Haifaa Younis – Surah Al Kahf – P4 – The story of the man who owned two sumptuous gardens

Haifaa Younis
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The speaker encourages parents to teach their children not to take advantage of social gatherings and not say no to them. They stress the importance of practicing religion for personal growth and personal development, and warn against being bullied or embarrassed by others. The speaker emphasizes the importance of testing one's wealth and goals to determine one's success and personal development, and discusses various tests and tests that can be taken to determine one's success. They also touch on the "verbal" aspect of Islam and the "weird reality" of life, including personal experiences and success. Finally, they remind people to read the Quran and not say the truth and discuss the importance of changing and being on the side.
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May Allah reward you for coming.

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I think maybe I don't think next week,

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but the week after we're gonna move it

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to after Ma'arib because Ma'arib is coming back

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later, earlier earlier. And we wanna do at

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least a 45 minutes

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class.

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So maybe not next week, probably the week

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after. That's number 1. Number 2, I want

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everyone today after the class, even if you're

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not praying Ma'rib, if you are not praying

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Ma'rib, then I want you to all head

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to the next building and go up to

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the 2nd floor of an open house for

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the Jannah Center. We opened

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We started yesterday

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with a youth class. I can't tell you

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what this youth class did to me.

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The youth of this community, at least the

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one I met, they are amazing. They really

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wanna learn, but they need a lot of

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learning.

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I can't say many things because we are

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live, but I was little bit more than

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just surprised.

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I think we mothers, all of us, really,

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you need to teach your children.

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If you don't teach them, who's gonna teach

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them?

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If at 12 and 13 and 14 and

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15 and 16,

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the girl doesn't know what are the 6

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pillars of iman,

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You can imagine.

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They were beautiful. They were so attentive. 3

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hours, subhanallah.

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We didn't, today it it's like we normally

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take breaks bet in between. We didn't and

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I didn't pay attention and nobody said no,

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and nobody was huffing, puffing,

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but we really need mothers.

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I my advice to everybody, especially in this

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in this community,

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make sure on a weekend,

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say no to the social gathering.

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Sit down with your children and teach them.

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There is only a very

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I call it a bright window

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or a gold window. Once you miss it,

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it's done.

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Once they go to college,

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that is it.

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And I'm saying this not to scare you,

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but because I really get a lot of

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emails, I counsel youth,

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what I'm hearing and what I'm seeing literally,

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Yeshiva lahu waidan,

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the youth will have gray hair.

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So all the mothers here,

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don't assume your children knows. They don't.

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And unless you sit down, and if you

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don't know that's

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even the the the disaster is even more.

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Sit down with your children one day a

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week on the weekend for those of you

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who work,

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and don't say no to every social gathering.

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You don't have to see everybody you know

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every week,

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and sit down with them

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and get a book

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and teach them.

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I was shocked what I found.

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Honestly, I was shocked,

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And these are, like, the best of the

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best.

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And where do they learn?

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And where do the children learn from in

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this country?

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The school?

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The street?

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TV?

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Social media? Who's gonna teach them?

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Right?

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So and and don't assume, may Allah, alhamdulillah,

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we have Sunday school, but Sunday school is

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only 3 hours a week.

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What will they teach to them in 3

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hours a week?

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3 hours I'm doing 3 hours, 3 hours

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for 5 days, and I just gave them

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the tip of the ice.

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Tip of the ice just like barely,

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barely.

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Same thing today with the Quran,

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and they are not not interested. That's what

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I that's why I'm saying this. They're absolutely

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interested.

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And we had interactive. Our 9 year old,

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I brought her as a listener today

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yesterday, and today, she request to be in

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the first row

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taking notes

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and answering, and finally she asked me questions.

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So what does that tell me and you?

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Yeah. They wanna learn. But if you don't

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know or you know but you you don't

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put the effort and you put the effort

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for everything else except teaching your, and I'm

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talking about the girls, and the same apply

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for the boys.

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Who's gonna teach them?

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So, please, I'm begging you.

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You don't want your daughter as at age

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18 or 19 don't believe in Allah, and

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don't say it's not gonna happen to my

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daughter.

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I have seen it in the best families.

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So, alhamdulillah, Allah is always send us what?

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Send us? Mornings.

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Mornings, send us messages,

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send us reminders.

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Put more effort

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to teach your children than anything else.

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What is the point if the child become

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the most successful

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in career, she or a he, and they

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don't know Allah?

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What is the point?

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Who's gonna pray for you after you die?

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Who's gonna make dua for you after you

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die?

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Nobody,

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not

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because they don't know. I asked them today,

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do you who's number 1? Do you love

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your parents? Everybody raised her hand,

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but they just don't know.

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So, please, I'm begging you. Put efforts. You're

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nodding your head because you grew up in

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this country, and you grew up in a

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much better time than now. Right? We have

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talked about this many times. Dina so most

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of you know Dina. Right?

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And she grew up in a much better

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time.

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Right?

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And still

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she wished she have learned things, and may

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Allah reward the parents.

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And there was no

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Internet, no social media, TikTok, all the

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the beauty that we are seeing. So anyway,

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I had to share this with you

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because it is something Allah showed me I

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have to share with you, and these are

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our daughters. They are not mine personally, but

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they are mine.

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Meaning

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Allah put them in my path,

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so please work on that. And I said

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one day a week forget social gathering.

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Even go out with them, mother, daughter, dinner,

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ice cream, whatever. But in that go going

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out,

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there has to be something to be to

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teach them

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why they should be a Muslim, why they

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should should they be a practicing Muslim?

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I'm not talking about practicing Muslim, and now

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I'm talking about Muslim.

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Jazakumullah kaynah, please forgive me, but I just

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felt I had to share it with you

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because this was 2 days now.

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Again, they are amazing. They all showed up

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today. I thought nobody will show up today.

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They all showed up half of them before

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10 o'clock. I was like,

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And I didn't even give them chocolate.

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I had I didn't.

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I mean, I just forgot basically.

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So let's go and continue with Surat Al

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Kahf.

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So what we said Suratul Kahf just to,

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cap off from last

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week. It's a chapter that Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala taught us that we need to read

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it every Friday, not because it's just a

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chapter from the Quran because there's so many

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other chapters in the Quran, simply because there

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is messages for us, tests we're gonna go

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through, trials we're gonna go through, and we

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need to see which one applies to me.

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Sometimes all of them, sometimes one week this,

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one week that.

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So the first test we said was the

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test of,

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which I just shared with you, religion.

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Test of religion is the biggest one.

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Religion in general is beautiful, but unless you

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know it.

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Challenging.

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Absolutely. You're gonna be the only one.

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You're gonna be different from everybody else. Everyone

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will look at you. 9 year old asked

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me again today.

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Don't you feel uncomfortable when everyone everyone looks

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at you?

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9 year old.

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And I said no.

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She smiled. I'll know what the smile mean.

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So religion,

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practicing it,

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acknowledging it,

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announcing it is something challenging.

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And what should we do? Who remember what

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was the message from Allah

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to stay strong in this deen? Was what

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the message after the story of the cave?

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The the youth of the cave, what was

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the message? What did he tell Rasul alaihi

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sallahu salaam

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surround yourself by the right company, ma'aladhinayadoona

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rabbom bilgadati walaashi' Those who remember Allah, remember

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the deen, wants to learn, when they make

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a mistake they acknowledge it and ask Allah

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for forgiveness and move on.

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3rd,

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don't look around.

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And she's she has this, her house is

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bigger, her husband bought her this, and that's

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actually what is coming to the youth.

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Again, the 9 year old today said this

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to me. I was bullied in school. I

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asked them, we were talking about bullying.

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And she raised her hand, and I said,

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you were bullied in school? Islamic school.

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And she said, yeah. 9 year old. And

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I said, why is that?

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Imagine,

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9 year old boy said to her, you're

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poor.

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And I said, why is that? I know

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the family. They are not anything but poor.

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Look at this. Who taught this 9 year

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old boy this?

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Oh, your mom drives a van,

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and you are poor, and it hurts the

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girl.

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I thank you.

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So this is what we have to do.

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The test is big again.

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So

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surround yourself with the people who remind you

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of the akhirah. Don't surround your peep yourself

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with the people who just because they speak

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the same language or they eat the same

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food

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or they have the same culture. No. The

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people who I feel and I should feel

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comfortable because they bring me closer to Allah

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and my deen, and help me on my

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weaknesses.

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Help me with my weaknesses.

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Don't look at the people who are better

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than you because you want the beauty of

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this dunya.

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And do not follow and obey

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those who are heedless

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and follow their own desires.

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So remember these 5, and it's not remember,

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apply it in your daily life.

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What are you gonna do this weekend? Who

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you are gonna be meeting?

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When why you are meeting them?

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Is it really the Haqq of the Muslim

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or without the disobedience of Allah? And this

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applies to everybody, by the way, the youth,

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the adults.

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Then next come to the biggest test. What

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is the second test? We all tested every

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single day or at least once in our

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life or maybe once a year is the

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test of money,

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wealth.

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Everybody

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wants to be rich,

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and it's amazing.

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Well, everybody wants to be in

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30 under 30.

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You know what this is?

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If you don't

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wants to be in that list.

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There is 30 under 30, 40 under 40,

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and 50 under 50. And if you mothers

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don't know what I'm talking about, you need

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to

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wake up

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and learn what is happening in this country.

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30 or below 30 is those are the

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most successful

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people, she or a he, who their age

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is less than 30 and Forbes Magazine every

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year comes up with

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this list.

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30 people

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under 30 who made it to that list,

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usually rich people.

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Not because they were hijab, not because they

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went for Hajj and Umrah, not because they

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mama'rah's Quran. That's not they put them, and

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all the youth wants to be on that

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list.

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The 40 is 40 people below 40, and

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50 is 50 people below below 50. Test

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of wealth.

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And we all

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are,

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but we have different interests.

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Cars

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may Jewelry

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is

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not a big thing for some women, but

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not everybody.

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Homes, everyone.

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Compete.

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You're still living in a rental house?

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Oh, you have only 3 bedroom?

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Oh, your house is in this area?

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And we say it in this way.

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We we all do. We all do. If

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we don't say it out of

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being courteous and we don't want to hurt

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people, we say it.

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And this is exactly what Allah said, wudriblahum

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And this is a parable. Parables of the

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Quran is a lot of lessons we learned

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from it. I did a whole retreat about

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the parables of the Quran. One day inshaAllah

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He will do it for you. When Allah

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says wadduriblahum,

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that's give them an example.

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And the example sometimes is true. It's it's

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stories happen and sometimes it is not,

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and in this,

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he started by this and the lesson at

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the end, the same word.

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So 2 people,

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2 men.

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They say they were brothers,

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and some says they were 2 people from

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Bani Israel. They we don't have a strong

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evidence to say which is which. The poor

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the 2 brothers at the time of Rasul

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alaihi salatu wa sallam, one of them is

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Abu Salama, if you know, The wife, the

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husband of Ummul Salama.

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The one of the wives of Rasul alaihi

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salatu wa sallam, who died, and then she

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married Rasul alaihis salatu wa sallam, the woman

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who was so sad that she lost her

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husband and he gave her the famous dua.

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Who knows that dua?

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She loved Abu Salamah.

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Loved Abu Salam, and she went to him

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literally, she loved him, and I just can't

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imagine who's Abu Salam.

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And he died, and she felt so down.

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She went to him.

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The meaning of it's becoming too hard on

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me, and he said, I'm gonna teach you

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a dua. You Allah reward me for my

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calamity

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and replace it with better,

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and he replaced Abu Salam with a Rasool

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alaihi wa sallam.

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Who's better?

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The best.

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The best. I'm not gonna say make this

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dua because there's no less right, but

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if Allah

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test us with this test, then that's what

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you come to. Anyway, so the 22 men,

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this could be any any 2 of us.

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Any 2 of us. 2 brothers.

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Right? 2 sisters, 2 friends, 2 in laws.

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Any 2.

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What is these 2? 1 is rich.

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One is less

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rich.

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And look at the word Allah says, we

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gave Allah. I didn't do it. I didn't

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work hard.

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Allah didn't say he worked hard and he

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had. He said, we made for him. What

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did Allah gave them?

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2 gardens.

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1 of them.

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2 gardens.

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From what?

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Gardens. From what?

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Which is vine grapes.

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Right? I need you to imagine it.

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Surround it completely with palm trees.

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And in between so here you go. Imagine

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that you're going to

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any yard, any backyard,

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or any park, and what are you gonna

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see? You're gonna see the vine, grape, vines,

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and you have you're gonna see a big,

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huge palm trees, and there is an open

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area

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vegetations. We don't know what it is. Right?

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One of them brought a lot of fruits,

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flowers, beauty, add to it always is what

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you need to see some water.

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Right?

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And Allah says, and in between one of

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them,

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we made the water comes from below. Like,

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was like

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explode.

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Okay. Fine. Now I don't have 2 gardens.

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I don't have river going,

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but what do we have?

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Wait.

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What do we have? Station. Yeah. What do

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we have? We have homes.

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We have cars.

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We have material things,

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jewelry,

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dress.

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Why everyone is crazy about carrying

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brand

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name purse?

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Stagmus.

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What are you telling people? I'm rich.

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Why everyone, especially

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certain parts of the world, they judge you

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by the

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watch, walilah alhamnah, there's Apple Watch,

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and I am dying for an Apple

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or whatever comes in to become a book,

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right? So this is how it is.

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The the parable Allah is giving is not

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about 2 gardens.

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It is these

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2

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obvious signs of wealth,

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obvious something you see,

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obvious signs of wealth.

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So this is your home. You build the

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house,

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the dream house,

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and you furnished it, and it's so beautiful,

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and you enter.

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That's exactly what Allah said.

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But He described him before

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he tell told us what he said. Wahuwahbalimulinafsih.

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He entered in his fourth arrogance.

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He's making in he's being or acting as

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an injustice here. There's nobody else.

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To himself, full of arrogance.

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I did it.

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My children went to the best university.

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Oh, we

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worked so hard to get this house.

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Finally, I got my dream card. Do you

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wanna see it?

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Why?

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He entered

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looking.

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This is beautiful.

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This will never disappear.

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And I do not think

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this will end or there is even a

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day of judgment.

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And then look at the arrogance add to

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it.

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And if

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if

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big if.

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I am gonna go back to my lord.

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I am gonna get better than this.

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I'm gonna find even better than that. Why?

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Did Allah send him a message?

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Did Allah send text message to him, says,

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you know what? Don't worry. This is beautiful,

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but there's much better?

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Because that's one of the main

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misconceptions

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everybody has.

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If Allah gives me

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the wealth of this duniya, that means he

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loves me,

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and I'm gonna get better when I go

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back.

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Live in your

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la la land

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and live in your dream.

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If this old dunya that we are fighting

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and we are bragging and we are doing,

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all of it, not I'm talking about

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the Irvine, I'm talking about the United States

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or California. I'm talking about all this dunya.

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If it was in the sight of Allah

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worth the wing of a mosquito, not the

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mosquito. You know the mosquito?

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The wing of it, he would not have

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given

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the ka'a for the disbeliever a soup of

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water.

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So if he is giving all those who

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don't believe in him, reject him, all this

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dunya, there is nothing to do with love.

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But this man thought like many think when

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Allah gives me the dunya, this beautiful garden

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gardens its 2,

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that's you know what?

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I'm so proud. I'm better than everybody.

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He loves me. He gave it to me.

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And when I go back, he will give

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me better.

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The friend, they both entered. The friend or

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the brother entered.

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He didn't say, no. I wanna hear this.

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You're arrogant.

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In the Arabic language mean I'm discussing.

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I'm not arguing. He didn't say

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He said

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meaning, let me tell you my opinion,

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right,

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versus you're wrong. I'm gonna tell you.

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That's the argument. Okay. What did he say?

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2 things.

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Are you

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are you kafartuna?

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Literally, are you rejecting?

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The way the one look what he how

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he made because

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the statement of the rich man was full

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of arrogance. He brought him back to reality

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brought him back to reality, and he said,

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are you rejecting

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the one

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who created you? You didn't say Allah

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because that man is full of arrogance. The

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word Allah is not gonna move much in

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his heart.

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But reality,

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the one who created you from what?

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Dust. Halakha coming torab. Dust meaning you came

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originally from Adam. Tumma min notfar. What is

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notfar? Spoiled,

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sperm, and

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Tomasawaka

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rajula.

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He didn't say you became a man. He

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made you a man. This reminds me a

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very nice story, It's usually mentioned when people

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talk about arrogance. Hasan al Basri was in

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Basra,

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and he was sitting

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surrounded by people. And then

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the entourage

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of a prince came in

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in front of him,

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and everybody stood up

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except him.

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And the prince was so annoyed,

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and he looked at him and says, don't

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you know who I am?

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And I wish I was al Hassan Basri

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all the time so I have the right

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answer.

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Look what he said. He said, of course

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I do,

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But he didn't put him down.

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I was like, you know, I know who

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you are, but I'm not getting up for

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you

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because that's another arrogance.

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But he made him remember who is he.

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He said,

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You are but started

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as a spoiled sperm.

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Wasitakunujifatungqadira,

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and you will end up to be

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a stingy or like

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a foul smell corpse.

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And in between the beginning and the end,

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you're carrying feces.

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True or false?

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He did not lie.

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He said reality.

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That's all of us. Basically, he was telling

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him, what is this all about?

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This

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same story, he reminded him, and this is

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what I say to everybody because because quebir

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arrogance comes to all of us.

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Don't tell me you are not.

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Don't tell me you are not.

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I hear it

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not clearly,

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but it's indirectly.

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Oh, this Masjid of this.

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The Masjid of this nationality

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attend.

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And

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and

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that's kibir.

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That's arrogance.

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We say it.

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Oh, it changed. It's become the people who

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whatever, and you put a title.

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That's arrogance.

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I always say to myself Allah knows all

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of them and much better than you.

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So here you always have when this feeling

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comes in, the youth,

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the adult, us, it comes inside us.

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Remember where did you start,

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and think of a grave and where you

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will end.

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It doesn't matter who you are, what money

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you have. Where is Steve Job?

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That's

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everyone now carries the phone.

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He didn't even see his dream.

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He said it. He said, one day, I

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want to see every person on this earth

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carrying a phone. People laughed at him.

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Well, it became true,

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but where is he?

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How much money?

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Where is it? Who's enjoying it?

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That's what he said to him. Khalakha kamin

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Torabi, kumaminotwatin,

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kummasawaka

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rajula.

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You basically were nothing, dust,

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spoiled,

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sperm, and

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you became a man.

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Lakinahuallahu

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rubi.

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Now he's talking about himself. He's not praising

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himself. Oh, you don't know the family I

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come from. Oh, when I was back home,

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if you only know what I had.

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No. This is what we are. Well, I

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we're laughing, but it's true. It's it's painful

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laugh. It's painful reality,

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painful reality.

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Laqin nahuallahu rabi. See he didn't say anything

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about himself.

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That's how we should all answer.

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Allah is my Lord and I'm not going

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to associate anything with him.

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Meaning not human being, nothing,

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Neither my wealth or my knowledge or my

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beauty or my family or my status.

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Nothing. He's there and I am here.

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Then he gives him the advice.

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Why didn't you

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when you entered your garden and you like

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it? He doesn't say, what is the big

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deal? It's just a, you know, it's just

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a garden. No. He acknowledged it's beautiful,

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and it is something. Why didn't you when

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you entered,

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kultasad,

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the one that we all have to say

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Masha'Allah

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lahuwata

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illa billa. There's 2 things

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when you see something you like

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related to you, not to somebody else,

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related to you. Right? Let's say your daughter

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the day of wedding.

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She's beautiful. Masha'Allah.

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Right?

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So we all know what Masha'Allah means because

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we all use it

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Meaning, Allah allowed it. But

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why?

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No power but from Allah.

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Meaning,

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what? Why did he say it to him?

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If you didn't do a thing because you

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don't have a power, Allah has the power.

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Allah gave you the education. Allah gave you

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the children. Allah gave you the spouse. Allah

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gave you everything we have. It's only from

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Allah, and he will take it in a

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second, and that's what this story remind us.

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He acknowledged. He was not ashamed

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to be poor.

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He was not ashamed to know nothing.

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You are you're bragging

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because I am less have less children, and

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I have less money.

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And this is what I say all the

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time to the ladies. Don't feel sad you

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don't have children.

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Allah did not allow it.

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You're not better than sayida Aisha.

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Right? And if Allah did not

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put in your destiny to get married, he's

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using you for something else.

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Don't compare yourself with the other. Don't look.

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Don't look at other people. You say, you

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Allah, you took this away from me. You

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gave it to somebody else. There's a hikmah.

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There's a wisdom. Show me.

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Girls become 29 and 30. They become anxious.

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And when also I'm not married,

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do your best. I'm not saying don't get

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married. Sunnah, absolutely.

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But don't feel down.

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I'm not married yet. You know what? Keep

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asking Allah.

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Keep asking Allah. Do your best, but don't

00:29:14 --> 00:29:15

look down at yourself.

00:29:18 --> 00:29:19

He acknowledged.

00:29:20 --> 00:29:20

I'm less

00:29:21 --> 00:29:22

I'm less fortunate.

00:29:23 --> 00:29:24

Fortunate.

00:29:24 --> 00:29:26

I have less money and children.

00:29:27 --> 00:29:28

If you say it in a way,

00:29:35 --> 00:29:36

When you think

00:29:36 --> 00:29:38

well about Allah because what did he say

00:29:38 --> 00:29:39

afterward?

00:29:40 --> 00:29:41

What?

00:29:42 --> 00:29:44

You see I'm less than you.

00:29:48 --> 00:29:49

Allah can give me

00:29:50 --> 00:29:51

better than yours

00:29:55 --> 00:29:57

and He can send

00:29:58 --> 00:29:58

thunders,

00:29:59 --> 00:29:59

storms

00:30:00 --> 00:30:01

from the sky.

00:30:04 --> 00:30:05

It is gonna become nothing.

00:30:07 --> 00:30:08

What is the next one?

00:30:10 --> 00:30:12

Immediately, what he said happened.

00:30:16 --> 00:30:17

Absolutely.

00:30:19 --> 00:30:22

That's what happened. Everything that was beautiful in

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that garden,

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gone.

00:30:26 --> 00:30:26

It's

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a figure of speech we used in the

00:30:29 --> 00:30:31

Arab world, very common. I don't know if

00:30:31 --> 00:30:33

you used in other cultures, but I have

00:30:33 --> 00:30:35

nothing. That's what we say. That's where it

00:30:35 --> 00:30:36

came from.

00:30:36 --> 00:30:38

We say everything gone.

00:30:38 --> 00:30:39

That's actually from here.

00:30:43 --> 00:30:46

He's feeling so bad and down. I put

00:30:46 --> 00:30:48

my energy. I put my time. I put

00:30:48 --> 00:30:49

my life.

00:30:50 --> 00:30:51

I put my money.

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Now it's too late.

00:31:06 --> 00:31:07

Why did he say I wish I did

00:31:07 --> 00:31:08

not

00:31:08 --> 00:31:10

worship anyone with Allah?

00:31:10 --> 00:31:12

It was nothing about worship.

00:31:12 --> 00:31:13

It was all about Jannah.

00:31:16 --> 00:31:17

Why? Let's see how much you know.

00:31:18 --> 00:31:20

You all have read Surat Al Kah every

00:31:20 --> 00:31:21

Friday.

00:31:21 --> 00:31:23

I hear it when I go for Jum'ah.

00:31:23 --> 00:31:24

Everybody is reading it beautifully.

00:31:25 --> 00:31:27

Why did he say La Ushriqubirabi'ahad?

00:31:28 --> 00:31:30

He was not he didn't get to the

00:31:30 --> 00:31:32

gen to the garden and he was worshiping.

00:31:33 --> 00:31:34

Why he said,

00:31:35 --> 00:31:37

that's it. I am not gonna associate.

00:31:39 --> 00:31:42

What yeah. It's it's arrogance, but why?

00:31:44 --> 00:31:45

Yeah.

00:31:48 --> 00:31:50

But why arrogance is shook is shook?

00:31:51 --> 00:31:52

Because you associate

00:31:54 --> 00:31:55

you

00:31:55 --> 00:31:56

associate

00:31:57 --> 00:31:58

your energy, your power,

00:31:59 --> 00:31:59

your planning.

00:32:00 --> 00:32:01

I did it

00:32:03 --> 00:32:03

with Allah.

00:32:04 --> 00:32:06

You didn't say Alhamdulillah

00:32:06 --> 00:32:09

Allah gave me the energy. Alhamdulillah Allah put

00:32:09 --> 00:32:11

barakah in my efforts. Alhamdulillah

00:32:12 --> 00:32:14

I did nothing. It's all came from Allah

00:32:18 --> 00:32:20

This is what we all

00:32:24 --> 00:32:25

We are all

00:32:26 --> 00:32:27

worship one god. But

00:32:30 --> 00:32:31

my daily

00:32:31 --> 00:32:31

basis,

00:32:33 --> 00:32:36

my daily life, what I apply, what I

00:32:36 --> 00:32:39

say, how I judge the others. See. He

00:32:39 --> 00:32:41

worked very hard and see where he was

00:32:41 --> 00:32:42

or where he is.

00:32:43 --> 00:32:44

He did work very hard or she did

00:32:44 --> 00:32:47

work very hard. You cannot not say this.

00:32:47 --> 00:32:48

Or what do you have to add?

00:32:49 --> 00:32:50

And Allah put barakah

00:32:51 --> 00:32:53

in their effort, then you did not associate

00:32:53 --> 00:32:54

anything.

00:32:56 --> 00:32:59

And Allah and then Allah says the following.

00:33:06 --> 00:33:07

Once you lose everything,

00:33:08 --> 00:33:09

it's so painful reality,

00:33:11 --> 00:33:13

everybody will run away from you.

00:33:16 --> 00:33:18

Those people who were so much in love

00:33:18 --> 00:33:20

with you, those people who was like, I'm

00:33:20 --> 00:33:20

your friend

00:33:21 --> 00:33:23

and wait till you lose it.

00:33:23 --> 00:33:25

And that's why don't you rely on anybody.

00:33:26 --> 00:33:28

And don't you say when I know they

00:33:28 --> 00:33:30

were there for me when I need them.

00:33:30 --> 00:33:32

I'll wait till you see if they are

00:33:32 --> 00:33:33

really there for you when you need them.

00:33:35 --> 00:33:38

And many things in this life, we're living

00:33:38 --> 00:33:39

it every single day.

00:33:39 --> 00:33:40

It's showing us

00:33:41 --> 00:33:43

how some people are left completely alone.

00:33:45 --> 00:33:45

SubhanAllah,

00:33:46 --> 00:33:47

and the famous

00:33:47 --> 00:33:49

Syrian statement Malin alayr Allah,

00:33:50 --> 00:33:52

we have nothing but Allah, but we don't

00:33:52 --> 00:33:55

say till people don't come for our help.

00:33:55 --> 00:33:57

It should be from the beginning, malana ghayra

00:33:57 --> 00:33:58

Allah.

00:33:59 --> 00:34:01

Allah will send people to help me. Allah

00:34:01 --> 00:34:03

will keep my friends close to me.

00:34:04 --> 00:34:06

Allah will bring me back whatever I lost.

00:34:06 --> 00:34:07

Allah will bring it back.

00:34:09 --> 00:34:11

Now look at the next one. Let's see

00:34:11 --> 00:34:13

if you're gonna know why Allah said this.

00:34:13 --> 00:34:14

The story is

00:34:15 --> 00:34:17

done. The story is done. Halas. That's it.

00:34:18 --> 00:34:19

Okay. What did I

00:34:24 --> 00:34:25

learn? Now the message

00:34:26 --> 00:34:28

of this story because many people don't know

00:34:28 --> 00:34:30

if it's really a true story.

00:34:32 --> 00:34:32

Tell them

00:34:34 --> 00:34:34

that

00:34:36 --> 00:34:37

of this life.

00:34:38 --> 00:34:39

What is it, You Rabbi? It's

00:34:41 --> 00:34:42

rain.

00:34:42 --> 00:34:44

We send Allahu Akbar. We send it down

00:34:44 --> 00:34:46

from the sky.

00:34:48 --> 00:34:50

Okay. You all see it.

00:34:51 --> 00:34:52

The earth or the dirt

00:34:53 --> 00:34:54

and becomes what?

00:35:01 --> 00:35:04

Right? But immediately, in another one I'll I'll

00:35:04 --> 00:35:06

share it with you, newness. Here immediately says,

00:35:11 --> 00:35:13

You live it here almost every August. So

00:35:13 --> 00:35:15

far we didn't have it this year.

00:35:15 --> 00:35:16

What what is it?

00:35:18 --> 00:35:20

The rate? No.

00:35:20 --> 00:35:23

We get it almost every August. So far

00:35:23 --> 00:35:25

we didn't get it. Yes. The wildfires.

00:35:27 --> 00:35:29

You see it.

00:35:30 --> 00:35:30

You drive

00:35:31 --> 00:35:32

in April,

00:35:33 --> 00:35:34

in May

00:35:35 --> 00:35:37

and you see all these mountains full of

00:35:37 --> 00:35:39

grain, especially when there's a lot of rain,

00:35:40 --> 00:35:41

and it's so beautiful.

00:35:41 --> 00:35:43

True or false? Very beautiful.

00:35:44 --> 00:35:47

You keep saying, you Rabbi how beautiful, especially

00:35:47 --> 00:35:48

if you drive on 241

00:35:49 --> 00:35:51

and you go towards corona

00:35:51 --> 00:35:53

and it rains the day before or 2

00:35:53 --> 00:35:56

days before, it is beyond your imagination.

00:35:56 --> 00:35:57

Wait till now,

00:35:58 --> 00:36:00

and you drive the same,

00:36:00 --> 00:36:01

and it is dry.

00:36:03 --> 00:36:04

No color.

00:36:11 --> 00:36:13

In another verse, you notice

00:36:13 --> 00:36:15

much more in detail.

00:36:20 --> 00:36:21

So very similar,

00:36:21 --> 00:36:22

and then

00:36:31 --> 00:36:32

Wait. Wait. Wait. Wait.

00:36:33 --> 00:36:35

One person, raise your hand and say it.

00:36:40 --> 00:36:41

Right.

00:36:42 --> 00:36:42

So

00:36:43 --> 00:36:44

the same beginning,

00:36:47 --> 00:36:48

and the Yunus

00:36:50 --> 00:36:52

Doesn't matter. Parable of this life, rain came

00:36:52 --> 00:36:52

in,

00:36:53 --> 00:36:54

mixed with

00:36:55 --> 00:36:56

the with the ground,

00:36:56 --> 00:36:57

and then immediately

00:36:58 --> 00:37:00

became ashes. Yeah. In Eunice, he gave you

00:37:00 --> 00:37:01

the details.

00:37:02 --> 00:37:04

Now what happens? Now

00:37:04 --> 00:37:05

comes out

00:37:07 --> 00:37:09

and comes out. The animals are eating.

00:37:10 --> 00:37:11

Now look at this one.

00:37:12 --> 00:37:13

This is the only place here.

00:37:17 --> 00:37:20

When the earth becomes so green with zayenet,

00:37:20 --> 00:37:21

you know what zayenet? Zeenet.

00:37:21 --> 00:37:22

Beautiful.

00:37:23 --> 00:37:25

Like when we when when the woman beautify

00:37:25 --> 00:37:26

herself.

00:37:32 --> 00:37:34

And now people become so comfortable.

00:37:34 --> 00:37:35

That's my house.

00:37:36 --> 00:37:38

That's my car. That's my wealth. I look

00:37:38 --> 00:37:40

at the bank account. I know what is

00:37:40 --> 00:37:42

the numbers are, and I feel so good.

00:37:45 --> 00:37:47

Our decree came.

00:37:49 --> 00:37:51

In the day or in the night.

00:37:56 --> 00:37:57

We made it ashes,

00:37:58 --> 00:38:00

nothing, as if it was not the day

00:38:00 --> 00:38:00

before,

00:38:01 --> 00:38:03

the beauty you have seen.

00:38:03 --> 00:38:05

And then Allah ended up with kalarika nohuslidul

00:38:06 --> 00:38:08

aati yaqawmiya tafakkurun.

00:38:08 --> 00:38:09

We

00:38:10 --> 00:38:10

detail

00:38:11 --> 00:38:13

the signs that you live in,

00:38:13 --> 00:38:16

but only those who reflect will learn.

00:38:17 --> 00:38:18

How many of us

00:38:19 --> 00:38:19

drive

00:38:20 --> 00:38:21

in this beauty?

00:38:22 --> 00:38:23

You go to the beach,

00:38:24 --> 00:38:25

beautiful,

00:38:25 --> 00:38:27

and you look at the from the beach

00:38:27 --> 00:38:29

and you look at the shore and you

00:38:29 --> 00:38:30

look at the waves.

00:38:31 --> 00:38:33

Now how many of you remember tsunami

00:38:34 --> 00:38:36

and how Allah destroyed it

00:38:38 --> 00:38:39

in 5 seconds?

00:38:39 --> 00:38:40

I remember so well

00:38:41 --> 00:38:41

the earthquake

00:38:42 --> 00:38:43

in Japan.

00:38:43 --> 00:38:46

The earthquake in Japan because I was in

00:38:46 --> 00:38:48

Saudi, and they were showing it as it

00:38:48 --> 00:38:49

is happening.

00:38:51 --> 00:38:51

Literally,

00:38:52 --> 00:38:54

the tsunami comes. You don't know where it's

00:38:54 --> 00:38:56

gonna go. There's, like, 5 or 10 homes.

00:38:56 --> 00:38:58

It's gonna hit this 1 or it's gonna

00:38:58 --> 00:39:00

hit this 1. Hits these homes, the other

00:39:00 --> 00:39:01

stays

00:39:01 --> 00:39:02

The car I remember there was like 3

00:39:02 --> 00:39:05

cars 1 2 moving moving with the and

00:39:05 --> 00:39:06

the other is

00:39:07 --> 00:39:09

The Masjid Allah is telling us,

00:39:10 --> 00:39:11

and then when He talks about the dunya,

00:39:12 --> 00:39:14

right? What does He send? And then afterward?

00:39:16 --> 00:39:17

Allah

00:39:17 --> 00:39:17

almaaluwalbanu

00:39:19 --> 00:39:20

zeenatul hayatul dunya

00:39:22 --> 00:39:23

He put 2 things

00:39:24 --> 00:39:24

we

00:39:25 --> 00:39:26

are so worried about.

00:39:28 --> 00:39:30

We put all our energy for it.

00:39:31 --> 00:39:32

We fight each other.

00:39:33 --> 00:39:35

We disobey Allah

00:39:36 --> 00:39:38

for it, and there are 2,

00:39:39 --> 00:39:40

wealth and children.

00:39:41 --> 00:39:43

And he didn't say it is not beautiful.

00:39:44 --> 00:39:45

That's what I love what Allah Subhanahu Wa

00:39:45 --> 00:39:48

Ta'ala say in the Quran. He didn't deny

00:39:48 --> 00:39:50

it, he didn't say what are you talking

00:39:50 --> 00:39:52

about? You shouldn't feel it, now I feel

00:39:52 --> 00:39:53

it, I love it,

00:39:53 --> 00:39:54

It's beautiful.

00:39:54 --> 00:39:56

I love it when I see my child,

00:39:56 --> 00:39:57

masha'Allah Tabarakalalaqoo

00:39:58 --> 00:39:58

wa ta'ilabla,

00:39:59 --> 00:40:01

very successful, she or he.

00:40:02 --> 00:40:03

He said,

00:40:04 --> 00:40:04

is

00:40:05 --> 00:40:07

the beauty of this world.

00:40:07 --> 00:40:09

Don't deny it. Don't say I don't care.

00:40:09 --> 00:40:10

You're not saying the truth.

00:40:12 --> 00:40:13

But then he remind you.

00:40:22 --> 00:40:23

What is albaqiyatos

00:40:23 --> 00:40:25

salihat? If you translate it before we say

00:40:25 --> 00:40:26

the meaning, albaqiyatos

00:40:27 --> 00:40:30

salihat is the good that will last forever.

00:40:31 --> 00:40:34

Al Bakliya something Bakli is something that is

00:40:34 --> 00:40:35

staying,

00:40:35 --> 00:40:37

and he said those

00:40:38 --> 00:40:39

the good thing that will stay, he didn't

00:40:39 --> 00:40:40

say what it is.

00:40:43 --> 00:40:44

You will get way more reward

00:40:45 --> 00:40:46

of these

00:40:48 --> 00:40:50

What is the sorry?

00:40:53 --> 00:40:54

Scholars differed.

00:40:55 --> 00:40:58

Scholars differed what they are. But in general,

00:40:58 --> 00:40:59

it is

00:40:59 --> 00:41:00

dhikr of Allah.

00:41:01 --> 00:41:04

That's general agreement. It's dhikr of Allah. Most

00:41:04 --> 00:41:05

they say is

00:41:09 --> 00:41:11

How many of us

00:41:12 --> 00:41:13

in a day,

00:41:14 --> 00:41:15

one day, 24 hours,

00:41:16 --> 00:41:17

will say it once?

00:41:17 --> 00:41:19

Don't raise your hand. I don't wanna know.

00:41:20 --> 00:41:22

It's not about asking you and showing. It's

00:41:22 --> 00:41:22

about

00:41:23 --> 00:41:24

reflecting,

00:41:25 --> 00:41:28

and he's telling you and me, almanu albanoon.

00:41:28 --> 00:41:30

I put all my energy, all my life

00:41:31 --> 00:41:31

for the children,

00:41:33 --> 00:41:34

and all this

00:41:34 --> 00:41:37

in the sight of Allah is nothing

00:41:37 --> 00:41:38

other than

00:41:42 --> 00:41:44

I'm gonna stop here because of Maghrib,

00:41:44 --> 00:41:47

and it's not done yet because then there

00:41:47 --> 00:41:49

is about 3 or 4 verses after you

00:41:49 --> 00:41:51

all need. Please read it next to next

00:41:51 --> 00:41:52

week, and tell me why did Allah put

00:41:52 --> 00:41:55

these before he moved to the next one.

00:41:55 --> 00:41:57

This is how we learn the Quran, ladies.

00:41:58 --> 00:42:01

My beautiful sisters, the Quran is not only

00:42:01 --> 00:42:02

to read. Read is amazing.

00:42:03 --> 00:42:05

But if I don't know what it mean

00:42:05 --> 00:42:07

and if I don't know, even if I

00:42:07 --> 00:42:08

know what it mean,

00:42:09 --> 00:42:10

many of you know Arabic, know it's sort

00:42:10 --> 00:42:12

of care, but I don't know how to

00:42:12 --> 00:42:12

apply it.

00:42:14 --> 00:42:16

And I'm so tempted to disobey Allah

00:42:16 --> 00:42:18

because of my child

00:42:18 --> 00:42:20

or because of the wealth,

00:42:21 --> 00:42:22

then I did not read Surat Al Kahf

00:42:22 --> 00:42:23

and learned from

00:42:24 --> 00:42:26

it. That's why he kept reminding me every

00:42:26 --> 00:42:27

Friday, every Friday,

00:42:28 --> 00:42:30

many people do it, but I have to

00:42:30 --> 00:42:32

keep saying, you Allah, what are you telling

00:42:32 --> 00:42:32

me?

00:42:34 --> 00:42:36

It's beautiful surah. Now you're almost every surah

00:42:36 --> 00:42:38

we are studying, it's beautiful. But everyone

00:42:39 --> 00:42:41

come to me in from one angle. Allah

00:42:41 --> 00:42:42

knows my weakness.

00:42:43 --> 00:42:44

Allah knows what I go through.

00:42:45 --> 00:42:48

I literally, I see people disobey publicly because

00:42:48 --> 00:42:48

of their children,

00:42:51 --> 00:42:52

and I don't wanna give examples because I

00:42:52 --> 00:42:54

don't wanna hurt anybody.

00:42:55 --> 00:42:57

But your children will not come to your

00:42:57 --> 00:42:58

avail in the day of

00:43:07 --> 00:43:08

The day that the human being will run

00:43:08 --> 00:43:09

away.

00:43:12 --> 00:43:12

Brother,

00:43:13 --> 00:43:14

siblings.

00:43:15 --> 00:43:17

You'll run away from your mother

00:43:17 --> 00:43:19

and your father, his

00:43:19 --> 00:43:20

spouse,

00:43:20 --> 00:43:21

and your children.

00:43:25 --> 00:43:26

Everyone is worried about themselves.

00:43:28 --> 00:43:28

See this,

00:43:29 --> 00:43:31

and we don't see it in this big

00:43:31 --> 00:43:33

picture. May Allah protect us if there was

00:43:33 --> 00:43:35

an earthquake. There was an earthquake in LA,

00:43:36 --> 00:43:37

right? But it was mild, alhamdulillah,

00:43:38 --> 00:43:38

right?

00:43:39 --> 00:43:41

But when the earthquake happens or when something

00:43:41 --> 00:43:42

major happens,

00:43:43 --> 00:43:44

we run away. We run away from the

00:43:44 --> 00:43:46

house and we run away from all the

00:43:46 --> 00:43:49

things that we disobeyed Allah for. So my

00:43:49 --> 00:43:52

my advice to myself before everyone else, when

00:43:52 --> 00:43:54

you read the Quran, we need to change.

00:43:56 --> 00:43:56

We need to change.

00:44:01 --> 00:44:02

It's not to memorize,

00:44:03 --> 00:44:05

it's a blessed book, we send it to

00:44:05 --> 00:44:08

you so they reflect. Tadabbur is not memorized.

00:44:09 --> 00:44:09

Waliatadakkaraululalgabr

00:44:11 --> 00:44:12

Only those

00:44:12 --> 00:44:13

smart,

00:44:13 --> 00:44:14

wise

00:44:14 --> 00:44:16

will benefit from it. May Allah Subhanahu Wa

00:44:16 --> 00:44:18

Ta'ala make us among them.

00:44:28 --> 00:44:29

2 things if I can ask, and this

00:44:29 --> 00:44:31

is a request from the Quran Institute, if

00:44:31 --> 00:44:34

I everyone who is sitting on a chair,

00:44:34 --> 00:44:35

please just fold the chair and put it

00:44:35 --> 00:44:37

on the windows, Or put it on the

00:44:37 --> 00:44:39

wall because the kids comes in the morning,

00:44:39 --> 00:44:41

they will waste some time to get this

00:44:41 --> 00:44:43

free. So do them a favor. Allah will

00:44:43 --> 00:44:46

reward you. Everybody, just fold it and put

00:44:46 --> 00:44:47

it on the on the wall. But just

00:44:47 --> 00:44:49

be on the side. No

00:44:50 --> 00:44:52

said on the on the on the side.

00:44:52 --> 00:44:52

Put

00:44:53 --> 00:44:55

and then get ready for soda.

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