Haitham al-Haddad – Who Deserves My Gratitude

Haitham al-Haddad
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Speaker 1 explains that being a successful person means being a thankful person and fixing a deficiency in one's personality. They suggest thanking others through various means, including saying "thank you" to others. The first step in becoming a thankful person is to thank their parents, followed by thanking their father.

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			Looking after your parents is a sign of
		
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			success.
		
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			Not a sign of success in the akhirah.
		
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			No. It is a sign of success in
		
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			the dunya before the akhirah, or 12 qualities
		
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			of successful people.
		
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			One key quality
		
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			about that is to be a thankful person,
		
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			to be a thankful person, to know how
		
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			to say thank you to others. If you
		
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			don't know how to say thank you to
		
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			others, and you feel and you appreciate
		
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			others,
		
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			then there is a huge deficiency in your
		
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			personality,
		
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			and you will not be a true successful
		
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			person.
		
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			You need to fix
		
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			this point, this deficiency.
		
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			And subhan'Allah, if you would like to say
		
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			thank you to others, the first person to
		
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			say thank you to is
		
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			your parents,
		
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			is your mother, is your father.
		
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			If you don't know how to say thank
		
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			you to them, then it is very unlikely
		
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			that you will be able to say thank
		
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			you to others.
		
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			The first one that we need to be
		
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			thankful to is Allah
		
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			And then after
		
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			thanking Allah
		
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			we need to be thankful to our parents.