Hasan Ali – Men & Women WANT this 1 Thing
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The speaker discusses how men and women are uniting and each other as a unit. They explain that men and women are uniting because they want to be close and emotional needs are more important than physical needs. They also mention that men and women are uniting because they want to be nice to each other. The speaker believes that this is how men and women live their lives, where they become the breadwinners of everything for the house from outside.
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That's the one great thing every woman wants
from a man. Right? She wants to feel
protected, secure, and she wants to know that
the whole future is secured with you. Sisters,
am I saying the right thing? Say a
yes if it's a yes.
Thank you. Alright. Thank you. I've spoken on
behalf of you.
Now I need to speak on behalf of
my brothers.
Okay?
Now brothers,
what did you want in the marriage? Okay?
You got into the marriage. Why? Allah said
in the holy Quran in surah number 30,
aye number 21. Allah said, he has created
for you.
He created for you your spouses,
your other half, the women.
And he gives them to you. Why? Allah
says
So that you can find
one thing that you need in your life.
This one thing all men need.
Right? Men are desperate for this one thing.
What are they desperate for? Allah says,
so that you can find peace.
You understand guys? You can find peace. What
does that mean?
That means, if you look in the Quran
subhanallah, the word Suqun has come with 3
things. 3 things in the Quran.
Allah says Suqun with your wife. Another one
that Allah says
Allah
said He has made the night a means
of peace for you. And the third one
Allah says
Allah says,
Allah has created for you houses,
and then he says in that Ayah, he
said that he has made the houses and
means of your peace.
Now, think about it. House,
night,
wife,
Three things you get peace with. What does
my man want?
My man wants a woman.
And what kind of woman does he want?
He wants a woman with femininity
inside her. A woman wants a man with
masculinity
inside him. What's femininity? Let me explain this
to you sisters. This thing, a man will
go crazy for you.
And I'll give I'll come to you with
what you go crazy with with a man.
Okay? So what does a man want from
you? Man wants you to be feminine. What
does that mean? He wants that soft voice.
He wants that softness from you. He wants
that gentleness.
He wants you to be caring. He wants
you to be there for him especially
at night time. I hope you get what
I'm trying to say. Alright?
Now in return, what do the women want
from you? She wants to feel protected. She
wants you to be there for her. She
wants you to be her man,
her knight in the shining armor. Okay? She
she she wants that. Okay? Men, you know
what they feel? They feel like they're a
man with the moment they can do that
to you. They're like, this is my woman.
This is my woman. I'm gonna look after
my woman. I'm look I'm providing
for her. She's been provided by me. They
love this role. They feel like cherished and
fulfilled like it's like I'm fulfilling my role
over here. The woman loves in your nature,
you will love to be to be, you
know, looked after, protected, provided, and so on.
So if this is the case, and this
is how it was for many many many
years, and
Allah said in the holy Quran,
he gave this. So for a woman, she
wants all of this for a man, he's
got like a man has more Look, I'm
gonna tell you this. I'm gonna break it
up a little bit more because some people
might not get it. A woman wants from
a man
for her
emotional needs to be fulfilled
more than her physical needs.
Right? That's what a woman wants. She's got
a lot more emotional needs. Okay? She wants
you to be nice to her. She wants
you to be kind to her. Yes. And
all those things go together.
A man wants
more of his physical needs to be provided
more than his emotional need. This is the
this is the basic nature of men and
women. Now what happens sometimes is, if you're
not giving your feminine side, and sometimes when
you're not giving your masculine side, the whole
balance goes wrong.
And this is what we've entered. We've entered
a world where we've been pitched against each
other. It's not supposed to happen.
And honestly, I'm saying there's a lot of
marriages at stake because of this.
I have told and, wallah, I'm gonna say
to you this this this thing to you
because I actually believe in this. Alright? We've
seen it with the generations before us. For
centuries and centuries and centuries, it worked like
this. Right? The man becomes the sole breadwinner
of the of everything for the house from
outside. The woman becomes the one that looks
for everything inside the house and they this
man and woman are a unit together. Alright?
It's the same thing I saw in my
my own mother and father.
And I'm sure many of you, I don't
know, if you're not as old as me,
maybe you saw saw it in your grandfather
and your grandmother.
They stuck by each other. Doesn't matter how
bad it got. But this is how they
live their
lives.