Haitham al-Haddad – Tafsir Surah Tahrim #07
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The journey of Islam is a journey, where the main point is the journey and the journey is a journey. The Mahdi's advice to protect against fire of hell and set examples for people to relate to is important. The speakers discuss the importance of setting examples for people to understand and remember the main prophets in the century before them, as well as the confusion surrounding Islam's origins and the lack of sex in Egypt. The conversation also touches on the importance of protecting one's privacy and being a mother in order to support their children. The segment concludes with a brief advertisement for a video on the history of Islam.
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salat wa salam, ala rasulillah. These two or three
that we are
trying to explain today is
the final or the last that concluded this journey that we have been going through in the past few weeks. And we said that this Sora Sora
is in fact a journey, a journey that goes through a number of subjects. And
we can extract a common theme
from that journey. But without that is the main theme of the whole surah or not, this is not an issue. The journey started by addressing the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wasallam.
And Allah Allah Allah admonished him so badly, that why did he make what Allah Allah Allah made halal for him,
make it up.
And then, as we said, Allah, Allah, Allah gave him the solution.
How he can go out of this oath, that he took upon himself to please one of his wives, and that have this incident introduce it, and you introduce the swiftly the issue of the position of women, in this society, in the family, and how can they be wicked,
evil women, how can be and how can be on the other side, the righteous woman.
So, Allah, Allah, Allah
mentioned another incident, whether they are both both incidents are linked to each other, or they are separate. And they that incident in which the profits on the lobbying center disclosed secret, told one of his wife a secret.
And then that wife
disclosed the secret of the process and until another one, which wife
that's not the issue, as we said, the issue is what the lesson or the lessons that can be taken out of this.
For example, the wife should not disclose the secrets of her husband, or in general no person is allowed to inform others with the secrets that he knows. Or she knows Oh,
anyway, Allah Allah, Allah told Muhammad Sallallahu Sallam that his wife have disclosed the secret. So he wanted he want to her, in order to advise her. When he advised her as we said,
out of the gentleness of the prophets of the lies him and his
status and his good manners, he did not try to corner his wife by telling her all the secrecy that she has disclosed. No, he told her, that she has disclosed one of his secrets. But
he did not tell her about the other secrets that she disclosed, he ignored them. And we said that this idea, as many scholars is a foundation for a very important etiquette that we should observe ourselves, which is
overlooking a telephone
that we should not change the mistakes of chase the mistakes of others.
Then after that, our dilemma encouraged those wives of the Prophet told them to repent.
Then Allah Allah, Allah
told them indirectly that if you don't repent, Alhaji love Allah will let him marry better woman.
Muslim at the moment in Karnataka in Tibet in Abu Dhabi.
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then, as if this episode has been closed, Alexander Rada
started to speak about something else but in fact, it is linked to that. But it is a different scenery.
What did the mandala said after that? Yeah, you already know
For amphu, Sakuma alikum na naswa Oh you will believe you should protect yourself and your families. The fire of health.
It has a severe punishment appointed on the fire of help. Stern,
tough angels who were created with knowledge in order to execute whatever Allah Allah Allah commands them to do
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after the encouragement to the believers, which is an indirect warning for the disbelievers.
Yes, which has been or which has been which has been made directly to the disbelievers number of times. Allah Allah Allah turn to the disbelievers. Yeah, you
know, after all of this don't present an excuse because
we have made it clear for you in amatriciana country, you are going to get whatever you have done.
Look at this. Now the story started with Mohammed Salah Salem, his wives, and then the issue of Toba.
Then Allah, Allah, Allah encourage all people to
repent, and Marcela mentioned the fire of *.
And he said, If you believe you should protect yourselves and your families, from the fire of *. After all of this, then Allah Allah Allah mentioned what the disbelievers that you should not have any excuse after that. Then Allah, Allah Allah
said, okay, the disbelievers they will not just be left for the punishment of the aphylla but yeah, oh Prophet, you must make jihad against them in the dunya and you must make the hat as Dennis What? The Muna 15 as well.
Yeah, you gotta
be tough against them, blah, blah, blah.
And
the final abode is what the final film
and what about destination? Now, this journey
almost has ended. Then Allah gelada concluded the surah by two important examples,
I that Allah Allah Allah wanted to summarize the whole sutra or Allah, Allah, Allah wanted to give a conclusion,
which is related to the beginning of surah. But it introduces a very important or two important principles. Yeah, whether that this or that, those three is provide us with important lessons with important in fact principles that we need to
observe in our life. And in fact, Allah, Allah mentioned one important principle to the disbelievers and another important principle for the believers. In fact, both principles are the same. A larger levada put them in two different examples. And the larger levada there is disbelievers by giving them this example in order for them to listen, to be careful to think
and a larger lavalla started by mentioning the disbelievers bottle Obama who Matalan de la de
la jolla. Yes, did not start by giving an example of what for the believers in many places in the Koran, especially when Allah Allah mentioned that examples for the disbelievers or warnings. He mentioned warnings to the disbelievers first
and he mentioned
First,
when Allah Allah Allah mentioned that people have the truth, or the people of gender normally Allah Allah Allah mentioned the people of gender before the people of color, because definitely the people of Ghana better than the people of the photo. But in terms of warnings, or why the Nevada wants us to take heed first, from what from the disbelievers and
this will be more effective because if Allah, Allah said Barack Obama, certainly Latina Amano, yeah,
maybe people will not listen what may happen later. Or some people might say, yes. Okay. This is a good example for the believers. I don't want to be among those. No, I want to know and I said, No, no,
be careful. Yeah, you have to understand what happens to the disbelievers. Allah, Allah, Allah said,
What do you mean by Allah?
So he started by what?
He didn't say for me to work for with Babu. Because we need first of all, to take heed of what may happen to the disbelievers. And we need to free ourselves from any kind of disbelief. Yeah, maybe another explanation can be given why Allah mentioned the disbelievers or the example for the disbelievers first. Okay, this is Yanni I try to understand why Allah Allah Allah started by giving an example to the disbelievers. What is the example that abajo Allah has given to the disbelievers Bala masala Lila De Luca. As you know, my dear respected brothers and sisters Allah Allah Allah sets forth a number of examples and fell in love and caring, and many books many authors have written
about, I'm thankful for an uncanny
they said that there are around 40 examples in the
year most of them are mentioned in solar.
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Manhattan color. And so here we have two examples in
sort of
two examples in So what
did we say?
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I mean formula to do. Yeah. So
those examples,
Allah, Allah, Allah said, within can unsettle, who had a nasty woman.
These are examples we set forward for people, no one will think about it except to those who want to think and to understand and to know.
Yes. So when there are
Ansel examples, we should be careful because our dilemma wants to draw our attention to something and our dilemma draws the attention through the example because I want the learner knows that people listen to examples, maybe more effectively. And it is amazing that we see that the man is full of what
stories and the stories are what examples agree on. Yeah, the stories are examples. And what direct examples mentioned in the
show most of the time is addressed to us in a way that is what that we can relate to it
easily.
So our gonna set for an examples for those who disbelief
Yeah, all those who disbelieved, maybe more accurate. Let me
Mr. Ma Lu
as you know, he Allah Allah, Allah says those two examples the wife of Noah, and the wife of Canada, they were the wives of two righteous What?
That meant those two righteous men were What? prophets?
Yeah. prophets. No. Well as you know, the main prophets we have whoa first of all
then after Adam, no.
Yes, the only main profit with Idris is before Ibrahim and you know, not many scholars believe that he is what before them, he did his Allah He Sarah.
So we have Adam, later on Idris then new Elisa then after know who among the main prophets mentioned in the Quran?
Yes.
And then after who
saw
Aliki, Sarah, these are the main profits. Then after sila, Allah Allah Allah sent to
Ibrahim
and he set up the main profit. I mean, I'm talking about the main prophets. Rahim Allah He said
he has two children who were prophets, his help and his main all Prophets came after Abraham and he said it's really up after his his help. And he said were from D yet who is help from the offspring of his help except to Mohammed
he was abused. And that created hatred and enmity towards Mohammed Samadhi SLM by some of the people of react, is he
okay,
so after, so we have Ibrahim is my aid is help. And then we have the apple and then we have who uses early history. So use it even
during the time of Ibrahim, we have who
loot
Allah Hey Sarah. Yeah. So we have mentioned the Lord. And we have mentioned Who? Lo Ali Hassan. Then later on, Allah, Allah Allah, of course, as we said, we are mentioning the main prophets, Allah that Allah sent Moosa ignore a moron. Wha hoo, hoo, hoo, his brother Harun. Yes. And then Allah, Allah, Allah sent a during that time Allah Allah, Allah sent to
Shoei. And he set up.
Dr. La Sara was it during the time of who Moosa was there he was before him or after him, almost in the same time, just to remember that Masada his era when he was when he flee the random muscle, and he went to what Medea?
And madeon he found those two ladies. Yes. And then he got married to one of them. They say that to do those two ladies, are the daughters of who have shrine in order to connect so we can understand the chronological order of the main prophets in the whole lot. Then Allah de la vida Santo.
Isa, Eben Maryam. Yeah.
In between Moosa
and Isa, they were who said a man, the son of one of the
Yeah. And then after Isa, there was no profit until Whoa, our Prophet Mohammed sol, la la la la, la. He was like a diva, sir. Okay, so Allah Allah, Allah sets forth for the disbelievers and the believers of course, but mainly for the disbelievers. The wife of
No hand the wife of blue
we need to speed up because we need to.
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yeah even I have an
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Bye. So the wife of Lu Han the wife of Lu Kanika
Haney Look at this. Yeah.
They were under, under physically and emotionally the wife is under her husband.
Yeah. In Arabic We normally say bye to the wife of so and so or the wife daughter so and so Canada today in a minivan in
the hall aneta Houma then they have what deceived them betrayed them.
The wife of know used to say that no other he used to say this man, she was a disbeliever and she used to say that this man is crazy. He's building a ship in the desert and the wife of Luke, she was a disbeliever as well her story was mentioned number of times in the Quran, as you know, by liberato
Minerva Yeah, from the previous disbelievers and whenever he has some visitors, male visitors she would go to his people and tell them that look. There are some beautiful men you can come to seduce them or to you can come to have Yanni actually knew that they were looking for *. Yeah. And she used to tell them about the the men who used to visit her husband.
By
some she
saved
me means what?
No, no, they say the
ohana. Tahoma means they had committed sexual relationship with others. Allah Katahdin. Many other scholars, ma Zenit Nabi Yun matters and it in to Nabeel for
never, ever
except that a wife of a prophet to commit What? Xena, okay? Some of those Shia
they say call them whatever you call them. The name is not important. They say that. Cofer is worse than this call for this belief is worse than what is Xena. So if Allah Allah, if you
accepted that they were disbelievers, then you should accept that they were What?
adulterers?
Yes. And what is the answer of No.
There are sins that are definitely worse in the dounia and in the app era.
But there are sins that do not be fit to take place. Yeah, even if they are less evil.
Yes to other sins. Is it clear?
So cocoa is the worst sin but Xena to be in connection to a profit. It doesn't be fit the status of a profit. Yeah, that his wife
goes stuck for a lot to sleep with other men.
That doesn't really fit the status of work for profit.
Because this is what related to up to his word chastity.
So it cannot be acceptable. Anyway.
So madinat invalid when a VM
no wife of Prophet has permitted Xena. Okay. So here the here betrayal here is what is as we have mentioned by what is it exactly as we mentioned she was telling that he was a crazy the wife of no and the wife of Lucci was telling people about his guests.
Follow me over Nia and Hammami mawashi This is the dose. This is the main lesson that they have done that that will not avail them.
On the Day of Resurrection whatsoever, this will not identify them. Yes, in the sight of the law whatsoever, even if they were the wives of the most righteous people in the whole world, and the whole dunya in the whole humanity doesn't matter. They The weather is it was rotten.
Yeah. And of course, my data is back to do this and success. This is a lesson for us that we should not rely on our own other people, on our friendship with others on our relationship with others, even if someone claims that he descended from the family of the Prophet sallallahu sallam. Yeah, we respect the fundamentals of the Prophet sallallahu Sallam in general, but that will not help the person himself. Yeah.
It will be told to them on the Day of Resurrection
and not so
that means you are nothing like others like other believers, this believers You are nothing but like them, not. All of them will enter and you're just among them. You have no bad feelings.
Okay.
Yeah. Okay.
We don't have time to discuss anything.
Okay, but it is one of the most frequent names mentioned in the poll. And it will be surprising. In fact, I found one in which was mentioned three times in a short time. Okay. I don't want to start this otherwise we'll keep talking about it. Anyway. As you know, he is the tyrant of Egypt, where he was once around or number of rounds or around his his engines. That includes any any king of Egypt. This is not the issue. Anyway, the main issue is there was a pharaoh
and he was a tyrant. Yeah, and most likely, the one mentioned in the Quran, he was one Haha, okay. And he was a challenging Allah, Allah, Allah. And as we said before, this is the worst sin.
Yeah, to challenge a lot in his robe obeah and therefore to ask people to submit to you as
the worst What?
Sin that's why we see that there was disbelievers in the Yes, or the worst.
People or there was creation mentioned in the Quran out to the police and who?
Yeah. Okay, at least around a police because of what is our guns? And why?
Why? Yeah, I'm more deserving. And then this arrogance, or ego or whatever you call it, he became arrogant before a lot. fit around.
A similar work.
Psychology? Yes.
I don't think that there is any other load other than me. Yeah, this is what?
So that's why I mentioned him a number of times in the whole I'm setting examples for all of us, for the whole of humanity. Anyway.
Welcome,
Linda Deena.
Here is not the main issue. The main issue is who the main example is given about his wall. They said
in the as you know, in the authentic hadith
Sahih Bukhari and Muslim the Prophet sallallahu Sallam said, Come with me. Let me get
back. Yeah, there are many perfect men, but there are four pair of women only two from what previous nations and two from this nation, two from previous nations who are there, those two
Asya
name is?
Yeah, the wife is here being the wife of our own. And the second one is Millennium internet in Milan
and two from this Omaha Beach.
Got Fatima?
Yep. And there are many number of heartbeats similar to this that singled out to those four women
from the whole, from the entire women of
the entire humanity, in fact, from Hollywood.
Okay.
Mr. Brown, she received different types of trials and tribulations, amazing trials and tribulations. First of all, from one hand she is what the queen.
So the fifth in our fourth of fame, money, position, power, you, you call it, the fifth in our power sometimes is de more dangerous than the fitna of what of punishment or adapt or torture. Agree.
The fitness part is more disappointing.
You rarely find the person who leaves Islam because he was tortured.
But you find so many people who leave Islam because of what
because of either fame, money, position, power, etc, etc.
Yeah, look at this. Now even with some people, very few people will leave Islam because of torture. And even if they leave Islam, they don't leave it we don't know that they have left Islam internally. Because they Okay, this belief in Allah He knows that he has an excuse, he will say that he disputed the number
and turmeric he will work
is believing in Allah. In fact, when he is tortured, he knew that he is under what on the app. But the deception of what wealth, power, position etc. Slowly, slowly slowly takes the person away from what from Islam.
Anyway, shahadat many people think
Java one time we mentioned this, many people think that
once we say the fitna is of two types shashwat desires and shughart. And doubt. Many people think that there is a distinction between both of them. No, in fact, as the setup said, allow Seabury to cover the designs lead to what lead to cover. So the fakeness starts with with desires and then it turned to be from materialistic or cons of desires to be an ideology can one
visit to clear so that's why those who disbelieved, they are not disbelieving because of an ideology. They are this believing because of what? Because of desires in most cases.
In fact, I have a theory Yes. That you rarely find a counselor who is genuine.
Who is a captain because of God.
Check you will find that he has worked a shallow desire.
Yeah. My own conclusion is what? That all of them are like.
Yeah, this belief. That's why I like Allah punishes this believers because he knows that today what they knew that
they ideology, Kelly.
Yes, they have seen the truth, but because of what desires, they rejected the truth, so that's why they are disbelievers, and they will be punished. Is it clear? Yeah. So let us not over a steaming the intellectual discourse of these videos. Yeah. Thinking that we need to come up with a sophisticated discourse in order for them to be convinced that Islam is the truth. No, once you reach to that level, you will never ever come to an end. Because it is not about the sophisticated intellectual discourse that stopped them from believing in Allah. If they have left it that they were sincere. They will see the truth clearly in front of them. Anyway, by
so have fit in a hat first fitting up was what designed. She's the queen. Yeah. Sarah and her husband is saying
My name punakha, Manila.
And whether he is going to delve into the pyramids or not, definitely he was the tyrant, he was maybe the only King, the biggest King at that time, she was his wife, she can easily abuse the power. But so Pamela,
she left all these desires, as to Panama women, and in particular wives are more Subject To what? To the Shahada, the desires of dunya and trade, so to resist all of this, which means that she is really a supernatural woman. Woman.
Yeah, definitely. How can you say that? What what what did she say? The first thing thing he said, Yeah, Allah, free me, free me protect me from his cover, of course.
And then what?
Robert Neely, if College of divinity and deca Welcome to generally the first thing. Yeah, is around divinity. And that awakens agenda, which is, as we said, it is an indication that she has left all the what adornments and the desires of the dounia and the fitting of the dunya. And she said, Yeah, I don't want to this. Just a house with view in Jana is better than all of this.
This is amazing. Unbelievable. Yeah. And they say that for our news to torture her. Yes. And then Amanda, Nevada would open for her. Yes, gates to paradise to see her house engender?
Yeah. The thing Kathy and others mentioned this with the riches from the extra India. Not, but they mentioned it. Yeah.
And this is what we always say to our
women, that this is the right example. If you want examples for Muslim leaders,
young Muslim woman leaders achieving successful women.
I want to know Hannah gave it to us clearly explicitly here.
So if you are if you are looking for an example for the successful woman, yeah. Then this is the example.
No egotistically exhibition, okay?
So the first thing she said
to me and the Tibetans in general, not only that, of course she has to free herself from what said out what Amelie he on the from all the violent men or the wrong door doors or disbelievers. It is amazing to see that this believing women
betray their righteous husbands
believe believing women all you know their husbands are the disbelievers and most Thailand, people in the world the most evil people in the world. Their women do not work. betray them.
Is it the thing?
Yeah, in the Quran?
All what she did is Allah free me from him?
Yeah, because it's round does not recognize betrayal.
Okay.
How long and the roses have been something else? We are not talking about that. I'm talking about normal circumstances, especially the wife with her husband.
Yeah. And there is an important rule regarding betrayal, which is if you are in a position of trust.
Yeah. Don't be today that interest.
Yeah, yeah. You already know. Oh,
yes. Well.
So as a wife, she is what?
in a position of trust. She didn't do this. Although her husband is the most evil person in the world, in humanity. Okay.
Then the other example that Arjuna has given it to us is who is money I'm even after him on
the first example, it was an example of a married lady.
The married lady, she should not, under any circumstance be taken by the wealth of the dunya. The position the power, without her husband is a righteous person, or not righteous person. So even if she's married, she should focus on the law. If she is not married, like Maria, the first thing she should be worried about is what?
chastity? Well, maybe I'm over, no doubt in my mind, and let he sign it follow your heart. This is the first important quality. So sisters, if it happened, that you don't have to get married, the first thing is what?
To protect your chastity
under the Act.
If you protect your chastity, a lot, get lower and lower will give you something better in the dunya. And in the affair of law, the law gave money and been to Enron, what the best one of the best people known to humanity who is what is.
So if you don't get to children in the dunya Yes, Allah will give you children in the era.
And maybe Allah jell O Allah will send to you, those who can have as your children in the dunya. So don't lose hope. It is the law that you could not get married.
This is the highest end you can look for is to be a mother,
as it happened, that you cannot be a mother accepted.
So one of them even at Mr. As you know, my dear brothers, that they saw is the son of who have Maria. Maria is one of those perfect women. And we said that Allah Allah Allah will marry Muhammad Sallallahu wasallam according to many scholars, as he had been to him, and what, Maria, Milan, they will be his wives in the era.
So, sister if you could not get married in the dunya be righteous woman accepted, preserve your chastity insha Allah, Allah will give you something in the dunya even if you don't see it in the dunya. The key thing is that eternal life Allah will give you the best has been in the hereafter.
Yes. Beyond the that women should look for being Muslim leaders. Yeah, this is the true leadership, as we have said a number of times. They want to be big scholars. If it happened, yes. But with Islamic guidelines, she wants to be an activist, be an activist in order to
to raise your children according to the best way or support an activist has been
a part of this Apart from this, it is not your main role. If you say no Islam is also Islam and so on. So you just survey the whole arm and see what Allah Delilah or how Allah, Allah spoke about the righteous women in the Quran. Okay, by the way, they said that there is no woman mentioned explicitly in the Koran, except for Mario.
Yeah, she was the only or the only woman mentioned explicitly by her name in the Quran. I think she was mentioned 32 times or three times sometimes would have had with her son and sometimes without have some, yeah, they say that that the Bible, the Bible.
There is no chapter about money. And this is the Bible. And they claim that maybe maybe he's the son of maybe Jesus God, etc, etc. And there is no chapter talks about money, or how did the name of Mario end up or an
complete chapter? Yes. About what modern young? He has said.
Yeah, in fact,
I remember and I'm not expert in Yeah. In Christianity. They said that there are a number of places where there is an issue. He said, Ah, yeah, yes, sir. Yeah, in Arabic. We called him
in English, so yes. Oh, yeah. Jesus.
So he would review his mother number of times. He would say, Pascucci Allah has good economies. Keep quiet. Only. Yeah, not even Oh, my mother while in the corner and the discussion between between Isa and and his mother.
What we're about one we need a tea.
Yeah. And kind to my mother. Okay.
So, this is Maria allottee Oksana
nappy rutina sana Sana v. What is the translation?
And we breathe into the sleeve of her shirt, or her garment? Yes.
Through our rule debri Yeah, there are two basic meanings. Either Miro Hina here debri la kisara. He blew so he she became pregnant. Or Marina here means the one that she became pregnant with is the men are watching us. Yeah.
Clear. I am who you are. Who is our lady Sarah. And Isa is one of those that Allah Allah sent to Maria. Yeah.
Okay. Oh, gibreel over here refers to debriefing. Yeah, the meaning is clear. But it doesn't mean rohana is part of our
Yeah, it doesn't mean that it is part of Allah. Why because my role is from Allah is Allah
in fact, I am Abdullah
glioma,
I have rule of law.
Yes. And he says what?
Yeah, doesn't mean that he's part of a lot
of the line, Abdullah
Abdullah Okay, apocrypha for the Falcon Heavy game or Hina was adapted to be carrying it up the hierarchy to be he can admit on the team and she believed in the scriptures. Yes, I have a larger Laila and she was of Ronda obedient
to Allah, Allah Allah.
We can speak a lot about the history of Miriam but the main difference here is for that anything, women
we have two perfect examples. An example when the woman is a wife. Yes. And when Allah Allah, Allah told us about a woman who was a wife of a disbeliever, we can easily extract that the qualities of a wife of a believer. Yes. And then Okay, when the woman cannot be
married, or is not married? Yes. And then she is what a lot a lot and gives her and this the fact that I was mentioned Marie America, as a mother
indicates that the highest status of a wife or a female is when she is a mother. By Okay, so Pamela might be respected the brothers and sisters output as the profit or loss and I'm sad, what
are the idea the Boo, the miracles of the Quran will never come to an end.
Yeah. And
as they said, If you feel one time that you are homeless opened up,
you will find many homes that are warm and welcoming to stay there. So Pamela, if you find one time that you are loneliness, because you don't have any friends, any relative opened up, you will see 1000s of close friends and you will not feel lonely at all. This is the book of Allah, Allah Allah Subhana Allah imagine that we are living and we do not have a plan between ourselves what would be the shape of our life?
Yeah, it will have no meaning we notice a lot Delilah to make us among the people who love
it today. That one of them will have the him he advised one of his students. One of them
mohabbatein those who would
seek knowledge in Howdy. So, they used to mention their eagerness about what
writing is not to miss any chance to either hobbies or that are busy what writing a hobby. So, one of the teachers, he
advised his student, one of his students, he told him, be careful, read or add as much as you can because or an gives you backup. So, you will be able to read and write more.
Many people think if they become busy with the poor, they will have no time for other things.
And for Angus Baraka, so, you will have what, more time or more ability to achieve other things. This is the book that Allah Allah Allah has sent as a landmark for the whole mankind, the solar laws and I'm about to kind of give them how to do it was one of the main