Haifaa Younis – Be a Noble Woman I Women of Paradise P2
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Now the most important thing, characters.
This is just the history. Now let's come to the character.
Before wealth, he was known to be noble.
How many of you in this room don't show me hands. When you go home
and sit with yourself again, brothers and sisters, you're gonna
say to yourself, you know, when my name is being mentioned, remember
the plate, I'm going to be remembered as the noble woman
the rich, the beautiful, you know, the talented, versus the noble,
which one is harder? Absolutely.
Normal. Nobody talks about how she looked like. And this is a woman,
tall, short, beautiful, fair skinned, nobody. Because that's
not the issue. I have no choice the way I look. I have no choice
in my skin color. I don't have no choice in my height. Everything
Allah gives me his beautiful done. But I have a choice in the way I
conduct myself. And I treat people and interact with people. So she
was known for nobility. And also because of her lineage. She's a
businesswoman. Now, the most important thing add to it, he was
very brave,
brave for many reasons, but one of them being in a profession that is
male dominated, but also brave how she supported the Roswaal. They
saw.
She supported him. And she went out and said, I am a Muslim in a
city where Islam was not accepted, let alone being a woman being all
this brave, but she was very modest.
This this hierarchy, this character that we are losing, I
love the tear. Because you see it, you see it in the society.
Again, you don't know your value, because you all live here,
everybody does the same. But when you when you have someone, a
visitor, then he or she will notice the difference. The woman
of the Far East full of hire, and may Allah keep you this way.
Don't change. It's it's hard to stay the way you are because of
the influence that comes from the outside. But the way you speak
your soft spoken, I can't tell you how many times I said can you say
it again?
When you laugh, you laugh with Hyah. So here she is this strong,
rich woman, noble woman which had full of modesty. She that's why
she sent the Roswaal ASR to Asana. He was not
going with the men all the time.
And she was very generous. She supported him,
supported him with her money. And he his salatu salam, very generous
and supported also other people. And I'm I'm literally summarizing,
if you read books about her, you will see these characters, she was
very intelligent,
smart.
She knows where to trade with what trade. That's why she sent him to
Syria, or to the biller, the shrimp to that part of the world,
because there was a lot of merchandise there. And she was she
was a widow, she did not rush to get married in that time. And
that's a society. We don't get married right away. Both men and
woman, not her, she waited.
She doesn't want to be like everybody else. Just because
everyone is getting married. I have to get married. Now. I'm
gonna get married. When it is good for me by the standard of Allah
don't forget that. Don't forget that. It's not the standard of the
society standard of Allah subhanaw taala
she is one of the woman and this is again unique for her, his his
wife in dunya. And
don't you want love to meet her?
When I was preparing this, I was like, I don't know if I see it.
What will I see?
Subhan Allah Subhanallah and
she when it was Swati salatu salam even before before he became a
Roswaal risotto set up. And this is for everybody. This is how you
support your spouse
is when he used to go for seclusion and you know all the
story and used to go for seclusion for days. You know that? He didn't
say you left me alone. And here I am with the children and all this
you know why you're laughing?
What did she do? She prepared food. And she went and gave him
the food gave him a space as we say these days each human being of
us each one of us need their own space sometimes. You know and I'm
sure you all women don't do sometimes is I don't want you to
talk to me just I just want to be alone. When the child come in now
go on your head. Right
That's called space. Same thing for the man. They come in very
tight. They don't want to talk. Give them their space. This smart,
intelligent woman, and the smart, intelligent man is when he knows
when the spouse need the space and give him the space or give her the
space. That's what she did.
Subhan Allah,
no
indication of her smartness is when the revelation came in. And
you all know the story is there. What did she do? supported him by
words?
Right. Didn't say audio out of your mind wherever you heard that?
Probably nothing.
One, then in case we don't know, but in case she had doubts, or
Roswaal a salatu salam had doubts which probably not. Why did she
took him to her cousin.
Right she took him to her cousin you all know the story. What
akubra NOFA What did he tell him? This is the man that is going to
come and his people will give him a hard time and they will make him
leave. And Rasul Allah saw two sons at a more junior home, they
will make me leave MCCA
so basically what did she do? She supported him
knew what he needs at the moment and acted he didn't tell her go to
work. You don't lead anywhere. They said he asked her she took
him.
Now remember, this is a woman of paradise.
The woman of paradise and I say this to myself before anyone or a
person of Paradise
has to be different and special.
You have to do something 99% Of the people will not do
so when you walk in Subhanallah I thought everybody in Malaysia
looked like you. It turned to be not out of Kuala Lumpur so
yesterday I was able to walk and I was like oh so that is people who
are not like I see. Let's put it this way. Right. So when you are
there and probably here is much less than when if you live in the
West. And you're the only woman or you're the only man right
everybody is drinking and you're not everyone is whatever and you
are not remember
have to be different. Because Jana is different and it's not going to
be given to everybody
and our Inessa lahi idea that in this lab Allah he will Janna
what Allah has is very expensive.
And what Allah has his Jana so remember this
work and
be different. Something she was the only one woman who got that
Allah greeted her.
You've seen this year, saving the Jubilee came to the soiree Santosa
and he said she's going to come in bringing you food. Tell her Allah
send her set down
your Allah
and what do you answer Allah?
Do you see why they come set up?
See how smart she is. What do you say?
And she's alone man to sit down. Warming Cosette down there the
back there then did anybody come? You have to respond? Because
that's a greeting. Right? So she's your ally, you're the piece you're
the source of peace and peace comes from you, glorify You. Now
they'll do that you will recall
again, how special she was the to Allah from all his creation, send
her sit down and say even the Gibreel of course after Allah's
puntata send her her setup.
The only woman that to see the Ayesha used to be very jealous of
and she has not met her
was a seed Hadiya and the only woman that he will not allow
anyone to say anything about her. Now to the NIV he I used to tell
and you know how much he loved to see the Ayesha, you know? And he
said Don't you hurt me by saying anything not positive about
he she was jealous because she saw him after years. This is in
Medina, her front comes in and he treats her differently.
And again, it's a douche. I was like, why is that? He said this is
a friend of Hadiya.
And she said You keep talking about her.
The old woman's used and he said don't hurt me with with
what a woman she was what status she had with a rosary and
slaughter center that tears after years after that's how he remember
and he loves to see the honeydew we all know that. We all know that
she belonged to her
Subhanallah
And the last but not the least, and we will take the break and I
think you all now want to be saved Alija definitely I am. Right.
Yes, because who doesn't want to be something special and also Alia
salatu salam will be like mentioned me Subhan Allah and
para su Parasara Hisako Sadam always praised her, praised her
quality and he always asked Allah forgiveness for for her. May Allah
be pleased with her. I just gave you a little bit of it and we'll
take a little break now May Allah Subhana Allah give us all one
character of see the holy one.
Um, if everything is good, but let's be realistic inshallah.
Hopefully we even Allah
in the same spirit that we left. One thing I will recommend and
this is a recommendation is trying to eat less
right.
There's a lot of temptation outside. I
I did see that.
You don't have to eat. Right? There's a scene in our OB How many
of you know how to be here?
Okay, no hormone. Lana. Cool. Atlanta, Georgia. What Anisha ADA
Akina. They say we are meaning Muslims, not the Arabs, Muslims.
All of us. We are a nation that we don't eat unless we are hungry.
Just a second.
And when we eat, we never eat to sociation. So when I was walking
and coming back, I was like, It's 11 o'clock. So what is the name of
this meal?
What is the what is early lunch? late breakfast?
Combo.
Brunch, right? So that the idea is and this is absolutely test gear
to
do don't eat because there's food.
You eat because you need to eat.
Never eat because you like it. Then you're going to eat just
remember a lot yesterday, the four knifes we talked about, you said
the communist naps is the naps? Like the cattle like what makes
that neffs happy is to eat and drink and sleep and have
relationship. We don't want to be this we are human being. Allah
subhanaw taala has elevated us Columna Benny Adam, so you want to
support which I am fully we're supporting every business Muslim
business. Buy it but don't eat it. Take it with you, huh? Yeah. What
is wrong with that. So you have done both you support it. And
don't just eat because it's a 10 minutes break. And then what
happens you will come late. And then you have to drink something
and by the time you settle half of the lecture is gone.
And again, it's an opportunity of the evening where I studied and my
teachers especially before I moved to Saudi will never allow us
to bring a single food in the class
A yay if he
you will hear it let's put it this way.
Because and I actually learned this from him. This was one of my
first male teacher because it's out of respect to knowledge.
them the more you respect the something you the more you will
get out of it. We talked about it yesterday in the day before that.
Alcohol was Salim, a sound heart in, in a nutshell, is the heart
that's always with Allah.
You eat you're with Allah, you're steeping with Allah. You're in
knowledge, real law. You are in the mall, you are with Allah. How
do I get there? So the second one, the member of the Louisa Legion,
the best woman of Jana. We said the workforce will say the Hadiya
second one, Sita Fatuma.
And this one is is what when you read about her and when you get
penalized again how did she look like? So see the faulty faulty man
been to Mohammed bin to Abdullah? What is her nickname?
The flower
Fatima Zahra the flower.
So see the honeydew was the a paw Hera the pure seed of hottie with
a flower. Why is that?
Because he was his daughter, and he loved her.
And we're going to share with you some of the Hadith about her. So
she she's like a flower to him. alayhi salatu salam
he wasn't
Not only the daughter of Roswaal Yes, but she was also a mohawk.
She narrated Hadith from Rasul Allah, His Surah to a sinner and
companion narrated the Hadith from her also. Now characters
and this is a younger girl.
Right? This is a younger, who's her mother?
Say the Hadiya who is her father Cena rasool Allah His AUTOSAR. So
let's look at that. Number one. She was very well known to be
patient.
Patient, persevering. She didn't give up easily, did not give up
easily. And at the same time, she was very generous and grateful to
Allah span Tada.
Patient generous, perseverance never give up easily. And she was
grateful to Allah subhanaw taala
who is her children?
So now this is a married woman.
And her husband is saved. Now it don't say a Helene is not my
friend. Right? So either you say it, you know it'd be a polyp, then
you have identified him or CSA nearly everybody knows C 90,
right?
Why did she marry C 90?
Or the question is why not?
He was not rich. He was very poor.
Very poor.
Now remember, I want you to compare Seda deja, she married
also very poor. Right? And this is her daughter, the daughter of
Rasul Allah His thought was imagine, right, so absolutely
novelty in the sight of Allah. But she met a seed Nayeli
she was 15 when they get married, the marriage didn't take place
till she was 18. And he was 21.
What? What made you marry say Nadi.
So number one is his courage.
You know the story. 16 years of age, they were about to kill him.
Courageous.
And supporter of her father, and before supporter of a father,
supporter of the dean,
a man who stood up for the dean, a man was willing to give his life
for the dean. Those are the people that we need to think of for
marriage.
Me when you read the this is what I tell people all the time. When
you read this euro, and I was like the Sierra against your course you
don't you say this. It's not about Sierra course. It's about what is
in that Sierra? That I need to learn. And I need to apply in my
life. When I look at the best woman of Jana.
The father ism said no Muhammad Ali salatu salam, the mother is
say the Haryana and then she marries very poor.
Very poor.
And he she didn't marry him he because he's the cousin of her
father. There's so many other cousins.
But it's his sacrifice for this dean. And his support of her
father alayhi salatu salam.
Now she also
she used to be another nickname. Very nice this one or more Ibiza
than them mother of her father.
Memorize this, this is only her own movie Her the mother of her
father. Because she looked like him.
The closest one to him was her.
And also she took very good care of her father.
And,
and you know that famous story. When in Makkah when Rasul Allah
saw to Sudan, they throw on him at his salatu salam what he wasn't
subdued, and they throw on him what
the interesting of the animal all over. She came in, crying,
removing it from her father back.
How old was she?
Look at our teenagers these days. Look at our adults. This is a
young girl. Her mother is hurried her father Jura, Swati salatu.
Orion and removed all this from our father crying.
Being too heavy on mo Obeah because she looks like him as if
he is your son. You know that that's why they call it why and
also because of the special relationship they had. And I'll
share with you a couple of the incidents
are also Alia saw to someone he got
into a battleground outside Medina and he comes back. The first house
he go and visit is the Seder problem, none of his wives and we
all know the most beloved person to him is who
most beloved person to Roswell is sought to Sinha who say die should
he was asked. He was asked by the Sahaba era. So Allah Manohar buena
Siddiq, who is the most beloved person to you. And he said the
Aisha is actually a man who asked him the question,
one of the men companion, and they said he was hoping he will say his
name.
Yep. And he said the high issue he didn't give up. He said, Okay,
this is a woman. Let's try another question. Honestly, he said Wamena
region, how about from the man?
He was hoping his name. He said Abby, her, her father.
So that's that Seder issue that bond. But still when he came back,
after an expedition, long travel, he first went home to visit his
her house, see the Fatima
and he had Alia, sit down wide and Rasul Allah who saw to some said
the following How many fathers in this room from the brothers how
many audio fathers you have children? Right? Show me hands.
Can I see that?
And how many mothers in this room? Tabata Cola, right? If I mentioned
your daughter name, or you're gonna say, Oh, she's giving me a
hard time.
Right? She wants to go to this college. I don't know what she
wants to study. Right? I don't like the way she does this and
that true?
Yes.
silence I don't know what that means.
He said the following on her about her are swelling. Salatu Salam
said Fatima. Biblical mini termina baba, baba Annie,
for fall to man is part of me.
Part of me, whomsoever made her angry, he had made me angry.
How many fathers? How many of you, woman your father said this about
you?
I wish.
Right?
You know, what's the special here? I don't know if you've paid
attention to it or not. It's not about her.
It's about her swelling. Salatu Salam is not shy. To show his
affections.
You know, some men, they don't see it like showing affections
shouldn't be in public. Right? Especially with the children. And
mothers does that but fathers usually don't know about Malaysia.
But definitely in the Arab world. Usually, men are more reserved in
showing their feelings, not RSRS AUTOSAR he says she's part of me.
Home so ever makes her angry have made her angry.
And then the Roswaal is AUTOSAR. And this is also another Hadith is
to say that Aisha and a woman asked to see data who was the most
beloved people trustworthy software. Now pay attention to
this one.
See, the Aisha was asked who's the most beloved people to Roswaal
risotto. She said Fatima
and then from the men. Now the question to say the eyes. He said
zodra
i Li in there who kind of saw a woman a woman? He was fasting all
the time. And he prayed the night all the time. What is special
about this hadith I just shared with you.
Now you are the wife.
Okay? This is a stepdaughter
party, my stepdaughter for Seda Aisha right. Her mother is Khadija
say the hottie. So here you go. Somebody comes to you, you're
married. And the husband is there says who's the most beloved your
husband? What is the normal answer?
me
why you're even asking?
Of course.
What does that teach you about say to Asia.
Truthfulness humbleness,
does not see herself something.
Although he was asked and told that she is the most beloved.
There's a lot of lessons we learned from this woman.
Not only from the state of Baltimore say all of them the
focus again, I'm gonna say this again. The focus was not them. And
me
You know the AI
the everything these days about AI in me, not them.
This is a woman asked her
who is the most beloved people to your husband? And she said
faulting stepdaughter, and then from the men she didn't say her
father said, I will say no. She didn't say her brother say nap
drama, no, say nearly both related to her husband.
How much he loved the rest of our lives.
When you love someone, you love everything related to it. Right?
And if you don't love someone,
you can finish the sentence.
Now, look at the seed of autumn, I say to her Aisha how she described
her
right, she said the following. She said Mara Ito I hadn't kind of
Chabahar sometimes wagon or Dylan Rasulullah he'd been for Threema
Karim Allah Hawa, listen to this cabinet is the HANA tidy. Camellia
Bahadur Vidya or Cabella? Watch Alyssa, have you mentioned this?
What can I do that ah ha ha. Almighty automatically. But harder
to be the Kubelet was listened to female this year. It's beautiful.
hada I'll read it to you in English. See, the Heisha said the
following. I have not seen anyone who resemble or a Swati his
AutoSelect more than Fatima.
And she said it in in the external shape. Something Well, hygiene,
the way she looked and the way she acted.
Now look at this, how the beautiful relationship between two
people who love each other, in this case, a father and a
daughter. And this is the step mother saying it. She said Kana
when she entered when she entered, he stood up, take her hand, kiss
her hand and make her sit in his place.
And when she when he entered on her, she stand up, take his hand
kiss his hand and bring him in her place.
This is love.
Genuine.
How many of you do this to their children?
to their children, no one was more busy than the Roswaal as far to
say. No one was stressed.
Or actually he wasn't at a site that has many reasons to get
stressed. Then the Roswaal inside the wives the children the norm
things we all have.
But you're awfully cooler the thing he gives everyone they do
right? So you have to imagine this scenario. He's sitting with all
these harbor save net well, because he'd know morons Eden,
Abdullah Abdullah of nabasa all these machines she entered.
Right? She was young. A woman entered. Stand up, go to her, hold
her hand, kiss the hand in public and bring her and make her sit in
his place.
What is this and then people say stem does not give the woman
rights