Haifaa Younis – When a man brings a proposal for your daughter

Haifaa Younis
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The speaker discusses various topics related to Islam, including religion, marriages, and marriages. They mention a person named Jesus and their actions, as well as their past struggles with slavery and their use of the word "ballball" in their language. The speaker also talks about a person named Jesus and their actions, as well as their use of the word "ballball" in their language.
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Pure daughter

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comes

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and says mom

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or dad or both,

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I have this amazing Muslim

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that wants to marry me,

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and that man is

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African American.

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Silence,

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that's arrogance.

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That's arrogance.

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Why?

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Because I think because I'm an Arab

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or Desi

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or white American,

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I am better.

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True or false?

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Let's be honest.

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Right? You know why I'm saying this? Because

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I do office hours. I meet with the

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community in California.

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And that's one of the biggest problems the

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young girl comes to me.

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Or he is not from the same background.

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I had a mother comes to me,

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throwing feet.

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You talk to her. I said, what did

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she do? I thought she's a manning a

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non Muslim.

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Honestly,

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this is true. This is our community.

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These are people who comes to Masajid. I'm

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not talking about people who doesn't.

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He's a revert.

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And I said what is wrong with that?

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Or convert. Now, what is wrong with that?

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He says, la ilaha illallah

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All the Sahaba are converts.

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All

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Sahaba are converts. True or false?

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That's arrogance.

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Let alone

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Syrian,

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Palestinian,

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Egyptian

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come to the day see

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Kashmiri,

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Hadrabadi.

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Why?

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Arrogance.

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That's arrogance.

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The first thing Islam did

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and that's how they changed the world

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is when they broke

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these barriers

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and the number one

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or close to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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the longest

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Nak

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was who?

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Hussein Abirad

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He was the caller for sunnah. They have

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the longest neck

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and he was

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slave.

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I'm gonna say the word black.

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Do you think if he proposed

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to say the Fatima,

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Rasulullah salatu salam would have said no because

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he's black?

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Alhamdulillahi, you all are feeling it.

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Ittaq'allah

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fee banatikum

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This is what I'm gonna say because you

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are a very tight community.

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Have awe from Allah

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when it comes to marriages.

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It doesn't matter who is he, they are

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all American.

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I even don't say that. I say they

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are all

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servants of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

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As long as they say, la ilaha illallah

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Muhammadu Rasoolah.

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Otherwise that's a no for sure.

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