Haifaa Younis – A huge distraction in Ramadan

			From today till Ramadan less than two months by the way of question for everybody, as a rasa risotto
cinnamon Dr. Ravi, the Bedouin came to him and says, Marisa when is the hour? What did he say?
Mother that Tara What did you prepare for? It? Doesn't matter when it is coming. So everybody in
this room what did you prepare? Don't tell me food. No, I really mean it because that's one of the
biggest distractions. me the biggest distractions in Ramadan is that we cook and that doesn't mean
we don't have to yummy Of course we have to eat, we're fasting, but it becomes a social club. It
becomes invitations It Becomes You have to come right and we really need to change this culture. And
		

			nobody will change it unless you and me and each one of us individually say no, I'll see you in aid.
This is actually what I do. I'll say I'll see you an aid. Anytime after aid you invite me I'm coming
Allah did not create Ramadan for this. Why is that because it's a distraction during the day. Now
you have people coming I'm not talking about immediate family and I'm talking about people that are
friends. Right? Now you come for f bar you are already tired because you're fasting live goes on
your cooking then you have to clean most of the time you will Mr. Ali? Are you going to go you're
extremely tired, you will not be able to focus what did we get?
		

			And can I do this another time one of the advices I'll give to everybody anything that you can do it
before or after Ramadan you're going to do it before after Ramadan
		

			unless it is a bad time of Qatar unless it is something I have to do it and Ramadan which is
basically fasting and going to target these the only two things that is very specific to Ramadan
there is nothing like it outside Ramadan even the fasting is not the same as it is in Ramadan. So
from now to and from today, what is your goal what is your what do you want to achieve this Ramadan
different than last year? So if Allah subhanaw taala decided to take me or to take us or to take any
one of us He will reward me as if I have a have already did it. What is your goal? What I need to
learn is what the Quran will do to me what before Ramadan? I need to say I have this shortcoming you
		

			say it to yourself. We all have a long list may Allah forgive us. But let's say I'm going to do this
one. I'll work on it throughout Ramadan. And then at the end of the Ramadan, see, did it work? Did
you change? What is your relationship with the Quran? What is your relationship with the people? Did
you become more generous? Are you more giving? So put goals each one is different look at and be
very honest with yourself. What is the one thing that people say negative about you? Not one person
not two, not three, or you know it? I am this and that and be honest put it in says I'll work on
myself this Ramadan. So the point I'm trying to make here is make sure in Ramadan, you're gonna get
		

			one or two chapters in the Quran you will understand you will understand what I'm last telling you
and you're going to start applying it because just reading and reading the translation, the changes
		

			and I'm wanting to everyone to ask herself don't answer me. Are you different from last Ramadan?
That it stays
		

			in day of aid? Did you retain 50% of what you did in Ramadan?
		

			And you all are looking at me with sadness because it's reality honestly. So let's put a goal one of
the goals that say since we are doing Salah testing, let's make a goal and I'm not I don't want to
specify your sin for Ramadan and then becomes better.
		

			Just because we have let's say use of or whatever we cover Lanka boot, whatever we covered, go back
to your notes go back to the recordings as you are reading and look at it in a different lens