Hamzah Wald Maqbul – lssues Regarding Christmas ICC 12212019

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The Tetrarchy was a mess, breaking down eventually, and had a popular cult in ancient Rome that convinced people that if anyone tells you that the Romans became Christians, don't believe them. The Tetrarchy had a Christmas holiday, which was a mess, and had a Christmas party that was a mess. Christmas parties were important for strong character and good character, and it is important to show strong character and not miss out on Christmas parties.

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			But today,
		
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			we'll take a break from our regular
		
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			real to just
		
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			to discuss something that's a little bit pertinent
		
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			for
		
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			for the time and place that we're in
		
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			right now,
		
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			which is when I was
		
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			like your guys' age.
		
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			Because,
		
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			at least in the massages that we used
		
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			to go to,
		
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			a majority of the people were not only
		
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			immigrants, but they were like
		
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			very fresh immigrants.
		
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			And we were small children.
		
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			So the community was not super integrated.
		
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			So
		
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			either people came to the mustard or they
		
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			didn't come to the mustard. From the people
		
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			who came to the mustard at Christmas and,
		
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			New Year's, Christmas Eve, and Christmas trees, and
		
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			Secret Santa, and this type of stuff, it
		
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			was not as, a Secret Santa, and this
		
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			type of stuff. It was not as,
		
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			was not as big of an issue. It
		
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			didn't seem like as a big of an
		
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			issue because we had a small community. It
		
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			was more tight knit
		
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			and,
		
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			socially, it was not as integrated in,
		
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			American society. Now, we
		
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			who are small children at that time have
		
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			grown up, English is our native language. We
		
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			have friends.
		
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			We have family.
		
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			We have,
		
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			people who, you know, have entered into Islam
		
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			in greater numbers
		
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			in the masjid, which is a a blessing
		
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			from Allah in
		
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			fact.
		
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			And
		
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			with it comes a new set of challenges,
		
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			which is every year it seems more and
		
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			more people will ask me
		
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			what do we do for Christmas? Is it
		
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			okay to take an invitation if someone asks
		
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			you to, like, come to their house, to
		
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			celebrate with them? Is it okay to buy
		
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			gifts from people? Is it okay to receive
		
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			gifts from people? Etcetera, etcetera.
		
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			And,
		
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			although
		
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			Muslims are not it's not part of Islam
		
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			to, like, be, like,
		
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			a general in the war on Christmas.
		
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			Understand what I'm saying?
		
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			Like, Christmas is not the people celebrating Christmas
		
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			is not the problem with the world.
		
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			We don't celebrate Christmas, and it's not part
		
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			of our game.
		
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			But Christmas itself is not like the problem
		
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			with the world.
		
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			If you see somebody, if you see like
		
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			whatever, Jim on the street. Okay? The issue
		
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			that Jim has is not that he gives,
		
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			you know, has a Christmas tree in his
		
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			house and that he's giving gifts to his
		
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			children or whatever.
		
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			The issue is what is kufr, that he
		
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			either knows Allah nor does he know the
		
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			rasulullah
		
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			alaihi wa sallam. He doesn't believe in the
		
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			Quran. He doesn't believe in the rasulullah salallahu
		
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			alaihi wa sallam. He doesn't know that Allah
		
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			is 1 or he doesn't bring it into
		
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			his heart. The kufr is the problem. The
		
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			other things
		
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			are secondary issues that can be,
		
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			know, like ironed out. But what happens is
		
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			because especially when
		
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			not based on knowledge,
		
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			the nubs when it reacts things that reacts
		
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			in 1 of 2 extremes.
		
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			One is like, what's the big deal? What's
		
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			the problem? It's not even a religious holiday
		
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			anyway anymore,
		
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			which I think a very solid argument can
		
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			be made for that. But it's known to
		
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			everybody that origin of Christmas is a religious
		
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			holiday. Even though most people don't celebrate it
		
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			religiously anymore, people don't go to church. It
		
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			has nothing to do with with, saying that
		
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			Islam has nothing to do with anything. It's
		
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			become like this kind of a consumerist
		
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			orgy. And
		
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			and if you wanna know about what my
		
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			thoughts are regarding that type of thing, you
		
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			can go to the soundcloud and listen to
		
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			what I said on, you know, the whatever
		
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			Black Friday,
		
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			Friday,
		
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			with regards to going shopping, buying stuff that
		
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			you don't need. It's itself a problem.
		
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			So there's one
		
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			one,
		
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			extreme which is like, what's the big deal?
		
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			We can celebrate. It's not a big deal,
		
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			which is wrong.
		
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			It's wrong. Chris Christmas is what? Christmas is
		
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			originally a holiday of certain
		
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			of certain,
		
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			parts of the Christian,
		
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			religion.
		
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			In the early part of this
		
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			nations,
		
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			colonial history,
		
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			many of the Christians didn't celebrate Christmas. The
		
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			pilgrims, you know, the pilgrims and Mayflower and
		
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			all that stuff. They didn't actually didn't celebrate
		
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			Christmas because it's not really originally,
		
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			anything,
		
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			having to do with the religion of
		
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			and it doesn't even have anything to do
		
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			with the religion of Paul. It doesn't have
		
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			anything to do with the religion of the
		
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			Nicene Creed centuries passed before it even becomes
		
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			a big deal.
		
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			It's not even on that day.
		
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			And one might say, well, at least our
		
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			spirit, you know, in spirit, we're celebrating the
		
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			birth. He's a member of Allah. You know,
		
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			okay. We acknowledge it's not the wrong day.
		
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			You know why it's the 25th December?
		
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			It's the 25th December because there is a
		
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			pagan cult in ancient Rome,
		
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			the cult of Mithra, which Mithra the word
		
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			Mithra itself is a it's an old Indo
		
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			Aryan word, which means like a demigod, like
		
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			an idol.
		
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			Cognate of the like Sanskrit word basically which
		
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			means friend. But in the ancient divested Iranian
		
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			language,
		
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			supposedly
		
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			it meant like God. And so the culture
		
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			of Mitra is a Persian
		
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			cult of Sol Invictus, worshipping the sun basically.
		
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			The Sol Invictus in the, in the, in
		
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			the Roman religion was
		
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			Apollo, the conquering
		
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			the conquering sun god.
		
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			So do you know how the Romans became
		
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			Christian? Right? Constantine
		
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			was
		
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			a co emperor.
		
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			Right? There was something in the, in in
		
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			the in the history of the Roman Empire
		
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			called the Tetrarchy. The empire was so big.
		
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			There was no text messages, emails, WhatsApp. So
		
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			they can't communicate with each other and it's
		
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			really difficult to run a huge empire like
		
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			that. So the tetrarchy was what? They split
		
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			the empire into 2 halves. There's the east
		
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			and the west and as the name tetrarchy
		
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			indicates,
		
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			the east had a senior emperor and a
		
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			junior emperor, and the West had a senior
		
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			emperor and junior emperor. So tetrarchy, it means
		
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			rule of 4.
		
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			And so what ends up happening is the
		
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			Tetrarchy obviously
		
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			lasted for some time. It sounds like a
		
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			dumb idea and inevitably it broke down at
		
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			some point. They started fighting with each other.
		
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			So one member of the Tetrarchy was was,
		
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			the Emperor Constantine.
		
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			And so he marched his armies from the
		
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			west to the east,
		
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			and there was a battle. And on the
		
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			eve of the battle, basically,
		
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			like a number of the soldiers saw a
		
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			dream that,
		
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			and in the dream, basically, he was shown
		
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			that if
		
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			you fight in the name of the whatever
		
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			the Saul Invictus, you'll be victorious.
		
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			At first, he thought it was what? At
		
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			first, he thought it was Apollo.
		
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			So there are 3 historical records of which
		
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			God he, worshiped and asked for victory on
		
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			that map. 2 of them are Christian sources,
		
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			and the Christian sources say that that that
		
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			he,
		
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			prayed and sought victory from Jesus Christ. And
		
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			the third is a pagan source. And the
		
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			pagan source says it's what? It's solid victus.
		
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			It's the sun the sun god Apollo. Apollo
		
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			isn't the sun himself, but he's the god
		
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			of the sun. And so what ends up
		
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			happening is later on
		
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			what historians many historians alleged is that he
		
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			thought it was Apollo. Later on, the Christians
		
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			convinced him that the sun god is actually
		
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			Jesus Christ.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Think about this for a second. Like, you
		
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			don't all make sense. I know it's like,
		
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			you know, you're getting confused. It all makes
		
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			sense in one second.
		
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			There was a very popular cult in ancient
		
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			Rome. Ancient Rome was like India, like Hinduism
		
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			where they worship like every god and, you
		
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			know, everyone worships everyone else's god. It was
		
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			just like a complete free for all. So
		
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			this cult of Mithra came from the
		
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			And they they they worshiped as the sun
		
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			god. That's why Mithra's birthday is what? It's
		
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			the winter solstice.
		
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			Why? Because it's one of the day is
		
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			the shortest.
		
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			After the winter solstice, the day just gets
		
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			keeps getting longer and longer and longer.
		
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			So when what happens is when,
		
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			Constantine they
		
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			convinced him that it wasn't Apollo that gave
		
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			you victory. It was Jesus
		
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			Christ.
		
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			There's a conflation between both of these things
		
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			that end up happening.
		
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			And so, Mitra,
		
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			he dies on Easter, and he's raised on
		
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			the 3rd day. And his symbol is what?
		
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			It's an inverted sword, which looks like what?
		
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			If you take a sword and put it
		
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			upside down, what does it look like? It
		
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			looks like the cross.
		
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			Right? So all of these weird pagan rituals
		
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			that happened with, they basically Christianize.
		
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			This is why, one of the he mentioned
		
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			that Ibn Kathir mentioned that if anyone ever
		
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			tells you that the Romans became Christians,
		
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			don't believe them. And if anyone ever tells
		
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			you that the Christians became Romans, then believe
		
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			them. Right? So that December 25th is not
		
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			just an innocuous
		
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			day that, okay, what even if it's the
		
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			wrong day, you know, we don't know exactly
		
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			what they said.
		
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			Even if it's the wrong day, but like
		
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			at least we're celebrating the prophet of Allah.
		
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			You're not celebrating the profit of Allah. What
		
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			are you celebrating?
		
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			Some weird old like ancient Roman pagan cult.
		
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			Extreme. The other extreme is however, what just
		
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			because it's the wrong thing, it
		
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			doesn't
		
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			mean you have to be a jerk to
		
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			people around you.
		
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			That like your neighbors and whatever, you have
		
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			to you know, you guys are mentioned. You
		
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			guys are worshiping the pig. To them, that's
		
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			not what they're doing, you know, in their
		
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			mind. And being mean to people is a
		
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			bad way of getting them to,
		
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			listen to the truth.
		
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			Being jerk to people, partner only, being a
		
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			general in the war on Christmas is a
		
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			bad way of,
		
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			of getting them to, listen to the truth.
		
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			So what a Muslim should do is with
		
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			great dignity,
		
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			with some with some respect,
		
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			why not because of who you are and
		
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			who I am, but because of the the
		
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			the dean of Allah, and his Rasool salallahu
		
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			alaihi wa sallam. We say, we don't celebrate.
		
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			This is not a holiday that we celebrate.
		
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			We have our own
		
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			Allah gave in Israel
		
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			gave us 2 eeds that we celebrate.
		
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			And if this is your holiday that we
		
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			celebrate, you know, even though we don't follow
		
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			your religion, but we acknowledge that you follow
		
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			your religion and we respect that. We're not
		
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			here to, like, you know, like, talk bad
		
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			to you about it. So, you know, you
		
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			guys have your holiday and enjoy. If they
		
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			give you gifts, as long as the acceptance
		
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			of the gift is not considered a ritual
		
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			act, you can accept the gift.
		
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			And my encouragement to people is that we
		
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			should also give people gifts as well. Not
		
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			on Christmas, on on our our own on
		
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			our own eats and in general regularly as
		
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			well, especially our neighbors and things like that.
		
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			If someone says to you, Merry Christmas, you
		
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			don't say Merry Christmas back to them. But
		
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			if you say happy holidays back to them,
		
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			like, nobody's gonna die.
		
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			It's good, you know, it's good character that
		
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			we show share with people.
		
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			It's a holiday. Right? You guys get the
		
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			day off from school. You guys get 2
		
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			weeks off from school. Right? It's a holiday.
		
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			Right? That's a matter of fact. It's not
		
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			a religious
		
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			So if you say happy holidays back to
		
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			somebody, nobody's gonna die. What are you doing?
		
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			You're showing the prophetic,
		
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			example of good character, and that's always a
		
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			good thing. But then we don't cross the
		
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			line. We don't cross the line and then
		
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			participate in the parties. And worse than that
		
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			is what? Okay. Somebody has a Christmas party.
		
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			It's different for some people. You know, if
		
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			somebody is like, both of my parents are
		
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			from whatever, from Uzbekistan or Iraq, and like
		
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			all of my family is here, and that's
		
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			who I'm gonna spell out, you know, spend
		
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			my weekend with. It's easy for them to
		
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			say, I don't celebrate Christmas.
		
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			Some people here are, you know, accepting Islam
		
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			and our families are still, like,
		
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			not Muslims or some part of the family
		
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			is still not Muslim or some of us
		
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			married into people who are converts or have
		
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			some part of the family that's still not
		
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			Muslim.
		
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			And it's really funny because when I talk
		
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			about these things, some people an attitude. They're
		
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			like, oh, shit. You're easy for you to
		
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			say. You don't have any non Muslim relatives.
		
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			So how do you know? I don't talk
		
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			about my personal life up on the because
		
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			the is about Islam. It's not about the
		
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			life of Hamza. Right?
		
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			But at any rate, the the deen is
		
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			the deen. The deen don't change whether your
		
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			relatives are just out of the other thing.
		
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			If you have relatives
		
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			and family members, it's the only time you
		
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			see them in the year and there's like
		
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			some gathering or whatever.
		
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			You can go. You can go. If there's
		
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			no business, there's no need for you to
		
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			be there, it's better for you not to
		
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			go.
		
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			But for example, someone married married someone who's
		
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			new to the deed or someone themselves has
		
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			accepted Islam some years ago, and they have
		
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			a number of family members they have to
		
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			meet or whatever. And for some reason or
		
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			another person has to go to one of
		
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			these parties and gatherings.
		
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			Permissibility to go.
		
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			Once the bottle is open, it doesn't matter
		
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			who it is. You have to get up
		
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			and leave.
		
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			You have to get up and leave. And
		
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			for somebody who doesn't have a need to
		
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			be there,
		
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			but they go anyway for whatever other reason,
		
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			professional, networking, friends, whatever, once the bottle opens,
		
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			it's haram for you to be in that
		
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			room. You have to get up and leave.
		
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			You have to get up and leave. There's
		
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			no being in that room once the bottle
		
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			starts to open. And people will see that
		
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			when you leave, once the alcohol Or you
		
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			don't have to talk because they're not Muslims.
		
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			You know what I mean? If you tell
		
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			them drinking is haram, they don't care. They're
		
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			probably just gonna mock Islam anyway for you
		
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			saying that. So you don't have to make
		
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			a big fit or a big fit about
		
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			it. What do you do? You just get
		
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			up and leave. People may even make a
		
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			face at you when you leave, but they'll
		
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			respect you. They'll respect you. Even if they
		
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			never admitted inside of their heart, they'll respect
		
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			you and they'll remember that their whole life.
		
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			That this alcohol that we enjoy so much,
		
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			all of us go inside of our head.
		
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			It does nothing except for rude people's lives.
		
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			And this person
		
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			could have enjoyed with us, but they used
		
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			their brain more than,
		
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			used their emotions and they got up and
		
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			left. It will make an impact on them.
		
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			And even if it doesn't, you save your
		
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			deeds, save your honor, save your dunya, save
		
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			your don't sit in those gatherings. Those are
		
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			gatherings of heedlessness of those are like gatherings
		
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			in which shaytan has the upper hand. Don't
		
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			harm yourself. Don't kill yourself by by just
		
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			trying to be a nice guy. It's better
		
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			for everybody. Once the bottle opens, just get
		
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			up and leave. Allah
		
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			give all of us, to give,
		
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			good,
		
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			give a good example of Islam for ourselves,
		
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			for our families, for our relatives, for the
		
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			Muslims, for the people of other faiths. Allatul
		
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			give us a tofik of showing good character
		
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			to other people.
		
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			Inshallah, one day all of those people are
		
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			celebrating Christmas. It's not far away that they'll
		
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			be in the masjid as well and they'll
		
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			be the ones who are celebrating with us
		
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			as well.
		
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			And you'll receive the reward for that. Don't
		
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			think it's far fetched. It will happen even
		
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			weird and crazy people. You see Donald Trump
		
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			and Mitch McConnell and Nancy Pelosi one day,
		
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			you know,
		
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			celebrating celebrating a eve instead of Christmas. It's
		
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			nothing is None of these things are weird.
		
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			All of these things people thought there were
		
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			even crazier people than them. People thought there's
		
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			no way this person will, end up becoming
		
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			a Muslim, and they died on
		
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			their lips.
		
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			And so like to prepare for that day,
		
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			remember, don't be so mean or such a
		
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			jerk with people right now that you messed
		
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			it up for for that day as well.
		
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			But still keep your principles.