Seize the Opportunity The Best Nights of the Year

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dolphin hockey, very light, brings a lot of hair blonde brings a lot of generosity, and it does not burden. The the host somehow doesn't burden us on the contrary, Subhan Allah 100 lack of galantamine that we have

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20 days Allah gave us life to live. But the as we always say, we leave the best for the last and spa there is always a reason for everything we say. And the best for the last is actually the last 10 nights or the last 10 days of Ramadan but specifically the last 10 nights and specifically the odd numbers. The wiktor and our Swati is salatu salam in a beautiful Hadith that you probably have heard this many times by now. And it says the following yet you have now so people of Allah come Shaco now the Akasha there is more than one narration amazing a good rate an honorable month has come. It's already come it's already 20 days. Subhan Allah Chavo mobarak sublessee month shahidullah in a

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month, there is a night better than 1000s night.

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Allah made fasting gel Allah husi yamawaki amo Zhao, la Sierra hoffa, Allah made fasting an obligation, okay, walk the young lady Hito one and standing up in the night. Insider, is an act of voluntary is not an obligation, it's highly recommended. Now, let the pornography be hostler whosoever get try to try to come closer to Allah subhanho wa Taala any small, good deed for goodness, it is as he or she has done.

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obligation outside the Ramadan and who whomsoever does an obligatory act in it as if he or she has done 70 obligatory acts outside and it is the month of shadow Sabra, it's the month of fasting and patient. We have covered this in if you are following our daily reminder, we covered this in everyday hamdulillah Hello branimir it's the month of fasting and it is the month of patient or sobre tabula Jana. being patient. The reward is Jen Chahal. More said it's a month of conservation. The month that the sustenance of the believer will increase Man Photography he saw him I'm reminding all of you, myself, number one, because we have only 10 days left. We haven't done any of these yet.

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It's time to do it. There isn't much time left. Not much time.

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Man football Rafi he saw in a whomsoever will

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rather pay money or cook basically prepare or help to for a fasting person to break their fast it will be equal to forgiveness of his sin. Wait a minute now and release from the Hellfire war Canada homoclinic Audrey and he will have the same reward of fasting as the fasting

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person then people said to roswaal the salt or serum we don't all have this opportunity to make food or to buy food or to help a fasting person to break their fast color.

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Or swallow salt or sand you will get this reward even if you will use one date for even a cup of water or even if it is

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a sip of milk or a sip of yogurt. And this month is the beginning of it is a month of Rama is month of

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mercy loving mercy and it's in the middle of his mouth Farah is forgiveness and the end of it and the end of it. The end of it. They come in and now at the end of the last 10 days is relief or release from the health fire and

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This Hadith as we have said, it's

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it's a weak Hadith. It's a Hadith, but it's a weak Hadith not very weak, but it's a weak Hadith, but the meanings of it is being narrated in different Hadith, what I am trying to say in the beginning, the most important thing in Ramadan is we do our best. And this is why we call the talk today seize the opportunity. I need to look at Ramadan as an opportunity, let alone the last 10 nights and 10 days that we are going to start tomorrow.

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It's an opportunity and what is an opportunity? What does an opportunity opportunity mean? There's something good, that doesn't happen every day. That is, I am able to reach it or get it. And I will get in that thing in general opportunity way more than if I do the same effort in another action. So opportunity is somebody will tell you and this is probably very easy for us to understand is when there is a sale, right and they say 70% 80%, buy one get one free, what is that it's an opportunity, because the same thing I need, if I don't grab this opportunity, I will have to work harder, after pay more, I will get less. So opportunity. Number one, let's look at all normal one is an

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opportunity if you compare Ramadan with the

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other months of the year, and the last 10 days and nights are the opportunity. And then inside these the odd nights is the the the opportunity and specifically the 27th.

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So what do I need to do from today, I need to change my mindset.

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It's extremely important because it's difficult to do things. without setting up our mind, I need to set up my mind that number one, there is a huge reward, there is a great opportunity in front of me, I need to grab it. That's number one. Number two, it is not very difficult. And why I'm saying this not because we are all very strong, because there is nothing easy, but what Allah makes it easy. If Allah see you and me really wanting to take the best opportunity or to take advantage of this opportunity, he absolutely will make it easy for me. So I need to change my mindset from it's difficult, I can't, it's long fasting, I cannot function if I don't sleep in the night, all these, I

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need to change my mindset. And I'm going to turn to Allah subhanaw taala. And this is another opportunity for Dr. Its application, especially when we are fasting during the day. Because one of the people, one of the categories that the the categories of people there supplication is responded and agreed is when they are fasting

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or saw in the fasting person till he or she breaks the first till all the day and another narration he may have at the time or at the moment. So today, today, spend your day you will you have to do what you have to do. But keep asking Allah, Allah make it easy. Europe, we make it the best 10 nights and the best 10 days ever. So change the mindset, it is not going to be difficult. If I tell myself, Allah will make it easy. There is many things we do. And those of us who are living in the Western world, how many non Muslims look at you and says, I cannot do that. How can you for 30 days and not eat and drink and nothing from that time to that time? 1214 hours and we always answer. You

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know what we've been doing it for years. If you try it, you will be able to do it. That's what we need to say to ourselves, change the mindset. It's an opportunity, a huge opportunity. I'll come to the details in a second. I'll take you through it. But number one, there is an opportunity in front of me. The opportunity comes once a year only. It's only in these days. Subhan Allah, Allah chose that he chose these days he didn't chose other days, the hikma he's the Hakeem he's the wise and he chose the so I'm going to tell myself these 10 days doesn't come next month and doesn't come when I have time. Or when the day is shorter. Or when the night is longer. It doesn't come it comes only

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once a day.

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If

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another change mind of set reminder, extremely important, and Subhanallah how much it helps. I don't know if I'm going to have this opportunity again.

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I have no idea when that'd be enough to convey or being told. No soul knows in which land will die

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or when we will die. I have no idea if I am living next to next time alone. I need to tell this to myself, not to people, not to the others. The last 10 days don't worry about the others unless you have to take care of them. Focus on yourself. This is your opportunity my opportunity with the last panel dad.

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I'll tell myself I don't know if I'm living. I don't know if there will be another one. And I don't know there's going to be another little cuddle and I will add more. I don't know if I'm living tomorrow can any one of us guarantee we're going to wake up tomorrow morning.

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But if I will make the resolve if I will make the him if I will make the intention that I will make these 10 days the best ever I am going to have a loss upon Tyler see the best in me in these 10 days early let me hire I'm going to show a lot the best of me as a solvent of a loss pantalla and I made it made this intention and I made it sincerely and tomorrow I don't wake up on luck will reward me

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as if I have done it.

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And a loss of this this concept is in the Koran. It's a sort of 20 south

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where you had your feasibility lie legit fell out of the muram and kathira masala whomsoever migrate for the sake of Allah, he will find in the earth gets migration physically moving, he will find in the earth morale among Cathedral massage, he will find a lot of expansion he will find a lot of goodness.

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Oh my Hodgman Beatty Mahajan. In Allahu Allah. Surely that's the point. To me. You do recall mote

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Allah And whosoever they leave his house.

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For the intention of migrating to Allah and Allah so Allah is Auto Center in when he or she dies before they reach Taka

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ma Anwar will reward him the reward of that action. What kind of la hora form of a Hema and Allah all forgiving All Merciful Subhanallah so here I am. Change my mindset that these are the opportunity that no opportunity like it, we will come to it not no other days or nights in the year, like these coming 10 days

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and no other nights at all, especially the nights and because hollers divor that the days of the first of 10 days of the hedger are better than the days of last 10 days of Ramadan. But no one disagree that the last 10 nights of Ramadan aren't the best nights of the world of the time. I need to remind myself, I need to remind myself that in these 10 nights, there is a night better than 1000 months. We'll come to it in a detail. Three

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may be difficult, it may sound difficult show your bond will make it difficult, my weak knifes will make it difficult, but I am going to be holding to the to the strong, I will get my strength from him Subhana I will get my strength from Allah subhanho wa Taala and I am going to say continuous draw from today. Allahumma salli ala Masato Salah lot, nothing is easy except what you make it easy. An iron you are fasting and the Tao of the fasting person is granted.

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Three I'll make the intention from today.

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From today, I am going to change my mindset that I am going to do the best. best ever. I've never done it before I'm going to do it. do my best. And if I am going to die tomorrow, Allah

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subhana wa says so let's look at what are the things that we will need to do specifically and generally or specifically for these 10 days that I have not yet done it in the last 20 days or if I have already well I have done it. What do I do more

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100 lack of language just study mind. We will have we will open for questions and answers so you will feel free you're right

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questions on the

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chat and inshallah we will take it at the end. But let's let's look at what is in the last 10 nights. What is it? What What do we do or what is the best of the creation did what did you do to hisako? Salah? What did he do? And he Serato Sarah

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in general

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and this hadith was narrated by say Dasha, one the 10 nights of the last 10 days or 10 nights off from Yvonne approached, which is a snap living tomorrow.

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What did he do?

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Right? And

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he would wake up his family, look at the word wake up, meaning it's an it louder it's it's an act of worship in the night was at the meet Zara. And this is a figure of speech he basically tied the like animate czar is our is the lower part that that you cover the body when you when you tie it tight, it's usually used as a figure of speech that you are going to be getting garaje to do something special, something not easy and you're going to be focused on it or should there be

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another meaning that scholars have said this means that he is absolutely going to be removing himself from his family and he will be focusing only on a loss pantalla

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I cover

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number one, I'm gonna say I cover nafsa I will say this to myself, I need to do my best. And these the nights to stay up as much as I can.

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For those of us who are working those who cannot do it because they have things to do in the morning, you will do longer than what you normally do. or sleep early. Wake up before fudger.

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kegel is about five, or 440 wake up before fudger even if it is 45 minutes, but the longer you stay up in the night, the better. And especially the odd nights, specially the odd nights and the odd nights meaning the night of 24th the night of 23rd the night of 25th the night of 27 and the night of 29th the night of 29th is one of the odd nights and has even much special rewards than all the other nights. Please pay attention to this.

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So I am going to say what did he do AlLahi salatu salam in these 10 nights that I need to know I'm learning and I'm I need to practice it. I acaba Allah He woke up in the night, meaning the nights and the night start after model

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he had he sought out or sit down and Did he really need to do that.

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Hopefully no matter codominant zombie, all his sins and what sins he did was all forgiven.

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And he was the chosen by our last pantalla yet he did it. What about me and you

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number one, the night start after modem. I am going to be spending that night. If I cannot do it all I will do as much as I can in an acts of worship. So for the woman, we're going to put the food people have to eat, clean the kitchen, everything will handle that oh Blimey, and we are done here.

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If everyone in the family, take a place in the house, if you are not going to the masjid and take a corner and start act of worship some of that I will share with you everybody, that house will be blessed and that house will be blessing. And we always wonder what happened to our homes. We need to bring back the Baraka please don't spend these 10 nights watching TV.

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It's a loss. huge loss. It's like someone come and tell you buy the stock today. Tomorrow it's going to be five times 1000 times more. And you and you decided not to What a loser the last night so from a lot of luck is not created them to entertain. Did not created them to watch TV to check social media now.

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I have to do what I have to do that obligations. Taking care of my family I have to work if you do night shift the what you have to do you have to do, but anything else extra. It's a big losers and let's go

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And talk a little bit about what is so special about these 10 nights. And I'm going to share with you this Hadeeth of a Swati Salatu was sent out. Also in the Heather Shahar pethub article this month had come has reached you now, where he he Laila. And in it there is one night. Hi Roman elfi Shah better than 1000 nights we all know this. Now, what I just said, see what he taught us Saraswati salatu salam min Halima wonderfully Maha for him. For 30 male hierarchal men Halima Fatima. Hi, Rocco. What are your horror movie?

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Let me translate. He said, the month has come. in it. There is one night. One night, we don't know which night one night

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has higher in that night. Better than 1000 months. We know that man, Holy moly, man, holy Maha whomsoever was deprived. Please pay attention to this word deprived. All of that night. He's deprived.

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And no one will be deprived of the goodness of that night. But is the real deprived? What does that mean? What does that mean?

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The Knights has a lot of goodness played at home in Africa. Why tennis is equal to

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be in Europe became equally angry

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in that night, and we need to feel this. In the little corner. We don't know which 121 23rd 25th 2729 Allah knows. And another Hadith. It's nice to have his invisible water.

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Look at it or or seek it. The last seven. So 23rd 25th 2729 the last seven odd nights.

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The little cuddly hieromonk official, it's better than 1000 nights. We know that. What Why? What? xS Zuma?

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More Oh,

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all angels. All angels comes down to this earth? In a way we don't know. In a way we don't see it. To the extent that it has been said there will be no empty space on this earth spiritually. For an angel. It will be completely full of angels in that night.

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Men Halima hire raha whomsoever is the blind from the goodness of this night, how will I be deprived? How you will be the bright it's the night of the it's the odd night and what I am doing in the night. I'm checking social media for him. He or she is the bride. What am I doing? I'm watching TV for her to hold him deprived. What am I doing? Doing things in the house that is not necessary, it can be done afterward.

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In general, anything I am doing in that night outside the act of worship, that can wait please pay attention to this can wait till I till after Ramadan on a loser. I am deprived. And the abbreviation is when you are absolutely

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it's almost destitute. You lost it as we say you lost it all. You lost it all. And I'll share with you a hadith of roswaal Salatu was Salam. This is in egner Abbey Hatton.

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One of the Sahaba says we have with Allah Swati has Salatu was Salam. And he mentioned for four of the people from Benny citing from the children of Israel, and he was telling them or Swati Assad or Sarah telling the companions, those four people are the de la hatha Nina Amma, they worshiped a law for 80 years. Let me show her pafa time they did not this obey Him, even in a blink of an eye.

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And he mentioned Who are these? He said, a YouTube site now you've seen as a career and then his fail. Milagros is another righteous man and you should show for what is this for, for human beings. From the children of bunny slide, they worshiped Allah 80 years age zero, and they have not disobeyed Allah with a blink of an eye

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and the companions like wow

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For Haji bow, Wow, really 80 years

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gibreel came to roswaal a site or center. And he said, Yeah Mohammed argued with me by that he how Allah inna for Salah minister, Mohammed risotto Sir, your people are so surprised, surprised that there is 880 people and that there is people who have worshiped a law for 18 years and they never disobeyed him.

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Now to be the same to Rasul Allah Sato center pocket nezzer Allah him hydromagnetic they have they are given way better than this. They were given way better than this. And then he recited Satan algebra and who did what did he recite in Athens and now humidity on the warmer the rock and is a little odd little country hieromonk official signature breed, talk to Rasul Allah Salatu was Salam. And he said,

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Your people are so surprised from surprised from the fact that there is four people worship the law for 80 years, and they not disobeyed him at all. We have given them better than that. This is you and me, was given to you and me it's a gift. That's why it's opportunity. It's a gift. I didn't even ask for it. Or what is gave it because he's happy and he's generous. So Hannah,

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and he said they were given better and he recited in zoom now if you do nothing, we have send it down in the night of power. Later to Alma Dada, can I get you have to? That's the beauty. And what do you know about Taylor to record another figure of speech used in the Arabic language? When you want to say something? Whoa, you don't know what this is?

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I said why ma da come in. What is it? You don't know? What is it? astonishing. And then he says later to Audrey hieromonk official, it is better than one one? month

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alamelu here

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acting,

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worshipping here worshiping Allah in that night better than 1000 months worshiping Allah in its war more than one month how generous is our last pantalla how generous Allah subhanho wa Taala in one night one night and the night is how many hours my beautiful and my dear sisters and brothers how

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how long the nights the longest night we eat let's say 730 and then for john is 5482 512 1310 hours better than 1000 months the worship Allah in that night that's what he wants from me only only few hours so I had on collied few hours we stay on our TV watching TV and and on the internet for hours shopping or surfing the net or looking social media one that's what Allah wants from me one night Don't be my that I'm saying this to myself and to everybody. Don't be miser I am the loser. We are the losers. Allah is not going to get anything extra from me sleeping in the night of a huddle or up in the night of the huddle. What is a login what is a login again to get out as I was always thought

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was taught us if the is a cool magina como hola como Africa, if you are given ins and the first person Allah created and the last one, all of them were more ducky.

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The sovereignty for last pantalla will not increase. A little bit

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idle. Allah doesn't need my a bad I need it. I need it. And we need it. So few hours. So I had to plead and question comes in why we don't know what why we don't know which night it is. Yes, most probably a 27. But not for sure. And even some scholars will say it changes every year. It changes every year. Why? And he said Asante salatu salam also he said Hamas to the familia to that he was shown which night is it? It is and he came out to tell the Sahaba which night it is and he found two companions arguing

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and that knowledge was lifted.

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That knowledge was lifted from our Swati salt or Sarah. And then he said it salatu salam wa Sayaka higher and Lacan and it could be it's probably more high for you that you don't know which night is it. Why? Because I'm going to do more

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I am going to do more Subhanallah so how you don't mean official question? Why, what is why it was called? why it's called the little, it's in the Quran true. But what does it mean?

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It's one meanings Yes, it's a Night of Decree. Right, one night of power. That's one meaning. But look at the meanings. Number one night of honor, Tavi mcadory her

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other one meaning of it in the Arabic language is somebody who's honorable, they have other they have status, they have honored. So les little powder is a night that has on a lot chosen it can be Subhan Allah when you think of this, you know when you have so many options,

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and you have so many things around you, but you choose to pick one.

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And we normally human beings choose what what we like what is easy what we love.

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Our last panel, Tyler, when he chose, he chose for Heckman, and he chose it, I need to remind myself this. So I again, I will keep looking at data two, completely different and not one night, and not one night. So it is an honorable night at our country her Allah called the other out of honor because the other one of the meaning of it is honor number one.

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However, Allah also used it woman who the rally here is called like use it in the Quran, when it becomes a very narrow and very tight one of the meanings of a powder. And you know why? Because there is no space on this earth in there will be the earth will be so tight, and no more room and space for the angels that will be descended on that night for the mineral mela. There will be no space it's going to be so natural and so tight. Because all the angels are coming in that night second,

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which we all know is the Night of Decree where it is usually written in its

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law life and death.

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Who's going to go for Hajj that'll be me. And also sustenance. So we know that

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the other meaning lady little cuddle it's an honorable night. Yes, but it will honor the person who honors it terrified or not the person who will honor it and what is honor?

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What is dignity? Is not money. It is not status. It's not what people think of me. What did the law teaches me and knew a lot

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about honor as what did he say improper mechanic regional is for India hula is that to Jamia whosoever wants dignity, seek dignity, honor, fell in love Allah is to genea to a law belongs all dignity

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to Allah belongs all dignity. How will I get the dignity from Allah? I need to be close to him. How do I get close to Allah pantalla worship and take opportunities take advantage of the opportunity. So Layla to order one of the meanings of it, the name of it turns out

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it will elevate an honor and dignify the person who dignifies it the person who honor it. The person who comes to it with full focus

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and the last meaning of it is enough he hockey taboo.

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In it has been revealed a book an honorable book, write a little thing that is a Now what did we answer now what did we send our Quran it's a night it is honorable, because the honorable Book of Allah was revealed in its and it's what most scholars will say the whole Quran was revealed in one part from a local law firm from the tablet, down to a simmer down to the heavens and then over 23 years, it was sent gradually, accordingly on roswaal risotto Sarah different times and different places. So

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night of honor, Night of Decree, the night that is going to be taught the earth will be so tight, the honor that will elevate the person honor because he honored it, and the night where the honorable book was revealed in it

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and if you want to summarize it, it's a night honorable and

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the earth will be tight and a

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Angels coming, bringing all Allah's mercy in it will be the decrees and every human being will be elevated and honors on how much he or she does and it's an honor, it's the law. What is the signs, the signs pa the scholars said Yanni

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shot a lot. let's let's let's hope that we will know what the issue is and see how Allah has Heckman works.

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You don't know the sign of the night of other except the next morning.

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So I need to grab or seize the opportunity. Because by the time I will know it was last night, it's too late.

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And what has his own ways of

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arranging things tapana he could easily have given me the signs before the night start. No, it's he gave me the signs after what is the signs they say, the sun will rise that morning with no worries, no worries, we'll be so clear.

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And scholar saying this is actually it's amazing is an emotion creatorship Socrates is a contemporary scholars amazing, he has beautiful Tafseer of the Quran not complete. Unfortunately. He says the reason that the sun has no days will be so pure because all these angels that were on the earth, they will be going up before or as the sun rises and they will block the rays of the sun. Allah, Allah, Allah,

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Allah, but usually this is one of the signs. It's

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what things I can do. And these 10 days including so the first thing I wanted to share with you, all of you in sha Allah, Allah helped me is to change our mindset about these nights. Because I don't know which one is the night of the quarter. We need to change.

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Our

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mindset

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I need to look at from tomorrow night

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is going to be completely different.

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I'll give you an example May Allah forgive us but sometimes examples from our daily life help us if I have

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the most important exam of my life

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or deadline of my life, or interview of my life. And that exam or that project due

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on the 13th or the 14th meaning the day you fade

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What will I do the 10 days before it will I be watching TV? Will I be going out with my friends or what we're going to normally say

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I have an exam,

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I can do anything. We will do everything after.

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I need to focus this is my opportunity. If I don't pass this exam I'm done. If I don't get this job I am done. If I don't

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deliver the program or the project on time I'm in big trouble. I lose seize the opportunity. These are the 10 days Subhanallah some of the teachers I have seen and some of the advices I was given is like even for us woman, even for the US woman don't spend too much time on cooking in these days in these nights because you will get tired.

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Remember we are human beings we need the energy. So they say even get everything ready for sure. gifts for aid. everything related to aid get it done today and tomorrow or the day of fade.

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Don't waste the energy because we have we don't have a lot of lot we have limited energy. So we really need to look at these 10 days the opportunity.

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What do we do what did he do as I said earlier?

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Very unique

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act of worship to the 10 days last 10 days from one unique only. Specifically it has sought to saddam did it in these tonight is an ethical ethical seclusion.

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seclusion What does that mean?

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It calf in general is in the masjid. And Allah said this is sort of

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Tamati for masajid don't get close to them. He's talking to the to the men meaning when you are in state of Attica in the masjid, thus you are not going to be coming having your relationship with the with your wife. What does that tell me? scholar says it coffee Masjid enjoy

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No general erotica. seclusion is in the masjid. Okay, how about now? A lot tested us? How about a woman? Can't she has family? Or she normally doesn't go to the masjid.

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What do we do? That is always one law is always solution for everything because a lot mix it is power law.

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For those

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and let's let's go about Attica first and then we'll come to that. So what does that take up?

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seclusion? What does that take half an electric caffeinated helps the quality. You hold this like salt like sub you hold you actually disconnect?

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disconnect. What does it mean? I am going to be as

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human being. He thought he saw Muhammad Ali. I'm going to be disconnecting myself willingly

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as an act to get close to Allah from everything else in the life that I normally do it except the obligation and the necessities, obligations and necessities. What did he do? His salatu salam

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is the halacha of the Hala Mata Kava. That's how they said when the 10 days on the 10 nights approached, he entered Lily Butler he was actually in the masjid itself. He had like a small tent. And he goes and stay in that tent all day comes out only for soda and to leave to respond to the call of nature

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and food delivered to him.

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That's the example. That's what I am looking at. That's my use of a Swati Sato Sarah, but cannot confuse rasulillah he was one has. You have in the example of roswaal in salatu salam The best example. That's what Allah subhanaw taala taught you and me in the Quran, so it will ask them. So what did he do? That's what he did. This is the eight plus, this is the goal.

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The whole 10 nights, by the way, and in the year he died, he did it for 20 days.

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Now let's come to us practically, number one, I am going to be disconnecting from anything that is not necessarily

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and the number one

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what they teach is you and me interact decaf is you hold your tongue

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much and much and much and much and much, much less less, less less talk.

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And actually one of the names from Oban that we will be covering in Sharla is shadow soft is the month of silence. So decaf

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practically, you take a part, let's talk about the house. You take a part in the house usually preferably is where you normally pray you normally pray if the way you usually pray is a place that is not going to be private for you. Then you choose a place in the house.

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A small room as a corner when you will have your privacy and you will be easily disconnected from around you

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know talk unless necessary. And I'm going to come to certain circumstances and I'm talking now in general.

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If it was the norm the usual time and we are in the masjid, then that's exactly what it is to cover is not sitting with people in the masjid chatting. What's happening with the news? What am I going to do for a sabbatical? As Some say that sleep over a teacup is not sleep over? decaf? I am giving my time

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myself. My comfort to Allah subhana wa Tada. That's what I had to cut. I cut everything. So you choose a place in the house. You choose a place in the house? Yeah, decaf usually start if you're doing the whole 10 days, usually starts from the middle of the night of 21/21. So for us in the United States, if you all fasted with MCI, then it is going to be tomorrow, Sunday from home, get home ataka he or she goes to her place of Africa in a visit to again, necessary things. If you have someone that brings you food to your place. That's usually if not you go and eat and come back but mainly it's the very minimum things that you have to do that

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The idea of course the idea is in the masjid.

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How about I can do that. I can do it. I have to go to work. I couldn't take time off. I can't take time off. I have to take care of my children. I have to take care of my family then do at least part of the night with a Neil fatica like after Russia after Russia. He took care for everything in the house of 198 Kitchen is a clean we did everything after I shall

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go to that corner. Severe

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and disconnect from everything else. And number one disconnection is this

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unless of course you're on call or you have something to live with only to be touring but remove the internet. I need to completely disconnect at what did I say earlier I need to show a lot the best in me. And the best me I'm giving up your Allah all these I usually do an enjoy luck we have given up food and drink for all these 20 days in the next 10 days. Now I am giving higher your Allah and harder my comfort, my joy, the things I normally like an entertain for you only

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for you only. So either you do with the whole hamdulillah if you can, if you cannot Can you do the nights, the odd nights, the odd nights. If you cannot Can you do part of the night But definitely, definitely make sure you have in these coming nights in these coming nights. Every night. There is a time for RT Caf

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one liner, the level, the beauty of it, what it does to the heart, how it clears the heart is something beyond and I have seen it with my own eyes when Allah subhanaw taala blessed me to do it in the home in Makkah the night when they announced to model his aid I have seen woman woman sob like a baby

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because Ramadan is done. And this spiritual atmosphere that we lived in is done.

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Cleansing it cleans us that literally like we go and take a shower when we obey our laws pantalla constantly especially when it is difficult, especially when I've not done it before especially when there is challenges in it. It's clear and clean the heart like there is a soap and it's Subhan Allah. So Attica

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What do I do in it?

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Sala the obligations, extras, extras? extras? No often? No often? What did we learn that hamdulillah you have heard this Hadees many times many times while Salama Ramadan amen and YT Saba woman Paloma Ramadan Amen And ye salmon whomsoever fasted Ramadan out of faith, and waiting for the reward with certainty in the reward and who spent the night up praying email and what he saw but out of faith and waiting for the reward or

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since previously, previously done since are

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gone, removed, forgiven. So what do I do? I alternate between the bidat I alternate between the acts of worship human beings in general, by nature, we get bored. We get bored easily so change it.

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Spend time in seiner well I don't know much of the Quran Alhamdulillah have the Quran in your hand and read read read one make longer ruku don't expand or be a loving pic longer 1015 I've seen I've seen people does 20 and 25 in one shop hang on I'll be a loving war for a long subdued as much as you can. I am and you introduce closest to Allah subhanho wa Taala closest to Allah subhana wa tada

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all your Doha all what you want from Allah in dunya and Africa. Don't you want a lot of forgive you? Yes, of course. Don't I want Allah subhanaw taala to forgive me? Yes. Don't I want Allah pantalla to give me a good a good end? Yes. Do I want Allah Subhana Allah to bless my children? Yes. Do I want Allah Subhana Allah to bless my family and home? Yes, give me a response. It gives gives me lawful sustenance. Yes. Give me good health. Yes, on and on and on. Don't I want Allah fantana to make it easy death for me. So I remember that they had the law when I die. Don't I want to have my grave as a piece of Jana? Don't I want to enter Jana? Don't I want to see Rasul Allah

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So to set up don't I want the last pantalla to have to take my accountability or take the reckoning is much easier. There's a long list of things you don't have to have to have memorized all the dwis all the drives, ask Allah subhanho wa Taala anything you want as long as it's held on and the best time is in your showed long, don't come to cart. I'm going to do 20 I'm going to do 100 is not the amount is the quality. What are you giving a last pantalla you can do 100 and long ones Alhamdulillah he'll brand but focus on the quality focus on giving Allah again as we said in the beginning Ebola the best in you and me al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen so long standing we will get

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tired yes we will then sit liqueur of a loss pan tired. A lot of Sala Allah wa Swanee Santo Sena, Allah lot of

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our work in

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color.

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Then we call on, bullied or on

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a bad day to reflect on yourself. Reflect on your heart, what is in it? What is in it? reflect on your life? Where am I going? How much left? What's going to happen to me all these becomes easier and easier when you are away from distractions.

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Now

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the best job that everybody needs to memorize, it's a very short one.

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But see the heisha the scholar

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asked or Swati Sala to have set up what a question What a blessing that she asked and what a blessing we have a Rasulullah saw to sir Who taught us she said yada so Allah Allah in return in return later to notice well

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how about if I knew this is the night of late at

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night? think someone comes to you and tells you tonight

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What should I say?

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And this is probably questions many of you have it. What do I do? What do I say? She this she asked him mother

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basically what do I ask? What did he say? Please memorize this one Allahumma in the careful one to Herbalife tough one. Your law inaka fu You are the one who pardon not only forgive her for Apple forgive pardon. We don't talk about it Don't think about our fu to Hindu Love you Love to pardon

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your glorifying Allah so it's not only your You are the one who pardon and forgive but you love to be forgiven for the soft one.

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Please forgive me. Please pardon me. That's it. How difficult? How hard now you know the reason men Halima ha You're

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the one who will be the bride from the goodness in that night. We'll build a blind simple da one line Allahumma inaka fu to hope we'll have What fun you have it on your screen. Aloha Magna. cafo your Allah you are the one who poured the pod. If you love that one.

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Forgive me. Pardon. memorize it. memorize it. So I will not be of those who are the bride with? No, I don't. This is what I am going to say to myself from today. Your latter john Newman, Muhammad and Muhammad not Allah Don't make me from among those who are deprived.

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One of the beautiful things you don't need to cover as I said a sada and I am going to

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share some some examples in a moment of no pain now in the last 10 days. This is during the day. So remember, I will say this about his teacher. And he has been Tamia. He said one time I sat and I watched my teacher. Tell me he played fudger Now again, what I am sharing with you, if you can do it every day and I'll be the callaham if you cannot at least in the weekend. There will be weekend in this 10 days I have learned next Saturday and Sunday. So what did he say he said I saw him entertain me and my teacher praying fudger and then he stayed remembering Allah subhanho wa Taala almost to noon time

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to noon time.

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Meaning

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one day, I am going to try to do that. Even if in between. I will take a break at

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A small nap with the intention of getting stronger, I will be rewarded. But for him, he was up till noon. And when he looked at me in email every time he looked at his student, and he said, This is my food of the morning, and if I don't eat in the morning, I'll get weak.

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So Panama, this is my food for the morning. And if I don't eat the food in the morning, I will be weak. We say this about coffee. And we say this about breakfast and we say this about this and this.

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So I'm going to do I'm going to make a schedule that I'm going to do these things in the day I'm going to do these things in the night liquor awfulest pantalla does not require anything you can do with it. You're you're working in between, you can do what you're driving, you can do what you're cooking, cleaning even going to bed, you do it Subhan Allah

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one of the things you do it in these 10 days and in the nights especially wait for the signer

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or I'm sorry yeah, wait for the solder from solder. So wait for Salah to if I do sit wait for Salah to wait, don't wake up. Oh, two minutes. No. We're going to try to be up all night and wait, sit and wait for the Salah during the day. If you can again next weekend. If you are not working from home to house or wait sit down and bring your Quran in your masala where you are going to be making your Attica bring your Quran and your knee and not only Attica but you are waiting from one side to the other. Why? Because I'm going to share with you this Allah subhanaw taala we'll see the one the one who sits in their masala in their place of Salah waiting for another Salah as if he is neighbor of

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Allah subhanho wa Taala

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so Panama Allah, as he is neighbor of Allah spawn tada and this is an inner laluna do malkia Allah will call on the Day of Judgment. Where is my neighbors?

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Imagine this.

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Allah on the Day of Judgment, will say Where are my neighbors? Where are they where is where are my neighbors

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and the angels will say, Our Lord who can be your neighbor

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and he says, Those who have fulfilled and flourished masajid me meaning they are in salah and especially waiting from one side to the other from one side to the other.

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One of the things we also have to remember

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don't be of those who are Swati salatu salam said, You are being not only to huddle huddle, Khurana Maduro let us not be of those who are soiree sought to sit down on the day of judgment will say we are Allah, my people neglected this Cora

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let us not be of those and neglecting the Quran has many levels. Number one, we don't know it. We don't read it. We don't understand it. We don't practice at its levels. Let us be part of these 10 days and the nights it is going to be called on

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put for yourself schedule with a specific amount of reading the Quran again. These will be very easy when I remove all the distractions except the necessity but if I am going to keep doing as I am doing as we see it here if you keep doing what you are doing, you will keep getting what you are getting. If I'm going to sit still be spending a lot of time on the phone, chatting with people discussing politics or discussing stock market all this

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recording. I am deployed. I can discuss all this afterwards.

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So let's ask Allah subhanho wa Taala yo Don't be me you're not having the higher your love don't deprive us from the higher the goodness of relative to Allah in this is a beautiful Doha also in Allah decree Kaushal clico has named morality your Allah help us allow the character to remember you worship cricket to be grateful for Hosni ability and to worship you in the best way. And the best way the more grateful I am to Allah The more he will give me the more grateful when I put the date in my mouth and I say you're not home but you made the day easy Allah will make the night easier.

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Let's let's start this relationship and I will end up with this. Let's take these 10 days

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opportunity and re establish or re establish for

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make, re establish the relationship with Allah or strengthen the relationship with Allah subhanho wa Taala or for much closer to Allah subhanho wa Taala. One thing, don't forget to be generous in eastern nights Also, if you are not in a state of Attica, meaning you are not completely disconnected regionals, anyone reach out to you, I'm not talking about money only. I'm talking about giving anybody reach out to you for help. Do it. Don't say they don't do it. Don't say they don't deserve it. You're you're doing it for the law. You're doing it for them are very generous. Absolutely give money if you can, that's for sure. 100 like, everybody is doing their fundraising

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these days, because you are opening an opportunity for people to do a good deed. This is how I say to myself, when someone call me or text me and say we need this or I need that Iraqi hamdulillah Allah brought it to me. So I will be generous, generous and forgiving people clear your heart. Clean your heart go to these tonight's North Africa gluino of England and Athena harmony Allah don't put in our hearts any hatred to any person who is a believer. Whatever they did, I have done worse with the last panel. This is how I always say clear your hearts, clear your hearts completely and ask Allah pantalla the urban winner, y'all a lot except from us as Abraham when he built the car. What

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more virtuous act than building the house of Allah. At the end he said there have been a taco bell Mina in a contest Cemil Daddy, y'all Allah accept from us in the Cemil rally, you are all hearing or knows what to Valena and repent and accept our repentance. ask Allah lama makapuu to Hebrew laugh for me. Your love You are the one who pardon please pardon me. And you love to pardon please pardon me, what did I have a panic alarm on behind the shadow stuff Hilco to Buddha, Salaam alesina Muhammad Ali Ali, he was having testament kathira I want to share a couple of things with you. Number one is akmola higher than I am personally as me and on behalf of all the stuff of Geneva

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Institute, I am so grateful to Allah subhanaw taala number one, but also to everybody who have been supporting us and supported us by your generosity from last Ramadan. Alhamdulillah. And I cannot be enough or grateful for Allah. Everything in our institute doubled or tripled the courses, the teachers, the students, the classes, we were able to open more and more and more Alhamdulillah when we moved from a local Institute to Al hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen International Institute we have students from all over the world that's by his full name. And after that, by your help your generosity you're trusting us to learn from us. You're trusting us to donate to us you're trusting

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us that we are worthy of taking this amount of so deserve more higher. And I am here pleading to add playing to everybody because I'm going to share with you

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handed in the hill Brandon in a beautiful gesture of loss pantalla made it easy Bismillah from this fall September, we are starting a whole one year program. Woman to Woman woman teachers to the woman students, and it's titled year of knowledge what every Muslim woman should learn about her Deen. The goal of this program is not to graduate scholars. The goal of the program is that the mothers of tomorrow and the current models learn this Deen properly, practice it properly. In an authentic way all the books and all the material using are all authentic, but in an easy way. And a practical way. We ask for your draw number one, and absolutely will ask for your support. And the you see the link

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at hamdu Lillahi Rabbil aalameen. We had the generous woman this week and and she pledged to match whatever we are going to be collecting and this weekend. We generous and do it for Allah subhanho wa Taala. And our goal is to reach 100,000 100 now we are close to 60 we still have something to go and it is hamdu Lillahi Rabbil alameen tax deductible, as you all know, and also it is accountable as we will allocate it to the needy students. So don't deprive us from your support. And if you cannot, and we absolutely understand that hamdulillah spread the word. Share it a day and don't allow fear cafe. The person who guides people to do good as if he or she did it and Zach Malawi run and you

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have the

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of the donations details here. I think there was a lot of questions if I can get some of the questions.

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Let's see.

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Yeah, no, Rita, can we have the questions? I don't see it. Any questions is there

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okay.

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If you can put the questions at the bottom Yeah, no returns or Yeah, okay. You can do that later. When it comes to ram or whatever calculator, can you please talk about what those on there? Very good question. May Allah reward you, Allah. Allah Subhana. Allah. So the woman during her restoration, what can she do?

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It is a very common question. And it's a beautiful question. You know why I always say this to the woman, the fact you are sad. The fact you feel you are deprived, and look at what I did. That's a good news. Your heart is connected with a las pantalla you want to do more?

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So how do I answer number one? Number one, the fact you are not fasting. That's an act of worship. You will be rewarded, because you are not fasting because it's your menstruation, because that's what he taught him. What is he bad? What is act of worship? I do and say everything internal and external that's pleasing to Allah subhana wa Tada. So he told me not too far. So I'm not fasting.

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The actual past, I am obeying Allah, I'll be rewarded. I'm not praying. I am not doing because he told me I am obeying Him. So what do I do?

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Number one, and that's the most easiest, the easiest one. A lot of

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remembering Allah. Try to do try it. How does it feel to make a 1000? On what Allah Swanee? saltos or 500 or six or seven, there is no specific number I'm trying but just a lot. How about his default? How about like what he taught us are Swati. salatu salam whomsoever says La ilaha illallah wa cuando la sharika 1000 times? I'm sorry, 100 times in the morning 100 times in the evening. How about that? How about Subhan Allah who will be handy 100 times in the morning 100 times in the evening. So the number two, stay away from disobedience. That's a huge reward at all. I'm not gonna say anything, anything that will disobeyed law. I'm not going to be looking at anything that will

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disobeying the law. I am not going to hear or listen anything that will disobey Allah and I will do my best to harbor Nothing. Nothing. But what pleases Allah in my heart. Can I be generous in that month? Yes, during my masturbation and again, not necessarily only money, generous, help people, help people. Cook, go and deliver it to the fasting person. Every day $1 share the news share good news, good projects, be generous. So the only two things or three things where the woman during harmless tuition cannot do in reality is fasting that she will be rewarded by not fasting. Prior she will be rewarded and reading the Quran reading the Quran meaning moving her her lips in the three

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opinions she cannot indefinitely touching the Quran. So you can have the Koran in your let's say iPad, right? And then just look at with your eyes and don't move your lips if you do this and it can stay in your masala with the care of Allah and reading the Quran.

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And may Allah make it easier later.

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Nobody says other question you can put now.

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Yeah, no martial law.

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Do we have to stay up all night to get data to cuddle? Yeah, salaam atomic life that's what Allah said Salaam on here peace had done applying for jobs till

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he morning. He'll do your best.

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What I mean by the following you stay in your place, whether again in the masjid or in your home. And if you get extremely tired, and that's why I've said that during the day. Don't overdo things. Don't get yourself so tired and get arrested during the day because you will you have a long night as we say, if you fell asleep. Then you take a nap. Allah gave you this but in general Yes, you stay up all night between Vicar, Corrado, reading the Quran, asking Allah for forgiveness and Sunnah.

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Again, not only the 27 the 29 Date Night of Ramadan

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That's many Muslims Subhan Allah

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I don't think we know it we know it's it's its virtue, other than it could be the night off and other but it is the night that Allah will be rewarding us. And rusada thought was Salam says don't you pay the worker at the end of his job? It's the same for the night of the 29th so I want to win a lotto he's gonna reward me I'm showing him the best in

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peace still the issue regarding the property left by a woman and its distribution I don't know what exactly this question mean. I need more details please email me at the Torah Haifa agenda institute.org with more detail, and sha Allah I'll do my best. Like whenever I want to do something good.

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That was was a off show your bond disturbs me. Is my emotion weak. I am afraid Allah will not forgive me our law. Our law does not smell very good question. Whenever I want to do a good so she has the intention. And it is good meaning without what pleases Allah? Haha the worst was sort of shaitan comes in and I'll give you examples. Is my man weak? Even Allah forgive me. So there's many points in this question. Let's take it one by one. intend to do good all the time. All the time men humblebee. hacer una Philomena and melhor. Canada draw

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out Oh sorry, sorry to sit on to the beauty of this day, Whosoever intended had has or had the intention of doing good pleasing for Allah and he or she could not do it could not do it.

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They will be rewarded

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has an happen and if they did it, they will get 10 rewards. So that's number one. Number two was what sort of shaitan What do I do? What do I do?

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Allah also answered this and sorted out of England.

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He does the whole bar for ministry Bonnie to the cuddle feeder homeless label for losses in the Livia taco those who have not me. People have taco in the Livia taco either Mr. homeboy formula shavon when the whisper of shaitaan touches them, what do they do to that Kuru? remembered Allah pray the whole the settle, they will see well meaning ask refuge in a law firm shape bar. I will demonstrate how the language is easy. Just keep saying it. Keep saying it. shaitan does not give up but don't give up.

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cybil compete compete with him till he gives up to is my email and week.

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We cannot keep seeing our email is weak. My email is weak. When I don't obey Allah. When I disobeyed Allah in that moment might be managed, but not general or Swati software. Sam also taught us learners reposado lang is designed to home augment the person the believer who does or commit adultery in that moment of committing adultery is not a moment meaning his Eman is weak. So it's not general. But when I disobeyed Allah Yes, my email at that moment is weak when I want to do something good, but then I didn't do it. Could you be my email a week? Yeah, but don't look at it this way because that will let SharePoint have an easy way to just you know what? It's normal email increase

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and decrease this is one of the belief of the people of

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our Jamal Imani as a way of course he man goes up and goes down norm How do it go up by Bill pa by obedience to our last panel and how does it get less by this by disobedience so whenever I feel this just do a good deed and the good deed is stuck.

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Like the hygroma Oh wha phonology will Allah forgive me Don't we should we should never ask this question.

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No. Yeah, cool. Yeah.

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I'm pushing Latta on oma Rahmatullah in Ohio, Sheldon. Oh, Virginia.

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Yeah, Daddy, my sermon This is a sort of zoom on their scholars teaches us. This is the most hopeful verse in the Quran.

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Yeah, Anybody? Anybody say my bad My servants, who are they, under the National for now pushing the transgressed not was was achieved on transgressed. As for 440 nataka Nakamura Mattila don't disappear from the loving Mercy of Allah in Ohio through the new Virginia law forgive all the sins. And then the next idea to Eitan solar to Nyssa in Allah. Now you have a few I use

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cabbie Medina dyadic Allah does not forgive that we worship another partner with him why up through medallic everything else He forgive Allah is Allah for that's why we need to learn to be unlawful

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should we only worship during odd night Very good question may Allah reward you How do I know for sure this is the odd night?

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How many years we have seen that they said it's today is the first day of Ramadan. So the odd Knights will be this and then later on they said no, it was actually the beginning of Ramadan was not in this. number one number two, there is always different people in the world of fasting, how do I know we are the right or we are the wrong so what is the answer? To be on the suicide every single night? As much as I can.

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That's why our Swati Software Center. He did that to cover the hotel nights he did not do within the odd nights only. So do your photo every night. Think of it off layer of color every night. Everybody night. Again change the setting the mind setting and make every night as if it is needed to other than for sure you will not miss it. For sure you will not miss it and ask her not to make it easy. Your b&b May Allah make it easy for all of us.

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Any other question Janya Rita

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How can I soft in my heart? What a question.

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No way urea, Tamara coma How can I soften my heart? Turn the question the other way around. What makes my heart hard?

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What's hard in the heart, disobedience of Allah, heedlessness and Loeffler Anopheles

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kennela. Below on Allah kulu the mechanics even Allah said this pretty much off the theme Nay, their hearts was sealed with the wrong one is like the dark black. Or this

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solder is like when the metal becomes autumn, Allah kulu became mechanic scible because of what they were doing, the heart was involved with this. That's what makes the heart hardened. Meaning if I spend my time

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daily life focusing only on my airflow I'm sorry focusing only on my dunya

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not thinking of my

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Wi Fi this will be a loss not a big deal lies off all right. I don't do but the bare minimum and even if the bare minimum I can assure you the heart is hard.

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And in one saying I don't recall now but one of the ways to soften the hearts many ways but one of the ways number one is Vicar of Allah, remembering Allah, salah and even reading Quran insights Allah and Vicar soft in the heart A lot of us do far

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a lot of asking Allah for forgiveness and Allah He sees you and he sees me see I want to come close them He will make it but it's a work the the you can go back to our test carrier classes. We covered this in detail last year about the signs of the hard heart and the signs of the soft heart and what are the steps that I just gave you the General licola is number one charity is number two is extremely and long sauna specially in the night. Tips for Muslims who are going to practice the last 10 nights for the first time okay good question. never done it before

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you feel so scary. You feel it's impossible because I've never done it what what do you mean by me sitting on a on a corner facing the wall for the whole tonight that's very difficult. That shape one and that's my weakness. Number one. As I said in the beginning, I don't know if you joined us from the beginning along with a salad lemma Dr. husana nothing is easy but what Allah make it easy. A lot of your work yes sir. Your bs a lot. Make it easy. Make it easy. Make it is whenever you get tired, taken up. Especially during the day if you're gonna do the whole 10 days. Make sure in the day you get enough sleep. Because when we get tired, we cannot do it. Don't eat too much.

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When we eat too much we get lazy. When we eat too much we get lazy. I've seen teachers you have the hearts where they will tell you bare minimum dates and water mackerel Swati Salatu was set up for three days. I'm not going to ask this. Eat less. As soon as you like to eat steak.

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away from them, it weakens you, it weakens your ends. Pay attention to this what I am going to say.

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The first day is very difficult. Second day becomes less. Third day becomes less, four, they become less, fifth and six becomes not a big deal. Seven Eight becomes easy. Then I'm the 10th your crime it's done.

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Because it's beautiful. We have never felt this. Remove. Remove the distractions and no phone. No phone and the reason I'm saying phone because phone these days, not just a phone, it's everything. If you can, of course, and minimum things don't waste your time and anything of dunia not necessarily and one light will be very easy Allah will make it easy. So how long? It Mila.

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You can donate by check. Absolutely yes, you wish you can do exactly what he would do. If I Was he, you can send the check to the address. If you're an order taker you can put the address it's on our website, you can send it to that address by cheque you can donate directly through the bank so it's direct debit through the bank, you can do through credit cards, you can do so launch good go to gentleman institute.com slash donate you will find it right there. Or just go to Jeunesse two.com, and then on the top that is donate, click on it, and we'll give you all the options to Zach mlok. And may Allah He will do your ob me. Yes, don't forget us in your generosity. And 100 later on

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behind me, too to UN I see this all the time to give anything with to do anything with a son. It cost. If I want to do a son and my son up, it cost me energy and time. So if I want to do a program and I want to teach it and the institute's to flourish. With sun, it definitely comes with cost because people who works May Allah reward them. We have many volunteers, but also people comes and they want to work instead of working in another place that there will be no reward other than dunya. Then the end professionals they need to be paid well also that's their right. So does that come along? Yeah, exactly. Well, that's the address right here. Any other question? Yes, they know how to

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encourage

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your loved ones to practice Islam better. I feel frustrated and sad. When seeing some of my close connections. Don't fast and pray and going to observe Ramadan as we should do, please have us in your da it's so so true. Saw reality. Saw reality. You see people fasting, and they're not praying. And you see people not fasting, and you see people fasting and praying.

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Maybe just Marham and you see people praying and fasting and praying the follow up, but not really. They know everything about this slide but they don't know the Quran Yamuna warhead. I'm not here to dunia warm I feel at home hospital as a last one all the time. I said they know everything about this life. And they don't they are very heedless about the ACA. It's sad. It's very sad. However, handler for Islam and the area that last pantalla told Laura Swanee Sato center in nicoleta human added hola que la jolla de Manisha you do not guide whom you love or lacking aloha it Masha Allah guide so that supports thing first thing is it's not in my hand. I love them I want to see them with

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me in Jenin I want them to be even better than me, but I can't do it. I can't change. I need to tell this to myself. Having said that. Well I have other things I can do for them. Yes. Number one is da da da da us called law my daddy Carla Hey guys ease and I say if Allah guided me and guided you Why not that person or that person?

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Sincerely pray for them and if they are your loved one by the name in your moments of closeness to Allah in your schedule, when you're crying and sobbing This is your children when you're crying and sobbing.

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beg me Allah y'all Allah in the Calico militia in Korea you are capable of everything in Nicaragua for all Rahim forgive them and guide them. So pray and pray and pray for them. Don't nag. Don't give lectures you push people away this way. But most importantly, you are the example I am the example. I practice what I preach as much as I can. And unless Pantanal Nakatsu don't any sir. Can you recite online Quran when you are menstruating?

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You mean I didn't understand that you mean recite you mean you're moving your tongue reciting the Quran moving your tongue in the three school of thoughts accepted Mr. Malik, it is not allowed. So if you want to unless you are happy

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Unless you are in the process of hate or you already have memorized and you're reviewing that's an exception, but in general the answer is not allowed in the three school of thoughts, which is more important finishing Quran during Ramadan or reading it with understanding but unable to finish it. Very good question. Yes, I mean, this is very common question. What was the Sona go back to the origin? What did he do? alayhi salatu salam he reviewed the Quran with the signature breed every night

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for 30 nights Can I tell you the horrible it's horrible? He's RSI to start with say the jury does it once except the last year when he passed away he did it twice so the sooner is you finish so what do you do? You make one as we call a tomato finish the whole Quran by reading just read and your intention again. It's the Quran is the words of Allah and follow the signal for Rasul Allah santosa then allocate some time, daily one page to understand hamdulillah you can do more you can do more. But again practically, also part of your liqueur remembering Allah and worshiping Allah is you understand a page of the Quran for example half a page five or page whatever you can

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do the last thing night starts at motorboat tonight. It depends. It starts on the night of the 21st the night of the 21st so it depends When did your Oman start for you? What is the best so far? I keep on saying stuff a lot but I realize a time My mind is not here. Does it count? Ah very good question. hamdulillah you're all doing beautiful questions. A Vicar is a three levels remembering Allah Santana is a three levels

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the first trouble is with your tongue only. I just say it second level is with my heart only I don't say it with my tongue the best is with my heart and with my tongue. So I do my best to do the third but if I did the first it's also the what is the best stay for say you don't use default as a roswaal install to Sam taught us the master officer for Allah Allah and alarming abduch been traveling for a long time the AMA took them to Abu then to have the Marvin fee or Hokkaido fee. And no, I'm sorry.

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It's not coming to my mind so how long so you don't fall

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along that knee have

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been trapped the Nolita helped me if you can put it on the screen so you don't fall I did a whole one hour so policy how Allah always remind us that in the whole Hollywood hockey is the only one who knows. You can go to YouTube I did the whole about the say you don't LST for hallak 21 Abdul hamdulillah Hello attorney one Abdo Kannada Hindi ko Radhika mustapa abou look at magically aboot let them be fought for leave an array of reasonable and see you do stick for the master of step four. printed in Arabic and English handed Jackie, Lama and Toby and I looked anyone up look when Allah de COVID he can muster thought oh do becaming Sheree masana abou la Cubana automatically and

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what will be them be thoughtful leave I know they offer is the norbeck land you find this in Muslim Muslim in anywhere but write it in Arabic put it in your place. Where are you doing erotica? Or where you're doing your actual work? Any acts of worship right there. If this is sometimes we want more the best one

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as our Swati salatu salam taught us what saving the known said yeah, you know higher interest subhanak and you control me now volume a la ilaha illa Anta Subhana can control me nobody me? No God, but y'all know I was wrong. We'll take one more question now. Salaam Alaikum. What advice can you Alico cinema? What advice can you give for mothers to balance between the bad for last night and our mother duties? Very good question. Yeah, sure. May Allah reward you number one, and this is applies to a lot of the woman hamdulillah especially with young children, right? Or with family or a woman taking care of their family, their their husband, their parents, what do I do? I can do this

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10 nights completely. Number one, you have the intention and you are solid you are you are truthful. The law that if I did not have this, I would have done it your law. And as a result of a salatu salam taught us what he said what he was telling the Sahaba there is people in Medina and when he left with a group of companions going for expedition and there's some people stayed in Medina, he told those who were with him that his people stayed in Medina, any mountain or any hill that you will go up and you go down, you will get reward, they will get the reward. The reason they're getting come out because they had the excuse have a home load. So here you are. Allah knows if you

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were free if your children were grown up if he were alone.

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You would have done it. So have this inside number two, taking care of the children or taking care of the husband or taking care of the parents in the way pleasing to Allah is an act of worship. And Allah will reward you. Three, three, every spare moment I have, I'm going to use it for a bad every spare moment you know sometimes you're very tired. We just sit on the couch and just we do nothing. Not in the 10 days of Ramadan the last 10 days. I'm going to be doing the curl stuff Loma

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Linda Yella Please forgive me Allah make it easy right? I'm going to be listening to Oran and then one is close to me so whenever there is a moment I will be reading Quran grace the grace when grab the opportunity every free time opportunity even your sleeping make it act of worship there are a lot going to but I'm very tired but I need to rest a little bit and I'm going to get up to worship the RBI we'll take one more question inshallah we will be done. If there is any more questions may Allah make it easy for you we are sure for everyone. For everybody who's working these long hours they have to work to feed their families, man and a woman may Allah make it easy for you.

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I'm trying to entertain the non

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Muslims in our house I want my family to maintain the non Muslims in our house. Price Allah do fast they read the Quran but they are weak to maintain the non Muslim in the house I don't understand exactly the question just one comment. Let's not

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judge people.

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Allah knows what is in the heart I don't know who has wiki man. Let's not be that if anybody has with email It's me. Right at one day I was even worse and I didn't understand very well sister please email me so I can look into the cell can a woman do it calf at home? Yeah, absolutely. Absolutely some school of thought they said her it covers in her home however the wives of Ross Wallace Auto Center did a teacup with him in the masjid. How can we join the course Jeannette security Jackie Lau Korea Sarah go and check our websites. Number one follow us on social media on Instagram and on Facebook the Torah Haifa, Eunice, Instagram or Facebook and gender Institute we are

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Rahmatullah who ever occur to me a lot he would you all