Haifaa Younis – The Quran Has It All #15 Dress Code

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The speaker discusses the dress code of Islam, including the use of clothing to cover one's private parts and the importance of showing beauty to men and women. The speaker also provides details on the dress code for women and the importance of avoiding showing one's beauty to others. The speaker emphasizes the need for rules in the interaction between men and women and the need for practice in the community.

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			So as a community,
		
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			as woman,
		
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			as men living
		
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			together on this earth,
		
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			Allah
		
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			taught us something also.
		
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			One of the uniqueness of the
		
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			human beings are they are the only creatures
		
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			that Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			created
		
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			that they need
		
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			dress code.
		
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			If you look at any other creatures, they
		
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			don't. The way Allah created them, that's how
		
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			they live here, other than human beings.
		
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			Was that
		
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			mentioned in the Quran?
		
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			SubhanAllah.
		
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			Yes. What should we wear? It's in the
		
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			Quran.
		
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			So, what did Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala said
		
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			in Suratul Aaraf, the height?
		
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			Adam.
		
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			Now, this is a call
		
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			to all the children of Adam.
		
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			Muslims, non Muslims, everyone
		
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			living before coming after
		
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			us. We have sent down to you
		
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			clothing,
		
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			to cover
		
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			your
		
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			private parts.
		
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			Isha,
		
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			so another
		
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			kind of clothing. Isha is the clothings that
		
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			we use, that we wear
		
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			for beauty.
		
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			Outer garments to beautify us, and that's fine.
		
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			That's what Allah said. But then, as the
		
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			Quran,
		
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			the beautiful way, when Allah
		
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			gives things that are halal
		
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			and we should do, but then he gives
		
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			us things that is better.
		
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			And then he and made this parable. Look
		
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			at this one.
		
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			The garment of.
		
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			This is
		
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			better.
		
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			This is from the signs of Allah.
		
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			So they may remember.
		
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			What is he telling me and you?
		
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			If you look at the next verse,
		
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			it will explain this even.
		
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			Children of Adam,
		
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			do not let Shaitan
		
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			lure you.
		
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			The same way.
		
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			Remember when we talked about why didn't we
		
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			say? Was shaitan trick?
		
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			And what did he what does he do?
		
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			He made them one day, ate from the
		
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			tree that Allah told them not to eat.
		
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			What happens?
		
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			Their private part were exposed.
		
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			Why is this?
		
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			Humanity, human being,
		
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			and especially Muslims,
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala focus always on something
		
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			called haya
		
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			mainly when it comes
		
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			to related to dress is modesty.
		
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			And what shaitan did to them in in
		
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			Jannah, he made them disobey Allah, and the
		
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			result of the disobedience of Allah, they were
		
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			exposed. And Allah is telling me, don't do
		
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			that.
		
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			Be careful.
		
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			And,
		
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			the garment of taqwa, I'm not going to
		
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			wear taqwa, but meaning when the
		
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			consciousness consciousness
		
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			of Allah subhanahu wa'amtala will be like my
		
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			clothes. It's always attached to my body. I'm
		
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			gonna be always
		
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			thinking of Allah,
		
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			learning about Allah, remembering Allah, and obeying him.
		
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			Now we go to Surat An Nur,
		
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			the
		
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			light, the chapter light, where Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala here goes in detail, especially about the
		
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			dress code for the woman. For the men,
		
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			he said 2 things.
		
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			Say to the believing men, lower your gaze
		
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			because that will help in the conduct between
		
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			the 2 genders.
		
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			Guard their private part, including the dress code.
		
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			Allah is unaware of what they are doing.
		
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			When it's come to the woman,
		
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			Allah gets into more details.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because as women,
		
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			normally,
		
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			beauty is part of us.
		
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			Allah
		
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			beautified us. And now, he comes and says,
		
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			starting the same way,
		
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			meaning Rasool Allah alaihi wa sallam, say to
		
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			the believing woman,
		
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			lower your gaze, same as the man.
		
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			Guard your own private part
		
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			and don't show your beauty. Don't expose your
		
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			beauty.
		
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			Accept
		
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			that part or that beauty or those beauties
		
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			that are naturally
		
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			there. And most of the scholars will tell
		
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			you it's usually the face, the hand for
		
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			those who say that face is okay to
		
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			be not covered. For those who say it
		
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			needs to be covered, they say in the
		
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			dress code you are wearing should not be
		
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			too beautified.
		
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			But then Allah immediately afterward
		
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			give more details.
		
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			What is al Khimar? Khimar is from word
		
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			hamr, which is something that covers. And in
		
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			that time, Khimar is the head cover.
		
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			The head cover, they didn't call it hijab.
		
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			It's called.
		
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			But at that time, they used to just
		
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			put it very loosely on the head, and
		
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			it doesn't cover their
		
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			chest or the or the parts from the
		
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			neck down. And Allah said,
		
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			keep that cover of the head,
		
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			of the hair, but draw
		
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			it draw it. Make it tight
		
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			that it touches the skin, cover the whole
		
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			face, and cover the part from the neck
		
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			up to the cleavage of the breast.
		
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			That's what is the hijab.
		
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			It's the
		
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			cover of the hair and that part. But
		
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			then he didn't say this only.
		
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			Again, don't show your beauty.
		
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			Meaning, anything that I, as a woman, does
		
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			to make me look beautiful,
		
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			it is not haram,
		
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			But it should not be shown to everybody
		
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			because afterward, he said, don't show your beauty
		
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			except to the following people. And he mentioned
		
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			all the miharam,
		
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			all the men that the woman cannot marry.
		
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			That's the dress code.
		
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			Islam is a religion
		
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			that teaches me every aspect of my life.
		
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			I call Islam as Islam as a physician
		
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			again, It's Islam of prevention.
		
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			Islam is a dean of prevention. It's not
		
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			dean of treatment. Treatment comes later on after
		
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			all the preventions we didn't do and we
		
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			fail. So what is the prevention to keep
		
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			the moral morality in the in the communities?
		
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			Morality on this earth
		
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			is one of the measures is
		
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			that there has to be rules
		
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			in the interaction between the two genders
		
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			and how the genders, especially the women,
		
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			dress
		
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			to keep this morality,
		
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			to keep this beautiful earth that Allah Subhanahu
		
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			Wa Ta'ala make us as representative of Him.
		
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			The conduct on this earth should be the
		
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			way that pleases Allah, Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. May
		
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			Allah make it easy for all of us
		
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			and may Allah, Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala, teach us
		
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			and make us understand and make it easy
		
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			for us to practice it.