Haifaa Younis – When I get hurt

Haifaa Younis
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The speaker discusses the importance of protecting one's heart and not allowing anyone to harm it. They also mention a recent letter given to a relative who was spreading rumors about a relative's relationship with a woman named Aisha. The speaker emphasizes the need to protect one's heart and not allow anyone to harm it.
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Got this in England? How can someone maintain a pure heart?

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When constantly being hurt by others? I understand that Allah is

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testing us, but sometimes it becomes overwhelming. So true.

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If you are 14 and above

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the answer is always been there done that.

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You had enough disappointments through. You had enough people

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hurt you that I was like, oh, okay, which category I'm gonna put

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them

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this is part of life. This is what this is why this dunya is not a

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place of happiness. And it's not eternity. It's temporary. But the

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question is how do I keep my heart pure? Very nice question.

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memorizes dua it's from the Quran. When someone really hurts you,

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they are in your face. Especially let's say it gets very hard when

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they are your member of your family. Sometimes Subhanallah

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sometimes parents, sometimes siblings, and those that you

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cannot I call them non negotiable. Relationships. I can't cover it.

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I'm not gonna go to Jana.

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I can't cut with my sister. I can't. But every time I see her I

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am I'm just giving an example. May Allah saved my sisters, but in

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general, like my sister or my brother, or sometimes parents,

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parents, I mean, I have heard stories about parents. I was like

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Kerala. What's hard to these parents

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make this dua which is actually in salted hash, or banana toffee,

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Rubina religion Lavina,

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your Allah do not allow my heart to have any infilling toward

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anyone, specially believers. Don't.

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Don't keep doing it. Literally, literally. It's like when you have

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a dirty plate, and you're washing it with a sponge, and you look at

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the plane says oops, the plate is clean. This is this one this dude

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does. But practices. And your intention is really remember

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intention is to keep your heart pure. I want to go to Allah, the

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pure heart that I my agenda is guaranteed one to

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avoid things that will bring harm to your heart.

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Stay away, don't confront somebody. And you know, what they

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will say is going to be very painful. You know what, don't put

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yourself in this. Very recently also, somebody was telling me,

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right? It was a man and a woman. Right? And he handed her a letter

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from the lawyer.

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And she said let's power law. She said I'm not going to read it.

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Because I don't want to have anything in my heart that against

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you.

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Learn how to protect your heart, your heart like an expensive

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diamond you have or or vase and you need to take care of it. I

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really mean it.

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So protected.

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If this company that you are going to go without when you know they

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will affect your heart Don't go. It's very hard when you are there

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to protect it. It's much easier when you are away.

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So protect your heart. If it comes to your heart keep making this dua

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third, another order from Allah it's a surah to no

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faff who was Firehole Allah to him. Buena AirFit Allahu Allah,

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forgiven pardon. Don't you want Allah to forgive you? Allah said

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that to say no, but

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when they accused the seed Aisha. And he said that sit when he when

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he found out that it is his relative who was spreading the

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rumors. And he used to spend on him. He said, That's it. Congress

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must know more.

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And Allah has revealed this verse will tell you referred demon

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comesa. To you to Cordoba, when Maha jurien were born Messiah

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Kenya when Mahajan Nephi sebelah five who was for who? Allah to

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him, Guna airfree Allahu Allah. And he was saying, those of you

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who have extras, money wealth to do, do not stop paying or spending

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your relative, those who are in need and those who migrated for

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the sake of Allah and the order came in to say no buck, forgiven

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pardon. Don't you want Allah to forgive you? And immediately he

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said, belajar obey. Yes, my lord.

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