Hamzah Wald Maqbul – lssues Regarding Christmas ICC 12212019

Hamzah Wald Maqbul
AI: Summary ©
The Tetrarchy was a mess, breaking down eventually, and had a popular cult in ancient Rome that convinced people that if anyone tells you that the Romans became Christians, don't believe them. The Tetrarchy had a Christmas holiday, which was a mess, and had a Christmas party that was a mess. Christmas parties were important for strong character and good character, and it is important to show strong character and not miss out on Christmas parties.
AI: Transcript ©
00:00:00 --> 00:00:01

But today,

00:00:02 --> 00:00:03

we'll take a break from our regular

00:00:04 --> 00:00:05

real to just

00:00:06 --> 00:00:08

to discuss something that's a little bit pertinent

00:00:08 --> 00:00:09

for

00:00:12 --> 00:00:13

for the time and place that we're in

00:00:13 --> 00:00:14

right now,

00:00:14 --> 00:00:16

which is when I was

00:00:17 --> 00:00:18

like your guys' age.

00:00:19 --> 00:00:20

Because,

00:00:21 --> 00:00:23

at least in the massages that we used

00:00:23 --> 00:00:24

to go to,

00:00:24 --> 00:00:26

a majority of the people were not only

00:00:26 --> 00:00:28

immigrants, but they were like

00:00:28 --> 00:00:29

very fresh immigrants.

00:00:30 --> 00:00:31

And we were small children.

00:00:32 --> 00:00:34

So the community was not super integrated.

00:00:35 --> 00:00:35

So

00:00:36 --> 00:00:38

either people came to the mustard or they

00:00:38 --> 00:00:39

didn't come to the mustard. From the people

00:00:39 --> 00:00:41

who came to the mustard at Christmas and,

00:00:42 --> 00:00:44

New Year's, Christmas Eve, and Christmas trees, and

00:00:44 --> 00:00:45

Secret Santa, and this type of stuff, it

00:00:45 --> 00:00:47

was not as, a Secret Santa, and this

00:00:47 --> 00:00:48

type of stuff. It was not as,

00:00:49 --> 00:00:51

was not as big of an issue. It

00:00:51 --> 00:00:52

didn't seem like as a big of an

00:00:52 --> 00:00:54

issue because we had a small community. It

00:00:54 --> 00:00:56

was more tight knit

00:00:56 --> 00:00:56

and,

00:00:57 --> 00:01:00

socially, it was not as integrated in,

00:01:00 --> 00:01:02

American society. Now, we

00:01:02 --> 00:01:04

who are small children at that time have

00:01:04 --> 00:01:07

grown up, English is our native language. We

00:01:07 --> 00:01:07

have friends.

00:01:08 --> 00:01:09

We have family.

00:01:09 --> 00:01:10

We have,

00:01:10 --> 00:01:13

people who, you know, have entered into Islam

00:01:13 --> 00:01:14

in greater numbers

00:01:15 --> 00:01:17

in the masjid, which is a a blessing

00:01:17 --> 00:01:18

from Allah in

00:01:19 --> 00:01:19

fact.

00:01:20 --> 00:01:20

And

00:01:22 --> 00:01:24

with it comes a new set of challenges,

00:01:25 --> 00:01:26

which is every year it seems more and

00:01:26 --> 00:01:28

more people will ask me

00:01:29 --> 00:01:31

what do we do for Christmas? Is it

00:01:31 --> 00:01:31

okay to take an invitation if someone asks

00:01:31 --> 00:01:32

you to, like, come to their house, to

00:01:36 --> 00:01:38

celebrate with them? Is it okay to buy

00:01:38 --> 00:01:40

gifts from people? Is it okay to receive

00:01:40 --> 00:01:42

gifts from people? Etcetera, etcetera.

00:01:42 --> 00:01:43

And,

00:01:43 --> 00:01:44

although

00:01:44 --> 00:01:47

Muslims are not it's not part of Islam

00:01:47 --> 00:01:48

to, like, be, like,

00:01:49 --> 00:01:51

a general in the war on Christmas.

00:01:51 --> 00:01:53

Understand what I'm saying?

00:01:53 --> 00:01:55

Like, Christmas is not the people celebrating Christmas

00:01:55 --> 00:01:57

is not the problem with the world.

00:01:57 --> 00:01:59

We don't celebrate Christmas, and it's not part

00:01:59 --> 00:02:00

of our game.

00:02:01 --> 00:02:04

But Christmas itself is not like the problem

00:02:04 --> 00:02:04

with the world.

00:02:05 --> 00:02:06

If you see somebody, if you see like

00:02:06 --> 00:02:09

whatever, Jim on the street. Okay? The issue

00:02:09 --> 00:02:10

that Jim has is not that he gives,

00:02:10 --> 00:02:12

you know, has a Christmas tree in his

00:02:12 --> 00:02:13

house and that he's giving gifts to his

00:02:13 --> 00:02:14

children or whatever.

00:02:15 --> 00:02:17

The issue is what is kufr, that he

00:02:17 --> 00:02:18

either knows Allah nor does he know the

00:02:18 --> 00:02:19

rasulullah

00:02:19 --> 00:02:21

alaihi wa sallam. He doesn't believe in the

00:02:21 --> 00:02:23

Quran. He doesn't believe in the rasulullah salallahu

00:02:23 --> 00:02:25

alaihi wa sallam. He doesn't know that Allah

00:02:25 --> 00:02:27

is 1 or he doesn't bring it into

00:02:27 --> 00:02:29

his heart. The kufr is the problem. The

00:02:29 --> 00:02:30

other things

00:02:30 --> 00:02:32

are secondary issues that can be,

00:02:33 --> 00:02:35

know, like ironed out. But what happens is

00:02:35 --> 00:02:37

because especially when

00:02:37 --> 00:02:38

not based on knowledge,

00:02:39 --> 00:02:41

the nubs when it reacts things that reacts

00:02:41 --> 00:02:42

in 1 of 2 extremes.

00:02:43 --> 00:02:44

One is like, what's the big deal? What's

00:02:44 --> 00:02:46

the problem? It's not even a religious holiday

00:02:46 --> 00:02:48

anyway anymore,

00:02:48 --> 00:02:50

which I think a very solid argument can

00:02:50 --> 00:02:51

be made for that. But it's known to

00:02:51 --> 00:02:53

everybody that origin of Christmas is a religious

00:02:53 --> 00:02:55

holiday. Even though most people don't celebrate it

00:02:55 --> 00:02:58

religiously anymore, people don't go to church. It

00:02:58 --> 00:03:00

has nothing to do with with, saying that

00:03:00 --> 00:03:02

Islam has nothing to do with anything. It's

00:03:02 --> 00:03:03

become like this kind of a consumerist

00:03:03 --> 00:03:04

orgy. And

00:03:04 --> 00:03:06

and if you wanna know about what my

00:03:06 --> 00:03:08

thoughts are regarding that type of thing, you

00:03:08 --> 00:03:09

can go to the soundcloud and listen to

00:03:09 --> 00:03:11

what I said on, you know, the whatever

00:03:11 --> 00:03:11

Black Friday,

00:03:12 --> 00:03:12

Friday,

00:03:13 --> 00:03:15

with regards to going shopping, buying stuff that

00:03:15 --> 00:03:17

you don't need. It's itself a problem.

00:03:17 --> 00:03:18

So there's one

00:03:19 --> 00:03:19

one,

00:03:20 --> 00:03:22

extreme which is like, what's the big deal?

00:03:22 --> 00:03:25

We can celebrate. It's not a big deal,

00:03:25 --> 00:03:25

which is wrong.

00:03:26 --> 00:03:29

It's wrong. Chris Christmas is what? Christmas is

00:03:29 --> 00:03:30

originally a holiday of certain

00:03:31 --> 00:03:31

of certain,

00:03:32 --> 00:03:34

parts of the Christian,

00:03:35 --> 00:03:35

religion.

00:03:36 --> 00:03:38

In the early part of this

00:03:39 --> 00:03:40

nations,

00:03:40 --> 00:03:41

colonial history,

00:03:42 --> 00:03:44

many of the Christians didn't celebrate Christmas. The

00:03:44 --> 00:03:46

pilgrims, you know, the pilgrims and Mayflower and

00:03:46 --> 00:03:48

all that stuff. They didn't actually didn't celebrate

00:03:48 --> 00:03:50

Christmas because it's not really originally,

00:03:50 --> 00:03:51

anything,

00:03:52 --> 00:03:54

having to do with the religion of

00:03:55 --> 00:03:57

and it doesn't even have anything to do

00:03:57 --> 00:03:59

with the religion of Paul. It doesn't have

00:03:59 --> 00:04:00

anything to do with the religion of the

00:04:00 --> 00:04:03

Nicene Creed centuries passed before it even becomes

00:04:03 --> 00:04:04

a big deal.

00:04:14 --> 00:04:15

It's not even on that day.

00:04:17 --> 00:04:19

And one might say, well, at least our

00:04:19 --> 00:04:21

spirit, you know, in spirit, we're celebrating the

00:04:21 --> 00:04:22

birth. He's a member of Allah. You know,

00:04:22 --> 00:04:24

okay. We acknowledge it's not the wrong day.

00:04:24 --> 00:04:27

You know why it's the 25th December?

00:04:27 --> 00:04:29

It's the 25th December because there is a

00:04:29 --> 00:04:31

pagan cult in ancient Rome,

00:04:32 --> 00:04:34

the cult of Mithra, which Mithra the word

00:04:34 --> 00:04:37

Mithra itself is a it's an old Indo

00:04:37 --> 00:04:39

Aryan word, which means like a demigod, like

00:04:39 --> 00:04:40

an idol.

00:04:41 --> 00:04:42

Cognate of the like Sanskrit word basically which

00:04:42 --> 00:04:42

means friend. But in the ancient divested Iranian

00:04:42 --> 00:04:43

language,

00:04:49 --> 00:04:50

supposedly

00:04:50 --> 00:04:52

it meant like God. And so the culture

00:04:52 --> 00:04:53

of Mitra is a Persian

00:04:55 --> 00:04:58

cult of Sol Invictus, worshipping the sun basically.

00:04:58 --> 00:05:01

The Sol Invictus in the, in the, in

00:05:01 --> 00:05:03

the Roman religion was

00:05:04 --> 00:05:05

Apollo, the conquering

00:05:06 --> 00:05:07

the conquering sun god.

00:05:08 --> 00:05:10

So do you know how the Romans became

00:05:10 --> 00:05:11

Christian? Right? Constantine

00:05:12 --> 00:05:13

was

00:05:13 --> 00:05:14

a co emperor.

00:05:15 --> 00:05:18

Right? There was something in the, in in

00:05:18 --> 00:05:20

the in the history of the Roman Empire

00:05:20 --> 00:05:23

called the Tetrarchy. The empire was so big.

00:05:23 --> 00:05:26

There was no text messages, emails, WhatsApp. So

00:05:26 --> 00:05:27

they can't communicate with each other and it's

00:05:27 --> 00:05:29

really difficult to run a huge empire like

00:05:29 --> 00:05:32

that. So the tetrarchy was what? They split

00:05:32 --> 00:05:33

the empire into 2 halves. There's the east

00:05:33 --> 00:05:35

and the west and as the name tetrarchy

00:05:36 --> 00:05:36

indicates,

00:05:36 --> 00:05:38

the east had a senior emperor and a

00:05:38 --> 00:05:40

junior emperor, and the West had a senior

00:05:40 --> 00:05:43

emperor and junior emperor. So tetrarchy, it means

00:05:43 --> 00:05:44

rule of 4.

00:05:44 --> 00:05:46

And so what ends up happening is the

00:05:46 --> 00:05:47

Tetrarchy obviously

00:05:47 --> 00:05:49

lasted for some time. It sounds like a

00:05:49 --> 00:05:52

dumb idea and inevitably it broke down at

00:05:52 --> 00:05:53

some point. They started fighting with each other.

00:05:53 --> 00:05:56

So one member of the Tetrarchy was was,

00:05:56 --> 00:05:57

the Emperor Constantine.

00:05:57 --> 00:06:00

And so he marched his armies from the

00:06:00 --> 00:06:01

west to the east,

00:06:02 --> 00:06:04

and there was a battle. And on the

00:06:04 --> 00:06:05

eve of the battle, basically,

00:06:06 --> 00:06:07

like a number of the soldiers saw a

00:06:07 --> 00:06:08

dream that,

00:06:09 --> 00:06:11

and in the dream, basically, he was shown

00:06:11 --> 00:06:12

that if

00:06:12 --> 00:06:14

you fight in the name of the whatever

00:06:14 --> 00:06:16

the Saul Invictus, you'll be victorious.

00:06:16 --> 00:06:19

At first, he thought it was what? At

00:06:19 --> 00:06:20

first, he thought it was Apollo.

00:06:21 --> 00:06:24

So there are 3 historical records of which

00:06:24 --> 00:06:27

God he, worshiped and asked for victory on

00:06:27 --> 00:06:29

that map. 2 of them are Christian sources,

00:06:30 --> 00:06:32

and the Christian sources say that that that

00:06:32 --> 00:06:33

he,

00:06:33 --> 00:06:36

prayed and sought victory from Jesus Christ. And

00:06:36 --> 00:06:37

the third is a pagan source. And the

00:06:37 --> 00:06:40

pagan source says it's what? It's solid victus.

00:06:40 --> 00:06:42

It's the sun the sun god Apollo. Apollo

00:06:42 --> 00:06:44

isn't the sun himself, but he's the god

00:06:44 --> 00:06:46

of the sun. And so what ends up

00:06:46 --> 00:06:47

happening is later on

00:06:50 --> 00:06:52

what historians many historians alleged is that he

00:06:52 --> 00:06:54

thought it was Apollo. Later on, the Christians

00:06:54 --> 00:06:57

convinced him that the sun god is actually

00:06:57 --> 00:06:57

Jesus Christ.

00:06:58 --> 00:06:59

Why?

00:07:00 --> 00:07:02

Think about this for a second. Like, you

00:07:02 --> 00:07:03

don't all make sense. I know it's like,

00:07:03 --> 00:07:04

you know, you're getting confused. It all makes

00:07:04 --> 00:07:05

sense in one second.

00:07:06 --> 00:07:08

There was a very popular cult in ancient

00:07:08 --> 00:07:10

Rome. Ancient Rome was like India, like Hinduism

00:07:10 --> 00:07:12

where they worship like every god and, you

00:07:12 --> 00:07:14

know, everyone worships everyone else's god. It was

00:07:14 --> 00:07:14

just like a complete free for all. So

00:07:14 --> 00:07:15

this cult of Mithra came from the

00:07:24 --> 00:07:25

And they they they worshiped as the sun

00:07:25 --> 00:07:28

god. That's why Mithra's birthday is what? It's

00:07:28 --> 00:07:29

the winter solstice.

00:07:32 --> 00:07:34

Why? Because it's one of the day is

00:07:34 --> 00:07:34

the shortest.

00:07:35 --> 00:07:37

After the winter solstice, the day just gets

00:07:37 --> 00:07:39

keeps getting longer and longer and longer.

00:07:42 --> 00:07:44

So when what happens is when,

00:07:45 --> 00:07:46

Constantine they

00:07:46 --> 00:07:48

convinced him that it wasn't Apollo that gave

00:07:48 --> 00:07:50

you victory. It was Jesus

00:07:51 --> 00:07:51

Christ.

00:07:52 --> 00:07:54

There's a conflation between both of these things

00:07:54 --> 00:07:55

that end up happening.

00:07:56 --> 00:07:57

And so, Mitra,

00:07:59 --> 00:08:01

he dies on Easter, and he's raised on

00:08:01 --> 00:08:04

the 3rd day. And his symbol is what?

00:08:05 --> 00:08:07

It's an inverted sword, which looks like what?

00:08:07 --> 00:08:08

If you take a sword and put it

00:08:08 --> 00:08:10

upside down, what does it look like? It

00:08:10 --> 00:08:11

looks like the cross.

00:08:11 --> 00:08:14

Right? So all of these weird pagan rituals

00:08:14 --> 00:08:16

that happened with, they basically Christianize.

00:08:18 --> 00:08:20

This is why, one of the he mentioned

00:08:20 --> 00:08:22

that Ibn Kathir mentioned that if anyone ever

00:08:22 --> 00:08:24

tells you that the Romans became Christians,

00:08:25 --> 00:08:27

don't believe them. And if anyone ever tells

00:08:27 --> 00:08:30

you that the Christians became Romans, then believe

00:08:31 --> 00:08:33

them. Right? So that December 25th is not

00:08:33 --> 00:08:34

just an innocuous

00:08:34 --> 00:08:36

day that, okay, what even if it's the

00:08:36 --> 00:08:37

wrong day, you know, we don't know exactly

00:08:37 --> 00:08:39

what they said.

00:08:40 --> 00:08:41

Even if it's the wrong day, but like

00:08:41 --> 00:08:43

at least we're celebrating the prophet of Allah.

00:08:43 --> 00:08:44

You're not celebrating the profit of Allah. What

00:08:44 --> 00:08:45

are you celebrating?

00:08:45 --> 00:08:49

Some weird old like ancient Roman pagan cult.

00:08:50 --> 00:08:51

Extreme. The other extreme is however, what just

00:08:51 --> 00:08:52

because it's the wrong thing, it

00:08:52 --> 00:08:53

doesn't

00:08:58 --> 00:08:59

mean you have to be a jerk to

00:08:59 --> 00:09:00

people around you.

00:09:01 --> 00:09:02

That like your neighbors and whatever, you have

00:09:02 --> 00:09:04

to you know, you guys are mentioned. You

00:09:04 --> 00:09:06

guys are worshiping the pig. To them, that's

00:09:06 --> 00:09:08

not what they're doing, you know, in their

00:09:08 --> 00:09:10

mind. And being mean to people is a

00:09:10 --> 00:09:11

bad way of getting them to,

00:09:12 --> 00:09:13

listen to the truth.

00:09:13 --> 00:09:16

Being jerk to people, partner only, being a

00:09:16 --> 00:09:17

general in the war on Christmas is a

00:09:17 --> 00:09:18

bad way of,

00:09:19 --> 00:09:21

of getting them to, listen to the truth.

00:09:21 --> 00:09:23

So what a Muslim should do is with

00:09:23 --> 00:09:24

great dignity,

00:09:25 --> 00:09:26

with some with some respect,

00:09:26 --> 00:09:28

why not because of who you are and

00:09:28 --> 00:09:30

who I am, but because of the the

00:09:30 --> 00:09:32

the dean of Allah, and his Rasool salallahu

00:09:32 --> 00:09:34

alaihi wa sallam. We say, we don't celebrate.

00:09:34 --> 00:09:36

This is not a holiday that we celebrate.

00:09:36 --> 00:09:37

We have our own

00:09:37 --> 00:09:39

Allah gave in Israel

00:09:40 --> 00:09:41

gave us 2 eeds that we celebrate.

00:09:42 --> 00:09:43

And if this is your holiday that we

00:09:43 --> 00:09:45

celebrate, you know, even though we don't follow

00:09:45 --> 00:09:47

your religion, but we acknowledge that you follow

00:09:47 --> 00:09:49

your religion and we respect that. We're not

00:09:49 --> 00:09:51

here to, like, you know, like, talk bad

00:09:51 --> 00:09:53

to you about it. So, you know, you

00:09:53 --> 00:09:55

guys have your holiday and enjoy. If they

00:09:55 --> 00:09:56

give you gifts, as long as the acceptance

00:09:56 --> 00:09:58

of the gift is not considered a ritual

00:09:58 --> 00:10:00

act, you can accept the gift.

00:10:00 --> 00:10:03

And my encouragement to people is that we

00:10:03 --> 00:10:05

should also give people gifts as well. Not

00:10:05 --> 00:10:07

on Christmas, on on our our own on

00:10:07 --> 00:10:10

our own eats and in general regularly as

00:10:10 --> 00:10:12

well, especially our neighbors and things like that.

00:10:12 --> 00:10:14

If someone says to you, Merry Christmas, you

00:10:14 --> 00:10:16

don't say Merry Christmas back to them. But

00:10:16 --> 00:10:17

if you say happy holidays back to them,

00:10:17 --> 00:10:19

like, nobody's gonna die.

00:10:19 --> 00:10:19

It's good, you know, it's good character that

00:10:19 --> 00:10:20

we show share with people.

00:10:27 --> 00:10:28

It's a holiday. Right? You guys get the

00:10:28 --> 00:10:30

day off from school. You guys get 2

00:10:30 --> 00:10:32

weeks off from school. Right? It's a holiday.

00:10:32 --> 00:10:33

Right? That's a matter of fact. It's not

00:10:33 --> 00:10:34

a religious

00:10:34 --> 00:10:36

So if you say happy holidays back to

00:10:36 --> 00:10:38

somebody, nobody's gonna die. What are you doing?

00:10:38 --> 00:10:39

You're showing the prophetic,

00:10:42 --> 00:10:45

example of good character, and that's always a

00:10:45 --> 00:10:47

good thing. But then we don't cross the

00:10:47 --> 00:10:49

line. We don't cross the line and then

00:10:49 --> 00:10:51

participate in the parties. And worse than that

00:10:51 --> 00:10:53

is what? Okay. Somebody has a Christmas party.

00:10:53 --> 00:10:55

It's different for some people. You know, if

00:10:55 --> 00:10:57

somebody is like, both of my parents are

00:10:57 --> 00:11:00

from whatever, from Uzbekistan or Iraq, and like

00:11:00 --> 00:11:02

all of my family is here, and that's

00:11:02 --> 00:11:03

who I'm gonna spell out, you know, spend

00:11:03 --> 00:11:05

my weekend with. It's easy for them to

00:11:05 --> 00:11:06

say, I don't celebrate Christmas.

00:11:06 --> 00:11:09

Some people here are, you know, accepting Islam

00:11:09 --> 00:11:11

and our families are still, like,

00:11:11 --> 00:11:13

not Muslims or some part of the family

00:11:13 --> 00:11:14

is still not Muslim or some of us

00:11:14 --> 00:11:17

married into people who are converts or have

00:11:17 --> 00:11:19

some part of the family that's still not

00:11:19 --> 00:11:19

Muslim.

00:11:20 --> 00:11:22

And it's really funny because when I talk

00:11:22 --> 00:11:24

about these things, some people an attitude. They're

00:11:24 --> 00:11:26

like, oh, shit. You're easy for you to

00:11:26 --> 00:11:27

say. You don't have any non Muslim relatives.

00:11:27 --> 00:11:29

So how do you know? I don't talk

00:11:29 --> 00:11:31

about my personal life up on the because

00:11:31 --> 00:11:33

the is about Islam. It's not about the

00:11:33 --> 00:11:34

life of Hamza. Right?

00:11:35 --> 00:11:37

But at any rate, the the deen is

00:11:37 --> 00:11:39

the deen. The deen don't change whether your

00:11:39 --> 00:11:40

relatives are just out of the other thing.

00:11:40 --> 00:11:41

If you have relatives

00:11:42 --> 00:11:43

and family members, it's the only time you

00:11:43 --> 00:11:45

see them in the year and there's like

00:11:45 --> 00:11:47

some gathering or whatever.

00:11:47 --> 00:11:50

You can go. You can go. If there's

00:11:50 --> 00:11:51

no business, there's no need for you to

00:11:51 --> 00:11:52

be there, it's better for you not to

00:11:52 --> 00:11:53

go.

00:11:54 --> 00:11:56

But for example, someone married married someone who's

00:11:56 --> 00:11:58

new to the deed or someone themselves has

00:11:58 --> 00:12:00

accepted Islam some years ago, and they have

00:12:00 --> 00:12:02

a number of family members they have to

00:12:02 --> 00:12:03

meet or whatever. And for some reason or

00:12:03 --> 00:12:04

another person has to go to one of

00:12:04 --> 00:12:06

these parties and gatherings.

00:12:12 --> 00:12:13

Permissibility to go.

00:12:14 --> 00:12:16

Once the bottle is open, it doesn't matter

00:12:16 --> 00:12:17

who it is. You have to get up

00:12:17 --> 00:12:18

and leave.

00:12:18 --> 00:12:19

You have to get up and leave. And

00:12:19 --> 00:12:21

for somebody who doesn't have a need to

00:12:21 --> 00:12:21

be there,

00:12:22 --> 00:12:24

but they go anyway for whatever other reason,

00:12:24 --> 00:12:28

professional, networking, friends, whatever, once the bottle opens,

00:12:28 --> 00:12:29

it's haram for you to be in that

00:12:29 --> 00:12:31

room. You have to get up and leave.

00:12:31 --> 00:12:32

You have to get up and leave. There's

00:12:32 --> 00:12:34

no being in that room once the bottle

00:12:34 --> 00:12:36

starts to open. And people will see that

00:12:36 --> 00:12:38

when you leave, once the alcohol Or you

00:12:38 --> 00:12:39

don't have to talk because they're not Muslims.

00:12:39 --> 00:12:40

You know what I mean? If you tell

00:12:40 --> 00:12:43

them drinking is haram, they don't care. They're

00:12:43 --> 00:12:45

probably just gonna mock Islam anyway for you

00:12:45 --> 00:12:46

saying that. So you don't have to make

00:12:46 --> 00:12:48

a big fit or a big fit about

00:12:48 --> 00:12:49

it. What do you do? You just get

00:12:49 --> 00:12:51

up and leave. People may even make a

00:12:51 --> 00:12:52

face at you when you leave, but they'll

00:12:52 --> 00:12:55

respect you. They'll respect you. Even if they

00:12:55 --> 00:12:57

never admitted inside of their heart, they'll respect

00:12:57 --> 00:12:59

you and they'll remember that their whole life.

00:12:59 --> 00:13:01

That this alcohol that we enjoy so much,

00:13:01 --> 00:13:03

all of us go inside of our head.

00:13:03 --> 00:13:05

It does nothing except for rude people's lives.

00:13:05 --> 00:13:06

And this person

00:13:07 --> 00:13:09

could have enjoyed with us, but they used

00:13:09 --> 00:13:10

their brain more than,

00:13:10 --> 00:13:12

used their emotions and they got up and

00:13:12 --> 00:13:14

left. It will make an impact on them.

00:13:14 --> 00:13:16

And even if it doesn't, you save your

00:13:16 --> 00:13:19

deeds, save your honor, save your dunya, save

00:13:19 --> 00:13:21

your don't sit in those gatherings. Those are

00:13:21 --> 00:13:23

gatherings of heedlessness of those are like gatherings

00:13:23 --> 00:13:25

in which shaytan has the upper hand. Don't

00:13:25 --> 00:13:28

harm yourself. Don't kill yourself by by just

00:13:28 --> 00:13:29

trying to be a nice guy. It's better

00:13:29 --> 00:13:32

for everybody. Once the bottle opens, just get

00:13:32 --> 00:13:33

up and leave. Allah

00:13:33 --> 00:13:35

give all of us, to give,

00:13:36 --> 00:13:37

good,

00:13:38 --> 00:13:40

give a good example of Islam for ourselves,

00:13:40 --> 00:13:42

for our families, for our relatives, for the

00:13:42 --> 00:13:44

Muslims, for the people of other faiths. Allatul

00:13:44 --> 00:13:46

give us a tofik of showing good character

00:13:46 --> 00:13:47

to other people.

00:13:47 --> 00:13:49

Inshallah, one day all of those people are

00:13:49 --> 00:13:51

celebrating Christmas. It's not far away that they'll

00:13:51 --> 00:13:52

be in the masjid as well and they'll

00:13:52 --> 00:13:55

be the ones who are celebrating with us

00:13:55 --> 00:13:55

as well.

00:13:56 --> 00:13:57

And you'll receive the reward for that. Don't

00:13:57 --> 00:14:00

think it's far fetched. It will happen even

00:14:00 --> 00:14:02

weird and crazy people. You see Donald Trump

00:14:02 --> 00:14:04

and Mitch McConnell and Nancy Pelosi one day,

00:14:04 --> 00:14:04

you know,

00:14:05 --> 00:14:07

celebrating celebrating a eve instead of Christmas. It's

00:14:07 --> 00:14:09

nothing is None of these things are weird.

00:14:09 --> 00:14:10

All of these things people thought there were

00:14:10 --> 00:14:13

even crazier people than them. People thought there's

00:14:13 --> 00:14:15

no way this person will, end up becoming

00:14:15 --> 00:14:17

a Muslim, and they died on

00:14:18 --> 00:14:18

their lips.

00:14:19 --> 00:14:20

And so like to prepare for that day,

00:14:20 --> 00:14:23

remember, don't be so mean or such a

00:14:23 --> 00:14:24

jerk with people right now that you messed

00:14:24 --> 00:14:26

it up for for that day as well.

00:14:26 --> 00:14:28

But still keep your principles.

Share Page