinata even if it was even if the person was not deserving, and
you do it, you know good heartedly, you will get your reward, they get punished for their misleading
you.
		
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			Anyway, so many, many, many acts are good at but you know, there are some hobbies, you know, so if
we could sit down and talk about this
		
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			when he reports from abnormal and found nasty, nasty, nasty, the most beloved people to learn are
the people that are of greatest benefit to the people. And then he carried on, you know, speaking
about,
		
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			you know, after America's deeds in the sight of a lot to hold on to that Muslim that's an act of
charity to bring joy to the heart of a believer in our culture.
		
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			Are
		
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			you on board to me his hunger to be on holiday in order to pay off his debt
		
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			or to end his the stressor is brief. All of this one, I'm sure Matthew harder than
		
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			you ever muster. And to walk with my brother to prepare some of his needs is more beloved to me than
to make up the gap in this month of mine for a month in this mastermind for a month old pleased to
talk about the different kinds of hiring different kinds of goodness, doors, gates are completely
open. But then there is one particular hobbies that is quite interesting. This one is as reported by
Muslim from Abbey
		
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			in this Hadith,
		
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			of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam that he said, the amount of constructor will be severe and what the
noun, what the narrow impact of erotica was the amount of Dr. bdrms t, where the noun and factor was
while I
		
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			have been Allah, the amount of Libyan factor
		
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			so Muslim reports and when we say this, the reports that means that this site
		
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			was the reports from the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said, the law, you know, what the army is, you
know, it's a gold coin
		
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			type of currency, you know, gold coin. So the norm, you spin on the cause of Allah subhanaw taala
		
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			and dinar you spend on record to free estimate proper means that the literal meaning is met, which
means in emancipating, asleep, what in our own So in fact, the hoof era
		
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			where the notice of Doctor era was given DNR you gave to MST you know, to armscye and the dinar that
he spent on your household,
		
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			the
		
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			dinar that you spend on household, your household, the best of them is the dinar that you spend on
your house.
		
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			Isn't that amazing?
		
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			Why is amazing, because the process of so many shows the amount of Dr. bdrms key, you know, that's
charity. The number one factor with disability let you know that you that you spend it on the cause
of a violent jihad. You know,
		
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			think of all of the words think of all of the hobbies to talk about the word of someone who prepares
our body or metalhead for the sake of a loss of Kanazawa to go out on this expedition.
		
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			The phenomenon factor of erotica, think of all the work that is mentioned over you know, the Quran
and the Sunnah about emancipating. slaves
		
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			and all of this, all of this the profit, comes back and says, the best of them is the DNR that you
spend on your household. Why is this?
		
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			Building civilization building civilization?
		
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			That's a contemporary answer.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			You know how to prioritize? Absolutely. This is one of the one of the wisdoms or benefits, but why.
		
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			But why is it better? But at the end of the day, the prophet is not lying to them. He's telling them
the truth. Why is it better?
		
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			Yes.
		
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			The best of your diversity into their families, the best of the vo to my family.
		
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			Prioritize prioritize your family. But why is it in the sight of Allah? Yes. Because you know your
family circumstances than other people. You know your family circumstances more than other people.
		
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			It is an obligation
		
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			Then it is important because it is an obligation
		
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			to watch a
		
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			TV say in
		
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			LA
		
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			and my mind says and does not draw closer to me by doing anything more beloved to me than something
I made obligatory on
		
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			something, I mean obligatory on
		
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			the obligation of it, you know, there is cm, Ramadan, the CM that is well, and then there's the CRM
that is must happen it is preferable
		
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			but which CRM is better in the sight, loss of
		
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			the obligation. Now obligatory one is the preferred one. But you will really not understanding the
full scope of what this means.
		
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			Unless you
		
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			have a family that we spend on
		
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			basically, you know, that the,
		
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			the responsibility,
		
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			you know, this is not a matter of this is not an optional thing, you decide that you come to this
fundraiser, and then you spend $500, what if I have the $500, I spent $400, if I have 200, I'll
spend 200, if I don't have, I'll just come and eat and leave,
		
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			which is fine.
		
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			You know.
		
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			So, you're doing this, it's it's leisurely.
		
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			But when you have a family, Europe lies to wake up every day in the morning, whether you're sick, or
well, whether you want to wake up or you do not want to wake up, if you are in college, and you have
a class, you may say to yourself, well, I'll make up next
		
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			time, or
		
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			you could say to yourself something, and then you keep sleeping, you could just convince yourself
that you'll be able to make up this, you'll do this or that. But if you are a responsible head of
household, you can't do and have to rise, you have to get out of bed, so that you could go to work
so that you could make ends meet for your family, that responsibility makes it this particular
particular
		
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			you know, preferred by our muscle funnel time spending on your family. Keep in mind, if there is no
greater reward attached to this, I gather, people will become this interested in having families, do
you see the condition of you know, people near people in the Western Center, where in some, some
countries there is, you know, 1.1
		
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			verse, your family in some countries, 1.31 point, and so on, because people aren't just interested
in having kids.
		
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			I mean, from from their perspective, why do you have kids, you have kids because of social pressure,
because it's something everybody has,
		
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			you want to have a trial. But we you know, this is like this is happening. This is stress, stress
and grief, weight of 30 or 40. Wait until you're done with, you know, most of the like, you have
done most of the things that you wanted to do you have gone to the places that you wanted to go to.
And so anyone here for the or more, you can have one or two kids, you can like catch up and have one
or two kids, and that will be it and you will have whatever everybody else has. But people are
becoming disinterested in kids because there is no gain personal gain from having kids. Back. In the
old days. You know, your kids grew up and helped you out on the farm. But nowadays, they're just
		
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			pure burger.
		
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			If there is nothing expected,
		
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			if there is nothing expected and that's why
		
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			you really need to you to be good to your parents. Because there was much sacrifice and
		
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			we went through
		
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			we went through a lot of
		
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			the
		
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			kinds of payments.
		
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			But that is why because of their responsibility because of the obligation because the law does not
want this to become this interested in having families and maintaining families can have
		
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			Also, because when you do this, even get any appreciation,
		
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			you don't get much appreciation. You know, you come to the fundraiser and then you know, you spend
like $5,000.
		
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			But there's no one single
		
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			video hyperactive
		
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			no one, no one gives you that. So there is no, there is not that secondary gain from standing on
your own household. So basically, if there is no greater reward, people become this interested. And
because Allah does not want us to become this interested in having families, and having probably the
law meet the reward of spending on your household and your kids, as great as this hadith tells us,
it is greater than spending on the cause of Allah is greater than spending on emancipation of
slaves. It is greater than spending on the poor. That is the greatest reward.
		
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			Okay, so you don't have any of that.
		
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			You're, you're,
		
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			you're poor,
		
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			you're poor,
		
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			and you're weak.
		
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			And you're busy with work, you don't even do much.
		
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			Is there anything left for you?
		
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			You're you're weak, you're busy every year you don't have anything. So the problem is, when you
		
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			give charity
		
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			or being in good, forbidding bad, you're not doing good enough.
		
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			Is there anything left for you? That is not that is not limited to you that is even that would even
impact the people beyond you. Yes.
		
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			Forgive them. That is good. That is good. Yes.
		
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			You're not even smiling.
		
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			Now I was asked the purpose of solving this question. Like because some people are too sad. They're
not even able to smile. They just do this stress. They're not even able to smile.
		
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			And you should forgive them. But that was that I came to the prophet SAW Selim and he said to him
and this
		
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			without giving us the purposes on this question yasunaga
		
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			Malibu
		
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			alhama de la sala even submitted that
		
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			he had us with a low Brussels we have a lot what is the best action in the sight of Allah He said
that you know the clarity of
		
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			faith having faith in Allah and you have for the sake of Allah, this is these are the best actions.
		
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			And then I was out and I said to him, Mama,
		
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			and what are the best next meaning the best slaves for emancipation, the best slaves that you
emancipate
		
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			the slaves for emancipation.
		
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			And then the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said,
		
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			in the area of Ohio,
		
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			seminar, seminar, it is the dearest, the dearest slave, to his owner.
		
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			And the most
		
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			precious or valuable, the most valuable, so that there is there is owner and the most valuable, that
is the slave that you want to emancipate. Because you're relying on that slave so much, it's your
he's your right hand or she is this or that.
		
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			So the dearest of the heart, you emancipate this one, combat is the greatest act of emancipation.
		
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			And then
		
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			I was arrested to the purpose of the law.
		
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			Where
		
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			if I don't, again, I can make the other Sophy slaves and it can do anyone. So the Prophet sallallahu
Sallam said to him to add a new song and of course, not only Africa, to our you know, sanyang you
help a laborer. You help a labor. How fast now, the afra or you, you
		
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			know, Sanjana
		
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			or you do something for an incompetent person.
		
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			It's usually translated as a disabled person, but if not, is not a disabled person, because many
people would help out this evil people. But Africa is an incompetent person. So he has all of his
four limbs, his vision earring, is incompetent. So you have mercy for people who are incompetent,
because people don't have mercy for those people, you may have mercy for disabled people. So I see a
little bit of difference in the translation would would miss out on some of the meaning
		
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			is one who is basically incompetent without a disability, necessarily. So the professor says, I'm
studying that without insomnia, and
		
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			you help a neighbor out, or you do something personal, meaning you do something for a flat for
someone who is uncomfortable.
		
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			Even if you fill out a form for someone who's incompetent to have a job.
		
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			Even if you basically, in some of the hobbies, for example, can be done we can evaluate.
		
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			If you pour some of the water you have in your bucket into the bucket of that incompetent person who
can't get water by themselves, that is sadhaka that is an act of charity. So Tony sanyang, come
first Maria has an act of charity, if you can do the big things, do you have an emancipation of
slaves prior to him I? If what am I doing? Then the promises on?
		
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			Told them? You could do this? But what if you could not do this? So I was out because I was
		
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			disappointed in everything. He wants to make sure that he will always be able to do good.
		
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			So I was that I was able to do things like this. But what if I become too sick or become too like,
		
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			frail and weak and become too old? And I can't even do that. And then
		
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			if I don't do that, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said to him that Khufu champaca on a news for him
in Malacca De Soto. So you you basically
		
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			refrain from hurting people, for you, there is a charity in this for you, or this will count for you
as a charity.
		
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			So you refrain from holding from hurting people. So
		
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			everybody could do this, right?
		
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			It's Yes, everybody could do this. There is no excuse. Simply therapy from hurting people is a huge
act of charity.
		
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			And if you cannot do anything else, but you do this,
		
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			you are given charity all the time. Because people hurt people find so you're afraid of hurting
people by your by your thoughts, by
		
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			your your bad songs, by your V band malema, by your gossiping and backbiting, by your slandering,
but you're mocking and ridiculing, by putting them down by eliciting them by you know, sarcasm, all
of these things that people hurt people with, if you refrain from all that all of that you are
giving ongoing charity you're giving.
		
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			So there is no excuse for someone to not be giving charity in this case.
		
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			So he said that there are two different types of charity one is mocha hadiya in Abu Musab The idea
is the one that impacts others or touches others
		
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			bags such as others and one is class era which is limited to yourself the one above the past era
reaching limited yourself.
		
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			preaching is what are the impacts others
		
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			might have.
		
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			When
		
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			daddy and
		
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			charity
		
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			you know for knowledge is teaching
		
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			breaching.
		
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			breaching is not
		
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			a breaches out the breaches into
		
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			two pieces to violate
		
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			anyway
		
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			is basically
		
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			the impacts of purchase orders.
		
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			So
		
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			So Coursera you know, I'll let the preference or something give us three examples of effects we have
today we have two examples and what are their is our model v server.
		
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			This is what our do this impacts others or doesn't impacts others. But at the speed of the lead What
that means is our Casa Casa does not impact others. So the professor's on give us an example of both
types. And don't underestimate this people.
		
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			Yes, this lien came to make us good to towards one another. But this team came firstly to make us
good towards Allah. This in him first he can make us bond with Allah, before your parents, it is
important. So the rights of a man have, you know, greater sacredness than the rights of others. Yes,
Allah. Allah may forgive your shortcomings when it comes to his rights, but not your shortcomings
when it comes to people's rights. But that does not mean that the rights of a law are not more
sacred, knew the rights of a law are more sacred. But it is after the rights of a loss of panoramic
that you do good by his creation, and that you sleep with his creation.
		
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			So what is the proof on this? The prophets are so uncertain this hadith is reported by avatar that
from the Prophet sallallahu sallam, to the committee reports of Islam, from the prophets of Allah.
		
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			And I want to be able to do financially automatically.
		
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			What else can I
		
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			eat or charity from? recommend, in fact is that you have to find a
		
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			way
		
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			to better yourself law.
		
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			Should I not say you have the best of your deeds, and the most, the purest of the sight of your
Lord, the purest of
		
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			the purest in the sight of your Lord, while finding it that article in the ones that will elevate
your rankings the most deeds that will elevate your rankings the most and better for you than
spending gold and silver, if I recommend in fact is that your physical
		
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			model works better for you than to confront your enemies in combat for company Bwana and his mighty
turtlenecks wherever they come, and they smile on your necks. And then the Prophet sallallahu Sallam
after this harbor said, Yes, please tell us, he said, the con la he has the remembrance of a lot.
		
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			Like I said before, several times, this is a state of remembrance. This is not
		
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			absolute part. This is a state of remembering remembrance, when you're new, remember, Our love was
your integrity, your integrity, your heart,
		
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			your body isn't conformity. Because if you are doing something wrong, and you're
		
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			leading the people, you know, do all kinds of awful things.
		
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			And then they collect objects and they think that this is, this is enough for this is, you know,
this makes up for that, that is not a state of remembrance, if you are in the state of remembrance,
you would not reach his commands, you would not violate his
		
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			his orders or provisions. So, it is the state of remembrance, the remembrance of the heart of the
tongue and so on the lead of this state is that so you need to remember on one with your partner,
this is not to underestimate the universe,
		
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			but it is to highlight the importance of the presence of the art Why do you remember with your time,
so, the greatest of these is become a law. Why? Because it is the law that will facilitate all of
the other things. It is the law that will make you interested in you know, fighting for the sake of
Allah it is the law that will make you interested in spending. The gold and silver is the root cause
of all that this is that statement. Remember Roman ruins this
		
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			state of peacefulness is the root cause of all goodness. And the opposite of this is the state of
what?
		
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			reflect that is the root cause of all evil. The state of heedlessness for ruffler is the root cause
of all evil.
		
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			Keep in mind that when you're remembering that love
		
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			isn't an act of charity,
		
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			but primarily
		
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			it is a love charity.
		
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			It is a loss on you.
		
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			Because the prophets Allah wa sallam
		
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			said,
		
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			in a hadith that is reported in the Muslim Ummah fled
		
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			from Ibiza, without he also that may have been young Meanwhile, la like in one Assam, to learn what
he has
		
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			to say.
		
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			So that is not a day or night or an hour except,
		
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			you know, great charities that He grants to his servants. And a law does not grant His servants
anything better than to, to guide him to his remembrance. So Allah guiding you to remember him is a
lost charity. And
		
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			so when you remember about equals Allah subhanaw taala sadaqa call you that he had helped you return
Remember him?
		
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			Finally, the last point I want to mention is, do you need to have intention for all of this to
account for us charity? Do you need to have intention?
		
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			You know,
		
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			you see someone stuck on the road, you get out of your car and you help them?
		
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			Do you need to intend to help them for the sake of Allah subhanaw taala This is another important
issue.
		
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			You you see someone about to fall and many of you support, you know, you see the woman and the
person stand up for her to say, do you need to do this for the sake of Allah to get rewarded by
Allah?
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Do you mean like actually conscious at the moment?
		
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			Or do you mean like, in a sense? I mean, I'd be conscious at the moment, but who acts? Why did I may
say I did it, of course, because this wasn't one command for me to do. So, I hope I'm not meaning
to. No, no. Okay. So I really, I mean, I don't get like sometimes Personally, I may forget to say
Bismillah. I'm gonna do action, but
		
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			I guess I'm no, I'm not even talking about Christmas. I'm not talking about
		
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			that. But you have to have an intention in his heart.
		
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			In
		
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			your heart.
		
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			Okay. Yes.
		
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			He will tell us you have an intention in your heart.
		
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			No, but the act itself all the people do these acts, whether they are Muslim or non Muslim.
		
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			People do these acts. Just what are the artists? Yes.
		
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			That is good. But there is not the complete answer. But it is important. Why? Because if intention
is for the actual enough, you get punished. You don't get rewarded, you get the opposite.
		
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			So make sure it is not true yet. But after you have been sure if it's not true, yeah, that's kind of
disagree. Some of the scholars said You do not need to have an intention for every act of goodness.
And Muhammad is not a bad omen. Allah was one of those scholars and scholars who said he would not
be an invention for every act of goodness.
		
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			And some of those scholars said you do need to have intention and actually the majority said you do
need to have it and
		
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			I wasn't one of
		
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			my favorite people feeling angry to me. He said, Latino African feeling that well, there is no
benefit or goodness in their secret thought in Latin America, South Africa, except for one or the
other. Can charity come out in our slack or a good good doing or a slack and being a nurse is
reconciliation between people? Someone ordains this even in secret?
		
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			thought there is Firebase.
		
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			And then Allah went back and said Rama, yep, I vatika we can play for some fun, have a tea.
		
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			And he who does this, for the pleasure of a laugh, we should give him a great reward.
		
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			So initially, Allah just spoke about it without any qualifier. Lafave Africa, even in that realm,
there is no good and much of their secret thought, except for one or these charity, a good act
maruf, our sloughing vanasse reconciliation between people, then there is higher in price.
		
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			But then a lot went back and said, and whoever does this whenever MBT LAW, Mr. Burton law, for the
pleasure of Allah, we shall give him a great reward. Which means if you don't do it for the pleasure
of the law, you don't get a great reward, even if you're evading goodness.
		
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			And then, many of the hobbies thought about these things without specifying that there should be an
alien. Many of these are hobbies of the console and he did not say you do for the sake of Allah. He
said, if you do it in an unlawful manner, you get punished, you do it in a lawful manner he worded
He did not say you do it in the sake of art for the sake of Allah.
		
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			But some of these hobbies do specify, such as when
		
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			a party from Santa Claus Fabiola Van Horn, the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said to him in a pan
Africa, Lan, Africa,
		
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			you will not spend any thing seeking the pleasure of Allah. This is the qualifier here, seeking the
pleasure of Allah definitely be eligible, it will accept that you will be rewarded for
		
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			hard Look, man, even by the food that you will put in the mouth of your wife, you know, literally
raised to the mouth of your wife,
		
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			meaning puts in the mouth of your wife.
		
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			But the qualifier is, can potentially be hemangioma seeking the pleasure of Allah. But
		
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			But how do you do this? Would you do this continuously? You do this without second thoughts.
		
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			Like if you see someone tripping, you run to them without second thoughts
		
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			to support them. If a woman came on the bus and you're sitting at a stand up, you may not get
lifetime to think, you know, I am doing this forever, even though it would be nice. But you may you
may use your phone for a second thought. I do. So I married Darren he said something that is very,
very good. He said, Man, I'm going to have a new year fair fee, the 10
		
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			year old Islamia.
		
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			Whoever events, something good was out in a year. It is enough for him. It is enough for him, you
know intention for him. He chose Islam over the rest of the religions. What does he mean?
		
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			He means that when you get into this covenant with Allah subhanaw taala of Islam. It's a general
covenant of
		
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			goodness in general, and accept good under the general covenant with Allah subhanaw taala of Islam,
all of the acts of good belong there. So what
		
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			do we say?
		
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			When you say Ramadan, you make the intention at the beginning of the month and carry on with you
until the end. Unless you break it, like you're making the intention that you will fast at the
beginning of the month, you make the intention that you you're fasting for the sake of Allah the
month of Ramadan, then he would carry on with you unless you break it.
		
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			The same applies here. So
		
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			just by choosing Islam, you have made an intervention for all good deeds,
		
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			through the general covenant of Islam, in this case, and this you break it you interrupted by the by
showing off or by some other motives.
		
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			Your initial your your general provident of Islam, submission to Allah will
		
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			make up for the lack of need for any of those actions.
		
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			Because as a Muslim, you should. You should grow
		
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			those qualities of goodness in yourself and suddenly become a second nature and you do them without
second thoughts.
		
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			So that is the reconciliation between so basically you do even a year but the lineage is present.
		
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			You do need an agent because if you don't do it for the sake of alignment to get you or anything you
don't do for instance, you do need an idea but the need is present if you're a Muslim and you
submitted to Allah then it is expected that what you will do of goodness will be for the sake of
Allah your money which shows that your life is for the sake of when when you could truly say in the
salon to listen to me at the leisure of Delilah, Nene
		
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			my salah and my sacrifice in my wife and my does offer a love of the Lord of the worlds Do you need
to make any other in the year for anything else? No. Because that is a general contract a year. So
on to honestly to my to my actions in my life and my does are for Allah, the Lord of the worlds but
are we there?
		
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			That is why we need to reactivate our media quite often, until we reach that point when we truly
could say a masala tea or nozaki Rama Rama Murthy. lillahi Rabbil aalameen nursery Coronavirus is no
god but
		
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			there is no partner to him or his article America and that is what I was commanded with one hour on
the first night and the first of the Muslims
		
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			so finally, into hobbies