Hatem al-Haj – ADB023 Al-Adab Al-Mufrad – Continuation of Chapter on Mistreatment of Possessions

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The importance of avoiding striking a worker's face during treatment is discussed, along with the use of "hamma" in court rulings and the sharia and sharia rules. The speakers stress the need to be clear and not allow anyone to dominate behavior, as well as the importance of being fair and objective in managing distrust and denial within the Muslim community. The speakers also emphasize the need to be aware of the negative impact of negative emotions on one's behavior and to be more genuine and considerate of others.

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			Alhamdulillah salallahu alayhi wa sallam, ala alihi wa
		
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			sahbihi wa rasoolillahi wa sallam, amma ba'a.
		
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			Proceed.
		
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			So today, inshallah, we'll go over the chapters
		
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			on treatment of slaves from Al-Adab Al
		
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			-Mufrad by Imam Bukhari, rahimahullah ta'ala.
		
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			And remember last time we were talking about
		
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			the chapter of the prohibition of saying, May
		
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			Allah disfigure your face.
		
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			And today we will start by the chapter
		
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			on avoiding striking the face.
		
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			Avoid striking the face.
		
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			So Hadith 174, Abu Huraira reported, the Prophet
		
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			ﷺ said, If one of you hits his
		
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			servant, let him avoid the face.
		
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			And we have basically gone over the prohibition
		
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			of hitting the servant before.
		
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			So that is why you need synthesis.
		
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			That is why you need reconciliation.
		
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			Here the Prophet ﷺ says, If one of
		
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			you hits his servant, which means a permissibility,
		
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			let him avoid the face so he can
		
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			strike other areas.
		
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			But now what would be the reconciliation between
		
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			this and the prohibition?
		
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			So striking here would be not torturing and
		
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			would be justifiable for like a major sin
		
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			or something of that nature would be justifiable.
		
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			But he has to avoid the face.
		
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			And we have talked about the rationale behind
		
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			the avoidance of the face.
		
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			The honor of the face is majma' al
		
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			-madarik, sama' al-basr, hearing, vision, thought.
		
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			So it has all these madarik with which
		
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			the children of Adam have been favored over
		
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			other creatures.
		
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			Now the next one is, hadathana khalid qala
		
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			hadathana sufiyana anabiz zubair an jabir qala marra
		
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			al-nabiyya ﷺ And this hadith also it
		
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			will tell you that you avoid the face
		
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			even of animals.
		
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			qala marra al-nabiyya ﷺ bidabbatin qad wusima
		
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			yudakhino man khirahu qala al-nabiyya ﷺ la
		
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			yasimanna ahadun al-wajha wa la yadribannahu Hadith
		
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			175, Jabir reported the Prophet ﷺ passed by
		
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			an animal that had been branded on its
		
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			face.
		
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			They used to brand the animals because otherwise
		
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			you would not know which one is yours
		
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			and which one is theirs.
		
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			They used to basically herd their animals close
		
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			to each other and then the animals would
		
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			mix with each other so everybody needs to
		
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			figure out, sort out their animals.
		
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			So they used to brand them.
		
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			So some people used to brand them on
		
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			the face and the Prophet ﷺ cursed the
		
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			people who branded on the face.
		
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			So passed by an animal that had been
		
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			branded on its face and its nostrils were
		
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			smoking.
		
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			The Prophet ﷺ said, may Allah curse the
		
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			one who did this.
		
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			Let no one brand the face or strike
		
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			it.
		
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			Let no one brand the face or strike
		
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			it, even the animals.
		
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			Next chapter, babu mallatama abdahu fal yu'tiqhu min
		
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			ghayri ijaab.
		
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			Chapter regarding striking a servant and freeing them
		
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			without obligation.
		
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			Freeing them without obligation.
		
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			Why is Imam Bukhari saying freeing them without
		
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			obligation?
		
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			The Prophet ﷺ said, man latama abdahu aw
		
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			darabahu fakafaratuhu wa itquhu.
		
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			So whoever their slave or strikes them or
		
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			beats them, the expiation is emancipation.
		
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			The expiation for this is emancipation.
		
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			Why did the scholars say this emancipation is
		
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			not obligatory, but only recommended?
		
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			Because the scholars again, they bring in all
		
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			the reports and they try to reconcile so
		
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			that they can come up with appropriate reconciliation
		
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			or jamma or sentences.
		
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			The idea of jamma is sentences for us.
		
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			You know, jamma, tawfiq, bain al-adil, jamma
		
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			is sentences.
		
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			So based on Imam Bukhari's sentences of the
		
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			different reports, he found that this is not
		
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			an emphatic obligation, but the Prophet ﷺ is
		
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			saying, if you really want to be safe
		
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			on the day of judgment, if you slap
		
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			your slave or beat your slave, and you
		
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			want to be clear of this on the
		
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			day of judgment and be completely safe, then
		
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			emancipation is your way to this.
		
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			Now, why did they say it is not
		
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			obligatory even though its expiations are in general
		
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			obligatory, kafarat in general are obligatory?
		
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			Because in some reports of the Prophet ﷺ,
		
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			they said to the Prophet ﷺ, they only
		
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			have this one servant.
		
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			They only have this one servant and it's
		
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			a family of seven.
		
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			And he said that they can use the
		
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			servant until they don't need her anymore, and
		
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			then they ought to free her.
		
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			And then they would free her afterwards.
		
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			So the fact that he allowed them to
		
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			keep her gave the scholars, and among other
		
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			reports as well, gave them an indication that
		
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			this is an emphatic recommendation, not an emphatic
		
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			obligation.
		
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			So he says here, حَدَّثَنَا آدَمْ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا
		
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			شُعْبَ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا حُسَيْنَ قَالَ سَمِعْتُ هِلَالَ بْنِ
		
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			يَسَافِ يَقُولْ كُنَّ نَبِيعُ الْبَزَّ فِي دَارِ سُوَيْدِ
		
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			إِبْنِ مُقَرِّنَ فَخَرَجَتْ جَارِيَةٌ فَقَالَتْ لِرَجُلٍ شَيْئًا فَلَطَمَهَا
		
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			ذَلِكَ الرَّجُلِ فَقَالَ لَهَا سُوَيْدِ بْنِ مُقَرِّنَ فَقَالَ
		
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			لَهُ سُوَيْدِ بْنِ مُقَرِّنَ أَلَطَمْتَ وَجْهَهَا لَقَدْ رَأَيْتُنِي
		
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			سَبِعَ سَبْعَ وَمَا لَنَا إِلَّا خَادِمْ فَلَطَمَهَا بَعْضُنَا
		
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			فَأَمَّرَهُ النَّبِيُّ صَلَى اللَّهُ لِي سَلَّمْ فَأَنْ يُعْتِقَهَا
		
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			So Suwayda ibn Muqarrin reported, we were selling
		
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			cloth in Suwayda ibn Muqarrin's residence when a
		
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			female servant spoke rudely to a man she
		
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			said something to a man spoke rudely to
		
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			him and he slapped her.
		
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			Suwayda said to him did you slap her
		
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			face?
		
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			I was once the seventh among my brothers
		
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			and we only had one servant one of
		
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			us slapped her face and the Prophet ﷺ
		
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			commanded us to free her the Prophet ﷺ
		
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			commanded us to free her then hadathana amr
		
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			ibn awn wa musaddat qala hadathana abu awwana
		
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			ʿan firas, ʿan abi salih, ʿan zazan ʿan
		
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			ibn umar, qala samatul nabi ﷺ yaqul man
		
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			latama abdahu aw darabahu haddan lam yatihi fakatharatuhu
		
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			idqu ibn umar reported, the Prophet ﷺ said
		
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			whoever slaps their servant or beats them for
		
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			a hadd, crime, they did not commit their
		
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			expiation is to free them qala hadathana musaddat
		
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			qala hadathana yahya ibn sa'id ʿan sufyan
		
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			qala hadathani salamat ibn kuhayl qala hadathani muawiyah
		
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			ibn suwayd ibn muqarrin qala latamtu mawlan lana
		
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			fafarra fada'ani abi faqala lahu qtas kunna
		
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			walada muqarrin sab'a lana khadim falatamaha ahaduna
		
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			fadhakara dhalika lana nabi ﷺ faqala murhum fal
		
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			yu'tiquha faqeelana nabi ﷺ laysalahum khadimun ghayruha qala
		
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			fal yastaghdimuha faizastaghnaw kallaw sabilah muawiyah ibn suwayd
		
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			ibn muqarrin reported, I slapped a servant of
		
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			ours who ran away my father called me
		
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			and told the servant to take retribution told
		
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			the servant to take retribution he said we
		
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			were seven so he told the servant to
		
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			take retribution from his son he said we
		
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			were seven sons of muqarrin and we had
		
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			one servant one of us slapped her and
		
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			this was mentioned to the Prophet ﷺ who
		
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			commanded us to free her it was said
		
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			to the Prophet ﷺ they have no other
		
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			servant but her he replied let them keep
		
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			her to serve them but once they are
		
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			no longer in need they should set her
		
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			free then hadathana mu'amir ibn marzook qala
		
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			aghbarana shu'aba and this is again a
		
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			dialogue between the law and reality a dialogue
		
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			between the ideal and the feasible between the
		
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			desirable and the feasible and a dialogue between
		
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			the desirable and the feasible so what is
		
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			the desirable emancipate them all what is the
		
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			feasible during their times and like I said
		
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			when we talk about these issues we don't
		
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			only talk about the excellence of the treatment
		
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			of slaves in Islam because if you talk
		
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			about only the excellence of the treatment of
		
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			slaves upward mobility, slaves became the salateen and
		
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			all of that stuff people will think that
		
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			you want it back you say no we
		
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			don't want it back Islam is looking forward
		
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			to emancipation of all the slaves and has
		
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			mechanisms for this but there was this reality
		
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			that slavery in the Islamic tradition was different
		
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			from slavery in other traditions and one of
		
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			the major differences is it was not a
		
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			racist institution slaves came in different colors and
		
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			shapes and it was not a racist institution
		
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			there was excellent treatment of the slaves and
		
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			there were ways for them to even buy
		
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			their freedom and other means for emancipation but
		
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			here is a dialogue a clear dialogue because
		
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			some people are inflexible and this does not
		
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			only apply to this issue but people think
		
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			that they don't have to negotiate with reality
		
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			no you have to negotiate with reality in
		
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			the entire prophetic tradition there was always negotiation
		
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			with reality trying to do the desirable as
		
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			long as it is feasible set a goal
		
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			and try to get there while considering feasibility
		
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			as we said before the social economic structure
		
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			of their communities demanded that there would be
		
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			a hierarchy this used to be the case
		
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			in the whole world demanded that there would
		
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			be a hierarchy and even for the interest
		
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			of the lower ranks in this hierarchy sometimes
		
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			if you free them unprepared to be responsible
		
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			for themselves and to fend for themselves it
		
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			meant a death sentence because in the middle
		
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			of the desert it was not like you
		
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			could go through a few applications at McDonald's
		
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			and get a job it used to be
		
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			extremely hard for pre-established people to fend
		
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			for themselves let alone recently emancipated unprepared slaves
		
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			that is why Allah says if you know
		
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			that they are able to fend for themselves
		
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			if they know that they have the capacity
		
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			then you can track them to buy themselves
		
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			then the next hadith is this
		
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			is another story or it could be the
		
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			same story you know it is still did
		
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			they have a female and a male slave
		
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			or the narrator was aware of this anyway
		
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			it is simple the narrator may have basically
		
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			mistaken the gender of the slave reported he
		
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			saw a man slap his servant and said
		
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			do you not know that the face is
		
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			sacred I was once the seventh among my
		
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			brothers during the prophet's time and we had
		
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			one servant one of us slapped her and
		
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			the prophet ordered us to free her I
		
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			am using female pronouns here I should have
		
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			used in the translation male pronouns because in
		
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			the Arabic it is male pronouns then
		
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			so
		
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			So Ibn Omar reported he summoned a servant
		
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			he had beaten and uncovered the servant's back
		
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			asking it is likely that servant who did
		
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			what usury committed usurious transaction servant's back asking
		
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			does it hurt the servant replied no Ibn
		
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			Omar freed him and said I do not
		
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			have any reward for this that weighs even
		
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			as much as this stick he was asked
		
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			why do you say this he replied I
		
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			heard the prophet said whoever beats their servant
		
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			unjustly for a haddah they did not commit
		
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			or slaps their face their execution is to
		
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			free them their execution is to free them
		
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			so if it is an execution for a
		
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			like a sin on my part then I
		
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			am not hopeful in a reward it is
		
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			just an execution just an execution for a
		
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			sin I am not hopeful in any reward
		
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			but do you get rewarded for execution it
		
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			is hoped that Allah is most generous and
		
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			if you recognize your mistake and you try
		
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			to make amends and you execute then it
		
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			is hoped that you will get reward chapter
		
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			retaliation for slaves chapter chapter chapter
		
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			chapter chapter chapter chapter chapter chapter
		
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			chapter chapter
		
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			chapter chapter chapter chapter chapter If I did
		
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			not fear retribution, I would have struck you
		
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			painfully, caused you pain, I would have caused
		
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			you pain, struck you to cause you pain.
		
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			So had I not feared retribution, retribution when?
		
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			On the Day of Judgment, Day of Resurrection.
		
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			Qala haddathana Abu al-Rabiya, qala haddathana Isma
		
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			'il, qala haddathana al-'Alaa, a'n abihi, a
		
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			'n abi Huraira, a'n al-Nabi ﷺ
		
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			qal, la tu'addunna al-hukooqa ila ahliha,
		
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			hatta yuqadal al-shat al-jamma'i min
		
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			al-shat al-qarnaa.
		
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			Abu Huraira reported, the Prophet ﷺ said, The
		
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			rights will be restored among you to the
		
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			extent that even a horned sheep will be
		
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			given retaliation against a horned sheep.
		
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			Of course, like a horned sheep that, not
		
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			simply just for having horns, but for striking
		
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			the hornless sheep.
		
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			And you want to apply this to yourself
		
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			also.
		
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			You know, so if you have horns, if
		
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			you have power, if you have power, you
		
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			should be careful dealing with people who don't
		
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			have horns, who don't have power.
		
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			Because retribution will be exacted on the day
		
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			of resurrection.
		
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			qala haddathana abdullahi ibn muhammad al-ju'faiq,
		
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			qala haddathana Abu Usama, qala haddathani Dawood ibn
		
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			Abi Abdullah, mawla Bani Hashim, qala haddathani Abdulrahman
		
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			ibn Muhammad, qala akhbaratni jaddati a'n Ummi
		
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			Salama, a'n al-Nabi ﷺ kana fi
		
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			baytiha, fa da'a wasifatan lahu, fa abta
		
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			'at, fa istabana al-ghadabu fi wajhih, fa
		
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			kamat Umm Salama ila al-hijab, fa wajatat
		
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			al-wasifa tal'abu wa ma'ahu siwak,
		
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			fa qala law la khashiatu al-qawadi yawma
		
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			al-qiyamah, la awja'tuki bi hadha siwak,
		
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			zada Muhammad ibn al-haytham tal'abu bi
		
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			bahmatin, qala falamma ataytu biha al-Nabi ﷺ,
		
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			qultu ya Rasulullah, innaha la tahlifu ma sami
		
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			'atka qalat wa fi yadihi siwak.
		
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			You know, a disclaimer here that this hadith
		
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			is controversial in authenticity, controversial in establishment, but
		
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			if you accept it, then this is what
		
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			it says.
		
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			From Umm Salama, al-Bukhari ﷺ felt that
		
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			it would be acceptable in adab, in etiquettes.
		
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			From Umm Salama, the Prophet ﷺ was in
		
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			her house when he called for a servant
		
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			of his or hers, but she delayed in
		
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			responding.
		
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			The anger became apparent on his face.
		
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			Umm Salama went behind the curtain and found
		
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			the servant playing.
		
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			The Prophet ﷺ had a tooth stick, siwak,
		
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			tooth stick in his hand.
		
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			The Prophet ﷺ said, if it were not
		
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			for the fear of retaliation, retribution on the
		
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			day of resurrection, I would have punished you
		
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			with this siwak.
		
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			I would have punished you with this siwak.
		
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			Muhammad ibn al-haytham added, she was playing
		
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			with a lamb.
		
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			He continued, when I brought her to the
		
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			Prophet, that's Umm Salama bringing her to the
		
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			Prophet to apologize or something, Umm Salama said,
		
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			O Messenger of Allah, she swears she did
		
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			not hear you.
		
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			The servant said this while he was holding
		
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			this siwak in his hand.
		
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			The Prophet ﷺ.
		
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			Muhammad ibn Bilal said, Imran told us about
		
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			Qatada, Zorarah ibn Awfa, Abu Huraira.
		
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			The Prophet ﷺ said, whoever strikes another will
		
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			face retribution for it on the day of
		
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			resurrection.
		
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			The next hadith qualifies the striking by unjust
		
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			striking.
		
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			It says, Abdullah ibn Raja said, Abu al
		
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			-Awwam said about Qatada, Abdullah ibn Shaqiq said,
		
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			Abu Huraira said, The Prophet ﷺ said, whoever
		
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			strikes unjustly will face retribution on the day
		
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			of resurrection.
		
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			The next chapter, Babuqsuhum mimma talbasoon.
		
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			A chapter, Close them as you close yourselves.
		
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			Muhammad ibn Abbad said, Hatim ibn Ismail said,
		
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			Yaqub ibn Mujahid said, Abu Hazra said, Ubadah
		
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			ibn al-Walid said, Ubadah ibn al-Samit
		
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			said, We seek knowledge in this neighborhood from
		
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			the Ansar before they perish.
		
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			The first one who met us was Abu
		
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			al-Yusr, the Prophet's companion ﷺ, and he
		
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			had a son.
		
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			Abu al-Yusr had a beard and moustache,
		
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			and his son had a beard and moustache.
		
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			I said to him, O my uncle, if
		
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			you took your son's beard and gave him
		
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			your moustache, or if you took his moustache
		
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			and gave him your beard, you would have
		
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			to pay for it.
		
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			He rubbed his head and said, O my
		
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			brother, Basaru, nominal here, nominal sentence, Basaru aynaya
		
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			hatayn, wa sam'u uzunayya hatayn, wa wa
		
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			'ahu qalbi, wa ajara ila niyati qalbihi.
		
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			The Prophet ﷺ said, Atimuhum mimma ta'kuloon,
		
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			waqsuhum mimma talbasoon.
		
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			Wakana an'u'tiahu min mata'at dunya, ahwanu
		
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			alayya min an ya'khudha min hasanati yawmal
		
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			qiyama.
		
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			Ubadah ibn al-Walid ibn Ubadah ibn al
		
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			-Samit, that is the grandson of the Honorable
		
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			Sahabi, Ubadah ibn al-Samit, reported, my father
		
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			and I, you know, his father is al
		
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			-Walid ibn Ubadah ibn al-Samit, he's the
		
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			son of Sahabi Ubadah ibn al-Samit, my
		
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			father and I went out seeking knowledge among
		
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			this neighborhood of the Ansar before they perished,
		
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			before they all died.
		
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			And that's, it's important that you catch the
		
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			scholars, particularly senior, elderly scholars.
		
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			If you're able to catch them before they
		
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			die, then you should attempt to learn from
		
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			them.
		
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			So before they perished, the first person we
		
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			met was Abu al-Yusra, and that is
		
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			the companion of the Prophet ﷺ.
		
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			And I'm honestly, you know, is it Abu
		
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			al-Yusra or Abu al-Yusr?
		
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			I'm not quite certain about this, I think
		
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			it could be Abu al-Yusr.
		
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			Al-Yusr?
		
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			Al-Yusr?
		
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			Hmm, yeah.
		
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			A companion of the Prophet ﷺ who was
		
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			accompanied by his servant, Abu al-Yusr, was
		
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			wearing a burda and a ma'afiri.
		
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			Burda and a ma'afiri, two different types
		
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			of, you know, garments.
		
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			Burda is usually squared, like with lines, and
		
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			ma'afiri used to be made in Yemen,
		
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			in a town in Yemen called Ma'afir.
		
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			So anyway, he had two garments, also, you
		
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			know, a burda and a ma'afiri, and
		
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			his servant was also wearing a burda and
		
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			a ma'afiri.
		
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			I said to him, uncle, uncle, and that
		
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			is, you know, so we call older people
		
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			by, you know, we show respect to older
		
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			people.
		
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			It's okay if it's not your uncle to
		
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			say uncle to an older person.
		
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			He said, uncle, ammi, if you were to
		
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			take your servant's burda and give him your
		
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			ma'afiri, or take his ma'afiri and
		
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			give him your burda, it would form a
		
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			complete matching set hulla for either one of
		
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			you.
		
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			Don't ask me how, because I, you know,
		
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			even other people, you know, I asked other
		
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			people who are a little bit more familiar
		
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			with hadith, and as I can't figure out
		
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			how two burdas or two ma'afiri will
		
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			make a set.
		
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			But anyway, that's what came in the hadith.
		
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			So anyway, so it would make a set
		
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			for either one of you.
		
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			So he stroked my head and said, oh
		
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			Allah, bless this young man.
		
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			Bless this young man.
		
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			My nephew, with these two eyes of mine,
		
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			these two ears of mine, and this part
		
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			of mine, and he pointed to the, you
		
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			know, niyat al-qalb are basically the sort
		
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			of the vessels that come out of the
		
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			heart, you know, on the top.
		
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			You know, the vessels, the veins and arteries
		
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			that come out of the heart on the
		
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			top, that's niyat al-qalb.
		
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			He pointed to them, and I heard the
		
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			Prophet ﷺ say, feed them, that's your slaves,
		
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			feed them from what you eat.
		
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			Enclose them from what you wear.
		
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			To give him something from my positions in
		
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			this world is easier for me than for
		
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			him to take from my good deeds on
		
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			the day of judgment.
		
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			So that is how much they were committed
		
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			to the prophetic advice.
		
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			Were we, you know, throughout Islamic history as
		
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			committed?
		
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			Of course not.
		
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			You know, did we really do this all
		
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			the time?
		
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			Of course not.
		
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			So that is why it is important that
		
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			you separate between Islam and Islamic history and
		
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			Muslim history.
		
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			Muslims are human beings, and, you know, our
		
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			history is very human.
		
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			You know, some chapters in our history are
		
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			not that great, and people who subscribe to
		
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			the religion as a form of self-confirmation,
		
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			they would be in denial of, you know,
		
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			of any dark spots, because for them it's
		
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			just like about an egotistic thing.
		
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			You know, it is another expression of their
		
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			egotism.
		
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			Muslims are my people, we have to be
		
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			good, because I'm good, and everybody like me,
		
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			whether it is my clan, my tribe, my
		
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			race, my family, everything that is mine has
		
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			to be good.
		
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			My ummah all has to be perfect.
		
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			So, no, we really didn't, basically, we were
		
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			not committed, we were not always committed to
		
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			this standard.
		
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			But did it help?
		
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			Did this impetus, did this momentum, did these
		
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			teachings help?
		
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			Of course they helped.
		
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			Of course they helped.
		
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			And the same applies whenever you make an
		
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			assessment of the Muslim condition.
		
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			You also have to be fair-minded.
		
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			So, self-flagging is not a good idea.
		
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			And, again, denial is not a good idea.
		
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			You have to be fair, you have to
		
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			be objective, you have to be fair.
		
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			And, for instance, you know, I talked earlier
		
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			about, you know, managing scandals within the Muslim
		
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			community, and some people would have the knee
		
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			-jerk reaction of, no, this doesn't happen among
		
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			us, and, you know, we're different, and so
		
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			on.
		
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			No, this happens among us.
		
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			We have ethical crises that take place among
		
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			us.
		
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			This is not limited to a particular religious,
		
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			you know, orientation or group.
		
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			This is human, it happens among all humans.
		
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			But at the same time, you also want
		
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			to be fair and to say, if you
		
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			stabilize all the factors, Islamic teachings would be
		
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			helpful.
		
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			You know, like if you look at the
		
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			distribution of HIV in the world, if you
		
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			look at the maps, maps of HIV distribution
		
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			among the world, the protective effect of Islam
		
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			is quite obvious on the map, isn't it?
		
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			You know, that area, the area 1040, 10
		
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			below the equator to 40 above the equator
		
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			in African Asia, that area that's predominantly inhabited
		
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			by Muslims is the least affected by this.
		
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			So that is despite the fact that in
		
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			Muslim countries, health care is not that great,
		
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			precautionary measures are not that great, and so
		
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			on.
		
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			But that's the protective effect of Islam.
		
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			So we have to be fair to Islam,
		
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			but at the same time, we should not
		
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			be in denial.
		
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			We should not be in denial.
		
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			We should be objective in our assessment of
		
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			these things.
		
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			So, of course, slaves were not always treated
		
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			this way in Muslim history, but they were
		
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			treated this way by the Sahaba of the
		
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			Prophet ﷺ, because they had this spiritual energy,
		
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			spiritual energy that from the Prophet ﷺ spiritual
		
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			energy fade out?
		
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			Yes, it does fade out, you know, but
		
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			can you re-energize?
		
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			Yes, because the Sunnah of the Prophet ﷺ
		
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			is there, and the Qur'an is there,
		
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			the Sunnah of the Prophet ﷺ is there,
		
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			so whenever there is tajdeed, renewal of the
		
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			deen, you could re-energize, and you could
		
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			have bright examples from different segments of our
		
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			history as well.
		
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			So the next hadith is about the same
		
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			thing.
		
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			hadith Jabir ibn Abdillah
		
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			reported the
		
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			Prophet ﷺ would advise kindness towards slaves.
		
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			He would say, feed them from what you
		
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			eat, feed them from what you eat, clothe
		
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			them from what you wear, and do not
		
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			torture Allah's creations.
		
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			So feed them from what you eat, clothe
		
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			them from what you wear.
		
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			This started to fade out, of course, because
		
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			the Prophet ﷺ, this was not an emphatic
		
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			obligation, and there will be reports that we
		
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			will go over that will show this was
		
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			not an emphatic obligation, it was an emphatic
		
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			recommendation, an emphatic recommendation, but you will have,
		
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			just like your servant, that is not your
		
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			slave, you give them compensation for their work.
		
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			You know, your servant is not your slave,
		
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			you give them compensation from your work.
		
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			You don't have to feed them the exact
		
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			same food that you eat, and they will
		
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			probably not be able to afford the exact
		
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			same food that you can afford if you're
		
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			wealthy and you're rich and so on, and
		
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			they are your servants.
		
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			But when it is your slave, there is
		
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			an emphatic recommendation to feed them from your
		
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			food, to clothe them from your clothes.
		
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			Not an emphatic obligation.
		
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			The emphatic obligation is what?
		
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			To sustain them appropriately.
		
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			You know, to sustain, to give them, you
		
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			know, food that is good and sufficient and
		
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			wholesome and halal and so on, and clothes
		
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			and so on.
		
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			But you don't have to give them from
		
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			your own clothes and your own food, as
		
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			will be explained later.
		
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			And that's the beauty of the sharia.
		
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			The sharia gives us those five legal values.
		
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			Mubah is in the middle, wajib is on
		
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			this side, haram is on this side, and
		
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			here there is makruh, and here there is
		
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			mustahab.
		
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			Why are we having five and we're not
		
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			having three?
		
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			Because human beings need this.
		
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			Human beings.
		
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			You can't force everything good on human beings.
		
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			You can't burden them.
		
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			You can't require of them everything that is
		
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			good.
		
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			So we divided the good into, we divided
		
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			the good into two categories.
		
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			The sharia divided the good into two categories,
		
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			divided the bad into two categories.
		
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			Disliked, prohibited, you know, mustahab and wajib.
		
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			So the next chapter is on insulting the
		
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			slaves.
		
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			Okay, it's a beautiful hadith.
		
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			And this story of Abu Dhar is quite
		
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			common, quite known.
		
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			It's a popular story.
		
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			So al-Ma'rur ibn Suwaid reported, I
		
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			saw Abu Dhar wearing a garment and his
		
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			servant was also wearing a garment similar to
		
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			it, exactly like it.
		
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			We asked him, and the fact that they're
		
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			wondering tells you that yes, the thing started
		
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			to fade out, you know, but these are
		
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			the sort of the closed circle of the
		
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			Prophet ﷺ.
		
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			So this is a standard that was different,
		
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			a standard that was different.
		
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			So I saw Abu Dhar wearing a garment
		
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			and his servant was also wearing a garment
		
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			similar to it.
		
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			We asked him about this, and he said,
		
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			I insulted a man.
		
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			He insulted a man and disparaged him about
		
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			his mother.
		
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			He complained to the Prophet ﷺ and the
		
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			Prophet ﷺ said to me, did you insult
		
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			him about his mother?
		
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			I replied yes, because Abu Dhar is the
		
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			most truthful of all people.
		
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			مَا أَقَلَّتْ مَا أَظَلَّتْ الْخَضْرَاءُ وَلَا أَقَلَّتْ الْغَبْرَاءُ
		
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			أَصْدَقَ لَهْجَةً مِنْ أَبِي ذِرٍ The Prophet ﷺ
		
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			said, the earth does not carry, the canopy,
		
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			the heavens does not give shape to, or
		
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			the earth does not carry someone who is
		
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			more truthful than Abu Dhar.
		
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			But Abu Dhar was short-fused.
		
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			Could you have these two qualities together?
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Human beings are not perfect.
		
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			So you could have someone who is very
		
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			genuine, very sincere, very pious, and short-fused.
		
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			So Abu Dhar said to the Prophet ﷺ,
		
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			yes.
		
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			Then he said, your brothers, he said, اِخْوَانُكُمْ
		
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			خَوَلُكُمْ Your brothers are under your authority.
		
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			خَوَلُكُمْ means under your care, under your authority.
		
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			You're in charge of your brothers.
		
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			So they are your brothers.
		
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			Whom Allah has placed under your care, whoever
		
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			has a brother under his care or authority
		
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			should feed him from what he eats and
		
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			clothes him from what he wears.
		
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			Do not burden them with what overpowers them.
		
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			And if you do, then help them.
		
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			Then help them.
		
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			So if, and that usually is a good,
		
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			now we don't have slaves, but that usually
		
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			is a good thing to do all the
		
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			time.
		
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			You know, even if you are a physician,
		
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			if you feel your nurse is overwhelmed, you
		
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			try to help out.
		
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			At work, if you're a supervisor and you
		
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			feel that you give a task to your
		
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			employee, you try to help out.
		
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			You show that, like there is a huge
		
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			difference between a leader who stays back and
		
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			watches people working, and a leader who takes
		
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			part with them in the work.
		
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			The second type of leadership is a lot
		
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			more effective than the first type of leadership.
		
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			لا تكلفهم مع ما يغلبهم Don't burden them
		
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			with that which they can handle.
		
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			But if you burden them, help them out,
		
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			participate, take part, move this, help out.
		
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			If it's too heavy, help out, etc.
		
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			But the point in the hadith here under
		
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			this chapter of سباب العبد is that the
		
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			Prophet ﷺ rebuked or reprimanded Abu Dharr for
		
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			insulting the person he insulted.
		
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			And he also told him something that was
		
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			very, very hard on Abu Dharr.
		
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			It was warranted from the Prophet ﷺ, but
		
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			it was difficult for Abu Dharr.
		
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			He said to him, إِنَّكَ مْرُؤٌ فِيهِ جَاهِلِيَّ
		
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			You are a man who has جَاهِلِيَّ inside
		
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			him.
		
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			جَاهِلِيَّ And this, you know, جَاهِلِيَّ is the,
		
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			you know, جَاهِلِيَّ, everybody knows جَاهِلِيَّ, but it
		
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			was a pre-Islamic ignorance.
		
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			That's what, you know, they have other translations
		
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			for جَاهِلِيَّ nowadays.
		
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			Okay, so pre-Islamic ignorance, times of ignorance,
		
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			pre-Islamic times of ignorance.
		
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			So جَاهِلِيَّ is basically, you know, equivalent to
		
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			disbelief, equivalent to disbelief.
		
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			So could you have some جَاهِلِيَّ inside you
		
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			as a good Muslim that no one is
		
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			more sincere than you in the world?
		
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			No one is more genuine than you?
		
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			Yes, you could still have remains of جَاهِلِيَّ.
		
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			And there is the competition between جَاهِلِيَّ and
		
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			Islam continued, continued.
		
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			The competition between جَاهِلِيَّ and Islam continued throughout
		
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			the times.
		
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			And sometimes when our sisters also talk about
		
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			certain things in the tradition or certain things
		
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			in our history that may not be particularly
		
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			that fair to women.
		
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			Yes, there continued to be that competition.
		
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			There continued to be, so when Islam came,
		
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			did the Prophet ﷺ say لَا تَمْنَعُوا أَيْمَا
		
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			أَلَّهِ مَسَاجِدَ اللَّهِ Don't prevent the slave women
		
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			of Allah from the houses of Allah.
		
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			لَا تَمْنَعُوا أَيْمَا أَلَّهِ مَسَاجِدَ اللَّهِ Don't prevent
		
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			the slave women of Allah from the houses
		
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			of Allah.
		
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			Yes, he did say that.
		
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			So, did Bilal ibn Abdullah ibn Umar.
		
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			This is the son of a Sahabi.
		
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			You know, we're not talking 200 years later.
		
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			We're talking about the son of the Sahabi.
		
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			He said to his father, the Sahabi, وَاللَّهِ
		
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			إِذَا نَمْنَعُهُنَ By Allah, we will prevent them.
		
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			So, that was quite audacious So, that is
		
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			why Salim ibn Abdullah ibn Umar, his other
		
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			son, فَسَبَّهُ سَبًّا لَمْ أَسْمَعْهُ سَبَّهُ أَحْظًا قَبْلَهُ
		
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			You know, he cursed him, insulted him, Abdullah
		
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			ibn Umar rebuked him in a way that
		
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			I've never heard him speak before.
		
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			But yes, this is the son of a
		
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			Sahabi saying, no, we will.
		
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			And Abdullah ibn Umar was, you know, dumbfounded.
		
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			I'm telling you the Prophet ﷺ, I'm relating
		
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			to you something from the Prophet ﷺ, and
		
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			you're saying لَنَمْنَعُهُنَ Keep in mind, we eventually
		
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			did prevent them.
		
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			So, it's not completely.
		
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			Anyway, بَعْبُهَا لِعَيْنُ عَبْدَهُ بَعْبُهَا لِعَيْنُ عَبْدَهُ To
		
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			be fair also, it was not a blanket
		
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			thing.
		
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			It was, you know, not all the scholars,
		
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			and certainly in our history women still were
		
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			able to go out to the masajid and
		
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			so on.
		
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			But we put a lot of restrictions on
		
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			women going out to the masajid and some
		
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			of the scholars said that the younger women
		
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			should not.
		
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			Anyway, بَعْبُهَا لِعَيْنُ عَبْدَهُ Chapter should one assist
		
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			his servant.
		
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			قَالَ حَدَّثْنَا آدَمْ قَالَ حَدَّثْنَا شُعْبَ قَالَ حَدَّثْنَا
		
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			أَبُو بِشْرِ قَالَ سَمِعْتُهُ سَلَّامَ بْنَ عَمْرٍ يُحَدِّثُ
		
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			عَنْ رَجُلٍ مِنْ أَصْحَابِ النَّبِيِّ صَوْسَلَمْ قَالَ قَالَ
		
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			النَّبِيِّ صَلَّى اللَّهُ عَيْنُهُ صَلَّمْ
		
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			أَرِقَّاكُمْ The Prophet ﷺ said, The Prophet ﷺ
		
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			said, Your slaves are your brothers.
		
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			So, be kind to them.
		
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			Seek their assistance in tasks that overwhelm you.
		
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			And assist them in tasks that overwhelm them.
		
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			So, Your slaves are your brothers.
		
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			So, be kind to them.
		
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			Seek their assistance in tasks that overwhelm you.
		
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			And assist them in tasks that overwhelm them.
		
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			قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا يَحْيَرَ بْنُ سَلَيْمَانِ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِى يَبْنُ
		
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			وَاهَبُ قَالَ أَغْبَرَنَا عَمْرَ عَنْ أَبِي يُنُسِ عَنْ
		
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			أَبِي هُرَيْرَ أَنَّهُ قَالَ أَعِينُ الْعَامِلَ مِنْ عَمَلِهِ
		
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			فَإِنَّ عَامِلَ اللَّهِ لَا يَخِيبُ يَعْنِي الْخَادِمُ Abu
		
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			Huraira said, assist the worker in his work,
		
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			for the worker of Allah does not fail.
		
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			He meant the servant.
		
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			بَابُ لَا يُكَلَّفُ الْعَبْدُ مِنَ الْعَمَلِ مَا لَا
		
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			يُطِيقُ A servant should not be burdened beyond
		
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			their capacity.
		
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			قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنِ يَزِيدٍ قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا
		
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			سَعِيدِ بْنِ أَبِي أَيُّوبِ قَالَ حَدَّثَنِى بْنُ عَجْلَانَ
		
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			قَالَ حَدَّثَنَا عَبْدُ اللَّهِ بْنِ يَزِيدٍ We
		
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			passed by Abu Dharr r.a while he
		
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			was wearing a garment and his servant was
		
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			also wearing a similar garment We said if
		
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			you took this and gave that to someone
		
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			else it would make a matching set for
		
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			you.
		
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			He replied, the Prophet s.a.w. said,
		
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			your servants are your brothers, Allah has placed
		
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			them under your care so whoever has his
		
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			brother under his care should feed him from
		
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			what he eats and clothes him with what
		
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			he wears do not burden them beyond what
		
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			they can bear and if you do burden
		
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			them then you should assist them and if
		
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			you burden them, you should assist them We'll
		
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			stop here because the next chapter is بَبْ
		
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			نَفَقَتَ الرَّجُلُ عَلَىٰ عَبْدِهِ وَقَدَمِهِ وَصَدَقَهِ Whatever you
		
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			spend on your servant, slave or servant will
		
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			count for you as charity but in general
		
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			like I said this used to be the
		
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			sort of this is Islam now and Islam
		
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			negotiated with the reality of the world and
		
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			tried to basically set higher goals for us
		
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			that we should be pursuing that we should
		
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			aspire for and is telling us that this
		
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			is within your capacity so when something is
		
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			recommended that is not beyond your capacity that
		
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			is within your human potential within your human
		
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			potential to treat your slave the same way
		
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			you treat yourself to buy food to divide
		
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			your food between you and your slave, within
		
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			your human potential is it hard for many
		
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			people?
		
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			it is hard for many people that is
		
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			why for those people it was not an
		
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			emphatic obligation it's just a recommendation you should
		
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			aspire to fulfill that potential that potential that
		
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			Allah had given you Allah had given you
		
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			that potential you can do it, Abu Dharr
		
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			did it, Abu Yasir did it other Sahaba
		
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			of the Prophet ﷺ did it and in
		
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			this report in the last report Abu Dharr
		
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			had favored his servant with a better because
		
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			you know when you have two garments one
		
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			of them is better than the other Abu
		
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			Dharr was so committed to the recommendation of
		
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			the Prophet ﷺ that he gave his servant
		
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			the better garment because he felt that if
		
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			I can't if they are not equal, I
		
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			am not going to take the better one
		
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			I am going to give him the better
		
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			one the same would apply to food can
		
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			everybody do this?
		
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			no that is why you know Islam it's
		
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			Allah Allah knows what He created does He
		
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			not know what He created?
		
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			He knows what He created and He knows
		
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			that we are different in our capacities and
		
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			we are different in our potentials but when
		
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			it comes to crude human potential, can humans
		
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			get there?
		
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			Yes, humans can get there and you should
		
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			try to get there and we can apply
		
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			this in our lives also we can this
		
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			very idea you know street vendors for instance
		
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			back home the fact that sometimes people bargain
		
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			for 15 minutes with a street vendor over
		
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			a few pounds I mean it's not a
		
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			big deal it's probably more cost effective for
		
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			you to just give them the extra 2
		
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			pounds and just go home do something better
		
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			than just sit there and bargain just to
		
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			save 2 pounds so we can do this
		
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			and this is not limited to how you
		
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			treat the slaves but it gives us an
		
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			example of how you treat people that are
		
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			less fortunate may Allah assist us and guide
		
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			us and give us strength to fulfill our
		
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			potential