Haifaa Younis – Embracing Criticism with Gratitude
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The recent media highlights various arguments and experiences that have caused people to be nervous and fearful, including arrogance, chaos, and scary experiences. They also mention the success of Islam and its importance in bringing people back to reality. The speakers emphasize the importance of avoiding slums and making one's lives successful, while also reminding people to not give up until the time of death.
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When someone come and say something you don't
like Be grateful and that person is sincere
majority of the people don't say they don't
like me Then I'm sorry.
I'm arrogant if I say this you say
something to me I don't like and I
say he doesn't or she doesn't like me.
I'm arrogant Right.
I'm gonna take it exactly as it was
said.
I'll go home think of it and I
say Allah is this is true They show
me and that's what the man when he
came to them, right he didn't have to
say anything Why did he come and says
you're coming to be on more silly?
Why did he care and walked from the
far place came to them worried about them
people come on believe?
They did not asking you for anything.
Why you're not doing it.
They made fun of him.
Not only made fun of him They killed
him Did he lose anything on the contrary?
Where did he end up?
Jenna so again for us to live surat
yassin When someone comes and give you a
word of admonition take it Take it don't
attack her Even if she didn't say it
in the best way and sometimes we do
but why did she say it because she
cares Right if she looks at you and
says, you know what whatever I don't want
to give examples But whatever it is, sometimes
it's not something we like and we think
we are right Take it think of it
be grateful to Allah say no homer Who's
always to say Rahim allahumma in a day?
I open up see may Allah bless that
person who gifts me look at the word
that say no one not you and me
Give to me my shortcomings He didn't say
how dare you say this.
Don't you know who I am?
Gifted me my shortcomings then Allah subhanallah move
us to the third page and in the
third page He knows that we are as
a human beings.
What?
Arrogant Argumentative and basically so what you're saying
has a lot of arguments Arguments of the
human being and this is where we will
end up today Arguments, I don't I'm not
convinced Why is that?
Things has changed and Allah start now bringing
your attention in my see See you can't
say I didn't see right and how many
times I will am you know, don't they
say don't they see we send down Had
rain for the last week right flood actually
huge rain.
Did you look at your plants?
Probably didn't see it What did he say?
Oh, let me know Don't they see right?
What did they and we send down for
them rain?
What I say now I heard you know,
we gave life we brought forth.
Look at your plants I was like I
with this morning the Hamlet was sunny.
So I was looking at the plants I
was like there would be this is beautiful
because they all much fresher So Allah now
bringing your attention mine and yours see things
around you Let so number one message is
read the Quran's true number two Don't be
like those people who are arrogant who does
not they think always they are right?
Nobody is always right.
Number three see the things around you Don't
take it casual Everything around you is message
from Allah Message from Allah to you and
to me things you like things you don't
like including things happen in my life Let's
know what he created and he said look
around you We created we the the land
is dead We send water and becomes all
alive and look at around you that the
Sun the moon We all talked about this
last two or three weeks ago, okay, we
don't care We're too busy.
I know everything Right full of arrogance and
then he starts scaring you because that's the
only way you bring people Attention is when
you scare them Right and you sometimes I'm
sure you have seen it sometimes very funny
flight attendants Right more than one time I've
seen it when they really want you to
make pay attention to the Usually the instructions
they give what do they say?
Oh, did anybody lose a phone and everybody?
Right and said, okay now I get your
attention Right, you have seen it.
I've seen so many times and very smart
people.
So Allah now bringing my attention to the
reality You're not seeing you think you know
everything, you know, you're gonna live here forever
great when we have a suit and We
talked about this last week Every time you
hear when you think of his sword the
new fika is what blown?
Blow in the trumpet.
What is that?
Let's go and have coffee Let's go and
build a house.
Let's go and have fun.
I'm gonna invite you.
No, it's the time for reckoning Are you
ready?
Today or tomorrow Allah knows as this morning.
I was teaching the year of knowledge We
get to this and I'm not will be
caught in here.
We're teaching Akita Do your deeds and mine
were judged?
Or how what is the best thing in
your life is what you do at the
end of your life?
Don't you ever say I'm perfect.
What is it was a big deal about
me?
I do this.
I do this You don't know how you
will die and The same thing for those
people who they think or I may Allah
forgive me or you look at people and
says look at her Look at him.
Ah Don't look down at them.
You don't know how they will die they
may die and doing something way better than
you and me and This is also a
Hadith of a Rasool alias.
So Allah subhan Allah now brings me to
The day of judgment moved me from this
life to reality and he starts talking about
very little about Jannah Which is very interesting
very few ayat about heavens in surah Yasin,
don't ask me why other places a lot
of description, but there is a lot much
longer about Jannah Why?
Because I need to be scared.
I Need to be reminded is what I
always say this to myself, right?
Scholars always differ.
This is very common question for everybody Do
you always scare people or do I always
live with fear of what I did?
Jahannam the day of judgment the grave the
punishment Is that how I need to live
or I need to live with Allah subhanahu
wa'ta'ala is very forgiving.
Don't worry.
You're okay Which one?
No No, that's what you all have to
learn They said and I loved it.
Actually They said it depends on the people
if the people are so comfortable with this
life and They are in a state of
heedlessness.
You need to scare them wake them up
If they are on the contrary very scared
They are living their daily life almost paralyzed.
I can't I can't imagine myself in the
grave I can't imagine myself facing Allah you
need now to give them hope and Definitely
give them hope at the time of death.
Don't you tell somebody they are dying or
they were diagnosed with Let's say terminal that
Wow, nothing much left in you.
I don't know what you're gonna do or
Allah is should be do like God.
That's not the time That's not the time
when you say Allah have severe punishment But
this is the time when you and me
now Sitting in my comfort zone in your
comfort zone in in here and we have
so many plans for the summer This is
the time where I need someone to look
at me and remind me this may change
in a second Are you ready?
You're planning for summer hundred left?
What's your plans for Africa?
You're planning to do this and this in
your home.
What's your plan for the grave?
You will live in the grave way longer.
Did you see my point?
So here Allah swt because the people before
were so arrogant made fun of that man
killed him Nothing no reminder benefit to them.
He starts scaring