Hamza Ayedi – Fiqh Of Taharah Taught – Part 8
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The speakers discuss the use of sprinkling and the importance of praying and removing blood from cow. They also talk about the concept of "meditation" and the importance of following rules for changes in health. The speakers emphasize the need to determine the number of days for menses, the importance of knowing the length of a cycle, and the importance of fasting to maintain healthy blood. They also discuss the differences between the rules for women and men, the importance of taking time to prepare for a game night, and the importance of knowing the rules for Nifas and the ruling of Nifaz. They provide examples and prizes for participants.
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Welcome everybody for,
our last part of,
fiqh
attuhara. And, alhamdulillah, we've covered, most of the
chapter. Today we're just gonna go through the
last part of fiqh attuhara,
which is, al hayd wannifas, which is menstruation
and, and, postpartum bleeding.
And,
as usual, we like to,
do some review inshallah.
So yesterday we covered,
Izalatul Najazah. Right? Removing
najasat, removing impurities.
And we mentioned a couple of ways. Do
you guys remember how many ways we mentioned?
Who can tell me? How many ways of
removing and adjust?
So we have another, number 1. Good. Like
just sprinkling. That's 1. And that's done, like,
for, like, the the the, like the, like
maybe like the the vomit of the
small baby who doesn't eat food or the
urine of the baby who doesn't eat food.
What else? So that's the the sprinkling.
Yeah.
Saba Qasalat Sabin washes with, with dirt, and
that's for we said for the
yeah. Dog and the pig.
And then,
pretty much we said everything else. We said
everything else,
you wash until it's gone.
Yeah. There was a, an opinion,
narration of Imam Ahmed about,
7 washes.
But we said,
there's another, one of the interesting things about
madhab, imam Ahmed.
It was never meant to be a mad
hub, actually.
And,
you know, imam Ahmed didn't actually write a
book of.
Right?
And,
you know, he
all his students gathered his narrations.
Okay. And so then, one island came and
gathered all of them.
And what happened is there was a lot
of different
ribayat,
narrations from Muhammad. And so you'll find a
lot of
different
in the in the hambali madhab. More than
any other madhab.
So then
others came after
and they said, well let's find all the
usul of Muhammad
and see which ones matches usul.
And so, and and if you go into
advanced books of of the Hanabilah,
you know, they'll say, oh, there's this ruayyah.
This is the main ruayyah, the popular ruayyah
that goes with his,
usul.
And then there's, he has another
opinion, another ruayyah. Right? And sometimes they will
use that, and sometimes they don't know which
one is the strongest. Right? And,
for example, in this in this, in this
case, there's one that says 7 washes without
dirt, and others say one wash is enough.
Or one wash is enough minimum,
until the najasah is gone. Right? And they
said the dalil is easy. The dalil is
the arabi, the better one that came in
and he urinated in the masjid. And they
said the prophet said throw 1 bucket of
water. Hollis said it was enough.
That one bucket of water doesn't clean it.
2 buckets. Okay. Until it's it's it's cleaned.
Question now. If a drop of blood falls
on my shirt,
right, in my drop of blood, yeah, and
your drop of blood,
can I pray with it?
Yeah. Like, you know, you cut your hand
and the drop falls on your shirt.
According to what we learned last week.
One drop, Juan. Yeah. It's Khalil.
You can pray. We said,
Okay. It is it is it is permitted.
It's excused. What small blood falls
from a human or an animal that you're
allowed to eat
as long as it's not on?
I'm not gonna tell you because it's next
question. So you can pray. Right? You can
pray.
So one drop. But if a drop from
a a lion falls, he's We can't eat
him, so then you can't pray.
But
what if it falls in my water?
Into your drop of blood falls in your
water.
So here we said,
no. As if it falls from from yourself
or any animal that is, if it falls
into your, water or food?
No. But it falls on your,
you know, on your cheesecake.
It just do you throw the whole thing?
Yeah. You can just remove the piece. That
piece.
Yeah.
Jimmy. Good.
This is the important part of fift to
actually apply.
How about our consumable liquid intoxicants?
Yeah. Any liquid intoxicants like alcohol and other
things like that. Are they
And if if someone dripped, spilled alcohol on
me, can I pray?
No. They're not. Right? They're they're nudges. You
cannot pray with them. And
is the urine of a cow?
Mhmm.
Camel. We have Hadith.
I believe that's their name. Right?
Those people that that,
told the people to drink from
the urine and the leban
type. Would the prophet tell us to drink
something
So here the the
the urine of the camel
is what?
It's
It's pure.
But my question is, is the urine of
a cow
Why why the and not the
So we said, the urine. That's why review
is good. The urine, the sperm, the milk.
Okay?
Of all the animals that you can eat,
Just like you.
Okay. Sorry.
Not like you because our urine is not
the but
the the the urine, the the the feces,
the because I know used to pray in
the in the areas of the camels. But
if it was, would he pray there?
He wouldn't pray there. Right?
The urine, the the the sperm, the milk
of all the animals that you can eat
is what?
Is. So if you're a farmer or you
own a farm, okay, and some of it
got on your shirt, you can still pray.
You're fine. Okay. It might be you might
consider it disgusting. You might remove it. That's
fine. Okay. But can you pray or carry
not? That's the question. This is the important
part,
that that helps us distinguish. Well, everyone's good?
Okay. It's good that we do a review
because otherwise these things pass the tide. Today
we wanna cover,
Right? A menstruation and some called,
which is basically the blood that comes after
birth.
Someone might say, well, you know, do we
need to know this? Yes. Some of the
ulama said it's it's it's,
it's for the men also to know this.
For the women, it's but also for the
men because they're gonna be married and they
have daughters, etcetera. Fadi need to know this.
And because, especially when a person is married,
they need to know.
They have to know these things. Are we
going to go on death? No. But it's
good to to know that. And the interesting
thing about
in the Hanbali Madhab, it's actually,
it's it's it's it's probably the most complicated,
one of the most complicated
chapters in in,
probably in Ibadat.
Okay. Especially in the Hanabil River because they're
very
technical about especially
how she knows her
her
her. Right? Her her her actual, like,
I guess cycle. How will she determine it?
They're a bit strict on that,
But we'll go over the, the the the
chapter, and we'll talk about maybe what some
of the had said that it's they're a
bit more lenient on how to determine her
her. That's probably the most complicated part. We'll
discuss type.
Bismillah.
So, first we have to define al Hayd.
Al Hayd, which
is menstruation.
Taban,
this is something that here in school, you
will study it. You will study in biology,
probably bio 20 in junior high, high school.
And this is something,
that
Allah created the woman with, and this is
something that is needed for childbirth. And actually
what menstruation is,
probably two things. Preparation for for, for for
childbirth.
Okay? To receive the the the the egg
of the sperm, and also
purification of the woman. Right? So you if
you actually go into the bio biology of
this, a lot of toxins and other things
are released from the body. Right? And so
it's something that actually
cleanses her body
and and and purify her. In some other,
like, religions and stuff, they see it like
this is the curse of woman or or
curse of god and woman or something like
that.
Type. So al hayd or menstruation is the
flow of blood from the womb of the
woman who has attained the age of puberty.
And this happens after.
Right?
It is a period that occurs in in
noble cycles that may help in planning for
children. Yeah. So what happens, every woman has
a cycle. Now what makes this complicated?
What makes
complicated
is because,
you know, every woman has a different cycle.
Every woman,
have even some women have their cycle changes
throughout their life.
Right? And so, they can change. Uh-uh. And
it's not just one type of blood that
can come out. There's different kinds of blood
that can come out. And there'll be different
colors. Right? And so that's why it can
make this chapter
a little bit, difficult.
We said that basically the woman okay.
The way Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala created her
is that her,
her her,
you know, her. Right?
It's it it it it creates like a
lining. Right?
And then it's preparing for,
for for childbirth. Right? If childbirth doesn't happen,
then that lining has to come out of
the body, and that's what the menstruation is.
It comes out.
If she becomes pregnant, then there's no menstruation.
Right? And those who are married know that
that if, one of the signs of pregnancy
is that the the cycle stops, that the
cycle,
stops. Right? And usually they say the the
whole cycle is 28 days. You know, the
first is the is the actual menstruation
where the blood comes out, then there's, purity
and then there's ovulation. The ovulation is basically
the time the best time for the woman
to be to become pregnant,
during her cycle. Jaime.
Another word we need to understand is
or we call the woman that is bleeding
that way.
What's?
Is the one according to the madhhab that
bleeds more than 15 days. Why 15 days?
We're gonna say we're gonna know later that
the maximum
amount of of of, of height of the
cycle for, for women in the in the
madhab is 15 days. So they say any
blood that's past 15 days, it will be
considered what? It's them fasting. It's it's not
part of the,
the menstrual blood. It's different blood. Right? And
the woman knows, like, most women can tell
the difference between the menstrual blood and the
non menstrual blood. Right? It's
a type of a It's a type of
a sickness. Right? And blood comes out, and
it's not actually,
menstrual
blood. So
when we say when we say or
is that blood,
that's not menstrual blood.
If it's after 15 days, we know for
sure it's it's it's meant it's
it's it's it's the blood.
And sometimes it can happen within those 15
days. We'll explain inshallah,
how that happens. And then we have the
3rd word that we need to know. The
3rd definition is.
Is
what?
Is basically the the blood that comes after
birth.
So after the woman gives birth,
she has a period of of of blood.
Okay. And usually we'll talk about it. It's
about 40 days. Maximum
40 days. Maximum 4 days it can be
less than that. So that's, so those are
kind of the the 3 kind of bloods
that we have here. Menstrual blood,
which is like a type of a sickness
blood,
and
is the blood
after that comes after a birth. We need
to know keep those words in mind Insha'Allah.
Some
some foundations in the madhab that we need
to know. So I'm gonna mention 5 rules,
and I want you to keep them in
mind. Number 1, they say that there's no
menstruation with pregnancy. So if a woman is
pregnant, she can't be She can't. We we
just talked about it biologically.
It's not possible.
If you're pregnant,
then basically there shouldn't be any menstrual blood.
Right? Because menstrual blood is a proof that
there was no ovulate, there was no, any,
any the the egg did not attach, okay,
in her rahem,
and there's no pregnancy.
So pregnancy is a proof, and so when
the when the menstrual blood comes down,
it's. Now you know that there's no pregnancy.
So someone feels like I'm pregnant and then
menstrual blood comes down, then that's proved that
she's not pregnant. So there's no menstruation with
pregnancy, number 1.
Number 2, there's no menstruation after the age
of 50.
This is the opinion in the madhhab. Other
madhhab went up to even 60.
Biologically,
it's hard to determine but I don't know
anybody that goes above 60. So even like
in in the in in in the science,
that's the like between 50 to 60.
One thing to know that when it comes
to, right,
they they they see what's around them. Right?
So they ask, okay. Well, old woman, we
don't know any woman. Yeah. The the guy
is a jurist. He's a he's a he's
a. No woman ever came and asked
or mentioned that it happened after 50, so
they say 50 is the maximum. But can
these change over time? What do you guys
think?
They can change. Right? They can change depending
on the DNA, the biology of people, the
the b Right?
Just like,
you know,
changes. Right? Used to happen earlier maybe back
in the day. Now it probably so for
some women takes time. Why? Because of the
hormonal changes. Right?
A lot of this has to do with
hormones. And now we're eating a lot of
junk. Our hormones are being, you know,
affected in so many ways, Tamam. So these
things can change. But
so we said no menstruation with pregnancy, no
menstruation after 50 or let's just say that
age between
5060.
It's mentioned here that only hold this opinion.
Right?
You might say, what if she has blood
after 50? Well, the will say this is.
This is that blood that is not from
the menstrual
cycle. Okay? And usually the woman can tell.
Usually the woman can tell, and medically, you
can technically tell as well. But we have
some more tools nowadays to to
determine that.
And number 3 here, there's no menstruation before
the age of 9. Why? Because the generation,
Aisha said that
that, if the reaches
9, like the young lady reaches 9, then,
you know, then that's the earliest for her
to be to be,
I guess,
right?
Pubescent. Right? And so if she if she
bleeds before the age of 9, so they
will they will,
it will not be considered a height. It
will not be considered menstrual blood. So if
she if if she sees blood before the
age of 9, then it's probably something else.
Maybe or something else or some other sickness.
Okay?
Play it. And, of course,
can I don't know? Has anybody heard of
any girl reaching puberty before 9? I I
don't know, Yani. I don't know. I know
there's cases of women or or girls who
became pregnant at a really young age, but
I don't know anything before 9. Maybe someone
can Google it, but, Yani, I mean, probably
even these days, probably higher now.
Probably it's rare for even someone nowadays you
would say probably 11, 12, 13. Right? Something
like that. Jimmy.
So it's important to know, the here. So
is this something we have to follow? Well
if now, we have proof that the the
minimum age went up, then halos. We follow
the the that. So that's that's how fiqh
is flexible. When someone tells you that, you
know,
you know, you're you're not allowed to,
or fiqh, you know, it can change over
time,
This is not blasphemy.
What they're trying to say is that these
things that that go back to the and
the and the the the
people, these things can change because these rulings
are based on the the the people. Right?
It's not like Allah didn't or there's no
hadith
specifically that says that. Right?
So we mentioned those three rules. No menstruation
with pregnancy after 50 and before the age
of 9. Type, Jameel.
The second,
rule that we need to know is the
minimum period is one day and one night.
It can't be less. So, here's an example
here. So if you see blood at 12
PM, then it stops. That is not menstrual
blood. Because the menstrual blood, the minimum,
that it can be, it can be, one
day. If you look up now, they will
tell you that it's between 37.
Okay. And Nabi
told us in the hadith that the ada
of the woman is 6 to 7. SubhanAllah.
Right? No medical knowledge. But this is something
that is
common amongst women. If you took any
you know 500 women and you average them,
maybe that will be the average. 6 or
7. So but the minimum is one day
and one night. Okay. One day
and one night. So the minimum of a
period is one day.
Like what's the maximum of a period? It's
15 days. Remember we mentioned this before? So
the maximum,
for a woman to have her period is
how how long?
15 days. The maximum is is 15 days.
So now we know the minimum is one
day and and the maximum is 15 days.
These are very important rules to understand now
when we talk
about how, the rulings of of of height.
Okay. So we said the minimum of the
period is 1 and the maximum is is
15.
Now we're gonna talk about, so the most
common is 6 or 7. We mentioned that
the most common is 6 or 7. So
minimum 1, maximum 15, and the average is
6 or 7. The average of of of,
of, of the period of women is 6
or 7.
Minimum period of purity between 2 separate menstruation
is 13 days. So the minimum period of
tahara now we're not talking about al hayd,
of tahara, of of tuhr. Right?
The minimum
period of purity okay. The minimum time frame
of of that a woman
is is is, is pure. Is 13 days.
Right? This is the minimum time. It could
be
as long as, you know, if you have
one day of menstrual
cycle then the rest would be,
pure.
So look what it says here. So if
she does so she sees blood for 2
days and then it stops for 10 days
and starts again on 11th,
it would be considered part of the previous
one and not in you one. Why? Because
we said the minimum has to be 13.
The minimum time that she is is
13 days. And
is there a maximum for tuhr?
In the books of fiqh you will see
that they say there's no maximum.
There's no maximum. Why? Because actually her her
period can be cut off
unknowingly. Usually at a at a older age
but it can be cut off. So there's
no real maximum of
of Tuhr. But the minimum of Tuhr is
13 days.
There's a narration
from
the who was at the time of Ali
A woman came to him and she said
that her husband had divorced her. When a
woman is divorced, she has to wait how
long?
Right? 3 like cycles. Okay. And she said
So a month had passed by and she
said, Now I'm free of My idla is
over.
Right? And so he said, How? She said,
My my, my is one day. My
is one day.
Okay. Is that possible?
You tell me. You guys tell me.
Let's do some math here. If we said
the minimum is 13.
Okay. Can she have She has to have
3 periods in that month.
So if the minimum period is one day,
okay.
So you have day 1 period,
13
she's pure. How many days is that? 14.
Okay. And then she has another period, that's
15. And then another 13 days of purity.
28.
28.
And then on the 29th day she has
another period house. That's it. And so her
idah actually finished in one whole month, subhanAllah.
So that's actually possible. And Shuraq told her
you need to bring me 3 witnesses. And
so she brought witnesses and and Khalas. He
judged on that. He judged on that.
This is a rare case.
Biologically is possible.
Maybe there's cases, but in the time of
of Ali this was one of the cases.
And so this is where they got this,
the the minimum
of of of a height is one day.
But that's rare, Yani. Usually, like we said,
it's 6 and 7. It's 6,
and 7.
Yeah. And we said the maximum is not,
is not determined. We don't know how long
it can be forever. She has a period
and the she's pure forever. So we don't
know the maximum,
Let's start with some rulings. So a woman
cannot pray or fast while on her on
her, menstrual cycle. So when she's on her
menstrual cycle, obviously, she does not,
pray or fast. Does she have to make
up her prayer?
Does she have to make up her fast?
Yes. She has to make up, her fast.
Jamil. Okay.
But if a man and woman have *
while she is on her menses okay. So
now
is is the man allowed to have to
be intimate with his wife while she's on
in in her cycle?
No. What if that happens?
So there has so there's a kafara. Right?
So Ibn Abbas mentioned that the kafara,
the the the penalty for that is that
he has to pay a
or half a. A or half a. Okay.
Kafara. Just you have you have kafara of
and things like that, ma'am. Or when you
when you take an oath, there's a kafarah.
There's a kafarah expiation also for for this.
So if a man has * with his
wife in,
in her menses,
then he has to pay a dinar or
half a dinar.
It's it's up to him. He can choose
whatever is easier for him.
And a dinar is about I don't know
if this is this is,
pretty recent 4 gram, 4.25 grams of gold.
I don't know how much money that is.
Okay? But you can Google it. So that's
a dinar, about 4.25 grams,
of gold. You can probably Google it right
now and figure out how how many Canadian
dollars that is. They can choose either amount.
They said even if he does it with
protection
even if he does it with protection, it's
not allowed and he would have to pay
that kafarah.
Does the woman pay or the man pays?
The man.
The man. Right? Unless she's the one that
she's the one that forced him or they
got him in or whatever.
How about foreplay? Is it permissible? They say
yes. Foreplay is permissible, and we have hadith
of
that he that he would do everything except,
Yani using the the private part Yani, the
woman's private part. And Yani, as long as
it's covered and they don't go to the
area, they're allowed to do anything, everything else,
Yani. Everything else is permissible between the husband,
and wife, during that time.
Okay. This is where we get and I
need you guys to focus with me on
this one. So what the most important part
for for a woman is to determine her.
We said that every woman is different. So
so how are you gonna determine your?
How how are you gonna know?
The other madadah, they said, well, she just
she, you know, when the first time she
sees blood, so now we know she's,
she's, she hit puberty. And then she just
sees how long it is, and that's it.
The Hanabi said no because they have a
narration, the prophet
He said,
you need to follow your
and is the plural. And he said the
the least of a plural is what in
Arabic?
What's the least of plural? The least number?
3. 3. So the least And so they
said she has to
confirm her
through 3 different cycles.
Okay. So what she does And this what
makes the the I guess the
the Hanbali method a bit more,
difficult for the woman because they say that
she needs to
get
a similar
number of days 3 months in a row,
then she knows it's her.
Consistently. Right? Because what can happen, maybe she
has 5 days this month. Then the next
cycle there's 10. And then the next cycle
there's 20. But now we have a problem.
Right? We have a problem. And so this
can happen.
This is not the common thing but it
can happen. So they they so then they
have ways to determine.
Now what they what they say is, and
I want you to focus with me on
this.
We have This is
we call her the beginner. The one that
doesn't know her. She just hit puberty. She
wants to know. We call her what?
The beginner.
The beginner can be
she
can distinguish the kind of blood.
Because,
a woman came to to to to him
and she told him, you know, I'm bleeding
after my my,
my my cycle,
my my known time of, of of menstruation.
You know, he said, he said that's,
you know,
that's
because the the menstrual blood,
it's known by its thickness and its dark
color.
So it's black color. Right? It's a black
color, it's thickness, and it has a smell.
There's a smell to it. It's known. The
woman know that. Right?
There's the the woman that that is she
can tell. So blood comes out, you know,
it's like dark black and has a smell
And then it changes. It's another blood. So
she can tell that other blood, okay that's
Right? Especially if it passes the 15 days
because we said the maximum
is 15 days.
So we have
and we have
She she cannot tell. For her, we have
a different,
ruling. So what did the Hanabi say? They
say this. Because now we have to talk
about salah and not salah. Does she pray?
Does she fast? Does she make up fast?
For this is the for the beginner. The
one who has her she knows her rules.
Any woman now determines her she knows it's
8 days.
She knows in those 8 days, she doesn't
pray, she doesn't fast, and then she makes
up those fast. Everybody agree on that? That's
easy, Temam.
But what about the one that's starting? This
is what we're talking about. The one who's
starting, she wants to determine. So what did
the Hanabi'lah say? They say, well, since the
minimum is how how many days? What's the
minimum? One day. If the minimum is one
day, so
and that one day is what? It's high.
So they say for that day, she she
doesn't pray or fast.
Okay cool. Like now the blood is still
coming. So what they say the Hanaba they
say she she she, if the blood's still
coming she makes wudu and prays and fasts.
You while the blood is coming. Okay. And
she keeps doing that.
Okay?
And and she does it with the of
of.
Right? She's not removing,
she because we don't know. Is this
or
or is this
hide? Right? Is it
hide? Remember, hide? You cannot pray in it.
As we're gonna see now,
you can. You just have to wash it
and you can pray with it. That non
menstrual blood, you can you just wash it
and you can pray with it. So
now they say the first day agreed she
has to she's not allowed to pray or
fast. Good. But now the other days it
could be uh-uh Hayd or right?
So what does she do? She she she
makes and she and she prays and fasts
you know until it stops
Right? And then she she she will follow
the, she will do the same thing, the
next cycle,
and the next cycle. And she'll take note.
Okay. If I got a pattern now, 7
days or 8 days or 9 days, good.
Okay. Now when she's done the 3rd month,
she knows it's 9 days. The 1st month
it was 9 days, and then the blood
stopped. And then the 2nd month it was
9 days, then the blood stopped. The 3rd
month it was 9 days, and the blood
stopped. So now what? What's her what's her
a'adah? What's her period? 9 days. Okay. Now
what does she have to make up?
If there was any fasting that was done
in those 3 months, she has to make
them up.
Okay. So in this case,
let's say the 2nd month was Ramadan.
The 2nd month was Ramadan. The 1st month,
But the 2nd month was
Ramadan. How many days did she have to
make up now?
9 days. Right? The first day that was
100% sure, and then the other days, 8
days that we weren't sure about. Okay? So
she wasn't sure about those 8 days until
she did she got her pattern. And now,
okay khalas, now I know that I have
a pattern now of 9 days. And then
she she makes up those days.
That's the one that can, that that has
a that has a continuous or similar pattern.
But
and this one usually
she can determine
the blood. Let's say that
best case scenario the blood just cuts and
those and that night day it's the same
thick dark blood. But let's say she has
9 days
and then
light red blood comes out. Okay?
And she can tell this is not hate
blood. Okay?
Is that part of her menstrual cycle? Well
she will do the 3. Okay? This is
the I remember. She will do those 3
and if the same thing happens or some
some sometimes it doesn't happen but the dark
blood is always 9 days, then Khalas, the
same thing. She knows that those 9 days
are are her are her period and those
days she just washes it and then she
prays
normally. Okay. But the Hanabalayir,
they they recommend to her to pray in
the beginning
because it could be not height. It could
be not height.
One thing to to understand also that
certain things that a woman can do can
change her her cycle. Right? Sometimes in age,
sometimes if she takes some kind of hormonal
medicine,
sometimes if they put,
those,
what do they call them?
There's some some things that they can put
to to stop pregnancy. Right?
What do they call them?
Birth control. Yeah. So birth control different kinds
of birth control,
they can actually affect also. So they can
actually cause more bleeding. Okay? But then it's
up to her to determine what kind of
bleeding is this. Okay? Is this
is this hide? Now you guys see how,
you know, there's a bit of work to
do. So her her hide can change. Now
the and I want to explain before I
go to the notes. The
when it comes to because a good question
would be like, okay. Well,
let's say now she determines
9 days. That first girl. She knows 9
days. Okay?
But now,
you know, the 4th month,
she gets, I don't know, she gets 11
days or 12 days,
but some of those days,
are like light blood.
She knows it's not height. So does,
I guess
have more power over the ada? The Hanabala,
they say that the ada has more. So
if your ada is determined, anything else you
see, we consider it what?
Not menstrual. The the they see the
it's it's it's it's,
it's more stronger than the Tamiz. The is
more stronger than Tamiz. The other
there's
here. And really,
I think it goes back to the woman.
You know, if she did something different in
her life, something changed,
and there is reason to believe that her
cycle might change, like I said, if she
used birth control
or something else happens,
then she should see. And if this is
happening
3 months in a row now, it's so
the 9 9 day girl, now the next
3 months she's 12. Thick blood. Thick blood.
Thick blood. 12 days. So now she has
a new what? She has a new She
has a new This is It can happen.
And the woman know.
Let's let's go through read through the notes.
So determining number of days for the beginner,
and and for the one that can distinguish.
So she waits minimum amount of time one
day and one night. We said that. Because
the minimum
and for sure it's one day
and one night.
After the minimum time, she bathes and prays
even if she's bleeding, considering herself to be
pure. Okay? Remember we said that because we're
not sure yet. This is the the young
girl or whoever.
It's her first period. So two possibilities here.
We said, if it stops within 15 days,
she will bathe again after it stops. So
remember now that
once you're once the bleeding stops,
for you to be able to pray and
fast you have to do what?
You have to do. She has to do.
Right? So he says here, if it stops
within 15 days, because 15 is the maximum,
she will bathe again after it stops. Okay.
So you'll bathe again after
it stops. Right.
Number 2, if it goes over 15 days,
this is this is where it gets a
bit difficult because we said 15 is the
maximum
type. So if blood comes after 15, is
it menstrual blood? Of course of meth head?
No. It has to be. It has to
be.
So they say if it goes over 15
days, then it's not menses. It's
not it's not
it's not menses.
After 15 days, but but
If she notices some differences in the blood
during the spirit, she will distinguish via signs
the message blood versus the blood and make
note of it. Okay? Color, smell, thickness. And
we talked about it. Right? So this is
the She
she can tell,
you know, 15 days, you know, let's say
she goes to 20 days. She goes to
20 days bleeding.
Okay? And she can tell, you know, after
the 15th day the rest is light blood
or after the 14th day
the rest is all blood. So let's say
she bleeds 20 days. 14 days thick, dark,
smelly blood. And then the other
6 days, it's light blood. And so she's
as you can tell. So now her period,
we say 14 here. And then she does
it again. If it's the same 14 and
14.
So she stops spraying during distinguished blood period
in the 2nd month. Right?
Yeah. So now that she knows it's gonna
be 14, in those 14 she doesn't she
doesn't pray because she know those are 14.
And then she waits for the 3rd month
and then she can confirm,
she can confirm her her cycle. So she
repeats this exercise for 3 months we said.
Right? She's trying to determine her habitual number
of days for menses. So he gives an
example here. So example, first time, 5 days.
2nd,
5 days. 3rd, 5 days. So let's say
1 month, one cycle, 5 days. 2nd, 5
days. 3rd, 5 days. She determines that her
menses are 5 days. After the 3rd time,
if she fasted an obligatory fast during one
of these months, as we mentioned before, she
must now make up 5 days because her
fasting did not count. Even though she did
fast, because she was not sure. Remember we
said she prays and fast because she's not
sure until she determines her ada. Play it.
So now she will stick to her habit
from now on. Okay?
Khalas, that's her period, 5 days. The Khalas,
that's it.
But someone might say, well what if it
starts on a different day, in a different
month? Because usually for the woman, she knows
the
3rd day of the month usually when it
starts. The the the Hanabalay, they don't put
too much emphasis on that. They say, khalas,
it's 5 days. So if usually it comes
on the 3rd day, but this month it
came on the 5th day, just count 5
days from the from the first time the
blood comes down. So she will fix her
habit. If if if it comes less than
3 times, then it will not be counted.
So they say methylene. It has to happen
3 times.
Let's say it happens 2 times and then
the the 3rd month is like one day
off, one difference.
It's around that time. Okay? So she doesn't
really have to do it.
Another 3 times. But
she'll have an idea that it's about 5
or 6 days. So if it's like 5:5
and then 6 days, okay, maybe she counted
wrong or something happened.
She knows that it's about 5 or 6
days. Okay? And then on the 4th month
she will she will figure it out. So
you don't have to be too too
technical about it.
Now the issue comes, if she cannot determine
the difference between men's blood and the one
that's
I cannot She can't tell and the blood
she doesn't She can't tell.
I don't know
if medically we can tell. I'm not sure
if you can do that. But
you should be able to tell from the
color, the smell, the thickness.
So how about this one that can't tell?
One time it's like she bleeds for like
20 days and then, you know, 20 days
and then maybe
17 days. And she can't tell which one
is halved, which one is So they say
she does the minimum, one day and one
night, and repeats it 3 times. And if
it's still unable to determine the difference, then
she will stick to the common days. So
they say,
she cannot determine Okay. This is not the
common thing, but let's say one girl she
cannot determine
how many days, and it's it's all over
the place. They say she goes to the
average.
Right? And this is we get this from
the hadith of Rasoolam. She goes to the
average 6 or 7 days,
and they say she goes back and and
she also asks the relatives of her family
because your your your relatives affect yours as
well. And usually it's very similar to the
mother, to the sister, to the it's similar
usually. So,
this is referring to those who who, whose
blood goes over 15 days. They can't tell.
They can't tell the difference.
Because remember we said if it's over 15
days now, we don't know,
Yani. It's still blood and she cannot tell
the difference.
Okay. So example, 1st month she sees blood
for 20 days of which 17 are thick
and dark. She will wait,
1st day night then take a shower and
consider herself clean for the rest of 20
days. She will repeat this again in the
2nd 3rd month. If the 4th month, she,
she will consider 6 short days as her
habit,
so she she can't tell. This keeps happening
20 days, 20 days, or 17 days. She
can't tell. So then she will go with
the 6 or 7 until
something shows up. And let's say
now after like 2 months, after 6 months,
it shows up that Khalifa is always 8,
then she goes to 8. Okay? So maybe
now she can determine. But initially that's what
she does. She goes with 6 or 7.
If a woman has bleeding outside her regular
habit, she should consider she should only consider
her habit. Remember we said that the habit
is stronger than
than distinguishing the kind of blood in the
method. Okay. So if she has a habit
of 5
and then there's
extra
blood and it looks like it's similar to
the to the menses blood. Okay. Should she
go with the extra 2 days or she
stick to the? The says stick to the.
Okay. Like I said, unless
there's a reason to believe that something she
did to her body or she's taking some
medicine,
right? Some woman like, who
they take these pills.
Right? And they they block the the the
the cycle for a few days or something.
Right? And then
her bleeding is like crazy or affects her
whole cycle. If
if you're expecting something like that, then then
you should consider that. And,
because that that's you're expecting it to change
your
So conclusion,
we said that habit is stronger than the,
which is
distinguishing the type of blood. Right? If you
have
stick with that unless there's a reason not
to. So and we said there's 3 types
of bleeding woman. One who is less than
15 days. Right? She sticks to her number
of days,
based on the you need the the
the common denominator, like if it's 777, she
sticks to that. Okay. Then we have one
who's over 15 days and can distinguish.
And then one who is over 15 days
and cannot distinguish. Why 15 days? We said
because 15 days is the maximum. So number
2, the one who is over 15 days
and she can distinguish the type of blood,
then she she she figures out, Okay.
The I I bled 20 days but 13
of them are thick, 7 are light. So
her ada is what?
13. The number is 13. But the one
who doesn't who can't tell, okay. She bleeds
20 days but she can't tell. The blood's
like very similar.
Okay. Then she what? She sticks to 6
or 7 until something clear shows up for
her,
later,
in the future. Rulings.
We're doing good with time.
We said is the blood,
that comes
after the 15 days. The blood that comes
after 15 days, it's different than the it's
not dark, it's not thick, it's not it
doesn't have that same smell as the menses
blood. So okay. What if the woman has
that? She doesn't pray? No. She does pray.
So they say she must wash the area
every time something comes out. So she washes
it every time.
She wraps something obviously around it, so it
doesn't bleed like a pad or something.
And then she does wudu for
for every salah if if blood comes out.
So let's say some blood comes out. This
is not menses blood. Okay. She washes it,
and she makes nothing comes out, she's fine.
But if something comes out, she does again.
She washes again, and she does
again. So as long as she renews her
within a new salah time, she doesn't have
to make again if something comes out. So
let's say now,
it's time.
Uh-uh it's
time now, and you know she has a
she washes it, she makes
right? And now that is enough for her
unless she loses it some other way. And
then she goes to the bathroom or air
comes out or whatever.
But otherwise she can,
she can she can pray with
that.
How about fasting?
Fasting. Yeah. She fast. She fast. Yeah. Because
this is considered like she's okay. She's okay
but she has to clean it.
Intention should be for when doing her intention
should not be to look for because
it is still there. She's intending,
she's intending herself to allow certain Yeah. So
it's almost like
Kind of like your
your your intention is
to allow you to be able to to
pray and to do the other things,
that you would need for for,
you know, like Quran and salah and other
things like that.
It's haram to have * unless he fears
committing.
No. It wouldn't be considered pure. No. No.
Because remember, Asan, we said blood in general.
Yeah. Blood in general. It's not pure.
Blood in general is not pure. And yeah.
I mean, this one is probably more reason
for it to not be pure. It's a
good question. So, like, can a man have
* with his wife when she's
The answer is no. Okay.
They say unless he fears committing
Okay.
And and this is even like in in
general cases,
it's not,
a sin in this case. If he really
fears and he's gonna commit
then he will do it. But it's it's,
it's not permissible,
for him to to have * with his
wife when she's in the state of.
Let's talk about nifas and we're done. So
what is nifas? A woman becomes pregnant and
then she gives birth. What happens? Usually
right after or before maybe
by a bit,
she she starts bleeding now. So there's a
bleeding, the cleaning of the rahem.
Right? So the maximum number of days for
nifas is what? It's 40 days. The maximum
amount is
40 days.
And it can begin 2 to 3 days
before delivery as well. And in some cases,
but usually just after delivery.
Question
now.
If the maximum is 40, can it be
less?
Can a woman bleed for less than 40?
Yes, she can. Right? And I think for
somebody from experience, you know
Let's say she bleeds for 30 days,
those 10 days,
is she
pure for her husband, for salah, for things
like that?
What do you guys think?
Yes. Generally, yes. The Hanaba, they say it's
to
for her husband to have * that time.
Why? Because just in case, and it could
be it could be still in the time
of Nifas.
But she is considered pure. She would be
considered pure,
and she prays.
But they say it's. Why? Just in case.
Just in case.
And the last ruling here is that they
say that the rulings of Nifas are the
same
as except in two cases. All the rulings
we mentioned about,
you can apply them on Nifas. Like what?
Like what?
Like Salah.
She doesn't pray. What else?
Psalm. She doesn't, but she has to make
it up. Right?
What else? Like, it's not allowed to have
*. Same things. In nifas, there's no *.
Also the kafara, same thing. If he does
have * with her during nifas,
then he has to pay
or half
a of of kafara. Right? What's different? They
say the.
So if if a husband,
divorces her wife his wife,
does Nifas count as one of the,
one of the the cycles? No. It wouldn't
count. That blood of Nifas wouldn't count as
one of the 3 one of the 3.
Right?
The the the divorced women, they have to
wait 3 cycles.
3 cycles.
Wouldn't count as one of them.
And her pregnant,
her her her birth is her.
Yes. But but let's say she already gave
birth and she has Nifas now, and she's
divorced.
The Nifas doesn't count as one of the
3.
So that's one difference between them. The second
difference they say
that And this is interesting,
they said that Nifas does not prove puberty.
Which is interesting. Nifaz does not prove puberty,
but pregnancy does. Okay?
This is one that I had trouble understanding.
So we know that pregnancy, of course,
proves puberty because it means that because for
you to to be pregnant, yeah, you need
to be to to be able to have
your period. Right?
But when they say that Nifas does not
prove puberty,
usually, Nifas comes after
after
childbirth. Right?
What, I tried to, like, look it up
what they meant by that. If one of
you has any input about that.
Because usually Nifas comes out
after pregnancy, and if pregnancy
proved puberty, then Nifas should, because
you guys understand what I'm saying?
If it doesn't make sense, don't worry about
it.
And and with that, we conclude,
you know,
after I think this is our 9th session.
My intention
is next week, we wanna have,
like,
like a review.
It's gonna be like a game night. If
you guys know what Kahoot is. So we'll
have like questions on the board. You'll need
a phone, okay, or a device, Insha Allah.
And basically I'll have questions up. You know,
we'll have some food, Insha Allah.
We'll have some prizes.
Okay. What is your job? Okay. And this
is for your own benefit. And and this
is any inshallah.
It's for you to review the notes. Inshallah.
I'll have the notes posted with the I'll
ask,
to put them up with the lectures on
on YouTube, just on the on the comments.
Right? We can put them on the comments
or in the yeah. In the description. We
can put the slides, inshallah, put the slides,
because they don't show up really on the
on the videos. But just go over the
videos. You can put on, like, times 2
speed or go over the the the notes.
Review. Why? Because you're gonna benefit like that.
If you come next week and you're like,
you Allah, let's sit down, have some And
then you're just like guessing. Is there a
lot of benefit? No. The benefit the real
benefit comes when you sit down and review
them. Review the notes,
And then you come and you test yourself.
And then you see, oh, mashaAllah. I'm 80%.
I know the information. I'm 60%. Okay? You'll
you'll be able to see how good you
are. And also this active recall, they call
it in in in, you know, in psychology
is is actually what strengthens your memory. It's
when you study something and then you you
test yourself, that's how you benefit inshallah. So
you need,
you need take some time and prepare,
study it. And then next week inshallah, we'll
have some food. We'll do some, games. And
then, you know, maybe the top 1 or
2 or 3, we'll give them some prizes.
Yani. Let other people know inshallah so we
can they can benefit as well. So those
who like Mist and they want to benefit,
they can still review the notes. Come. We'll
have the the the the, you know, the
the game night inshallah,
and we'll conclude tahara. And then the week
after, we'll start with faqas salaam, inshallah.