Haifaa Younis – When a man brings a proposal for your daughter

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			Pure daughter
		

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			comes
		

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			and says mom
		

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			or dad or both,
		

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			I have this amazing Muslim
		

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			that wants to marry me,
		

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			and that man is
		

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			African American.
		

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			Silence,
		

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			that's arrogance.
		

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			That's arrogance.
		

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			Why?
		

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			Because I think because I'm an Arab
		

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			or Desi
		

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			or white American,
		

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			I am better.
		

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			True or false?
		

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			Let's be honest.
		

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			Right? You know why I'm saying this? Because
		

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			I do office hours. I meet with the
		

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			community in California.
		

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			And that's one of the biggest problems the
		

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			young girl comes to me.
		

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			Or he is not from the same background.
		

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			I had a mother comes to me,
		

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			throwing feet.
		

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			You talk to her. I said, what did
		

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			she do? I thought she's a manning a
		

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			non Muslim.
		

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			Honestly,
		

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			this is true. This is our community.
		

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			These are people who comes to Masajid. I'm
		

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			not talking about people who doesn't.
		

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			He's a revert.
		

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			And I said what is wrong with that?
		

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			Or convert. Now, what is wrong with that?
		

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			He says, la ilaha illallah
		

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			All the Sahaba are converts.
		

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			All
		

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			Sahaba are converts. True or false?
		

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			That's arrogance.
		

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			Let alone
		

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			Syrian,
		

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			Palestinian,
		

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			Egyptian
		

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			come to the day see
		

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			Kashmiri,
		

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			Hadrabadi.
		

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			Why?
		

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			Arrogance.
		

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			That's arrogance.
		

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			The first thing Islam did
		

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			and that's how they changed the world
		

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			is when they broke
		

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			these barriers
		

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			and the number one
		

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			or close to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala
		

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			the longest
		

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			Nak
		

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			was who?
		

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			Hussein Abirad
		

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			He was the caller for sunnah. They have
		

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			the longest neck
		

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			and he was
		

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			slave.
		

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			I'm gonna say the word black.
		

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			Do you think if he proposed
		

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			to say the Fatima,
		

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			Rasulullah salatu salam would have said no because
		

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			he's black?
		

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			Alhamdulillahi, you all are feeling it.
		

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			Ittaq'allah
		

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			fee banatikum
		

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			This is what I'm gonna say because you
		

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			are a very tight community.
		

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			Have awe from Allah
		

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			when it comes to marriages.
		

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			It doesn't matter who is he, they are
		

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			all American.
		

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			I even don't say that. I say they
		

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			are all
		

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			servants of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		

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			As long as they say, la ilaha illallah
		

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			Muhammadu Rasoolah.
		

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			Otherwise that's a no for sure.