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			Salam aleikum wa rahmatullah.
		
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			Salam Alikum.
		
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			Smilla will hamdu lillah wa salatu salam ala Rasulillah Salam Alaikum
		
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			Bismillah Alhamdulillah wa salatu salam ala Rasulillah while he was so happy woman Hala Malema and
founder and founder of EMA antenna in academia and would you would do how many hours to becoming a
million fat or poly Beenleigh Yaksha when FC la touchbar where you are in LA you SMA or banana to
SuperLumiNova in Headache Center? Well Hublin amillennial Kurama in Accra and hello hub abstractly
solder us saline Lee Murray washed all of the Tamil rissani of our poly Salam Alaikum everyone can I
have all the youth and everybody who can sit on the floor sit on the floor. So the people who come
late can sit on chairs if they cannot so anyone from the not very youth if you want to sit on the
		
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			floor now will be great. Can everybody hear me hamdulillah Hello blank yes everybody hear me and
hear me well. Okay, if I can make sure I ask everyone. People who have children please make sure I
love to have children in the class. Just make sure you take care of them and number two people in
the back because I can't hear you well upstairs so please make sure you avoid talking if there is
any issue that you're not it's not clear for you just ask me is up from Allah here. So today we will
Alhambra we have a good about 15 minutes which is handler O'Brien Amin
		
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			we're going to start a new series and the new series is
		
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			it's not very clear in the bath. Yeah, because they are talking.
		
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			Exactly.
		
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			Exactly. Okay. I think so maybe a little bit higher level the time Yeah. So what we're going to be
doing today inshallah till
		
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			till mid November the vanilla, where we're going to be after we're taking two
		
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			weeks to announce a sign that we are upstairs.
		
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			Hungry lovin, okay? Anytime there is a new things or changes, we human being, by nature, love to be
in the same place. We don't like changing. But for many reasons, this is way more convenient for
everybody. And if I can ask everyone, make sure you take a lot of good deeds. Don't sit on the side,
make sure everything in the middle is filled. So people who come in, they can don't have to struggle
and pass in front of everybody. So if there is a space here, someone move and make it make room for
the other one. So in sha Allah, starting from today for the next, I think seven weeks, so the middle
of November, we're going to be doing this series, and then mid November we'll have two weeks break
		
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			and then in sha Allah, Allah give us life, we'll come back.
		
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			The series will be I don't know if any one of you have even studied this topic. And the reason I'm
sharing this with you, because I've seen it from woman when I ever whenever I bring up this subject,
people are very astonished as like what is she talking about reading? Is this is what it is. It
makes you wonder how many things we need to learn.
		
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			And there is a beautiful I'm going to start with a poem which I usually don't but this is really
some of you may know it. Exactly chef machete that fast he made a nasheed about it and this poem is
by Abdullah Adnan Movado capital Adnan Mubarak is
		
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			basically later on he came in and he is very famous for having an amazing heart. And you when you
read when you say when you read a statement about Abdullah bin Mubarak and like your heart has to
move this couple of names you will see it as I'm going to take you through this and he said the
following he's talking about sins. And he said right you to do to me to follow but we're yet to our
dealer demand. You have what are called the Nuba higher till Palooza were higher on NFC cards
Yamaha, I'll translate it, I came to know
		
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			this is when you say oh eight in the air in the Arabic language doesn't mean I see it's basically it
become clear to me that sins kills the heart. This is why the title of the of the series. Oh, I need
		
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			please forgive me. I need my charger, Hamed a lot of brand.
		
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			So basically what he's saying is like sins, kills the heart. And then he was saying, okay, so I
learned this, what should I tell you? So he's giving an advice to all of us. And he said, and the
best thing you do is, once you get more, you get used to semis.
		
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			What will happen, you will get addicted. And I'm sure this will raise
		
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			eyebrows. We have a lot of addiction these days.
		
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			Right? And when addiction comes to your mind, you think of alcohol, you think of drugs, which
absolutely is another many new addiction. Some of you may know some of you may don't know, one of
the biggest problems with addiction these days is what? I'm not talking about social media. This
comes next, but the major sin addiction.
		
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			Exactly why you're not saying it.
		
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			I want to hear it.
		
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			I want to hear from you.
		
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			Sorry, to food, it's very painful. It's an epidemic. And the Muslim society, or the Muslim community
is not safe from it. What is it? She said it.
		
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			It's called Paul *. And I'm not going to say more because of the youth we have sitting here. Go
and figure it out.
		
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			It's a major sin. And the major sins, the more we do it, our neffs minus and yours loves it. And we
get addicted to it. And that's what he's saying. And once you get addicted to any sin, and I'm gonna
take you through them, then it will lead me and you to humilation. And that's what he's saying, we
get to what we demand were to buy or do like demand. Once I get used to once I get addicted, he
said, a demand or it's addiction. So you think of people who are alcoholic, May Allah save everyone,
and may Allah cure everyone, and people who are addicted to drugs, what happens? They become
humiliated. Right? Meaning they use themselves and then he gives the advice, what are called Luna
		
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			will be Hayato Karoubi. And when you stay away from sins, your hearts will be aligned. Well hire
only enough cigars Janjua, and the best thing you do for yourself, is go against your nerves. How
many of you in this room have studied Tuskegee?
		
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			Studied Teskey a properly or study Teskey? Or know what that word Teskey mean? I need to see hands.
If I have one, I have to.
		
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			Really a three. So we need a lot of work in here in sha Allah Inilah we may do it later on. So
basically, how many of you and let me also ask you, how many of you,
		
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			you think your heart is alive? I'm not talking about the physical heart, physical hardware or Alive
otherwise, we're not going to be here to talk about the spiritual heart. Do you know the spiritual
heart and there is physical heart? How many know this
		
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			humbler? The hands are more? How many of you you think my heart is alive?
		
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			Well, you are an honest community.
		
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			hamdu Lillahi Rabbil Alameen This is very good news. And I'm not praising you but this is really a
good news. Because the first step to change is you know, what's the problem?
		
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			So let me take you what is sin? What is sin? In the Arabic language you say is done what is sin?
Anybody? Youth what is sin?
		
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			I'm sorry.
		
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			Bye bad deed. Yeah, that's fine. What is sin?
		
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			See it I heard that you're right said
		
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			you do something that's wrong. Because it is not in general meaning is not only in religion.
		
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			See sin the word is used definitely for religion, but also it's anything I do that is immoral.
		
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			And immoral usually originate from the from religion, but also it is what society doesn't accept.
And they call it in the Islamic language a lot of when I do something the society doesn't accept and
I'm not talking about doing something wrong, that the society doesn't accept. I'm talking about
doing something right. The society doesn't accept then this is actually sin. What else and I'll give
you a couple of them. Number one, before I get to this is Allah subhanaw taala use the word dumping
the Quran in many places.
		
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			And I'm gonna share just to have with you.
		
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			Yes, why?
		
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			You can see
		
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			because I did it.
		
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			Yes, I did.
		
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			Blah, blah, blah. And I'll tell you whenever this this is the HELOC over the last 20 years there's
always tests in it. Always. I've never had it maybe very few times. hamdulillah say no Musa when I
was pantalla asked him to go and talk to Iran immediately. He said what to whom I lay them bone for
half a year or two. And I have done
		
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			My crime against them and I'm so worried they will kill me. So the word dumb came in the Quran
crime. That's one of the one and the most famous and, and heart moving related to us woman is the
verse of sorts of queer. Does anyone knows what I'm going to say?
		
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			Very beautiful. It's about women, young girls. I'll give you a clue. Anyone?
		
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			What is Elmo? jutsu su ealert what? Ba them will articulate. And when the young girl will be asked,
because they used to kill the girls. Before it's not just because she's a girl. Just because she's a
girl. Subhanallah and what? What is her fault? Do I have a choice in the way I am born? No. So she
will ask on the day of judgment to the person who killed her BA them being quoted what crime I did.
What sin I committed that you killed me.
		
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			Just to move you a little bit. So you know, Omar did that before he became a Muslim. He buried his
daughter. And he used to always say when he talked when this verse is recited, they used to see him
crying. And they said, You are missing her. He said no.
		
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			I cry because when I was burying her, you know, what was she doing? Does anyone know? Yeah, she was
removing the dust from his video
		
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			Subhan Allah.
		
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			And he was betting and God it was norm. They didn't want girls. And Allah repeatedly said it in the
Quran. So them
		
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			Sorry, man, remember, these are so many. Anytime you talk about them, and I'll give you a little bit
of
		
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			definition, what is them? Number one is any disobedience to Allah that Allah qualified it as a sin,
disobedient to Allah and Allah qualified it either major or minor, we'll come to it. So that's
number one. That's the first definition of it. And by the way, for those of you who likes to read,
it's a beautiful book to the Imam is the hubby. It's called Alpha major sins. And it is in Arabic,
not too big. And it's also very well translated and it is a PDF, you can download major sins and he
basically just normally them and put one comment on it. The reason I want you to read because all of
you young and old, you will be shocked how many major sins we commit.
		
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			Wallah, you will be shocked and I'll share it with you today.
		
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			And a lot of people say what is wrong with it? What did I do? Well wait. So number one, let's say
what is what is the sin number one is an offence anything you do against the moral law or the
religious law and action that is reprehensible and this is very important. Any action in the Quran
or the Sunnah, where Allah says there is a punishment to it, that's a sin.
		
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			Don't tell me what did I do? I'm gonna tell you go read your Quran. That's number two. Number three,
it is a fault but a major fault. A major fourth against Allah subhanaw taala, or a major fault
against a human being, by the way them sin is against Allah is one that's also against human being.
		
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			So don't think it's only about Allah subhanaw taala. And in general, if you have committed a sin
against a human being by default, you have disobeyed Allah.
		
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			Is that clear? For everyone? I can see you now you are absolutely listening to me and getting
scared. But that's good, because that's how we learn. Sometimes as we all say, truth is painful. But
reality is painful attempted love. That's how I change. So let's look at major sin. What is a major
sin? So there's either major or minor there is no other option. What is major sin? Does anyone know?
What is a major sin?
		
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			No, no, don't tell me what they are. Define it. I'll give it to you. All of them. What is it? How do
I know what I committed is a major sin or it's a minor sin. How do I know?
		
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			Bismillah
		
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			now at all.
		
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			Really? Anybody
		
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			hamdulillah I'm doing this I'm very happy. Because then that's something we need to learn. Number
one, any action that is forbidden by Allah. And Allah rasool Allah is auto Salam in the Quran or in
the Sunnah. Anything Allah says don't do. It's a major sin. For example, lacock.
		
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			Old Enough, don't kill the soul. That's a major sin.
		
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			Latter Kulu Amalia Tama don't take the money of the orphans are lawful. That's a major sin. It's not
a sin. It's a major sin. And I'm going to come and tell you, and you gotta tell me why do I need to
learn this? Because there is a huge consequences for major sins. Huge and I'll share it with you. So
that's number one. Anything that Allah subhanaw taala said don't do. Can anyone think of something
Allah said don't do now?
		
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			I'm sorry, Nam. Right? Xena did he say lotta caribou Zina? Yes, he did. Well, Takara was a lotta
caribou, not don't even get close to any action that will lead to Xena and what is Xena fornication?
intimate relationship, outside marriage. And this is for everybody in our soiree salatu salam said,
		
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			the son of Adam, for sure, or the daughter of item for sure will have a share of fornication. Na,
Allah. He said yes. Because the eyes can commit Zina. And this is for everybody. What do you watch?
		
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			What do you see? And the IRS has hit Share, and are gonna keep saying the words in it because I want
you to get used to it. Those of you who doesn't speak Arabic, which is fornication, intimate
relationship outside marriage, and the tongue has its share. And then finally, the private part
approve it or disapprove it, meaning you hold yourself or you continue. And that is why if you read
surah, two nor Surah, nor I call it the sort of prevention,
		
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			don't do this, don't do that. Don't get this don't get this because you will end up in a major sin
and then he puts the real punishment for for that. So if Allah says don't do, that's number one.
Number two,
		
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			any action where the Quran or the Sunnah, or the scholars agreed that it is a major sin, or that's
what I need you to know. If there is a severe punishment associated with it in the Quran.
		
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			It didn't he didn't say it's a major sin, but he said there's a Sufi severe punishment who can think
of something when Allah says severe punishment other than the most painful punishment, these are all
major sins. Give me an example.
		
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			I'm sorry,
		
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			Reba.
		
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			Reba
		
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			interest and look at us.
		
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			Major sin
		
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			interest credit card, what is the big deal of it? I'm not talking about a credit card that you paid
right away that you only pay the minimum
		
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			buy a house with interest and not because you are in need just because I need a bigger house or I
need a vacation house or I need and I need so anything Allah's pantalla didn't say it's a major, but
he said it is associated with a major punishment. Go back and now when you start reading your Quran,
when you see either been Alima or Durban Rima, pay attention. So that's number two or three I don't
know for example, I should I put here a verse from Surah Torah and Allah said couple of things. And
then he didn't say they automate a joke but they say what will happen if I do? Number one, when you
don't keep the promise of Allah, Allah, Allah Allah human bad, you may say family, where Kota owner
		
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			Muhammad Allah who we use, and they sever what Allah says Keep it going. Mainly kinship
relationship.
		
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			And then number three, he says, spread mischief on this earth. You never think surprising mischief
and this is a major sin you've seen you want to fill out what is spread mischief Can anybody think
don't think of killing we don't do with what he learned
		
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			what is spreading mischief anybody?
		
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			Something we all do?
		
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			I'm sorry. We're gonna come to gossip. No, it is not surprised Miss Schiff on he said Phil
		
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			we're coming to this.
		
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			What's What brings facade Phil on what brings mischief and immorality on this earth?
		
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			Injustice that's for sure.
		
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			Destroying this earth
		
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			destroying this earth, right? And that's what the angel said to Allah. Muhammad Yusuf here where
yes, we could demand are you going to put people on this earth who is going to spread mischief and
they will kill people? Is that what what it is? Do we do have we ruined not completely but going
that
		
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			The Earth. Yes, every time you get a bottle of water, young and old, especially in Ramadan, and you
just took three or four sips, and then you leave it
		
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			you're spreading mischief on this earth. So me I said, yeah, go to the bottom of the ocean and see
what happened.
		
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			And how many fishes are dying? You see, do an awful lot what will happen to these people? Don't keep
the promise of Allah number one and number two, they don't keep their relationship surprised Miss
Chef, what will happen? Why these are major sins? What did Allah says? Allah? Allahu moulana. They
will be cursed.
		
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			When a home so dumb, and they have the worst abode. That's a punishment severe? That's a major sin.
Did you ever think of that?
		
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			When you waste? How many of you and I want to see hands, it's not going to show up on the camera.
Don't worry.
		
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			How many of you waste food?
		
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			waste food, don't tell me or angels in this room.
		
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			How many times you have a plate and you put food? You didn't like it?
		
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			Or you went to a gathering. And there is of course open buffet, and it's free. And you put
everything
		
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			and then 1/3 is still there.
		
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			Is that a major reason?
		
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			Why you're right. But why?
		
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			Why?
		
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			Law
		
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			is worse. Because he said don't do it. Well are 234
		
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			this is clear, don't waste in the hola yo Habermas trophy. He doesn't fly who is he? I want to hear
it.
		
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			That's a major sin. He said don't do it. And what do we do?
		
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			Of course we do. How many times I personally in this room come for Salah and I see bottles in here.
		
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			Half, two or three sips some of you are nodding their head.
		
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			And I say you're not please forgive them.
		
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			And then when you do this take don't throw it in the garbage. Go and give the water first to the
plant and then go do it and then recycle lateral pseudo floppy by the slahi. 234 all these are major
sins. Allah Allah says those who does that no one will learn it curse of Allah. Yeah, Wally.
		
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			You know, what's the curse of Allah? Don't you ever say to somebody, let alone your children when
you get upset with them?
		
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			May Allah curse you.
		
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			You don't know what's the current may Allah Allah Tala, what is the curse?
		
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			What's the curse? Allah will not engulf you with his Rama of boredom Rahmatullah Allah who say, your
curse out who was cursed?
		
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			And Hamdulillah you want to be like shikon
		
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			so any may any action Allah said don't do or Swati salatu salam said, Don't do X to or there is a
curse in the Quran about it. Or there is a punishment in the Quran. I'm going to take you through
major sins, the books at 70.
		
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			Maybe at the end, I'll give it to you all. But I'm going to share a couple of them with you which is
a very sound Hadith, right? The first Hadith are Suarez salatu salam says h3 Busaba al Moby heart,
stay away from the seven that will destroy you. This is not my words. This is the words of Ross
Whalley salatu salam, and this actually in an Buhari, stay away, stay enable, stay stable, and you
need to know this word in the Quran is not don't do stay away.
		
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			You know what it means? For example, I know you since you mentioned backbiting I know if I'm going
to go to this gathering, or I'm going to call this person or I'm going to text this person, I know
that I am going to end up backbiting.
		
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			You all know the scenario, how familiar
		
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			you are smiling. hamdulillah Egypt anywho when Allah says stay away, meaning don't go there is not
don't do it. Don't go there. And I say this to myself and everybody. How many of you love chocolate?
		
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			If you don't want to eat chocolate, what do you do? Don't put chocolate in front of you and say I'm
not going to eat it. Good luck. Don't bring chocolate. Period. Don't drink it. And if someone gift
to you give it back. Give it to somebody right away. That's extendable, that stay away. Make it
easier for yourself to obey Allah. That's what I say to myself. Make it easy
		
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			You have to obey Allah and make it more difficult to disobey Allah. So he said, stay away from the
seven. And he said he didn't call major. He said several moving parts, the seven that will destroy
you. And they said, Your Rasul Allah, what are they? Who knows them?
		
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			Number one, none of the none of us in this room does it really? Sure. Exactly. Associating really
worshipping somebody with Allah or other than Allah and Hamdulillah, not you and me. Number two, are
you ready?
		
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			Who knows? Number two, magic as
		
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			a Sif, let alone you go to someone, let's say alone, you hire someone and pay them money, to destroy
homes, to make the husband divorce the wife or to make the wife or the divorce the husband, or any
stories you hear, as we say, in the RB Cebula. And we'll done that youth we will have all white
here. So magic three. Now, Caitlyn knifes killing the soul. Without the right, there is a few rights
in Islam, what Allah gave us the right to kill someone. But this is a few exceptions. And usually
it's not a human being very few. It's only one when are you allowed to kill someone?
		
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			Protect yourself. Protect yourself. That's the only time you're allowed. Like so that's number
three. Number four.
		
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			Seven, destroying, destroying sins. entrust a calorie burn.
		
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			Go back home, each one of you young and old, and look at your credit card. And ask yourself this
question. Do I really need to buy this? It's becoming much easier. It's becoming very easy. You
know, why are so tired? How many of you do that at home at home? As a bed? What do we do? Scroll
through Amazon. Right? And order an order or, and then and then it goes on your credit card.
		
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			And then you pay only the minimum because you don't have the money.
		
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			That's interest. That's major sin that's destroying us. Not only in this life, I'm talking about the
hereafter. Next one, what remodel your team? When you use the wealth of the orphan? unlawfully. This
is one of the major ones because Allah Subhana Allah said it well at Kulu. Amalia tama, don't do
that. You have a nice, you have a nephew, you're a foster parent, and they are orphan and they have
money, and you take it.
		
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			And when the orphan gets to the age, that they are adults who say we spend it on you, and you
didn't. The Lord knows that. The next one, which hamdulillah doesn't apply to us at all. Well, he
almost the people who run away from the battlefield, the last one.
		
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			And I say this, especially when there is a big community and everybody knows everyone heartful muffs
on
		
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			when you accuse woman in their honor.
		
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			Without evidence. Do we do that?
		
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			Yes or no?
		
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			Wallahi?
		
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			We don't do it.
		
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			Yes or no. Some of you are nodding their head. Yes, we do it. What do we how do we do it?
		
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			What do we say? Is not backed by things specifically? What do we say? And this is Godfrey McConnell
confirmed meaning you're accusing that woman in her honor. What do you say?
		
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			It's definitely it's backbiting but what specifically we say anyone? She has a boyfriend.
		
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			She has a boyfriend.
		
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			Be careful.
		
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			And you know what this word mean in this country?
		
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			That's what
		
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			did you see them? You have four witnesses.
		
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			So how can I say
		
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			who's the loser?
		
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			Me? Major sin number one, and number two, she took all my good deeds, or this fasting of Ramadan,
all this whatever you are doing to obey Allah, she took it.
		
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			Cut full Masana Be careful, ladies. Be careful what you say. And again, I say this always want
everybody knows everyone. And there's a lot of social interactions that hamdulillah May Allah make
us all loving each other for the sake of Allah. Be careful.
		
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			Be careful. And if someone said it, you need to stop them. They get upset I'm sorry.
		
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			At least your Allah I'm not part of it.
		
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			Especially youth. Because it's norm. It's natural. But that's not in the Muslim community or what we
should be. So that's the first half
		
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			ditto for Rasul Allah salatu salam, the second one.
		
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			I love this second one and say Novolog when I saw when he said Kintaro, Swati salatu salam, and he
said a man came to Rasul Allah, Saito, Sara said, The Rasul Allah, what is the biggest sin?
		
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			Are you with them be a kebab? What is the biggest not major, many, skinny one? And number one, he
said, a look at this one. He said, When you make something equal to Allah,
		
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			and he created you.
		
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			When you make something equal to Allah, He created you. Do we do that?
		
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			silence or the silence we do we do it or we don't. And he didn't say taboo, he said until you're
actually learning than one o'clock you make something equal to Allah. And he created you. Do we do
it?
		
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			Yes or No? No? Yes.
		
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			What do we do? Give me an example. Absolutely. We do it.
		
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			When sada which is the right of Allah, is comes way less than everything else. And everything else
is more important. I made something equal to Allah. No, we don't even make it equal. We make that
thing more.
		
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			Can I ask a question and be very honest, and you promise you're not gonna get upset everybody? Or I
don't say
		
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			why don't we wear our hijab? Woman? Why don't we wear what pleases us Pantone? Want me to give you
the answer?
		
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			As a woman, because my beauty is more important.
		
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			Because I don't want to be different from everybody else, which means everybody else.
		
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			This is how you think of things. Don't you ever think about punishments? Here's why I love this
howdy. How can I and you know, Allah, He created me and fed me and give me this. And I asked him and
he respond, and everything I want he gives me yet. My beauty is more important or Salah is more, or
the social media is more important. Friends are more important. People are more important. That's
the major sin. The biggest one, when we and I and you and all of us. I don't think anybody in this
room doesn't do it. It only depends how frequent but have I done it in my life? I'm sure I did. When
I put something or someone or me or my career above Allah subhanaw taala. And may Allah forgive me
		
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			number one before any one of you. And then second, talk to the weather. Gosh, you are your time
Mark, that you kill your son because you're worried that he is going to you need to feed him. Do we
do that? No, we don't we don't kill our children. But what do we do?
		
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			What do we do?
		
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			before they are born? What do we do?
		
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			But not everyone when we say I can't afford another child?
		
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			You hear it? And I'm the reason I'm saying this to you because many of the things we say we really
don't know the sequence of it. We don't see deeply and I said this You know what I'm saying? I'm
saying Allah is not a result I am the result. Allah is not the one who gives sustenance, I give
sustenance, do I give sustenance? Do you give me sustenance
		
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			and talk to the political harshita youth on Mac you will kill your son or daughter because you're
worried that you will not be able to feed them and then he said what next? He said when you have a
relationship with your best friend with the wife of your best friend
		
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			now I'm going to take you to another one How many of you have mother's still alive in
		
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			the US where is your mother
		
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			are you ready
		
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			so this is a man came to say now beloved, Nur Omar the son of say Norma
		
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			and he came to him and he said I did major ones.
		
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			I was in another city. And I did major he didn't say what he did. He said for assault to the rule by
law. Raha Ilana cabal I have committed since there is no way for me but they are major. Just like
not la no more has come. What did you do?
		
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			And he told him the Hadith doesn't say this isn't Buhari by the way. And he said no, these are not
majors. So the man took up life. He says come on, let me teach you
		
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			But what is the major? There's a reason why I said about the model, it's gonna come at them. So he
said they are named.
		
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			Number one what we said, you associate with ALLAH, you worship with Allah and you kill a human being
run away from the battlefield. You accused the chaste woman are riba usury. Then you eat them.
orphan. Something you enter a masjid. What in * don't mean masjid, you don't worship Allah. You
don't even believe in Allah. But you do this inside the Masjid.
		
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			Hamdulillah I don't think anybody in this room Hamdulillah. And then he said, well let the assess
her, the person who make fun of others.
		
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			Will
		
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			you make fun of people, how many of us do that don't show me hands, I don't want to see it.
		
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			We make fun of people by what we say, the way we look. And when we exchange looks with each other.
You all know what I'm talking about.
		
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			And the person knows it.
		
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			And especially youth you feel this is one of the biggest ways of bullying is the way they look at
you. Well let the assessor and listen to this about parents.
		
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			And he said walk out with validation even
		
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			when your mother or father cry, because of the way you're treating them.
		
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			Your mother or father cry because of the way you treat them. And I have two scenarios here apply to
this group,
		
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			the adult if your parents are older,
		
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			older, Alzheimer's,
		
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			they are very sick. We need to be very patient with them. And what usually happens, we have no more
patience. And he starts saying things and you get upset with them. And sometimes you even say things
and they are so weak. They don't do anything but they cry. Have you seen that scenarios?
		
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			May Allah protect us and the youth? And I don't mean anybody here. Most of you, I don't know you.
But just in case, you know someone.
		
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			When you say something to your parents,
		
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			or you give them that look, and you know what I'm talking about? You roll your eyes, and you shout
at them and says this is not fair.
		
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			And she cries or he cries and they usually blame themselves because what did I do? That's a major
sin.
		
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			And then he said to him, Hey, you're worried why
		
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			is your parents still alive?
		
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			So he was asking that man, are your parents still alive? He said only my mother. And the only only
my mother my father has told him he said for logging now he gave him hope. Please memorize this will
lie if you left today. You didn't learn anything except that statement. And you practice that
statement. I'll be I'll do such a shocker to almost Panther. And he said by Allah if you only talk
to her nicely Island, telehealth Kilang softly, gently one. What a banter Tom you serve her food.
		
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			Is that difficult?
		
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			Is that difficult to talk to your mother? In a nice way? Even if you don't like it, even if what
she's saying is not right. Could be absolutely wrong. Can you just respond in a nicer way?
		
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			Yeah, Annie I have seen us talking to their parents. I have nothing but to make dua
		
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			and I make dua for booth
		
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			when he said only the quality's only speak to her nicely, gently and feed her food. Get her a cup of
tea. You are hungry Mom, can I put your plate how much is gonna cost you? What is it five minutes?
10 minutes? What is it? And then one law he if you do that, look what he said. Let Atlanta Jana, you
will enter Jannah as long as you stay away from the major.
		
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			Take care of your parents. I said this to you before, and I'll say it again. I wish my parents were
alive.
		
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			Especially my mom passed away. I was much younger.
		
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			It's because once they pass weighing less you can do for them much less. You still can do things.
It's much less than when they are alive. Take care of your mothers. Don't worry about what people
tell you in school or at work Allama for the economy fight normally. They don't know.
		
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			They don't know
		
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			Do you know what mothers are? Or what parents are the reason he said mother because his mother is
alive?
		
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			And then the other definitions and I'm going to give you part of the 70
		
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			Do you have a piece of paper to write it? I'm just going to give it to you. Some we already said but
there are a lot of it. You don't know. And we are doing it number one, associating partner with
Allah to is killing three is magic. Are you ready for the four
		
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			Are you ready for the for everybody? Not praying.
		
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			Not playing
		
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			No salah.
		
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			And there is two things here. Either you don't want majority. I think the people here if you are one
of them, you don't pray regularly because you're lazy. That's a major sin.
		
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			But if you don't pray because you don't think Salah is an obligation, or Allah doesn't need your
Salah. Come and talk to me afterwards because I don't want to tell you what is this mean?
		
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			Laziness I really want to pray May Allah make it easy for me Allah help me Alhamdulillah it's a
major sin but you still have old not praying number four, not paying Zakah
		
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			not paying the car.
		
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			I heard that from Muslims, not non Muslims. They don't know what's up guys. They looked at me says
Do you know how many how much taxes I pay. And now you're telling me I'm gonna pay circa
		
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			you know what I answered?
		
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			And how much money you make?
		
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			How much money you make.
		
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			Not paying Zika major sin not performing hedge. And you're able to
		
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			when I finish college, when my daughter gets married, you know all these when I finally when I buy a
house when I pay the house, all these major sin. Are you ready for the next one? Did I scare you
enough or not yet? Can I give you more? Can I give you more? Is it okay, you're gonna come next week
or I'm not gonna see, like 100 this respect to parents?
		
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			What is disrespect to parents? Can anybody tell me it's in the Quran? Of
		
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			of, you know what's off.
		
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			When you say Oh,
		
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			and you go you didn't say anything
		
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			off
		
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			major sin, major sin, adultery. We talked about that. Homosexuality. So major sin in Islam. It's a
major sinister, I'm not going to sugarcoat it. It's a major sin. I can't change it. It's not me.
That's what the Creator said. Interest Riba. We said this.
		
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			With the orphan we said this now coming.
		
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			I don't want to see hands with ask yourself. Don't show me your hands. How many of you in this room
have lied in the last week? Don't show any hand. You ask yourself. In the last week, you lied.
		
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			Lying comes down in two minutes. I don't know when I will finish it. I think that's fine. We're
finished next week if we will stop further than you do. But we'll continue and then about five
minutes before sada is a prayer at 8:30am Drinking alcohol. I don't care if every person on this
earth to drink alcohol. It's still haram and some a major sin.
		
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			Have I seen Muslim drink alcohol? Have I seen woman drinking alcohol? And you know what they tell
me? It's only one.
		
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			I've seen it.
		
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			May Allah forgive us? For you gambling,
		
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			gambling, stealing
		
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			will have crushing
		
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			hole. When you treat your sibling, not well. Not right. You take their things just because you're
the older. That's injustice. That's a major sin,
		
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			committing suicide. So major sin
		
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			giving and taking good bribes. Let me give her this and she will do this for me. That's bribes.
That's a major sin.
		
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			I'm not giving you all of them because of the time showing off.
		
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			It's a major sin.
		
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			Learning knowledge of religion may Allah protect me number one, for the sake of being recognized.
		
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			You memorize the Quran, so people say you're half human, and you make your daughter or son memorize
Quran so they say oh, she's the mother of the half.
		
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			It's a major sin
		
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			Subhanallah believing in Fortune teller.
		
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			You go to the people you know and they are bored. What do they do? They go to this lady who drink
you drink the coffee and then they give you that
		
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			The cup and she starts reading or Show me your hand. And I'm going to tell you're going to live to
this and this is whatever then this is what is going to happen? Major sin. Why? Because they animal
of Ebola law. No one knows the Unseen except Allah Sanatana
		
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			betrayal of a trust when someone trusts you something and you betray it.
		
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			Treating others and gently unjustly
		
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			a woman dressed like a man and a man dressed like a woman
		
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			to me major sin
		
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			Subhanallah
		
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			again, there's a lot but I'm just trying to give you the one spying.
		
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			spying.
		
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			It's a major sin, spying taking the phone of somebody and looking in it. Spying don't tell me
they're my children.
		
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			It's still spying you need to unless you took their permission when you bought them the phone and I
had a lot of people says when I bought the phone to my daughter, I made a contract with them. I said
I will have an access to your phone that's not spying.
		
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			If I find now give you my pointers going see it that's not spying on you. And people are the email
and they try the password and try and try till they find it at spying
		
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			that's fine as a major sin. And I'll end up with this this is really going to make it very easy for
you about Allah will Mackey which is has a beautiful book called Auto Kullu the food of the heart
set for volume or three volume book and he said major sins are divided like this, according to your
body is very easy to remember now. He said there is four in the heart. Four major sins the heart
doesn't this is very easy to remember. Number one is shock.
		
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			Associating one with Allah subhanho wa Taala in insisting on disobeying Allah insisting on disobey
Allah like we all disobey Allah but at least try to change now I'm fine what did I do everything is
okay and I insist my heart and look at this especially and I'm Spirit speaking especially to the
adult especially those adults who have some knowledge indeed or have knowledge indeed do not make
people disappear from the Mercy of Allah you're looking at somebody and says you will never enter
Jannah I own own Jana and you don't own John
		
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			Yeah please go ahead disaccharide
		
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			Hello
		
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			along
		
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			shadow Shalom
		
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			Shalom
		
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			right yo
		
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			make your own
		
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			writing in
		
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			high school
		
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			whoa
		
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			we're just gonna finish this and then so we
		
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			Oh
		
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			wow
		
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			because of solid