Haifaa Younis – When a man brings a proposal for your daughter
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Pure daughter
comes
and says mom
or dad or both,
I have this amazing Muslim
that wants to marry me,
and that man is
African American.
Silence,
that's arrogance.
That's arrogance.
Why?
Because I think because I'm an Arab
or Desi
or white American,
I am better.
True or false?
Let's be honest.
Right? You know why I'm saying this? Because
I do office hours. I meet with the
community in California.
And that's one of the biggest problems the
young girl comes to me.
Or he is not from the same background.
I had a mother comes to me,
throwing feet.
You talk to her. I said, what did
she do? I thought she's a manning a
non Muslim.
Honestly,
this is true. This is our community.
These are people who comes to Masajid. I'm
not talking about people who doesn't.
He's a revert.
And I said what is wrong with that?
Or convert. Now, what is wrong with that?
He says, la ilaha illallah
All the Sahaba are converts.
All
Sahaba are converts. True or false?
That's arrogance.
Let alone
Syrian,
Palestinian,
Egyptian
come to the day see
Kashmiri,
Hadrabadi.
Why?
Arrogance.
That's arrogance.
The first thing Islam did
and that's how they changed the world
is when they broke
these barriers
and the number one
or close to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala
the longest
Nak
was who?
Hussein Abirad
He was the caller for sunnah. They have
the longest neck
and he was
slave.
I'm gonna say the word black.
Do you think if he proposed
to say the Fatima,
Rasulullah salatu salam would have said no because
he's black?
Alhamdulillahi, you all are feeling it.
Ittaq'allah
fee banatikum
This is what I'm gonna say because you
are a very tight community.
Have awe from Allah
when it comes to marriages.
It doesn't matter who is he, they are
all American.
I even don't say that. I say they
are all
servants of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
As long as they say, la ilaha illallah
Muhammadu Rasoolah.
Otherwise that's a no for sure.