Haifaa Younis – Discover the wisdom of Rasoolullah in raising righteous children

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The transcript describes a story where a woman named Sayyidna was given a job by her father, Rasool, to help her
do work. She was
an employee and had children, including Shababi Ahl al-Jannah, who were mastered by Sayyidna. Sayyidna
the woman was
the woman was
an employee and had children, including Shababi
the woman was
an employee and had children, including Shababi
the woman was
an employee and had children, including Sayyidna. Sayyidna
the woman was
an employee and had children, including Sayyidna. Sayyidna
the woman was
an employee and had children, including Sayyidna. Sayyidna
the woman was
an employee and had children, including Sayyidna. Sayyidna
the woman was
an employee and had children, including Sayyidna.

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			I'm sure most of you know this story.
		
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			So, she was getting tired and her hand
		
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			was like, shows the marks of cleaning and
		
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			cooking and baking.
		
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			So, she went to Rasool, peace be upon
		
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			him, and said, Ya Rasool Allah, I need
		
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			help.
		
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			I'm done, I can't do this.
		
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			Can't do this anymore.
		
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			Right?
		
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			She had children.
		
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			Who are her children?
		
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			Sayyidina Al-Hassan and Al-Hussein, Sayyidat al
		
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			-Shababi Ahl al-Jannah.
		
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			They are the masters of the youth of
		
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			Jannah.
		
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			She is the master of the woman and
		
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			they are the master.
		
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			What is that?
		
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			What family is that?
		
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			Right?
		
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			And her husband was given Jannah, one of
		
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			the ten.
		
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			SubhanAllah, what a lineage is this?
		
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			Now, look how Rasool, peace be upon him,
		
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			responded.
		
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			Many, many lessons.
		
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			But let's get the story and then we'll
		
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			get the lessons.
		
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			Now, this is the part of him.
		
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			Didn't we say?
		
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			He's part of him.
		
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			What did he say?
		
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			What did he teach her?
		
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			Say what?
		
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			SubhanAllah?
		
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			He said, say this 33 times.
		
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			SubhanAllah, walhamdulillah, wa la ilaha illallah, wa Allahu
		
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			akbar, 34 times.
		
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			Before you go to bed and things will
		
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			be easy.
		
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			What is the lessons you learned?
		
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			Again, apply it to your life these days.
		
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			We're all busy, we have so many things
		
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			to do, we get overwhelmed, so she's not
		
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			the only one.
		
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			She went to her father, and this is
		
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			in Medina, and the father is the Rasool,
		
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			peace be upon him.
		
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			And couldn't he call anybody and say, just
		
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			go once a week, help her?
		
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			Can he do that?
		
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			Will you rush to help?
		
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			Why didn't he do it?
		
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			What is he teaching her?
		
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			And this is when somebody asked, I think
		
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			yesterday, how do we teach our children, Qalb
		
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			al-Saleem, right?
		
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			Here you go.
		
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			What was the lesson?
		
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			That he did not send the helper to
		
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			her.
		
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			Or he said, I'll come and help you.
		
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			Don't worry, I'll talk to Ali, and Sayyidina
		
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			Ali will help you.
		
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			No.
		
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			Rely on Allah.
		
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			But more important, definitely rely on Allah.
		
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			What is he saying to her when he
		
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			said, subhanAllah, walhamdulillah, wa la ilaha illallah, wa
		
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			Allahu akbar?
		
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			No one will make things easy.
		
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			Except, number one.
		
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			Number two, few words.
		
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			It all doesn't take less than two minutes
		
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			or three minutes.
		
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			These are the adhkar we do after Salah.
		
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			This is the adhkar we do before we
		
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			go to bed, right?
		
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			You all know that.
		
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			SubhanAllah, walhamdulillah, la ilaha illallah, wa Allahu akbar.
		
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			33 times, and the 34th time, you say
		
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			Allahu akbar.
		
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			What is he teaching her?
		
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			And this is the lesson for everybody.
		
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			Myself, number one.
		
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			When you need something, the first thing you
		
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			do is what?
		
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			Turn to him.
		
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			Turn to Allah, subhanAllah, wa ta'ala, and
		
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			ask him.
		
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			Ask him, even if you have all the
		
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			means in the world.
		
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			Alhamdulillah, he did, he could.
		
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			But he taught her that no one will
		
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			make your life easy.
		
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			No one will help you except Allah, subhanAllah,
		
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			wa ta'ala.
		
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			What else he's reminding her?
		
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			Remember yesterday, Qalb al-Saleem, what did we
		
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			say?
		
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			One of the signs of Qalb al-Saleem
		
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			was what?
		
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			He's always a person who has, she or
		
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			he, the sound heart.
		
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			Always their heart is in constant, what?
		
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			Dhikr, remember?
		
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			Remembrance of Allah.
		
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			What did he teach her?
		
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			Remembrance of Allah, subhanAllah, wa ta'ala.
		
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			And before you ask anybody, turn to him.
		
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			And even if she is the most beloved
		
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			person to you, he didn't say, it's okay,
		
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			you know what?
		
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			But I love her, I can see her,
		
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			I can see her hand like this.
		
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			Let me just go and help her.
		
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			No, what you teach outside, you teach inside.
		
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			What you teach the people who are not
		
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			related to you, you teach the people that
		
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			is closest to you.
		
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			What is also the famous statement he said?
		
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			When he said, wallahi, if Fatima bint Muhammad
		
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			saraqat laqafatu yadaha.
		
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			You know this?
		
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			When they came to him and one of
		
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			the elite of Madinah was accused of stealing.
		
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			And this is after the ruling of cutting
		
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			the hand.
		
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			And they said, we have to cut his
		
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			hand, and then this is a dignitary.
		
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			So they came to Rasul alayhi s-salatu
		
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			wa s-salam.
		
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			Maybe he will change his mind because this
		
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			is this person, that person.
		
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			What did he say?
		
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			If it was Fatima, the most beloved, the
		
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			peace of me.
		
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			But he said, wallahi, if Fatima bint Muhammad
		
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			saraqat laqafatu yadaha.
		
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			If it was Fatima, will steal or cut
		
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			her hand.
		
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			Justice.
		
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			You treat everybody the same.
		
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			You teach everybody the same.
		
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			Not because she's my daughter, I love her,
		
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			or this is my son-in-law, this
		
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			is whatever.
		
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			I will need them in the future.
		
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			So, no.
		
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			So what he teaches people, he teaches in
		
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			his house.
		
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			And he practices it, alayhi s-salatu wa
		
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			s-salam.
		
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			Subhanallah.