Hamzah Wald Maqbul – Hayat alSahabah Abu Talibs Tragedy.mp4

Hamzah Wald Maqbul
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The speaker discusses the history of the prophet sallali Alaihi wa sallam and how he was not one of their own forefathers. The speaker emphasizes the importance of being careful with friends and company, as well as leaving instructions on how to leave a job. The speaker also mentions the history of the prophet sallali Alaihi wa sallam and how he was stolen from his wife at the wrong time.
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Who is,

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one of the of Medina.

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He is considered to be the most learned

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in terms of,

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and,

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Quran and hadith and technical matters

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from amongst the Tabi'in,

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who

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narrates from his,

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father

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that,

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Abu Talib when

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death

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approached him.

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The Nabi sallallahu alaihi wa sallam entered in

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upon him

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and, he found that Abu Jahl was already

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there.

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And the prophet

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said, oh my uncle,

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say,

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there's no god except for Abuham.

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Such a word that I will be able

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to argue on your behalf.

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On your behalf with Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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by it.

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Are you on your behalf meaning I'll be

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able to intercede for you on the day

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of judgement?

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Abu Jahl then said,

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and Abdullah bin Umayyah

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uh-uh

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then said to Abu Talib, oh, Abu Talib,

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you turn away from the millah of Abdul

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Muttalib.

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So this was Jahiliyah. What was Jahiliyah that?

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Their forefathers

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their forefathers were very important to them and

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so

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he they're reminding him about Abdul Muttalib. And

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Abdul Muttalib, even though the ulama say that

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he wasn't a worshiper of idols,

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but he was somebody who still let the

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system run. He didn't

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oppose the system at any at any

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rate.

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So they said that that he's saying to

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you to say

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and, that's against the system that was under

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the watch of Abdul Muttalib.

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Now note,

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Abu Jahl doesn't care who Abdul Muttalib is.

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It's not even a sincere saying. Right? We

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were teaching the kids in the Maktab about

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Syria, today

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that,

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Toseibin Khilab, who was the first

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ruler of Makkah from the Quraysh,

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he has 2 sons, Abdul Manath and Abdul

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Dar.

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Abdul Manath is the progenitor of the prophet

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sallallahu alaihi wa sallam and half of the

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Qurayshmi is confederate

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are the confederates of that that,

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of that, line.

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And Abdallah is the other son of Qusay,

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and,

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the other half of Quraish are the confederates

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of of of that line. So,

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Abu Jahl is from the Abdul Dar side.

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He doesn't even care about Abdul Muttalib Aslan.

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They respected him, but he wasn't one of

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their own forefathers.

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So he's just a shaitan and he's in

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there just to mess with him basically.

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He has no,

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you know, no he doesn't have anything, in

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mind for the best well-being of, Abdul Abdul

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Abdul Talib. But he's saying what? He says,

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are you gonna turn away from the millah

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of Abdul Muttalib?

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And so what happens is this back and

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forth keeps happening between the prophet sallallahu alaihi

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wa sallam in between,

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these 2, individuals who are there, at the

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deathbed of Abu Talib,

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until

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the last thing that Abu Talib said was

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what?

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On the on the of Abdul Muttalib,

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and then he died. So messenger of Allah

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sallallahu alaihi wa sallam said, indeed, I will

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seek forgiveness for you,

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as long as I'm not,

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forbidden

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from doing so.

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And the ayah then comes down,

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from Surat Tawba

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that Allah says it it's not appropriate for

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the nor is it appropriate for those who

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believe

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to seek forgiveness for the polytheists

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even if those people are near relatives.

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After, it is clear that those people are

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from the people of the fire. And it

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also was revealed that also came down,

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that you are from Surat Al Qasas that

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you are not going to be able to

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guide who you will.

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Rather Allah guides whoever he wishes and he

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has,

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he has most knowledge of who he guides.

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And it's a hadith narrated by Muslim as

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well. And so from amongst the the the

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number of lessons that we learned from this

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is be careful what kind of friends and

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company you keep.

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They can literally screw this stuff up at

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the last minute. Literally, they can screw these

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things up at at the last minute. Be

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careful. Be careful how you give the tarbia

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to your children and to your, you know,

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your spouses,

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husbands to wives, wives to husbands.

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There are people who have left this world

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in a very bad situation because of the

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people that they've chosen to keep around them.

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And death comes to a person sometimes when

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they know about it, sometimes when they don't.

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If you don't prepare for it, it can

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be very bad. One of my father's friends,

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he,

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his

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wife, converted to Islam,

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but they never really,

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I guess, seems that they never really, followed

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up on that a whole lot. And so,

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he died of cancer after having 2 children,

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who are maybe, you know, 1015

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years old, something in between that. And what

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happened was after he died, his wife, she

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kind of freaked out and reverted to her

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kind of Catholic, origin.

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And they buried him. They they buried him

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in the Catholic cemetery with cross inside

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of the inside of the grave.

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And although obviously, you know, if he died

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on Islam, you know, that doesn't mean that

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he's a Catholic because they threw a cross

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into his his casket. But it's bad. It's

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not a good thing. And there's some bad

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effects of that as well.

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And,

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these are things people have to worry about.

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They have to think about. That's one of

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the reasons

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the prophet forbid a person to,

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spend more than 2 nights or 3 nights

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without having written a wasiye. Wasiye is not

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just a will about how your stuff is

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gonna be divided. Although we have to write

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that in this country as well because they

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don't automatically divide your estate according to sharia.

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We also have to leave instructions about how

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we're to leave,

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and bad things happen. And, you know, we

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have, examples about it, but you then you

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don't wanna talk about it so because you

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don't want to,

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you know, further increase the grief of a

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bereaved family. But, you know, bad things do

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happen. So a person should be careful

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about what company they keep in their life

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and in their death and what's gonna happen

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with that. And Abu Talib,

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on the cusp of of receiving

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a from the prophet sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.

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And, it was stolen from him from having

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these these kind of, creepy people around him

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at the wrong time. Allah makes all of

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his choices in his universal hikmah. But, you

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know, it's a hadith to the prophet

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The happy one is the one who takes

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a listen lesson from other people's misfortunes.

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So Allah

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protect us.

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