Haifaa Younis – When I get hurt

Haifaa Younis
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The speaker discusses the importance of protecting one's heart and not allowing anyone to harm it. They also mention a recent letter given to a relative who was spreading rumors about a relative's relationship with a woman named Aisha. The speaker emphasizes the need to protect one's heart and not allow anyone to harm it.

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			Got this in England? How can
someone maintain a pure heart?
		
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			When constantly being hurt by
others? I understand that Allah is
		
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			testing us, but sometimes it
becomes overwhelming. So true.
		
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			If you are 14 and above
		
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			the answer is always been there
done that.
		
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			You had enough disappointments
through. You had enough people
		
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			hurt you that I was like, oh,
okay, which category I'm gonna put
		
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			them
		
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			this is part of life. This is what
this is why this dunya is not a
		
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			place of happiness. And it's not
eternity. It's temporary. But the
		
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			question is how do I keep my heart
pure? Very nice question.
		
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			memorizes dua it's from the Quran.
When someone really hurts you,
		
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			they are in your face. Especially
let's say it gets very hard when
		
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			they are your member of your
family. Sometimes Subhanallah
		
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			sometimes parents, sometimes
siblings, and those that you
		
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			cannot I call them non negotiable.
Relationships. I can't cover it.
		
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			I'm not gonna go to Jana.
		
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			I can't cut with my sister. I
can't. But every time I see her I
		
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			am I'm just giving an example. May
Allah saved my sisters, but in
		
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			general, like my sister or my
brother, or sometimes parents,
		
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			parents, I mean, I have heard
stories about parents. I was like
		
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			Kerala. What's hard to these
parents
		
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			make this dua which is actually in
salted hash, or banana toffee,
		
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			Rubina religion Lavina,
		
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			your Allah do not allow my heart
to have any infilling toward
		
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			anyone, specially believers.
Don't.
		
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			Don't keep doing it. Literally,
literally. It's like when you have
		
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			a dirty plate, and you're washing
it with a sponge, and you look at
		
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			the plane says oops, the plate is
clean. This is this one this dude
		
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			does. But practices. And your
intention is really remember
		
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			intention is to keep your heart
pure. I want to go to Allah, the
		
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			pure heart that I my agenda is
guaranteed one to
		
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			avoid things that will bring harm
to your heart.
		
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			Stay away, don't confront
somebody. And you know, what they
		
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			will say is going to be very
painful. You know what, don't put
		
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			yourself in this. Very recently
also, somebody was telling me,
		
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			right? It was a man and a woman.
Right? And he handed her a letter
		
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			from the lawyer.
		
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			And she said let's power law. She
said I'm not going to read it.
		
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			Because I don't want to have
anything in my heart that against
		
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			you.
		
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			Learn how to protect your heart,
your heart like an expensive
		
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			diamond you have or or vase and
you need to take care of it. I
		
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			really mean it.
		
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			So protected.
		
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			If this company that you are going
to go without when you know they
		
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			will affect your heart Don't go.
It's very hard when you are there
		
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			to protect it. It's much easier
when you are away.
		
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			So protect your heart. If it comes
to your heart keep making this dua
		
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			third, another order from Allah
it's a surah to no
		
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			faff who was Firehole Allah to
him. Buena AirFit Allahu Allah,
		
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			forgiven pardon. Don't you want
Allah to forgive you? Allah said
		
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			that to say no, but
		
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			when they accused the seed Aisha.
And he said that sit when he when
		
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			he found out that it is his
relative who was spreading the
		
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			rumors. And he used to spend on
him. He said, That's it. Congress
		
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			must know more.
		
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			And Allah has revealed this verse
will tell you referred demon
		
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			comesa. To you to Cordoba, when
Maha jurien were born Messiah
		
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			Kenya when Mahajan Nephi sebelah
five who was for who? Allah to
		
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			him, Guna airfree Allahu Allah.
And he was saying, those of you
		
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			who have extras, money wealth to
do, do not stop paying or spending
		
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			your relative, those who are in
need and those who migrated for
		
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			the sake of Allah and the order
came in to say no buck, forgiven
		
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			pardon. Don't you want Allah to
forgive you? And immediately he
		
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			said, belajar obey. Yes, my lord.