Haifaa Younis – Can Muslims Celebrate Thanksgiving

Haifaa Younis
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The speaker discusses the concept of Thanksgiving, a holiday in the fourth quarter of November, which is a popular holiday in many countries. The holiday is not a religious holiday, but rather a social holiday that everyone is off to. The speaker emphasizes the importance of thanking people for their success and staying away from the holiday.

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			What is Thanksgiving by the way?
		
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			How many of you were born and raised
		
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			in this country?
		
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			So, what is Thanksgiving?
		
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			There was definitely a right to what the
		
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			sister said, but what is Thanksgiving?
		
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			It's a national holiday, right?
		
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			Why?
		
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			Ask the question.
		
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			Why we're off on Thursday?
		
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			To spend time with family.
		
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			That's not the original plan.
		
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			Okay, when did it start to become a
		
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			national holiday?
		
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			So, basically, there's two stories about it, right?
		
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			You will hear a story for, you know,
		
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			when there's two people see things differently and
		
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			everyone, but this one is, if you just
		
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			go to Wikipedia, come on, I mean, just
		
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			go to Wikipedia and put Thanksgiving.
		
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			All they will tell you it is a
		
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			holiday, right, in the about 18th century, where
		
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			it starts in, some says it starts in
		
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			Virginia, some said it starts in Massachusetts and
		
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			in Boston, right?
		
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			When the settlers came in, now there's nothing
		
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			about the genocide, right?
		
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			They had harvest and the harvest came out
		
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			very well.
		
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			So, they were thanking Allah.
		
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			It's thanks, it's shukr, thanking Allah subhanahu wa
		
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			ta'ala.
		
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			Why do we, why do they eat turkey
		
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			and corn?
		
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			Because it was started in Boston, Massachusetts, that's
		
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			their, that's what they eat.
		
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			That's the common food there.
		
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			So, if you read, you will hear all
		
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			this, but then you have to dig down
		
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			and then the massacre comes in and that's
		
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			in the 1600.
		
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			So, when they came, the settlers, who was
		
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			living here?
		
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			The Native Americans.
		
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			So, they had a treaty with them and
		
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			then they broke the treaty and 700 people
		
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			were killed in one day and they were
		
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			happy and thanking Allah for the victory.
		
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			So, there's two sides of it, okay?
		
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			So, there's two sides of it.
		
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			Number one, it's not a religious holiday because
		
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			this is very common question.
		
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			People ask, should we celebrate?
		
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			I said, what do you mean by celebrate,
		
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			right?
		
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			What do you mean by celebrate?
		
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			It's not a religious holiday, number one.
		
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			Number two, the concept of thanking is part
		
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			of our deen, right?
		
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			But we don't have a day for thanking.
		
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			We are, should be.
		
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			I love how we praise ourselves, thanking every
		
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			day.
		
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			Well, okay, maybe you and I'm talking about
		
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			myself.
		
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			Although Allah said it, Allah said it, very
		
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			few of my servants are grateful.
		
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			So, for me as a Muslim, the concept
		
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			of thanking Allah in one day is not
		
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			part of me.
		
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			This is not.
		
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			I should be grateful every day because and
		
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			I'm going to share with you some beautiful
		
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			things about shukr.
		
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			So, what do I do on Thursday?
		
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			The reason it is in the fourth or
		
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			the last Thursday of November, of course, related
		
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			to economy.
		
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			So, they can kick the holiday seasons of
		
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			shopping earlier and that's why there's a Black
		
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			Friday afterward.
		
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			Or Cyber Monday or whatever Tuesday.
		
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			Fine, okay, go on by.
		
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			It's not haram.
		
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			So far, what should I do on Thursday?
		
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			For us as Muslims, right?
		
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			Well, the reason we get together because, but
		
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			why?
		
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			Exactly, because everyone is off.
		
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			Schools are off.
		
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			Colleges are off.
		
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			People are traveling.
		
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			They come because it's a whole week.
		
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			They come and see their family.
		
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			So, if you take this, there's nothing wrong
		
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			with that.
		
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			The only thing maybe, I don't have to
		
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			do the turkey and whatever and whatever and
		
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			whatever.
		
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			I'm going to make it a dinner because
		
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			my family is here and but I need
		
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			to remind myself, am I thankful to Allah,
		
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			right?
		
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			And I need to remember the injustice, the
		
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			word genocide should resonate with us these days,
		
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			right?
		
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			So, imagine 400 years from now, people will
		
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			say 2023, 2024, right?
		
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			40 plus thousand people were killed.
		
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			Those were 700.
		
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			So, now for me as a Muslim, this
		
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			is how you, and you don't say everything
		
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			is haram or everything is okay.
		
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			Analyze it.
		
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			Think of it.
		
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			If it's, this is how even when you
		
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			come to the Tafsir of the Quran, especially
		
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			Tafsir Ibn Kathir, there's something called Isra'iliyat,
		
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			which is stories from then in Israel.
		
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			What's our position towards them?
		
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			If they go parallel, agree with what we
		
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			believe in, you take it.
		
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			And if it does not, you don't, right?
		
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			So, we don't celebrate Christmas.
		
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			That's for sure.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because we don't even believe he was born
		
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			in December.
		
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			He was born in summer because Allah told
		
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			her, shake the palm tree.
		
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			When does the dates come?
		
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			When does the dates become ripe?
		
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			It's not in the winter, right?
		
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			It's in the summer.
		
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			So, for me, I don't celebrate Christmas itself.
		
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			And also, it is a religious duty.
		
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			I mean, religious holiday.
		
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			Of course, everything is becoming commercial, unfortunately.
		
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			But for me, Thanksgiving, okay, I need to
		
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			remind myself three things.
		
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			Number one, the concept of being grateful.
		
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			The concept of injustice and genocide.
		
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			And then, take care of your family.
		
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			So, when I'm getting together, because I have
		
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			this question, and this is actually why one
		
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			of the reasons, because somebody, she said, I
		
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			got invited and they say, it is Thanksgiving.
		
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			Should I go?
		
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			That's what the question I got.
		
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			And I was like, what is Thanksgiving?
		
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			This is how it is.
		
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			You analyze what it is.
		
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			What is your intention?
		
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			I got someone invited me for dinner.
		
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			I'm going to go.
		
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			Why is it Thursday?
		
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			Because everybody's off.
		
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			Right?
		
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			All my family is coming.
		
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			But I wouldn't specify, again, Turkey and whatever
		
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			and whatever, because this may be related to
		
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			the new genocide.
		
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			Right?
		
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			And I stay away from it.