Hatem al-Haj – ADB004 Al-Adab Al-Mufrad – Compensating Parents
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Today inshallah we will talk about repaying parents or compensating
parents if you can ever
once you will never. So the man Buhari Rama Allah, in his book it
out of emotion, said under this sixth chapter, Babbage's
validation or bourbon desert worldwide today, repaying parents
and he said had definitely a visa para abdominus Viana also head of
novicida Hana Abbey on Abu Hurayrah on in the visa la Salama
con la Adze. Well, I don't wear either who, Allah and Elijah whom
I'm Luke and fester, Yahoo fire Otto Abu Hurayrah are the Allahu
Anhu reported that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said,
a child can never or cannot repay his parent.
Unless he finds him or her as a slave, buys them and sets them
free, buys them and sets them free.
So in this particular Hadith
this hadith is reported by Bukhari and Muslim This is an agreed upon
Hadith. So it's a sort of chain of narration, the meaning of this
hadith is quite obvious
that a child will never be able to compensate or repay his parent,
when it is sometimes translated as father, it just means parent.
Because both the father and the mother are called, well it and
because it comes here in a masculine form, it does not mean
the mother is excluded, the mother would be included as one of the
two parents. And in fact, who gives birth, where that comes from
what other gave birth. So who gives birth, it's the mother and
not the father. But then it became a word for both the mother and the
father were added, well, you know, so the while that would be the
father, but Well, it would be the mother, but it comes from whatever
they give birth, and it is the mother who gives birth, but then
it applied to
the Father as well.
So a child will never be able to repay their parent, unless they
find them, enslaved
buys them and sets them free.
This may be hinting to the fact that you will never be able to
repay them.
Why
this is a February issue. But anyway, it's important for
comprehending the Hadith.
Because once you're by your parent, and and certainly, we're
talking about the time when there was slavery and so on, once your
bar your parent, your parents becomes free spontaneously there
is you will not be able to set them free,
you will not be able to set them free. Because once you purchase
your parent or child, and you know some people extended this to your
home, your close relatives as well. But once you have purchased
your parent or child, they don't need you to set them free. And you
cannot set them free because they become free on the spot once
you've purchased them, because a parent can never enslave their
child, a child can never enslave their parents.
And that's according to the very vast majority and the agreement of
the four schools of
okay.
So this indicates that, you know, you will never be able and the
Prophet sallallahu sallam said, until he finds the hem of him as a
slave buys them and sets them free. That's means and thereby
they become free, it does not mean that he will have to set them free
thereby they become free until he buys them and thereby they become
free. And that's the meaning based on the agreed upon position within
the form of I have that freedom is happens automatically when someone
purchases their parent or their child.
And why is this? Why is this why is it that you can never pay them
back? We will talk about that a little bit later. But
the prophet saw seven you
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some reports Mad Hatter, Mad Hatter.
And what brings about the change children bring about.
Here, hear power this because you're afraid you're afraid of,
you're like you're afraid of even you're afraid of dying because
you're gonna leave young children and who's gonna care for your
children, you're afraid of going into the battlefield. You're
afraid of, you're afraid of taking risks. You're afraid of taking
risks, even financial risks, because you have, you know, kids
that you have to feed.
So even financial risk, you're afraid of all kinds of risks. They
bring about fear, cowardice.
Magic bene, that's much better. My peloton miserliness, because you
need to be miserly, because you keep on thinking, you know, should
I do this? Should I spend on them? Should they donate for this?
Cause, you know, I have, you know, three little girls or three little
boys, would I be doing this? But so my platoon cause of miserliness
Massana tune a cause of sorrow and grief, because you're always
concerned about them, they have not come back home, you know,
you're waiting until they come back home. They're late. They're,
you know, how are they doing in school, they get sick, you know,
you get here. And when they have children, you become concerned
about their children. So it never ends. It's not like it will end at
some point. So they are always a cause of grief and sorrow.
Madhava is in some reports, mental health, cause of ignorance,
because you will not basically be that they have regularly palabra
and journeying for knowledge. And if you have children, you're
probably not going to be moving often, or traveling often. Because
you have to take care of your kids. So that is what you know,
unless, you know, and that's why I must warn you that I put in in us
so much drive. Because if you think about it, if you think about
it this way, you will not want to have kids, you know, like who
would want all of that grief.
But there is so much drive, basically to preserve the species,
that humanity, humankind,
there is so much drive, and there is so much reward if you do a good
job. As the Prophet SAW, Selim said, Whoever has like three girls
and three daughters, and he raises them well, and he teaches them and
treats them well. They will be his shield from the hellfire. He said
two and he said two they said one and he said one and so on. So
there is immense drive, and immense reward attached to having
children, just so that you overcome all of this,
you know, anxiety about what what kids may bring about. And so that
it's worthwhile. Otherwise, you have seen and, you know, when when
people are not, when people become very materialistic, and they are
not looking forward to the reward in the hereafter. They don't want
to have kids, you know, people are not like people are not wanting to
have kids until they hit their 40s. And then they may want to
have one or two add the most because, like, you know, and
sometimes they feel like one is too much.
You know, I have like a co worker who has one child and he feels
like you know, like half would have been better
like too much. Anyway, so that child needs to recognize recognize
the burden of having children so that they can recognize what their
parents went through and recognize that they will never be able to
repay them and they
they will never be able to
Okay, let's return to this until we get to Hadith and Omar.
All right.
So the next Hadith here, Imam Bukhari Rahim Allah said, or
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So so he didn't happy about that aborted that is the son of Abu
Musa luxury to his grandfather is the great Sahabi Abu Musa Shari, I
even have you bought the nav Musa and as I say don't have you bought
that said I heard my father that's a booger down the son of Abu Musa
oh sorry I heard my father say that ignore Amara. I am an Eman
going around the Kaaba while carrying his mother on his back
saying I am her subdued camel by Rohan masala I am her subdued
camera or her camera subdued
if her mounts bolt I don't have her mounts bolt I don't
then he asked Nahmad he said You think I have repaid her I have
compensated her
seven Hamas said no nah
not even for a single grown of labor not even for a single grown
of labor
so the
maybe the same man or maybe another man who have this
conversation with have no hammer
and he said to him why? Like I have done to her everything she
had done to me and more
Rama said that you you have done all of this wishing for her to die
either hoping for your life
I'm
just Do you deny that this history stands true. Like if you have a 90
year old mother and you have to do to her everything she had done to
you
what do you have the same feelings?
Is it No. If physically it may look the same? It's not the same
Do you have done this you know with
well wishes for you to live favoring you over herself
and looking forward to your age of maturity and so on and so forth.
So it wouldn't be it
would never be the same.
So when you know that you will never be able to repay them what
you do is is to your best do your utmost best Excel you know
as much as you can but doc file a man and you should despair of ever
repaying them
then an email from Allah said
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So, Marwan
use the makeup of Ira his agent
and he used to be such that Marwan was the Khalifa at the time. And
he used this be stationed in alpha Abu Hurayrah his mother was in one
house and he was in another one he wanted to go out he would stop at
her door and say, Peace be upon you, mother and the mercy and
blessings of Allah. God reply you know
with
Ricardo, then he would say, may Allah have mercy on you for
raising me as a child. And she would reply by saying, may Allah
have mercy on you for being dutiful to Me, when you well as a
grown up, or as a grown man,
whenever he wanted to go inside, he would do the same. Every time
he steps out of the door comes into the door, he says this has
mother and she would reciprocate and that is also to point out to
parents that they should reciprocate the feelings,
compassion and so on.
Now,
if you have the central Bernie is Rahim Allah book, you will find
that he didn't include this hadith. And I'll go over this you
know, and this this is at a scale class. It's not a hadith class.
However, excuse me, if I go over Hadith, sometimes, I have
basically infest you that this is not my specialty. But I think it
is important that we have some understanding of this so that we
have a healthy relationship with the Sunnah of the Prophet also.
healthy relationship that is not healthy relationship can never be
based on ignorance. Like when you defend to the Sunnah, like
sometimes you don't know what the preservation of the Sunnah was
about how the Sunnah was transmitted to us. And one person
would be attacking, you know, the Hadith and the Sunnah, and so on.
Not just the Quran, Yun, but also some of Addison know where you
know, they do assault to the sun, or some people do assault
business, you know, often there.
And some people defend the the Sunnah. Also from a point of like
ignorance.
It's just a, it's just an emotional response, like,
usually it would be emotional defense, but I want you to come to
a
place where you have a healthier relationship with the sun and a
healthier relationship does not necessarily mean and sort of an
extremist or zealous relationship, a relationship that is based on
understanding, you know, how it was preserved, how it was
transmitted, and you take a moderate position, where you
understand there is room for error, but overall, they have done
a marvelous job at preserving it, they have done a marvelous job
this unmeasured be proud of, you know, the snad the you know, the
sciences of Hadith, the efforts that were placed into preserving
their hobbies. So having a healthy relationship, we'll go over. So as
I said to you shall not Barney did not include this hadith. And
to a hadith later, he included a similar Hadith that is just very
much like this, that from and a different chain of narration, he
included it.
Why did the Imam Al Bukhari have the two or Hadees for our benefit?
Because they corroborate each other and we will see how, if if
you skip one Hadith, or this one, you skip one Hadith, you will come
to another one where Imam Bukhari says but definitely have the
Ramadan you say Baqarah burn even a beautiful day Cara definitely
Musa Khan Abbey hasm abba Maura Mola Amanat even at Abbey if Allah
Akbar Allahu, and then what I keep I'm Abby Hurayrah Illa RB blockfi
Eva definitely Arbor who Sahabi Allah so to hear like, the Salam
wa rahmatullahi wa barakaatuh we have a meta Kulu alayka Salam wa
rahmatullah wa barakato Poole, Rahim Akela Kamara Beatty these
are errata Cole Yamane want if it is like Hello, Hi, Ron. What are
the ancak Can I borrow 20 Kabira para Abu Musa canal Karis more
beware Ira of the Lebanon.
So Abba hasn't reported that Abu Maura the medulla of Omaha and
bint Abi Taalib told him that he rode with Abu Hurayrah to his land
in a lucky when he entered his land he shouted out in his loudest
voice Peace be upon you mother, and the mercy and blessings of
Allah she replied the same or like Osama. He said, may Allah have
mercy on you, as you raised me or for raising me when I was a child.
teaware replied and my son may Allah calm Zach along with Tyrone,
may Allah reward you for being here.
Talk to me when you became a grown man
when Musa said
that about IRAs
about IRAs name was Abdullah.
Okay, so
let's do this. And this hadith comes from Abu Hurayrah right?
They were they're reporting something about about right? This
is not a hadith comes from the Prophet. So is it a hadith or an
after
they use the words interchangeably earlyon but then are these became
more specific to
traceable reports to the Prophet sallallahu sallam, and alpha
became basically the traditions wherever they come from a Sahabi
you've come from a valley and so on. So every offer is a Hadith.
Every hadith is an author, not every author is a Hadith, the
relationship is one
this is the Venn diagram for this, this is Hadith
and this is after other traditions, you know,
prophetic traditions traceable to the Prophet they did not
necessarily do this early on, but as sciences develop, you know, the
third terminology becomes more specific okay. So, Abu Hurayrah
and when you have Abu Maura
and then you have Abu hasm
And then you have Musa
that is Musa Evany our global crochet
and then edible food eek
and then of the rock mannequin Schaber.
So, this is the this is the chain that the ship Albania, Rama, Hola,
considered Hassan or sound or acceptable
the team that he did not consider hasin are acceptable and I have
told you before that triphenyl Benny was a great great scholar
you know, so, when you comment in the work of a great scholar, it
does not mean that you are pretending to be like them or
pretending to be close to them or pretending to even be like a
student of them. But at the end of the day, you know, great scholars
disagree and when you point out a disagreement between great
scholars, it should be fine. So, I have told you before that
separating the books into saham dive with is something that the
majority of Magazine did not agree with.
Because at the end of the day, he felt that this chain
is sound and the other chain is is not many would disagree. They
would disagree because
the other train goes like this
say that and Abby Hillel will come here
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Abdullah
Eben assala who was the scribe of a lathe of Mossad
Abdullah is it clear here okay. Of the Lagna Salah who is the scribe
of aliveness out now
this would be Sahabi this is all these are all great scholars.
Thank god no issues there
now the chain that shifted, Alderney removed your the Hadith
that shouldn't have been removed as this one. Why did I make make
this a straight line? Because all of those are memories, all of
those lived in Medina.
Why is this like a branch like this? It does not mean that you
know Egypt is in
Of course Egypt Madeira. But side of nabina was Madani and he moved
to Egypt. Part of the journey as Egyptian lightup Mossad is
Egyptian Abdullah bin Asana has Egyptian. So it is basically the
train that was not that did not continue to be madly isn't a trend
that continued to be Madani all the way this is a chain that was
Madani than Egyptian
Okay.
Having said that
and shipping on La
instead of this particular chain week because of side of Nabila.
Because of side of NaVi Hello
inside of Nabila, actually is it there's not weak
in Saudi Arabia husband, we consider him weak, but the very
vast majority of scholars will not consider him weak. And the best
the best proof on him not being weak is that all six conductors
are used psi reported from psi. So Buhari Muslim party in his CYA,
but not just here, as the higher Muslim abode Tirmidhi Nissei even
imagine all of them imported from Saudi Arabia. So, you know, psi is
not weak.
Then you have halogen in the US eat, and then you have a light
liveness out. You know how many as Eve is trustworthy, trustworthy,
trustworthy, trustworthy, this is trustworthy according to the very
vast majority very vast majority, the 99.9% not like Egyptian
elections, but in real 90 real 99.9%
suicide
so hardly anybody has either sticker in the life of Mossad we
will talk a little bit about the life of Mossad because you should
be familiar with the life of Mossad I'm going to have the live
insider has describe of life of Mossad and of the lab insider is
not
necessarily cetera and that sense, but he is acceptable. You they
reported from Abdullah had Masada they use that de la sala reported
from him, he was not as competent.
And they say that when he became older, that he had like a neighbor
who used to like
basically write a hadith.
Like
just
books or you know, manuscripts and stuff like this. People have
talked about Abdullah Hassan scribe of life and Masada he may
not be the most trustworthy in the sense that he was Saduak truthful,
he was truthful, him and himself he was truthful.
Okay, so, then Musa Abney Iacob
actually like as a bit more problematic because most of them
Iacob in the he was described as having bad memory.
But still the you know, he's Sudoku, truthful, truthful.
Everyone, happy Friday, also truthful and happy for like all
teachers, when we say truthful is the fourth layer in the layers of
credibility, you know, the so it is not such a great thing to say
truthful
because it does not comment adequately, although some scholars
would say truthful to someone who's trustworthy, but it
terminologically terminologically it does not comment adequately and
competency. And we say and when you say Amirul Momineen for heavy
like shock but for instance that's the highest that's number one.
When you when you use superlatives, or when you repeat
the classic classic, you know, pick up an email, etc. You repeat
two words of praise to his trustworthy these are two
testimonies back to back, that's the second the third is when he is
your safe pickup. Trustworthy. Fourth, anyways, what do you say
so dope. So dope means, you know credible in the sense of truthful,
truthful, that's what salute means, okay.
So, this one, this one, this one, this one is Maqbool in half of the
hunters
definition, which means that you would take from
Ma'am, if they are corroborated if they are corroborated and now
let's come to examine this you know, some people will say that
this chain is better than this
some people will say that this is better than this
and they will say that cytopenia be halal if you have Buhari had
Muslim and readiness every month reporting from him,
then that's a testimony from the best you know, collective as of a
hadith that he is trustworthy and you know, the credible and that
sense. So,
then I wanted to explain to you a concept in Hadith that is called
them with a bat Mashallah.
Montalbano mokaba
whatever it means to follow up, I would say that the the bird
translation in my thinking is concurrency. So I had shared means
witness right. One have these testifies to the true to the truth
of the other Hadith. That's why it is so is witness. I would say that
the general translation here reverberations
arrival
patience, conferences and collaborations would be a
motorboat with showerhead. What is the difference between Coura
concurrences and collaborations are aberrations applied to the
Matney to the text of the Hadith. So you have
two similar Mattoon to similar a hadith, you know, similar in
meaning they don't have to be the exact wording similar in meaning
reported from two different Sahaba. Do they corroborate one
another? Yes, had to each other? testify to the truth of each
other? Yes, they corroborate one another. Keep in mind that when
you have can be in liars in the chains. A liar does not
corroborate a liar. It's not like you add more liars and then you're
no liars don't corroborate the they're just we were talking here
about sub loop, but have like an issue with his memory talking here
about sub loop, but may have been a little bit less competent as he
grew up. So we're not talking about liars. There is no liar on
the board here. There is no liar.
So what do you say? And these are close in me in mostly in wording.
Is it the same Hadith? It is? Some people like to you know, the
people who think that, you know, the transmission happened, word
for word.
Or the you know, that's where zealotry comes in. People think
that transmission happens word for word and every word is something
you know, the Prophet SAW Selim spoke of, that's completely
untrue. It cannot be. It cannot be defended by anyway, even the most
incredible change of narration, you will find inconsistencies in
the wording of the Hadith, the prophet could not have said all of
this, you know, just like every time he would use different work
this this is just, you know, this is religious fanaticism, you know,
religious fanaticism, and that backfires, because when people
can't believe this stuff, they think that we are basically fools.
And we don't use like our intellect whatsoever. And it
backfires. And it causes mistrust, this trust more than anything
else. So you have to be flexible on your understanding. They could
change words, they could omit words, you know, read the tool
report. Here, you will find that, you know, when she answered them,
he was using different wordings. Yeah, you know, and even the first
one is Salam wa Leakey is the second one is our Leakey Salah
he switched the
ultimately, is it the same story?
Get the same lesson you learn the See, ultimately isn't the same.
But
does this set hotties apart from the parameters this make the
Qur'an at category by itself? Not and then anything else is a
distant second. Yes. It makes the piano category by itself. Anything
else is a distant second.
There are a hadith that are multilateral manner,
which means that they have basically recurrent concurrence.
Many people report to them so they have the same chain like the
Qur'an, these are extremely few. And at the end of the day, they
are not the word of God, verbatim, which sets the Quran apart from
them.
Having said that, they are reporting if you if you look at
this, if you look at this, just look at the authors of the Bible
that the end of the new or revised standardized whatever copy
the, you know, some of the books are they don't even have an
author. This this is a Hadith that we're not talking about Hadith in
Bukhari and Muslim. We're talking about a hadith where there is some
controversy about it. And we're trying to examine the different
chains to figure out if we can trace this back to Abu Hurayrah
the Prophet even not the Prophet himself in okay.
So would you call so if I have, if I truly have a problem with side
of NaVi Hila. If I truly feel that side of NaVi Hilal is not
credible enough to rely on him like that, JB you can't rely on
him. So I handed out a bar. Basically, you write down his
Hadees? Because you write it down. Why do you write it down, even if
you're not going to rely on him for authentication, if you're not
going to accept it, you write it down so that if there is another
chain that can corroborate it, then the Hadith gets elevated the
ranking of the Hadith, it's elevated from Viiv, to Hassan, you
know, and so on.
So you saw that about, if we say, the side of Nabila presume, which
is not true, he's credible, or the competent. If you say this is
gonna be a solid two bar. Then
with this narration be whatever add or shower
this would be whatever, if not, whatever, add it concurrence
because someone followed up on Syedna Hillels report, who's this
Moosonee aku. He reported from the same CFS side of NaVi Hillel
reported and he concurred with cytodyn Abdullah Al on reporting
it from the same shape.
What if you have the problem with with highly deadly Azim
Divini is it is the problem. And you have this this the same chain
like this. The problem was had an aneurysm would be whatever other
Shala had, instead of motorbike, but it's called the metabo Anna
PESA. Not it is incomplete because you're not reporting from you're
not incurring, who was credited as the as eat by reporting from his
take your reporting from the sheaf of his safe, it's not a complete
one, you know, it's less, less corroborative than when you report
from the shake, you have two people that are truthful, they
have not been considered the most competent. And they are reporting
from the same shape.
Is it likely that, you know both of them will forget and report the
same thing? No. I mean, when when they agree, it's likely that they
remember. And if you if you think that they are truthful, then they
corroborate one another, they corroborate one another.
But if you have, you know, different chains completely until,
you know, this is what I have. And this Abdullah Ahmad, they're both
reports from the Prophet sallallahu sallam, you know,
seminar meanings, then that's called showerhead for operations
in currencies and collaborations. Just you know, try to remember
this,
like a few things that we all have to say here, that most of it there
was no favoritism in this whatsoever this guy is pushing
this reporter as far as he was accused of being say unhealth not
not not most competent with his memory.
And Nathan sand was a molar, molar means that he comes from a family
of emancipated slaves. He comes from a family of emancipated
slaves. This this one Nathan this up
what is the ranking of a Life Fitness out?
Through the roof
through the like, you know,
like we said, you have as a hobby
The one that is right next is a hobby would be life a bizarre is
nothing bigger, better, brighter than a life of Mossad nothing
better, brighter, bigger, more competent than the life of
Messiah. The Imam Shafi said about hmm allies and allies who after
Herman Malik, while I came as Harbor, who they all realized was
a greater fatigue than Malik, Malik. And he was he was not
trying to belittle Malik, he's actually telling you that Malik is
the gold standard. And he couldn't find something to praise and they
were with more than to say that inlays was greater than Malik, in
fact, and he didn't say alum, more knowledgeable, he just said
AFRICOM in Malik greater than Malik except about his disciples.
The you know, did not basically carry the torch or
wasted his knowledge, wasted his knowledge.
And it is is bad you know, so, like, Egyptians really should feel
bad about this, because they have wasted the knowledge of a life and
so
but anyway, this is a life of Mossad and they give you like a
little perspective about life.
You know, what Imam Malik who was born in 93 after nature
and our perspective too young to have some familiarity with the
chronology here. The life of Mossad lived from 94 to 175. Imam
Malik lived from 93 to 179.
There is a little bit of disagreement over the dates, but
this is basically a prior these are approximate dates. So, you may
find 177 Somewhere once is May 6 somewhere, but this is basically
where, you know, the approximate figures.
So, he was Corinne Malik. Now, we are Malik and everything
are the Aloha anima.
aliveness AB was in addition, which, which also tells you about
what is called a sign on the health of the society, because we
said he comes from a family of emancipated slaves. Do you know
how wealthy a lathe was? That's called upward mobility fine on the
health of the society. How fast can you move up the ladder? Allies
have been sad,
which is not usual for scholars. You know,
they actually make comparisons between fatigue and fatigue. You
know,
it's not usual for scholars, but the licensing Assad's income,
annual income, annual income was
80,000 dinars. Do you know what a dinar would be in our times
$500. About $500 is one dinar. One dinar is a little bit more than
four grams of gold. So and wondered, one dinar could have
bought you a sheep.
Or or maybe two dinars could have bought your sheep somewhere around
us. But one dinner during the time of the prophets also taught us
sheep.
So $80,000
Multiply this by 580,000 dinars multiply this
at 00 $4 million
for the million dollars, okay. So for the million dollars, his
annual income, that's not his wealth, that is his annual income.
And because he had, you know, he had too much land. This is the
revenue from his land.
Do you know what they say about the lathe? They say that he never,
never had to pay zakat.
Because he would never say, you know, keep
you know, any savings, the 80,000 the $40 million were spent all the
time. He would send you know, and the numbers vary, but like he
would send yearly put Imam Malik $500 $1,000 And it may not be like
charity for him. Mr. Malik was an institution and an author himself.
Oh,
So, he would send like this, he would send to me Lahiya similar
amount, another Muhammad, similar amount of money, he would send
different scholars, you know, salaries, annual salaries. And he
used to this, they say that he used to give charity to 300 people
every day 300 people every day, a woman came to him and said that my
son is sick. And
you know, I wish to give him some honey. And she knew that he had
like he had farms and he Emerson. So he ordered 120 pounds of honey
to be given to her. He said, I came with this, like he came with
a container like,
and she couldn't eat. So he ordered people carry the 120
pounds of honey
to her place.
So this this is how life used to be like,
and I was asked by Abu Jaffa Mandsaur to be the Emir of Egypt,
the prince of Egypt. And that shows you also the, you know, the
scholars and how people value the scholars and how the scholar is
valued themselves. So he used to be the Emir of Egypt and Abu
Jaffa. Oh, I'm sorry, about Jonathan months or, you know, the
he's almost the founder of the papacy. Yeah, he was not the
first. But he was, you know, the founder and the sense of great
accomplishments and so on. He's the one who built the Baghdad, Abu
Jaffa mentor, asked the life of Masada to be the prince of Egypt.
And Elijah refused. He said, I can't like I'm too weak for that.
And whichever one sir, he said, I know that you're not too weak, but
the Alpha near Toka Antigona. Alana ambulante, like, you did not
have the result to work for us.
So anyway, then we'll jump right on. So he said to him, like, who
would you recommend? Who would you recommend? He said, automatic not
hacking, I would recommend automatic hacker to be the Emir.
So I will talk for months or hire dos Matignon hacking. Do you know
what OS man did?
He swore that he would never talked to her life. Again.
You know, he accepted the position but he's worthy because it's such
a fetlar.
Anyway, I just wanted to tell you that you should be comfortable
with this report. Because these are this is good concurrence or
corroboration depending on where you where you place the weakness
here. This is good concurrence and the report you should be
comfortable with this report. Now the change the wording a little
bit.
Yeah, they weren't human beings, you know, they can forget things
and, and, yes, Hadith were transmitted by singer chains and
things can be forgotten. And some of the reporters can mix things
up.
You know, sometimes there's the difference between Carlotta
acapella, palapa means mixing mixes things up. salata means he
became mixed up. Tata is bad, you know, particularly if you say
that, you know, in his old age acapella he became mixed up, that
is bad, that brings your ranking now. But for that, you know, to
mix things up every once in a while. That is not completely. So,
in this case, should someone have a faith crisis because they can't
understand they can't comprehend the one Hadith or they can't come
to terms when they should not. Because certainty is not overruled
by doubt, by anything short of certainty. If you truly built your
faith on certainty, if you truly believe in this worldview, if you
truly believe that this is the most solid explanation or reality,
or reality around you, and you encounter Hadith that you cannot
come to terms with that cause you a faith crisis. Absolutely not. If
you have a healthy relationship with the Sunnah, you will embrace
the sun and you will have a moderate,
rational,
thoughtful
approach and understanding of the sun, the preservation of the sun
and so on and so
so, you we've gone over the Hadith itself, we've seen that Abu
Hurayrah every time he came in, by
Ah, he would say that pray to pray for his mother, or having raised
him as a child. It's a relationship is a very, very
special relationship that our Ira paired with with his mother. Do
you know that the mother of Abu Hurayrah
when she came with him to Medina, but she was an unbeliever,
for for quite some time, after she arrived in Medina, not only your
average, this believer, but she used the curse of the Prophet all
the time. And Abu Hurayrah used to cry.
You can imagine the,
the predicament, the ordy turmoil that he was going through. So he
was very kind to his mother, very loving and compassionate. And she
was cursing the most beloved person to him the Prophet
sallallahu sallam, you gotta imagine the amount of
hardship he was going through.
And one day, she gets to the provinces elemental, he couldn't
take it anymore.
Like he had a breakdown, he had a meltdown. And he went to the
Prophet sallallahu Sallam and complaint.
And then the prophets, Allah was
seen in Spain.
He asked for the prophets, while he asked the prophets I was having
to make the offer his mother.
And see it has been the preface of the summer made the offer for his
mother, and he went back home.
That's what the report says that when he went back home, he heard
like, you know, someone making a request or something, you
hear the sound of water, running water. And then she came out after
that. And she said, bla bla
bla,
so of course, if you can't imagine how happy he was, he went back to
the Prophet SAW Salem, and asked him to make the app, you know, for
him and his mother, that Allah would make them beloved to the
believers and the promises are made for him. So up until now, we
are basically narrating this story, or this, you know, this
loving relationship between Abby Herrera and his mother.
And that is why you know, it is very important for people who have
difficult parents to be patient, patient, patient, make dua, be
patient until Allah subhanaw taala softens their heart. And even if
they if you have like, basically non Muslim parents
and they don't completely
make it to, you know,
salvia salvation, survival in the hereafter. Allah will soften their
heart if you consistently show kindness and grace to them.
Just be like Abu Hurayrah in her way when it comes to his
relationship with his mother try it these things work, they just
need patience. We lose patients very quickly. Just be more
patient.
Then the Hadith in the middle that we escaped the Imam Bukhari
Ragamala set
concatenate Abul no I'm Cara Davina. So piano and APA
administer a Barnaby and in America, McAfee and Abdullah have
Nam Khan. They aren't alone in an OBE SallAllahu Sallam Yoba Yahoo
and Hijra Botanica boy he up here procardia Amo Ecomax applicator
of the Lebanon reset man came to the Prophet SAW Salem May Allah
salAllahu Alaihe Salam
and he wanted to give him the pledge of Hedra. He wanted to
emigrate on Medina. But he left his parents crying,
and the Prophet sallallahu sallam.
When he heard this, when the Prophet sallallahu Sallam or that
he left his parents in tears, said to him what you know how great the
Hydra to the prophets also known as you know the reward of the
hydrograph
the honor and making Hedra
to the Prophet SAW Salem, but despite that because he left his
parents in tears, he said go back to them and make them laugh as you
made them
cry
not just, you know comfort them, but make them laugh reversal.
to reverse it all the way the 180 You know, and don't fall short of
this. It's not just that, okay, I came back,
you know, no. And that's what people do, okay? And like, I don't
want you to go to this place or that place, okay, all sit here.
Now you want to show them that you are doing it
lovingly.
And, and this hobby, you know, this is a very important topic.
And there is something also to learn about this.
From the chain of narration actually
this hadith was reported from of the lab nanometer, right.
And then if you go down from here, it's reported from Abu and I
from Sofian.
From Arthur evanesce.
From his father, his father is Malik.
Okay, to this generation,
this is a hobby. This is Victor.
This is Sophia, this is a piano 13. That's another one who goes
through the roof like, like a laser like Chaga.
Even though he goes through the roof, to show you the precision of
the scholars of Hadith, they say can I odorless be used sometimes
do false attribution. Also, attribution means what he would
report from his shave through another person without mentioning
the other person. Like he would report from author through someone
without mentioning
the other one.
But he is reporting from his shave through someone that he felt to be
trustworthy. And then he would not say that he would not say he told
me, he would say I'm an alpha parameter. Once the MO Dallas says
I'm from, they become a little bit
doubtful,
reserved with his report.
But if the model is who's truthful, because keep in mind,
this was an emerging science. So it's not like everybody agreed
that you can do this. He is reporting and that's why it has an
advisory has an advisory was mandalas. Yeah, he would report,
you know, through people that he would not mention. And then he
like he would say that we you know, when I don't mention the
narrator, I have heard that from 70. narratives.
That's why he would skip and not mentioned them.
So these were great scholars, but that is the amount of precision
that they had when they address those issues. So if you can, app
and I am is. So
still, despite that, at least he is still someone you know.
There is a difference between him and Hadith.
And M in general. So Sofia, in general is greater than Java.
But maybe Sharma is a greater than Hadees. That's very easy to
comprehend right. Now, no problem at all very, very easy to
comprehend, maybe Sharp has greater hobbies. So if you can, in
general is greater than problem.
So, these are the path. The problem is here, Arthur Evans said
artha when he became older
he started to mix things up a little bit.
And so that weekends, the chain a little bit, however the say that
poor people's and Java her madness Allah Muhammad Yunus aid poor
people reported from Allah when he was younger.
More people reported from on top when he was younger, including
Sophia. So that would give you more confidence in Sophia and from
other someone else who reported for Martha when he was older, you
would be less confident, but Sophia Informatica to hear her the
fermata when he was younger, and more competent. Remember in the
last Hadith, we said about the Egyptian chain side of Nabila,
Caledonia XID
And the length of Mossad
I told you how great life was. This is part of His greatness.
Part of his greatness is that he's reporting from Sidon Abbey Hillel
through a medium. And that's why the chain got a little bit longer
than the money chain. The length of Nissan was born in 94. They had
175. So he didn't be allowed by than 135. When Syedna be allowed
by God was how old 41 years old
41 he was a scholar, not a student of knowledge. It's not like sight
of Nabila did not hear from it's not like a laser did not hear from
sight of NaVi Hidin. He heard and reported directly from sight of
Nabila. However, he started to put Faraday in his aide who died in
139. He started to place crowded immunisation, like he would hear
the Hadith from side and he would hear it from Pilate from side and
he would report it with this is we have the high chain and the low
chain. It's not that it is not an ASIC or Safford or Hobbit. So now
he's reporting through our medium, you know how,
how key in the world to reports from the older Messiah and to
shorten the chain. Shortening the chain may happen. It's not it is
certainly a plus. But for amazingness out there because he
was a puppy. He was a puppy. What mattered to him more is precision.
Accuracy. He knew that he needed the money as he was more
acquainted with the hadith of side of Nabila, closer to side.
So he would report their Hadith through Hara demeanors it through
sided Navi hval Because this was a closer student side of Nabila and
more acquainted with his or her and more accurate in verifying the
stronger hadith of side of Nabila.
So it's not simply that this is good, this is good. They were
looking at it more closely than this, you know, they did not, you
know,
it's like, their examination of these things, was a lot more
nuanced, a lot more complicated, a lot more granular than you may
think. Now, this Hadees, in this hadith,
says, go back to them and make them laugh as you made them cry.
There is a version of this hadith reported by Al Bukhari and Muslim
where the Prophet sallallahu Sallam A man came to him to do to
do jihad. Is it the same Hadith? It's, it could be? Maybe not, but
maybe it's the same Hadith. So the man came, you know, to do jihad,
and then he said to him, uh, hi, Yun worry that your parents are
alive. He said, Yes, he said fi methods.
So your parents are alive, he said yes. And then the Prophet
sallallahu sallam said that this is this mcdata Holly now that we
Hema
Yeah.
So if you want to translate this into English, that makes sense, it
would be strive and their service, right? Because if you say striving
them, it wouldn't make much sense in English, right? I'm not I'm not
I'm not a native speaker. So you guys tell me if you say it's
driving them, it wouldn't make that much sense privates in their
service, but it doesn't actually convey the meaning. Because the
profits that is driving them like make here Did you have about them
or them with them?
Drive you make your striving for them about them with
a fee map. So thrive in their service was not with not complete
the inveigh the meaning of this, he said this is this is your
business that this is your x exclusive work. You have to
parents, I have many fighters, your you know, and certainly it
also highlights that, you know, this lien is not a political,
basically ideology. This is a deen the Prophet sallallahu Sallam
could have used another fighter, but no, this is not what it is
what the whole thing is about. This is a deed. This is about
you
Have parents do your exclusive job.
And basically take care of your parents, this is your job.
This is your job. Because sometimes, sometimes,
you know, the desire to do a particular act of worship may come
from a subtle sickness in the heart.
A desire
or like, a focus on a particular act of worship, or focus on
learning knowledge may come from a sickness of the heart,
you're sick, that's why you're here.
Honestly,
some of you may be here because they're sick. And they want to
gain knowledge because they want to whatever subtle desires, they
have vanities they have.
I may be here because of a sickness in my heart, you know,
teaching, wanting people to listen to you. Is could be could come
from, so you're leaving what is important, you know, taking care
of your parents, you're coming for jihad. Is it about, you know, a
fascination with heroism possible? No, we're not possible. You know,
so people want to join in, they have a fascination with heroism,
they have a fascination with chivalry, heroism, they want to be
seen.
So it can come from a sickness and the prophets also enemies pointing
this out. And we have to be you know, that's why when we were
going over men, as I said in, we see how they have, you know, the,
those lights will basically show you that the bells and the
crevices of your heart and the crevices of your mind, deep there
that, you know, they they want to bring them up and make you aware
of your own
sicknesses.
Now, why do they even want Buhari to use this wording here and not
for free him Africa, the female head because he wanted to hide
because the VP hemiplegia had does not have auto administer, which
makes the Hadith a little bit less stronger than V Hema Paja head
that he reported in Lhasa because he wanted to highlight that
particular way and not It's not only enough
to obey them. No, you have to make them happy. You know, as you made
them sad, you have to go back
and make them happy.
So that's why sometimes a particular wording or a particular
formulation of the Hadith may be more impactful and they would want
to report it
that he he says kind of music and asthma before I wrap the live
normal number I'm sorry, kind of music and asthma we were Ira of
the live Nam Musa said the name of Abu Hurayrah was Abdullah Hobnob
was it
many people say it was many people say it wasn't. We have 20
different names for Abu rial.
The more common one is Abdul Rahman Vanessa.
But we have 20 Different names Roberto, why? Because he was known
by his cornea. He found that this you know, gap in the in the
wilderness and brought it home with him. Half was going around
with the cat all over the place. People call them Abu Hurayrah
and the province was not amused to
call them out the hara, which was more beloved to him vulnerable
writer.
But anyway, he that's where the name comes from. His name before
Islam was absence, likely. And that is why
there is like this, because, like he was known by a certain name
before it's when he became Muslim. And then his cornea became his
name. So everybody knew him as Abu Hurayrah to the point where his
name became controversial, like, you know, like what was his actual
name? Does this mean that our main narrative of our hobbies we don't
even know his name? No, it absolutely
That's That's our nonsense. His career became more we know the man
we know, you know all the details about the life of the man
we know about his mother, we know about his cat. It's just that
it is that his cornea became more popular than his name and that is
why it's expected for people to disagree over his actual name.
And this would bring us to the end of this particular chapter and I
was planning on going over the next one which is mistreatment of
parents or barbacoa design however, maybe we should just
leave 15 minutes for questions and answers. Start with Barbapapa
today in the next time next week in sha Allah, Allah will provide
your lecture learns that forgot to worry
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