Hasan Ali – Great Idea on Marriage
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The speaker is giving advice to young men on how to have a wedding. They suggest hiring a marquee, having a party, and giving the deposit money to the couple. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of giving the deposit money to the couple to avoid wasting money on their wedding day.
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Please try and have a simple wedding. I've
got a fantastic idea which I'm gonna give
to the world. I'm gonna, Insha'Allah, start it
myself
with my son, Insha'Allah,
and my children. Insha'Allah. Say Insha'Allah. Insha'Allah. I'm
gonna save you guys a lot of money
and I'm gonna give the money back to
you guys. Are you ready for this?
Come on, man. You guys are like, you're
not even responding. Are you ready for this,
guys? Yes. Yes. Honestly, it's good for you.
Young men, young women wanna get married, and
you wanna have money as well. I'm giving
it to you. This is what you do.
Right? You know, our traditional marriage is their
higher holds out, and they will have, like,
a they will have, like, a 10,010,000
wedding, 20,000, 30,000, 40, up to 50,000, even
more than that on one day.
Why is it costing you 50,000? It's because
of all the decor. The the chairs you
know those chairs you're sitting on right now?
They cost £3 be the with the niqab
on,
with the hijab on. They cost you £3.
With the hijab off, looks a bit dirty,
cost you less. Right? You know what I'm
saying? Like, these guys know how to make
money, man. And you got then then you're
gonna have all your dishes. You're gonna have
this, that. You're gonna have the limousine coming
in. I don't know what people do. Right?
And they're gonna have they're gonna have all
the stage. They're gonna have the the people
coming together with so much food and so
on. And you're gonna have this dish, that
dish, that dish. Oh my god. And the
chicken tikka and the biryani and this and
the kebabs and what about and saag aloo?
And you can have naan, you can have
prata, and desserts about 3 different ones. You
can have a chocolate chocolate fountain out there
and, Allahu Akbar, You've just blown about 30
to £50,000
in 4 hours.
I'm gonna give you a better idea.
The better idea is this,
And hopefully, inshallah, you will see
the wisdom in this.
Right?
What you do is you hold that entire
wedding
in your house.
Okay?
Some people already like, Sheikh, my house is
too small. Sheikh. Shake. Don't even go there.
Don't even go there. I'm like, wait. Come
here. I've got a house as well. Okay.
Let me tell you how it's done. Alright?
You're gonna hire a marquee and cover your
entire back garden. Just remove the from the
way. You know what I'm trying to say?
You know you know the you know the
tumak, tember, hoddu, aldu, and all that kind
of thing that they're growing in the back
garden. You might have to, like, just just
sacrifice that for 1 year or something. But
anyway anyway, Bengalis, they have to do that.
They come to England and they have the
back garden as, you know, a bazaar. Anyway,
that's good. That's good. Okay? I'm not saying
it's bad. But, anyway, you have a marquee.
You're covered with a marquee. How many people
can you get in the downstairs of your
house and the marquee? Maybe 50. Maybe 50
max. Okay? How many people do you need
to invite? 300 people. When do you do
the wedding? You do it over a long
weekend. You start on a Friday night. You
probably go all the way till Monday if
you have to, or start on a Saturday.
Right? So long weekend, you know, you have
a bank holiday weekend. Okay? 3 days, Saturday,
Sunday, Monday. How many times you're gonna feed
people? You're gonna feed people twice. Who's gonna
come for the food? Well, 50 people for
the for lunch on Saturday?
Different 50 people for a lunch on Saturday
evening. Evening. You know what I'm trying to
say? Like, make sure those people don't stay
from the afternoon and eat twice. You know
what I'm trying to say? Like, yeah. Different
50 people on a Sunday afternoon, different people
on a Sunday evening. Monday 50, lunch and
dinner 50. SubhanAllah, how much is that?
How how many how many how many people
have a fed?
Come on. Come on, guys.
You don't have my max max. 300 people
are just fed, bro. You're gonna say, well,
that's not fun.
Right? 50. But listen, let me tell you
what happens here. Look, you know, on the
card of the wedding, what you write before
they use right now, they use they write
things like no box gifts.
The reason why they say no box is
big gifts is because there was a time
when everyone used to used to,
you know, rotate the same dishes around the
whole town. So one guy gets some dishes
and then he doesn't know he opens the
other dishes. Wrap it up again and give
him the next wedding. That's what they used
to do. What you do on your wedding
card is this. You say we are saving
£30,000
or £25,000
from this wedding, but the whole £25,000
is gonna be given to my daughter
and my son-in-law,
or my son and my daughter-in-law
for the deposit of their house.
Now is that a good idea? Tell me
yes or no. Yes. Come on, guys. Yes
or no? Yes. You guys don't even have
the deposit of a house, and they're blowing
that money on your wedding day. Are you
kind of crazy or something?
Your your houses here cost £250,000,
decent 3 bedroom house, £300,000,
and the prices are going up. And are
you telling me that you're gonna blow all
that money up before you even get the
white tea? Why is wrong with you now?
If people say, no,
I better have the full wedding.
Well, tell him to go somewhere else. Seriously.
Yeah. Allah, are you dying for that chicken
tikka? Right. You know what you're gonna have
on your menu for that wedding by the
way? You're gonna have one dish. You're gonna
have one dish. One dish. If they complain
and say, what's his one dish? Say, Allah
only written for you one dish, bro.
Right? Sister, there's only one dish written for
you today. Just have the nice dish, have
the kulfi dessert, whatever, and bye bye. Right?
You know, Allah's written that for you because
we're saving money for the future of our
son and daughter. Now if you don't wanna
give the, you know, deposit money for the
mortgage and so on,
what do you do? Hajj Hajj now is
about £10,000.
Right? Give say on the card, we're gonna
give it
£20,000 to our son and daughter. They can
do the Hajj on the 1st year. Now,
tell me this guys, is that a good
idea or not a good idea?
Yes. Right. If you like it, you're gonna
do it. Who's gonna do it? Put your
hands up.
Right. I see some meager hands going up
like Seriously, man. I'm trying to give you
your deposit money for your future house and
you're like,
4 hours is better with chicken tikka
and biryani. Okay? And a whole hole full
of all the chandeliers and everything that you
want. Anyway.