Hamzah Wald Maqbul – Sisters Ramadn Bayn Decatur IL 06112016.mp4

Hamzah Wald Maqbul
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The importance of fasting and understanding one's product is emphasized, as it is crucial for success and achieving success. The "operational component" of the person is crucial for spiritual experiences, while " pest ap credits" can lead to negative emotions. The physical and mental state of the person is linked to satisfaction, "will" is designed to make the rider feel happy, and " hesitation" is designed to activate and excite the heart. The importance of protecting oneself from the virus and not giving things that are not in one's control is emphasized, as it is important for individuals to take advantage of opportunities to protect themselves from shadow Islam and to protect others.
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Al

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and those of us in good health to

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read the salatul Tarawi.

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May He allow us to make a drak

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of Laylatul Qadr

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Hadith to the Messenger of

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Allah

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Subhanahu

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Wa

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Ta'ala.

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Allah

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Subhanahu

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Wa

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Ta'ala.

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Allah

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. Allah. Allah will,

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for that person forgive their their sins whatever

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came before.

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And obviously the the minor sins are forgiven

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just by the act of fasting, and the

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major sins are,

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forgiven

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when a person makes tovah and repents for

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them,

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on the occasion of their having fasted.

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And he gives the same beshara and glad

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tidings

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for

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the one who stands in the nights of

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Ramadan in prayer. And the Uleman say that

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this is the salatul tarawee.

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And he gives the same Bishalah to the

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person who stands the laylatul Qadr in prayer.

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May Allah give us the ability to find

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it, seek it and to to find it

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and that all of these things be accepted

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from us. Say, Ameen.

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So

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what I wanted to talk about because there

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are a lot of complaints that people have

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nowadays,

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especially

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given how hot it is outside

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and especially given how long the fast day

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is,

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and especially given how

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short the night is,

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and the fact that people have other obligations.

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They have to go to work. They have

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to go to school. They have to tend

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to their tend to their day to day

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lives.

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I wanted to talk about what the point

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of the fast is in the first place.

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So because a person when they

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know the

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value of something, the true value of something,

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then they're more willing to pay the price

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for

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it. As a salesperson,

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in order to be successful, you have to

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believe in

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yourself,

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your ability to sell the product you're selling.

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You have to believe in the product that

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it's actually a good product, and you have

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to believe that the price is a fair

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price.

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And, if somebody were to ask you for

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$1,000

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you'd say, I'm not going to give you

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$1,000 That's a lot of money. If someone

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were to tell you that there's a

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very nice and beautiful house,

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it's 4,000 square feet and it has this

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many bedrooms, this many bathrooms and it's newly

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built and everything is professionally done and it's

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only $1,000

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then people even if they didn't have the

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$1,000 they would run race to go borrow

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the money from somebody in order to buy

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that. Why? Because the price is very good

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price for what you're getting in return.

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And the fast itself is what? And in

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order to understand what the value of the

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fast is,

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a person should

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understand first of all what a human being

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is. So human being is

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for the purpose of understanding the value of

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the fast will make the mithal or the

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the likeness of a human being like a

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radio.

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Like a radio. Radio has 2 bands. It

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has a AM band and the FM band.

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And the quality of whatever you're hearing on

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the radio, the quality of sound of whatever

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you're hearing on the radio is is part

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of 2, you know, there's 2 different sides

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to what the quality of what you're going

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to hear is. 1 is how good is

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the radio.

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If it's, you know, piece of garbage radio,

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or very old and the speakers have become

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loose then the clarity of the sound of

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whatever you're gonna hear, from the other end

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is very low.

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And on the flip side, if you live

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very far from the radio station

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or the radio station itself is not putting

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out a sound of, you know, something with

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a high quality sound,

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or the radio station itself is putting

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out something that's not pleasant to listen to

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or not,

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you know, pleasing to a person to, to

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hear, then from that side,

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shortcoming as well. So in order to have

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a good experience, you have to have a

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good radio and the signal that's coming from

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the station should be a good signal. It

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should be a signal of something that you

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like.

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And just like that, the human being, their

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spiritual

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apparatus has 2 bands in it.

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There's 1 one one,

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Puwa behemia in every person and there's one

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Puwa melekiya in every person.

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Behemia means what? The word behemia in Arabic

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means an animal, like a dumb animal. Not

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in the biological sense. In the biological sense,

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all of us are animals. Right? Because we're

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not plants or fungus. Those

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fungus. Well, some of us have our moments.

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But biologically speaking, we're all animals. We're not

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talking about it in that sense. Behemoth is

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an animal like a like a a dumb

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animal and the literal meaning of the word

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dumb.

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Dumb doesn't mean stupid. That's a metaphorical meaning

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of the word dumb. Literally the word dumb

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means mute person who's not able to speak.

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So a behemoth is a dumb animal like

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a cattle or

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or a camel. It's unable to speak.

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So we have Akua behemia. There's a certain

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type of,

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a certain type of,

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you know, reality,

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to us that we share with animals.

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And, that's why biologically we also consider ourselves

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to be animals.

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They have a 4 chambered heart. Other mammals

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have a 4 chambered heart. We have a

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4 chambered heart. They have blood vessels.

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They have veins and arteries. We have veins

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and arteries. They have a brain. Our brain

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is maybe bigger than theirs by a little

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bit, but its function is largely the same.

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You know, they have, you know, even to

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the down to the musculature and to,

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you know,

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many fine details,

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with regards to the anatomy of of other

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animals. We share a lot of a lot

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of the same stuff.

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And, you know, we're animals like they're animals.

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When they get hungry, they wanna eat. When

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we get hungry, we want to eat. When

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they have other desires they wish to fulfill,

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they fulfill them just like human beings do

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as well.

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And this is part of the way Allah

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala created every person.

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So you have this apparatus, this behemi, this

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animal apparatus or animalistic apparatus inside of you.

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It's not good nor is it evil. It

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just is what it is. Right? It's not

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good nor is it evil. It's not immoral.

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Nobody

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says that a snake that eats another

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animal like a rat

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or you know sometimes many snakes actually eat

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other snakes which is kind of creepy. But,

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watch it on YouTube I guess when Ramadan

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is over if you like. But, you know,

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you're not gonna say that this snake is

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immoral for eating. Why? Because when an animal

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is hungry,

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it eats. It's not good or bad. It

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just kind of is what it is. And

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so we have all of us have that

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inside of us.

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And all of us also though have an

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angelic nature inside of us which differentiates us

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from the animals. And part of the angelic

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nature is what is that we have knowledge.

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We can think of things on an abstract

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level that transcends

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physicality.

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When somebody says to you, what is 2+2?

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Just the fact that you can ask this

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question in an abstract manner,

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it means that this question is a philosophical

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question.

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Right?

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The fact that we have any number other

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than 1 is actually a philosophical

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concept.

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Really, you know, what is 5? 5 is

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just 5 ones. The thing that exists is

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the 1. The 5 is a philosophical

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construct that we made up.

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But the angelic nature allows a person

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to function at a level of abstraction which

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transcends

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physicality and transcends

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material

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and it also allows a person to,

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ponder over

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ponder over, you know,

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moral issues, what's right? What's wrong?

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It allows a person to empathize with another.

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And that if you see something wrong happening

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to another person, you intuitively know that it's

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wrong,

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and you intuitively sympathize with that person even

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though you may never go through that same

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problem,

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ever in your life.

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This is part of the angelic nature and

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spiritual nature Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala gave to

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each person.

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And the relationship between these two natures is

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like the relationship between the AM and the

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FM band in radio.

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The FM band is obviously superior. This happens

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like in happens, like, in Chicago, for example,

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there's a news station that has a that

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runs in,

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an AM and it runs in FM. I

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don't remember what the what the, what the

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frequency

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of the station is. But if you listen

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to it in the AM, it's the exact

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same station and you flip it to the

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FM. All of a sudden the quality of

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the sound, increases manifold. Even though for a

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new station, you don't need to have, like,

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super high quality sound, You can understand exactly

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what's going on,

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you know,

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in the AM but the clarity of the

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sound is much higher. So just like the

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AM and FM bands, there's a hierarchy, there's

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a superiority of 1 over the other. Just

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like that, the 2 natures

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala gave to a human

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being, the animalistic nature and the spiritual nature,

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there's a hierarchy between them. And the hierarchy

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is what? Is the relationship like the relationship

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between a rider and his horse.

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That the horse

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the the rider rides on the horse. The

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rider is superior to the horse. If the

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rider should die, the horse is not going

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to know where to get food from. It's

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not gonna know where to get water from.

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It may die of exposure or starvation.

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It may itself get lost in the desert

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or not even have enough understanding in order

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to,

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look for where

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it might be able to escape or what

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route it might be able to escape from

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the desert is.

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But at the same time the horse is

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doing most of the work.

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The rider,

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unlike the horse is intelligent, he can think

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ahead, he can make decisions, and he can

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plan for the benefit both of the horse

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and of the rider. So your spiritual apparatus

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is like the rider.

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Your animalistic

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apparatus is like the horse.

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And one

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strange, you know, issue that human beings have,

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one strange part of the human experience is

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that sometimes we kind of misunderstand

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this relationship and the way this relationship is

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supposed to be. And so the rider thinks,

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why don't I carry the horse for a

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while? And if you ever

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were to see something like that, a man

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picking up a horse,

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it would look very ridiculous.

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And the the rider was meant to ride

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and the horse was meant to carry. If

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the rider starts carrying the horse, he's gonna

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break his back. It's gonna kill him.

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But we we do that sometimes. We get

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to we this is a tendency that happens

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in human beings that that we tend to

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get that way. And so what happens if

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anyone here is familiar with horse riding and

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I can't claim that I'm super familiar with

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it but if anyone's familiar with horse riding,

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they know that the horse is not just

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born tame

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and they won't naturally grow up being able

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to be ridden by people. They have to

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be trained and they have to be broken.

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They have to be trained and they have

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to be broken. If you don't break the

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horse, if you don't give it,

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give it a training that will,

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that may be harsh at times but that

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will teach that horse how to,

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you know, how to be able to sustain

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the rider.

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That horse might throw the rider from its

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back and kill him. You guys remember from,

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you sisters remember from some time ago, not

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too long ago, there was, the old Superman

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movies,

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the actor who played Superman, Christopher Reeves.

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It's very interesting. He played Superman in the

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movies, and he was just a normal man

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in real life, and Allah taught everybody

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that there's no such thing as Superman. He

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was riding a horse and he was thrown

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from the horse. He broke his neck and

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he lived for a couple of years

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completely paralyzed and finally he succumbed to

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the the effects of his injuries and he

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passed away. And so what happens if the

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if the if the if the horse is

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not broken,

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the horse may do something like this that,

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it cannot control itself when it's startled and

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it will arrest the rider from it and

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it will cause

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a death to its rider or severe injury

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to its rider. And that's the mythal of

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your behemi, your your your animalistic

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nature and your,

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spiritual nature. That the spiritual nature is meant

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to be the rider. It's meant to direct

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the beast of burden.

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The the the the Puah Bahimiya in every

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single one of us. It's meant to direct

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it,

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in a good direction. In a direction that's

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beneficial. In a direction that's,

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you know, brings happiness in this world and

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protects a person from harm in this world

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and will ultimately,

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win for a person's salvation and everlasting life

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in the hereafter and everlasting happiness in the

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hereafter.

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And if that relationship gets inverted,

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in any, you know, in any way, what

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ends up happening? That neither the rider is

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going to survive, the rider is gonna injure

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himself nor is the horse going to have

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a future without a rider.

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And, that's exactly what happens. And so this

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process of fasting is what? This process of

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fasting is a weakening of the

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the resolve of the,

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of the the animalistic nature and a strengthening

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of the

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resolve of the angelic nature. And the 2

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of them, they will have in their resolve

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a,

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you know,

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a a a a type of

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semi antagonistic

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relationship.

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This is the meaning of the hadith of

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the messenger of Allah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam that

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the Deen and the Dunya are like 2

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co wives.

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So this is a gathering of sisters.

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I assume that no woman who is married

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or really

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unmarried would like enjoy that her her husband

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get another wife. Right? So this is something

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the prophet

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said, what? The deen and the dunya are

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like 2 co wives. If you make one

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of them happy, it is necessary that the

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other one will be upset.

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And if you make the other one happy,

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then the first one will be upset with

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you. It's not something that like, you know,

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I don't think it's part of the human

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condition that anyone would anyone would, like,

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look forward under normal circumstances. There may be

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some exceptions, but under normal circumstances, I don't

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think it's a a situation that anyone would

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look forward to that my husband marry another

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wife and then like to see that he's

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serving her and he's doing all these things.

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He doesn't do anything for me. He doesn't

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clean up my house. He doesn't say these

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nice things. So no nobody would be happy

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about that. The din and the dunya are

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going to be like that and that's an

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Ishara

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Latifa.

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It is a subtle,

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a subtle gesture in the direction and a

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subtle allusion to

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the fact that your

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maleki and your behemi nature, your animalistic in

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your

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angelic nature, there will be some sort of

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antagonism, mild antagonism

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between them. And you can teach what happens.

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It's a hadith of the prophet sallallahu alaihi

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wa sallam, I believe it's the last of

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the 40 hadiths that Imam Nawawi

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narrates in his Arba'i Nawawiya.

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He says,

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That none of you will perfect your belief

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and tell their

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their desires are conformant to that which

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conformant to that with which I came. That

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none of you will perfect your belief until

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your desires are conformant

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to that with which I came,

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And so the idea is what? Is that

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when you break your animalistic

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desires,

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you break it in the sense that it

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no longer, it no longer will have its

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own free will.

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Rather, its will and its happiness

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will be only when this the the spiritual

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and the

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angelic side of you becomes happy.

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That's when you know that you have

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perfected your iman in Allah and His Rasool

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Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam? Because there are people who

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their physical disposition is aligned to and congruent

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with what the sharia of Sayidina Muhammad sallallahu

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alaihi wa sallam teaches. There are people physically

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when they hear the name of the prophet

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sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, it makes them happy.

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There are people physically when they hear the

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call to prayer, they feel the happiness that

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Allah Ta'ala is calling me to his meeting.

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There are people who physically,

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they feel happiness upon the side of the

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Kaaba or and upon the side of the

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masjid of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.

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There are people physically and psychologically,

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they will feel uplifted when they hear the

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sound of the Quran being

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recited.

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There are people who are physically,

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you know, there's a reaction inside of them,

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right? There's some people that they see a

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woman in hijab or they see a man

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in a beard, they physically have hatred like

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it's a visceral

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gut reaction of hatred or annoyance or anger

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or fear when they see people like that.

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And then there are people who have

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have a very viscerally positive reaction. They see

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the beard and this is the sunnah of

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Sayyidina Nabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam. They see a

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woman covering in in modesty and they say

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this is a pious person who Allah and

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His Rasool

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love. They see pork and they they they

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say, oh my some people they lick their

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lips and their mouth will water and some

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people they will vomit in disgust.

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You know,

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it's one of those things that that if

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you if you break your knaps and you

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train your knaps, you can make it conformant

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to

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what your what your mind, Right? Your mind

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There's a difference between your mind and your

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brain. Right? Your brain is a physical

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apparatus. It's a it's a it's a

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anatomical feature of the human body.

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The mind is the spiritual apparatus

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and they may have some connection with between

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the 2 of them, hopefully they have some

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connection between the 2 of them. But the

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mind is a spiritual apparatus which is the

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rational thinking part of of of your your

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spirit,

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that that that you need to be able

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to I need to we all need to

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be able to bring the

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physical body to heal underneath the mind. And

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what happens when you don't? Right? What happens

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when you don't is people then will,

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you know, commit zina and they will,

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have children out of wedlock, and those children

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will be born and raised without anyone taking

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care of them. And people will become, you

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know, drink and they'll do drugs and they'll

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become addicted to these things. They will they

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will make all sorts of poor choices that

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will make the animalistic apparatus

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happy.

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And even though the mind knows better that

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this is not gonna turn out good for

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me, like, within, like, 24, 48 hours, this

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is going to cause a lot more harm

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than the benefit that it brings.

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But because the people weren't able to break

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the animalistic

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apparatus,

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in front of the spiritual apparatus that Allah

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gave them, they'll make these poor choices again

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and again. And you don't have to even

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believe in the afilah to understand why these

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choices are poor choices.

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And when the afilah comes then we'll realize

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how truly poor those choices were.

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Wal akhiratukhayrun

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wa abuka baltukhirunal

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hayatunya

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wal akhiratukhayrun

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wa abuka

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That, nay indeed you prefer the life of

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this world even though the akhirah, even though

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the hereafter is more intense and it lasts

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forever.

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Even though the afirerah is more intense and

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it lasts forever,

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both in its good and

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in its punishments. May Allah protect us from

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its punishments.

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The idea is what is you and I,

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we need to break the animalistic

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self

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and what happens, right? The nafs is what?

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The nafs is like that. The more you

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feed it, the more it will grow.

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And

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the less you feed it,

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the the the more pliant it will become.

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And we do not believe like, you know,

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many eastern religions believe

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that the body and the physical nature of

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the soul, and it's not just Eastern religions,

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I should say, it's like

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like Aryan

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or Indo European religion believes that the body

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is inherently evil, right? This is something that

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the Christians believe.

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They believe that the flesh is born of

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sin, that man is born of sin, that

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the flesh is inherently evil and it only

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drives a person toward evil. As Muslims we

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have a much more balanced view of this

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issue.

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That the flesh and

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the physical apparatus of a person,

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if you make it your master, it will

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always pull you toward bad decision making.

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Bad decision making pulls you toward evil. It

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will always lead you toward bad decision making.

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Not because

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it in and of itself is evil,

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but because it's just a bad decision. So

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if you're a snake,

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you know, eating anything that moves, it's not

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a bad decision. It's a very rational decision

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because you're a snake. If you're a human

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being and you try to behave like a

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snake, that's a bad decision.

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And that will also lead to something that's

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immoral for you as a as a human

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being.

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So what do you need to do?

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The the the nafs, which is what we

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talk about the the the spiritual apparatus of

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a person that's more

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intimately connected with the animalistic nature.

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The nafs is not something you can do

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without. Okay?

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If we believe the physical nature was evil,

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then the most logical thing for a person

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to do, and the most

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morally upright thing for a person to do

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would be to kill themself,

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to commit suicide. Why? Because you're evil. By

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killing yourself, you purge your evil from this

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world.

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And indeed there are,

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there are several

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traditions that

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that, that actually advocate for that. Right? There's

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a religion in India called Jainism

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and the highest the highest, virtue that a

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person can can do from amongst deeds and

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Jainism is that you strip yourself naked, you

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walk into the forest and you starve yourself

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to death.

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Death because you kill yourself and starve why?

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Because you don't wanna harm another living being

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in order to sustain your life. We don't

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believe like that.

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Dunya khulatatlakum

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wa antukulatul

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lil akhirah Allah ta'ala's Messenger salallahu alaihi wa

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sallam told us what?

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The dunya was created for you. Go eat

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and drink from it. Go enjoy it. It

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was created for you. But remember that you

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were created for the akhirah, you weren't created

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for the dunya. So we don't have this

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we don't have this extremism. Right? Like even

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in Christianity,

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for example,

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you know, their highest

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forms of of of devotion to God involve

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celibacy,

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they involve

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vows of silence, fasting, monasticism. These are things

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that are actually forbidden in our, in our

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religion.

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And people people did those things why? To

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totally kill and destroy

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their nafs because they thought that the nafs

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was inherently evil. Now tell me something, if

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the most morally upright and virtuous of of

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this Ummah,

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if all of us became celibate, then there

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would be the next gen next generation of

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moral morally upright people. Nobody,

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like, we we genetically,

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like, you know, give the Darwin award to

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piety. So piety is a baquasi

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nonsense type of

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of of genetic predisposition.

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And so let's just like, you know, remove

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them from the gene pool. And that's actually

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what's happened in in in in some society.

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In fact, that's a different topic. I don't

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wanna go down that that that that road.

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But the thing is that what? That,

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you know, if everybody were to do that,

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if they were to be celibate and withdraw

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from society and not participate in society anymore,

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then what would happen? The marketplaces,

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the hospitals, the streets,

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the governments, the the,

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schools, all of these things would be left

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to the people who have no care about

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the the afirah at all. And what will

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that do? It will perpetuate an evil future

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for us.

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And this is not the sunnah of the

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prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, this is not

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the way of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa

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sallam. And honestly, this is the easy way.

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This way is easy, it's a cop out.

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This is one of the reasons why fasting,

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the said, Abdullah ibn Amr ibn Asir radhiallahu

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alaihi wa ta'ala an hooma. He asked the

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Prophet

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about fasting, and the Prophet

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told him to fast on the Ayam al

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Abir on the white days, 3 days every

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month. He says, I can do more. He

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says, You Rasool Allah, I can do more.

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So the Prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam told him,

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fast

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every Monday Thursday.

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He said, You Rasool Allah, I can do

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more. What did he tell him? He says,

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fast

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every fast

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of Dawud alaihis salam which is every other

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day.

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And the idea is that the person who

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fasts every other day, they'll have written for

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them the reward of having fasted

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every day. Because fasting every every other day

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is actually harder than than than fasting every

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day. If you fast every day, your disposition

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will become accustomed to it. You'll adjust your

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schedule that you'll sleep at certain times and

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you'll wake up at certain times and you'll,

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you know, you'll eat certain food. You adjust

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yourself to it. And so the difficulty is

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gone. The path of our Nabi salallahu alaihi

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wa sallam is harder than the path of

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monasticism.

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Because even if it's difficult to live a

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life of celibacy, and it's difficult to live

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a life

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of of abstinence and it's difficult to live

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a life of

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of of, you know, of fasting every day

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and it's difficult to live a life of

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withdrawal from the dunya. If you did it,

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you will eventually become accustomed to it. Sooner

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rather than later, you will become accustomed to

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it and that will become your life for

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you. But the Nabi

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his sunnah

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is is is even more narrow and more

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constricted and more difficult,

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of a path to take than that path.

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Why? Because we have to

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we have to get,

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the upper hand

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of the angelic self over the animalistic self,

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and then we have to go and and

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and uh-uh bring that

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angelic nature into society in order to make

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it better.

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And we need to still mix with the

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people, and we still need to, go to

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work, and we still need to have children,

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and raise children. We still I mean this

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is a superiority. Imagine

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the Christians and the Muslims as well but

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for different reasons. We hold up Sayyidha, Sayyidha

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Maryam alaihis salam

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as being a model of virtue, as being

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a model of virtue. And the Christians specifically

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one

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of the virtues of Sayyidha Mariam

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that they hold up is what? That she's

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the virgin Mary. That she's the virgin Mary.

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That she was

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a virgin.

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Even though according to their tradition, she marries

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and and according to rewaiyat and our tradition

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as well, she gets married after saying that

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Isa alaihi salam, is born. But she was

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she was a virgin up until that point.

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He was born from a virgin birth, alayhis

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salaam.

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Now tell me whose maqam is higher? Whose

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maqam is higher? Right? The one who was

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who never who never

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consummated a marriage,

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and she was a virgin until a certain

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point and then afterwards she get she got

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married and lived a normal life. Or somebody

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like Saydai Aisha

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who was 18 at the time of the

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prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam's passing away from

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this world.

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She was what? She was 18 at the

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time of the prophet. She was a teenager

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when the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam passed

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away from this world. And her she married

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him and her marriage was consummated.

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And by the text of the Quran, she

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was not allowed to or able to marry

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anyone else and she lived until a great

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age, until a great age. She lived until

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her sixties,

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Who whose virtue is higher? The one who

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who was a virgin after who was a

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virgin after having never

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consummated a marriage or the one who had

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who had experienced that life and experienced that

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that experience and then afterward had so much

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control over their nafs that that that she

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never, went back to it and never complained

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about it ever in her life. This is

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the difference between the path of Sayna Muhammad

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Sallallahu

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Alaihi Wasallam and

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the other paths. It's more difficult. It requires

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more control over yourself.

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And this is what the fasting does. The

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fasting, what does it do?

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It's like breaking the horse. You don't let

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the horse run wild. You don't let the

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horse order you around or take you wherever

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it wants to go. You're the rider. You're

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the one who should tell the horse where

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to go. And when the horse acts up,

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it needs to be it needs to be

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sent back to training. It needs to be

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sent back to being broken. And this happens

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to every single one of us that when

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the year passes by,

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our nafs

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you know,

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month by month, day by day, week by

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week, the nafs gets a little bit more

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out of tune with what it's supposed to

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be doing.

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And so now in this time, we say

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to it what? We say to it, pipe

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down. We're sick and tired of hearing you.

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Always saying I wanna eat this. Always saying

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I wanna do this. Always saying I'm

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arguing with so and so, and I'm having

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a fight with so and so, and I'm

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upset with so and so, and I'm jealous

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with so and so. And, my you know

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you know,

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obsessing about obsessing about material things and obsessing

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about, you know, so and so clothes and

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so and so's car and so and so's

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house and all of these things. This is

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nonsense.

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These things are all perishing. They're all perishing

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from this dunya.

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Nice car the nicest car you buy. You

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can buy the most a 100,000, 200, $300,000

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car. It's not it's not nobody's going to

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pay even $1,000 for it in 10 years.

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That's the way this that's the way this

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duniya works.

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It's not even something you have to, like,

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wake up the yama in order to understand

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that that's the way it is. You have

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to be able to reorient yourself and focus

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on those things that last forever

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in order to understand how important they are

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and in order to stop focusing on those

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things that are going to perish because you

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know, the thing that's finite

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is nothing in comparison to the thing that's

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infinite. If any of you have taken calculus

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before, you do limits or whatever. Sometimes you

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do a limit of a fraction. Right? So

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you end up with a with a with

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a with a fraction.

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The numerator of which is in is, infinity

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and the denominator of which is a finite

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number. Or the numerator of which is a

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is is a finite number and the denominator

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of which is infinity?

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If you have like 2 over infinity and

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then 4 over infinity, which one is a

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bigger number?

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2 over infinity or 4 over infinity? Which

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one is a bigger number? Both of them

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are 0. Both of them are basically they're

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they're they're they're they're infinitesimal.

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It doesn't matter anymore. Right? So what does

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it matter if you drove a Toyota or

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you drove a Lexus in the Denia?

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Does that actually have anything to do with

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your worth as a human being? Has absolutely

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nothing to do with your worth as a

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human being.

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There are people, forget about driving cars, there

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are people who don't own cell phones, there

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are people who are in refugee camps somewhere

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in the world. Right? The person who has

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quality,

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He he he he doesn't care about what's

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the way you look. He doesn't care about

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your body, your physical,

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makeup.

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He doesn't care about your

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wealth. How are you gonna impress Allah to

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Allah with your with your car? He made

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the entire heavens and the earth from nothing.

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How are you going to impress him? He

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doesn't care about any of those things. But

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what does he do? He looks inside of

00:31:02 --> 00:31:03

your heart and if he sees somebody

00:31:04 --> 00:31:06

whose heart he he loves, then he he

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has

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and it comes in the hadith of the

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prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. He has

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he has he's been soft and he's delicate

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and caring and nurturing

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for for that person, with that person.

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We have to understand that these are things

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that, you know, people might say, okay, we

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came on a Friday, a fast day. We

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have other things to do. It's not like

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this guy is giving us news flash that,

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that,

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you know, your, you know, your heart matters

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more than your property and your wealth. But

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the fact of the matter is still we

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have to remind one another and we have

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to say it to one another again and

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again. And it's an act of piety to

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say it again and again to yourself and

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to say it to others again and again.

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Why? Because the counter message is being said

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again and again and again. The counter message

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is being said again and again and again

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both on the tongue and and and through,

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subtle isharah, like through microaggressions

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that, that are perpetrated on people of, of

00:32:00 --> 00:32:03

belief from the dunya and from Shaikhan,

00:32:04 --> 00:32:07

you know, throughout the day, through advertising and

00:32:07 --> 00:32:10

through subtle innuendos people make, comments people make,

00:32:10 --> 00:32:11

things people say

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by non Muslims and by unfortunately Muslims as

00:32:15 --> 00:32:17

well. In fact, some of the the the

00:32:17 --> 00:32:19

most fierce advocacy

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of

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of of materialism

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happens from Muslims, maybe from our own relatives

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sometimes.

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And the fact of the matter is we

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have draw a line. You don't have to

00:32:28 --> 00:32:30

get into an argument with your relatives but

00:32:30 --> 00:32:31

inside of your heart you have to draw

00:32:31 --> 00:32:33

a line. You have to say no. I

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no. I refuse to,

00:32:35 --> 00:32:36

be one of those people

00:32:37 --> 00:32:39

who values my own self worth based on,

00:32:39 --> 00:32:41

like, material things. I refuse it.

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And if there's a,

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you know, the a really beautiful example of

00:32:47 --> 00:32:47

why

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your value is not based on your materialism,

00:32:51 --> 00:32:51

it's Ramadan,

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because you don't even drink during the day,

00:32:54 --> 00:32:56

you don't indulge any of your shahawat during

00:32:56 --> 00:32:58

the day, you're not supposed to look at

00:32:58 --> 00:32:59

the haram, you're not supposed to listen to

00:32:59 --> 00:33:01

the haram, you're not supposed to see the

00:33:01 --> 00:33:03

haram. On top of that, the couple of

00:33:03 --> 00:33:05

hours you have in the evening, right, you

00:33:05 --> 00:33:07

spend listening to the book of Allah

00:33:08 --> 00:33:10

which was revealed for free, and it was

00:33:10 --> 00:33:12

propagated for free and it was taught for

00:33:12 --> 00:33:14

free, and it's read in the salatul Tarawih

00:33:14 --> 00:33:16

for free. This is one of the most

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disgusting

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and ugly innovations that that that we've picked

00:33:20 --> 00:33:23

up as a community this time is that

00:33:23 --> 00:33:25

now they even paid the the the the

00:33:25 --> 00:33:27

the Quran reciter for

00:33:29 --> 00:33:32

a salary for reciting, which is Haram according

00:33:32 --> 00:33:34

to majority of the, majority

00:33:35 --> 00:33:37

of the Ulema. It's nothing wrong with giving

00:33:37 --> 00:33:38

a gift to somebody

00:33:39 --> 00:33:41

or recognizing that somebody spent their time,

00:33:42 --> 00:33:45

you know, preparing the recitation of the Quran

00:33:45 --> 00:33:46

and Salatul Taraweeh.

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In fact, it's good because we have to

00:33:49 --> 00:33:51

have common sense that if we starve the

00:33:51 --> 00:33:54

people who who bring us this benefit, then

00:33:54 --> 00:33:56

we're not gonna have that benefit anymore. But

00:33:56 --> 00:33:59

contractually to say, I will recite

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and you have to give me this much

00:34:01 --> 00:34:02

money and I'll recite in that. This is

00:34:02 --> 00:34:03

something that is completely

00:34:04 --> 00:34:06

it's completely haram. And it's very interesting. People

00:34:06 --> 00:34:07

a lot of people, if you tell them,

00:34:07 --> 00:34:08

well, what's the difference between giving someone a

00:34:08 --> 00:34:10

gift the end of it at the end

00:34:10 --> 00:34:12

of the recitation of the Quran versus just

00:34:12 --> 00:34:14

writing it down in a contract. And the

00:34:14 --> 00:34:16

subtlety of difference between the 2 of them

00:34:16 --> 00:34:18

is like the difference between someone's wife and

00:34:18 --> 00:34:19

someone's girlfriend.

00:34:19 --> 00:34:22

For a person who's not who doesn't, you

00:34:22 --> 00:34:23

know, not attuned to spiritual,

00:34:24 --> 00:34:26

matters, the 2 of them may look very

00:34:26 --> 00:34:28

similar. You go out to dinner with 1,

00:34:28 --> 00:34:29

you go out to dinner with the other,

00:34:30 --> 00:34:32

and you have this relationship with 1, and

00:34:32 --> 00:34:34

you have this relationship with the other. Even

00:34:34 --> 00:34:36

though one of them is something that Allah

00:34:36 --> 00:34:38

Ta'ala sanctions and and and blesses and is

00:34:38 --> 00:34:40

happy with and is pleased with and the

00:34:40 --> 00:34:42

other is part of the road to

00:34:47 --> 00:34:49

Indeed, it's a gross,

00:34:49 --> 00:34:50

indecency.

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And what an evil path it is, what

00:34:52 --> 00:34:53

an evil path it is.

00:34:54 --> 00:34:57

But there's a difference between these things. And

00:34:57 --> 00:34:59

you, you know, when you're fasting and in

00:34:59 --> 00:35:00

the month of Ramadan,

00:35:00 --> 00:35:02

you realize that despite your

00:35:03 --> 00:35:04

turning away from the dunya,

00:35:08 --> 00:35:10

saying that Salman al Farsi radiAllahu ta'ala who

00:35:10 --> 00:35:13

narrates in a long hadith regarding the virtues

00:35:13 --> 00:35:13

of Ramadan,

00:35:14 --> 00:35:15

that it is a

00:35:15 --> 00:35:17

a a a such a month

00:35:17 --> 00:35:20

that the risk, the the provision of the

00:35:20 --> 00:35:22

believer is increased in it, which is completely

00:35:23 --> 00:35:23

counterintuitive.

00:35:23 --> 00:35:26

It's the month in which the person turns

00:35:26 --> 00:35:28

away from the dunya the most. Right? Your

00:35:28 --> 00:35:30

coworkers, when you tell them I fast, like,

00:35:30 --> 00:35:31

you fast from sunset to sundown?

00:35:32 --> 00:35:34

No. Actually, it's from dawn to sundown. What

00:35:34 --> 00:35:35

does that mean? This means, like, an extra

00:35:36 --> 00:35:37

hour and 50 minutes.

00:35:38 --> 00:35:38

Okay.

00:35:39 --> 00:35:41

But you guys at least can have water.

00:35:41 --> 00:35:43

Right? No. No. Not even water?

00:35:43 --> 00:35:46

Don't you die from that? Well, apparently not

00:35:46 --> 00:35:47

because we're doing it and we're not dead

00:35:47 --> 00:35:48

yet. So,

00:35:49 --> 00:35:50

you know, like, for for a person like

00:35:50 --> 00:35:52

that, it makes no sense whatsoever. They think

00:35:52 --> 00:35:55

that you're not gonna make you're not gonna,

00:35:55 --> 00:35:57

you're not gonna make more money in this

00:35:57 --> 00:35:59

month. You're not gonna have more provision. You're

00:35:59 --> 00:36:01

not gonna enjoy yourself more. In fact, you

00:36:01 --> 00:36:02

know, whatever

00:36:02 --> 00:36:05

forecast analysts will say that the GDP of

00:36:05 --> 00:36:07

nations should plummet in this month. Even though

00:36:07 --> 00:36:09

they actually go up, there's more risk of

00:36:09 --> 00:36:12

business. This is like the holiday season. This

00:36:12 --> 00:36:14

is like the from Black Friday to to

00:36:14 --> 00:36:15

to,

00:36:15 --> 00:36:18

whatever, Boxing day season in the Muslim world.

00:36:18 --> 00:36:20

The businesses do more,

00:36:21 --> 00:36:24

the people make more money, people eat more

00:36:24 --> 00:36:26

than they eat in this month. It's a

00:36:26 --> 00:36:27

hadith the hadith of the prophet salallahu alaihi

00:36:27 --> 00:36:29

wa sallam is very clear about it and

00:36:29 --> 00:36:31

Allah makes Tasneel of it in real life.

00:36:34 --> 00:36:37

It is the month in which the provision

00:36:37 --> 00:36:39

of the believers actually increased.

00:36:40 --> 00:36:43

It's increased. Why? Because the dunya was created

00:36:43 --> 00:36:45

for your service, you were created for the

00:36:45 --> 00:36:47

akhirah, you were created for the service of

00:36:47 --> 00:36:47

Allah

00:36:48 --> 00:36:50

You do what you were made for and

00:36:50 --> 00:36:52

the dunya will come to you. And this

00:36:52 --> 00:36:54

is something that is actually empirical evidence for

00:36:54 --> 00:36:55

it in this month.

00:36:55 --> 00:36:56

And so,

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if you, if you cannot keep that behemi

00:37:00 --> 00:37:01

and that

00:37:02 --> 00:37:02

animalistic

00:37:03 --> 00:37:05

nature in check, you cannot break it, you

00:37:05 --> 00:37:06

can't tell it. Look,

00:37:06 --> 00:37:08

you're not the one who runs things. You're

00:37:08 --> 00:37:10

not even the one that that that that's

00:37:10 --> 00:37:11

benefiting us

00:37:12 --> 00:37:12

from the 2 from the 2 of us,

00:37:12 --> 00:37:14

right? The 2 of you inside,

00:37:14 --> 00:37:17

right? The animalistic nature and the angelic nature.

00:37:17 --> 00:37:18

You're not the one who makes this ship

00:37:18 --> 00:37:19

run because

00:37:20 --> 00:37:21

this is what happens, you know, people to

00:37:21 --> 00:37:23

be practical. We're the ones who make all

00:37:23 --> 00:37:24

the money and you guys are praying all

00:37:24 --> 00:37:27

day, this is nonsense. No, it's not like

00:37:27 --> 00:37:28

that at all. It's not like that at

00:37:28 --> 00:37:30

all. And the month of Ramadan is a

00:37:30 --> 00:37:32

proof, it's a proof of of that. That

00:37:32 --> 00:37:33

that's the time that you cut off your

00:37:33 --> 00:37:35

animalistic nature the most and that's the time

00:37:35 --> 00:37:37

that you enjoy yourself most in this world.

00:37:37 --> 00:37:40

So imagine how much benefit it will be

00:37:40 --> 00:37:41

for the akhirah.

00:37:41 --> 00:37:43

Right? That's the time that you put the

00:37:43 --> 00:37:44

put the,

00:37:45 --> 00:37:46

animalistic nature in check. And let me tell

00:37:46 --> 00:37:49

you something about the animalistic nature. Like we

00:37:49 --> 00:37:51

said, we're not like the Christians. We're not

00:37:51 --> 00:37:53

like the people of the Indic religion that

00:37:53 --> 00:37:55

believe that the the the physical body is

00:37:55 --> 00:37:57

evil and that the highest moral virtue is

00:37:57 --> 00:38:00

to kill it or destroy it. Rather, we

00:38:00 --> 00:38:02

say, when a person works on the nafs

00:38:02 --> 00:38:05

long enough, fasts for enough months, prays enough

00:38:05 --> 00:38:06

tahajjud,

00:38:06 --> 00:38:08

makes enough zikr on their tongue and inside

00:38:08 --> 00:38:10

of their heart, and does all of these

00:38:10 --> 00:38:11

things enough

00:38:11 --> 00:38:13

wakes up for fajr again and again, one

00:38:13 --> 00:38:15

day will come, your alarm won't go off,

00:38:15 --> 00:38:17

you'll wake up anyway because that's just your

00:38:17 --> 00:38:20

animalistic nature becomes accustomed to that. The one

00:38:20 --> 00:38:23

who reads the Hajjd everyday, that person impossible

00:38:23 --> 00:38:23

for them to misfajr.

00:38:24 --> 00:38:27

Right? Your nature will become like the hadith

00:38:27 --> 00:38:28

of the Prophet SAW. Your hawaii will literally

00:38:28 --> 00:38:30

become your desires will become

00:38:40 --> 00:38:42

the greatness of the deen in your life

00:38:42 --> 00:38:44

and you'll start seeing great results. But if

00:38:44 --> 00:38:46

you never get there and you're always

00:38:47 --> 00:38:48

struggling with your animalistic

00:38:49 --> 00:38:52

nature, that struggle Allah indeed rewards you for

00:38:52 --> 00:38:54

it. But that struggle is not the the

00:38:54 --> 00:38:57

the the goal of Islam. That struggle is

00:38:57 --> 00:38:58

the prerequisite

00:38:58 --> 00:39:01

for living the life that the Sahaba and

00:39:01 --> 00:39:01

that our pious

00:39:02 --> 00:39:04

predecessors lived. And if we keep

00:39:06 --> 00:39:08

bringing a very weak game in that struggle

00:39:08 --> 00:39:11

against our own selves, how will we make

00:39:11 --> 00:39:11

it to

00:39:12 --> 00:39:14

the other levels where the help of Allah

00:39:14 --> 00:39:16

Ta'ala will come down for us? How will

00:39:16 --> 00:39:17

we make it to the other levels where

00:39:17 --> 00:39:19

we will build civilization?

00:39:20 --> 00:39:21

If our greatest,

00:39:22 --> 00:39:23

what you call

00:39:23 --> 00:39:25

aspiration in life is to become a doctor

00:39:25 --> 00:39:27

or to buy a certain type of house

00:39:27 --> 00:39:29

or to buy a certain type of car,

00:39:29 --> 00:39:30

How will we make how will we make

00:39:30 --> 00:39:32

civilization like our forefathers did?

00:39:33 --> 00:39:35

Right? We have a our civilization at one

00:39:35 --> 00:39:37

time used to make everything. Right?

00:39:37 --> 00:39:40

The literally the mathematics needed in order to

00:39:40 --> 00:39:41

run your GPS, it's all

00:39:42 --> 00:39:44

by Muslim ulama that the the the the

00:39:44 --> 00:39:47

the research that they did and the the

00:39:48 --> 00:39:50

uh-uh work they did on mathematics in order

00:39:50 --> 00:39:51

to be able to find the qibla from

00:39:51 --> 00:39:54

different parts of the world. We had civilization

00:39:54 --> 00:39:55

and now what do we have? Now we're

00:39:55 --> 00:39:56

all chasing the dunya.

00:39:57 --> 00:39:59

How weak is our civilization? There's not one

00:39:59 --> 00:40:01

airline in the entire

00:40:01 --> 00:40:03

world that I've ever seen that even has

00:40:03 --> 00:40:05

a lota on the airplane. That's how how

00:40:05 --> 00:40:08

how weak our civilization has become

00:40:08 --> 00:40:10

in order to implement its values. We cannot

00:40:10 --> 00:40:12

even clean ourselves properly in public places after

00:40:12 --> 00:40:14

using the bathroom. How are we gonna be

00:40:14 --> 00:40:16

able to so it's a Sheikh. How am

00:40:16 --> 00:40:17

I gonna have a lot on the airline?

00:40:17 --> 00:40:19

You know how much an airplane costs? A

00:40:19 --> 00:40:20

Boeing 787

00:40:20 --> 00:40:22

costs cost 100 of 1,000,000 of dollars just

00:40:22 --> 00:40:24

one airplane, and you cannot run an airline

00:40:24 --> 00:40:26

on an airplane. You have to hire staff.

00:40:26 --> 00:40:28

You have to hire, you know, you have

00:40:28 --> 00:40:29

to have international trade

00:40:30 --> 00:40:32

connections, you have to have this license from

00:40:32 --> 00:40:34

several different governments, you have to have blah

00:40:34 --> 00:40:36

blah blah all of these things. Yes. How

00:40:36 --> 00:40:37

are you gonna build anything on that level?

00:40:37 --> 00:40:40

How are you gonna reach tawfiq from Allah

00:40:40 --> 00:40:42

to Allah with anything on that level? How

00:40:42 --> 00:40:44

are you going to train people who memorize

00:40:44 --> 00:40:47

over a 100,000 hadith, mathir, and sanit? That

00:40:47 --> 00:40:48

person is like a walking computer. How are

00:40:48 --> 00:40:49

you gonna

00:40:50 --> 00:40:51

how are you gonna have nation states in

00:40:51 --> 00:40:53

which in which the poor are taken care

00:40:53 --> 00:40:55

of? How are you gonna have nation states

00:40:55 --> 00:40:57

in which the rights of minorities are taken

00:40:57 --> 00:40:58

care of? How are you gonna have,

00:40:58 --> 00:41:01

a masajid in which the the adhan is

00:41:01 --> 00:41:03

called and in which people learn about their

00:41:03 --> 00:41:05

deen and they learn about, about the material

00:41:05 --> 00:41:07

sciences of this world. How are you gonna

00:41:07 --> 00:41:09

have that complete way of life that's implemented

00:41:09 --> 00:41:12

like our forefathers implemented it if we cannot

00:41:12 --> 00:41:14

even get our own nufus under control. This

00:41:14 --> 00:41:15

is a shame of the time we live

00:41:15 --> 00:41:16

in. Even our ulema,

00:41:17 --> 00:41:19

Allah forgive us and

00:41:19 --> 00:41:21

forgive them as well That that even our

00:41:21 --> 00:41:23

ulama are people that that right now the

00:41:23 --> 00:41:25

pool of the dunya has attracted them so

00:41:25 --> 00:41:27

much that they're struggling with these things. How

00:41:27 --> 00:41:29

can we get there until we break the

00:41:29 --> 00:41:32

nafs itself? And when you understand that that's

00:41:32 --> 00:41:33

the price you need to pay in order

00:41:33 --> 00:41:35

to receive the help of Allah Ta'ala and

00:41:35 --> 00:41:37

receive the tawfiq of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala,

00:41:38 --> 00:41:39

then you realize

00:41:40 --> 00:41:42

that fasting for a couple of days not

00:41:42 --> 00:41:44

such a big deal, it's not such a

00:41:44 --> 00:41:45

bad thing.

00:41:45 --> 00:41:47

Now that's the concept I've

00:41:48 --> 00:41:50

spoken about. I'm pretty sure it's not a

00:41:50 --> 00:41:53

new concept to anybody, and I'm pretty sure

00:41:53 --> 00:41:53

that,

00:41:54 --> 00:41:56

you know, it's not a a surprise for

00:41:56 --> 00:41:57

anybody what,

00:41:57 --> 00:41:59

what was said. But the bonus round on

00:41:59 --> 00:42:01

top of it is what? Is that we

00:42:01 --> 00:42:04

are just like physically, if you're if you're

00:42:04 --> 00:42:06

in hot heat, you'll start to sweat. If

00:42:06 --> 00:42:08

you're in extreme cold, you'll start to shiver.

00:42:08 --> 00:42:10

You get affected by by by external,

00:42:12 --> 00:42:14

environments. Right now we've talked about the radio.

00:42:14 --> 00:42:15

We're not talking about the station.

00:42:16 --> 00:42:18

Right? That there are stations out there that

00:42:18 --> 00:42:19

are putting out different signals that are affecting

00:42:19 --> 00:42:21

our spiritual apparatus as well.

00:42:22 --> 00:42:24

Now we've talked about, you know, how the

00:42:24 --> 00:42:26

spiritual self should break the physical self so

00:42:26 --> 00:42:27

that it can ride the physical self and

00:42:27 --> 00:42:29

the physical self will then carry it to

00:42:29 --> 00:42:31

do these great things and will serve it,

00:42:31 --> 00:42:33

and it will become part of part of

00:42:33 --> 00:42:36

the, person's physical nature. Right? Because there are

00:42:36 --> 00:42:38

certain people, people a lot created them with

00:42:38 --> 00:42:40

different dispositions. One of the things that we

00:42:40 --> 00:42:42

have a mistake about regarding piety

00:42:43 --> 00:42:44

is that we think that piety,

00:42:45 --> 00:42:47

nowadays, we follow the Christian model of piety

00:42:47 --> 00:42:49

which is what? That a pious person is

00:42:49 --> 00:42:51

someone with a strong angelic self and a

00:42:51 --> 00:42:54

weak animalistic self. Which is whereas this is

00:42:54 --> 00:42:57

obviously a type of piety that's mashaAllah, if

00:42:57 --> 00:42:59

Allah gives it to us, it's it's a

00:42:59 --> 00:43:00

great blessing.

00:43:00 --> 00:43:02

But the piety of the prophet sallallahu alaihi

00:43:02 --> 00:43:04

wa sallam and the sahaba radiAllahu anhu wasn't

00:43:04 --> 00:43:06

like that. The piety of the prophet sallallahu

00:43:06 --> 00:43:08

alaihi wa sallam, the sahaba radiAllahu anhu was

00:43:08 --> 00:43:10

one of a person having a strong

00:43:10 --> 00:43:11

animalistic

00:43:11 --> 00:43:14

nature and a strong spiritual nature. And they

00:43:14 --> 00:43:16

were but both of them were in harmony

00:43:16 --> 00:43:17

with one another. They weren't fighting with one

00:43:17 --> 00:43:19

another that one day I feel like I

00:43:19 --> 00:43:21

wanna be Hafiz of Quran and the other

00:43:21 --> 00:43:23

day I'm trying to, like, stop myself from

00:43:23 --> 00:43:24

overeating or the other day I'm trying to

00:43:24 --> 00:43:27

stop myself from indulging my other desires. Right?

00:43:27 --> 00:43:29

No. The the desire has actually become that

00:43:29 --> 00:43:31

person has that same type of physical animalistic

00:43:31 --> 00:43:33

desire but they have the desire for good,

00:43:33 --> 00:43:36

not for evil. That that, you know, they

00:43:36 --> 00:43:37

have the desire for good and not for

00:43:37 --> 00:43:40

evil. That's what that's what the the the

00:43:40 --> 00:43:42

piety, the Sahaba Radiallahu Anhum was and it

00:43:42 --> 00:43:44

has a superior superiority

00:43:44 --> 00:43:46

over the the piety of a person who

00:43:46 --> 00:43:48

has a strong angelic nature and a weak

00:43:48 --> 00:43:51

animalistic nature even though there's khair in that

00:43:51 --> 00:43:54

as well. But coming coming forth going forward

00:43:54 --> 00:43:55

from that,

00:43:55 --> 00:43:57

right, that there are

00:43:57 --> 00:44:00

spiritual influences around a person all over the

00:44:00 --> 00:44:02

place. There is something mentioned in the Quran.

00:44:03 --> 00:44:05

Right? Al Mala ul A'ala. Right? And it's

00:44:05 --> 00:44:06

mentioned in the hadith of the prophet

00:44:08 --> 00:44:09

Alaihi which is literally

00:44:10 --> 00:44:12

translates to the highest council which is what

00:44:13 --> 00:44:15

the angels that are that are in the

00:44:15 --> 00:44:17

highest part maqam of Jannah, that the angels

00:44:17 --> 00:44:19

are very numerous in in type and in

00:44:19 --> 00:44:21

nature and in rank. And it comes in

00:44:21 --> 00:44:22

the hadith of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa

00:44:22 --> 00:44:24

sallam that there are angels, they have ranks

00:44:24 --> 00:44:27

higher, some of them are and higher ranks

00:44:27 --> 00:44:29

over the others. The angels and the spirits

00:44:29 --> 00:44:30

that are in the highest rank in the

00:44:30 --> 00:44:32

creation of Allah Ta'ala and they're called Al

00:44:32 --> 00:44:35

Mala Ul A'la. Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala assigns

00:44:35 --> 00:44:36

to them

00:44:36 --> 00:44:38

that that if he has a commandment in

00:44:38 --> 00:44:40

the world, if he wishes he makes that

00:44:40 --> 00:44:42

commandment happen directly himself and if he wishes

00:44:42 --> 00:44:44

some of them he gives to them that

00:44:44 --> 00:44:45

you make this thing happen in the world.

00:44:46 --> 00:44:48

And so what do they do? They have

00:44:48 --> 00:44:51

they they have a spiritual presence that they

00:44:51 --> 00:44:51

focus

00:44:52 --> 00:44:54

on the world that inspires people to do

00:44:54 --> 00:44:56

what's good and to do what's right. The

00:44:56 --> 00:44:58

wahi was the inspiration that came on the

00:44:58 --> 00:45:00

heart of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam directly

00:45:00 --> 00:45:02

from Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

00:45:02 --> 00:45:05

But there are other types of inspirations that

00:45:05 --> 00:45:06

come. That's why when you sit in the

00:45:06 --> 00:45:08

company of a pious person,

00:45:08 --> 00:45:11

that person's how will spiritually inspire you. And

00:45:11 --> 00:45:13

there are certain people who actually literally, even

00:45:13 --> 00:45:16

though physically they're very far away from the

00:45:16 --> 00:45:18

but they keep the company of the because

00:45:19 --> 00:45:20

in spiritual matters,

00:45:21 --> 00:45:24

physical distance doesn't mean anything. Physical proximity may

00:45:24 --> 00:45:26

be a hijab. You may have a person

00:45:26 --> 00:45:28

who lives in the family in the household

00:45:28 --> 00:45:30

of a pious person and their proximity is

00:45:30 --> 00:45:33

a hijab between that person between themselves and

00:45:33 --> 00:45:35

the piety of that person. And then maybe

00:45:35 --> 00:45:37

people are physically far from the the the

00:45:37 --> 00:45:39

Haram Sharif but their

00:45:39 --> 00:45:41

heart is with Allah ta'ala making

00:45:41 --> 00:45:42

in a moment.

00:45:43 --> 00:45:44

Or their heart is with the Rasul

00:45:45 --> 00:45:47

in a moment or in every moment.

00:45:48 --> 00:45:48

And

00:45:49 --> 00:45:51

that's the the the the spiritual world. Right?

00:45:51 --> 00:45:52

Just like you can have a conference call

00:45:52 --> 00:45:53

of, like, 15 people

00:45:54 --> 00:45:56

at the same time from disparate parts of

00:45:56 --> 00:45:58

the the the world that they're they're together

00:45:59 --> 00:46:01

even though they're physically apart, but somehow they're

00:46:01 --> 00:46:01

together.

00:46:02 --> 00:46:04

A person's heart may be like that. The

00:46:04 --> 00:46:06

more control you have

00:46:06 --> 00:46:07

over your animalistic

00:46:08 --> 00:46:08

self,

00:46:09 --> 00:46:12

the more open the receiver of your heart

00:46:12 --> 00:46:14

is to receiving the signal of the

00:46:15 --> 00:46:16

That is the signal which

00:46:17 --> 00:46:19

that that that incites and excites and drives

00:46:19 --> 00:46:21

a person toward doing what is good.

00:46:22 --> 00:46:24

And if the receiver, the mirror of your

00:46:24 --> 00:46:27

heart is polished and clean, it will receive

00:46:27 --> 00:46:30

that inspiration by day and by night. It

00:46:30 --> 00:46:32

will receive that inspiration by day and by

00:46:32 --> 00:46:34

night to the point where a person may

00:46:34 --> 00:46:36

be physically a human being but they're doing

00:46:36 --> 00:46:38

the work of an angel in this world.

00:46:39 --> 00:46:40

And there are also

00:46:41 --> 00:46:42

Right? And

00:46:42 --> 00:46:43

in his own book

00:46:45 --> 00:46:46

literally says that they also have a wahi

00:46:46 --> 00:46:47

that they have.

00:46:48 --> 00:46:49

And and it's not like the wahi of

00:46:49 --> 00:46:51

Allah ta'ala. Rather this is the wahi of

00:46:51 --> 00:46:51

shayateen.

00:46:52 --> 00:46:54

This is the inspiration and the revelation of

00:46:54 --> 00:46:56

shayateen. And there are people literally walking around.

00:46:56 --> 00:46:58

Some of them they have beards and they

00:46:58 --> 00:47:01

have topis and they have hijabs and niqabs

00:47:01 --> 00:47:03

and god knows what. But because the receiver

00:47:03 --> 00:47:05

is tuned to the wrong station,

00:47:06 --> 00:47:09

even though their their brain tells them zinai

00:47:09 --> 00:47:09

is haram

00:47:10 --> 00:47:12

eating don't eat the haram, don't be a

00:47:12 --> 00:47:13

glutton, don't be

00:47:13 --> 00:47:16

a materialistic person. But they walk around in

00:47:16 --> 00:47:18

the form of the pious

00:47:18 --> 00:47:20

but their heart is like the heart of

00:47:20 --> 00:47:22

a crocodile or the heart of a snake,

00:47:22 --> 00:47:24

that they're just walking around,

00:47:25 --> 00:47:28

receiving this this signal inside of their head

00:47:28 --> 00:47:30

to do to do, you know, just to

00:47:30 --> 00:47:32

be a snake, just to be a reptile,

00:47:32 --> 00:47:34

just to, you know, feed yourself and to,

00:47:35 --> 00:47:38

just not live for anything other than than

00:47:38 --> 00:47:40

your own gratification and to do evil things

00:47:40 --> 00:47:42

and evil thoughts. Now tell me something, all

00:47:42 --> 00:47:43

of us,

00:47:43 --> 00:47:44

Our rational

00:47:45 --> 00:47:45

faculty

00:47:46 --> 00:47:46

teaches us that there's no benefit in going

00:47:46 --> 00:47:47

to the hellfire. Right? But if your if

00:47:47 --> 00:47:48

your your radio station is tuned to the

00:47:48 --> 00:47:50

wrong if your radio is tuned to the

00:47:50 --> 00:47:51

wrong station

00:47:54 --> 00:47:56

and it's receiving the wrong signal, even if

00:47:56 --> 00:47:59

you wanna do what's good, what's gonna end

00:47:59 --> 00:47:59

up happening?

00:48:00 --> 00:48:03

You're gonna receive constant suggestions to do what's

00:48:03 --> 00:48:05

bad. It's either today or tomorrow, you're gonna

00:48:05 --> 00:48:06

follow one of them, if not all of

00:48:06 --> 00:48:07

them.

00:48:07 --> 00:48:09

And even if you're a person, may not

00:48:09 --> 00:48:11

be a half of the Quran, may not

00:48:11 --> 00:48:14

be from a super religious family, may not

00:48:14 --> 00:48:16

be have the super best company in the

00:48:16 --> 00:48:17

world, may not,

00:48:18 --> 00:48:19

you know,

00:48:19 --> 00:48:21

just be a person who tends to work

00:48:21 --> 00:48:24

like, you know, piety like other people do.

00:48:24 --> 00:48:25

But if you're constantly receiving

00:48:26 --> 00:48:27

good encouragement

00:48:28 --> 00:48:28

in your heart

00:48:29 --> 00:48:32

in the spiritual realm. You're constantly receiving good

00:48:32 --> 00:48:35

encouragement and you're constantly receiving good suggestions. What's

00:48:35 --> 00:48:37

gonna end up happening? Good is gonna start

00:48:37 --> 00:48:39

looking good to you. You're gonna do some

00:48:39 --> 00:48:40

good. You may not do as much good

00:48:40 --> 00:48:42

as another person. You're gonna do something good.

00:48:42 --> 00:48:44

You're definitely not gonna do anything bad by

00:48:44 --> 00:48:45

it, are you? Not gonna harm you in

00:48:45 --> 00:48:47

any way, is it? Even to love a

00:48:47 --> 00:48:49

good deed in and of itself is a

00:48:49 --> 00:48:50

good deed. At least it will teach you

00:48:50 --> 00:48:52

the love of good deeds. And this is

00:48:52 --> 00:48:54

this is what exactly what fasting does, Right?

00:48:54 --> 00:48:56

That hour before iftar,

00:48:56 --> 00:48:58

what is a person thinking about? Right? If

00:48:58 --> 00:49:00

a person is not thinking about dunya, they're

00:49:00 --> 00:49:02

not thinking about all of these. This is

00:49:02 --> 00:49:04

why it's Makru actually did talk about

00:49:04 --> 00:49:06

food, especially as the time when we start

00:49:06 --> 00:49:08

comes because that's like that's like spiritually that's

00:49:08 --> 00:49:09

like your best hour of the day. That's

00:49:09 --> 00:49:11

like a really beautiful time.

00:49:11 --> 00:49:13

That's the time that your heart is the

00:49:13 --> 00:49:16

cleanest because the animalistic nature that hijacks your

00:49:16 --> 00:49:18

opportunity to be a good person all the

00:49:18 --> 00:49:20

time, it's been weakened. It's like, you know,

00:49:20 --> 00:49:22

you can't kill it. But as far as

00:49:22 --> 00:49:24

being alive, it's like in the weakest state

00:49:24 --> 00:49:26

that it's gonna be at. And that's the

00:49:26 --> 00:49:29

time that your heart will receive this, this

00:49:30 --> 00:49:33

good signal and this virtuous signal from the

00:49:33 --> 00:49:33

and

00:49:34 --> 00:49:36

from from from from all of the good

00:49:36 --> 00:49:38

things, from the recitation of the Quran. That's

00:49:38 --> 00:49:40

why the recitation of the Quran, the Taraweeh,

00:49:40 --> 00:49:41

is right after

00:49:42 --> 00:49:44

right after a person opens their fast. You

00:49:44 --> 00:49:45

just eat a little bit and then you

00:49:45 --> 00:49:46

go to

00:49:46 --> 00:49:49

because the good message of the Quran, when

00:49:49 --> 00:49:51

you're full and you're sitting on your couch

00:49:51 --> 00:49:53

and slouching on your sofa

00:49:53 --> 00:49:54

and,

00:49:54 --> 00:49:55

you know,

00:49:56 --> 00:49:59

comatose because your animal nature is satiated,

00:49:59 --> 00:50:01

at that time, spiritually you're very weak. It's

00:50:01 --> 00:50:03

like that polar opposite. And if someone tells

00:50:03 --> 00:50:05

you to read the Quran or somebody tells

00:50:05 --> 00:50:07

you to give sadaqa for the poor, somebody

00:50:07 --> 00:50:08

tells you to do something

00:50:09 --> 00:50:09

like that,

00:50:10 --> 00:50:11

you know, what are what what are you

00:50:11 --> 00:50:13

gonna do? I mean, you're

00:50:13 --> 00:50:15

you're you're comatose. You're completely

00:50:15 --> 00:50:17

without any sense at that point. Whereas this

00:50:17 --> 00:50:19

is a time where spiritually you're of the

00:50:19 --> 00:50:22

most heightened sense and you're most in tune

00:50:22 --> 00:50:22

to

00:50:23 --> 00:50:24

receive those suggestions

00:50:24 --> 00:50:26

and for them to to to help you

00:50:26 --> 00:50:29

to become the better person that Allah Ta'ala

00:50:29 --> 00:50:31

wishes for, you know, that Allah Ta'a commands

00:50:31 --> 00:50:32

for you to be and that you wish

00:50:32 --> 00:50:33

to be yourself.

00:50:33 --> 00:50:34

And,

00:50:34 --> 00:50:37

you know, when you understand what the what

00:50:37 --> 00:50:39

the the benefit of it is, then maybe

00:50:39 --> 00:50:42

a person shouldn't complain so much about how

00:50:42 --> 00:50:44

long the fast day is or how late

00:50:44 --> 00:50:44

the is

00:50:45 --> 00:50:46

because,

00:50:46 --> 00:50:49

you know, literally you're, you know, you're not

00:50:49 --> 00:50:49

making

00:50:50 --> 00:50:51

a sacrifice. A sacrifice is when you give

00:50:51 --> 00:50:54

something for you lose something, you know, for

00:50:54 --> 00:50:55

the sake of someone you love or something

00:50:55 --> 00:50:58

you love. Here you're giving the animal nature

00:50:58 --> 00:51:01

and Allah is giving you the the the

00:51:01 --> 00:51:04

giving you the spiritual nature in return and

00:51:04 --> 00:51:05

as a bonus you get your animal nature

00:51:05 --> 00:51:08

back but in a much better state, in

00:51:08 --> 00:51:10

a better much better condition than than than

00:51:10 --> 00:51:11

what you, gave it up in in the

00:51:11 --> 00:51:14

first place. And that's that's something good, that's

00:51:14 --> 00:51:17

something worthwhile in this world. And Yom Ubdi

00:51:17 --> 00:51:17

Yama

00:51:18 --> 00:51:19

when you know Allah Ta'ala will show the

00:51:19 --> 00:51:21

accounting of whole nations

00:51:21 --> 00:51:22

in front of the

00:51:23 --> 00:51:25

arranged ranks and array of angels

00:51:26 --> 00:51:28

and jinn and mankind and Ambiya alaihimusaatu

00:51:29 --> 00:51:31

Wasallam. Even Shaitan is not going to be

00:51:31 --> 00:51:33

exempted from showing up on that day. If

00:51:33 --> 00:51:35

because of your fast Allah Ta'ala forgave you

00:51:35 --> 00:51:38

your sins that came before, nobody will regret

00:51:38 --> 00:51:39

that. That's actually

00:51:40 --> 00:51:40

the greatest,

00:51:41 --> 00:51:43

triumph that a person can make on that

00:51:43 --> 00:51:44

day. That day a person will forget all

00:51:44 --> 00:51:46

of his hunger and thirst of this word.

00:51:46 --> 00:51:48

Hadith of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam,

00:51:50 --> 00:51:51

the person who will go to the fire,

00:51:51 --> 00:51:54

who had the most benefit and enjoyment in

00:51:54 --> 00:51:55

this world,

00:51:55 --> 00:51:57

which is a lot more benefit and enjoyment

00:51:57 --> 00:51:59

than any of us are having. Trust me.

00:51:59 --> 00:52:00

He will be asked or she will be

00:52:00 --> 00:52:02

asked, you know, did you ever see a

00:52:02 --> 00:52:05

good day? I said, Wallahi, my Lord, I

00:52:05 --> 00:52:06

never saw a good day in my life.

00:52:06 --> 00:52:08

And the person who had the most,

00:52:09 --> 00:52:09

the most

00:52:10 --> 00:52:12

difficulty in this world from the people of

00:52:12 --> 00:52:13

Jannah.

00:52:13 --> 00:52:15

And we're not we don't have any difficulty

00:52:15 --> 00:52:17

compared to them. Astaghfirullah, Allah Ta'al forgive us.

00:52:17 --> 00:52:20

Yesterday I raised I was at a fundraiser

00:52:20 --> 00:52:21

for

00:52:21 --> 00:52:22

Islamic Relief,

00:52:23 --> 00:52:25

raising money for people in Burma.

00:52:27 --> 00:52:30

Astaghfirullah, Allah Ta'ala protect us and forgive us

00:52:30 --> 00:52:32

our brothers and sisters over there. No country

00:52:32 --> 00:52:34

from the Muslim world speaks up for them.

00:52:35 --> 00:52:36

And in fact they shoot at them when

00:52:36 --> 00:52:37

they try try to come to the border

00:52:37 --> 00:52:39

of Bangladesh or when they try to go

00:52:39 --> 00:52:40

to Malaysia or Indonesia.

00:52:40 --> 00:52:43

These people are literally taken out of their

00:52:43 --> 00:52:44

homes and herded into camps.

00:52:44 --> 00:52:47

They are they call them camps, they're prisons.

00:52:47 --> 00:52:48

They say ostensibly

00:52:49 --> 00:52:49

the prisoners,

00:52:50 --> 00:52:51

sorry the guards there are there for the

00:52:52 --> 00:52:55

protection of of of of know, our of

00:52:55 --> 00:52:57

of, Burmese Muslims.

00:52:57 --> 00:52:59

And what what's the reality? The reality is

00:52:59 --> 00:53:02

that guns aren't facing outside. They're facing inside

00:53:02 --> 00:53:03

to shoot anyone if they try to leave.

00:53:04 --> 00:53:06

And they're subject to regular humiliation. In an

00:53:06 --> 00:53:09

entire camp with a 100,000 people in it,

00:53:09 --> 00:53:11

they have clinics that are only allowed to

00:53:11 --> 00:53:12

run for 9 hours,

00:53:12 --> 00:53:15

in a week. And those the people in

00:53:15 --> 00:53:16

that camp, they're not allowed to go to,

00:53:17 --> 00:53:19

any of the regular hospitals. If they get

00:53:19 --> 00:53:21

sick of people's children, they die because even

00:53:21 --> 00:53:23

though there's a hospital within walking distance,

00:53:24 --> 00:53:25

they're not allowed to get go to the

00:53:25 --> 00:53:28

hospital. They're not allowed to marry without government

00:53:28 --> 00:53:30

permission. The government put a ban on them

00:53:30 --> 00:53:32

that you cannot have more every couple cannot

00:53:32 --> 00:53:34

have more than one child. They're literally literally

00:53:34 --> 00:53:36

ethnically cleansing these people.

00:53:37 --> 00:53:38

And you know

00:53:38 --> 00:53:41

people who suffer trauma more than that, someone

00:53:41 --> 00:53:43

who felt like that will be called Yomotiyam

00:53:43 --> 00:53:45

and asked by Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

00:53:46 --> 00:53:48

You know, did you ever see a hard

00:53:48 --> 00:53:49

day in your life? Say, Yeah, Rabi, I

00:53:49 --> 00:53:51

never saw a hard day in my life.

00:53:51 --> 00:53:54

Why? Because the reward from Allah Ta'ala that

00:53:54 --> 00:53:55

they will make a person forget all of

00:53:55 --> 00:53:57

these things. And that's the goal that every

00:53:57 --> 00:53:59

one of us should should set and keep

00:53:59 --> 00:53:59

for ourselves.

00:54:00 --> 00:54:03

So the the talk is over. I just

00:54:03 --> 00:54:04

wanted to mention also,

00:54:05 --> 00:54:07

because I brought it up and that's the

00:54:07 --> 00:54:09

reason that I've come today to Decatur,

00:54:10 --> 00:54:12

is that, I'm raising money on behalf of

00:54:12 --> 00:54:13

Islamic Relief

00:54:14 --> 00:54:17

for the poor in over 22 countries,

00:54:18 --> 00:54:21

places like Burma, places like the Horn of

00:54:21 --> 00:54:23

Africa, places like South Sudan,

00:54:23 --> 00:54:24

places like Syria,

00:54:25 --> 00:54:26

where we're helping

00:54:34 --> 00:54:35

not servicing at all,

00:54:36 --> 00:54:38

and in their resettlement in places like Germany

00:54:38 --> 00:54:40

and other places where, you know, these people

00:54:40 --> 00:54:43

who come basically to spare their own lives,

00:54:43 --> 00:54:46

you know, and who gladly go back home

00:54:46 --> 00:54:47

if there's a home to go back to.

00:54:48 --> 00:54:50

That these people are being treated like the

00:54:50 --> 00:54:52

riffraff of the earth and we know they're

00:54:52 --> 00:54:53

not the riffraff of the earth. They're our

00:54:53 --> 00:54:55

brothers and sisters, they are us and the

00:54:55 --> 00:54:58

only difference between them being the situation they're

00:54:58 --> 00:55:00

in and we us being in situations that

00:55:00 --> 00:55:01

we're in

00:55:01 --> 00:55:03

is that, the Fadl of Allah

00:55:04 --> 00:55:06

Otherwise, we're no smarter than they are. We're

00:55:06 --> 00:55:08

definitely not more pious than they are. We're

00:55:08 --> 00:55:10

not more hardworking than they are. It's just

00:55:10 --> 00:55:11

the Fadl of Allah that He gave us

00:55:11 --> 00:55:13

what He gave and He gave them what

00:55:13 --> 00:55:16

He gave and Allah didn't command us to

00:55:16 --> 00:55:18

feel guilty about having a good life

00:55:18 --> 00:55:21

and He didn't command us to kill ourselves

00:55:21 --> 00:55:24

because other people are having difficulty. But what

00:55:24 --> 00:55:26

He did command us to do is to

00:55:26 --> 00:55:27

feel some sympathy with their plight in whatever

00:55:27 --> 00:55:29

we're able to give that we should give

00:55:30 --> 00:55:31

it. So Insha'Allah,

00:55:32 --> 00:55:33

I will be in the,

00:55:34 --> 00:55:35

I will be in the Masjid

00:55:36 --> 00:55:39

tonight raising money. If there's anybody who's not

00:55:39 --> 00:55:40

gonna be there at that time,

00:55:41 --> 00:55:41

or

00:55:42 --> 00:55:44

and wishes to, give some

00:55:44 --> 00:55:46

donation of Zakat or of Sadaqa,

00:55:47 --> 00:55:49

Islamic Relief has an 11%

00:55:49 --> 00:55:52

administrative overhead, which means all

00:55:52 --> 00:55:54

expenditures that Islamic Relief

00:55:54 --> 00:55:55

has,

00:55:57 --> 00:55:58

89%

00:55:58 --> 00:55:59

of them go to,

00:55:59 --> 00:56:01

go to our projects and 11% of them

00:56:01 --> 00:56:03

go to running the administration

00:56:04 --> 00:56:04

of

00:56:05 --> 00:56:08

the corporation, the non profit corporation in America.

00:56:11 --> 00:56:14

But that means that it's guaranteed that 89¢

00:56:14 --> 00:56:16

of your dollar that's spent is going

00:56:16 --> 00:56:19

to reach the poor. In reality it's more

00:56:19 --> 00:56:21

than that because some people donate for the

00:56:21 --> 00:56:23

general fund for the administrative costs and some

00:56:23 --> 00:56:26

people donate for the other specific funds. But

00:56:26 --> 00:56:28

if you wish to be very scrupulous regarding

00:56:28 --> 00:56:31

your Zakat calculation, you can you can, you

00:56:31 --> 00:56:32

know, you can

00:56:32 --> 00:56:34

see that, you know, if you pay from

00:56:34 --> 00:56:36

zakat that 89¢ on the dollar is counted

00:56:36 --> 00:56:38

for salatakat and 11¢ on the dollar is

00:56:38 --> 00:56:40

counted as 89¢ on the dollar is counted

00:56:40 --> 00:56:43

as zakat, and 11¢ on the dollar is

00:56:43 --> 00:56:45

counted as a sadaqa for sustaining this,

00:56:45 --> 00:56:46

this work.

00:56:47 --> 00:56:47

And,

00:56:48 --> 00:56:50

you know, the or Aleman mentioned that there

00:56:50 --> 00:56:52

are different benchmarks or gauges,

00:56:53 --> 00:56:56

based upon which your zakat will receive more

00:56:56 --> 00:56:57

reward and less reward.

00:56:57 --> 00:56:59

One of them is that

00:57:00 --> 00:57:01

a husband and wife cannot give to each

00:57:01 --> 00:57:03

other and parents and children cannot give to

00:57:03 --> 00:57:05

each other. But other than that, the most

00:57:05 --> 00:57:08

reward for zakat is to give to a

00:57:08 --> 00:57:10

relative and the closer the relative the better.

00:57:10 --> 00:57:11

So if you have a poor brother or

00:57:11 --> 00:57:11

sister,

00:57:12 --> 00:57:13

if you give to them you'll receive more

00:57:13 --> 00:57:14

reward than giving

00:57:15 --> 00:57:16

to to a cousin

00:57:16 --> 00:57:18

so long as they're actually,

00:57:18 --> 00:57:19

Azigoth eligible.

00:57:20 --> 00:57:22

And then the second benchmark is what is,

00:57:23 --> 00:57:24

piety

00:57:24 --> 00:57:26

that if you give to a more pious

00:57:26 --> 00:57:28

person, you receive reward rather than giving to

00:57:28 --> 00:57:31

a less pious person. And the 3rd benchmark

00:57:31 --> 00:57:32

is need.

00:57:32 --> 00:57:34

Is that if a person, you know, is

00:57:34 --> 00:57:36

struggling and cannot pay next month's rent and

00:57:36 --> 00:57:38

another person if you don't feed him today,

00:57:38 --> 00:57:39

they'll die of starvation.

00:57:39 --> 00:57:41

And there's more reward to giving to the

00:57:41 --> 00:57:42

latter than giving to the former even though

00:57:42 --> 00:57:43

both are valid recipients.

00:57:44 --> 00:57:46

And so if you, you know, wish to

00:57:46 --> 00:57:47

know why this is a good deal for

00:57:47 --> 00:57:48

you,

00:57:49 --> 00:57:51

even if it's 89¢ on the dollar, then

00:57:51 --> 00:57:53

I tell you that Islamic Relief is reaching

00:57:53 --> 00:57:55

those people in the world that have nobody

00:57:55 --> 00:57:58

to reach them and nobody to reach them.

00:57:58 --> 00:58:00

Nobody to help them. There are literally places

00:58:00 --> 00:58:03

where people are left to die and, whatever

00:58:03 --> 00:58:05

we give them they get and whatever, you

00:58:05 --> 00:58:07

know, we don't give there's nobody else who

00:58:07 --> 00:58:09

cares for them. And, can you believe this?

00:58:09 --> 00:58:11

You know, there's one thing, you know, everybody

00:58:11 --> 00:58:12

I I hope inshallah,

00:58:13 --> 00:58:14

you know, we can get the envelopes out

00:58:15 --> 00:58:17

from from from the car. I'll give them

00:58:17 --> 00:58:17

to you.

00:58:18 --> 00:58:20

But, you know, the bare minimum, my request

00:58:20 --> 00:58:22

is everyone who's able to afford to do

00:58:22 --> 00:58:23

so,

00:58:23 --> 00:58:23

that,

00:58:24 --> 00:58:26

500 something 518

00:58:26 --> 00:58:28

sorry. From 516 to $788,

00:58:30 --> 00:58:33

which it depends on the country. But

00:58:33 --> 00:58:35

anywhere between $516 and $788

00:58:36 --> 00:58:37

depending on the specific country you choose because

00:58:37 --> 00:58:40

of different costs of living, you can sponsor

00:58:40 --> 00:58:41

an orphan for a year.

00:58:42 --> 00:58:43

And our Nabi

00:58:44 --> 00:58:45

himself was an orphan

00:58:45 --> 00:58:48

and, the the tawajah of Allah, Allah's rahman

00:58:48 --> 00:58:50

has been experienced again and again on the

00:58:50 --> 00:58:51

orphans of this Ummah that they end up

00:58:51 --> 00:58:53

becoming some of the greatest people of this

00:58:53 --> 00:58:53

Ummah.

00:58:54 --> 00:58:56

Imam Shafi'i was an orphan, Imam Malik was

00:58:56 --> 00:58:57

an orphan.

00:58:58 --> 00:59:00

Many of our many of our great olema

00:59:00 --> 00:59:01

and mashay for orphans.

00:59:01 --> 00:59:02

And,

00:59:02 --> 00:59:04

you know, you can sponsor an orphan for

00:59:04 --> 00:59:06

that small amount of month. It comes out

00:59:06 --> 00:59:08

to something like, say, it's 40 something dollars

00:59:08 --> 00:59:08

a month

00:59:09 --> 00:59:11

to sponsor an orphan. Can you believe there

00:59:11 --> 00:59:13

are orphans on on the waiting list?

00:59:13 --> 00:59:15

There are orphans. And they literally come to

00:59:15 --> 00:59:17

Islamic Relief because it's the largest Muslim charity

00:59:17 --> 00:59:19

in the world. And,

00:59:20 --> 00:59:22

and and they have because of because the

00:59:22 --> 00:59:24

sheer size of the operation, the ability to

00:59:24 --> 00:59:26

reach disasters and emergency situations

00:59:27 --> 00:59:29

quickly. And so people have the option of

00:59:29 --> 00:59:32

going to the Red Cross or going to,

00:59:32 --> 00:59:34

you know, some other European

00:59:36 --> 00:59:36

or Western

00:59:37 --> 00:59:38

aid agency,

00:59:38 --> 00:59:41

which really all many of them, all they

00:59:41 --> 00:59:43

are just like missionary work by other means.

00:59:43 --> 00:59:45

Right? Because they're not missionary work toward Christianity,

00:59:45 --> 00:59:47

although some of them are that as well.

00:59:47 --> 00:59:49

But they're missionary work toward materialism,

00:59:51 --> 00:59:51

And they

00:59:52 --> 00:59:53

they they don't wanna go to them. When

00:59:53 --> 00:59:55

they see the Islamic Relief

00:59:55 --> 00:59:58

banner and they see the the the message

00:59:58 --> 00:59:59

with the 2 minarets and the logo,

01:00:00 --> 01:00:02

many people are actually illiterate, right? That's why

01:00:02 --> 01:00:04

they say we wanna we wanna go to

01:00:04 --> 01:00:06

the Masjid people, we're the Masjid people. Can

01:00:06 --> 01:00:08

you believe that the children they come to

01:00:08 --> 01:00:09

us and they're orphans on the waiting list?

01:00:10 --> 01:00:12

So the Nabi sallallahu alaihi wa sallam who

01:00:12 --> 01:00:15

said, Ana wali umandawaliye lahu. I am Thee

01:00:15 --> 01:00:16

the the guardian

01:00:22 --> 01:00:23

sallallahu alaihi

01:00:24 --> 01:00:26

wa sallam out of his or her iman

01:00:26 --> 01:00:28

and ghayra for this deen. Then let them,

01:00:29 --> 01:00:31

you know, let them let these children know

01:00:31 --> 01:00:32

that there's still someone from your brothers and

01:00:32 --> 01:00:34

sisters who care, That that you don't have

01:00:34 --> 01:00:35

to be on the waiting list, that we'll

01:00:35 --> 01:00:37

take care of you. You don't have to

01:00:37 --> 01:00:39

go to, somebody who's gonna demean you and

01:00:39 --> 01:00:41

humiliate you and try to rest your iman

01:00:41 --> 01:00:43

away from you in order to receive will

01:00:43 --> 01:00:46

help. Uh-uh Allah Ta'ala is the one who

01:00:46 --> 01:00:47

gives help and we're happy to participate in

01:00:47 --> 01:00:49

that process as well. So inshallah,

01:00:50 --> 01:00:52

you know, maybe if we can have someone

01:00:52 --> 01:00:54

go to the car and get the envelopes

01:00:54 --> 01:00:55

before the sisters leave,

01:00:56 --> 01:00:58

from the trunk, you can fill those out

01:00:59 --> 01:01:00

and then check them.

01:01:01 --> 01:01:03

Even if you don't have your if you

01:01:03 --> 01:01:04

if you don't have your money or you

01:01:04 --> 01:01:05

don't have your your,

01:01:06 --> 01:01:08

you know, checkbook or card or soon.

01:01:09 --> 01:01:09

But

01:01:12 --> 01:01:12

just

01:01:13 --> 01:01:15

to, you know, just to, soon.

01:01:16 --> 01:01:18

But just to, you know, just to

01:01:19 --> 01:01:22

take the take advantage of the opportunity because

01:01:22 --> 01:01:23

the majlis in which

01:01:24 --> 01:01:26

the mention of Allah and His Rasool Sallallahu

01:01:26 --> 01:01:28

Alaihi Wasallam and the Mubarak mention of his

01:01:28 --> 01:01:28

deen,

01:01:29 --> 01:01:31

was made and the Mubarak mention of his

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book was made Jallawalla.

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And so this is a majlis of iman.

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And, just like a person when they go

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to a party, they like to enjoy. That's

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the enjoyment of this majlis is that while

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the iman is in your heart, you should

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also take the opportunity to,

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to, give yourself the happiness of having implemented

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some of what what you,

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what you learned. And even if someone is

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in the room that doesn't have $516

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or doesn't have $1,000 or whatever to give

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for the sake of Allah Ta'ala.

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This is the Nabi Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam,

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he used

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to go for sadaqa, he'd actually particularly go

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to the women and collect sadaqa from them

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as well separately.

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And he his sunnah is what? That you

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should,

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that you should

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protect yourself from the fire even if through

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half of a date. And the idea is

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that half of a date is not going

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to feed the world. But what is it?

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It's not about the world, it's about you

01:02:21 --> 01:02:23

and me. And what is it about you

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and me? That He wanted us to have

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the tarbiyah that whenever anyone asks for the

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sake of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala we never

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say no. If we have very little, if

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someone is broke, then let them give the

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quarter that they have in their pocket. And

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if somebody doesn't have a quarter in their

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pocket, let them not leave before making du'a

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sincerely to Allah Ta'ala for, you know, for

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the success of this work and for those

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children and for those refugees and for those

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oppressed people all around the world, you know,

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that are living living these difficulties. Let them

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at least not grudge them giving a dua

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because the miserly person is not the one

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who couldn't give $10,000. You know maybe some

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of us can't give that. You know I

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can't I can't give that.

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I don't have that to give.

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But the miserly person is the one who

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who did who couldn't even give anything. Who

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couldn't even give a dollar. Couldn't even give

01:03:07 --> 01:03:08

a dua

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at the end of it. So let Allah

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Ta'ala inshaAllah

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count us amongst the generous inshaAllah so that

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he can also have his generosity toward us

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and not count us amongst the miserably that

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we give whatever we are able to inshaAllah

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before we leave. Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala give

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all of us so much stuffy.

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Q and a, or is that that it?

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Let me find out.

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Yeah. Just grab the the pens.

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Yes.

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Just hand you just hand it through the

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door. Slide under. So, inshallah, we'll slide the

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the the, envelopes

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through the door, inshallah.

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If anyone wishes to give inshallah, you're more

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than welcome.

01:03:53 --> 01:03:54

And you know, if you don't give to

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if you don't give to this, then give

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to somebody inshallah, give to the Masjid, give

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to your relatives. Don't let he

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was the most generous in this month,

01:04:04 --> 01:04:06

and he used to give everything he had

01:04:06 --> 01:04:07

anyway. So the question comes up, what does

01:04:07 --> 01:04:09

it mean that he was most generous in

01:04:09 --> 01:04:11

this month? It means that he used to

01:04:11 --> 01:04:13

give everything he had anyway, and this month

01:04:13 --> 01:04:15

he would give even more quickly. People don't

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know this about the Prophet

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Alaihi Wasallam. I don't know, Isa, if you

01:04:18 --> 01:04:21

knew this or not. Nabi alaihi salatu salam,

01:04:21 --> 01:04:23

if he had any money above and beyond

01:04:23 --> 01:04:25

his means or his needs for the day,

01:04:25 --> 01:04:26

he would, he would,

01:04:27 --> 01:04:28

go and give it, he would find poor

01:04:28 --> 01:04:30

people and give it to them. He would

01:04:30 --> 01:04:31

never sleep with saving any money.

01:04:32 --> 01:04:34

And if he sometimes what would happen is

01:04:34 --> 01:04:35

he would go look for poor people and

01:04:35 --> 01:04:37

nobody would take the money because they didn't

01:04:37 --> 01:04:39

need it because he trained them also not

01:04:39 --> 01:04:40

to ask.

01:04:41 --> 01:04:43

And so if he had money he couldn't

01:04:43 --> 01:04:43

give away,

01:04:44 --> 01:04:45

he wouldn't sleep in his home that night.

01:04:45 --> 01:04:47

He would sleep in the masjid that night.

01:04:48 --> 01:04:49

So

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in in Ramadan he would be even quicker

01:04:51 --> 01:04:53

in giving like that. Obviously I'm not telling

01:04:53 --> 01:04:54

you to empty out your bank accounts.

01:04:56 --> 01:04:59

Because, you know, maybe maybe, you know, the

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life we lead is not, you know, it

01:05:01 --> 01:05:03

is not conducive toward that.

01:05:03 --> 01:05:04

But, you know,

01:05:05 --> 01:05:08

just became malai yudra kukuluu lai yudra kukuluu.

01:05:08 --> 01:05:11

It's a precept of our sacred law that

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the thing that you cannot do completely, you're

01:05:12 --> 01:05:14

also not allowed to leave completely.

01:05:14 --> 01:05:16

So, inshallah, if you have something to give

01:05:16 --> 01:05:18

from your generosity, give. May Allah give you

01:05:18 --> 01:05:19

a long and happy life

01:05:20 --> 01:05:22

and protect you from all sorts of ills

01:05:22 --> 01:05:24

and difficulties and put Barakah for you and

01:05:24 --> 01:05:26

your and your parents and in your children

01:05:26 --> 01:05:28

and in your brothers and sisters and your

01:05:28 --> 01:05:30

spouses and in all of your homes inshaAllah

01:05:31 --> 01:05:33

and make you people who are beautiful in

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this world and beautiful in the hereafter.

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