Hamzah Wald Maqbul – Khutbah Cut Off From All Else ICC 03052021

Hamzah Wald Maqbul
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The speakers emphasize the importance of intentionality and making it worth it in preparing for death, business, and life. They stress the need for intentionality and weighing deeds. The process of preparing is discussed, emphasizing the importance of learning to control behavior and avoid negative emotions. The speakers also emphasize the importance of avoiding alcohol and drinking water, and the importance of learning to control behavior and avoid negative emotions.
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All praises to Allah. And may his peace

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and blessings be upon his servant and messenger.

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Our master, Sayna Muhammad salallahu alayhi wasalam.

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Allah most high said in his book,

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Mention the name of your lord.

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Honour the name of your lord.

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Cut yourself off

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from other than him

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completely,

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emphatically.

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Brothers and sisters, more than half of the

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Mubarak and holy month of Rajab has passed.

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And we have in front of us and

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then after Ramadan.

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I don't

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know what will happen with regards to Ramadan.

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Will the masajid be open again?

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Will we have salatul tarawi again? Will we

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be able to hear a fathom of the

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Quran

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again?

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Many of us, the only time we have

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and the only opportunity that we have to

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hear a fathom of the Quran is in

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Ramadan.

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So what does it mean to miss this

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opportunity once and then afterward twice?

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So

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even though it's the responsibility

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of every believer to prepare,

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Prepare not only for this but prepare for

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death, prepare for Hajj, prepare for marriage, prepare

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for

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living in a house, prepare for your business,

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your work, all the other things that are

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necessary in order to live a good life,

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and a life with which the lord is

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pleased.

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Also like this, it's our

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responsibility

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to prepare for Ramadan and that responsibility is

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all the more dire

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given current circumstances.

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Last year, many of us lost a great

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amount

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of opportunity

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because of having things on autopilot.

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You can't think have things on autopilot.

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Allah

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rewards things according to intention.

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The things you do on autopilot, one should

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fear in front of the lord. One should

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fear in front of the lord that they

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will receive no reward for it at all

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anyway. Why? Because there's no intentionality

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in it Or at any rate very little.

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Don't you see?

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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tells us that we set the

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we set the skill pants

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on the day of judgement,

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to justice.

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The last hadith of Sahih Bukhari is what?

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We mentioned it last week in the hutva.

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That there are 2 utterances

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that are very light on the tongue

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and very heavy in the scale pants.

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And that are very beloved to the most

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merciful Al Rahman.

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Exalted above blemish

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and to him be praised

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and to Allah be praised.

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Exalted above blemish is Allah

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who is the most magnificent.

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One of the reasons Bukhari

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left

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this hadith at the end. Because it's from

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the literary style of the Arabs, that when

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you have some speech or some writing,

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that you put something very important in the

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beginning and you put something very important in

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the end.

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Why did he choose this hadith at the

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end?

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The hadith is there at the end as

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a rad, as a refutation against the

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against the rationalist philosophers who said this is

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a metaphor and that's a metaphor. So no,

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there's actually gonna be scale pounds on the

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day of judgement, and deeds will actually be

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weighed. And this hadith is a proof for

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that.

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What's the hikmah? What's the wisdom of Allah

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subhanahu wa ta'ala weighing deeds

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rather than counting them,

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rather than measuring their width and their depth

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and their height.

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What's the wisdom in weighing the deeds? Weighing

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is an intrinsic property, you cannot visually assess

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it.

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Something may be very large and weigh nothing.

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It may have negative weight. Imagine if you

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fill a hot air balloon with hydrogen.

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Other than being a safety hazard, it's not

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gonna It's gonna have negative weight. It will

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actually lift lift up off of the ground.

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Whereas you can have a very small block

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of lead

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which is extremely heavy. It's more dense than

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most other materials. Gold, silver, more dense than

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most other materials.

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What is the density of your deed in

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the scale pan?

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What is it that gives your deeds weight?

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It's the iqlas, the sincerity,

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it's

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the fervor, the niya, the love, the mehabba.

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The love of Allah ta'ala with which that

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deed is infused, which makes it worth it.

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Otherwise people go hajj after hajj, it means

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nothing to Allah ta'ala. The angels when that

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person says, the angels say,

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You're you have no Hajj. We don't accept

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your. Your is return to sender.

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We have to have more intentionality.

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We have to have more intentionality anyway.

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This Ramadan, we have to have more intentionality

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to make sure it's not wasted.

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So

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the remaining couple of hootaba that I have,

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I wanted to talk about the preparation for

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Ramadan

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and explore various aspects of it.

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Means what?

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Cut yourself off from all other things

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So that you can be connected with him.

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And this is a rule

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that is

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reiterated again and again in the Quran, in

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the hadith of the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa

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sallam, and in the wisdom tradition of Islam.

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala in his book,

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he

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describes what the way shaitan makes the dunya

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attractive is through what? Tasyin, it's the zenatul

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Hayatul

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It's what? It's a beautification.

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It's like putting lipstick on a pig however.

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What's the problem? Shaitan has gotten very good

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at it.

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Shaitan has gotten very good at it. They

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have dog shows, they make dog look nice.

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Now they have shows, they make a man

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look like a woman, make a woman look

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like a man.

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At some point, you know, they actually

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become very good at all of these weird

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deceptions that they do.

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Stop looking at those things. Stop wasting your

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eyesight on those things. Stop wasting your ears

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on those things.

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Shut your shut your TV off.

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Shut your TV off.

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Uninstall

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the apps on your phone, your Netflix app,

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your YouTube app. YouTube unfortunately, some phones you

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can't even uninstall it. What do you do?

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Take it off of your home screen, get

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rid of it.

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Get done with your Spotify. Get done with

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your Apple iTunes,

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music account.

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Get done with all of these,

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different things that you listen to music from.

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Right now right now we're not having a

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fiqh discussion. In general, I don't discuss fiqh

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from the Jumafutla because there's not enough time

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to discuss any issue properly.

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So put the fift issue aside.

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Cut yourself off from everything other than him

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means what? Any sensory distraction that a person

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has, cut yourself off from it.

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Any beautification of anything. Some things are it's

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just to eat a turkey.

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Don't watch cooking shows.

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Cut yourself off from other than him

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completely.

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So that what? So that you can have

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a chance to appreciate what is Allah ta'ala

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trying to say. What is the rasul sallallahu

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alaihi wa sallam trying to say? How is

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this lifestyle that is prescribed to us

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in the Quran, in the books of hadith,

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in the books of

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How is this actually unfold? You have to

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get used to it a little bit. You

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cannot just expect it to, you know, snap

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your fingers and say, okay, now I'm practicing.

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Where is my happiness? It doesn't work that

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way.

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Mawana Rumi

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says what?

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He says, It's

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It says, Line of the Maslavi,

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shut your eyes, shut your ears,

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Shut your your lips. Stop the tongue from

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moving.

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Afterward, if you can sit like this for

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some time,

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if you can sit like this, make this

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into your habit,

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that you shut all of these things.

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If you don't feel and if you don't

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bear witness to the light of the heart

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of the truth coming up from inside of

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you, then you can say afterward that these

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these people are all just making this up.

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It's all just a joke.

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You have to cut yourself off from these

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things.

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What does Ramadan do? It makes it fun

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for you to cut yourself off first from

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food and drink, and then from the

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sexual,

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desires.

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This is what? This is

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The 2 most basic carnal desires that a

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human being has inside of him is what

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or her?

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Is the desire for

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food. And then built upon it is the

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desire for

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physical intimacy.

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If you can get these 2 in in

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in in in grip, if you can get

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these 2 under control, if you can handle

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these 2,

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then what happens afterward is the other ones

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they also weaken and then they become controllable.

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The point of Islam is not to destroy

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them. Otherwise, the Quran would've had a surah

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that said, what? Go kill yourself.

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It doesn't.

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We don't have celibacy.

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You're you know, lucky for you, your clergymen

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and your priests are allowed to get married,

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alhamdulillah.

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We don't have that in our deen.

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What do you do? You're commanded to control

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these things.

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Afterward, what is the that's the song of

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the Umoon. What's the song of the Husus?

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Ghazali rahimullah writes,

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The psalm of the elite the fasting of

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the elite people is what is the fasting

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of the eyes. Make sure

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pretend or imagine,

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conceive as if your fast is broken by

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looking at the haram.

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Conceive that your fast is broken by hearing

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the haram.

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Conceive that your fast is broken by

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touching the haram.

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Conceive that your fast is broken by smelling

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the haram,

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by walking to the haram.

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This is

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the higher level of fasting, the fasting of

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the elite. And then afterward there's the song

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of the hussus on hussus which is what?

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Conceive that your fast is broken by thinking

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about the Haram.

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These things are difficult, they're not easy. If

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someone can keep this fast for more than

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5 minutes, I'll come after salat and shake

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your hand.

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I'll come after salat and ask you for

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your duas. But there are men from this

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ummah who had this ability, they had this

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power.

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And you only get to it by building

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yourself up, by struggling, by trying, by practicing.

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Merely hearing these ideas and entertaining inside of

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your heart the idea

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that this is a good thing, That this

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is something I should do. This is something

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I should try. This is something everybody should

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try. If I tried it, I would be

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a better Muslim and I would be a

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better human being.

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Once this thought enters into your heart, this

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is a sign of your friendship with Allah

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ta'ala.

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And if you attempt to do it afterward,

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one thing is just to have a good

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opinion. If you attempt to do it afterward,

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this is a level higher than that.

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And if Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala gives you

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success,

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then

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Mubarak, blessed you are my brother that you

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will eat in Jannah and a 100 people

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will eat with you and because of you.

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A 1000 people will eat it with you

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and because of you. From the grace of

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala and from his father.

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This is the way this entire Islam works.

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This is the way the prophet Sallallahu Alaihi

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Wasallam overcame his challenges and adversities in life.

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And this is the only way any of

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us are going to be able to overcome

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them. So think about it. It will hurt.

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A person literally, your thumb becomes your thumb

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becomes

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anxious.

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It fidgets

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because it wants to doom scroll.

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Keep scrolling until

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God knows what. And there are algorithms that

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will keep giving you pointless content. Pointless content

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that you could die and it will still

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be sending content to you.

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Let it go. Let your thumb be anxious

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a little bit. Let your thumb fidget a

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little bit.

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Let the reward centers of the brain

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be a little bit anxious.

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Cut your brain off from dopamine

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for a couple of days.

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For a month, for a month and a

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half, for 2 months.

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Give a little bit of anxiety to the

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dopamine center of your brain and to your

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thumb

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and to your eyes.

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Why? So that your ruq can live,

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so that your qalb can live, so your

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spirit can thrive, and so that your heart

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can grow, so it can regenerate the part

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of it which is dead, which for many

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of us is more than what's alive.

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So that

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you also

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can live such a life

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that on the day of judgement you can

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say in front

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of the creation.

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In front of the nations, in front of

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the humans, and the jinns, and the angels,

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and the creation

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other than that of Allah ta'ala which we

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have no idea about.

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But you can also say, I spent my

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small amount of time in this world

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trying to do one good deed after another,

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after another, after another. Until me and Allah

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we became friends.

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Allah, Subhanahu wa ta'ala, give us Tawfiq. Nobody

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will reach that except for through thinking about

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it and through planning for it. Allah, Subhanahu

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wa ta'ala, give us Tawfiq. He

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said to Muhammad

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