Explanation of the book Patience and Gratitude Part 2

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We're about to proceed.

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Today we'll go over

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the perspectives on these things, the preliminaries, equations, patients that have

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animals, whether they have patience or not. Metallica

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degrees are patients strength and weakness.

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We'll also talk about when patience is needed.

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We'll talk about

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the three categories. Patience is needed in the worship of Allah smart Allah, abstaining from random action

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in terms of trials and tribulations, so what's the

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difference?

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difference perspective on patient, patient may be of two types either physical or psychological. And both types may either be by choice or without choice as follows. Number one physical patient by choice such as doing hard labor willingly, number two physical patients without choice such as patiently bearing illness, beatings, and extreme extremes of heat and cold. Number three psychological patients by choice such as refraining from things, which both the Sharia and common sense say are wrong. Number four, psychological, psychological patient without choice such as patiently bearing and enforce separation for a wonderful new love.

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So, so basically, there is the patience, patience of the naps and the patience of the bar, the patience of them, but the patience of the naps could be with choice, that is the theory. And we actually started

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the patients that is with choice is what you choose to be patient, you have the you have

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the basically choice to be or to not be patient, when it comes to illness or disease, do you have a choice? Certainly there is, you know, acceptance can very well is a different mother, for all of us have to endure disease, it's not like you can accept to become sick or refuse. That is,

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that is patients without choice. That's the patience of the body. Without choice, the loss of loved ones, all of us will go through this, all of us have to endure the loss of loved ones, whether you're Muslim or non Muslim, whether good or wrongdoer, you just have to endure, that is basically the patience of naps or the software and apps with how choice. So that is naps enduring the last without choice. And then you have patients with choice. That is the patient's of the body with choice. Basically, when you didn't do the prayers, the fasting, the heart,

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you know, all of the acts of worship die by that, that will require bodily endurance that is patience of the body button then with choice. The same applies to the maps.

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the patience of the naps with choice is was when the naps his patient with the commands of Allah subhanaw taala such as

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you know, can be persistent IT system can remind

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Allah in you know, loving the law

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and so on and so forth. So this is patients with choice, and surprisingly you will proceed, you know, talking about

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patients with choice being the Praiseworthy, praiseworthy one yes. If it agrees with patients as mentioned about patience is of two types by choice or without choice. Patients by choice is of a higher status than patients without choice.

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As the leader is common to all people, but the former is attainable by all therefore patient of use of AI Salaam inducibly. In this vein, the wife of allergies and his patient is very the result punishment resulting punishment is of a higher status than his patient in response to his brother's actions. When they threw in the towel, separate him from his father, and sold him as a slave. This superior voluntary patient is patients of the profits of embrace. Some of them Musa alayhis, Salaam neurally, salaam, Isa allies, in the seal of the prophets, Prophet Muhammad peace be upon him, their patient was in calling people to Allah and in striving against enemies of the law.

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That's, that's very clear. So when they saw him in the world, you know, he had to endure that see them not make a choice here

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was not to make a choice, but when the wife of Mars is trying to tempt him and he patiently refuse, and that takes a great deal of courage and courage, necessarily, with a great courage also, you know, it took him a great deal of courage, it takes a great deal of self control and self restraint. In a situation like this, you know, you can imagine that he is

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a young man, young man. So, he is like, he has extreme desire in a foreign land away from people, so no one is watching again, you know, he was away from people that would condemn actions of this sort, in a foreign land, and you know, people that are, you know, removed from the, like, from the home and live in a foreign land that they are basically very easy subjects to these fit and because they are emotionally disturbed,

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and they need to have some solace in some. So when she offered herself to him, he had every reason to respond. In addition to this, she was very beautiful and she was wealthy and she was a powerful, powerful woman, Archer was the beautiful woman. He's young man's for this land, and

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separated from his people. So, this type of patience is superior to the patience that he exercised also, is Salah, Yusuf Ali Salah will be through him in the wild, because he will just have

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the patience of men and patient of animals. These four types of patient apply only to humans being animals shares only two types of patient in which there is no choice and men is distinguished by having the patient in which there is choice. However, many people have only the types of patient that animals have patient without choice.

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The patients have changed. That is why the Prophet sallahu wa sallam said to the woman hang on a sublime the sub method, patience is exercised at the time of the first shot.

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Because Aside from that, quote, people will have to

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be patient.

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If you don't exercise, patience at the first shock, how is it that you're going to basically reverse the decrease of Allah, whether you're Muslim or not mostly our patients are impatient. Eventually, people will have to endure and forget and move on how people do that. They endure, they forget, they move on. But the differences between the believer is that he exercises his patients have the first shock when he when he first receives the bad news, or when he first gets afflicted by disease or some sort of suffering. So in summary, what our patient says of the first shock, because that is the patient that distinguishes between the believer and others. The patients will achieve jinsha the

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quality of patients with humans as they are responsible for the actually like humans are they need patience to fulfill their responsibilities towards Allah, the same way that we do. One might ask, are they responsible in the same way that we are or in a different way? The answer is that regard to the matter of emotion and feelings. They are responsible just as we are and share the obligation to love for the sake of Allah and the hate for sake of Allah. To believe and have faith to take leavers for friends and unbelievers or enemies and etc.

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As for the physical matters such as, also, in lieu of washing after relieving oneself and circumcisions are concerned, they are not the same as us their duties in that regard are in accordance with the way they are created.

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the patience of angels. Another question that may arise is, do angels have patience? The answer is that angels are not tested with wings and bizarre has that contradict their reasons and knowledge, for them worshiping and obeying the law are like breathing is for us. Therefore, the angels do not need patience. patient is needed when one has conflicting motives, religion and reason opposing wrong actions, whims and desires. However, Angel may have some kind of patient which fits them and makes them persevere in doing what they were created for.

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the patience of men is basically the answer. It's the difference between human beings and the angels is that Allah gave to the angels patience to perform their duties and obligations. So they were made to be patient. The angels were given

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headphones were given Chieko angels were given up reason, without chapel without desires. And the animals were given desires, without reason, without intellect.

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The human being who's given both reason can desires. So for the human being, you know, there is that struggle between reason and the desires. For the animals there is no struggle, it is only desires can they are not asked to use the reason.

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They were not given reason they were given desires. Angels were only given reason without desires that human beings were given both reason and desires. Thus, they have to struggle, you know, to basically enable the reason

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to overcome their desires.

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the patience of men,

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if a man's patient is stronger than his rooms in desire, that he's like an angel, but if his whims and desires are stronger than his patient, that he's like a devil. If his desires for food and drinks and sex is stronger than his patient, then he's no better than an animal.

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Although those

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Allah created angels with reason, no desires, animal good reason, and no animals with desires and no reason, and then with both reason, and desires, so if a man reason is stronger than his desire, he's like an angel. If his desires are stronger than his reason, then he's like an animal. A little baby has only the desire for food when he needs it. And his patient is like the patient of animals until he reaches an age where he can tell what is what he has no choice.

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venue where you're given,

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you know, the ability to discern that the scope that hit a llama is a form of guidance. Last one I found out that will enable you to discern between right and wrong between good and

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evil beings have been given that you know, as as part of our human beings, however, this type of Medallia this type of guidance is limited, limited, and it is dependent upon another type of guidance that Allah would send only through his messengers and his profits. So, we have two different types of guidance. The first one starts with you very early on, at the age of the stone and you know, that some guidance

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is given to people, you know, a seven year old kid will start to have some understanding right and wrong.

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Maybe even before that, and then the understanding between our understanding of the difference between right and wrong goes with

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this, this type of guidance or it is given to all of humanity. That is why people still you know, even without religion, we still have the so called

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common sense, when we talk.

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Religion is just common sense, that is

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given to people that this this issue of vaccine and we have seen

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the ability of the mind and the intellect to discern between heart

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Avia between beautiful and ugly between good and bad, is something that I

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believe in, believe in man's ability to discern

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even before the revelation, but believe this ability or this power of discernment, between good and bad, is limited and dependent on the kind of receiving the guidance, the specific guidance that is sent through other messengers, and also it is inconsequential in terms of thought

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or reward and punishment. So, I love them not only accountable, because he endowed you with this type of guidance, which is, you know, that

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they are the general guidance

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that he gave you the intellect, the power of

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sound between right and wrong, will you be responsible for this, no, you will not be responsible, you're only responsible after you receive revelation after revelation. So, this because there is a little bit of controversy over this, whether human The human being is capable of discernment between right and wrong word, but the correct position and the strong position of Emerson is that yes, a human being is capable of discernment, if you ask all the people about cruelty to animals, kindness, the appearance of the people will have similar answers.

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Because of that,

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or the general guidance, I gave that started from the age of discernment, and grew within afterwards and certainly people different people will be able to grow this capitalist countries, you know,

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some people could grow this more and more. So, you find some Muslims that are very, very decent, for instance, and very, like in terms of

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very

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smart

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even if they were atheists, even if they did not receive any form of revelation

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or they did not necessarily subscribe to any religion, they could still be very well known, because that that is part of

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why the man alarm, you know, inculcated in us, you know, that

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basically, respect for morals and good manners and inculcated in us that the, you know,

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the basically aversion to bad manners and bad conduct, the person who corrupts this needs to do a lot of work

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basically, needs to defy that general guidance to corrupted the general guidance is there now, just this June guidance is not detail. So, that is why we need to we need the refinements by the specific documents and Revelation, because, yes, cruelty elements is bad in five minutes, that appearance is good, but, you know, how do you exercise kindness manifest kindness to the parents in which ways and so on. So, the medium documents of interpretation comes and teaches us how we should do this emphasizes, you know, the specific guidance of varicella emphasizes the general benefits of mosquitoes. And then it gives us the details now,

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teaches us more about the details all of us agree on social justice right.

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But you know, is counter to social justice, you may as a human being you may have limited knowledge and limited awareness understanding, you may think that river is not counter to social justice, but

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is essentially counter to social justice and it creates a lot of social injustice through economic subjugation and exploitation.

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So, that is the role of the specific guidance,

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details

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that emphasize the general guidance to give us details and also Ah, you know, to

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warrant

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more punishment, which,

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which are not warranted prior to them.

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Yes, then he grows a little older and develops a desire to play to his patients by choice with develop, he will start to do what patients needs when sexual desire develops. At the same time, his power of reasoning is also developing.

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But between the age when he can tell right from wrong at the age of puberty, puberty, all he can see is his own interest in this world, and what might make his life good or bad, this limited view will, will remain until he is guided by Allah, then he will have have the full picture and begin to think what his interest goes in this life and the year after, he would become aware of where different actions may lead and will prepare himself for a long struggle with his desires and natural inclinations,

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different degrees of patience, the kind of patient which relate to resisting values and desires can be graded according to how strong and effective they are. There are three degrees of patients in this respect. Number one, the moral of religion is the strongest and controlling and defeating whims and desires, this level of control can only be achieved through consistent patience, and those who reach this level are victorious in this life and in the Hereafter. They are the ones who says, Our Lord is a lot. These are the ones to whom at the moment of that agency, we are not nor grieve, or receive the glad tidings of the garden, that which you have promised, we are your protectors in this

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life, and in the hereafter.

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They are the ones who enjoy the companionship of Allah and who strive in the way of Allah.

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The shadows,

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they're the ones from Allah has guided to the exclusion of others. Number two,

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when whims and desires prevail, the religious motive is diminish. The Doom person will surrender core leadership power and his forces, who will lead him wherever they want, his relationship with them will be either of two possibilities either become their follower, a soldier in their army, which is the case of the feet person, or shutdown will become a weapon for him. And what he's trying to do is trying to say that there are three different types in terms of the struggle between a reason and your desires, your whims and desires, there are three different types, the first type of people who were stuck on

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the people who were straight on the path,

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those are the people that were able to overcome their desires, through the use of their intellect, the reason and the religious motive, that reason would be enhanced by the religious motive. So those those would have control over their desires. The second type are the people whose desires will overcome the reason and those will be and then the third type will be people that have that, you know,

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have basically not settled the

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the race between their desires and the reason. So they will continue to always be struggling. Sometimes the reason wins, sometimes the desire to win, and most of us are in this last category that are continuing to struggle.

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You know, was there a reason on one side and the desires on the other side, and then there will be a lengthy discussion here and there,

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you know, that the people who have their desires overcome their reason, and some of them will continue to be followers at the same time, meaning they will be waiting for the temptations, the whispers of the shame, and he will control them and so on. And some of them he says, Well, how foolish

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they will become 17 incidents, how do champions and clarifying the site plan is one of their soldiers.

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Not that they are the soldiers of the Shakedown was a plan becomes one of their soldiers. And then he continues to mention examples of those people, and how their reason has been corrupted completely because of their desires. So he mentions,

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because I'll quickly go over some of the examples. So he mentions here that some of them would say, what good could my worship do after all the wrong actions I have to make. So if this is not basically that they are humble people, so because of their humbleness, they're saying, good works will not say

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mean, after all of the evil that I have to admit it, those are people who are still enslaved to their desires, and they don't want to give up their desires. So they're corrupted reason, the reason was overcome by the desires and it became subjugated to their desires. So that corrupts reason starts to come up with all of those excuse excuses. Some of them would say, what would good could my worship do after all their own after method?

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What can help a drowning man if his fingers are above water, and the rest of his body is submerge? Some would say that they will return to in depth approaches, some would say, some would even dare to say that she's refraining from evil.

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Is is an indication that you don't appreciate the forgiveness of Allah. If you appreciate the past forgiveness of Allah, He will not worry about committing evil, because I'll always forgive you. So that means that notice basically, the reason the corrupted reason is giving them excuses to continue

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their wickedness

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and then he no he will mention

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he will mention here that those people will speak

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have

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power over them, and they will have to go through the day. Sometimes after the shutdown, sometimes the shutdown has power over them and put on loss of

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service he will have no power over

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the last

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11 months

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except those who follow you after wrongdoers. We are misguided in the wrongdoers, meaning that he would have sort of gone over those he went to have some fun over those people. And he's saying that one who lets his desires, overcome his reason is like one surrenders his best friend, to his worst enemy. One who lets his desires, overcome his reason is like surrendering your best friend, to your worst enemy. And once you do this, then your humiliation and

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like you will be let down by that very enemy that you surrender to. So once you surrender to that enemy, the enemy will continue to give you humiliation and suffering. So if you succumb to lustful desires, it would be lustful desires now what lustful desires, you know, were under, you know, control by reason. But you live with lustful desires to overcome your reason, then, lustful desires will be stronger than your reason, and you will come up with every excuse to carry on with your wickedness. But eventually lustful desires will be your greatest source of suffering and pain, it will be through lust for desires, that you will be humiliated in class to suffer in this dunya,

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before the hereafter. And we do see this, it's quite obvious when people you know,

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just like given to their last, we see what Last of Us to them. When you give in to drugs to have a little bit of euphoria or happiness or excitement, and you give into drugs, it would be jobs that will come back and causing the greatest pain and suffering. When you get in to

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basically, greed, for money, it will be nothing but money that will cause you the most suffering and pain in the future. When it overtakes your reason, then your constant pursuit of that money would be your greatest source of pain and suffering.

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So you

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start from here different strengths,

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different styles of patient, some people cannot have patient without struggling and facing reading difficulties. Others are able to have many others are able to have patients easily. The first time is like a man who wrestles with a strong man and cannot beat him without the utmost effort. The second time is like a man who wrestles with the wheat bread and beats it easily, such as the war between the soldier soldiers of man and the soldiers of Shakedown whenever different

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The soldier of Shakedown can defeat the shadow himself, a wounded soldier, the soldiers, man is your reason that is this one soldier, man gave you, the soldier of the ship time is the whims and desires. So they continue to fight until one of them the villain takes the other. And then all your legal you'll hear about

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how you continue to empower your reason over your desires, until you have reason, you know beats your desires and beat your desires and desires. And then your desires become very debilitated that open hours just like when someone like

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their desires have become extremely debilitated. For less than half.

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a doula a doula never date a man wrestled with one of the jinn and vj s. Why are you so weak and small? The Jin answer, I'm very big and strong compared to the rest of the gym. Someone asked a bootlegger the suit. Was that over? Was that a bend over? And he replied, who else could it have been? So this could be the party of amarga agenda is Corinne Homer.

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Basically the Companion

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of the jinn the genie companion.

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So his ability to

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cause them to

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lose all power. And some of these things may be

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incomprehensible to some of us, but certainly during the province of

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those people were chosen to be shown Americans of us

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and how they raised the EMA. So the gym, companion of Hallmark would actually have manifested themselves.

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This is basically to transmit an abstract concept into tangibility. So that,

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you know, it is not within the tangible part of the story that matters is the abstract meaning behind the lobby that ends with like a wallet, bring this in the Day of Judgment, before the people of Paradise in a fire, and he will bring the best in the form of around that will be smarter. This is basically an abstract concept. This is an abstract concept, but a lot of will

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transform it into something tangible, so that you as a human being have that comfort in the agenda

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that I saw that's being slaughtered, there would be no death anymore. Human beings are Vikings. Like if I tell you, if I tell you that there will be no, there will be no more death. It's different from seeing death in the form of a sheet that will be smaller. And for people that are in Fargo the

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spirit of offline. So here this was this abstract concept. The concept is what is that Palmer Yvonne who was able to his mcgaha often laughs at his party in escape, to the point that his companion became so weak and

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this was

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transformed into a tangible story, which we believe happened does have a global problem and then this particular one was recorded by Damien and he sent me an incident with me Hassan or acceptable narration. So we believe that it happened but it is basically to teach us the concept more than the story itself.

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Some of the Sahaba said a believer whips to shake down the way a person whips his camel when he's traveling. It been a be Dornier Neverhood actually is the lever that takes shape

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in this translation

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in the moment they only say young visually means the ability to say founder believer young DJ

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give my young the biography stuff that believer debilitates which they don't like my view with the ability is a mount in one travel like you know have you in one chapter one chapter your mouth has been the ability to pour your body or gallon has been the ability to travel like why is that the lever the ability to stay calm because he cannot keep up with

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a be a be a bit of a narrative is that from some of the sell off and once you're done, met with another and asked

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why he was so thin the other day that I replied because I'm with a man who mentioned the name of Allah and when he eats I cannot eat with him and he mentions the name of Allah and eat drink so he cannot drink with him and he introduced his home he mentioned the name of Allah. So I stay outside the first home with a man who does not mention the name of the second man would say the opposite

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with the first and then seven that is that shows you how Homer was able to the penalty is funny because Omar was opposite remember, it's not funny, have no way of knowing anything to him and having lost power can skip on him. But yeah, so whoever develops this habit of patient is feared by his enemies and whoever finds patient difficult is in danger as his enemies will be ready to attack him and do him harm. When patient is needed, patience patience is required in the following area of life number one in worshipping Allah and following his command number two is abstaining from wrong actions. Number three, accepting our decree and ruling This is the advice given by law C'mon, when

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he told his son, oh my son establish regular prayer and enjoy what is just and forbid what is wrong and bear with patient constantly whatever you do for his

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feminists in the conduct of affairs, for this is feminists are

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feminists and conducting conducting affairs.

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So, basically, it is a soft

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stop.

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It is flat out in my mind doing that which is why I did that which is command more, or the attacking my thoughts abstaining from that which is prohibited worse

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and enduring patiently, a decrease of a loss of power on enjoying, which includes doing oneself and forbidding what is wrong includes abstaining from one from wrong actions. Once a patient is worshiping a law patient is worshiping Allah and carrying out his instructions means that you perform the prescribed acts of worship regularly and do so sincere even knowledge. Worship that is not performed regularly is of no value. Even if worship is performed regularly, there are two dangers. First, we risk losing our sincerity, the motive of performing prayers is not to please a lot and draw closer to you. So to protect our worship, we must make sure that we are sincere.

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Secondly, we must be sure never to deviate from the way of the Prophet peace be upon. So we have to ensure that our worship is done according to the

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patient and abstaining from wrong action, that type of

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time now the first type of patient says to the patient was doing that which is hard being patient to some other patients with, you know, fasting patients with doing the things that work. And you need this patient's problem complex

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before the action with it can afterwards you mean how do you exhibit patients

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by being patient with purifying your intentions, that is getting ready for doing the action only for the sake of of love. And that is the hardest type of patients, you know, purify your intention

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before you approach the action, or before you start the act. To be our primary intention is the hardest type of patients. And then the second is why you're doing it.

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To be patient with the performance of this action to be patient.

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By studying not

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allowing yourself to get distracted by focusing concentrating and having

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the stillness of your body it's been the subject of readings and the factor concentration. And you know be patient also with the correct performance, according to the center of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam and all the details of all of the suspicions that is needed for the performance of diabetic. So the first patient says before

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you have to purifier, second step or phase of patients with

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to perform

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From the manner possible, and after,

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do you see patients

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do not ruin your

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ruin that reward to me or they've gone through many things, you know could ruin your life

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going through one of your leads, do this

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invalidate to some of yours charity was done as it was our reminders of your generosity, reminding the recipient of your donation and their generosity. But again, there could be other things, you could do something good that you can keep it to yourself, to keep them telling the people you know, I did this

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warning that you are seeking from us. Now we are seeking it from

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the so those are three phases of patience that you need while performing, which was quite awkward past

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patients in abstaining from wrong action. This type of patients can be achieved through the fear of the punishment which follows the wrong action or through

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a feeling of higher shyness or shame before the law for using his blessings in committing wrong actions. That feeling of higher before Allah can be stripped into learning more about love. And knowing more about his names and attributes, is a characteristic of people who are noble and possesses good quality.

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We could move to the next one, which is the patient's decrees of abode,

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shortly to be patient

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in refraining from language of opera limited, you need one of two things, you know, to refrain from governments or law has prohibited you from Allah, basically, your

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China's from being seen by a loss of North Island doing that which he for prohibited for your fear from the punishment, which one is greater, certainly from a block is not even to be too shy to this obey of law, knowing that he's watching you is greater than to have fear. Trump, the punishment does not mean that you will not have fear from punishment.

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It means that you should hear from last punishment, because a lot, you know, told you to hang up to fear from demand. But

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even the higher in ranking, it should be enough for you, it should be enough for you. That is not that you're not afraid of punishment. But even if it if I would have not punished you, it would have been enough for you that he

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forbade you or prohibited you from this action for that he

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had informed you of his dislike of this action. If aligned for me to do that. I dislike this action, your hyack from a lot earlier shyness.

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Trump

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should have been sufficient to refrain from this action.

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Yes.

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I mean, I don't see the patient should I

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the third chapter Yeah.

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Patience at time of trial and Edward iversity. Patients during difficult times may be achieved by number one,

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because I kept patients with adversity.

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For muscle power. This is the third type we said that there are only three types of patients. Patients with the commands

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are either seven or more performing the commands that are

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stealing from the prohibitions and suffer our

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patients with that which has been destined or decreased blood loss.

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Certainly, you know, in my blood is not always hardship, sometimes tourist prosperity in with any exercise patients as well. But also I consider this to be patients that fall under the other two categories because of the time

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prosperity and wealth, the manifestations through adhering to the command and abstaining from the prohibitions of us, not allowing wealth to distract you, and not allowing wealth to ruin, you're here, you're here,

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your face, hear your humbleness, your modesty or any of that. So the last time that he's talking about is to be patient with trials with hardships, and he gives a few examples, but we could expand on them a little bit more.

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You know, how do you think how do you

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basically develop that

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ability of enduring hardships? With river acceptance?

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Okay, well, first of all, do you always have to endure it with acceptance? Is it what if someone's acceptance is what if someone discovers self acceptance is only preferred, what you're commanded to do is to have patience. So everybody's a little bit higher, whatever it is, when you when you receive that hardship, with acceptance and contentment, not just patience, not just that you are enduring, without displeasing Allah, but you're also showing contentment with his victories and pleasure, which has not decreased whatever they are. So

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many, many things will enable us to have this patients, one of these things is to understand that a loss of power, this is important,

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the outset to know that the law does not affect you, because he hates you, the law affects you because he hates you, because the law does not only affect those that he hates, in fact, the Vizier reports from Southern pass that he asked the prophets on the last

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episode and

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who are the people that will be tested the most or tried the most in the process of someone said to me X amount of times that the prophets are the ones that are trying the most, and then those that are closest to them, and then those that are closest to them. You tell them Marwan are committed in every one will be tested or tried, according to the strength of his the, to your strengths of the European is greater than the test becomes harder and harder. So that law, basically this service between and sorts out, those are strongest in wind power in

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Lima,

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and those that are that are beneath them, you know, any, like any vessel should be able to sort out that a plus two, from a student from the new student? How do you sort out the eight plus students from the B student, it has to be at the level of the beast to as if the test is all at the level of the E student. And everybody will be the same. Everybody will have the same marks at the end. But the sort of the eight plus students, you will have to give some harder questions so that you can figure out who's the eight plus two and that is only fair. And that applies to

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reflections with the reprise of Abbas MonteCarlo. To see which student is best.

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And you will have to give the order

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to the patient with have greater result and greater religious commitment so that they can manifest the result and the religious. It is important that you understand this hurts. It is also helpful to develop patience to believe in the belief in the destiny that there is no way that you could have prevented this from happening. There is no way I lost one of our senses and Miranda, honey last album and we'll see that it's about the physical middle of

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Nebraska in Nevada law he he has seen a lot so

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we'll see but it will be valid. For sequel normals normalcy that affliction befalls on the earth or in yourselves is lucky to have accepted it is inscribed in a book in comedy and abroad. Before we bring it to existence, it is inscribed it is written

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a very long time ago 50,000 years of for lack of a living and the earth it was written in Luffy that it is written in Spanish

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before we bring it thanks

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assistance in Nevada, California is a very This is easy, for a lot. Hi, I'm telling you this. So that's you may not be getting that cell and

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you may not have grief, for excessive grief over the Twitch, you have missed or over which you have lost

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track of inadequate or

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excessive joy in that which you have gained. So don't have excessive grief, and don't have excessive joy either. All of this was written, and you don't know what is best for you. Let's remember, this has been inscribed in a book before the heavens and the earth were created. That does not mean that we don't learn from the lessons of the past. But we do not dwell over the past and allow us allow it to bar us from proceeding to the future or for progressing. In the future. You just learned from the lessons. But having learned from the lessons you now would carry on Will you move on. Because you know that no matter what this was written, it was meant to happen.

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Also to recognize

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something that also has to do with enduring the decrease of a block recognized recognize and to remind yourself of the great reward of those who are patient, in fact,

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that he said

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that the people often coffee, on the day of judgment, the people of safety on the day of judgment and

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the people who are prosperous, and they were not afflicted on the Day of Judgment, even wish that their skin or their skin was clipped out with clippers, Big B because of the great reward that they would witness that people have been receiving the people of affliction the people who are afflicted in the area receiving a loss of power

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when I'm facing

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a submarine and we will deal with how do I fear, hunger, deficiency in you know, life's meaning.

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That's

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why you want emphasis and money and fruits

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will best fit somebody and give you our five installation plans and

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secrets on

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your own those who are when they are afflicted, they say in value in a larger room, we are allowed to him We shall return to that economy.

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Here is the reward. Those are the ones who would have some a lot of them are paying a lot with gifts a lot on those people. That's a law firm the law means what lessons and forgiveness and

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select from above and above makes a lot of love.

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And,

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and,

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and mercy, they'll be given mercy

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to do and also the guy who wants to be given guidance, they'll be given guidance. So

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he was the lead the patient once when an affliction deforms, you remember, there was no way that this would have not happened. Remember, I was not tested because a lot of sincerity this likes me, maybe this test, elevate my rankings, maybe this this this thing reminded me of a lot that bring me back then.

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Remember the great reward of the patient ones. Also the fact eternia to me to give them yeah, it's it's to value what's the value of that

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is less than the wind of a mosquito. So, basically,

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there moinian over to or anguish over the loss of

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something from this

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shows that we have not really understood the value of this dunya is very unpredictable. You know you lost the job.

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You know you may have kept the job and diet in a few days. So So what if you lost the job

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For you, like a spouse or something, it

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may end tomorrow for you or after tomorrow. It is very easy. It is just very unpredictable. Very, very unpredictable. This job could have gotten you in Gee, who knows. I'm a Catholic.

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And with the Council

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on Foreign

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Affairs

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catatonia

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gives us the parable of this knowing it's like plants. You know, the it was green in the beginning, where rain deforestation there with or with him

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on after the rain fell on the land. The reservations that came out are gracious and pleasing to the farm. The loopers isn't the farmers that are looking at those registrations.

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Green and you know, moist, and then it turns into, it dries out and it's yellow, and then it turns into hay and crumbles away. And that's exactly who you are, you know, as a child, as an adult, and as a senior person, and then you crumbled away, and you turn into this. So is this worth grieving over? And if that hopefully is not worth grieving over is any particular incident in this area worth reading over?

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And then also 30 loss of allies that is the one who afflicted you, and he is the only one who could relieve your stress, distress or losses and when you deal

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with action to supervise

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sort of the number of losses or who is he who answers this just one, when he invokes ujjivan answers this just one when he invokes that will actually removes the heart.

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So to know that it is only a block with stereo a great deal of you know anguishing because a lot one is that you realize no one could really hear the stress. So just deal with him asked him,

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you know,

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worry about complaining to the people. One of the boards said that is

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the School of Latina, the liar, how do you know he thought something

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was

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wrong. Guess one way that we that? I think focus that focus supports the claim

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that

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he made under the law. So when you are afflicted by C bar, where the government has patience, where the government

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whoever the you know,

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our hands of patients and the cloak of silence, let us come back. Don't complain to the people for what you do this year complaining to

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merciless ones, against the one who's most merciful. You're competing against a lot of the people you're competing against the most merciful to those who have no mercy.

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Good companionship is very important.

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For us to endure patiently a good companion will give you a good counsel, a good companion will console you a good companion or remind you of a last thought. This is the meaning of power on video. This is the meaning you know, off in America shavon.

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shavon devours the lone wolves on a computer now the profits that come out of here to the gym out to the group in America

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needs the lone wolf you know when you are affected when you are you know this stress if you are alone, to take you all over the place. And you could be in complete confusion and bewilderment and you could be easily devoured by the shift on either lose your faith, lose so much if you're alone, but when your hardware in the midst of Monday you're leaving others brothers and sisters, then you will be comforted your consultant will be reminded of a lot and to make here

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More, much easier to endure

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is also of great importance and that we have to always seek comfort in,

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in many

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means that you have to make the right scholars said no one would say I've been even Sonia, one.

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Listen to him like listen to you. You've said what dropping the Messiah

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slowly responded to you when he said, his name is Sonia, Lord, my Lord, I have been touched by evil. And he did not say about me, you caused me I have been touched by evil or I have been touched by this one powerful more I mean, and you are the Most Merciful the world those who show mercy like the knockoff in New

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York

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you know,

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the belly of the way of the

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enemy here repeat this as human seventh and the wait for a boss to respond to you because certainly he will respond to you even if he did not give you the stress right away.

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He will give you on board is greater than that will be more appreciated by you enter these districts understand that all people are affected, you're not the only one.

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Welcome.

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in

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this town, we are having a cup of tea.

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So the last thing is to know that everybody will be tested and appreciate when the test did not break your theme. Because we'll look at

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everything every fracture, every break is miserable, except for the break of the knee. That does not mean that there is no makeup. There is no company you know, there's nothing that will compensate you for the breakup here the and understand that everybody's meet test. Everybody is being tested, everybody has a different task. So you are given that test

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first

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and show patients for every Seba you know affliction that befalls you want to Germany and show

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endures, while

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Lydia knew that you you're not immortal, what's the benefit of savings,

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it means that

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he will see that, that will see that is also a marker

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because you yourself are immortal. So, he will see by either depart from you or you depart from your department.

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So you can see what behind is there is no secret that is a marker because you yourself are in part.

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Be patient like the noble ones, your vision should be the noble patients, your patients should be the beautiful patients it is the vision so acceptance is a patient with without complaining except complaining to Allah. No one can accept

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that because these are afflictions that's what before you tomorrow and very soon before tomorrow, patient the relief

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then mentality of abuse of the

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person who is he has not been affected of all the people that you see. Have a subpoena standing there honey, this is a path or road, every one one walk down the road of afflictions the road of Muslim society is a road that each and every one has to walk on.

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Then when you're a member and affliction, the affliction of the afflicted, remember the person of all afflictions and I'm happy for you, which is losing the profit sauce

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It was an approximate solution to this, that would have been your worst affliction. For each and every one of us personally, using the profits of some of the best was our greatest selection. Because Can you imagine if he was an accountant you have any infection, and he went to him and he comforted you, would you put your name a lot more than that. So the greatest and worst affliction before each and every one of us is the loss of the profit center. So whatever connection afterwards befalls you, it is much less than that one. And then it was the right size when you compare the reflection to other possible reflections

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that it would take it's right size. All of these things are important to remember when reflection befalls us that we can endure

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with Southern German with beautiful patients mammals.

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Give us beautiful patients Love me, Love

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me. Love men. Saldana love men.

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Love Martin Molina levena Lena, Lena, vn fusina feeding and

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feeding off him above him if he did a lot of them as

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me

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Shut up because Okay, don't pinata him with a beer monkey near him. Why did the Iranian

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