Haifaa Younis – And worship your Lord until that Last Hour

Haifaa Younis
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The importance of showing hands to young audiences and the need for everyone to show their hands is emphasized. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of discipline and showing hands to the audience, as well as finding the right questions to ask. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of changing one's relationship with Jesus and finding the right answers to ask oneself. Additionally, the speaker stresses the importance of focusing on one's goals and not hesitating to achieve them, as well as creating a positive environment for their family.

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			So the albu sareem,
		
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			the comfort is in salah.
		
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			Comfort is in salah,
		
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			And
		
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			if Salah is not there with me,
		
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			then I have a problem.
		
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			Then there is an issue.
		
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			How many of you show me hands. This
		
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			one I need an answer.
		
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			You do all the extra,
		
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			not the obligatory only.
		
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			Everyone.
		
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			The 2 before fajr,
		
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			2 or 4 before,
		
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			2 or 4 after it depends which one
		
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			you follow. 2 after Maghreb, and 2 after
		
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			Russia. Every single day, show me hands.
		
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			We have a huge problem in Malaysia.
		
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			And the answer is why.
		
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			Why not?
		
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			Not even the weekend?
		
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			Not even when you're off?
		
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			How long it will take you?
		
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			Not even Fajr?
		
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			The Fajr
		
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			Sunnah?
		
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			Show me hands.
		
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			There's than 50%.
		
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			Though
		
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			that he never left
		
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			even when he was traveling,
		
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			and sometimes he made it up.
		
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			What is true of God?
		
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			And what's the sunnah reading
		
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			in that sunnah?
		
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			And the first look I read what?
		
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			And the second look I read?
		
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			How long it will take?
		
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			Nah. 5 minutes is too long.
		
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			2, 3 minutes?
		
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			5 minutes?
		
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			5 minutes
		
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			from 24 hours.
		
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			5 minutes.
		
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			As soon as
		
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			did it every single good day.
		
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			Whether a traveler, whether he is not a
		
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			traveler, whether an Hajj outside, expedition, doesn't matter.
		
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			Never left it.
		
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			Then how long can I get to the
		
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			Al Hussein?
		
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			I want everyone in this room, young and
		
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			old.
		
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			And I have to say I'm surprised.
		
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			Because
		
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			from what I have seen so far,
		
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			this is a country Allah blessed with deen.
		
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			Come and live where I live
		
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			and walk in the streets
		
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			and see you will be the only one.
		
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			The only one looked like that,
		
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			or the only one looked like that.
		
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			You know, when salatam comes in, who knows
		
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			what salah?
		
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			And when you are working, everybody around you,
		
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			you're the only one who's gonna struggle where
		
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			is the qigla.
		
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			And I have to carry my sejada with
		
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			me.
		
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			Why not?
		
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			Why not?
		
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			2
		
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			to God.
		
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			2
		
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			5 minutes. Less than 5 minutes. It doesn't
		
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			take 2 minutes.
		
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			Your relationship,
		
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			the gauge. This is how I say that
		
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			to myself.
		
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			The gauge,
		
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			the thermometer
		
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			that will tell me
		
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			where is Allah in my life
		
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			is where salah in my life. And I
		
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			didn't say obligatory
		
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			salah.
		
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			Salah
		
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			in general. You know, what is the name
		
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			of salah? What is the origin of it?
		
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			Who knows a harabi in this room?
		
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			What is the origin of the word salah?
		
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			No. I want it in Arabic from
		
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			connection. Connection.
		
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			We say,
		
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			kinship,
		
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			relation.
		
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			Sadah is from Sweden. It's my conduction.
		
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			Look at it this way. This is my
		
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			conduction. It's my rope.
		
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			How strong is my rope?
		
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			I decide, not him.
		
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			He told me the strongest rope is when
		
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			you do 1, 2, 3, 4, 5, 6.
		
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			The weakest stroke is when you do the
		
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			5.
		
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			Most of the people in this room in
		
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			here.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Why?
		
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			How long we spend on social media?
		
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			Where do you know me from?
		
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			Right? I asked that. I keep asking, but
		
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			how do you know me? Do you follow
		
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			me? Of course, we do.
		
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			I
		
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			but why do I spend that much time
		
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			on social media and you're not seeing anything
		
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			from videos,
		
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			it's education.
		
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			But I don't have 5 minutes to do
		
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			Nafila.
		
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			What I'm gonna tell him when I'm standing
		
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			in front of him?
		
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			This is what I ask myself.
		
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			What will I say? I didn't have time?
		
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			I didn't know?
		
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			Your relationship with Allah is the salah.
		
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			That's why it says
		
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			the sign
		
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			of the sound heart. This is number 6.
		
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			When he or she
		
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			enter salah,
		
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			they forget everything else,
		
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			and it makes them feel so good.
		
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			And you feel good.
		
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			Try it.
		
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			I really ask you, all of you, when
		
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			in the day
		
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			something happens to you
		
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			and you and you don't feel good.
		
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			You got upset.
		
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			You get angry,
		
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			and you feel
		
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			a lot of of of,
		
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			hatred. Something happens.
		
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			Don't do anything.
		
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			Don't do anything.
		
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			It's an exercise. Try it. What you gonna
		
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			lose?
		
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			Go and doable.
		
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			Come out and do 2 ruka to Allah.
		
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			Read the shortest things you know, whatever you
		
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			know.
		
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			And after you say look
		
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			in here
		
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			and see how much
		
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			what you felt before is left in that
		
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			heart.
		
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			I've tried it so many times.
		
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			Sadah
		
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			is like
		
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			you know when you have headaches? What do
		
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			you take in Malaysia when you have headache?
		
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			Tylenol. You call it Tylenol?
		
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			And how do you feel?
		
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			Most of the time,
		
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			by Allah grace, the canon only works. Right?
		
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			Salah
		
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			wallahi
		
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			for my heart,
		
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			and should be for your heart, for all
		
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			of us,
		
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			is the cardinal of the headache.
		
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			Absolutely
		
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			changes. There's something change in the heart
		
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			after I say.
		
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			So don't you tell me
		
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			people
		
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			wants to talk about Al Hussein.
		
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			I want to go to Allah like Sayedna
		
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			Ibrahim.
		
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			I want my dua to be answered.
		
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			I want to feel good. I want generosity
		
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			for those. I want to be next to
		
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			Rasool alayhi salatu salam. I wanna see
		
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			Allah and you don't do
		
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			the nafira
		
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			of
		
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			said this. Let me ask you the question.
		
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			I'll tell you the hadith and we'll take
		
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			the break. How many of you want a
		
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			palace in Daniel?
		
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			How you will get it?
		
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			The person
		
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			who does
		
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			the the extra
		
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			that is the
		
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			that and we say
		
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			stressed upon. He did it all the time.
		
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			That person who does it
		
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			daily
		
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			has a palace agenda.
		
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			It's your choice.
		
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			It's my choice.
		
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			2 before fajr.
		
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			2 or 4 before Wuhr.
		
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			2 or 4 after Wuhr.
		
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			Nothing before or after Asar.
		
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			2 after Maghrib,
		
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			2 after Isha.
		
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			It's
		
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			don't leave. Tell yourself.
		
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			Don't move
		
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			before you do that sunnah. I saw it
		
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			yesterday. Now I can understand it.
		
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			Because in the Masjid, we are in the
		
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			Masjid. We finished the, and many of the
		
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			ladies came to me. I was like, what
		
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			happened to the sunnah?
		
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			I didn't say it because I'm I'm just
		
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			just arrived.
		
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			Tell yourself.
		
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			Teach yourself this.
		
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			How many of you you have children young?
		
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			5, 6, 7, 8, and there is red
		
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			lights,
		
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			red lines in the house.
		
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			Right?
		
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			You this is red line. How many times?
		
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			How many things yeah. You tell your child,
		
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			this you will not do.
		
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			This you will be in big trouble. How
		
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			many of you? We all have. Right?
		
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			This is how you discipline yourself.
		
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			You're gonna tell yourself
		
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			this rakat
		
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			of sunnah
		
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			nonnegotiable,
		
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			period.
		
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			Absolutely.
		
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			How long you need to make it a
		
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			habit?
		
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			Between 30 to 40 days. That's how they
		
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			teach you.
		
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			That's
		
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			it. That's it.
		
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			Now you get attached to the I didn't
		
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			say the follow-up. I didn't say the obligation.
		
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			I just didn't wanna hear the answer. So
		
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			I went right away for the extra.
		
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			You do this.
		
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			You do the extra,
		
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			and now you're gonna graduate
		
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			PhD.
		
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			You're gonna start doing the extra extra,
		
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			which is 2 or 2 after,
		
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			2 or 4 before,
		
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			2 before
		
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			and 2 before and.
		
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			Don't tell me.
		
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			Don't tell me
		
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			you want to go to Jannah.
		
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			You want to be in Jannah.
		
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			You want
		
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			and there is no in your
		
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			to do list.
		
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			The honor of the believer.
		
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			Even if it is only.
		
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			Even if it's only the water.
		
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			You do it after Asher or you do
		
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			it before you,
		
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			you do your fajr. That's a choice.
		
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			But the sign, the 6th sign of Al
		
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			Kalbous Salim
		
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			is your relationship with Salah.
		
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			I love it. I miss it. I enjoy
		
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			it,
		
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			and it is the coolness of my eyes.
		
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			May
		
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			Allah make it this way for all of
		
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			us.
		
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			I'm really grateful to Allah
		
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			number 1 to you. Really a good crowd,
		
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			masha'Allah.
		
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			This is no, really. I mean it. This
		
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			is not a top an easy topic.
		
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			This is a topic you probably most of
		
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			you have not heard it before.
		
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			Let alone come and practice it.
		
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			And and this is why when
		
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			we're preparing for this,
		
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			I love the the topics and the choices
		
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			because you wanna hear something not the same.
		
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			We need to change. And one of the
		
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			verses in the Quran that I really recommend
		
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			all of you read it and read it
		
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			and read it and read it with your
		
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			heart. It's a question. Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala
		
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			put it to us believers.
		
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			The iron.
		
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			And the verses start by the following.
		
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			Hasn't time come yet
		
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			for the believers,
		
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			for their hearts to surrender to
		
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			Allah.
		
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			And what have been sent to them from
		
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			the truth, meaning the Quran.
		
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			It's a question mark.
		
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			In the Quran,
		
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			some or one of the
		
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			themes of the Quran, and you will find
		
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			it repeatedly.
		
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			There is questions in the Quran with no
		
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			answer.
		
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			It's called rhetorical questions.
		
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			Allah throw the question
		
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			and where is the answer?
		
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			One of them,
		
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			which some of you also may be familiar
		
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			with, Allah said,
		
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			Isn't Allah enough for the servant?
		
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			Yes or no?
		
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			But there is no answer.
		
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			If you read, this is in Surat al
		
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			Zumr. They're groups.
		
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			Allah says,
		
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			isn't Allah enough for the people? And immediately
		
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			he he continue,
		
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			and they make you afraid of those who
		
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			are less than Allah. What is the answer?
		
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			What why I'm sharing this with you? When
		
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			you see a question in the Quran,
		
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			you all know Surah Tor Rahman?
		
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			Let me give you an example from this.
		
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			This will be even easier on you. What
		
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			is the repeated
		
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			verse in Surah Tor Rahman?
		
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			It's a question.
		
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			Which of the favors of your lord you
		
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			deny? Right?
		
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			Where is the answer?
		
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			Have you thought of this?
		
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			Where is the answer?
		
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			Where is it? I wanna hear it.
		
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			No. There's no answer.
		
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			You know why?
		
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			Because the answer is clear.
		
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			This one of the sunnah when you hear
		
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			this, you say we do not deny any
		
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			of them, you Allah.
		
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			So here back to the
		
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			and back to the time when we are
		
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			gonna change.
		
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			That's what the verse in Surat Al Hadid
		
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			when Allah says,
		
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			hasn't time come yet
		
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			for the believers
		
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			to change?
		
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			For their hearts to surrender to Allah? Yes
		
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			or no?
		
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			Is it time had
		
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			had time arrived?
		
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			Is it the time to change or not
		
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			yet? I need more time.
		
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			Answer me.
		
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			Of course, time started long time ago,
		
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			and I keep doing what?
		
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			Pushing it.
		
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			Procrastinated.
		
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			When I'm when I become 40,
		
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			when I get married, when I have children,
		
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			when the children finish school, when they go
		
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			to college,
		
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			and non ending
		
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			deadlines
		
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			and should be and when the Sahaba this
		
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			verse was sent to the Sahaba,
		
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			companion.
		
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			And when they heard it immediately, they said,
		
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			yes, you Allah, time has arrived.
		
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			This is what I want from all of
		
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			you. And make dua to Allah made me
		
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			do what I am telling you before anybody
		
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			else. You say to Allah
		
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			and learn the dialogue,
		
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			learn to talk to him.
		
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			You Allah, from today,
		
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			the journey will be different.
		
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			From today,
		
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			you brought me to this conference.
		
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			You made her speak this way. That means
		
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			you want me to change. Help me.
		
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			I want to be the Kaab of Sayyidina
		
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			Ibrahim,
		
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			but it's not easy.
		
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			And a lot of distractions.
		
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			And number 1 problem is me.
		
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			Honesty. Number 1 problem is not the people,
		
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			is me.
		
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			And he will help you.
		
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			Don't give up on yourself. As I said,
		
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			from the beginning, during, and at the end.
		
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			So number 7.
		
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			And that number 7, that your heart is
		
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			sound done or it's in the process.
		
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			You started the journey.
		
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			The thing that you worry about
		
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			day and night
		
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			is related to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			The worry, the concern,
		
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			what takes my energy, what focus
		
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			is what
		
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			pleases
		
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			Allah and
		
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			his forgiveness
		
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			and his mercy and loving mercy.
		
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			And I do things
		
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			to please him.
		
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			One of the also most beautiful
		
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			verses of the Quran that I have seen
		
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			it used in reality.
		
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			There's a verse
		
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			in where Sayidna
		
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			when Allah
		
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			talking to Sayidna Musa
		
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			in Paha.
		
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			And Allah is asking him, and of course,
		
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			Allah knows the answer. He said,
		
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			why
		
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			why
		
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			are you rushing,
		
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			running,
		
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			and you left your people?
		
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			The answer comes later and says,
		
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			I ran to you, you Allah,
		
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			so you are pleased with me.
		
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			I ran to you
		
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			you Allah
		
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			so you are pleased with me.
		
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			How many of us
		
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			don't show me hands.
		
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			Again, between you and Allah.
		
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			You say I am running.
		
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			I'm competing.
		
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			So Allah is pleased with me.
		
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			We compete for dunya, all of us.
		
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			I want my children to be as good
		
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			as my sister's children, if not better. I
		
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			want the house. I want them.
		
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			Them. But what about the akhira?
		
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			You know what I say to myself?
		
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			Why in Dunia?
		
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			And this is for everywhere.
		
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			Why in Dunia I want to be in
		
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			the best I wanna live in the best
		
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			house.
		
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			I want to be in the best neighborhood.
		
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			I want my children to go to the
		
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			best to best school.
		
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			Is that wrong?
		
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			No.
		
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			Why not?
		
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			As long as the means are, halal,
		
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			there's nothing wrong with that. I want to
		
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			be
		
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			and live in the best neighborhood. My neighbors
		
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			at least, you know, will be less headache
		
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			for me. Children go to the best school,
		
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			so I'm not worried about their education, what
		
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			they are learning.
		
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			And I want this and I want the
		
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			best.
		
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			So I come and ask myself this question.
		
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			Why not in the best seat in Jannah
		
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			then?
		
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			Why don't I wanna be in the best
		
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			room
		
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			in Jannah
		
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			next to me,
		
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			my neighbor is?
		
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			And
		
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			the next neighbor is Sahaba.
		
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			And the guest who's gonna come and visit
		
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			me is Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.
		
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			Why do we say,
		
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			let me just get to dinner?
		
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			Doesn't matter. Why?
		
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			Raise the bar.
		
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			Raise the bar of the akhira
		
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			like you raise the bar of dunya. Nothing
		
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			wrong with that. What is the most famous
		
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			dua that you all know?
		
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			Give us in this dunya Hasana.
		
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			Hereafter Hasana. It's the same word.
		
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			What does that teaches you?
		
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			I can have everything good in this life,
		
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			and I can have everything good in the
		
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			akhirah.
		
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			Really?
		
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			Yes?
		
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			Why the yes is no?
		
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			Yes or no?
		
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			So what is the problem then?
		
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			I tricked you.
		
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			What is the problem?
		
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			You all know the Dua. Right? What does
		
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			the Dua mean?
		
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			What does it mean, give me in this
		
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			duniya good, hasanah, and akhirah good?
		
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			So if that's the case, so what is
		
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			the problem?
		
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			How do they define Hasanah
		
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			in dunya?
		
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			Simple.
		
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			Easy.
		
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			Anything
		
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			that Allah gives you that will bring you
		
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			closer to him.
		
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			Done.
		
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			That's your dua.
		
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			Give me children, they will take me to
		
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			Jannah.
		
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			Give me spouse, she or he will take
		
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			me to Jannah.
		
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			Give me the best job, the best degree,
		
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			the best home, the it will take me
		
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			to Jannah.
		
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			So I want you to know this, having
		
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			duniya
		
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			doesn't mean I don't have akhira.
		
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			But having dunya only and focus dunya only
		
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			and I want everything in here, it will
		
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			affect there.
		
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			So hammahu,
		
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			your worry
		
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			is
		
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			I want children. You know, I say this
		
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			to my patients and sometimes they really look
		
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			at me.
		
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			May Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala give every couple
		
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			children.
		
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			But I do see patients with infertility. I'm
		
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			an obstetrician
		
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			gynecologist.
		
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			Especially if I see her alone and I
		
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			say why do you want to have children?
		
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			She looks at me and I was like
		
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			what is this quest?
		
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			Because I wanted to change
		
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			the focus.
		
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			And I said, really? Why do you wanna
		
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			have children?
		
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			What is the communist question if I ask
		
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			you this? Why do you wanna have children?
		
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			What is the communist answer?
		
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			Bismillah.
		
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			I only hear murmurs,
		
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			so nobody wants to have children now.
		
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			Why do you wanna have children?
		
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			Number 1.
		
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			So they take care of me when I
		
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			get older.
		
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			Right?
		
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			Yes?
		
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			Good
		
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			luck.
		
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			I don't know about Malaysia. I can't say
		
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			anything about Malaysia.
		
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			I don't know the culture.
		
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			But I tell you in the west, it's
		
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			changing
		
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			even with Muslims.
		
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			What is the other reason you want to
		
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			have children?
		
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			So?
		
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			Oh, so they will pray for me when
		
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			I die?
		
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			I can't comment.
		
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			That's how I will say.
		
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			But don't put all your eggs in one
		
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			basket
		
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			Because there's 3 options when I die. You
		
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			know that. Right? Adam,
		
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			when the son of Adam dies, right,
		
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			his deeds will be severed except 3.
		
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			1 is
		
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			sadaqatunjariyah,
		
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			continuous charity.
		
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			2nd is,
		
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			a knowledge that is beneficial. And 3rd is,
		
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			he didn't say a child.
		
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			What did he say?
		
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			Righteous
		
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			child
		
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			that will pray.
		
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			May Allah give you all righteous children.
		
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			But I will ask a question.
		
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			Everybody has a righteous child.
		
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			How often you make you all are righteous.
		
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			May Allah even make you better.
		
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			How often you make dua for your grandmother?
		
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			Grandmother, not your mother.
		
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			How about your great grandmother?
		
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			What's her name?
		
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			What am I telling you?
		
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			50 years from now,
		
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			believe me, nobody will remember us.
		
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			You like it or you don't like it,
		
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			it's reality.
		
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			You go to a graveyard.
		
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			Right? And if you go I don't know
		
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			if you if you visit the graveyard here,
		
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			but if you go, I always do this.
		
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			And I just don't go only to the
		
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			grave where I wanna go. I start walking
		
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			and I see all these names. And I
		
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			keep reminding myself one day my name will
		
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			be there.
		
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			And you look at people, you know, born
		
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			in 191900,
		
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			and then they died in 1940, who remembers
		
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			them now?
		
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			So when you want to have children,
		
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			so they will pray for you. There's nothing
		
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			wrong with that.
		
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			But don't depend on this because again 50
		
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			and 60 they are very righteous.
		
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			But then as time pass by,
		
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			we don't remember them.
		
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			We don't I don't remember my grandmother that
		
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			often. Alhamdulillah. I still remember my parents. Alhamdulillah.
		
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			Work on the other 2.
		
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			Make sure you have a continuous charity in
		
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			your name.
		
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			The easiest one is
		
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			well of water,
		
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			Whoever gonna drink from it, that's your continuous
		
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			charity. And the second one,
		
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			Write a book. Sponsor a book.
		
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			Sponsor a child
		
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			or, a student of knowledge. There's a lot
		
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			of opportunities
		
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			to do good.
		
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			Okay? So back to the kalboussaneen.
		
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			Your
		
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			focus
		
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			your focus
		
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			should be everything. This is why we claim
		
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			to the children.
		
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			Everything that Allah gives me
		
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			will take me to Jannah.
		
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			That's the focus.
		
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			So when Allah gives you a good home,
		
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			finally, you worked hard, the money is halal,
		
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			there's nothing wrong with it. How I'm gonna
		
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			make this house,
		
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			this house that's my dream
		
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			and Allah gave it to me? How I'm
		
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			gonna make this dream
		
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			my path to Jannah? How I'm gonna make
		
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			this PhD that I really wanted, worked for
		
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			it for years,
		
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			my path to Jannah?
		
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			How I'm gonna make this OBGYN that it
		
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			took me at least 12 years,
		
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			16 years to get to the degree and
		
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			training and everything. How I'm gonna make this
		
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			16 years hasanah
		
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			that will give me hasanah and the akhira.
		
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			That's the question.
		
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			If you focus on akhira, again,
		
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			your focus is
		
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			is Allah happy with me? How I'm gonna
		
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			take what I have to make it for
		
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			Allah
		
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			Number 1, again, I'm gonna remind everybody, make
		
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			sure it's halal.
		
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			The way you are achieving things is halal.
		
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			There is no obedience to Allah by the
		
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			end through disobedience.
		
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			And
		
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			the verse I shared with you about Sayedna
		
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			Musa, do it quickly.
		
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			The obedience of Allah run to it.
		
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			Run to Allah. Don't delay it.
		
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			Don't delay it. Somebody asked me yesterday, I
		
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			really wanna do my hijab. I said tonight
		
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			you do it,
		
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			not tomorrow because you could you could die.
		
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			Tonight to the right now.
		
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			Hasn't time come? The answer is yes.
		
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			From today,
		
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			whatever I said in the last two and
		
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			a half hours that hit your heart,
		
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			that you said she's talking to me. Again,
		
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			I don't know. I'm just assuming.
		
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			And this is exactly what I needed to
		
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			hear. Do it today.
		
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			Quickly.
		
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			We have no idea
		
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			how long we will live.
		
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			Nobody
		
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			has
		
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			received a letter from Allah
		
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			saying don't
		
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			worry, you're dying in 2035,
		
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			you have another 12 years, do whatever you
		
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			want.
		
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			We don't.
		
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			None.
		
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			The only reality,
		
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			true reality of this life is what?
		
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			Everything in this life is a possibility.
		
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			True or false?
		
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			Except one thing.
		
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			Death. Yaqeen. That's why Allah called it Yaqeen
		
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			in the Quran. Certainty.
		
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			Allah said this at the last verse of
		
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			Surat Al Hajar.
		
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			Worship your Lord till you face Yaqeen,
		
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			certainty
		
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			is actually done.