Hasan Ali – Tips for Family Life

And centuries and centuries, it worked like this.

Right? The man becomes the sole breadwinner of

the of everything for the house from outside.

The woman becomes the one that looks for

everything inside the house, and they this man

and woman are a unit together. Alright? It's

the same thing I saw in my my

own mother and father.

And I'm sure many of you I don't

know. If you're not as old as me,

maybe you saw saw it in your grandfather

and your grandmother.

They stuck by each other. Doesn't matter how

bad it got. But this is how they

live their lives. And I've told my son.

You know what I've said to my son?

My son's 19 years old,

and I've set him straight. I said, son,

I he's working right now. Okay? And I've

said to him, son,

I want you to find a woman who

you're gonna provide everything for her. You're gonna

you're gonna make her whole future and a

whole, you know, whole life is gonna be

something that you can guarantee for her, but

I want you to find a woman that

looks after the inside of your house. She

cooks, she cleans, she looks after your babies.

Okay? She does that and you look after

her future. So, it's a complete union and

it's been working for centuries. You know what

I've said to my 16 year old daughter?

I'm

saying this to you separately. I said to

my 16 year old daughter. I said, daughter,

she's studying at the moment. Right? She's studying

at the moment and inshallah, she'll get a

she might get a part time job and

so on. Fine. But you know what I

said to you? I said, when you find

a husband, I want you to find a

husband. That husband says, I'll provide everything for

you. You look after his house.

You do everything that he needs. Look after

his needs

and the house's needs and the children's needs,

and let him look after your future and

guarantee your protection and everything. I've said this

eye to eye. Look an eye to eye,

my daughter. You're thinking that I'm just making

this up now. I'm not making this up.

Why have I said this? Because when the

balance breaks, it goes cuckoo shape. Right? Balance

breaks, it's all * lose break. Now