Hasan Ali – Men & Women WANT this 1 Thing

That's the one great thing every woman wants

from a man. Right? She wants to feel

protected, secure, and she wants to know that

the whole future is secured with you. Sisters,

am I saying the right thing? Say a

yes if it's a yes.

Thank you. Alright. Thank you. I've spoken on

behalf of you.

Now I need to speak on behalf of

my brothers.

Okay?

Now brothers,

what did you want in the marriage? Okay?

You got into the marriage. Why? Allah said

in the holy Quran in surah number 30,

aye number 21. Allah said, he has created

for you.

He created for you your spouses,

your other half, the women.

And he gives them to you. Why? Allah

says

So that you can find

one thing that you need in your life.

This one thing all men need.

Right? Men are desperate for this one thing.

What are they desperate for? Allah says,

so that you can find peace.

You understand guys? You can find peace. What

does that mean?

That means, if you look in the Quran

subhanallah, the word Suqun has come with 3

things. 3 things in the Quran.

Allah says Suqun with your wife. Another one

that Allah says

Allah

said He has made the night a means

of peace for you. And the third one

Allah says

Allah says,

Allah has created for you houses,

and then he says in that Ayah, he

said that he has made the houses and

means of your peace.

Now, think about it. House,

night,

wife,

Three things you get peace with. What does

my man want?

My man wants a woman.

And what kind of woman does he want?

He wants a woman with femininity

inside her. A woman wants a man with

masculinity

inside him. What's femininity? Let me explain this

to you sisters. This thing, a man will

go crazy for you.

And I'll give I'll come to you with

what you go crazy with with a man.

Okay? So what does a man want from

you? Man wants you to be feminine. What

does that mean? He wants that soft voice.

He wants that softness from you. He wants

that gentleness.

He wants you to be caring. He wants

you to be there for him especially

at night time. I hope you get what

I'm trying to say. Alright?

Now in return, what do the women want

from you? She wants to feel protected. She

wants you to be there for her. She

wants you to be her man,

her knight in the shining armor. Okay? She

she she wants that. Okay? Men, you know

what they feel? They feel like they're a

man with the moment they can do that

to you. They're like, this is my woman.

This is my woman. I'm gonna look after

my woman. I'm look I'm providing

for her. She's been provided by me. They

love this role. They feel like cherished and

fulfilled like it's like I'm fulfilling my role

over here. The woman loves in your nature,

you will love to be to be, you

know, looked after, protected, provided, and so on.

So if this is the case, and this

is how it was for many many many

years, and

Allah said in the holy Quran,

he gave this. So for a woman, she

wants all of this for a man, he's

got like a man has more Look, I'm

gonna tell you this. I'm gonna break it

up a little bit more because some people

might not get it. A woman wants from

a man

for her

emotional needs to be fulfilled

more than her physical needs.

Right? That's what a woman wants. She's got

a lot more emotional needs. Okay? She wants

you to be nice to her. She wants

you to be kind to her. Yes. And

all those things go together.

A man wants

more of his physical needs to be provided

more than his emotional need. This is the

this is the basic nature of men and

women. Now what happens sometimes is, if you're

not giving your feminine side, and sometimes when

you're not giving your masculine side, the whole

balance goes wrong.

And this is what we've entered. We've entered

a world where we've been pitched against each

other. It's not supposed to happen.

And honestly, I'm saying there's a lot of

marriages at stake because of this.

I have told and, wallah, I'm gonna say

to you this this this thing to you

because I actually believe in this. Alright? We've

seen it with the generations before us. For

centuries and centuries and centuries, it worked like

this. Right? The man becomes the sole breadwinner

of the of everything for the house from

outside. The woman becomes the one that looks

for everything inside the house and they this

man and woman are a unit together. Alright?

It's the same thing I saw in my

my own mother and father.

And I'm sure many of you, I don't

know, if you're not as old as me,

maybe you saw saw it in your grandfather

and your grandmother.

They stuck by each other. Doesn't matter how

bad it got. But this is how they

live their

lives.