Hamzah Wald Maqbul – Riyad alSalihin Scrupulousness II.mp4

Hamzah Wald Maqbul
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The speakers discuss the importance of fortune tellers and the use of words like "will" in relation to actions and events. They emphasize the need for caution and caution about past experiences, avoiding false expectations, and avoiding negative language and negative thoughts. The speakers also emphasize the importance of acceptance of Islam and avoiding negative thoughts to avoid confusion. They stress the need for everyone to be the person one wants to see in the future, avoiding messing with one's past experiences, and avoiding negative thoughts to avoid negative consequences. The speakers also touch on the importance of shaping oneself to be the one one one you want to see in the future, avoiding negative thoughts, and avoiding harms sallam. Finally, they discuss the loss of Muslims in the world and the lack of support for their beliefs.
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Said

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he narrates directly from the messenger of Allah

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that from the things that I remember from

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the messenger of

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Allah is the following.

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Remember the Hussein

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are born

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in Madina So they're less than 10

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is that he said, leave that thing which

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causes you doubt for that thing that doesn't

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cause you doubt.

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So it's a very interesting narrated

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by

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He had a slave boy. He had a

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slave boy with which he used to have

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an interesting arrangement.

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The arrangement was this, that

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the the slave boy would

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work. He would just do free enterprise,

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essentially. He's too smart to, you know, sweep

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the floors and work the fields. So he

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said, go out and just do your business,

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and then you give me a certain portion

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of what you earn every day.

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And, the rest of it, however much money

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you earn, you you can keep. This is

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a very, like,

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republican type of arrangement that they have. So

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this was this was from the beginning of

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in the beginning of Islam.

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And so what happens is that both Sayna

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Abu Bakr and and his slaves,

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including the slave, they became Muslims then after

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the advent of

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Islam. And so what happens is that,

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what happens is that one day,

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from the haraj, from that, like, daily

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from that daily price that or daily fee

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or whatever that he would bring to Sayid

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Abu Bakr radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu. And this is

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this is actually a good thing. This is

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actually considered to be

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an honor for the slaves. It's much easier

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than doing backbreaking labor or whatever. It's much

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easier

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convenience. A more convenient arrangement.

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So from the thing that the slave used

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to bring, Sayed Abu Bakr,

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he brought him some food one day

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and so, you know, when he was done

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eating,

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the

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the the slave boy asks him, do you

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know what that was you just ate? And

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so Abu Bakr says,

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no, tell me. Umahu, what is it? And

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so he says, I used to do fortune

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telling.

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This this is an interesting word.

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Right?

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The the word for a temple priest

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in Judaism

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is kohin. Right? You have you have this

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name kohin amongst Jews. Right? It's not like

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a temple priest. So, you know,

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it's a priestly family

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from the line of Sinha'un alayhis salam, and

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they have special rules regarding them. The rest

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of the Jews, they trace their lineage

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through the mother in rabbinic Judaism.

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This is a new form. This happens after

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Sinai 'eighty's alaihis salam. It's kind of a.

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Them.

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The original the original lineage was traced like

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the lineage of the Arabs through the father.

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And so the Cohen priest starts the only

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Jews that still keep their lineage from their

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father's side. In order to be a priest,

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you have to be a priest from your

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father's line, not from your mother's line. At

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any rate, it's a cognate. It's a cognate.

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It's the same word the word that they

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use for priest.

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So to the Arabs, though, the word kahim

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means

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means what? Like a soothsayer.

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Because what do they do? They go into

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the temple. They make the sacrifice, and they

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say, the will of God is this and

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that today.

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And so,

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amongst the Arabs, it was considered to be

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kind of, like wishy washy. It wasn't necessarily

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something they respected completely.

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Although the person in their kind of it's

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kind of like here, you know, the people

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don't think that psychic friends network, you know,

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goes out of business and they joke and

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they say, oh, if they were so psychic,

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they should have been able to foretell that

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the business wasn't gonna work. But still, you

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have people calling them. You have the president

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is calling them and senators and congresspeople and

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super rich people still are kinda privately it's

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a little private shamed to call and ask

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about these types of things.

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So it's kind of like that in Jahiliya.

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To say someone is a kahuna means he's

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kind of like halfway mad and he's kind

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of a weirdo.

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But privately, they used to go to these

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people and consult with them.

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So he said, I used to and that

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was one of the allegations they made against

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the prophet

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that he is a he's just a soothsayer.

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And so this young man, he says, I

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used to do I used to be a

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fortune teller. I used to do

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that, and so this this man came to

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me and I told this fortune to him

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in Jahiliya. I did the I was I

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was I did the Cohen thing with him

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in Jahiliyah,

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and I I I said that you owe

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me the money for it, you know, the

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the fee for it. And so he said,

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okay. So today, I saw him again. And

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he said, I used to be really good

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at fortune telling,

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except for.

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He said that I used to be really

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good at people really believed me and trusted

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me when I would tell them things, except

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for I was just making it all up.

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So I was just messing with them. I

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was just messing with them.

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This is, but anyway,

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this guy really used to trust me, and

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I used to just mess with him.

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And so today, he he saw me again,

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and he brought me the price for the

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fortune telling that I did for him in

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Jahiliya.

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And so what what is the scene? The

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scene is obviously said that Abu Bakr,

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a

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man of great piety is also a. He's

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a person who understands the deen. Right? So

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what does he do immediately? He sticks his

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hand in his throat and he vomits all

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the food out. He threw all the food

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out. It says in the hadith,

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he literally vomited everything he could out of

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his,

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out of his stomach.

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That's the end of the hadith. Meaning what?

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He knew that the

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the the the food that he had

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in mind was from haram.

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It's from Batim. The first of all, fortune

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telling is Haram.

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2nd of all, lying is Haram.

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You know you know, and taking money from

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somebody

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based on a lie or based on something

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that's haram itself is also haram. So he

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didn't want that inside of himself. So what

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did he do? He,

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he he literally vomited out everything he ate.

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Now without getting into too much of a

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technical discussion because it's not a fit class,

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we'll cover all of these things in fit

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class in in great detail in

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Just one of the benefits of reading the

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the,

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you know, chapter by chapter

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is that you can

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have discussions

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which are not based on context because what

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happens when, you know, there's certain trigger issues

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in every masjid that everybody gets into a

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fight about, You know, if you talk about

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moon signing on the 27th of Shaban, 28th

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of Shaban, yes, obviously, there's going to be

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a big fight about it. If you read

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the books of Sharia and it's like just

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some random, you know, Tuesday and then, you

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know,

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then nobody cares because Eid is so far

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away and whatever so far. So you can

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have a calm and cool discussion

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because nobody brought it up to beat another

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person. It's just where we are in the

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book.

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So without getting into the technical discussions about

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the the issue,

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this is a great deal also because the

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chapter has to do with what with scrupulousness.

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This is a great deal about

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the fact that a person's scrupulousness and scrupulousness

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with regards to the things that they eat

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and drink. They have to be very high.

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It's something we have not taken seriously.

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Something we haven't taken seriously. The person is

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concerned, sometimes even more concerned. Okay. If I

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go to Starbucks

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and, you know, drink a cappuccino,

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I'm gonna go to * because I'm supporting

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the Zionist occupation,

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which it may be true or may not

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be true. Right? The the CEO of Starbucks.

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I'm from Seattle.

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His name is, what's his name again?

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I forget because I forget things a lot.

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But, the CEO of of of Starbucks,

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it's probably a blessing that I forgot his

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name. At any rate, he he is a

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a a a rabid supporter of Israel. He's

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a rabid supporter of Israel. Right?

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And, I I remember, like, during Sonix games,

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it's probably why took the Sonix away from

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us. It's because during he do stupid things

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like this during Sonix game at halftime.

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They're like bombing the the they're bombing Janine,

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you know, right after 9:11.

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And so they they, he he put out

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like a big banner saying we stand with

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you in Israel, we support you. You don't

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need support, you're bombing on people, it defensives

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people in the stone age. You don't need

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a new support, you're a bully.

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Right? And so, like, you know, things like

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so they say, oh, if we buy something

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from Starbucks, we're gonna go to *. The

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fact of the matter is he's an employee

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of the corporation and he definitely draws a

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salary from it, but it's not his corp

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it's not his corporation.

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A and b, even if it was his,

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anyone who studies fiqh knows that it's permissible

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to do a transaction between 2 people and

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taradi, even if the person

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is, you know, horrible in every way, shape,

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and form, you know. But if you're doing

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something permissible with another person, that's permissible.

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Okay. Fine. Long term, if you're giving, you

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know, bad people in business, you there's an

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understanding that they're gonna make money. But technically,

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it's not haram.

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The things that are technically haram receive priority

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over the things that are technically not haram

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even though there are certain permissible things that

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a person should be careful not to do,

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that a person should be careful not to

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do. Then for example, I need to give

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the examples. What do you mean permissible things

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you shouldn't do? Is this permissible for a

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man to give the

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Right? When no one would wanna do that.

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I actually gave that example one place. Some

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sister wrote in the comments, yeah, she's back

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in every program and said, Sheikh, there's sisters

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here. You shouldn't say stuff like this. This

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is bad. I don't mean maybe it is.

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Maybe she was bad. Maybe I should have

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said it. But at least the point the

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point got driven home. They understand that people

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understand. Not everything is permissible as worth doing

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because so many people are less permissible, shit,

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it's

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good. But people have a lot of sensitivity

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regarding certain things that are important, but they

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may be of a lower priority.

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They have less sense they have less sense

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sensibility about things that are much higher priority.

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See what does Said Abu Bakr Sadegh radiAllahu

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ta'alen do? He did something that many of

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us would consider extreme, which is what? He

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stuck his hand in his his his story

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and he the the food out. And it's

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not because it's it it goes even beyond.

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It goes beyond halal and haram. Why? Because

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he ate the food he didn't know. Right?

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They all knew at this point, this much,

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that if you didn't intend not to do

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something bad, you're not gonna get to sin

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for it. But there's a level deeper than

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that. What is the level? The understanding that

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haram is like a poison. It really will

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it will hurt you. It will harm you.

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It will harm your prayers. It will harm

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your reading of the Quran. It will harm

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your your your mental abilities.

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It will harm everything of everything. It will

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deduct from your good things, and it will

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increase in your bad things. It will be

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an incitement. It will go to you and

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prod you onto,

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doing haram things even despite yourself, whether you

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want to or not. So he understood that.

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He said, I don't want that inside of

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me. You know, so he he took it

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out just like a person would like a

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snake bite, suck the poison and spit out

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the poison from the snake bite. He got

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rid of it and left right away without

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skipping a beat. Right? This is a a

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really, I think, an important reminder to us

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when with what we eat and drink literally

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and what we earn. We have to be

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very careful about that. That there shouldn't be

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any haram in what we've earned. There shouldn't

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be any any any sort of,

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deception

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in what we earn. There shouldn't be anything

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questionable in what we earn and what we

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eat. It's literally what we eat. There shouldn't

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be anything questionable in those. That's not a

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joke. It's for real. Obviously, the have different

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opinions about different things. So different people will

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take different opinions that's correct for whatever reason

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it may be. But that being said, this

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is a chapter regarding.

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Maybe you could say, okay. I believe such

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and such thing is halal, but I don't

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wanna mess with it myself. I don't wanna

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mess with it with my family. Do you

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have a piano? What's the worst thing that

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could happen? You know, if it turns out

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that McDonald's was halal and people like me

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are just,

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you know, just trying to make our own

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business and make our own,

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career out of scaring people and, you know,

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I said I knew it. He's crazy. I

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knew it was crazy. And now in Africa,

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I know he's What's gonna happen?

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We'll reward

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you because you said,

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We feared you in this world and because

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of,

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you know, we abstain from it because there

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were a set of people who thought maybe

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they know what they're talking about. Right? It'll

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be a benefit to you anyway.

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Right? Whereas if it's the other way around,

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it's gonna be horrible for all of us.

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Now this line of reasoning is not a

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legalistic line of reasoning because if you take

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this line of reasoning,

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then a person will just have to shut

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themselves in a cave because there's somebody who

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said everything is halal and there's someone who

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says everything is halal. And so if anything

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anyone ever said is halal, anyone just took

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took that and you said, okay, I'm gonna

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be cautious about it. Maybe you might die

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because you won't be able to eat anything

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or drink water anymore or

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whatever. But at the same

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time, the point of this hadith or what

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I wanted to bring up with this hadith

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hadith very specifically

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is that it it's the the the things

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that you eat and drink, the things that

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you consume are primary

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an issue of primary importance.

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There's certain things that are more important than

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other things. This is more important than a

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lot of other things that a person thinks

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about when they think about with the deen.

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It's more important than a lot of things

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a lot of things what people take as

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important. That's what I wanted to highlight.

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A great transmitter of the hadith of the

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prophet and

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the great as well. So when I read

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a little bit differently,

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right, that's the that's the Qurah transmitted by

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Nafir. Right?

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The we'll call the wife,

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both of them are both of them are

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students of Nafir.

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Nafir is the freed slave of.

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So so this Nafir, he marries that who

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is not just anyone. Rather he's, you know,

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when in the Arab custom

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when a family freed a slave, that slave

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becomes a member of the family.

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They have something called. This is something they

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used to do in the beginning of Islam.

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Say they know, for example, he's a Persian.

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Right? But he has with one of the

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tribes of the Arabs. Right? All the, you

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know, in in the in the first times

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of Islam, they literally used to accept new

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converts into their tribes to the point where

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forget about freed slaves, even somebody

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takes Islam, takes to have that at the

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hands of somebody. They used to accept this

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person, and this person now becomes a member

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of the family, which is very unfortunate that

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we don't have these customs anymore.

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And it's a really big it's a big,

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responsibility if somebody accepts Islam at your hands.

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Right? It's a big responsibility

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for them and it's a big responsibility for

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you as well. You should be prepared for

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that as well. You should accept them into

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your family. You should think about, okay, this

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person needs a job. This person needs to

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get married. This person needs to straighten out

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their life. How can we help them? Now

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obviously, if somebody doesn't wanna be helped, you

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can't help them.

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But there are a lot of people who

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wanna be helped and they need somebody to

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help them, and they're human beings as well,

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which means they're gonna screw up along the

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way. So just like we would be patient

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with our own family, we would be patient

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with them, this is what the Arabs did

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when people accepted Islam, and it was a

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a source of strength for Islam actually. It

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was a source of benefit. This is one

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of the things people say, oh, you know,

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Islam, you forget about the culture and this

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and that. Islam is Islam. Forget about your

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culture, your background, you're just that and the

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other thing. No. It's not like that. Your

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culture, your background, your family, your name, your

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lineage, all of these things are a source

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of strength for everyone.

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Don't use them against the deen, use them

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for the deen. That's how the the Arabs

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did. So Nafir is talking about saying that,

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Amr alayhi Allahu Anwun. So amongst the Arabs,

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it's as if a man is talking about

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his own grandfather because he's a freed slave

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of of Abdul Abin Amr. This is something

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actually to this day, you know, if you

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go to Emirates and Qatar and these places,

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the freed slaves of the family, especially the

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big rich but ruling families,

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I've seen that they still they still live

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next to each other even though the, you

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know, you may have a man, his father

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freed,

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the father of the guy who's sitting next

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to him. But to this day, when they

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build a house, they'll build a house with

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their freed slaves. When they send their sons

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to college in America, they'll send the freed

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slaves to a college in America. They hang

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out with each other and their families do,

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you know. And obviously, it doesn't happen always.

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It's, you know, very idealistic that it it

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you know, for it for it to happen

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always. Obviously, there's risk conditions up. People not

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not honoring this custom, but it does happen.

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It didn't happen in America. It happens in

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the Muslim world. It's something you can still

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see that to this day. Oftentimes, people, they're

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freed slaves, they'll marry their own daughters to

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them, especially if they're people of,

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of worth and of,

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of of status. So so when he marries

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it, it's

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as if, you know, it's the closest thing

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without being so, it's the closest thing to

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not narrating something from his own grandfather because

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freed him, taught him, and made him into

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the Alim and the great scholar that he

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was.

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So he said that the the

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he was he ruled for for like 8

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years.

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After the

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he's 10 years younger than the messenger of

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Allah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. Said Abu Bakr

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is 2 years younger than the prophet sallallahu

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alaihi wa sallam will die at the age

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of 63.

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Said Abu Bakr completes his 2 years and

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also dies at the same age.

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And so, Umrah is 10 years younger than

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the messenger of Allah

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So 2 years and then he'll do his

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8 as Khalifa.

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And then when he reaches that age also,

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he'll also he'll also clock out, so to

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speak. And so in those 8 years, he

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established such a state. You know, he established

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such a state and such a bureaucracy, such

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a system. They didn't just rule by, you

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know, they didn't rule haphazardly.

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He had a very interesting system that he

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had, and it was politically very there's a

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lot of astuteness in it. So one of

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the things that they did was they fixed,

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they fixed,

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pensions

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for different people, for veterans in different battles,

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and for, you know, people of different rank

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in the state. And so the the the

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pension that was fixed for everyone from the

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people who made hijra, from the first people

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who made hijra in the was

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very high it was very high grade in

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the in the pension system.

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And Saidna Abdullah bin Omar, his

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son, he was actually the the in charge

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of the bureaucracy of the state. The first

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terms that from the Arabs too have a

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bureaucracy. They have written records, so and so,

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which battles, where they at, when did they

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make hijrah, when did they accept Islam, what

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are their famay or do they have some,

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you know, something good in the record, something

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bad in the record? He was the first

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one to keep written records, which was almost

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unheard of, you know, with the Arabs. And

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so said that he was a very key

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functionary in the state and he was very

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important. He knew exactly what was going on.

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They had, like, tabs on everybody. They knew

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exactly who's doing what and who's going where,

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etcetera. This is one of the reasons why

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I would say now,

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Amar,

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he he is,

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stabbed and he's dying.

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He's he's dying.

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He actually gives to the other,

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6

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from who are are are are are there

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too. Make the the choice of who becomes

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the next khalifa. He says that my son

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also let him sit in your madras. Why?

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Because he knows the way the state works.

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If you have any question, like, technical question

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of, you know, does this province, you know,

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make, you know, more,

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income than this province, or what's the problem

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here that happened in such and such year?

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He can dig out the files here because

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he keeps all of them. He can dig

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out the files and tell you exactly what's

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going on. But the condition is that you're

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under no circumstance to allow him to be

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a candidate to be Khalifa. He forbid them.

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And so in in line with that, this

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hadith is that he

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set as a pension for the the the

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the first wave of,

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4,000

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dirhams. 4,000 dirhams is silver. So dirham is

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silver, maybe worth about $5.

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So he set for them a pension of

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4,000 dirhams, and I assume that this is

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yearly.

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And so,

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but he set for his he set for

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his son,

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33 and a half 1000

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dirhams.

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And so it was said to him,

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that that this you know, that your son

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is also from the He also made Hijra

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from.

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So

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why have you

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why have you given him a lower, pay

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grade than everybody else in the same pay

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grade that he was in? And so he

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says what? He says,

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I should say. I'm sorry. He said that,

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verily,

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he made Hijra because his parents made Hijra.

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It's not like it was his own choice.

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His parents took him with and so he

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says he says,

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So he he doesn't have the rank of

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the person who makes Hijra

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on his own. And so but you have

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to look at it. You have to see

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who is it,

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he's doing this to his own son.

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Said Omar

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was a very harsh person.

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But by the time he becomes Khalifa, his

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harshness is directed on himself. It's not directed

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on other people. You'll see that other people

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will come thrash

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out

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somebody or go go nuts on somebody or

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ask to kill them or ask them to

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kill them. You'll see him

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thrash out somebody or go go nuts on

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somebody or ask to kill them or during

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the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam's life, there

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are a couple of times He asked for

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permission

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that give

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me permission of

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of of strike the neck off of this

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right now. But do you remember any story

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from his caliphate where he actually he said

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come here come here. Bam. You know? No.

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There's it doesn't work that way.

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Is complete at that time. He's a very

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harsh person,

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but he keeps reserves his harshness for himself.

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And then after that, for his immediate family

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so as to be an example to other

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people. And after that, the people who are

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ruling, the governors and the generals of the

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empire. He doesn't subject other people,

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other people to it. But this is his

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and

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he subjected himself to it. This is why

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he's a different ruler than other people.

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There are other commanders, other conquerors that were

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very,

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wonderful

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people and they're very talented and they're worthy

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that Islam in its history, its entire civilization

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would boast about these people. That these people

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were truly,

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people who brought honor to Islam. But the

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difference with Sayna Amar was

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that he was in every way, shape, and

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form, and he learned this from the messenger

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of Allah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.

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He was a person that did things in

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such a way that he minimized conflict and

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interest.

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Right? Saidah Aluba,

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Right? He's the one who, later on, he'll

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make the suggestion again. It will be kind

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of like a fail, you know? It'll be,

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you know, keep it real goes wrong. So

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he makes a suggestion, and we'll say, Omar,

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he's dying. He says, I have a suggestion.

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Why don't you just name Abdul Abdul Amr

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Khadifa after you, and it will make it

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into you know, you know, and why did

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he

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also? He didn't just say it because he's

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a troublemaker,

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but because the idea is it it ensures

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the continuity of the state. The state will

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keep running on the principles that it's running

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with, and people who are in, like, far

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flung provinces in Iraq and in in Persia

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and in Egypt and in North Africa, they

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don't know who's Omar or who's Uthman. They

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don't know any of these things. They they're

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just accustomed to so and so used to

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rule and now his son rules and it's

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the same thing that the state is still

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running with struggle. Said Nama was so offended

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by the said that even the suggestion, he

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ordered the people in the room to take

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this man out. He says, until I'm dead,

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don't let me see his face again.

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Why? Because he was he was so offended

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by the suggestion,

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and he was also afraid that that this

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person, if we let him stay here, he

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may, you know, work his his arguments in

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such a way that he'll make it happen.

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That's not how Sayna'allah

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radiAllahu ta'ala who used to rule. This is

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an important this is an important,

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lesson for anybody

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who wants to know what taqwa is and

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who wants to know what leadership is. That

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the first locus of your taqwa and the

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first locus of your wala and the first

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locus of your leadership that you wanna inflict

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on everybody else, it should be you, and

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it should be your own family. And not

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just your own family, it should first be

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you, then you can trouble your wife and

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kids about all of these things.

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Every one of us should be asked. We

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should be the person that we wish to

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see in the world. If we wanna do

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something for the, you know, for for people's

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akhlaq, we should be the ones who tighten

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up our akhlaq first. If we wanna do

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something for the people, you know, if you

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wanna, you know, they say that in Arabic.

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The person who himself is missing something, he

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cannot give it to anybody else. And this

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is something I never ceases to amaze me

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how the psychology of the nafs, how the

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psychology of the ego is, that so many

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people so many people can so shamelessly, ly,

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be completely bereft of something. Because then when

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they wanna talk about somebody else or say

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something about somebody else, they're so quick to

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open their mouth and say something and and

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and judge people and to look down on

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people. Allah made the path for Jannah easy

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for us. The path to jahannam is the

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path of shaitan. It's the path of.

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I'm better than him. You made me out

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of fire. You made him out of clay.

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Right? The path to is what? Tawad. Right?

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It's humility.

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Lord was humble for the sake of Allah.

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Allah will raise him. He made it so

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easy to direct

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go on the path to Jannah because he

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gave all of us so many imperfections and

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so many faults

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that nobody ever needs to even worry about

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being with the commander. Nobody ever needs to

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worry about about being,

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arrogant. But the problem is that, you know,

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somehow we

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it's like an Olympic feat. You know how,

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like, you know, you train for so many

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years and like one day finally you're on

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the podium, they're giving you the gold medal.

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Somehow the nafs is still able to, like,

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blind itself to the overwhelming

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of of

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oneself and the person can make it that

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day, you know, that they can say, oh,

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look. You know, look what's wrong with everybody

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else. I you know, implicitly, I'm so good

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and I understand. Said, Omar who had that

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handled, you

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know, properly.

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And as they say in another they say

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in another,

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that Ruwaia that said that Omar alayhi wa

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siddin Abdullah bin Omar alayhi wa siddin Abdullah

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was looking through the records. And he saw

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the he saw the

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stipend of Osama bin Zayed. Right? He said

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Osama bin Zayed and the

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prophet at one point had adopted until the

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adoption was was revoked by the Quran. It

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was abrogated by the Quran, but still everybody

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knew that he was, you know, he was

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so close to the messenger of Allah

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And so Osama bin Zayed was the son

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of him and the son of Parqa al

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Habashiya,

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the Abyssinian,

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woman who was the wet nurse, the mother

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of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam. So

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both the parents of this child were so

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beloved to the messenger of Allah sallallahu alaihi

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wa sallam. But he was a young man

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also. He wasn't that young. He was maybe

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17 or 18 or the time the prophet

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passed away, but he was definitely not one

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of the elders of the Sahaba. And so

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he wasn't there at Badr. He was too

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young to be able to participate at Badr.

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The highest stipend in the system was what?

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It was a stipend that the highest rank,

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you know, in the bureaucracy was? A veteran

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of Badr, a person who was a veteran

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of Badr received the highest, stipend in the

00:29:02 --> 00:29:04

system that was set by Saidah Omar.

00:29:05 --> 00:29:07

So Saidah Abdul Abin Omar looks through the

00:29:07 --> 00:29:08

files and he sees what he what seems

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to be a discrepancy.

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That Osama bin Zayed received the stipend of

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a veteran of Badr even though he wasn't

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their Badr.

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And so he takes the file to his

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father radiAllahu ta'ala anhumah,

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and he says he points out this discrepancy.

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He says, look, you know, he's receiving he's

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a young man, but he's receiving a stipend

00:29:25 --> 00:29:28

of a veteran of Badr. And said, Omar

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says to him, he says, don't talk to

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me about Osama bin Zayed

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because because the messenger of Allah,

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loved him more than he loved you, and

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he loved his father more than he loved

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your father.

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That's it. Done.

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Look at the amount of the amount of,

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control he had on his nose.

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It's amazing

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who comes to that point and and is

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able to do so. Right? Everybody, you know,

00:29:53 --> 00:29:54

everybody this is like

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a a a a theme. If you want

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to write a book or a novel or

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make a movie, a screenplay. You can do

00:30:01 --> 00:30:02

it again and again. It's happened in our

00:30:02 --> 00:30:05

history so many times. A good king and

00:30:05 --> 00:30:07

his son is an imbecile, but he still

00:30:07 --> 00:30:08

wishes, oh, my son will be get be

00:30:09 --> 00:30:11

get better before the end and whatever. And

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he says, okay. Make him make him king

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after me. And then look what kind of

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shenanigans happen afterward. Maybe some of them, they

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actually straighten out,

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but but

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more often than not, it doesn't happen. It's

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like it's it's a trope. It happens again

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and again. And it's like,

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You know, sometimes we're so intelligent, but sometimes

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we're just like a goldfish. No long term

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memories. Every time you go around the the

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fishbowl, it's like a new experience. And you're

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like, oh, I didn't think this was gonna

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happen. Otherwise, I would have never done it.

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So by the whole sensitize, 2000000 years or

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3000000 years of human history, god knows, you

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know, from before people can read and write.

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It's the same things that are happening again

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and again and again. And now everybody is

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has to learn, you know. So So hadith

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of the

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prophet,

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The happy person is the one who learns

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his lesson from somebody else's mistakes.

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Who was mentioned from a.

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It says that he narrated from a from

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the,

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3 hadith,

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that that that make it to us to

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this day.

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He says that the messenger of Allah

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said

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that a slave

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will never reach the rank of being amongst

00:31:54 --> 00:31:55

the people of Taqwa.

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He will never reach the rank of being

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amongst the people of Taqwa with Allah

00:32:01 --> 00:32:02

until he goes through

00:32:02 --> 00:32:05

the the the phase of having given up

00:32:05 --> 00:32:08

that thing that there's nothing wrong with out

00:32:08 --> 00:32:09

of fear

00:32:09 --> 00:32:11

of getting into the thing that there's something

00:32:11 --> 00:32:11

wrong with.

00:32:12 --> 00:32:14

A person will never reach the rank of

00:32:14 --> 00:32:15

the until

00:32:15 --> 00:32:17

he has given up that thing with which

00:32:17 --> 00:32:19

there's nothing wrong in order

00:32:20 --> 00:32:22

to prevent or out of fear of,

00:32:22 --> 00:32:24

going through those things that are wrong.

00:32:25 --> 00:32:25

So,

00:32:25 --> 00:32:27

I mean, it's it's important. Right? We have

00:32:27 --> 00:32:29

to also, like, look through it. Like, people,

00:32:29 --> 00:32:31

like I said, people have to we mentioned

00:32:31 --> 00:32:32

this 2 weeks ago when we had our

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last.

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They have, like, self defense mechanism.

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And so they have all these defense mechanisms.

00:32:40 --> 00:32:42

They throw out text of the book and

00:32:42 --> 00:32:44

of the sunnah, and they misinterpret them. They

00:32:44 --> 00:32:47

misinterpret those texts. That's not what those texts.

00:32:47 --> 00:32:49

You go look at what does it mean

00:32:49 --> 00:32:50

in.

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And what does it mean in in the

00:32:52 --> 00:32:53

Quran?

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Go look up what the meanings of those

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that

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a person should never go through any difficulty.

00:32:59 --> 00:33:01

It means that there are certain things you're

00:33:01 --> 00:33:03

gonna wanna do, and you're gonna find a

00:33:03 --> 00:33:05

way to explain to yourself if you really

00:33:05 --> 00:33:07

want to that this is okay. But you

00:33:07 --> 00:33:08

know in your heart or you even feel

00:33:08 --> 00:33:10

in your heart that there's something not okay

00:33:10 --> 00:33:12

about this, you're gonna have to get go

00:33:12 --> 00:33:14

through that phase of having given those things

00:33:14 --> 00:33:16

up. You're gonna have to go through the

00:33:16 --> 00:33:17

phase of, like, seeing something that you're like,

00:33:17 --> 00:33:19

oh, that would be wonderful. That would be

00:33:19 --> 00:33:21

amazing. But maybe x y z thing will

00:33:21 --> 00:33:24

happen because of it. Right? There's so many

00:33:24 --> 00:33:26

temptations about so many different things.

00:33:26 --> 00:33:29

Ask the person who's person who's an addict

00:33:29 --> 00:33:30

of something.

00:33:30 --> 00:33:32

Ask the person who's an alcoholic. There are

00:33:32 --> 00:33:33

people in the Muslim. Maybe there are people

00:33:33 --> 00:33:35

here right now. There are people who come

00:33:35 --> 00:33:35

to read.

00:33:36 --> 00:33:38

They're alcoholics. They're addicted to drugs. They're addicted

00:33:38 --> 00:33:41

to all kinds of different things. All kinds

00:33:41 --> 00:33:43

of different things. Someone is addicted to gambling.

00:33:43 --> 00:33:46

Somebody is addicted to *. Somebody is addicted

00:33:46 --> 00:33:48

to all sorts of different things. Right? Ask

00:33:48 --> 00:33:50

them, how much easier would it have been

00:33:50 --> 00:33:51

to give up something,

00:33:52 --> 00:33:54

right, that you're going to a party with

00:33:54 --> 00:33:56

your friends and then, you know, they're drinking,

00:33:56 --> 00:33:58

but I'm not gonna drink. I never drink.

00:33:58 --> 00:33:59

How much easier would it have been to

00:33:59 --> 00:34:01

do that and not have slipped into

00:34:02 --> 00:34:04

the road of alcoholism by drinking one?

00:34:05 --> 00:34:07

Something that looks so small, it looks innocuous.

00:34:07 --> 00:34:09

Right? Taking 1 puff at, you know,

00:34:10 --> 00:34:11

at a at a at a, you know,

00:34:11 --> 00:34:14

marijuana or God knows what. You know, looking

00:34:14 --> 00:34:16

one time at something that's haram.

00:34:16 --> 00:34:18

That's what it is. That's shaitan gets a

00:34:18 --> 00:34:21

person just by the the glass. I don't

00:34:21 --> 00:34:23

even wanna talk about it because it's something

00:34:23 --> 00:34:24

that we all have so much,

00:34:25 --> 00:34:27

you know, so much

00:34:27 --> 00:34:28

work we need to do about all of

00:34:28 --> 00:34:31

these things. One glance, you know, a person

00:34:31 --> 00:34:33

looks at somebody that they're not supposed to

00:34:33 --> 00:34:35

look at, and that's when shaitan gets you

00:34:35 --> 00:34:37

in the hook. It's just a matter of

00:34:38 --> 00:34:41

pulling a person in, and that person will

00:34:41 --> 00:34:43

do all sorts of things that are shameful,

00:34:43 --> 00:34:45

you know, to themselves and to their family,

00:34:45 --> 00:34:47

to their honor, to the Muslims, to the

00:34:47 --> 00:34:47

prophet

00:34:48 --> 00:34:50

to everybody. Allah, forgive all of us.

00:34:50 --> 00:34:51

All of those things. How much easier is

00:34:51 --> 00:34:53

it just to, like, say, you know what?

00:34:53 --> 00:34:55

This is permissible for me to do, but

00:34:55 --> 00:34:57

I see behind it a road to something

00:34:57 --> 00:34:58

that's not

00:34:59 --> 00:35:01

that's not, like, good. So you know what?

00:35:01 --> 00:35:02

I'm gonna give it up for the sake

00:35:02 --> 00:35:02

of Allah.

00:35:03 --> 00:35:05

Those are the people who are written amongst

00:35:06 --> 00:35:08

Go ask a alcoholics are interesting. When alcoholics

00:35:08 --> 00:35:11

see you as Muslims, see us as Muslims,

00:35:11 --> 00:35:12

they see the beard,

00:35:12 --> 00:35:14

right, they see, you know, the clothes or

00:35:14 --> 00:35:16

whatever. When they see that we're Muslims, they

00:35:16 --> 00:35:18

know. They all know that Muslims don't drink.

00:35:18 --> 00:35:19

Right? At least that they're not

00:35:26 --> 00:35:27

most in the world. Why? Because they're the

00:35:27 --> 00:35:29

ones who've been, Alcoholics are the ones who

00:35:29 --> 00:35:29

hate alcohol the most in the world. Why?

00:35:29 --> 00:35:30

Because they're the ones who've been kind of

00:35:30 --> 00:35:30

stunned by the the bitterness of it. They're

00:35:30 --> 00:35:30

the ones who lost their job. They lost

00:35:30 --> 00:35:31

their children, their friends,

00:35:34 --> 00:35:36

their it. They're the ones who lost their

00:35:36 --> 00:35:38

job. They lost their children, their friends, their

00:35:38 --> 00:35:41

wife, their parents, their family, everybody. Now they're

00:35:41 --> 00:35:43

just alone with them in the bottle, and

00:35:43 --> 00:35:44

they hate it. You know, they go back

00:35:44 --> 00:35:45

to it again and again, but they hate

00:35:45 --> 00:35:47

it so much. They hate it in a

00:35:47 --> 00:35:48

way maybe very few of us are would

00:35:48 --> 00:35:49

be able to understand.

00:35:50 --> 00:35:51

Right? So they come up to you and

00:35:51 --> 00:35:53

they see you. They say, see, old man,

00:35:53 --> 00:35:55

I remember one guy, he was drunk. He

00:35:55 --> 00:35:57

goes, man, you guys don't drink.

00:35:57 --> 00:35:59

I was like I was like, yeah, we

00:35:59 --> 00:36:01

don't drink. He goes, what do you guys

00:36:01 --> 00:36:03

do for fun? And so we get together

00:36:03 --> 00:36:04

and we talk with our friends and, you

00:36:04 --> 00:36:06

know, go out for a walk and eat

00:36:06 --> 00:36:09

food and, you know, yeah. Isn't it obvious,

00:36:09 --> 00:36:11

my shop? Right? We do all these other

00:36:11 --> 00:36:13

things, you know? The guy, you know, he

00:36:13 --> 00:36:13

goes,

00:36:14 --> 00:36:16

yo man, that's not even that's not American.

00:36:17 --> 00:36:18

I said, what are you talking about? There's

00:36:18 --> 00:36:21

like a constitutional amendment banning alcohol. It's still

00:36:21 --> 00:36:23

there. It's it's revoked, but it's still part

00:36:23 --> 00:36:24

of the text of the you know, just

00:36:24 --> 00:36:26

like in the Quran, there are certain but

00:36:27 --> 00:36:28

it's still part of the Quran. Right? You

00:36:28 --> 00:36:30

still gotta read it when you read Salat

00:36:30 --> 00:36:32

al Tawih. So whatever else, you know, it's

00:36:32 --> 00:36:33

still there on the it's still part of

00:36:33 --> 00:36:35

the text of the of the of the

00:36:35 --> 00:36:35

constitution.

00:36:36 --> 00:36:38

I go, there's still dry counties. You can

00:36:38 --> 00:36:40

go there places in America. There's still county

00:36:40 --> 00:36:42

I forget, like, Jack Daniels, I think, the

00:36:42 --> 00:36:44

the the county in Kentucky that they make

00:36:44 --> 00:36:46

it in. It's a dry county. You can't

00:36:46 --> 00:36:48

buy it over. They just make it. You

00:36:48 --> 00:36:49

can't buy it. They have to ship it

00:36:49 --> 00:36:50

out, you know, ship it out to another

00:36:50 --> 00:36:52

state or to the next, you know, several

00:36:52 --> 00:36:54

counties in order in order to buy them.

00:36:54 --> 00:36:56

I said, so that's that's America, man. That's,

00:36:56 --> 00:36:58

like, like, those are lost. Some of them

00:36:58 --> 00:36:59

are more than us are are nearly a

00:36:59 --> 00:37:03

century old. He goes, wow. That's amazing, man.

00:37:03 --> 00:37:04

So one guy one guy

00:37:05 --> 00:37:07

I start to realize so many weird stories

00:37:07 --> 00:37:09

about it. Ask them, you know, how much

00:37:09 --> 00:37:11

would it how much does this mean to

00:37:11 --> 00:37:13

them? That somebody just told them at the

00:37:13 --> 00:37:15

right time, hey, you know, just give up

00:37:15 --> 00:37:18

something, you know, that that that that's not

00:37:19 --> 00:37:20

you know, that you don't think is wrong,

00:37:20 --> 00:37:21

but just out of suspicion that this is

00:37:21 --> 00:37:24

gonna lead to something bigger, something worse. And,

00:37:24 --> 00:37:26

how much would that have benefited? They their

00:37:26 --> 00:37:28

people would give everything. They'd literally give the

00:37:28 --> 00:37:31

shirt off of their back in order to,

00:37:31 --> 00:37:33

go back in time and not take that

00:37:33 --> 00:37:34

first drink and be able to resist it.

00:37:34 --> 00:37:36

And then afterward, if you're not if you're

00:37:36 --> 00:37:36

not,

00:37:37 --> 00:37:39

addicted to it, how easy is it to

00:37:39 --> 00:37:40

resist? It's the easiest thing in the world.

00:37:40 --> 00:37:43

We ask all of us who are suffering

00:37:43 --> 00:37:45

from addiction. Any one of our brothers and

00:37:45 --> 00:37:47

sisters help. It's very difficult. It's very difficult.

00:37:47 --> 00:37:49

It's almost like a superhuman act to be

00:37:49 --> 00:37:51

able to break addiction afterward. Allah give all

00:37:51 --> 00:37:53

of them the help and the aid that

00:37:53 --> 00:37:55

they need in order to overcome this difficulty.

00:37:55 --> 00:37:56

Allah

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Inshallah,

00:37:59 --> 00:38:01

you'll notice the is a little bit longer

00:38:01 --> 00:38:03

than usual. Usually, I would have wrapped up

00:38:03 --> 00:38:06

by now. We'll go another 15 minutes because

00:38:06 --> 00:38:07

the salat, everybody

00:38:08 --> 00:38:09

wants to and should stay for the salat.

00:38:09 --> 00:38:11

So inshallah, just renew your

00:38:11 --> 00:38:13

intention and your attention

00:38:13 --> 00:38:15

and inshallah that we benefit. We'll all resinshallah.

00:38:16 --> 00:38:16

Ask,

00:38:18 --> 00:38:19

But the gathering that we all leave from,

00:38:19 --> 00:38:20

forgive

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It's a chapter regarding

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the the the the pre preference

00:38:37 --> 00:38:40

for staying away from people, from staying away

00:38:40 --> 00:38:41

from people

00:38:42 --> 00:38:44

when times become evil,

00:38:45 --> 00:38:47

or when a person fears

00:38:47 --> 00:38:49

fitna and and and strife

00:38:50 --> 00:38:52

in matters of deen, in matters of religion,

00:38:53 --> 00:38:55

and when a person fears falling into haram

00:38:55 --> 00:38:57

or when a person fears

00:38:57 --> 00:38:58

falling into,

00:39:00 --> 00:39:00

the

00:39:00 --> 00:39:03

into doubtful matters and things

00:39:06 --> 00:39:07

of the like.

00:39:21 --> 00:39:22

Tells his to

00:39:23 --> 00:39:25

the people. Tell the people, run to Allah.

00:39:25 --> 00:39:27

Verily, I'm a I'm a clear and open

00:39:27 --> 00:39:28

warner.

00:39:28 --> 00:39:30

I'm a clear and open warner. So this

00:39:30 --> 00:39:32

is a chapter regarding how to run to

00:39:32 --> 00:39:34

Allah from all of these evils.

00:40:02 --> 00:40:05

Messenger of Allah, Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam, say,

00:40:07 --> 00:40:08

verily Allah,

00:40:09 --> 00:40:10

he loves,

00:40:11 --> 00:40:14

he loves, 3 qualities in a believer.

00:40:14 --> 00:40:17

He loves 3 qualities in a believer.

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He says that he lost that the believer

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should

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be, god fearing,

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and that a believer should be.

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Generally speaking, he means rich, but the over

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here, the meaning

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that's that's

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that the Nabi sallallahu alaihi wa sallam is

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is is pointing toward

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is not necessarily being rich as in being

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like having a $1,000,000,000

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But but rich wealth is, you know, having

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a lot of money is the

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the majaz,

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the metaphorical meaning of the word.

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The literal meaning of the word is not

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needing anybody else, being self sufficient, not needing

00:40:55 --> 00:40:57

anybody else, Not constantly being needy. Being the

00:40:57 --> 00:40:59

hand that gives rather than the hand that

00:40:59 --> 00:41:01

takes, or at least never being the hand

00:41:01 --> 00:41:04

that takes, not being dependent on other people.

00:41:04 --> 00:41:05

So the

00:41:06 --> 00:41:07

slave that is

00:41:07 --> 00:41:08

god fearing

00:41:08 --> 00:41:11

and the slave that is, self sufficient, always

00:41:11 --> 00:41:13

happy with what he has.

00:41:14 --> 00:41:14

Not ever

00:41:15 --> 00:41:16

need is one of 2 things. 1 is

00:41:16 --> 00:41:18

the bodily need, the other is the need

00:41:18 --> 00:41:20

of the heart. You know, somebody is, oh,

00:41:20 --> 00:41:22

man, until I get such and such a

00:41:22 --> 00:41:24

BMW or whatever, I'm gonna die. I'm never

00:41:24 --> 00:41:26

gonna be happy. So, you know, that's something

00:41:26 --> 00:41:28

that no. Just being happy with what you

00:41:28 --> 00:41:29

have. Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. I give everyone

00:41:29 --> 00:41:31

of us so much,

00:41:32 --> 00:41:33

that being just happy with what you have

00:41:33 --> 00:41:34

always.

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Means what? Means that that, a person who

00:41:39 --> 00:41:39

is

00:41:40 --> 00:41:40

is,

00:41:41 --> 00:41:42

down low,

00:41:42 --> 00:41:43

a person who is

00:41:44 --> 00:41:44

is is not,

00:41:48 --> 00:41:50

a person who's not putting himself out there

00:41:50 --> 00:41:52

all the time. It's another hadith of the

00:41:52 --> 00:41:54

prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, the best of

00:41:54 --> 00:41:56

people is the one that when they enter

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the majlis, nobody notices that they entered. And

00:41:59 --> 00:42:00

when they leave the majlis, nobody

00:42:01 --> 00:42:03

notices that they they have left. Just to

00:42:03 --> 00:42:05

keep things very low key,

00:42:05 --> 00:42:07

to keep things very low key.

00:42:10 --> 00:42:11

Who's a commentary commentator

00:42:12 --> 00:42:12

of

00:42:13 --> 00:42:13

of Sahih Muslim.

00:42:14 --> 00:42:16

He mentions that it's also narrated,

00:42:18 --> 00:42:19

narrated with the

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with the with the with.

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They said that a man came to the

00:43:08 --> 00:43:09

messenger of Allah

00:43:10 --> 00:43:11

and he asked him,

00:43:12 --> 00:43:15

which which which which person which of people

00:43:15 --> 00:43:16

is the best

00:43:17 --> 00:43:18

is the most virtuous.

00:43:18 --> 00:43:19

He said, Sallallahu

00:43:19 --> 00:43:20

Alaihi Wasallam,

00:43:20 --> 00:43:22

a believer who struggles in the path of

00:43:22 --> 00:43:23

Allah,

00:43:23 --> 00:43:25

putting his life on the line and putting

00:43:25 --> 00:43:27

his wealth on the line.

00:43:28 --> 00:43:30

Then the questioner asked, then who? And then

00:43:30 --> 00:43:31

he said,

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a person

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who stays away from other people in a

00:43:38 --> 00:43:40

valley from amongst the valleys, and all he

00:43:40 --> 00:43:43

does is he worships his lord. And in

00:43:43 --> 00:43:44

another narration,

00:43:44 --> 00:43:45

a person who

00:43:46 --> 00:43:47

fears Allah and,

00:43:50 --> 00:43:51

leaves people

00:43:51 --> 00:43:51

from,

00:43:53 --> 00:43:54

from his evil.

00:43:54 --> 00:43:56

He leaves people from his evil, and he

00:43:56 --> 00:43:58

doesn't subject people to his own evil, which

00:43:58 --> 00:44:00

is also something very important.

00:44:00 --> 00:44:00

Oftentimes,

00:44:01 --> 00:44:02

every you know, people

00:44:02 --> 00:44:04

feel like we have, like, a gift to

00:44:04 --> 00:44:06

give to the world. People should listen to

00:44:06 --> 00:44:08

our message. But sometimes this happens. People who

00:44:08 --> 00:44:10

wanna do something good, they have, like, a

00:44:10 --> 00:44:13

project that they have inside and they're like,

00:44:13 --> 00:44:15

oh, my project is I want to I

00:44:15 --> 00:44:17

don't know, x y z, you know, like,

00:44:17 --> 00:44:17

we're gonna

00:44:18 --> 00:44:18

save

00:44:19 --> 00:44:22

the the seals from starving to death in

00:44:22 --> 00:44:23

so and so province of Canada.

00:44:24 --> 00:44:25

Okay. That's really good. A person does that.

00:44:25 --> 00:44:27

That's a there's reward in it. You know?

00:44:27 --> 00:44:29

But then it, like, grows and takes a

00:44:29 --> 00:44:31

life of its own. And the person says,

00:44:31 --> 00:44:32

well, you don't understand me. I worked my

00:44:32 --> 00:44:34

whole life to save these seals, and you

00:44:34 --> 00:44:36

don't appreciate what I'm doing. You guys are

00:44:36 --> 00:44:39

wasting your time of x y z. And,

00:44:39 --> 00:44:41

you know, you owe me help, and my

00:44:41 --> 00:44:43

whole life I've been doing nobody's helping me.

00:44:43 --> 00:44:45

Everybody's so horrible. Everybody's all evil.

00:44:46 --> 00:44:48

But what happens? A person, like, it accumulates

00:44:48 --> 00:44:50

so much poison inside of their heart because

00:44:50 --> 00:44:52

they're doing good work. It's a trick of

00:44:52 --> 00:44:54

shaitan. A person needs to be very careful.

00:44:55 --> 00:44:57

Doing good work makes you acutely poison inside

00:44:57 --> 00:44:59

your heart for other people. They feel bad

00:44:59 --> 00:45:01

about them, or you think bad about them,

00:45:01 --> 00:45:02

or it it causes

00:45:09 --> 00:45:11

people Right? A person should be very careful

00:45:11 --> 00:45:13

about that. There are many people who are

00:45:13 --> 00:45:14

like that. It comes to the point sometimes,

00:45:15 --> 00:45:17

the messenger of Allah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam

00:45:17 --> 00:45:19

is teaching what is he saying here? He

00:45:19 --> 00:45:20

said if you're if you're

00:45:21 --> 00:45:23

what you're doing is harming other people, it's

00:45:23 --> 00:45:25

a good deed for you just to back

00:45:25 --> 00:45:26

off and do your own thing. Do your

00:45:26 --> 00:45:29

own do your own effort, save the seals

00:45:29 --> 00:45:31

on your own. Don't bother people with your

00:45:31 --> 00:45:33

what you're doing. That this even happened to

00:45:33 --> 00:45:33

the

00:45:35 --> 00:45:35

alayhi

00:45:36 --> 00:45:37

wa ta'ala. Say that Abuza al Rifari radiya

00:45:37 --> 00:45:37

wa ta'ala.

00:45:38 --> 00:45:39

A very jazil Qadr Sahabi.

00:45:40 --> 00:45:42

A Sahabi of very great great and high

00:45:42 --> 00:45:43

rank with Allah and his messenger

00:45:45 --> 00:45:48

He was the person that he when he

00:45:48 --> 00:45:50

accepted Islam, he went in straight to the

00:45:50 --> 00:45:52

Haram in in front of the mushrike and

00:45:52 --> 00:45:54

started denouncing their idols and preaching the deen

00:45:54 --> 00:45:57

out loud. And they beat him senseless until

00:45:57 --> 00:45:58

he almost died.

00:45:58 --> 00:46:00

And so when he came to again, he

00:46:00 --> 00:46:01

started doing the same thing.

00:46:02 --> 00:46:03

They were gonna kill him. And the reason

00:46:03 --> 00:46:06

they didn't kill him, say, not Abbas, who

00:46:06 --> 00:46:09

wasn't even Muslim at that time. He told

00:46:09 --> 00:46:11

the the that if you kill him, he's

00:46:11 --> 00:46:13

from Jafar. It's a tribe of brigands. They're

00:46:13 --> 00:46:15

a tribe of highway robbers.

00:46:15 --> 00:46:17

You know, if you kill him, they'll destroy

00:46:17 --> 00:46:19

every one of your your caravans that pass

00:46:19 --> 00:46:21

through their land. You know? And so he

00:46:21 --> 00:46:23

did it again second time. And so, Sayna

00:46:23 --> 00:46:23

Bafra

00:46:24 --> 00:46:27

saved him the second time, and it was

00:46:27 --> 00:46:28

even more difficulty.

00:46:28 --> 00:46:30

And then afterward, when finally,

00:46:31 --> 00:46:32

that after that, the prophet

00:46:32 --> 00:46:35

said, don't do this again. He also had

00:46:35 --> 00:46:37

this this this thing in him. He had

00:46:37 --> 00:46:38

to, like, say, the half black sledgehammer

00:46:39 --> 00:46:41

pad to knock out punch, you know? So

00:46:41 --> 00:46:43

the messenger of Allah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam,

00:46:43 --> 00:46:44

he didn't say you're a bad person. He

00:46:44 --> 00:46:46

knew this is coming from a good place,

00:46:46 --> 00:46:47

but he understood his disposition.

00:46:48 --> 00:46:50

And so he gave him. He gave him

00:46:50 --> 00:46:50

advice

00:46:51 --> 00:46:52

at that point. He said he said,

00:46:53 --> 00:46:56

He said if you're ever given, the, chance

00:46:56 --> 00:46:58

to be even a leader over 2 other

00:46:58 --> 00:46:59

people, never do it.

00:46:59 --> 00:47:01

You could you'll you'll totally make, you know,

00:47:01 --> 00:47:03

you'll make ground beef out of people. It's

00:47:03 --> 00:47:05

not they're not gonna be able to handle

00:47:05 --> 00:47:07

leadership as you you have a skill. You

00:47:07 --> 00:47:09

you have a virtue and that's that the

00:47:09 --> 00:47:11

heart shines brightly in your heart so much

00:47:11 --> 00:47:13

so that it doesn't leave any darkness. Everything

00:47:13 --> 00:47:16

is clear for you. But leadership is not

00:47:16 --> 00:47:18

part of that. Right? A person can be

00:47:18 --> 00:47:19

a good person,

00:47:19 --> 00:47:21

doesn't mean that they're good in everything.

00:47:21 --> 00:47:23

Right? A person just because they're, you know,

00:47:23 --> 00:47:25

a good person doesn't mean they have to

00:47:25 --> 00:47:26

be good in there. Someone's like, oh, so

00:47:26 --> 00:47:28

and so. He's sheikh, and all he does,

00:47:28 --> 00:47:29

he sit in his master

00:47:29 --> 00:47:31

teaching Quran, and he never he never says

00:47:31 --> 00:47:33

the hap to, you know, whatever.

00:47:33 --> 00:47:35

Okay. He teaches Quran as a whole. What

00:47:35 --> 00:47:36

did you and I do to our whole

00:47:36 --> 00:47:36

life?

00:47:37 --> 00:47:39

You know, sometimes I'm saying, surprise person,

00:47:40 --> 00:47:43

Maybe Allah's angry with you that you said

00:47:43 --> 00:47:45

something bad about it. You know, if your

00:47:45 --> 00:47:48

if your complaint against other people is that

00:47:48 --> 00:47:50

they're not perfect in every single way, shape,

00:47:50 --> 00:47:52

or form, then that complaint is more hola

00:47:52 --> 00:47:53

that it comes on a person's own nuffs

00:47:53 --> 00:47:56

first before it comes on, on somebody else.

00:47:56 --> 00:47:59

But there's this idea that, and, who

00:47:59 --> 00:48:01

he actually during his reign, says that,

00:48:02 --> 00:48:03

what would happen is that he would say

00:48:04 --> 00:48:05

say things people knew that he would do.

00:48:05 --> 00:48:06

He would, if you ask him, he would

00:48:06 --> 00:48:08

say things very directly.

00:48:08 --> 00:48:10

And so there were some youth in Madia

00:48:10 --> 00:48:11

of Maloa

00:48:11 --> 00:48:14

that were not people of Eda. And so

00:48:14 --> 00:48:14

they would bother,

00:48:15 --> 00:48:16

and so they would say, what about this?

00:48:16 --> 00:48:17

What do you think about that? They would

00:48:17 --> 00:48:19

just say the safest upsetting for no reason.

00:48:20 --> 00:48:21

We get upset and then we become a

00:48:21 --> 00:48:22

scene commotion.

00:48:22 --> 00:48:24

Happened several times. You know, and says, say,

00:48:24 --> 00:48:25

now, if man

00:48:26 --> 00:48:28

who says says to him, he says that,

00:48:28 --> 00:48:30

there's a place I prepared a place for

00:48:30 --> 00:48:32

you. Go. Nobody will bother you over there.

00:48:32 --> 00:48:34

And he lived out his life in seclusion,

00:48:34 --> 00:48:35

in solitude.

00:48:35 --> 00:48:37

And that's okay. There's nothing wrong with that.

00:48:38 --> 00:48:40

There's nothing wrong with that. So a person

00:48:40 --> 00:48:42

never finds themselves unable to shield others from

00:48:42 --> 00:48:44

there, from their own heart. It's okay to,

00:48:44 --> 00:48:47

like, you know, give people a break.

00:49:19 --> 00:49:21

Where the best the best property of a

00:49:21 --> 00:49:24

believer is what? Is land of sheep and

00:49:24 --> 00:49:25

and,

00:49:26 --> 00:49:27

goats,

00:49:27 --> 00:49:28

herds.

00:49:28 --> 00:49:31

Right? The herds of sheeps and goats. You

00:49:31 --> 00:49:32

can subsist on it. You can live off

00:49:32 --> 00:49:35

of it. They reproduce. You drink milk from

00:49:35 --> 00:49:36

it, meat,

00:49:36 --> 00:49:39

etcetera, etcetera. So the best property, there will

00:49:39 --> 00:49:40

come a time as the best property of

00:49:40 --> 00:49:42

a believer will be,

00:49:43 --> 00:49:44

these herding animals

00:49:45 --> 00:49:47

that that they just herd on mountaintops.

00:49:47 --> 00:49:49

When a person herds on mountaintops,

00:49:50 --> 00:49:51

Muwat al Qadr.

00:49:52 --> 00:49:54

Any of the places that the the rain

00:49:54 --> 00:49:56

happens. Right? Qatar is like a like a

00:49:56 --> 00:49:58

like a drop. The places where the rain

00:49:58 --> 00:50:00

falls. Because where the rain falls, that's where

00:50:00 --> 00:50:02

the plants will grow. And so

00:50:02 --> 00:50:04

the the sheep will be able to eat

00:50:04 --> 00:50:06

over there and drink over there. But the

00:50:06 --> 00:50:09

those the best is what? The hurting animals

00:50:09 --> 00:50:10

you have in these places,

00:50:11 --> 00:50:13

that a person runs away to

00:50:13 --> 00:50:13

by

00:50:14 --> 00:50:16

thereby saving their din from fitna.

00:50:17 --> 00:50:20

Right? Again, that doesn't mean, like, everybody do

00:50:20 --> 00:50:22

that right now. Everyone quit and go buy

00:50:22 --> 00:50:24

sheep and goats and things like that, and

00:50:24 --> 00:50:25

run away right now.

00:50:25 --> 00:50:27

But if a person gets to that point,

00:50:27 --> 00:50:28

sometimes it happens.

00:50:29 --> 00:50:30

It happens sometimes.

00:50:30 --> 00:50:33

Weird things have happened in this world. Right?

00:50:33 --> 00:50:35

And those and those look at Spain.

00:50:36 --> 00:50:37

Right? There was a time when the majority

00:50:37 --> 00:50:39

of the population of the Iberian Peninsula was

00:50:39 --> 00:50:40

Muslim.

00:50:40 --> 00:50:43

They literally literally, the Reconquista was like a

00:50:43 --> 00:50:43

holocaust.

00:50:44 --> 00:50:46

In fact, the the you know, I don't

00:50:46 --> 00:50:48

wanna, like, back the holocaust, but we're saying

00:50:48 --> 00:50:49

it was something like that.

00:50:50 --> 00:50:52

Majority of the population of the Iberian Peninsula

00:50:52 --> 00:50:54

is Muslim. What happened to those people? How

00:50:54 --> 00:50:56

many of them were killed? How many of

00:50:56 --> 00:50:58

them were forced to convert? How many of

00:50:58 --> 00:50:59

them were deported?

00:50:59 --> 00:51:01

It's, you know, there's so many lines in

00:51:01 --> 00:51:02

the world that's happened. China

00:51:03 --> 00:51:05

China probably, like, a quarter of its population

00:51:05 --> 00:51:08

was Muslim at one time. The communist took

00:51:08 --> 00:51:10

over. Literally, you know, 2 thirds of the

00:51:10 --> 00:51:13

population is gone. In 10 years, nobody can

00:51:13 --> 00:51:15

count for it. Where did these people go?

00:51:15 --> 00:51:16

Right? Philippines

00:51:16 --> 00:51:18

Philippines was a Muslim country just like Malaysia

00:51:18 --> 00:51:21

and Indonesia is. Right? The Spanish got there.

00:51:21 --> 00:51:24

They they they they opened a branch of

00:51:24 --> 00:51:26

the of the inquisition over there. The literate

00:51:26 --> 00:51:28

force converted to the southern third of the

00:51:28 --> 00:51:30

country. It was the most inaccessible and the

00:51:30 --> 00:51:31

most,

00:51:31 --> 00:51:33

militarily powerful,

00:51:33 --> 00:51:35

amongst the amongst the Filipino people,

00:51:36 --> 00:51:38

and they, they're the only ones who could

00:51:38 --> 00:51:38

resist.

00:51:39 --> 00:51:41

The top 2 thirds, they they destroyed every

00:51:41 --> 00:51:43

other of Islam to the point where the

00:51:43 --> 00:51:45

people don't even you know, they don't know

00:51:45 --> 00:51:47

anything about about the fact that their forefathers

00:51:47 --> 00:51:49

were Muslims for for centuries.

00:51:49 --> 00:51:51

They had no idea about any of it.

00:51:51 --> 00:51:53

Right? It's just that you'll see that in

00:51:53 --> 00:51:55

the, in the museum, you know, in Manila.

00:51:55 --> 00:51:57

There'll be, like, some small mention about it,

00:51:57 --> 00:51:59

and then it's like a a a blink.

00:51:59 --> 00:52:01

It's like it never even happened. Despite the

00:52:01 --> 00:52:03

fact that there are still there's still words

00:52:03 --> 00:52:07

in Tagalog, the the the Filipino language that's

00:52:07 --> 00:52:09

spoken in Manila. There's still words from Arabic

00:52:09 --> 00:52:11

in that language they couldn't get rid of.

00:52:11 --> 00:52:13

For that matter, there's still words in Arabic

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and Spanish that they couldn't get rid of.

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Right? But what happened to all those people?

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Where did they go? What was the what

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was the situation?

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Generations of people having to live in their

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homes and go to mass on Sunday

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and eat pork in order not to be

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killed from the Reconquista. Literally, people did that.

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They kept the prayer and everything in hiding.

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There are some families that actually made it

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like centuries that they spread, you know, when

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the Spanish went to the new world, their

00:52:38 --> 00:52:41

families in Colombia and all of these places

00:52:41 --> 00:52:43

that they were Muslims if they they left

00:52:43 --> 00:52:45

with their Islam. But unfortunately, there are very

00:52:45 --> 00:52:48

few people very few people that they survived

00:52:48 --> 00:52:49

with their Islam.

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And that happens, I see that after oftentimes,

00:52:51 --> 00:52:53

actually, I think about that sometimes.

00:52:53 --> 00:52:56

That many of converts, the African American converts,

00:52:56 --> 00:52:59

maybe their forefathers were Muslims, and they made

00:52:59 --> 00:52:59

dua

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These people are crazy. They're, you know, they

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they're gonna take Islam away from us. They're

00:53:04 --> 00:53:06

forcing us to eat pork and to do

00:53:06 --> 00:53:08

all of these things. I have no idea

00:53:08 --> 00:53:11

how Islam will survive, you Allah. Somehow you're

00:53:11 --> 00:53:13

from it, you make it survive in that

00:53:13 --> 00:53:13

bloodline.

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And some people take

00:53:15 --> 00:53:16

in Detroit or Chicago,

00:53:16 --> 00:53:19

like, you know, 100 of years later. Maybe

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Allah knows best. That's it. Some, you know,

00:53:21 --> 00:53:23

some of the converts here is the,

00:53:25 --> 00:53:27

the Hispanic converts except Islam. Maybe it was

00:53:27 --> 00:53:28

the Dua of one of their forefathers

00:53:29 --> 00:53:31

that that, you know, somebody in my life,

00:53:31 --> 00:53:33

please let them let them carry iman, you

00:53:33 --> 00:53:34

know, with me. Somebody said that we're gonna

00:53:34 --> 00:53:36

have Hajj this year. So he said, oh,

00:53:36 --> 00:53:38

it's really weird. We went into the and

00:53:38 --> 00:53:40

they were speaking Spanish there. It was really

00:53:40 --> 00:53:42

funny. I said, what are you talking about?

00:53:42 --> 00:53:44

The funny thing is you're speaking Arabic or

00:53:44 --> 00:53:46

speaking English in the. People have been speaking

00:53:46 --> 00:53:48

Spanish in the from the time of the

00:53:48 --> 00:53:48

salaf.

00:53:49 --> 00:53:51

Malik had his own students, many of his

00:53:51 --> 00:53:52

students were Spanish speaking people.

00:53:53 --> 00:53:54

So the it's not some of his students.

00:53:54 --> 00:53:57

So you know this happened. People did this.

00:53:57 --> 00:53:58

And it's something there's a point where things

00:53:58 --> 00:54:01

will break down so badly that it may

00:54:01 --> 00:54:03

be necessary for a person to do that,

00:54:03 --> 00:54:04

that there's no left to love

00:54:04 --> 00:54:05

how to protect us from ever. Seeing days

00:54:05 --> 00:54:06

like that, but there's a sunnah for that

00:54:06 --> 00:54:07

as well. When things become like that, there's

00:54:07 --> 00:54:09

no benefit in mixing with people.

00:54:12 --> 00:54:14

You wanna go and help them and they

00:54:14 --> 00:54:16

end up harming you instead. And there's nowhere

00:54:16 --> 00:54:18

to go, nowhere to turn, nowhere to run,

00:54:18 --> 00:54:19

no resources.

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Go. You You and Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala,

00:54:22 --> 00:54:24

you ask him for what you need and

00:54:24 --> 00:54:26

depend on him to fulfill it. All you

00:54:26 --> 00:54:28

have to do is protect the most important

00:54:28 --> 00:54:30

thing Allah gave, which is our deen Allah

00:54:30 --> 00:54:32

subhanahu wa ta'ala gives the tawfiq and our

00:54:32 --> 00:54:35

progeny, the tawfiq of living God, Allah, Allah,

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Allah,

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