Haitham al-Haddad – Emotional Story of a Man who Used to take care of his mother

Haitham al-Haddad
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A woman describes a situation where her mother uses a toilet and refuses to do so. She questions whether she has fulfilling her mother's rights and wonders if she has fulfilling her mother's realty. The man she talks to describes how she used to clean her mother's defecation and is confused by the situation.

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			A man came to me.
		
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			And he said, Oh, yeah, I mean, my
mother is old and she is very
		
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			weak. She cannot do the toilet.
Except if he is sitting on my
		
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			back. He is leaning on my back in
order to be able to do the toilet.
		
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			Do you think Amira nominee that I
have fulfilled her rights over me?
		
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			I've said what fulfilled her
right? No way. He said, Why?
		
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			Amirul mumineen he said when she
used to clean your defecation, she
		
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			used to say, oh, Allah keep him
alive for me. I want him to grow
		
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			up. I want to see him as a man or
as an adult or as you do this, it
		
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			is true that you are cleaning her.
But you say, Oh Allah, when am I
		
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			going to end this? When is this
going to come to an end? Another
		
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			man came to me. And he said, Look,
I came to perform her all the way
		
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			from Yemen, long distance carrying
my mother. And I'm doing tawaf
		
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			while I'm cutting my mother. Do
you think that I have fulfilled
		
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			her right? He said nothing even a
kick when you used to kick her
		
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			when you were in her womb and you
used to kick her that one kick is
		
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			not equal to all what you have
done or what you think that you
		
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			have done.