Hamzah Wald Maqbul – Riyd alSlihn Fasting Limbs and TikTok Fatw Ribt 092502022

Hamzah Wald Maqbul
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The speakers discuss the importance of remembering Lord's commandments and the use of media references in shaping fasters. They stress the need for language understanding and language use to avoid confusion and misunderstandings, caution against speaking negative and negative things, and emphasize the importance of decency in building up to one's fasting habit. They also discuss the negative sentiment towards drinking in Islam, the success of fasting during Easter Easter, and the importance of fasting during Easter Easter. They stress the importance of avoiding hesitation, showing one's slavehood to the language, and not showing up for judgment. They also discuss the use of wine in various ways, including reverse osmosis, and the importance of fasting during Easter Easter.

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			We have a little bit of unfinished business
		
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			from the last Bab of last week. We
		
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			finished on Bab
		
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			The chapter regarding the virtue of hastening, opening
		
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			the fast when the fast is over,
		
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			and that upon which the fast should be
		
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			opened, and what a person should say
		
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			after opening his fast. Ibn Allan in his
		
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			Sharah,
		
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			he very aptly points out
		
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			that
		
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			the chapter title,
		
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			the last item in it mentions that,
		
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			you know, what a person should say when
		
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			the fast opens, and there's no hadith about
		
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			that.
		
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			That part of it is not there. So
		
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			he,
		
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			he brings,
		
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			he brings whatever was missing. And there's a
		
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			reason. There must be a reason. The thing
		
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			is with the books. Right? They're never quite
		
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			finished.
		
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			And in the old days, people didn't use
		
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			to just send them in a penguin books
		
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			books or puffin books or whatever for editing
		
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			and things like that. So books oftentimes there
		
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			are different versions of them depending on when
		
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			the person learned it from the shift. So
		
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			the things in the earlier part of life
		
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			are there, the things in the later part
		
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			of life, are not and vice versa.
		
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			And,
		
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			so the lord knows why. I mean, one
		
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			of the that
		
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			that,
		
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			brings for
		
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			including a a hadith in the
		
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			that
		
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			it should reach a certain
		
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			criterion of
		
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			authenticity of.
		
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			And because he's a, he probably had a
		
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			very particular thing in mind or it's possible
		
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			at any rate. He had a very particular
		
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			criterion in mind and maybe he couldn't find
		
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			the hadith that meets that that criterion, so
		
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			he omitted
		
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			mention of any of them.
		
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			But, ibn Allan, he brings something at any
		
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			rate, from that,
		
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			you know, from the hadith of the prophet
		
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			have to do with what you should say
		
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			when you open your fast.
		
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			It says, Fajaaan, ibn Umar
		
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			It's
		
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			narrated in,
		
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			it's narrated
		
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			in Abu Dawood.
		
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			That the Rasool sallallahu alaihi wasallam, when he
		
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			would open his fast, he would say that
		
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			the thirst has gone away, and the blood
		
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			vessels have been quenched
		
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			and,
		
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			or moistened. And
		
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			the reward
		
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			is has
		
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			been entered in, had been has been logged
		
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			in,
		
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			by the will of God most high.
		
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			And the other, the other,
		
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			So Mu'ad bin Zahra is not
		
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			a companion,
		
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			he's a Tabiri.
		
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			And he narrates this hadith that the prophet,
		
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			that,
		
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			he he said when he would open his
		
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			fast, oh, Allah, for you
		
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			have I fasted and upon your provision
		
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			have I, opened my fast.
		
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			And,
		
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			you know,
		
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			it's,
		
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			meaning what? That it's not directly narrated by
		
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			Sahabi
		
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			But the fact that Abu Dawood, you know,
		
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			includes includes it in his Marasil,
		
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			is worthy of note. And the idea whether
		
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			Mursal Hadith Hadith in which the Sahabi is
		
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			missing but it's narrated by upright narrator from
		
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			the Tabireen who doesn't
		
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			narrate spurious things.
		
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			This idea that this is automatically the if
		
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			the first person in the Ummah from the
		
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			Usululihin who brought it is Imam Shafi'i and
		
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			that's like the 3rd century.
		
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			Although before that, Malik, Abu Hanifa, the other,
		
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			great imams before,
		
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			they said, you know, they considered the marasil
		
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			to when they come from a a source
		
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			that is
		
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			credible,
		
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			that the
		
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			are
		
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			are Sahih
		
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			and in fact, sometimes they're more Sahih because
		
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			one of the reasons that
		
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			the narrator wasn't mentioned in certain things was
		
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			because things are common knowledge.
		
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			Right? It's the same thing even in academia
		
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			nowadays. If you find something like 4 or
		
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			more like sources,
		
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			then you don't have to you don't have
		
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			to give a citation. Life is considered common
		
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			knowledge.
		
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			And, as time goes on, you see actually
		
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			more and more weird questions come up from
		
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			people.
		
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			Somebody will start to ask how do we
		
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			know that Friday is actually like the jama'ah
		
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			of the time of the prophet sallallahu alaihi
		
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			wa sallam? I don't think anyone would ask
		
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			questions like that. How do we know where
		
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			the Kaaba the Kaaba is in the same
		
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			place that it was back then? Or, like,
		
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			you know, these types of things, people will
		
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			ask more and more weird questions,
		
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			you know, that are are essentially assumed to
		
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			be common knowledge from from the old from
		
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			the old days. It may not be an
		
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			issue of old days or new days. Sometimes
		
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			different people, their minds go to different places
		
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			because of cultural or whatever issues.
		
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			And so the point is is that, the
		
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			reason I mentioned all of this is that,
		
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			you know, some Masjid uncle, he pious man,
		
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			good man,
		
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			he forwarded me a TikTok.
		
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			Angie, where we're gonna learn our deen from
		
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			now?
		
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			TikTok.
		
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			Chinese spyware. Right?
		
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			So he he he forwarded me a TikTok
		
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			that one of his, like,
		
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			relatives sent him saying that this,
		
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			you know, that there's some guy, you know,
		
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			who
		
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			seemed pretty
		
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			for were to call him like a bet
		
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			to Vegas, I would probably put my money
		
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			on it. Not him not knowing Arabic at
		
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			all.
		
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			And he he was saying, oh, this, you
		
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			know,
		
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			It's
		
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			not even a dua and,
		
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			you know, because you're saying, oh, Allah, on
		
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			your for you I fasted and on your
		
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			risk I've,
		
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			on your provision I open my fast. That's
		
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			not even a du'a. First of all the
		
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			rasulullah sallam said it's so
		
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			we register that it's something to say just
		
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			for that reason. The second thing is this
		
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			is that
		
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			people are daft when it comes to literature.
		
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			Not everything a person claims is shirk is
		
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			shirk. Not everything a person claims is kufr
		
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			is kufr. Not everything a person claims is
		
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			wrong is wrong. There's more ways than one
		
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			to read or understand things than than than
		
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			literally.
		
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			And literal understanding is not,
		
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			the way human beings talk to each other.
		
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			If someone says, give me a hand
		
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			and, then the person, they take a machete
		
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			and chop their hand off and give it
		
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			to them. Or say, hey, you know, I
		
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			have a bunch of hands that chopped off
		
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			from other people. I need my hands but
		
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			there's other people's, you know. Here's here's another
		
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			person's hand. Go ahead. Have it. Right? You
		
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			scream like you're a freak. Right? That's not
		
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			how human communication works. And so the a
		
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			person can assume that
		
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			that the the book of Allah and the
		
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			speech of the Rasool
		
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			wasn't meant to be
		
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			conveyed
		
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			in a way that human beings will understand
		
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			it and will touch them. It's not meant
		
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			to be conveyed like like like machine code.
		
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			And even if it was,
		
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			the amount of specificity that would be there,
		
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			would actually end up losing people information rather
		
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			than gaining it to them and it would
		
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			cause other problems as well. So it is
		
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			the way it is. This doesn't mean everything
		
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			is up for grabs.
		
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			That, oh, look, you know, like, here, pork
		
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			being haram, it's just like it's like a
		
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			metaphor for, like, just don't, you know, do
		
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			harm to other people and as long as
		
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			we're okay with it, it's fine. You know,
		
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			that's what it you know, it's not like
		
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			that.
		
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			There's an entire set of,
		
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			of how language is understood that allows you
		
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			to identify where a metaphor is being used
		
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			and where literalism is being used, etcetera, etcetera.
		
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			And so when a person says, oh, Allah,
		
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			for, you know, for you, I fasted,
		
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			and on your,
		
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			risk,
		
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			I'm opening my fast. It's a show
		
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			of a person's
		
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			slavehood to Allah to Allah,
		
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			and it is also implicit, and it is
		
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			the the
		
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			the idea that a person did this for
		
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			reward.
		
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			And so, you know, it's implicit and it
		
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			is asking for a reward from Allah.
		
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			No.
		
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			Somebody once asked him, what's the point of
		
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			making dua if Allah already knows what we
		
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			want, what we need?
		
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			And he says, the point is not to
		
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			educate Allah about something he didn't know.
		
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			The point is that you should show your
		
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			slave hood to him. That's what the whole
		
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			point of Ibadah is. Unless he already knows.
		
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			He knows more than whatever. You know? And
		
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			he knows stuff behind that as well.
		
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			But, your job is to show your slavehood
		
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			to Allah and that's what's going on here.
		
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			So this is a a very beautiful show
		
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			of slavehood to Allah
		
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			and, the fact that it's narrated in,
		
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			it means that that,
		
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			that according to, it may be considered a
		
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			weak hadith,
		
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			but the the older generations of the Salaf
		
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			were more authoritative. They didn't consider it that
		
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			way. And,
		
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			secondly,
		
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			it's not it's not something that we would
		
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			build because there's a difference of opinion. We
		
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			wouldn't build.
		
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			Right? We won't send someone to jail or
		
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			build our law, legal code on it. But
		
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			as a dua, even the later,
		
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			they they consider it to be
		
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			permissible to use because from the Bible, it
		
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			doesn't really change functionally how anything works in
		
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			the deen. And so it's a
		
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			book that is the even the himself is.
		
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			So he he mentioned it, and the reason
		
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			he mentioned it is because it's there's nothing
		
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			wrong with a person saying these duas. And
		
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			if a person doesn't want to, it's not
		
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			far at any rate. But to, you know,
		
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			get up
		
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			on what? On TikTok and then tell people
		
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			that this is life and it's wrong and
		
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			blah blah blah. It's not even a duah.
		
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			This is a type of jahal mockery. It's
		
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			not it's not it's not cool. If you
		
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			don't wanna do it, don't do it. But
		
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			it's it betrays a a type of boldness,
		
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			in talking about things that people don't know
		
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			that they shouldn't they shouldn't show.
		
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			So we continue then,
		
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			The chapter regarding the commandment to the one
		
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			fasting.
		
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			To guard his tongue and his limbs and,
		
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			his tongue and his limbs,
		
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			from
		
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			violating the sacred law and from cursing, getting
		
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			into cussing matches with other people and things
		
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			like that and things like that. Now in
		
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			order to understand this, a person has to
		
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			understand in the
		
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			of
		
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			the spiritual discourse of Islam
		
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			and the technical vocabulary. What does the word?
		
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			What does the word
		
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			mean?
		
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			Right? Limbs, like, a person when they think
		
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			about limbs, like, linguistically, you mean, like, your
		
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			hands and your feet, maybe some other bodily
		
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			projections or whatever. But,
		
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			that's not what's
		
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			only meant by limbs in terms of the
		
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			spiritual discourse of the prophet
		
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			Rather the limbs are not the limbs that
		
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			are being mentioned here, not the limbs of
		
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			the body, but they're the limbs of the
		
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			heart. That the heart itself is,
		
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			in a protected place. Nobody can choose it
		
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			choose what goes inside, what comes out. Nobody
		
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			can impact it. Nobody can force it to
		
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			do anything. You torture a person to death,
		
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			but you can't make them like something they
		
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			don't like or hate something they don't hate,
		
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			or, you know, wish for something they don't
		
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			wish for.
		
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			You can make them lie about it. You
		
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			can make them betray
		
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			information. You can make them do a lot
		
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			of stuff. But, like, at any rate, the
		
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			betrayal itself is from coercion. It's not it's
		
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			not that the coercion itself becomes
		
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			compliance until the person themselves chooses to make
		
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			it compliant.
		
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			So it's like a fortified it's like the
		
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			fortified keep,
		
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			of a person, their spiritual
		
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			composition.
		
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			But it has gates that impacted just like
		
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			the the the limbs are kinda connected to
		
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			the main part of the body.
		
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			Just like that the,
		
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			the limbs of the heart are those things
		
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			that
		
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			that
		
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			that are not external, but that take input
		
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			from the external world and then can affect
		
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			the heart with it. So it includes the
		
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			physical limbs, but it also includes the stomach
		
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			that if you eat halal, it has a
		
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			good effect on your heart. If you eat
		
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			haram, it has a bad effect on your
		
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			heart. It can, you know, it's the thing.
		
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			If you look at halal,
		
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			it has a good effect on your heart.
		
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			If you look at haram, it has a
		
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			bad effect on your heart. You know, if
		
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			you listen to haram, it has a bad
		
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			effect on your heart. If you listen to
		
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			good speech, it has a good effect on
		
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			your heart. If you listen to stuff that
		
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			really may not technically be haram, but it's
		
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			just a waste of time, then it will
		
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			fill your heart with fluff. It will, you
		
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			know, make it lose its focus.
		
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			Like that,
		
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			the sexual organs, like that the tongue that
		
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			the tongue, everything it says, it sends us
		
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			a carbon copy to the heart as well.
		
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			So this is one reason people should be
		
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			careful from, you
		
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			know, speaking negative too much because the negativity
		
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			also feeds back into them as well. And,
		
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			you know, you think you're harming or saying
		
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			bad about other people, but you're really also
		
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			giving a copy of the harm to yourself.
		
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			So the person should hold back. And sometimes
		
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			you say, well, someone has to say it,
		
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			you know, someone has to say it. Yeah.
		
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			That's fine.
		
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			But this is a precept about the real
		
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			world that there's too many zombies
		
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			and not enough lighter fluid. You're not gonna
		
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			the thing about zombies, you're not gonna, like,
		
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			get them all. You have to pick your
		
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			battles because there's only so much you can
		
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			burn before you yourself catch on fire. And,
		
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			the Sharia doesn't obligate anybody or even encourage
		
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			anybody to destroy themselves in the pursuit of
		
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			of fixing problems.
		
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			So,
		
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			so that's that's what he means by,
		
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			The Lisan
		
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			is
		
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			that the tongue is one of the limbs,
		
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			but it's mentioned primarily because of its because
		
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			of its
		
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			important position,
		
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			in terms of its impact on the on
		
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			the person's makeup,
		
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			and then afterward, all of the other
		
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			limbs go underneath it. The tongue is important.
		
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			Right? And a person like, you know, people
		
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			speaking
		
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			ill through lying and cheating,
		
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			through speaking ill words, you can
		
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			invalidate your iman, you can enter into.
		
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			A person can commit sins with the tongue
		
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			that a person can't you know, there's a
		
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			there's a it's a there's some of the
		
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			athaar indicate that,
		
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			that that that reba, the backbiting people, is
		
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			worse than zina.
		
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			You know? And a person can backbite, like,
		
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			30 people in a day.
		
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			There are people who are, like, on Tinder.
		
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			They're trying to commit zina for, like, the
		
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			last several months. It's not happening.
		
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			But the tongue, even the most ugly and
		
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			out of shape and bad smelling one of
		
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			us can
		
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			backbite so many people so quickly.
		
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			This is one of the reasons that tongue
		
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			is mentioned for in the front. But, you
		
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			know, of course, every time there's some doom
		
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			and gloom and, like, really bad news, depressing
		
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			news when it comes to these things. And
		
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			that is depressing if a person thinks about
		
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			it's bad news, it's not good.
		
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			But the flip side of the coin is
		
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			that there's a lot of good news with
		
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			it as well.
		
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			That the, the tongue everybody was given,
		
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			this is a,
		
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			like a machine for
		
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			producing a factory for producing good deeds as
		
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			well
		
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			that a person can, you know, say the
		
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			of Allah, a person say a good word
		
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			to people,
		
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			a person can teach beneficial knowledge, a person
		
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			can recite the Quran. Every letter of the
		
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			recitation of the Quran is 10 rewards
		
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			wrapped up in it. A person can recite
		
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			if they don't know if they don't know
		
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			and
		
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			you can say it again and again. There's
		
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			nothing wrong with that. In fact,
		
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			it's a very easy good deed that a
		
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			person can do, and it has a really
		
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			good impact on the heart. It doesn't mean
		
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			that if you're a scumbag that you'll necessarily
		
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			become a good person, but you'll become less
		
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			of a scumbag, and the door will become
		
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			apparent to you if you keep at it
		
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			one day that you can maybe even exit
		
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			that
		
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			that that that state of being, one day.
		
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			So,
		
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			you know, remember that
		
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			that there's two sides of the coin with
		
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			great,
		
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			with great harm and great fear and
		
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			great tragedy
		
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			and great liability.
		
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			On the flip side, there's also a great
		
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			help and great good that comes with it
		
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			as well if you look at it from
		
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			the other side.
		
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			Well known.
		
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			And
		
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			narrated by Sayedn Abu Hurair
		
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			that if it the day is the day
		
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			of fast the fast of one of you.
		
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			Let the person not engage in indecency.
		
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			Don't entertain
		
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			glances or speech or words or thoughts of
		
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			indecency.
		
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			In particular, rafath, it has to do with
		
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			something of a sexual nature.
		
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			But in general, decency let a person not
		
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			think and talk about
		
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			indecency.
		
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			And so this is Ghazali
		
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			his model for a somm is that the
		
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			the the first is the somm of,
		
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			like, the legal bare minimum. Like, these are
		
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			the things that break your fast. And then
		
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			the level above that is this is the
		
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			psalm of the limbs.
		
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			That the the physical limbs should not engage
		
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			in anything.
		
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			That is haram.
		
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			And then there's the the the the the
		
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			highest level that he mentions of some Jesus
		
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			and Jesus
		
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			of, not allowing a thought to enter into
		
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			your mind,
		
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			with regards to haram.
		
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			If anyone can keep that fast for, like,
		
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			5
		
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			seconds, make dua for me. Good for you.
		
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			There are people I have no doubt that
		
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			there are people who,
		
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			lived their life in such a way and
		
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			practiced, and also Allah gives them help and
		
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			aid and gives them madad, and Allah ta'ala
		
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			also gives them from his father,
		
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			that there are people who maybe lived years
		
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			of their lives like that,
		
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			but,
		
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			it's it's it's difficult. So this is how
		
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			you build up to it.
		
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			You know? You don't just
		
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			jump from 0 to, like, whatever, but this
		
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			is how you build up to it,
		
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			is that don't entertain those thoughts. Important also
		
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			when a person goes for Hajj or Umrah
		
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			also.
		
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			I'm particularly
		
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			bad about it because I joke a lot
		
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			with people, and this is a hallmark of
		
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			American humor. This is one of the reasons
		
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			nobody gets American jokes like overseas, is because
		
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			your mind has to quickly devolve to the
		
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			most
		
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			indecent meaning of possible meaning of, like, an
		
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			expression or word or a story or something
		
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			like that in order to get the joke.
		
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			And,
		
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			not everybody has that capacity. God bless them.
		
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			But, so yeah. So people who have, like,
		
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			met me in Hajj, they're like they're they're
		
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			like, why are you so quiet?
		
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			And,
		
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			I'm like, it's not that I don't like
		
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			you. It's just it's Hajj and stuff. You
		
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			know? So,
		
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			like, we met each other.
		
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			You you can go now.
		
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			But, it says let a person not
		
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			entertain indecency and let them not shout
		
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			or scream.
		
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			And if somebody,
		
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			cusses them out,
		
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			or tries to fight them, then just say
		
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			I'm fasting.
		
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			And this doesn't necessarily mean, you know, it
		
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			doesn't necessarily mean you say I'm fasting to
		
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			the person. In America, nobody's gonna give a
		
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			damn. Most people probably don't even know what
		
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			it means anyway.
		
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			You know, like, oh, yeah. You know, I
		
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			didn't eat cotton candy for 40 days at
		
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			Easter or whatever. Like or that's what they
		
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			think fasting is. Like, they're not even gonna
		
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			understand what you're talking about. The point is
		
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			just be like, okay. Just
		
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			someone, like, wants to throw a word, just
		
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			don't show up. Like, don't show up to
		
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			it. That's it. That's the way of dealing
		
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			with that.
		
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			And said, Abu Hurrah
		
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			who also narrates that the prophet
		
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			said that the person who doesn't leave behind
		
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			lying,
		
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			zur
		
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			is lying. It means, like, bearing false testimony,
		
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			but it also means kadiv in general, means
		
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			lies in general. A person who doesn't leave
		
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			behind lying falsehood
		
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			and acting according to falsehood.
		
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			Allah ta'ala has no need
		
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			for them to leave behind their food and
		
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			their drink, meaning that somehow you're missing the
		
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			point of your fast.
		
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			Again, literalism,
		
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			literalism kind of fails here at this point
		
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			because there's some people who will then say,
		
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			oh, well, you know, because I backbite or
		
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			I say I made a lie and whatever.
		
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			No point in fasting for the rest of
		
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			the day. Now you're still ritually obliged to
		
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			fast.
		
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			There's every deed has
		
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			a a a a sin attached with its,
		
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			you know, every every every obligation has a
		
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			sin attached with its omission
		
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			and has a reward attached with its commission
		
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			and it has a responsibility that a person
		
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			is relieved of,
		
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			and it has an acceptance or rejection. All
		
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			of them are 4 different they're 4 different
		
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			issues.
		
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			They're unchained with one another.
		
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			And so the fact is a person may
		
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			fast in such a way
		
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			that the fact the fast generates no reward
		
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			for them whatsoever. They nullify the reward through
		
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			their own stupidity, but they have to fast
		
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			all the same. They're still on the hook
		
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			for it, and if they don't fast, they're
		
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			still gonna pay for it. So it's better
		
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			to it's better to continue and finish the
		
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			fast because that's gonna be a whole separate
		
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			account that that that they have to give
		
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			on the day of judgment.
		
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			So the meaning here is not that if
		
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			a person is gonna lie that that that
		
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			they're allowed to or they're commanded to eat
		
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			and to drink.
		
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			He says that
		
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			the point is what? Is that the Rasul
		
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			is trying to caution people against it because
		
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			of the enormity and how bad of a
		
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			sin it is. It's like the hadith of
		
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			the prophet who
		
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			said, whoever sells wine, why why don't they
		
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			also just go ahead and, like, start slaughtering
		
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			pigs? And the point is not for them
		
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			to slaughter pigs, but because that was something
		
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			so hateful,
		
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			the Muslims had in their heart already that
		
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			it was so hateful to them,
		
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			that,
		
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			that that it got the point across. It's
		
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			not something you wanna do.
		
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			That you should also hate, selling wine, just
		
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			like that,
		
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			and that's what the what the point is.
		
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			And, again, it's another place where the
		
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			where the person will say that it's a
		
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			fail,
		
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			to interpret
		
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			the book of Allah and the sun of
		
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			the prophet
		
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			literally.
		
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			But the point is to understand what is
		
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			what's trying to be conveyed here.
		
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			And so,
		
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			the, ibn Allan he quotes a poet who
		
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			says with regards to this issue,
		
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			He says that if you see me, not,
		
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			protecting
		
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			my ears
		
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			or my my hearing
		
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			or my nor nor lowering my gaze,
		
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			nor staying silent in my speech from things
		
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			I shouldn't say. Silent.
		
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			It says then my,
		
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			only share of my soul, of my fast
		
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			and my,
		
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			of my fast is hunger and thirst. I
		
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			mean, there's no reward in it. And if
		
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			I say to a person that I fasted
		
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			today,
		
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			the reality is I didn't fast. And so
		
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			that's that's what it means. It's not illegal.
		
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			Not legally saying that the fast is invalid.
		
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			There were those from the
		
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			who said that the fast is invalid, but
		
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			it's not any of the form. None of
		
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			those really went anywhere. There's some people in
		
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			the early,
		
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			in the amongst the early imams who said
		
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			that it's invalid.
		
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			But, in general, the afterward, the the ummah,
		
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			no one ever practiced the practiced that. But
		
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			the
		
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			ummah comes together and says the fast is
		
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			still valid, but you just destroyed,
		
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			destroyed your reward.
		
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			As
		
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			a related note with regards to the selling
		
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			of wine,
		
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			Someone asked me today, they said they came
		
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			to across
		
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			a website that sells quote, unquote halal wine,
		
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			and it's like something like it's like literally
		
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			halalwindot com or something like
		
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			that. And,
		
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			apparently, they use like reverse osmosis to get
		
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			the alcohol out of the wine. Wine is
		
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			haram for two reasons. 1 is
		
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			najasa, it's ritually impure. It's akin to, like,
		
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			eating feces or drinking urine.
		
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			And
		
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			reverse osmosis ing out the alcohol doesn't make
		
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			it halal.
		
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			It just means it's no longer intoxicating.
		
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			And from that side, one can say that
		
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			the reason for its harman, for its prohibition
		
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			is gone. But from the other side, the
		
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			reason is completely intact.
		
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			And the the old mentioned
		
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			very explicitly even if a person were to,
		
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			boil 2 thirds of it down to 1
		
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			third, like, it's not gonna help.
		
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			And,
		
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			further further than that,
		
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			then the argument comes, well, what about vinegar?
		
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			Vinegar is made from wine and the alcohol
		
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			is taken out of that. The idea is
		
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			that the rule is it's haram. The rasul
		
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			it's narrated that when wine was announced to
		
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			be haram.
		
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			That the Sahaba Ikaram
		
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			whom allahu ta'ala
		
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			have
		
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			raised their rank and be pleased with them.
		
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			That the one who was drinking when he
		
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			heard the crier say he spilled his cup
		
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			and they say that there was wine. Ansar
		
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			were known to be people who enjoyed wine
		
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			actually. And there was wine flowing in the
		
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			gutters of the streets of Madinah Munawarah.
		
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			People broke their casks, everything. That's it. It
		
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			was gone.
		
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			Abu Talha was one of the one of
		
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			the, if not the wealthiest of the Ansar
		
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			He was he was a, a guardian, a
		
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			trustee of the the wealth of,
		
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			orphans. And so some of the orphans whose
		
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			wealth he was a trustee of, part of
		
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			their, like, what they own, like, the,
		
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			you know, their whatever inventory or whatever was
		
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			casks of wine.
		
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			And so he had a he had a
		
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			question. He asked the messenger of Allah
		
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			that,
		
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			these casks of wine, like, what do I
		
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			do? They belong to the orphans. Obviously, like,
		
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			taking something from away from the orphans is
		
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			kinda like, you know, I could find we're
		
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			all in favor of destroying the wine, but
		
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			this is what they have, you know.
		
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			And the Rasul Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, he said
		
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			explicitly, he said he he says, how about,
		
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			you know, can I take their casks of
		
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			wine and turn them into vinegar? And the
		
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			Rasool
		
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			said said said said, break them and throw
		
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			them out.
		
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			And,
		
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			the permission
		
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			for making vinegar and from
		
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			wine and from using the vinegar made from
		
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			wine, it comes later, actually.
		
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			It's not in the beginning. And in the
		
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			beginning, what it was was there's a number
		
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			of prohibitions that that that came down,
		
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			in order to get make people understand that
		
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			this is wrong to hate it,
		
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			to the point where even to drink, eat
		
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			and drink out of the vessels that the
		
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			wine was made in, customarily served in, customarily
		
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			kept in, stored in. That even to drink
		
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			water out of them at some point or
		
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			another becomes becomes haram.
		
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			And then those things get
		
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			relaxed later on once it becomes clear to
		
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			people that this really is a bad thing.
		
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			Otherwise, there are people like, I remember there
		
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			I remember there was a big
		
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			desktop that happened in Pakistan.
		
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			That, there are, for example, about
		
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			one very famous and very revered for by
		
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			all people, companion of the messenger of Allah
		
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			Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, an incident regarding his drunkenness,
		
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			you know. And so there's another sect that
		
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			has the that
		
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			certain people from the companions are, and from
		
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			the family of the prophet Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam
		
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			are, like,
		
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			infallible.
		
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			So they made a big thing, you know,
		
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			people death threats and, like, cussing at each
		
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			other, flying back and forth. Why? Like, why
		
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			is that possible though? Right? Why is that
		
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			because in the civilization of Islam,
		
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			the the hatred of drinking is so deep
		
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			seated
		
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			amongst sincere, like, Muslims, you know.
		
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			Not nowadays, like like, you know, some Instagram
		
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			model, like, you know, when she's, like, 25,
		
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			you know. Know, she's like, oh, yeah. My
		
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			dad said we're, like, Muslim or whatever. Like,
		
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			I'm gonna go have a Quran or Ramadan
		
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			or whatever and, like, you know, I'm connecting
		
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			people spiritual. Not, like, actual Muslims, like, people
		
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			who actually pray and stuff. You know?
		
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			Actual I shouldn't have said culturally actual Muslims.
		
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			Obviously, an Aqidah Allah knows who's the actual
		
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			Muslim on the day of judgement. We'll find
		
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			out. But the point is is that that
		
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			that people who belong to the civilization, whether
		
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			they're drunkards themselves or not, they know how
		
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			how they have a deep seated hatred for
		
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			this thing. It's a matter of shame even
		
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			for the person who drinks it. You know?
		
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			And so
		
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			the
		
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			did a really good job because there was
		
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			a time when the Arabs used to not
		
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			think about it that way. That even companions,
		
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			if we were to mention their names about
		
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			the incidents of their drunkenness, like, a person
		
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			would be like like, it doesn't register. I
		
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			don't understand. I don't get it. And the
		
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			reason for that is what? Is that it
		
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			wasn't always that way. To make society hate
		
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			drinking like that, is actually a great achievement
		
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			of the messenger of Allah
		
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			Otherwise,
		
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			the love of alcohol is like it's like
		
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			one of the pillars on which the society
		
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			is built,
		
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			and on which every every Caffir society is
		
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			built.
		
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			And so
		
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			and so that's that's, you know
		
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			yeah. So, a, it's not halal,
		
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			and b,
		
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			it's a bigger it's a fail in a
		
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			bigger way that even, you know, like the
		
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			vinegar was haram in in the beginning. Why?
		
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			Because it's an objective of the Sharia to
		
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			get people to hate these things.
		
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			And, you know, it's if you wanna drink
		
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			grape juice, don't drink it out of wine
		
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			bottle or wine glass.
		
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			Go and buy, like, whatever. You wanna buy
		
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			$25 grape juice. The Lord gave you from
		
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			from your provision a lot, and you have
		
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			you, you know, you're taking care of what
		
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			you need to take care of, and you
		
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			give your
		
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			and
		
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			whatever and, like, you're
		
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			bought your, like, whatever
		
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			square tile of the Masjid
		
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			Usman fundraiser or whatever. Right? Like, you've done
		
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			all that, Darsalam.
		
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			You've raised your hand with all the big
		
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			shots and everything. At the end of it,
		
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			you wanna buy a $25
		
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			bottle of grape juice. That's your problem. Like,
		
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			I'm not
		
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			I'm not gonna hate on you for that.
		
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			That's fine. But still don't drink it out
		
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			of a wine bottle and a wine glass
		
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			and be like, oh, look. It's,
		
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			you know, whatever some stupid French name or
		
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			whatever. Right? Just just it's good grape juice
		
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			to drink it. That's fine. Enjoy
		
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			yourself.
		
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			It's a chapter regarding the differ, some different
		
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			issues with regards to fasting.
		
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			It's a well known hadith
		
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			narrated by Abu Ghraer
		
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			that,
		
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			that he said that the messenger the prophet
		
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			said if a person forgets
		
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			and they forget to eat or drink, then
		
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			let them keep fasting, like, during the fast.
		
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			Let them keep fasting because and just consider
		
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			that a lot, you know, that food and
		
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			drink was Allah feeding them and and giving
		
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			them to drink.
		
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			Now, it's famous,
		
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			that amongst the most of them meant that
		
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			this they they took this hadith to mean
		
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			that the the fast is not broken.
		
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			Malik
		
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			or says, no. The fast is broken. And
		
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			because of the day, a person has to
		
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			keep the rest of the fast. But the
		
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			point is that there's no sin. It's not
		
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			that you don't have to make it up.
		
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			There's no sin. And it's not that you
		
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			don't have to make it up.
		
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			But,
		
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			one way or the other,
		
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			both of them, the hadith the meaning of
		
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			the hadith is not valid violated by either
		
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			of the,
		
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			by either of the interpretations.
		
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			Although oftentimes we read into a text what's
		
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			not actually there because of our own understanding,
		
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			but the text of the hadith
		
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			can bear both both meanings.
		
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			It's
		
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			ibn Allan brings,
		
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			kind of at the end of the,
		
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			the end of his commentary on this hadith,
		
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			A story narrated by Abdul Azak and his
		
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			Musannath,
		
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			by Amr bin Dinar, a sheikh from the
		
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			Aslaf.
		
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			Right? The
		
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			the the Musannath of Abdul Azaf, of Ibn
		
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			Abi Sheba.
		
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			Right? The the they're the hadith of the
		
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			prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam is there in
		
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			it as well, but there are a number
		
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			of very interesting anecdotes about the aslaf of
		
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			the companions and the the the the aslaf,
		
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			their fatawa, their positions, things that happened to
		
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			them. It's it's interesting. It's important. Even if
		
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			you like, you know, so, well, only if
		
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			it's narrated by the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa
		
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			sallam, I'm gonna follow it.
		
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			But it's interesting to know what their culture,
		
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			their civilization was like, and what their dispositions
		
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			were like. And so he mentions that a
		
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			man came to Abu Huraira. Amr bin dinar
		
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			mentions in this narration of Abdul Razak that
		
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			a man came to Abu Huraira,
		
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			He says, I woke up with the intention
		
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			of fasting,
		
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			and then I went and visited somebody and
		
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			I I I ate, like, forgetfully.
		
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			And he says,
		
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			it's okay. It's, like, no big deal.
		
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			He says, It's like, it'll be okay. And
		
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			so he says, then I went to another
		
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			visited another person, and I forgot again, and
		
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			I ate and drank over there. He says,
		
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			it's okay. May Allah feed you, and may
		
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			he give you to drink. Or also, it
		
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			could mean that Allah is the one who
		
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			gave you to eat, and Allah is the
		
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			one who gave you to drink.
		
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			So then I went to another person and
		
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			I forgot and I ate again.
		
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			Who says he says he says, it seems
		
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			like you're
		
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			you're you're not accustomed to keeping fast.
		
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			You know? So but even that even that
		
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			it's he was nice to him, like he
		
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			said, so he made, like, an excuse for
		
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			him. You know? Kinda shows their their disposition,
		
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			their their looks that he goes, you know,
		
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			maybe it's not your, you know it was
		
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			Ramadan, everyone's fasting. Maybe someone tried to keep
		
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			enough of fast. I, you know, this happened
		
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			to me. I remember when I was a
		
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			kid,
		
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			I made up a fast that I was
		
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			sick for, you know, during Ramadan. And,
		
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			let's say, happy because nobody else is fasting.
		
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			So you don't even think about it, you
		
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			know. So maybe you're just not accustomed to
		
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			fasting.
		
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			Again though,
		
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			this hadith, you know, does a person have
		
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			to make it up or not? It could
		
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			bear both meanings.
		
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			The point is though, it's not a sin.
		
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			A person should have beat themselves up about
		
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			it, you know, they're trying, it happens.
		
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			So,
		
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			this,
		
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			Lapid,
		
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			Lapid is like
		
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			something that that's that was lost that got
		
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			found. Right?
		
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			He says, Lapit Bin Sabra.
		
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			Hafiz ibn Hajr mentions that Sabra is the
		
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			name of his,
		
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			of his grandfather.
		
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			And his name his father's name is Saamir,
		
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			and he was also a companion, and he
		
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			himself, Laqid, is also
		
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			a a companion. And his hadith come,
		
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			in Bukhari and they come in the 4,
		
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			Sunan.
		
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			Ibn
		
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			Abdul
		
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			Bar
		
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			says
		
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			that,
		
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			that that he comes with these different names.
		
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			And so some of the,
		
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			some of the Muhaddithin
		
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			mentioned him mentioned him by one name and
		
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			some mentioned him by another. Sometimes when somebody's,
		
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			like, grandfather or ancestor is more famous, they
		
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			they just call the the descendants of the
		
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			house by the more famous,
		
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			ancestor. And so some of the in their
		
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			biographical dictionary, they they mentioned them as separate
		
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			people,
		
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			but
		
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			the tahtik is that they're the same. And
		
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			the reason they mentioned them as separate people
		
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			is because the possibility that they may be
		
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			separate people, but then afterward,
		
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			upon reconciliation
		
00:36:29 --> 00:36:30
			of the an Athar,
		
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			that the person who's narrating from someone someone
		
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			may only have a couple of narrations, but
		
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			then the person who gathers all the narrations
		
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			together can kinda connect the dots. They say
		
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			it's the same it's the same person. He
		
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			says, I said, oh, messenger of Allah, inform
		
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			me about wudu. He said, paint
		
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			the limbs with wudu
		
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			and, make sure to rub between the fingers
		
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			and,
		
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			emphatically
		
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			rinse out your nose.
		
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			Meaning sniff the water up your nose and
		
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			then blow it out, except for if you're
		
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			fasting. If you're fasting, you don't have to
		
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			you know, because you're gonna end up swallowing
		
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			some water, you know. Just do it lightly.
		
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			In the Maliki school, I I maybe other
		
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			people can inform me if they have
		
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			if they remember the masala from the book.
		
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			The a person who has a dry mouth
		
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			when they're fasting, the amount of water that
		
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			kind of absorbs into the mouth
		
00:37:22 --> 00:37:24
			from gargling, whether it's in muldu or not
		
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			in not for muldu, but it doesn't go
		
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			down the throat, but it just absorbs into
		
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			the mouth. That much is forgiven. That's not
		
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			that doesn't break the fast.
		
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			But again, the person should just take it
		
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			easy.
		
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			She, she mentions that
		
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			the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam,
		
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			sometimes the dawn would break
		
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			and he would be in a state of
		
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			major ritual impurity.
		
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			Then he would,
		
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			take
		
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			his ritual bath.
		
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			But it doesn't he and he would fast,
		
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			meaning it didn't affect the validity of the
		
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			fast. That you don't have to be in
		
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			Tahara in order for the fast to be
		
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			valid. You can be in in Janaba, and
		
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			the fast is still valid as long as
		
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			you're not doing the thing that actually
		
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			causes the Janaba after the time the dawn
		
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			breaks. And in another narration, say the Aisha
		
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			and Umsalama,
		
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			the 2 mothers of the believers, they both
		
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			narrated that the Messenger of Allah sallallahu alaihi
		
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			wa sallam would wake up,
		
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			in a state of
		
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			ritual impurity.
		
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			And they would this is their polite way
		
00:39:02 --> 00:39:03
			of saying it, that not from
		
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			not from a nocturnal emission, but from not
		
00:39:07 --> 00:39:10
			from nocturnal emission, meaning from relations that that
		
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			a husband has with the wife. And he
		
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			would fast that that it wouldn't,
		
00:39:13 --> 00:39:14
			invalidate.
		
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			It wouldn't validate the fast.
		
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			And, the Rasul sallallahu alaihi wasallam, he didn't
		
00:39:23 --> 00:39:24
			used to have the nocturnal
		
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			it didn't happen to him.
		
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			It's mentioned by a number of number of
		
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			the olema that that that didn't happen to
		
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			him.
		
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			So his janaba was all from,
		
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			what the relations are between a husband and
		
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			a wife.
		
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			Babu Bayani Fabbli
		
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			Soamin Muharami wa Sha'aban
		
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			shaabanu alashhurulhurum.
		
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			The chapter regarding the
		
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			virtue of fasting in the month of Muharram
		
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			and,
		
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			Shaaban
		
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			and these sacred months. So what are the
		
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			sacred months? 3 of them are together and
		
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			one is separate. The 3 that are together,
		
00:40:02 --> 00:40:03
			the Qada,
		
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			and Muharram, and the one that's apart is
		
00:40:07 --> 00:40:07
			Rajab,
		
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			which is kind of not that far away.
		
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			He mentions that the Prophet,
		
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			the Messenger of Allah
		
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			said,
		
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			that the most virtuous of fasting after Ramadan
		
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			is the month,
		
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			of the month of Allah,
		
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			Al Muharram.
		
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			And the month of Allah, meaning what? All
		
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			of the months belong to Allah Ta'ala. But
		
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			the nisba to Allah Ta'ala is a nisba
		
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			of tashrif in order to
		
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			show its virtue.
		
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			Just like a person may be the father
		
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			of many children, but if like one of
		
00:41:01 --> 00:41:02
			their children does something good, they say, that's
		
00:41:02 --> 00:41:05
			my child. Of course, they're all they're all
		
00:41:05 --> 00:41:06
			his chill children.
		
00:41:06 --> 00:41:08
			But it's a way of showing praise and
		
00:41:08 --> 00:41:10
			and and and indicating virtue.
		
00:41:10 --> 00:41:12
			It says the best of
		
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			prayers are the prayers in the night.
		
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			Now
		
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			the question comes up,
		
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			which is that,
		
00:41:20 --> 00:41:21
			there are those who say that
		
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			the
		
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			the the nafil fast of
		
00:41:26 --> 00:41:27
			of Arafat
		
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			is more virtuous,
		
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			or
		
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			the the fasting of the first 10, 9
		
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			days of
		
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			the Hajjar more virtuous.
		
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			And,
		
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			the right that here, the meaning is the
		
00:41:41 --> 00:41:42
			entire month,
		
00:41:43 --> 00:41:44
			the fasting of the entire month.
		
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			And you don't fast the entire
		
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			because it's haram to fast on Eid in
		
00:41:49 --> 00:41:50
			the 2 days after it.
		
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			So,
		
00:41:53 --> 00:41:56
			there is some debate and dispute amongst the
		
00:41:56 --> 00:41:57
			olema as to whether it's more virtuous to
		
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			fast the day of Arafa or the day
		
00:41:59 --> 00:42:00
			of,
		
00:42:01 --> 00:42:01
			of Ashura.
		
00:42:02 --> 00:42:05
			And in general in general, the ulema prefer
		
00:42:05 --> 00:42:06
			the day of Arafa, but there are those
		
00:42:06 --> 00:42:08
			who said that
		
00:42:08 --> 00:42:11
			that they prefer the day of Ashura. But
		
00:42:12 --> 00:42:14
			the fact is that that's indisputable is that
		
00:42:14 --> 00:42:15
			nobody fast the entire,
		
00:42:17 --> 00:42:19
			because that involves sin. Whereas, Muharram, the entire
		
00:42:19 --> 00:42:22
			Muharram can be fasted and Allah knows best.
		
00:42:36 --> 00:42:37
			He
		
00:42:38 --> 00:42:38
			said, Aisha
		
00:42:40 --> 00:42:42
			narrates that the Messenger of Allah Sallallahu Alaihi
		
00:42:42 --> 00:42:43
			Wasallam
		
00:42:45 --> 00:42:47
			didn't used to fast in any month more
		
00:42:47 --> 00:42:49
			than his fast in Shaaban.
		
00:42:49 --> 00:42:51
			And he used to,
		
00:42:51 --> 00:42:54
			sometimes fast all of Shaaban.
		
00:42:54 --> 00:42:56
			And in another narration that he used to
		
00:42:56 --> 00:42:58
			fast Shaaban except for very little. And so
		
00:42:58 --> 00:43:00
			the the the commentators then differ about this
		
00:43:00 --> 00:43:02
			except for very little. Does it mean that
		
00:43:02 --> 00:43:04
			he fasted all of Shaaban,
		
00:43:05 --> 00:43:07
			except for a few times that he didn't
		
00:43:07 --> 00:43:08
			fast the whole thing or did he fast
		
00:43:09 --> 00:43:10
			all the time, most of it except for
		
00:43:10 --> 00:43:12
			a few days? And both meanings are Muhamdamal
		
00:43:13 --> 00:43:14
			but the the
		
00:43:15 --> 00:43:17
			the the benefit of the paid is this
		
00:43:17 --> 00:43:18
			and that the reason the Rasool
		
00:43:19 --> 00:43:20
			used to
		
00:43:20 --> 00:43:23
			omit Sha'aban some days, if not from every
		
00:43:23 --> 00:43:25
			Sha'aban, then from some days, from some of
		
00:43:25 --> 00:43:27
			the years. Just so people didn't used to
		
00:43:27 --> 00:43:29
			think it's, it's farther.
		
00:43:29 --> 00:43:31
			So that they didn't get the wrong impression
		
00:43:31 --> 00:43:34
			that it's wajib. Otherwise, the faster Shaaban has
		
00:43:34 --> 00:43:36
			a number of benefits, not the least of
		
00:43:36 --> 00:43:38
			which is the cleaning of a person's slate
		
00:43:38 --> 00:43:39
			in the preparation for Ramadan.
		
00:43:40 --> 00:43:41
			Again, but with
		
00:43:41 --> 00:43:43
			the the the caveat that we mentioned in
		
00:43:43 --> 00:43:46
			weeks before weeks past, that person, it doesn't
		
00:43:46 --> 00:43:48
			weaken them from their resolve from being able
		
00:43:48 --> 00:43:49
			to
		
00:43:49 --> 00:43:51
			fast the month of Ramadan properly.
		
00:45:07 --> 00:45:08
			So Mujiba from the
		
00:45:10 --> 00:45:11
			the the the the Bahili tribe.
		
00:45:13 --> 00:45:14
			She narrates from
		
00:45:15 --> 00:45:17
			her father or from her uncle.
		
00:45:17 --> 00:45:20
			So this Mujiba, she is herself a,
		
00:45:21 --> 00:45:24
			according to Hafiz ibn Hajr and Istaqrib. He
		
00:45:24 --> 00:45:26
			mentions that she's herself a companion.
		
00:45:27 --> 00:45:29
			She's from the register of the companions. Be
		
00:45:29 --> 00:45:30
			all that I'll be pleased with all of
		
00:45:30 --> 00:45:31
			them.
		
00:45:31 --> 00:45:32
			And,
		
00:45:35 --> 00:45:36
			ibn Athir says that her
		
00:45:37 --> 00:45:37
			name,
		
00:45:38 --> 00:45:40
			he found in the Atraaf of Mizzi that
		
00:45:40 --> 00:45:41
			her her father's name
		
00:45:42 --> 00:45:45
			is, Abu Mujiba Abdullah bin Haraf Al Bahili.
		
00:45:46 --> 00:45:48
			And as for her uncle,
		
00:45:49 --> 00:45:51
			it's it's not known,
		
00:45:51 --> 00:45:52
			who who who,
		
00:45:54 --> 00:45:55
			who he was,
		
00:45:56 --> 00:45:58
			Which says either from her father or from
		
00:45:58 --> 00:45:58
			her uncle.
		
00:45:59 --> 00:46:00
			She narrates that,
		
00:46:02 --> 00:46:04
			he came to the messenger of Allah sallallahu
		
00:46:04 --> 00:46:04
			alaihi wa sallam
		
00:46:05 --> 00:46:08
			and, he then left his,
		
00:46:09 --> 00:46:10
			you know, he left his
		
00:46:11 --> 00:46:13
			side. He left from wherever he was, And
		
00:46:13 --> 00:46:15
			then he came back and returned to meet
		
00:46:15 --> 00:46:17
			him after a year.
		
00:46:17 --> 00:46:18
			And
		
00:46:19 --> 00:46:19
			his condition
		
00:46:20 --> 00:46:22
			and the way he carried himself had changed.
		
00:46:23 --> 00:46:24
			And he said, Oh Messenger of Allah, don't
		
00:46:24 --> 00:46:26
			you remember me or don't you know me?
		
00:46:27 --> 00:46:29
			And the Rasool Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said, Who
		
00:46:29 --> 00:46:32
			are you? He says, I'm the Bahili, the
		
00:46:32 --> 00:46:34
			the person from the Bahili tribe,
		
00:46:34 --> 00:46:36
			who came to you a year ago.
		
00:46:37 --> 00:46:37
			And,
		
00:46:38 --> 00:46:40
			the Rasool Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam asked him then,
		
00:46:40 --> 00:46:42
			then what changed you? Like, what's what's affected
		
00:46:42 --> 00:46:43
			you?
		
00:46:44 --> 00:46:44
			And
		
00:46:45 --> 00:46:48
			he said, you used to be you used
		
00:46:48 --> 00:46:49
			to have a
		
00:46:50 --> 00:46:52
			you used to carry yourself with in a
		
00:46:52 --> 00:46:52
			beautiful way.
		
00:46:53 --> 00:46:55
			He says, well, I haven't eaten anything
		
00:46:55 --> 00:46:57
			since I left you except for at night.
		
00:46:57 --> 00:46:59
			Meaning, I fasted every day since since we've
		
00:46:59 --> 00:47:02
			been apart. So the messenger of Allah, salallahu
		
00:47:02 --> 00:47:03
			alaihi wa sallam, he said to him, he
		
00:47:03 --> 00:47:04
			says, you've tortured yourself.
		
00:47:05 --> 00:47:07
			You've tortured yourself. He says and then he
		
00:47:07 --> 00:47:08
			said,
		
00:47:08 --> 00:47:10
			fast a month of patience. Meaning fast a
		
00:47:10 --> 00:47:11
			month of Ramadan.
		
00:47:13 --> 00:47:15
			This is mentioned in a number of hadith
		
00:47:15 --> 00:47:17
			that this is the month of patience. And
		
00:47:17 --> 00:47:19
			it's mentioned, also in this, in the in
		
00:47:19 --> 00:47:22
			in the commentary here by Noli later on.
		
00:47:22 --> 00:47:24
			So fast the month of patience, meaning fast
		
00:47:24 --> 00:47:25
			the month of Ramadan.
		
00:47:25 --> 00:47:27
			And then fast 1 month from every
		
00:47:28 --> 00:47:29
			month thereafter.
		
00:47:29 --> 00:47:31
			He says, give me give me more. Let
		
00:47:31 --> 00:47:33
			me fast more because I have strength.
		
00:47:34 --> 00:47:36
			He says, okay. Fast 2 days then. He
		
00:47:36 --> 00:47:38
			says, give me more. He says, fast 3
		
00:47:38 --> 00:47:40
			days. He says, give me more.
		
00:47:40 --> 00:47:41
			He says, fast,
		
00:47:43 --> 00:47:44
			some days from the
		
00:47:45 --> 00:47:47
			sacred months and leave some days. He says,
		
00:47:47 --> 00:47:49
			fast some days from the sacred months, then
		
00:47:49 --> 00:47:51
			leave some days. He says, fast some days
		
00:47:51 --> 00:47:54
			from the sacred months, and leave some days.
		
00:47:54 --> 00:47:56
			With 3 fingers, he put them together and
		
00:47:56 --> 00:47:57
			then he separated them.
		
00:48:00 --> 00:48:01
			And so the most virtuous
		
00:48:02 --> 00:48:04
			fast in general are from the
		
00:48:05 --> 00:48:08
			sacred months, which are again, as was mentioned,
		
00:48:08 --> 00:48:08
			Rajab
		
00:48:09 --> 00:48:10
			and and,
		
00:48:11 --> 00:48:12
			and,
		
00:48:14 --> 00:48:15
			with the exception
		
00:48:16 --> 00:48:17
			of the days of