Haifaa Younis – How can I respond when someone hurt’s me
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The speaker discusses a challenge he faced, where his friends didn't do it well. He talks about his father's reaction to the challenge, which was to convince him to get out and leave, but ultimately the challenge made him feel uncomfortable. He advises people to not get offended and walk with a smile, and to focus on forgiveness and community.
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Everybody was different.
Everyone does this. You know you hear this
all the time. All my friends doesn't do
it. That's what Sayedna Ibrahim.
That was Sayedne Ibrahim where he was growing.
But he didn't give up and leave
right away. That's what he learned. So he
was still there. Right? First
challenge was whom?
So rat Mariam.
Daddy this is exactly how he said it.
Yeah, Abati.
Daddy didn't tell him Okafor?
Wasn't rude. No, no, no. Yeah, Abati, my
dad my dad.
Why? Meaning convince me maybe I'm wrong.
Dialog. Yeah, Abati, daddy, why? Why do you
worship something, doesn't hear, doesn't listen?
And will never benefit you.
The way and then he continued.
I I know a little bit more than
you know.
How did the the father responded?
Oh, it's okay. Don't worry. You do whatever
you want. Uh-uh.
If you're not gonna stop, quote unquote, this
nonsense,
I'm going to stone you.
Now the word Hajar or Hidra.
Get out.
Leave.
And what did he say?
Does anyone know?
How did he respond to his father?
Assalamu alaik.
Peace be upon you. That teaches you and
me. People can be rude,
people disagree with me, people make fun of
me, make fun of you. I'm sure any
one of you in the public life,
people will ask you questions. Allah knows their
intention.
Don't be rude. Don't get offended.
Walk
and say,
taught us. You Allah forgive my people. They
don't know. If they know the beauty of
what I and you know, they will not
say this.
Okay, daddy. I'm going.
But before that, he didn't just leave right
away.
He actually had discussion with his people also.
So first is home, second is community,
and apply this to yourself.