Haifaa Younis – Do we understand the meaning for a Test

Haifaa Younis
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The importance of testing one's health and responding to COVID-19 needs to be the same. It is crucial to identify tests and share them on social media. The speaker emphasizes the struggles of women in their generation and the need for patience and understanding. He and his partner have been feeling overwhelmed and struggling to react to the situation, and they need to learn how to react. Everyone should be ready to wake up to react to the situation.

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			When the weather change, like, 3 months ago,
		
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			I think if I remember well, there was
		
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			a possibility of a tornado or whatever. Right?
		
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			We were Muftaddun.
		
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			It was a test. It's a severe weather,
		
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			right, we were Mu'tadun, we were guided,
		
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			we have practiced Sabr and Salah and we
		
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			are with Allah, so when the test comes
		
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			in, I wouldn't say I'm ready, but my
		
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			response will be the way that Allah wants
		
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			me.
		
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			So take home message,
		
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			especially from this,
		
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			we all will be tested.
		
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			This dunya harihi Daruktila,
		
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			that's how they call it. This dunya Daruktila.
		
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			This life is a place of a test,
		
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			and the test in 2 ways because I
		
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			don't want you to keep thinking test is
		
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			bad.
		
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			So if I'm healthy, I'm not tested.
		
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			If I am sick, I'm not tested.
		
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			Both.
		
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			What does that mean?
		
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			When you are healthy, alhamdulillah, all of us
		
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			now, right? Meaning I can see,
		
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			I can think, right, I can walk, doesn't
		
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			matter what else, but at least the major
		
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			ones.
		
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			I am tested.
		
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			What are you doing with this health?
		
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			And when I am sick,
		
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			I can't do what the healthy people
		
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			do.
		
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			I am tested
		
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			how I'm gonna respond.
		
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			So the test is different like when you
		
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			have 2
		
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			desserts, they're all desserts
		
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			or 1 is this, 1 is that
		
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			and 1 people like and 1 people
		
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			doesn't like, but in both ways what does
		
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			Allah want from me when I'm eating dessert?
		
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			He wants me to be
		
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			grateful.
		
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			When I am being tested,
		
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			I have everything, I'm tested, I don't have
		
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			anything, I am tested. The response needs to
		
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			be the same.
		
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			Question for everybody.
		
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			May Allah not test us the same way.
		
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			Which 1 is better?
		
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			Us in the sight of Allah?
		
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			Us
		
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			or the people of Gaza?
		
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			I wanna hear it.
		
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			I'm sorry?
		
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			Why?
		
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			Okay. So the people of us. Why?
		
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			I'm sorry?
		
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			No habibati. This is what I wanted to
		
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			change. Don't you think their test is worse
		
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			than us?
		
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			No.
		
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			You will be asked about the luxury.
		
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			You know what's a naim?
		
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			The luxury?
		
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			You think the luxury is a is a
		
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			home on the beach?
		
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			Said Nabla Abnaba said
		
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			the naim,
		
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			the the drink of a cold water when
		
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			you are thirsty.
		
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			The sip of a cold water when you
		
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			are thirsty, this is nayim.
		
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			You will be asked about that.
		
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			So which 1 is better? Which 1 in
		
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			the sight of Allah
		
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			responding to a test?
		
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			The test of Gaza is tough
		
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			externally,
		
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			and our test is
		
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			not tough externally.
		
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			But it's both tests, and he's waiting for
		
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			the response.
		
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			Right?
		
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			Which 1?
		
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			Which 1 is tougher?
		
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			Which 1 failed?
		
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			And which 1 did not fail?
		
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			1 person, raise your hand.
		
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			Yes, Mariam.
		
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			I'm I can't hear you.
		
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			It's not about here.
		
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			It's about response. Hear about action.
		
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			Hear about action. Of course it's taqwa if
		
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			I'm thinking of Allah.
		
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			Right?
		
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			Which 1 is better?
		
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			Our
		
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			test is better.
		
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			Our test is better? Because we have so
		
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			many,
		
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			easily. Right? If we keep
		
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			steadfast still and If if if
		
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			if are we?
		
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			Are we focused? Again, because
		
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			the goal of this, maybe it's gonna be
		
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			next week and the week after,
		
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			is not only to feel for the people
		
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			of Gaza because that's this is taken.
		
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			What did I learn?
		
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			Why did Allah this brought this to my
		
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			life?
		
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			And I'm living it
		
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			day by day.
		
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			Now we used to live it through the
		
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			social media. Now we are living it through
		
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			people going and coming back, and they saw
		
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			and they share. What does he want from
		
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			me? That's the most important thing.
		
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			Right?
		
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			Now what I need to do is the
		
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			following.
		
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			Identify your test,
		
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			And the test, again, is not negative always.
		
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			What test you are going test of health,
		
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			test of wealth,
		
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			test of beauty,
		
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			test of children,
		
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			test of a good spouse,
		
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			test of education,
		
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			test of religion,
		
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			test of being religious,
		
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			test of being half of the Quran.
		
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			These are all tests. How do you respond?
		
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			How do you respond?
		
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			If I am gonna respond in a way
		
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			not pleasing to Allah, I failed it.
		
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			So if I am busy collecting
		
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			and enjoying
		
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			all the time. Doesn't mean don't enjoy.
		
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			Don't forget your share from dunya. The people
		
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			said to Karun,
		
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			multimillionaire,
		
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			billionaire,
		
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			don't forget your share from Dunya. But number
		
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			1, what Allah gave you,
		
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			us
		
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			1 question,
		
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			all this,
		
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			where is akhirah in your daily life?
		
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			Healthy.
		
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			You have everything.
		
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			Doesn't matter. You have a 1 bedroom apartment
		
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			or you have a house. You have a
		
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			you have
		
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			a roof as the I still remember that
		
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			surgeon who looked at me and says, oh,
		
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			we're living in Paris,
		
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			And here I am
		
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			living in Paris,
		
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			half a room, the half is full with
		
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			furniture, the other 1 only for her. The
		
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			son sleeps
		
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			outside. And the bathroom don't ask me how
		
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			many people are using it. And she rubbed
		
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			the face, me and doctor Henna with me.
		
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			And she said, if you only saw where
		
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			we were, at least there is no bombing
		
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			on our head.
		
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			So when
		
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			we are all tested,
		
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			how are you responding?
		
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			How are you responding?
		
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			And don't you think,
		
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			and this is to everybody myself, number 1,
		
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			when Allah keep giving us
		
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			that mean we are okay
		
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			or Allah loves me. By the way, the
		
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			sign of love of Allah is never a
		
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			dunya,
		
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			otherwise he would have given it to Rasul
		
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			alaihis salat Rasul,
		
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			right?
		
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			We'll give them more time, let them collect
		
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			more sins.
		
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			So here I am when I see this
		
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			clips coming from Gaza,
		
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			right? And somebody says Alhamdulillah and they're
		
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			dead in front of them or the whole
		
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			house is destroyed, you've seen that very famous
		
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			clip in the beginning says Alhamdulillah now he
		
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			his response, some response is exactly what Allah
		
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			want, now when I have a house
		
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			and I don't have
		
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			and I'm not living in a war and
		
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			I have no issues and I look around
		
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			and I see beautiful everything around me, what
		
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			is my response?
		
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			Is it Alhamdulillah
		
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			the way He pleases Him or Alhamdulillah to
		
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			put the tongue?
		
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			Did you see my point? Because that's how
		
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			we learned.
		
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			The other 1, and I wanna probably gonna
		
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			end up here is when Allah said again
		
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			why You Rabbi?
		
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			This is in Surat Mohammed all the way
		
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			at the end. Why?
		
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			Me. No. Why why I'm tested? Allah doesn't
		
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			love me. It has nothing to do with
		
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			love.
		
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			Has nothing to do with love because there's
		
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			nobody Allah loves more than the prophets, right?
		
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			Sayyidina Musa,
		
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			so we know who those
		
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			will struggle
		
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			for the sake of Allah and don't think
		
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			again of struggle
		
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			the harsh way you know what's the biggest
		
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			struggle? When you are the only woman who
		
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			wears hijab in your school,
		
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			when you are the only woman who dress
		
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			properly in the middle of everybody in August
		
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			because it is hot and you still cover.
		
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			You are you are struggling
		
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			when everybody around you
		
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			looks different, tells you who you are, what
		
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			are you doing to yourself, and you're steadfast.
		
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			And
		
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			now I am struggling, and I need a
		
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			lot of patience to stay
		
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			on the straight path.
		
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			And I in the midst of everything I
		
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			was seeing, I was like, what is the
		
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			big deal for the woman in Gaza to
		
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			wear hijab? Everybody is wearing hijab.
		
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			Everybody.
		
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			But come here.
		
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			Come here. Whether a Muslim or a non
		
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			Muslim,
		
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			you are a minority,
		
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			Let alone a minority among
		
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			minority.
		
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			We are all tested.
		
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			In in adversity, we are tested, and in
		
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			prosperity, we are tested. The question is, how
		
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			are you responding?
		
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			So remember this anytime now. I hope when
		
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			now you're seeing
		
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			the the scenes that's still coming from Gaza,
		
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			now you start to reflect on yourself.
		
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			Not only them and praise them and make
		
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			dua and do everything we need to do,
		
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			but the most important thing, I cannot face
		
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			Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala and he made me
		
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			live this for months now and Allah knows
		
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			how long it will take
		
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			and then I learned nothing
		
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			and I changed nothing,
		
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			then I have a problem.
		
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			Then please forgive me. My
		
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			faith is fake.
		
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			I'm talking about the the real connection. I'm
		
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			not talking about being Muslim,
		
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			but by being the real Muslim faithful believer
		
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			to Allah once.
		
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			If nothing changed,
		
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			same,
		
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			then I have a problem.
		
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			Then all this
		
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			in front of me did not change me,
		
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			and
		
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			SubhanAllah he will look and says what else
		
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			I'll do to you people?
		
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			That's why another concept in the Quran
		
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			kept coming to me and said
		
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			walk on this earth,
		
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			earth.
		
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			What does it mean see?
		
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			See,
		
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			see, and he puts many
		
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			things after
		
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			many
		
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			things. So you when you see this for
		
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			the last 6 months and you are not
		
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			walking physically in Earth, but you're seeing it,
		
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			it's coming to us within a second.
		
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			Right? As if I traveled and then came
		
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			back.
		
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			And
		
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			see,
		
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			what did you learn?
		
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			These are all questions I'm throwing it to
		
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			everybody because that's how we need to react.
		
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			What did you learn? What did it change
		
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			in you, if anything?
		
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			And if it didn't change anything, you way
		
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			do, I say this to myself.
		
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			Woe on me.
		
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			And again, I'm not trying to make you
		
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			feel bad, but we need to really learn
		
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			and wake up so we are ready.
		
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			We are ready. If Allah test us, may
		
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			Allah not, but if He want
		
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			we already are prepared and ready.
		
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			May Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala make us among
		
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			those people who listen to the word of
		
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			admonition
		
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			and You Rabbi benefit and help. May Allah
		
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			subhanahu wa ta'ala not test us the way
		
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			that he is testing them. May Allah subhanahu
		
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			wa ta'ala not test us in any way
		
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			that we are not able to use this
		
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			test to get to Jannah and to get
		
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			close to him.