Hasan Ali – Tips for Family Life
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And centuries and centuries, it worked like this.
Right? The man becomes the sole breadwinner of
the of everything for the house from outside.
The woman becomes the one that looks for
everything inside the house, and they this man
and woman are a unit together. Alright? It's
the same thing I saw in my my
own mother and father.
And I'm sure many of you I don't
know. If you're not as old as me,
maybe you saw saw it in your grandfather
and your grandmother.
They stuck by each other. Doesn't matter how
bad it got. But this is how they
live their lives. And I've told my son.
You know what I've said to my son?
My son's 19 years old,
and I've set him straight. I said, son,
I he's working right now. Okay? And I've
said to him, son,
I want you to find a woman who
you're gonna provide everything for her. You're gonna
you're gonna make her whole future and a
whole, you know, whole life is gonna be
something that you can guarantee for her, but
I want you to find a woman that
looks after the inside of your house. She
cooks, she cleans, she looks after your babies.
Okay? She does that and you look after
her future. So, it's a complete union and
it's been working for centuries. You know what
I've said to my 16 year old daughter?
I'm
saying this to you separately. I said to
my 16 year old daughter. I said, daughter,
she's studying at the moment. Right? She's studying
at the moment and inshallah, she'll get a
she might get a part time job and
so on. Fine. But you know what I
said to you? I said, when you find
a husband, I want you to find a
husband. That husband says, I'll provide everything for
you. You look after his house.
You do everything that he needs. Look after
his needs
and the house's needs and the children's needs,
and let him look after your future and
guarantee your protection and everything. I've said this
eye to eye. Look an eye to eye,
my daughter. You're thinking that I'm just making
this up now. I'm not making this up.
Why have I said this? Because when the
balance breaks, it goes cuckoo shape. Right? Balance
breaks, it's all * lose break. Now