Hamzah Wald Maqbul – Remedial Tasawwuf Series Speaking Dallas 11042017

Hamzah Wald Maqbul
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The speakers stress the importance of speaking the truth at the right time and avoiding negative speech, avoiding dis attached and constantly obsessed with one's own faults, learning from past experiences, avoiding dis attached and constantly obsessed with one's own faults, not killing each other and not caring about others' honor, not acknowledging someone's honor, and not giving false information. They also discuss the definition of sharia and the use of pictures in sharia, and the issue of toys being treated with respect. The speakers stress the importance of avoiding negative speech and being aware of boundaries and disregarding someone's honor.

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			The prophet
		
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			says that a slave may say a word,
		
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			from the pleasure of Allah most high,
		
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			and they don't give that word a thought.
		
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			But because of it, Allah
		
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			will raise that slave many ranks.
		
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			And a slave may say or may speak
		
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			a word
		
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			from the anger of Allah most high or
		
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			that incurs the anger of Allah most high,
		
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			and they don't give that word any thought.
		
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			And because of it, it lands them in
		
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			the hellfire.
		
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			It lands them in the hellfire.
		
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			Again, this is one of the reasons that
		
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			Olamat considered considered, like, mocking certain things. People
		
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			and they mock them all the time. Things
		
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			that are a shiaar of the deen. Right?
		
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			Something, for example,
		
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			mocking the beard. It's known that Rasulullah salallahu
		
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			alaihi wa sallam had a beard. This is
		
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			the only reason the Muslims keep beards.
		
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			Mocking,
		
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			mocking, you know, the ulema, the old ulema,
		
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			they wrote these things like mocking the turban.
		
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			Nowadays, people don't understand rasulullah
		
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			used to wear a turban, So maybe it
		
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			doesn't
		
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			apply in the same context,
		
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			that it did from before.
		
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			But,
		
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			you know, those things
		
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			to mock them is as if you're mocking
		
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			the deen.
		
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			And mocking the deen, we don't joke about
		
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			we don't joke about the deen. And this
		
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			is one of the things that actually I
		
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			after I came back from Madrasa,
		
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			after having been out of the country for
		
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			quite a while,
		
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			I noticed there's a market
		
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			increase in the amount of blasphemy in in
		
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			media.
		
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			And this is part of the aqidah of
		
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			the the the Muslims
		
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			that
		
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			sin
		
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			is qualitatively
		
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			less
		
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			bad than
		
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			kufr,
		
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			than disbelief.
		
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			Blasphemy is disbelief.
		
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			The first amendment protects certain types of speech,
		
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			and a person might say that the first
		
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			amendment is a good thing. Why? Just because
		
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			you don't want the government, especially government that's
		
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			not based on any sort of divine revelation.
		
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			You don't want them getting up in your
		
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			affairs and, like, telling you what to say,
		
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			what not to say.
		
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			However, from
		
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			a point of view of Tassos which
		
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			indeed the constitution wasn't written from that point
		
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			of view.
		
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			A person should be very careful. There's no
		
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			freedom of speech. Don't say everything, laugh at
		
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			everything. That's why you should be careful even
		
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			who you listen to much less what you
		
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			say. Because sometimes listening to something will involuntarily
		
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			cause you to laugh or mock something,
		
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			which could be what You could become the
		
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			bad side of the this hadith, which is
		
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			what? A person may say something they don't
		
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			even think it's a big deal because of
		
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			which it lands them in the fire.
		
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			Allah be our protection.
		
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			And so this third third narration, it it's,
		
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			expresses the same idea in even more detail.
		
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			Who narrates that the messenger of Allah
		
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			said, a man may speak a word from
		
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			the pleasure of Allah to Allah, something that
		
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			pleases Allah to Allah.
		
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			And that person didn't think that this word
		
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			would get to the point that it got
		
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			to.
		
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			Because of that word, Allah ta'ala writes for
		
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			that person in his divine decree
		
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			that I'm pleased with this person until the
		
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			day I meet him.
		
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			What does that mean? Does it mean that
		
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			the day that you meet the day of
		
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			judgment the day I meet him is the
		
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			day of judgment. Does it mean that after
		
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			that it it can change? No. Because the
		
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			day of judgment is a day that starts
		
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			and it never ends. So every expression that's
		
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			or
		
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			something similar to that until the day that
		
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			that that I meet him or the day
		
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			that person meets Allah or whatever,
		
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			those are expressions meaning eternity.
		
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			Those expressions, they all mean eternity, that the
		
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			person is written for them in the divine
		
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			decree,
		
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			that this person is some of that someone
		
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			that Allah loves.
		
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			And
		
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			a person may speak a word from the
		
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			anger of Allah
		
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			from the divine anger,
		
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			and that person wouldn't have thought that that
		
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			that word is such a big deal
		
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			as it actually was with Allah
		
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			because of which Allah writes in the divine
		
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			decree
		
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			that,
		
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			this is a person that that that that
		
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			he's angry with until the day he meets
		
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			Allah ta'ala, meaning forever.
		
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			Now generally speaking,
		
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			preachers and,
		
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			whatnot will emphasize the negative
		
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			the negative aspect of
		
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			of a hadith like this that, you know,
		
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			don't say something bad, laugh at something bad,
		
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			mock something. Don't give your own opinions with
		
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			regards to to stuff. People give their own
		
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			opinions with regards to all sorts of things
		
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			that they should just really be quiet about.
		
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			You know, they'll say, well, you know,
		
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			you know, the nation of Islam, you know,
		
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			they, you know, they're Muslims, but we just
		
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			don't agree with them about no. They're not.
		
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			They worship a rug merchant from the east,
		
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			and they
		
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			say some dude from Chicago is a prophet.
		
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			It's pretty much open in Shadd Kofir.
		
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			You know, and
		
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			this is a this is a a a
		
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			maxim that the ulama have, and it's based
		
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			on a number of a hadith from the
		
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			prophet, sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.
		
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			That Kufr is all 1 it's all 1
		
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			Mila.
		
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			One might say, well, this type of, you
		
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			know, is better than that. No.
		
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			It's a Kufr is all 1 Mila. Ahlul
		
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			Kitab, Mushriqin, atheist, whatever it is. It's all
		
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			the same it's all the same Mila. There
		
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			may be legal differences
		
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			for reasons that that the unstudied person doesn't
		
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			understand
		
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			and how, the Khalil Kitab are treated from
		
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			other people. Otherwise, Kufr takes a person to
		
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			the same jahannam,
		
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			And it it really is it's the same
		
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			Mila.
		
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			This is substantiated by a number of a
		
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			hadith.
		
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			One of which is that that
		
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			the the the 2 of people of, of
		
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			2 different
		
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			will not
		
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			of 2 different nations or groups will not,
		
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			civilizations,
		
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			if you will, will not inherit from one
		
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			another.
		
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			And the the the the consensus of the
		
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			ulama,
		
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			I shouldn't say the consensus, but the preponderant
		
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			majority of the ulemas say that the meaning
		
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			of this hadith is that a Muslim doesn't
		
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			inherit from a kafir and a kafir doesn't
		
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			inherit from a Muslim through the mechanism of
		
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			miroth at the time of death. Rather, the
		
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			ulama would allow a person if a for
		
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			example, a Christian dies and have Jewish relatives,
		
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			they would allow the Jewish relatives to inherit
		
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			from one another. Why? Because the idea is
		
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			that
		
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			that the the the sharia doesn't doesn't doesn't
		
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			qualitatively
		
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			distinct distinguish between,
		
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			different types of kufr. All of them are
		
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			just kufr.
		
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			So, you know, people say all kinds of
		
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			weird things. How can you say their kafirs?
		
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			They say
		
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			It's plain to you. They said Allah is
		
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			a man and they believed in a prophet
		
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			after the prophet
		
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			The same thing can be said about,
		
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			about the the
		
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			the the Qadiyani sect that said that, a
		
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			Nabi came to Punjab in the whatever 1900
		
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			or 1800, I should say.
		
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			It's Kufir. It doesn't matter if a person
		
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			from amongst them is a half of the
		
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			Quran, which there's no Haifa of the Quran
		
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			amongst them. But even if they were theoretically
		
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			speaking,
		
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			that wouldn't matter.
		
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			Why? Because,
		
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			you know, the dean is wrong. But people
		
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			still all the time, they say, well, Sheikh,
		
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			how can you say they're not Muslims? They
		
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			say la ilaha illallah.
		
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			I said, you know, people say stuff like
		
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			that all the time. Those are also from
		
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			the jinns, from the type the genus of
		
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			of the types of things that a person
		
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			may say and they think they're saying something
		
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			really smart.
		
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			But what is it? It completely invalidates their
		
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			iman.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because you cannot believe in that thing, and
		
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			you cannot believe in in what Rasuulullah
		
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			taught at the same time rationally. The 2
		
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			of them are not cannot be true at
		
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			the same time possibly.
		
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			And, the deen is not irrational.
		
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			So, you know, those those types of things
		
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			a person has to be careful if you
		
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			don't know what you're talking about. If it's
		
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			not, like, you know, if it seems that
		
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			the are all saying something and you have
		
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			your own opinion that's separate than them, then
		
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			you're going out on a limb. A woman
		
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			It's a hadith of the prophet
		
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			The person who wishes to be weird or
		
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			different, they'll be different than everyone in the
		
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			fire. Meaning what? The whole will go into
		
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			Jannah, and they'll be different at that time
		
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			as well.
		
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			May Allah
		
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			protect
		
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			us. Anyway, many preachers,
		
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			myself not being an exception, it seems,
		
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			will overemphasize
		
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			the negative part of this hadith.
		
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			However, I would also like to point out
		
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			the positive part of this hadith that a
		
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			person should be avid to say good things.
		
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			And,
		
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			unfortunately, most of us are mesquite people. We
		
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			don't know what good things to say. And
		
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			most of us, whenever we open our mouth,
		
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			end up causing more problem than we do,
		
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			benefit.
		
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			It's a very common condition and people have
		
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			gone through it that you said something, you
		
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			were trying to help or be nice, and
		
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			it just ends up making things worse.
		
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			The wonderful part is, Allata, I already gave
		
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			you a script. The mus'af is there. Read
		
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			it.
		
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			Dhikr, read it. The hadith of the prophet
		
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			say these things. The script is already written
		
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			for you.
		
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			Who knows when a person is reading a
		
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			certain thing from the of Allah
		
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			or
		
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			from the that a person when they say
		
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			it in the moment that they say it,
		
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			Allah
		
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			is pleased with the person. Why? Because you
		
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			presented yourself in front of Allah
		
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			in the the mode of the people that
		
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			he loves.
		
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			This is not something that's this is not
		
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			something that's,
		
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			completely
		
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			implausible
		
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			nor is it something that we don't have
		
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			an example of. The example of it is
		
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			what? Rasulullah, sallallahu
		
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			alaihi wa sallam, he what did he say
		
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			about the veterans of the Battle of Badri?
		
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			He says, what do you know about the
		
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			people who were present at the Battle of
		
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			Badri? That
		
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			didn't look at what's inside of their hearts
		
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			and say, do whatever you want after this
		
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			day you're forgiven.
		
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			Meaning what? There are deeds a person can
		
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			do. Many people, they live decades after that.
		
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			Their deeds that a person can do,
		
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			because of which Allah
		
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			will write that this person I'm pleased with
		
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			them. The rest of your life is just
		
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			a cherry on type. Your sins will not
		
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			harm you anymore nor will your and all
		
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			of your good deeds will just cause you
		
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			to raise and rank higher and higher. Now
		
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			the difference between them and between us is
		
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			that
		
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			the isn't
		
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			here to inform us whether that's happened or
		
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			not, and this is from the Akbar of
		
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			the. This is from the news that only
		
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			comes from the unseen. So we won't know
		
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			it happened,
		
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			but it
		
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			happens. So you should look for that.
		
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			You should try. You should make intentions. Sit
		
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			down. Open the and sit down and say,
		
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			Allah, make this these words that I say
		
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			from from from your kalam. Those words because
		
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			of which the like the hadith
		
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			like, it's written in the hadith that these
		
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			are the words that I'll say because of
		
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			which you
		
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			write that you're pleased with me until the
		
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			day that you you meet me, the day
		
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			that you see me.
		
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			Speaking the truth is like that as well.
		
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			Speaking the truth that there I mean, so
		
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			anyone who's like,
		
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			been successfully married for a decent amount of
		
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			time knows that speaking the truth all the
		
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			time is not like
		
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			just because something's true doesn't mean that you
		
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			you should say it
		
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			all the time.
		
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			But the idea is what? The idea is
		
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			that speaking the truth at the right time
		
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			in the right place. Someone's being oppressed. Somebody
		
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			is being,
		
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			their haptah is being taken away from them.
		
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			Somebody is being belittled with without just cause.
		
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			Someone is saying something and corrupting the, you
		
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			know, corrupting or insulting the ideas of the
		
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			deen.
		
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			It's, you know, the first amendment is there.
		
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			You can give them a job. You can
		
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			say something back to them.
		
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			Speaking the truth at the right time, it
		
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			could be one of those things that Allah
		
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			is proud of you that you you, you
		
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			know, the bottle doesn't abide in front of
		
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			you that you're able to say the truth.
		
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			Now this doesn't extend the things like, oh,
		
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			yeah. You should say, I mean, out loud
		
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			or you shouldn't. These are differences of opinion.
		
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			People think they're speaking the they're just making
		
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			a fool out of themselves by and causing
		
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			fitna amongst people by by talking about those
		
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			things. But there are some things that that
		
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			that that aren't like that. You see someone
		
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			being racist against another person. You and especially
		
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			under the cloak of Dean. You see somebody
		
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			lying,
		
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			to another person. You see somebody, you know,
		
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			and trying to steal their hack from them.
		
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			You see someone,
		
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			you know, you know, encouraging people to,
		
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			not follow, the the commandments of the dean
		
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			and follow some other, like, worldly imperative.
		
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			If you speak the truth at that time,
		
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			you should do it within your heart with
		
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			the idea that I'm saying this for the
		
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			for the pleasure of Allah Ta'ala. Because Allah
		
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			Ta'ala loves the people who speak the truth
		
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			in the face of,
		
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			injustice or in the in the face of
		
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			falsehood.
		
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			There are certain occasions which a person should
		
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			say something good and have
		
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			a good hope and a good intention
		
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			hope for reward from Allah
		
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			for their for for for for having said
		
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			that. And this is a saying of the
		
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			ulema, some people attributed to the prophet
		
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			although the attribution is weak.
		
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			But whether or not the attribution is strong,
		
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			the
		
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			meaning
		
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			is
		
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			correct.
		
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			95% of the time, it's better to stay
		
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			quiet.
		
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			Every now and again,
		
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			you'll come across a a somewhere that the
		
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			haka is very clear. It's not a difference
		
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			of opinion or a confusing matter.
		
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			In those cases, the person who in front
		
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			of the Haqq which is well known, it's
		
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			well known that Rasoolullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam is
		
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			not from the south side of Chicago.
		
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			The person who is silent when it comes
		
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			time to say the truth, that person is
		
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			a tongueless shaitan.
		
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			So that's also, you know, like the, you
		
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			know, the idea is that
		
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			a person shouldn't open their mouth until the
		
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			benefit is clear. In those situations where the
		
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			benefits clear,
		
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			but it may be, like, awkward
		
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			or the benefit is completely spiritual,
		
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			and it's counterbalanced
		
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			by
		
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			a harm to your dunya, albeit a harm
		
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			that's less than the the spiritual benefit. In
		
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			those times, you should say something. That's what
		
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			the tongue is for.
		
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			Otherwise, again, just like we said, a person
		
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			is not supposed to just, you know,
		
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			take off their clothes and wander into the
		
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			forest and starve themselves to death with regards
		
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			to the dunya. The tongue is also if
		
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			the tongue was everything that came out of
		
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			it was evil, then the sunnah would be
		
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			just to cut it off and throw it
		
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			away.
		
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			But it's not there's there's a lot of
		
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			good things it was made for. It was
		
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			made for for for for taking the divine
		
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			name. It was first made for saying
		
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			A person should should,
		
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			use it for those reasons and not,
		
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			not miss that opportunity just because there are
		
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			other situations in which a person shouldn't use
		
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			the tongue.
		
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			Say to me a matter that I can
		
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			hold fast to. Give me a command that
		
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			I can hold fast to. He said,
		
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			say, my lord is Allah, then be steadfast
		
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			in in in in all of the things
		
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			that that entails.
		
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			I said, oh messenger of Allah,
		
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			what is the most frightening thing that you
		
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			fear for me? And he took his tongue.
		
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			He he took hold of his own tongue,
		
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			and then he said this.
		
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			It's a hadith narrated by Tirmidi, and he
		
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			said it's Hassan Sahih.
		
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			And
		
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			look. Both of the things that both of
		
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			the things that are mentioned, The the the
		
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			the command that Rasulullah
		
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			gave was something that has to do with
		
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			the tongue.
		
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			Say my lord is Allah
		
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			And in, there's also the expression comes
		
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			of,
		
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			just say Allah.
		
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			And both of these both of these wordings
		
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			are also
		
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			proofs for the the the
		
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			praiseworthiness and the virtue of dhikr, of making
		
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			the dhikr of the divine name.
		
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			It says, say say my lord is Allah
		
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			and then be steadfast in all the things
		
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			that that entails.
		
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			So the the thing that Rasulullah salallahu alayhi
		
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			wasallam commanded to starts with what? With speech.
		
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			And the thing that Rasool Allah sallallahu alaihi
		
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			wa sallam said was the most frightening thing
		
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			that he was afraid of
		
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			for for, the questioner was what? Also the
		
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			tongue.
		
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			So a person shouldn't
		
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			underestimate, he's a free country. I can say
		
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			what I want. Blah blah blah. That's fine
		
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			in, like, in front of a a judge
		
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			in a court in America.
		
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			I agree that's factually correct. In front of
		
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			Allah Ta'ala, there's no amendments
		
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			for a second. There's no amendment. In front
		
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			of Allah Ta'ala, there's no human being is
		
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			3 5ths of a person for the purpose
		
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			of taxation and polling. In front of Allah
		
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			none of that stuff matters in front of
		
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			Allah Ta'ala.
		
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			His hack over everybody is absolute. So a
		
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			person
		
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			should fear what what the outcome of their
		
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			speech is going to be on that day.
		
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			Who narrates
		
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			that the messenger of Allah
		
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			said, don't,
		
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			don't make great amounts of speech without the
		
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			mention of
		
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			without the dhikr of Allah Ta'ala.
		
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			For verily,
		
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			speaking much without mentioning Allah Ta'ala
		
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			is hardness for the heart,
		
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			And the most cursed of people is the
		
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			one who is whose heart is hard.
		
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			Meaning what?
		
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			Right? Aba'ad literally means,
		
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			Aba'ad literally means what? Means distant.
		
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			And to be distant from Allah to Allah,
		
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			obviously, Allah is,
		
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			you
		
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			know,
		
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			Allah is with you wherever you are.
		
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			Allah is closer to the slave than his
		
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			own his own carotid artery. Right? The the
		
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			artery that takes blood to the brain.
		
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			It's like the the connection between the heart
		
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			and the brain. That's basically
		
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			it's really close.
		
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			Right? So what does mean? It means furthest
		
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			from Allah to Allah's mercy, which is the
		
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			definition of being cursed.
		
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			The most cursed of people is the one
		
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			who has a hard heart, meaning the heart
		
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			that should be able to accept
		
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			the positive influence of revelation
		
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			and should be able to accept and benefit
		
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			from
		
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			the the the light of the divine mercy
		
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			and should be able to accept and benefit
		
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			the the the the the light of a
		
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			good word or of a good deed. It's
		
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			completely it's like, you know, a person, you
		
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			know, he says here, I got I got
		
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			you a laptop. And no matter how much
		
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			you plug in the charger, it doesn't turn
		
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			on. No matter how much you click the
		
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			the keys and push buttons, it doesn't do
		
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			anything. It's just a form of a laptop.
		
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			It's completely useless. It's a form of a
		
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			phone, but you can't call anyone
		
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			and, you can't, you know, send an email
		
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			from it. What is completely pointless. Right? The
		
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			heart, if it becomes defective like that, this
		
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			is a sign of Allah's curse on a
		
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			person.
		
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			So the dhikr of Allah
		
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			people should be
		
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			avid that it should be made. They should
		
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			pause when they speak with, you know, one
		
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			another.
		
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			They should pause and make sure that Allah
		
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			ta'ala is mentioned, and that can be done
		
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			by simple things.
		
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			Again,
		
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			saying inshallah and saying
		
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			and saying these things not in the colloquial
		
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			way that we say them, but actually to
		
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			remember Allah
		
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			That's why these things are part of the
		
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			the the speech of people who come from
		
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			Muslim cultures
		
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			is because the influence of Rasoolullah sallallahu alaihi
		
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			wa sallam sunnah on people's conduct.
		
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			People should gather together in their gatherings. They
		
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			should have majalis of dhikr as well. They
		
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			should spend some time that's
		
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			in the listening to the recitation of the
		
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			Quran or in repeating the divine name
		
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			or in hearing the hadith of the prophet
		
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			in different people, their dispositions,
		
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			connect with with different forms of the dhikr
		
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			of Allah ta'ala. Someone's more academic will
		
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			connect more with the teaching and learning.
		
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			Somebody, you know, they may connect more with
		
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			speaking about things and hearing, you know, good
		
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			speech or of
		
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			exhortation and preaching.
		
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			Somebody,
		
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			you know, usually the person whose heart is
		
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			the most clear, they prefer just to hear
		
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			the divine name and say the divine name
		
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			or at least remember it inside of their
		
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			heart.
		
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			These things we should do them. It's not
		
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			possible in every gathering. If you go back
		
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			to your, like, relatives and, you know, like,
		
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			hey, guys, your cousins and your uncles and
		
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			everyone's like, let's make zikr right now. And
		
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			they'll laugh at you and probably all of
		
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			them will commit kufr in laughing at you.
		
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			And so, you know, if that's the case,
		
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			then don't do it. Just, you know, say
		
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			inshallah
		
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			or alhamdulillah when you're able to and that
		
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			counts that counts for you. Right? But the
		
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			idea is this is that inshallah then once
		
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			you
		
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			have your own home
		
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			and you have your own children and you
		
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			are the head of your family and your
		
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			household, then you should move things in that
		
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			direction.
		
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			It's good. It's a good thing, you know,
		
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			like, you the course pack. You don't don't
		
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			give a ban about it if you don't
		
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			know what you're talking about. Just sit and
		
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			read the hadith of the prophet sallallahu alaihi
		
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			wa sallam, read the translation. These things there's
		
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			a lot of
		
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			and our conversation of 3 hours just by
		
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			mentioning 1 hadith of the prophet sallallahu alaihi
		
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			wa sallam, it will become it will it
		
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			will have barakah, it will be something that
		
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			you will,
		
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			be a cause of happiness for your yomukiyama.
		
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			Whereas that majlis and that gathering in which
		
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			much speech is made in Allah and His
		
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			Rasool, sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, aren't mentioned,
		
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			that that that that gathering will be a
		
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			source of regret on the day of judgment.
		
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			It comes to the hadith of the prophet
		
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			sallallahu alaihi wa sallam that the people who
		
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			who get up from a gathering in which
		
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			Allah's,
		
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			remembrance isn't made. It's as if they were
		
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			just sitting around the the carcass of a
		
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			dead animal.
		
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			It's gonna smell bad. It stinks. A person
		
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			will say, why were we doing that? A
		
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			person will regret it just like they'll regret
		
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			having sat around the the dead and and
		
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			and rotting carcass of an animal.
		
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			Who narrates, he says,
		
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			who
		
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			uh-uh he narrates that I said oh messenger
		
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			of Allah what is salvation? What is being
		
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			saved?
		
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			What does that look like?
		
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			He said,
		
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			hold fast to your tongue.
		
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			Meaning,
		
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			don't just let the tongue fly when it
		
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			wants to. Restrain it.
		
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			Right? Let your house be spacious for you.
		
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			It's not a commandment to build large houses.
		
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			It's an expression meaning what?
		
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			Spend more time in your home rather than
		
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			in public spaces.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because inside a person's own home, you know,
		
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			generally speaking, they're not gonna rob anyone. They're
		
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			not gonna cheat anybody. They're not gonna
		
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			commit. They're not gonna see the haram. They're
		
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			not gonna get drunk, etcetera.
		
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			Why? Because those things are not in the
		
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			home.
		
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			Let your house be expansive for you.
		
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			Set your house up in in in a
		
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			in a in a way that you can
		
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			you can you you can,
		
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			you know, you can live there. You can
		
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			spend more of your time there than than
		
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			not. Again, there's exceptions to this. There's times
		
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			in which it's a blameworthy for a person
		
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			to stay home.
		
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			The hour of
		
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			is haram for you to stay home.
		
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			But the exceptions don't teach you about the
		
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			rule. Once you're done with everything else that
		
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			you have to do, go to work, go
		
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			to school, go to the masjid, all that
		
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			stuff,
		
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			the rest of the time, it's superior for
		
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			a person to spend it in in their
		
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			home. Why? Because the means of disobedience are
		
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			not there.
		
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			And, if they are,
		
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			get rid of them.
		
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			So so, well, actually, you know, there's a
		
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			6 pack of beer in my fridge. Then
		
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			throw it away.
		
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			Don't give it to the neighbor. Open every
		
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			can and pour it out into the sink
		
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			and throw it away.
		
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			Alright. Well, Sheikh, you know, it's TV and
		
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			okay. Get rid of your TV then.
		
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			My phone. Get rid of your phone.
		
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			But then
		
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			I need it for work. Okay. Then use
		
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			it when you leave the house.
		
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			Leave it in your the glove compartment of
		
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			your car. Don't take it into your house.
		
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			I mean, different people are different. Some people,
		
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			they have different needs than others,
		
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			with regards to all of these things. But
		
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			the idea is this, is that set up
		
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			your home in a way that it's conducive
		
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			to live your life, how you know you
		
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			should live, and then live there
		
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			rather than getting caught up in in in
		
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			other, nonsense and silliness. And if you're living
		
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			your life inside the mall, then
		
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			that's going to be the, you know, the
		
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			influence and whoever is setting up the shops.
		
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			They don't care for your. They're trying to
		
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			make a buck. So whatever happens happens.
		
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			The deck is stacked against you. But inside
		
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			of your home, it's generally speaking,
		
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			inside of your home, it's easier to,
		
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			avoid disobedience than than outside.
		
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			It's a remember your remember your sins and
		
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			cry about them.
		
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			And this is a concept in the deen
		
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			as well. The most foul of people are
		
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			the ones that scrutinize
		
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			others others
		
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			faults. The most beloved of people, the most
		
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			beloved of people to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			and the most noble of people are the
		
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			ones who, what? They're so preoccupied with their
		
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			own faults that they don't even see the
		
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			faults of other people.
		
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			And this is a constant. This is a
		
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			constant
		
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			in terms of,
		
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			describe the of Allah, the people of sainthood
		
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			and the people of Allah Ta'ala's
		
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			love. That there there are people you'll read
		
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			it again and again from across times and
		
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			across lands
		
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			that those were the people who constantly would,
		
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			you know,
		
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			they were constantly obsessed with their own faults.
		
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			The idea is what? If you're cognizant of
		
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			your own fault,
		
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			you'll a, repent for it and Allah accepts
		
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			the
		
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			sincere repentance.
		
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			B, if you're constantly
		
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			agonizing over it,
		
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			you will
		
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			do more to rectify it. And
		
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			if
		
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			you're not able to completely rectify it, you'll
		
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			at least cover it up and hide it
		
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			better.
		
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			You know, like, if you're gonna whatever. Go
		
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			on TV or whatever and you look a
		
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			scar across your face, they'll powder it and
		
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			they'll, you know, what because you're aware of
		
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			it. If you're not aware of it, then
		
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			that that that egg will never be never
		
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			be fixed. It will never be covered up.
		
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			It won't you won't do anything. It will
		
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			just harm you in this world. It will
		
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			harm harm you in the hereafter.
		
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			There's no shame rather there's a honor in
		
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			a person remembering their sins and weeping over
		
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			over over them. Allah
		
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			make us those who weep in front of
		
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			him because the hellfire doesn't touch the eye
		
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			that that cries for Allah sake.
		
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			The hellfire doesn't touch the eye that cries
		
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			for Allah's sake. And the person whose heart
		
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			is hardened. So, you know, nothing wrong with
		
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			me. The person who's complete and insensitive to
		
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			any of these things. That person is the
		
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			most cursed by Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			All of the limbs, and here by the
		
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			limbs we don't mean merely physical but spiritual,
		
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			all of the spiritual organs,
		
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			whole everything body, physical and spiritual.
		
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			All of them, they humble themselves. They ask
		
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			very humbled with great humility.
		
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			They they humble themselves
		
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			and they say,
		
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			to the tongue,
		
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			in humility, pleading, begging the tongue
		
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			that fear Allah ta'ala with regards to our
		
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			affair.
		
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			Because if you are straight, then our affair
		
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			is straight. And if you're crooked, then all
		
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			of our affair will become
		
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			And
		
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			who, that the messenger of Allah
		
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			said, asked asked his companions,
		
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			do you know what reba, what backbiting is?
		
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			They said, Allah and his messenger know best.
		
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			This is a beautiful thing about the Sahaba
		
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			radiallahu anhu.
		
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			What did they say? When Rasulullah salallahu alayhi
		
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			wasalam would ask him a question, they would
		
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			say Allah and his messengers
		
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			know best.
		
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			It was from their humility.
		
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			Nowadays, everyone's a smarty pants. Well, in my
		
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			opinion, according to my research, shut up,
		
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			man. If someone knows more than you or
		
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			there's even a possibility that they know more
		
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			than you, when they ask a question,
		
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			if you say like, yeah. Can you tell
		
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			me?
		
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			If you already knew and they say something
		
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			you knew already.
		
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			No loss. No skin off of your back.
		
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			If you say, yes. I know. And you
		
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			blurt something out and stop them from saying
		
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			something that you possibly didn't know, then you're
		
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			not gonna learn anything ever again.
		
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			This is a big problem. People who think
		
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			that they know, they close the door of
		
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			learning on themselves. That's why you'll see people
		
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			of great knowledge, they always they're always interested
		
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			to hear what other people have to say.
		
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			Why? Because they might learn something new.
		
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			In fact, sometimes that chance is so remote
		
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			that rarely will they actually learn something new
		
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			because they know so much. But because the
		
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			possibility exists, they cannot resist.
		
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			Why? Because they love to learn things. If
		
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			you love to feel like you know everything,
		
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			then you'll get that feeling, but you're not
		
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			gonna learn anything.
		
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			So, this is the that trained
		
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			the
		
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			with. He would ask them questions so many
		
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			times
		
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			and they would say, what?
		
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			Allah and his mess Allah and his messenger
		
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			know
		
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			best.
		
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			He said
		
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			that backbiting is to mention
		
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			your brother in a way that they would
		
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			would dislike.
		
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			They asked, Yarsulullah,
		
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			what if the thing I mentioned is true?
		
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			They said, if the thing you mentioned is
		
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			true, then you back bit him. And if
		
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			you,
		
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			if the thing you mentioned isn't true, then
		
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			you slandered him. It's a different sin. It's
		
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			it's a it's a it's a different sin.
		
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			Both of them are haram. Both of them.
		
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			Slandering another person completely haram.
		
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			Slander is to say something about someone that's
		
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			not bad about someone that's not true. And
		
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			libel is to do the same thing in
		
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			print. It's slander but it's in
		
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			print. All all of the above are haram.
		
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			Abu Bakr, who is not Abu Bakr radiAllahu
		
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			anhu, but a different companion.
		
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			He narrates radiAllahu ta'ala Anhu that the messenger
		
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			of Allah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said in
		
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			his on
		
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			the day of, on the day of, which
		
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			is the 10th of what we call
		
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			except for when you're in Hajj, there's no
		
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			is for people who are not in Hajj.
		
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			When you're in Hajj, it's called and there's
		
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			different set of rituals that you do. Right?
		
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			If you're in Hajj, you don't pray the
		
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			Eid prayer.
		
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			So it's called
		
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			for the person in Hajj. He said, in
		
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			his on the.
		
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			But whether you're in Hajj or you're not
		
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			in Hajj, the one thing that's consistent between
		
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			both of them is that the 10th of
		
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			is the most sacred day in the entire
		
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			year.
		
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			The most sacred night of the entire year
		
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			is and
		
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			the most sacred day of the entire year
		
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			is what?
		
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			The 10th of.
		
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			And so on the 10th of the on
		
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			the Yom Al Nahar, when he's in Mina,
		
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			which is out of all of the places
		
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			in the world, it's the most sacred place
		
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			to be
		
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			on that.
		
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			The Ulamas say that there's more reward in
		
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			being in Mina on that day than there
		
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			is in being in the Haram Sharif and
		
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			and touching the black stone. Why? Because that's
		
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			the where
		
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			was on that day.
		
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			That's why people even though they have hotel
		
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			rooms, their hotel rooms are empty in front
		
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			of the Haram Shaddif, they stay in tents
		
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			like all boxed. Anyone here done Hajj
		
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			before?
		
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			Yeah. Mina is, like, not
		
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			super
		
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			spacious accommodation. You're you're basically crammed in real
		
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			tight.
		
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			But people do it because
		
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			the Muslims love Allah and they love to
		
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			follow the sunnah of the prophet
		
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			This is a very sacred time and a
		
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			very sacred place.
		
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			How many times did Rasulullah
		
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			make Hajj? He only
		
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			profile,
		
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			appearance that he had. He passes away less
		
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			than 4 months after, after that.
		
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			So it's in the last part of his
		
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			life. So they call it the farewell Hajj
		
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			even though it's the only Hajj he ever
		
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			did.
		
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			He said
		
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			so okay. And this is another thing to
		
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			keep in mind. This is the largest gathering
		
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			that he ever addressed
		
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			They say that upwards to per over a
		
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			100000 people were present.
		
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			Upwards to over a 100,000 people were present
		
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			at this gathering. What did he choose to
		
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			say? It's a very important time and in
		
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			a very important
		
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			place. And this is not, this is not
		
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			the entire
		
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			this is not the entire,
		
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			what you call,
		
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			speech.
		
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			This is a snippet of it. It's a
		
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			it's a it's a very important snippet that
		
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			said
		
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			what? Said indeed your blood and your wealth
		
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			and your honor are sacred and inviolable for
		
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			you just like this day is sacred.
		
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			Why? Because the
		
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			the 10th of the is the most sacred
		
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			day of the year.
		
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			And this,
		
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			month of yours is sacred. The month of
		
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			is the most sacred month in the year.
		
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			Even more sacred than Ramadan.
		
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			Even though you don't eat samosas and pakoras
		
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			in it, it's still more sacred.
		
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			Even though the, you know, the Masjid may
		
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			not have as as many fundraisers, it's still
		
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			more sacred.
		
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			In the the Haram. The Haram is the
		
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			sacred boundary that surrounds,
		
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			which the Arabs all universally,
		
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			whether in Islam or in, they considered it
		
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			to be sacred.
		
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			You consider even the the they used to
		
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			if they had they executed someone.
		
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			It would kill Muslims. They would capture them.
		
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			They'd execute them. What would they do? They
		
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			would walk them out out of the haram
		
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			to or to the hills somewhere outside of
		
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			that sacred boundary that surrounds
		
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			and then they would kill them there. They
		
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			would not kill them inside of the Haram
		
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			because of its sacred status. Obviously,
		
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			that's not a very good way of respecting
		
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			Haram either by killing an innocent man, by
		
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			walking them outside. So they understood one small
		
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			part about
		
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			about venerating Allah and they missed, like, a
		
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			whole the bigger picture.
		
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			But the idea is that the that that
		
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			place was sacred as well. Mina is inside
		
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			of the of the Haram.
		
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			Mina and Muzdalifa are inside of the Haram.
		
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			Arafat is outside.
		
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			Arafat is outside of the outside of the
		
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			Haram. There's a whole discussion with regards to
		
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			whether standing in Arafat is
		
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			more more,
		
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			carries more reward and virtue or the the
		
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			tawafel, tawafel, ifada and Hajj. But you can
		
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			come to fit class for that discussion. We're
		
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			not gonna talk about it right now.
		
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			But,
		
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			but what is saying?
		
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			He says
		
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			these these three things are sacred. What? The
		
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			blood of, of of a Muslim and the
		
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			property of a Muslim in the honor of
		
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			a Muslim
		
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			are sacred like this day is and this
		
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			month is and this this this land.
		
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			And then he turned to the heavens
		
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			and he he asked
		
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			Allah to allies, have I not delivered this
		
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			message to them?
		
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			Have I not delivered this message? And the
		
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			in unison, they they they exclaimed
		
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			they they explained, yes, you delivered this.
		
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			Now what I want to bring your attention
		
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			to is the the idea that most of
		
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			us know killing each other is haram.
		
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			And we're pretty diligent about not killing each
		
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			other.
		
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			Even maybe if 1 or 2 of us
		
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			killed someone, it's, like, not like every day.
		
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			You know what I mean? It, like, like
		
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			happened and you're like, yeah. I shouldn't have
		
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			done that. Right? We understand it's a bad
		
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			thing.
		
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			We also know that that stealing other people's
		
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			property and damaging other people's property is haram.
		
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			We're generally diligent about not intentionally doing those
		
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			things.
		
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			However, the third thing which is mentioned
		
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			in the same line,
		
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			which is what? The honor of other people,
		
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			we don't care about those things.
		
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			We mock each other. We dog each other.
		
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			We're not careful about how we address one
		
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			another in public
		
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			or in private for that matter.
		
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			We have no we have no care about
		
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			those things.
		
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			Whereas, we have to we you have to
		
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			have care about just because, you know, even
		
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			if you don't like a person, the person
		
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			who says
		
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			their father with Allah, it's a part of
		
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			the of of the
		
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			that that person is a of Allah.
		
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			You have to be very careful about how
		
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			you deal with that person's
		
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			honor. Even if the person, for example, they
		
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			sin privately,
		
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			you don't have the right to expose that
		
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			publicly.
		
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			Even if it's something they're doing which is
		
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			haram. You don't have the right to do
		
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			it. Why? Because the honor of another person
		
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			is inviolable.
		
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			Just like if someone did something haram, it
		
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			doesn't give you, like, you know, a free
		
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			free,
		
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			pass to steal their stuff or to kill
		
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			them. It also doesn't give you a free
		
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			pass to smear that person.
		
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			The only exception to that is what the
		
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			person who doesn't bother to
		
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			doesn't bother to hide their sins.
		
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			That person has themselves it's like a person,
		
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			you know, it's not stealing if a person
		
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			throws their money out in the street.
		
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			Right? Whoever picks it up, picks it up.
		
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			It's not stealing anymore. That person did it.
		
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			It's not like you're allowed to go and
		
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			yank their property just like that. If they
		
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			throw their honor into the garbage,
		
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			then in that case, you won't have it's
		
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			not sinful for you to mention that in
		
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			front of other people.
		
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			But then again, it doesn't mean mention it.
		
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			It means there's no sin in mentioning it.
		
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			Otherwise, the rule for speech is what? If
		
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			there's no benefit in it, you stay quiet.
		
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			Because the idea that there's no sin in
		
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			it is a legal pronouncement.
		
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			But in terms of the soul of, in
		
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			terms of the condition of your own heart,
		
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			you have you know, there it's harmful for
		
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			you to just say bad stuff about people.
		
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			There's a a imam Ghazali
		
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			narrates one of the,
		
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			a hadith about Sinai, Isa, alayhis salam,
		
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			that he was passing, walking by with his
		
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			companions, and they saw the rotting carcass of
		
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			a pig.
		
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			And he,
		
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			commented how,
		
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			beautiful and white the teeth were.
		
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			And after a long time after being disturbed,
		
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			said that Islam's
		
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			disciples asked him
		
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			that why did
		
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			you that was like a disgusting that was
		
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			like a rotting carcass of the pig. Even
		
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			the sharia of the, they know it's an
		
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			unclean animal.
		
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			It was a rotting carcass nonetheless,
		
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			of the most foul and filthy of animals.
		
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			So why did you say that? Why did
		
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			you say that nice thing about that rotting
		
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			pig?
		
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			He
		
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			said, I saw and I I I felt
		
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			just as disgusted as you you all did.
		
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			And then I felt the need to say
		
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			something good, lest I say something bad and
		
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			I become
		
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			habituated to speaking evil about God's creation.
		
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			So even if you're not going to be
		
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			punished, even if there's no sin in saying
		
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			something bad, it doesn't mean that you have
		
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			to say
		
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			it. Right? So if somebody is, you know,
		
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			a drunkard
		
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			and an alcoholic,
		
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			then you don't have to you don't have
		
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			to like announce that to the world.
		
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			If someone your friend is like, yeah. So
		
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			and so wants to borrow my car. In
		
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			that case, you can go ahead and tell
		
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			them.
		
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			You probably should go ahead and tell them
		
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			this person's alcoholic. They have a problem. You
		
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			should probably not lend them the car the
		
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			car. That's a that's a
		
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			that's a very legitimate reason to say it.
		
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			But if there's no reason to say it,
		
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			then then even then even just the the
		
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			fact that something is not haram is not
		
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			a reason to do it. There are many
		
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			things that are not haram that a person
		
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			should abstain from.
		
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			The law is a floor, a minimum level
		
00:43:06 --> 00:43:08
			of conduct that a person should have. Just
		
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			because something's halal doesn't mean that a person
		
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			should say it.
		
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			I could give Jumak Sotba
		
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			wearing
		
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			a pink dress.
		
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			Okay, fine. Someone might say, okay, That should
		
00:43:19 --> 00:43:21
			be a business. Okay. I'll wear a pink,
		
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			thobe.
		
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			Just because it's not haram, doesn't mean it's
		
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			a good idea.
		
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			And there are a lot of other examples
		
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			I can give, but sometimes my examples are
		
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			so over the top that they
		
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			serve as a distraction from the the the
		
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			content that I'm trying to deliver. The idea
		
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			is just if something's not haram,
		
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			it doesn't mean that it's a it's a
		
00:43:43 --> 00:43:44
			good idea.
		
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			So with regards to,
		
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			with regards to what we
		
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			what we just finished,
		
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			talking about the the honor of other people
		
00:43:58 --> 00:44:00
			is is is sacred. The honor of other
		
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			Muslims is sacred,
		
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			and people just kinda miss out on the
		
00:44:04 --> 00:44:05
			idea that it's, you know,
		
00:44:06 --> 00:44:07
			harming it is just as bad as
		
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			as as, as as physically assaulting a person
		
00:44:11 --> 00:44:14
			or or or stealing their property
		
00:44:14 --> 00:44:16
			or harming or damaging their property.
		
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			And
		
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			this is a sub chapter with regards to
		
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			the the prohibition
		
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			of
		
00:44:25 --> 00:44:26
			obscene speech,
		
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			obscene and foul speech.
		
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			Meaning, talking about things that are obscene
		
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			and and cursing, using bad language.
		
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			And this is something, unfortunately,
		
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			people have no shame with regards to these
		
00:44:41 --> 00:44:41
			things anymore.
		
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			And cursing is also considered to be, you
		
00:44:45 --> 00:44:47
			know, it's not a big deal anymore. People,
		
00:44:48 --> 00:44:50
			who should be otherwise respectable people,
		
00:44:50 --> 00:44:53
			they'll liberally and without need, you know, you
		
00:44:53 --> 00:44:55
			this is the f word and this word
		
00:44:55 --> 00:44:56
			and that word. They'll use all of these
		
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			expressions that are not
		
00:44:58 --> 00:45:00
			that are not part of the the, you
		
00:45:00 --> 00:45:02
			know, like, they're not part of the the
		
00:45:02 --> 00:45:03
			demeanor of a Muslim.
		
00:45:05 --> 00:45:06
			Those words sometimes
		
00:45:08 --> 00:45:10
			sparingly if like in a year one time
		
00:45:10 --> 00:45:12
			someone uses some harsh word in order to
		
00:45:12 --> 00:45:13
			drive home a point in a specific situation
		
00:45:13 --> 00:45:15
			where they know that no one's gonna listen
		
00:45:15 --> 00:45:16
			unless they say that.
		
00:45:17 --> 00:45:19
			Maybe there can even be a discussion regarding
		
00:45:19 --> 00:45:21
			whether it's permissible or not. But for no
		
00:45:21 --> 00:45:23
			reason, when you could have gotten your point
		
00:45:23 --> 00:45:25
			across without using it, there's no there's no
		
00:45:25 --> 00:45:26
			benefit. Why?
		
00:45:27 --> 00:45:29
			What did we say? Everything you say, a
		
00:45:29 --> 00:45:31
			copy of it is sent into your heart.
		
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			If you want to die an iman, you
		
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			want the last words, your last words to
		
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			be,
		
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			then repeat it. Keep repeating it. Repeating
		
00:45:39 --> 00:45:41
			The thing that you have a habit of
		
00:45:41 --> 00:45:43
			repeating, that's what you'll say before you die.
		
00:45:44 --> 00:45:45
			Because all
		
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			actions,
		
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			the end of act of any affair is
		
00:45:48 --> 00:45:51
			a manifestation of the reality of that affair.
		
00:45:51 --> 00:45:52
			This is a part of our Aqidah. The
		
00:45:53 --> 00:45:55
			end of any affair is a manifestation of
		
00:45:55 --> 00:45:57
			the reality of that affair. So a person
		
00:45:57 --> 00:45:58
			who walks around saying the f word and
		
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			effing this and that and the other thing
		
00:46:00 --> 00:46:02
			their whole life. What are they gonna say
		
00:46:02 --> 00:46:04
			before they die? Are they gonna say, okay,
		
00:46:04 --> 00:46:05
			look, the angel of death is coming. Now
		
00:46:05 --> 00:46:06
			I'm gonna say,
		
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			no. At that time, they're not gonna have
		
00:46:08 --> 00:46:10
			control over their tongue anymore.
		
00:46:11 --> 00:46:12
			They'll say the things that they used to
		
00:46:12 --> 00:46:14
			say when they were when they were alive.
		
00:46:15 --> 00:46:17
			They won't even have control anymore at that
		
00:46:17 --> 00:46:18
			point.
		
00:46:18 --> 00:46:21
			And so if you're actually your your end
		
00:46:21 --> 00:46:22
			your end is a manifestation of what your
		
00:46:22 --> 00:46:23
			reality is,
		
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			Some people will leave this this this life,
		
00:46:26 --> 00:46:28
			you know, the car is coming, they're about
		
00:46:28 --> 00:46:30
			to get hit and they'll say they'll curse.
		
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			And that's that's what they are.
		
00:46:33 --> 00:46:35
			Another person will say the divine name
		
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			and that's a reflection of who they are.
		
00:46:37 --> 00:46:39
			You're not going to be able to get
		
00:46:39 --> 00:46:41
			to that point if you're constantly,
		
00:46:41 --> 00:46:44
			you know, whatever effing this and that and
		
00:46:44 --> 00:46:46
			the other thing. That's why you also I'm
		
00:46:46 --> 00:46:48
			you know, like, comedians are real funny to
		
00:46:48 --> 00:46:50
			listen to and whatever movies and things like
		
00:46:50 --> 00:46:52
			that. And people say things that are really
		
00:46:52 --> 00:46:53
			funny.
		
00:46:53 --> 00:46:54
			Some people even
		
00:46:54 --> 00:46:56
			using, like, even cursing is like an art
		
00:46:56 --> 00:46:58
			form. It's not a good art form, but
		
00:46:58 --> 00:47:00
			it's an art form. Some people are more
		
00:47:00 --> 00:47:02
			adept at it than others. Some people will
		
00:47:02 --> 00:47:03
			say things that are so funny. Literally, you'll
		
00:47:03 --> 00:47:04
			remember after 20 years and it will make
		
00:47:04 --> 00:47:05
			you laugh.
		
00:47:08 --> 00:47:09
			Will make you laugh. The enjoyment of that
		
00:47:09 --> 00:47:10
			a person enjoys, there's some benefit to the
		
00:47:10 --> 00:47:12
			enjoyment of it. The problem is if you
		
00:47:12 --> 00:47:13
			keep listening to these things over and over
		
00:47:13 --> 00:47:14
			and over again.
		
00:47:15 --> 00:47:17
			Again, the tongue sends a copy to the
		
00:47:17 --> 00:47:18
			heart. The ears also the ears are also
		
00:47:18 --> 00:47:20
			an inroad into the heart.
		
00:47:20 --> 00:47:22
			If a person habituates themselves to listening to
		
00:47:22 --> 00:47:25
			that nonsense again and again, what will happen?
		
00:47:25 --> 00:47:27
			All of it will pour out like sewage
		
00:47:27 --> 00:47:29
			coming out of the coming out of a,
		
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			plug drain. When? At the time you can
		
00:47:32 --> 00:47:34
			least afford it happening at the time of
		
00:47:34 --> 00:47:35
			your death.
		
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			If it happens at any other time.
		
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			What's the worst that could happen? You'll get
		
00:47:41 --> 00:47:43
			fired from your job, this, that, and the
		
00:47:43 --> 00:47:44
			other thing. If it happens at the time
		
00:47:44 --> 00:47:46
			of the death, it becomes much more serious.
		
00:47:46 --> 00:47:48
			It becomes a much more serious issue.
		
00:48:07 --> 00:48:08
			A believer is not the one who is
		
00:48:08 --> 00:48:10
			always accusing or cursing others.
		
00:48:11 --> 00:48:12
			Making dua against others meaning.
		
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			Ta'an is a person who finds faults with
		
00:48:15 --> 00:48:18
			others. Ta'an literally in Arabic means, like, to,
		
00:48:18 --> 00:48:20
			stab someone with a spear.
		
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			And metaphorically here, it means just to say
		
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			mean stuff and, like, to, like, just point
		
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			out people's faults and whatever. That you're not
		
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			there to make in other people and you're
		
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			not there to curse other people.
		
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			Send this person to the hellfire. This person
		
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			go to *. That person go to *.
		
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			May you lose your house. May you lose
		
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			this. May you lose that.
		
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			The believer, that's not his habit that he
		
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			constantly walks around doing those things.
		
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			Nor is he, obscene.
		
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			Right? Fresh is what? Being completely gross and
		
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			over the top in everything that you say.
		
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			Especially in in in in sexual matters.
		
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			Nor is that person,
		
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			nor is that person,
		
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			foul mouth in the sense that they use
		
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			bad words,
		
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			all the time.
		
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			Is what,
		
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			it's generally
		
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			translated as shame. Shame implies that you did
		
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			something bad.
		
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			Is what the preference or obscurity rather than
		
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			being exposed in front of everyone all the
		
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			time.
		
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			Modesty is probably a better a better translation.
		
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			So modesty is never part of anything separate.
		
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			Beautified it. And we live in a in
		
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			a in a culture that what?
		
00:49:52 --> 00:49:55
			Right? What's better than a 1,000 Facebook followers
		
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			or friends? It's a 10,000
		
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			person has a 100,000 is like a great
		
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			value of Allah. And the person who has
		
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			a 1,000,000, this person is like a Nabi.
		
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			No.
		
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			They think that they're can't do any wrong.
		
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			Obscurity, there's in it.
		
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			There's exceptions to those rules.
		
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			People who have, like, positions that, like, you
		
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			know, for example, they're making Islam have society
		
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			or they have to communicate with people. Otherwise,
		
00:50:24 --> 00:50:26
			they won't do their jobs properly, like, you
		
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			know, people who are in government or whatever.
		
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			Even those people, most of them misuse it.
		
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			But there is a proper use for those
		
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			people. If you're not one of those exceptions,
		
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			Rasulullah Sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said what? Haya
		
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			didn't enter anything except for him. It made
		
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			it what?
		
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			Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam said what? Haya didn't
		
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			enter anything except for him. It made it
		
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			beautiful. He didn't say makeup.
		
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			He didn't say screen filters
		
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			and nice clothes.
		
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			Some of those things are not haram, but
		
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			the ideas that that that is what makes
		
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			a a person beautiful,
		
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			not not like putting themselves out there.
		
00:51:04 --> 00:51:04
			The
		
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			prohibition of lying.
		
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			He,
		
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			narrated the messenger of Allah
		
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			said, indeed,
		
00:51:55 --> 00:51:55
			truthfulness,
		
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			veracity,
		
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			being true.
		
00:51:59 --> 00:52:01
			It guides a person toward piety.
		
00:52:02 --> 00:52:03
			What is piety?
		
00:52:04 --> 00:52:07
			Piety doesn't mean being religious. Piety means fulfilling
		
00:52:07 --> 00:52:08
			the rights of others.
		
00:52:09 --> 00:52:10
			Religiously.
		
00:52:12 --> 00:52:14
			Fulfilling the rights of others even if it's
		
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			not in your favor. It's such a hard
		
00:52:16 --> 00:52:17
			thing to do. And, you know, I feel
		
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			bad. A lot of these things that are
		
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			mentioned in the hadith, maybe if you scrutinize
		
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			my life, you would say, oh, this guy
		
00:52:22 --> 00:52:24
			is preaching about this stuff. We'll go make
		
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			amo yourself. So I admit from beforehand.
		
00:52:27 --> 00:52:28
			When you see my deeds and you say,
		
00:52:28 --> 00:52:30
			oh, look. He was reading all these ideas
		
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			in his own life was a mess. I'm
		
00:52:32 --> 00:52:33
			just what we're mentioning what
		
00:52:35 --> 00:52:37
			said. It's hard. It's not easy. It's easy
		
00:52:37 --> 00:52:39
			to tell another person to fulfill people's rights
		
00:52:39 --> 00:52:41
			even when it's not in your in your
		
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			in your favor to religiously fulfill people's rights.
		
00:52:44 --> 00:52:46
			It's not easy. Allah forgive us. It's not
		
00:52:46 --> 00:52:47
			easy. Allah give us help.
		
00:52:48 --> 00:52:50
			It's not an excuse not to do it,
		
00:52:50 --> 00:52:52
			but it's not easy sometimes. Person has to
		
00:52:52 --> 00:52:54
			struggle in order to get to that point.
		
00:52:54 --> 00:52:55
			So that truthfulness
		
00:52:56 --> 00:52:59
			guides toward piety and piety guides toward Jannah.
		
00:52:59 --> 00:53:01
			And a person will keep
		
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			speaking the truth until he's written with Allah
		
00:53:03 --> 00:53:05
			ta'ala as a truthful one.
		
00:53:05 --> 00:53:07
			Or as a person of true faith.
		
00:53:09 --> 00:53:11
			Again, it's the idea that speaking the truth
		
00:53:11 --> 00:53:13
			at the right time, it pays off.
		
00:53:15 --> 00:53:17
			And lies guide toward
		
00:53:18 --> 00:53:19
			Fujure. Fujure is like profligacy,
		
00:53:19 --> 00:53:20
			sinning
		
00:53:20 --> 00:53:22
			openly and disregard for,
		
00:53:23 --> 00:53:26
			disregard for the sacred law. And Fujure will,
		
00:53:26 --> 00:53:29
			in in prophecy will guide a person toward
		
00:53:29 --> 00:53:29
			the fire.
		
00:53:30 --> 00:53:32
			And, a man may lie and carry on
		
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			lying until he's written with Allah as
		
00:53:35 --> 00:53:36
			a liar.
		
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			Well,
		
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			Allah be our protection. Allah be our protection
		
00:53:41 --> 00:53:42
			from such an end.
		
00:54:18 --> 00:54:20
			So now beloved, Amr bin Azas is very
		
00:54:20 --> 00:54:21
			unique amongst the Sahaba
		
00:54:22 --> 00:54:23
			in the sense that he was the only
		
00:54:23 --> 00:54:24
			one who was given the
		
00:54:25 --> 00:54:27
			the permission to write down the hadith of
		
00:54:27 --> 00:54:28
			the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam.
		
00:54:28 --> 00:54:31
			All the other Sahaba transmitted them orally and
		
00:54:31 --> 00:54:31
			they're written later.
		
00:54:33 --> 00:54:35
			And Rasulullah sallallahu alaihi wasallam out of the
		
00:54:35 --> 00:54:37
			Amana of the Quran, he forbid anyone from
		
00:54:37 --> 00:54:39
			writing the Quran writing anything other than the
		
00:54:39 --> 00:54:41
			Quran during his lifetime. So that people wouldn't
		
00:54:41 --> 00:54:43
			confuse them. Amr bin Asr, the son of
		
00:54:43 --> 00:54:43
			Amr bin Asr,
		
00:54:50 --> 00:54:52
			he accepted Islam more than a full 10
		
00:54:52 --> 00:54:54
			years before his father did.
		
00:54:54 --> 00:54:56
			And there was only 13 years of age
		
00:54:56 --> 00:54:58
			difference between the 2 of them. So both
		
00:54:58 --> 00:54:59
			of them, they live their life together for
		
00:54:59 --> 00:55:01
			most of their most of their lives with
		
00:55:01 --> 00:55:03
			the exception that the son had a higher
		
00:55:03 --> 00:55:05
			rank in Islam than the father did.
		
00:55:10 --> 00:55:10
			So
		
00:55:11 --> 00:55:11
			who
		
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			is very interesting person
		
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			if we had time we would say more
		
00:55:15 --> 00:55:15
			about
		
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			him. He narrates that the messenger of Allah
		
00:55:18 --> 00:55:19
			sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said,
		
00:55:20 --> 00:55:23
			whoever has four attributes in them, that person
		
00:55:23 --> 00:55:25
			is a pure monafat, they are a pure
		
00:55:25 --> 00:55:25
			hypocrite.
		
00:55:26 --> 00:55:28
			What is a hypocrite? Someone who may profess
		
00:55:28 --> 00:55:31
			faith outwardly, but inwardly the reality inside of
		
00:55:31 --> 00:55:31
			their heart is completely that of Kufr. Of
		
00:55:31 --> 00:55:32
			what? Of disbelief? What?
		
00:55:32 --> 00:55:33
			That of Kufr.
		
00:55:34 --> 00:55:35
			A what of disbelief?
		
00:55:36 --> 00:55:38
			A person 4 things if they're in a
		
00:55:38 --> 00:55:40
			person, 4 qualities if they're in a person,
		
00:55:41 --> 00:55:43
			that person is a complete hypocrite.
		
00:55:43 --> 00:55:44
			And whoever has
		
00:55:45 --> 00:55:48
			an attribute or some attributes from them, then
		
00:55:48 --> 00:55:50
			that person has that those attributes
		
00:55:51 --> 00:55:53
			of of of hypocrisy in them until they
		
00:55:53 --> 00:55:56
			leave those attributes. Meaning they're not a complete
		
00:55:56 --> 00:55:58
			but they have nifaf, they're not a complete
		
00:55:58 --> 00:56:00
			hypocrite, but they carry inside of the hypocrisy
		
00:56:00 --> 00:56:01
			until they leave these traits.
		
00:56:03 --> 00:56:04
			And what are they if that person is
		
00:56:04 --> 00:56:05
			trusted and trusted?
		
00:56:06 --> 00:56:07
			They will be treacherous.
		
00:56:08 --> 00:56:10
			And if that person if that person,
		
00:56:14 --> 00:56:17
			the with that, sorry, if if that and
		
00:56:17 --> 00:56:17
			they're entrusted,
		
00:56:18 --> 00:56:19
			that person is treacherous
		
00:56:20 --> 00:56:21
			with a
		
00:56:22 --> 00:56:25
			and when that person speaks to lie.
		
00:56:25 --> 00:56:26
			Oh,
		
00:56:27 --> 00:56:29
			yeah. I'll come I'll come by tomorrow.
		
00:56:29 --> 00:56:31
			And you don't come by tomorrow. That's sufficient.
		
00:56:33 --> 00:56:34
			So the many things we do, they're not
		
00:56:34 --> 00:56:36
			true. We say many untrue things
		
00:56:37 --> 00:56:39
			and we don't consider them lies, but they're
		
00:56:39 --> 00:56:39
			lies.
		
00:56:39 --> 00:56:41
			We said something that's not true and we
		
00:56:41 --> 00:56:42
			had no intention of fulfilling.
		
00:56:45 --> 00:56:47
			If they're entrusted with something someone they're treacherous
		
00:56:48 --> 00:56:49
			with their with that trust. You say he
		
00:56:49 --> 00:56:51
			can keep this like money for me. And
		
00:56:51 --> 00:56:52
			then when you come back for the money,
		
00:56:52 --> 00:56:53
			hey. I don't know where it is. I
		
00:56:53 --> 00:56:54
			don't know. You know exactly where it is
		
00:56:54 --> 00:56:55
			you spent it.
		
00:56:55 --> 00:56:57
			There are people like that.
		
00:56:57 --> 00:56:59
			Allah, protect us from ever being people like
		
00:56:59 --> 00:57:00
			that.
		
00:57:00 --> 00:57:03
			And when they speak, it's not their speech
		
00:57:03 --> 00:57:04
			is not true. It's a lie.
		
00:57:05 --> 00:57:05
			With the
		
00:57:06 --> 00:57:07
			if they promise you something,
		
00:57:08 --> 00:57:09
			they won't fulfill the promise.
		
00:57:10 --> 00:57:10
			With
		
00:57:11 --> 00:57:13
			And if they argue with you about something,
		
00:57:13 --> 00:57:15
			the argument exceeds all bounds.
		
00:57:17 --> 00:57:18
			This is also a really bad trade in
		
00:57:18 --> 00:57:20
			people. There's certain things that you have a
		
00:57:20 --> 00:57:22
			disagreement with somebody about it.
		
00:57:22 --> 00:57:24
			Oh, so just let it go. It's not
		
00:57:24 --> 00:57:25
			really that big of a deal.
		
00:57:26 --> 00:57:28
			But there are certain things that, like, you
		
00:57:28 --> 00:57:29
			know, somebody,
		
00:57:30 --> 00:57:32
			whatever. Like, you know, somebody,
		
00:57:33 --> 00:57:34
			said something
		
00:57:35 --> 00:57:36
			that you didn't
		
00:57:36 --> 00:57:38
			like. Maybe they didn't even intend to, like,
		
00:57:38 --> 00:57:39
			upset you,
		
00:57:39 --> 00:57:41
			or maybe they did and they apologized it
		
00:57:41 --> 00:57:43
			for for for you, you know, to you
		
00:57:43 --> 00:57:45
			afterward for it. But you act like this
		
00:57:45 --> 00:57:48
			person, like, crucified your, like, grandmother. It doesn't
		
00:57:48 --> 00:57:50
			you know, you have to let things go.
		
00:57:51 --> 00:57:52
			This is a real screwed up trait that
		
00:57:52 --> 00:57:53
			a lot of
		
00:57:56 --> 00:57:56
			people have. I see this in our community
		
00:57:56 --> 00:57:57
			a lot, especially amongst religious people.
		
00:57:58 --> 00:58:00
			Because of religiousness, many people become very self
		
00:58:00 --> 00:58:02
			righteous. You have to let things go when
		
00:58:02 --> 00:58:04
			someone especially people who apologize. Someone apologize and
		
00:58:04 --> 00:58:06
			you can't let let it go, then you're
		
00:58:06 --> 00:58:07
			a monster.
		
00:58:09 --> 00:58:11
			Not like the energy drink, like the bad
		
00:58:12 --> 00:58:13
			monster. Although the energy drink is not that
		
00:58:13 --> 00:58:14
			great either.
		
00:58:14 --> 00:58:16
			And you're a doctor, you can tell us
		
00:58:16 --> 00:58:18
			more about that later. But, the idea is
		
00:58:18 --> 00:58:20
			what? You're not a good person.
		
00:58:21 --> 00:58:23
			Some people, small things.
		
00:58:24 --> 00:58:26
			People like things that are legitimate difference of
		
00:58:26 --> 00:58:28
			opinion in the masjid, though, especially that they'll
		
00:58:28 --> 00:58:30
			they'll get up on somebody. So like, one
		
00:58:30 --> 00:58:32
			person will be like, you don't know. The
		
00:58:32 --> 00:58:33
			person maybe like hasn't prayed in the last
		
00:58:33 --> 00:58:35
			like year several years. They come to the
		
00:58:35 --> 00:58:37
			masjid first time. Brother, your hand's supposed to
		
00:58:37 --> 00:58:39
			be here and not over here. Your hand's
		
00:58:39 --> 00:58:40
			supposed to be here not
		
00:58:41 --> 00:58:42
			over
		
00:58:43 --> 00:58:46
			here. That's just not a good sign. Obsessing
		
00:58:46 --> 00:58:48
			and nitpicking over things that are not really
		
00:58:48 --> 00:58:49
			that big of a deal.
		
00:58:49 --> 00:58:50
			The maximum
		
00:58:50 --> 00:58:52
			if you really really need to say something
		
00:58:52 --> 00:58:54
			say, you know, the the school I followed,
		
00:58:54 --> 00:58:55
			they say that it's like this and this
		
00:58:55 --> 00:58:57
			is the Dalil. It's fine. And if the
		
00:58:57 --> 00:58:58
			person doesn't wanna accept it, they don't wanna
		
00:58:58 --> 00:59:00
			accept it. But to let, like
		
00:59:00 --> 00:59:02
			like, arguments exceed all bounds.
		
00:59:04 --> 00:59:06
			To exceed all bounds.
		
00:59:07 --> 00:59:08
			Someone owes you a $100.
		
00:59:09 --> 00:59:11
			Take them to small claims court.
		
00:59:13 --> 00:59:15
			Don't say they're a kaffir.
		
00:59:18 --> 00:59:20
			You understand what I'm saying? I'm not even
		
00:59:20 --> 00:59:21
			saying that. Okay. Sometimes you have a difference
		
00:59:21 --> 00:59:22
			with somebody
		
00:59:23 --> 00:59:24
			and you need to get it redressed. I'm
		
00:59:24 --> 00:59:26
			not even saying don't get it redressed, but
		
00:59:26 --> 00:59:28
			don't let it exceed the boundary. The everything
		
00:59:28 --> 00:59:29
			has, like, a natural set of parameters and
		
00:59:29 --> 00:59:31
			a boundary that it should stay inside of.
		
00:59:31 --> 00:59:33
			Don't let things exceed the the the boundaries
		
00:59:33 --> 00:59:36
			that, that they should stay inside of. Right?
		
00:59:36 --> 00:59:39
			You're a kafir. I'm gonna kill you. What
		
00:59:39 --> 00:59:40
			do you mean? Okay, fine. The person doesn't
		
00:59:40 --> 00:59:42
			believe in Islam. You don't have any right
		
00:59:42 --> 00:59:44
			to harm them physically much as kill them.
		
00:59:45 --> 00:59:47
			What is it? There are people like that.
		
00:59:47 --> 00:59:49
			There are entire Jamats of people that call
		
00:59:49 --> 00:59:51
			themselves Muslims and they shamelessly
		
00:59:51 --> 00:59:53
			make a flag out of the seal of
		
00:59:53 --> 00:59:54
			the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam's ring.
		
00:59:55 --> 00:59:57
			And what do they do? They say, oh,
		
00:59:57 --> 00:59:58
			you know, I have such and such grievances
		
00:59:59 --> 01:00:00
			with the west, so let's just, like, start
		
01:00:00 --> 01:00:01
			killing people indiscriminately.
		
01:00:02 --> 01:00:03
			And obviously, you should, you know,
		
01:00:04 --> 01:00:06
			politically, we're mature enough to know that there's
		
01:00:06 --> 01:00:08
			usually a story behind every story. It's not
		
01:00:08 --> 01:00:09
			just like some dude sat in the mustard
		
01:00:09 --> 01:00:11
			and, like, went crazy. There's other stuff going
		
01:00:11 --> 01:00:13
			on too. People pulling screens behind the scenes.
		
01:00:13 --> 01:00:15
			But still the idea is this is that,
		
01:00:15 --> 01:00:17
			like, it's a sign of nifaq. It's a
		
01:00:17 --> 01:00:19
			sign of being a person of nifaq that
		
01:00:19 --> 01:00:20
			you let
		
01:00:21 --> 01:00:21
			grievances
		
01:00:22 --> 01:00:23
			that are illegitimate
		
01:00:24 --> 01:00:26
			become legitimate or that are legitimate exceed the
		
01:00:26 --> 01:00:28
			boundaries and the parameters of the actual grievance
		
01:00:28 --> 01:00:28
			itself.
		
01:00:30 --> 01:00:32
			And this is a real problem. It's a
		
01:00:32 --> 01:00:34
			real problem in Masajid much less than other
		
01:00:34 --> 01:00:35
			places.
		
01:00:35 --> 01:00:35
			And
		
01:00:36 --> 01:00:38
			we need to check ourselves as well, and
		
01:00:38 --> 01:00:40
			we need to also realize that this is
		
01:00:40 --> 01:00:40
			not
		
01:00:41 --> 01:00:43
			it's not okay. It's not cool. It's not
		
01:00:43 --> 01:00:43
			acceptable.
		
01:00:44 --> 01:00:45
			It's it's a really bad sign.
		
01:00:46 --> 01:00:48
			It's a sign of what? A professing faith
		
01:00:48 --> 01:00:50
			outwardly and inwardly is something else may be
		
01:00:50 --> 01:00:51
			going on.
		
01:01:53 --> 01:01:55
			And may Allah be pleased with him and
		
01:01:55 --> 01:01:56
			his father. He narrates that the messenger of
		
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			Allah, sallallahu alaihi wasallam said, the prophet sallallahu
		
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			alaihi wasallam said,
		
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			whoever pretended like they saw a dream that
		
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			they didn't actually see,
		
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			that person, the punishment will be that they'll
		
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			be thrown into the hellfire, and they'll be
		
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			thrown 2 grains of barley and told to
		
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			tie a knot out of them.
		
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			Until once you can tie them into a
		
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			knot, you'll be you'll be you'll get let
		
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			out of the fire. And obviously, you cannot
		
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			tie 2 grains of barley into a knot.
		
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			Person won't be able to do it.
		
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			If you say, I saw such and such
		
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			or worse yet, I saw the prophet sallallahu
		
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			alaihi wa sallam in such and such. And
		
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			you're just lying to, like, get people to,
		
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			like, think that you receive some sort of,
		
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			like, inspiration or whatever, and you're just messing
		
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			with their heads. And a lot of people
		
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			do this, by the way.
		
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			A lot of people do this. Remember this
		
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			right now.
		
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			Sufism, no Sufism, fiqh, no fiqh, whatever it
		
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			is. Okay? There is no dream any person
		
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			can see. You can see all of the
		
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			ambiya and the angels and Allah ta'ala and
		
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			all of these things in your dream. There
		
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			is no dream whether a person saw it
		
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			or didn't see it. Whether a person saw
		
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			it or didn't see it. There is no
		
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			dream that changes the Sharia of the prophet
		
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			sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.
		
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			If someone sees a dream in which the
		
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			prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam tells them something
		
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			that changes the sharia like
		
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			pork is halal for you.
		
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			The interpretation of that is what he's showing
		
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			you this this defect in yourself.
		
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			Your dreams get them interpreted by the ulama.
		
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			Like not just like a dude who gives
		
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			good bayan in the masjid. Like the actual
		
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			people who carry this knowledge. It's a specific
		
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			type of knowledge.
		
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			The people who carry this howl with them
		
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			that they understand these things and they carry
		
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			this knowledge with them that they can interpret
		
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			these things.
		
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			Don't just be like, oh, I saw this
		
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			dream or so and so saw this dream,
		
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			so it means x y z because it
		
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			doesn't mean what you think it means most
		
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			often.
		
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			Nothing you see in a dream and no
		
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			miracle will ever change the sharia of the
		
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			prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam,
		
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			which was transmitted outwardly not through esoteric means.
		
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			It was transmitted through Hadith, it was transmitted
		
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			through through
		
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			people witnessing things and seeing things and then
		
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			transmitting them as they saw them in the
		
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			waking state outwardly.
		
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			The true dream of a person is a
		
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			hadith of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam that
		
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			there's 70 some odd branches
		
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			of of of of revelation that come to
		
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			to come in under the ages of prophecy.
		
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			All of which are closed with me except
		
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			for the true dream seen by a righteous
		
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			man of the Ummah.
		
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			Obviously, if you see the dream, it's not
		
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			a wahi. The idea is that those dreams
		
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			are sent to the people as Ummah in
		
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			confirmation of the the the the the transmitted
		
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			Sharia and in order to push a person
		
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			toward that, not in order to change it
		
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			in any way, shape, or form. So
		
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			someone sees a dream, it doesn't change the
		
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			hookum of anything at all. The at all.
		
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			The maximum one can say if the prophet
		
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			sallallahu alayhi wasalam, you see him in a
		
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			dream and he says you should make Hajj
		
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			this year, then it was permissible for you
		
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			to make Hajj. If you haven't made Hajj
		
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			anyway,
		
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			then it's still farther. So the dream didn't
		
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			change anything. If you already made Hajj before,
		
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			then the maximum you could say is that
		
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			because you saw it in a dream, it's
		
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			recommended for you, not for anybody else.
		
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			But it doesn't change halal into haram haram
		
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			into halal
		
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			or it doesn't change the order of of
		
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			of of, hierarchy of importance of things in
		
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			the Sharia. The Sharia has transmitted outwardly for
		
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			that. That's if a person actually saw the
		
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			dream. If a person's lying about it, we
		
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			have charlatans in the Muslim world. What and
		
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			Allah ta'ala, you know, be our protection.
		
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			We have charlatans in the Muslim world. They'll
		
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			do weird stuff like the Muslims in America,
		
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			where somewhat inoculated from this nonsense because we're
		
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			impious people. We're concerned with the dunya. So
		
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			even if someone came to the masjid and
		
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			saw said I saw a dream with the
		
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			prophet sallallahu alaihi wasalam x y z. We're
		
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			like, yeah. Whatever. You know why? Because we're
		
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			we're we don't need we don't even care
		
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			about those things. There are places in the
		
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			Muslim world
		
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			where the people have so much reverence for
		
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			the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam, a simple
		
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			minded person that it doesn't occur to them
		
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			that this person may be lying, they take
		
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			them for like a joy ride. Oh, I
		
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			saw the prophet sallallahu alaihi wasallam in a
		
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			dream. He said that tomorrow in Jumai, if
		
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			you don't raise, you know, a $100,000
		
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			for the masjid, that everyone's going to *.
		
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			People will start crying, and they'll give all
		
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			their money and this and that and the
		
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			other thing. Whereas what? It's just it's people
		
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			just lying.
		
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			Rasoolullah
		
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			said whoever not just about him. To lie
		
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			about him in a dream is a sin
		
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			that's a qualitatively
		
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			higher order.
		
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			A person who just lied about something in
		
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			their dream, the punishment for that lie is
		
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			what? Is that they'll be tossed into the
		
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			hellfire and given 2 grains of barley and
		
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			say, once you can tie a knot between
		
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			the 2 of them, then you'll get let
		
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			out. And continues,
		
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			so this is what regarding the prohibition of
		
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			lying.
		
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			Continues
		
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			that the person who eavesdrops
		
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			other people's speech
		
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			And, you know, one thing is people are
		
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			just chit chatting in public. Friends are having
		
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			a uproariously
		
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			boisterous conversation and a fun time. Obviously, it's
		
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			not like a secret or anything. Right?
		
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			We're not talking about that. We're talking about
		
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			people who are trying to just have a
		
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			conversation and you're eavesdropping.
		
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			You know,
		
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			you have an idea that they wouldn't be
		
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			super excited that you're listening to their conversation
		
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			if they had known.
		
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			That person, Yomo Tiyama,
		
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			molten lead will be poured into their ears
		
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			as punishment.
		
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			And the person who,
		
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			is a picture maker,
		
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			that person, they'll be given their picture that
		
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			they make,
		
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			and they'll be told to
		
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			blow a spirit into it. Once you can
		
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			blow a spirit into it, then you you'll
		
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			be let let let out.
		
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			The
		
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			prohibition
		
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			in our sacred sharia
		
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			of making
		
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			images
		
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			is not something that starts with our our
		
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			sharia.
		
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			Rather, it's also a prohibition from the sharia
		
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			of Banu Israel as well.
		
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			And there's a long
		
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			ulama have a difference of opinion amongst one
		
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			another that are the pictures and the images
		
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			of animate life that are that are referred
		
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			to in the
		
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			in the Hadith.
		
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			Are they just merely any picture?
		
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			Or are they,
		
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			specifically,
		
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			like, three-dimensional
		
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			images?
		
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			Further than that, they have a discussion.
		
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			Does,
		
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			like, a photograph count or not because a
		
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			photograph
		
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			for example, it's not haram to stand in
		
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			front of a mirror.
		
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			Why? Because the mirror is actually just reflecting
		
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			your your your,
		
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			image back to you.
		
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			Whereas, if you draw something, you're actually making
		
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			it up on your own.
		
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			These are all differences of opinion in the
		
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			legal realm.
		
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			So fine. If you are real hardcore, you
		
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			don't keep pictures in your house and things
		
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			like that, good. You'll notice that,
		
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			Muslims, it's part of Muslim culture, like I
		
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			said from before. Like, just like it's part
		
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			of Muslim culture, you would see there's no
		
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			culture in which Muslims
		
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			classically,
		
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			you know, Muslim men would leave the house
		
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			without their heads covered and without their arms
		
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			covered until their their,
		
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			their hands.
		
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			Classically, people don't have pictures up of stuff
		
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			everywhere
		
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			or anywhere.
		
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			Why? Because of hadith like this. Even though
		
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			the and the had a difference of opinion
		
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			of what it meant.
		
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			In the Maliki school, the the prohibition,
		
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			Maliki said that it's a prohibition of 3-dimensional
		
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			objects, like statues and things like that.
		
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			So, obviously, a two dimensional drawing wouldn't be
		
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			wouldn't be included in that. I've never seen
		
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			any of the
		
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			pictures up in their in their homes that
		
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			I studied with at least. Yeah?
		
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			Yeah. Animate objects. It doesn't, like, it doesn't
		
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			count like like flowers and plants and geometric
		
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			shapes and things like that calligraphy.
		
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			I've never seen I've never seen a picture
		
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			up in any of their homes. The ones
		
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			I studied with at any rate.
		
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			Right? Why? Because they used to respect these
		
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			things. The fact that it could possibly mean
		
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			that meant that they were they weren't interested
		
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			in in in putting those things up.
		
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			And so if you wanna keep pictures, keep
		
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			them in your phone, keep them in an
		
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			album. Don't put them up in the walls
		
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			inside of the house.
		
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			And generally speaking,
		
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			this idea of, like, drawing,
		
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			drawing pictures of animate objects and and things
		
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			like that. This was not considered,
		
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			is not considered a respectable
		
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			a respectable living.
		
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			What I can say is that making Tamathil
		
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			three-dimensional objects,
		
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			is
		
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			is pretty open and shut haram.
		
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			Keeping those in the house is pretty open
		
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			and shut haram. The only the maximum exemption
		
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			I can think of in the sharia is
		
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			toys for children.
		
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			And those toys also, they're not you're not
		
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			allowed to keep them in in in a
		
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			a a respectable state. You know, people are
		
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			collectors. They keep things in the packaging and
		
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			this and that and resale value and blah
		
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			blah blah. They treat them with respect. That
		
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			exempts it from the exemption even.
		
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			Toy is the toy, one of the reasons
		
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			the hikmas of it being permissible is that
		
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			it's not treated with respect. Children pick it
		
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			up the door to the side. They whatever.
		
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			They drool on it. They get it dirty,
		
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			things like that.
		
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			Whereas whereas treating with respect automatically means that
		
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			you're not inside of that exemption.
		
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			Yes.
		
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			Like I said, the the
		
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			issue is one debated.
		
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			So there are some of the that say
		
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			it's permissible, but don't display them up on
		
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			the walls. To be honest with you, this
		
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			is a this is
		
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			a a a a specific issue. The the
		
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			had in the Indian subcontinent.
		
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			Right? They actually they actually they this is
		
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			a specific issue that was dealt with before.
		
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			One of the great of
		
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			stop the recording. This is the the the
		
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			lessons over. If someone needs to go, you
		
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			can go