Hacene Chebbani – Supplications And Divine Cures For Our Family Affairs

Hacene Chebbani
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The importance of helping families avoid divorce and maintain strong community is emphasized, along with the need to learn how to manage affairs and use knowledge and patience to navigate them. The speakers stress the importance of Spatera empowerment and daily deeds to establish strong connections with Allah Subhanahu Wa Alexa, and stress the importance of setting up daily deeds and daily routine to save families. The speakers also discuss cultural practices, habit, and reciting schedules of the Bible, as well as the importance of confirming one's belief in the acceptance of Jesus, the beast, and the word ofamsis for those who want to be generous and include other Muslims in their church.
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Dear brothers and sisters,

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I would like to talk today about some

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of our affairs,

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some of our issues in our community,

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and this is something

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that is extremely important because it has to

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do with a family unit.

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And when we talk about these issues, we're

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trying to help our families.

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We're trying to solve

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our problems

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because when the family is safe,

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when it is strong,

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we will have we'll end up having a

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strong community,

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When we are able to save our marriages

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and keep people together

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and peep keep families together,

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We will keep our community

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strong

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and everything happens with his will, with his

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assistance, with his help.

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We're just humans

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trying to do our work,

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trying to do our homework.

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In in the last summer,

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July August, I was traveling. When I came

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back, I was able to keep track on

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something.

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I came back August 15

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and I was trying to look at the

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issues that

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I was

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forced to deal with

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because I didn't have a choice.

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From August 15 till

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till August 19,

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within 5 days or 4 days 5 days

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actually, from Thursday to Monday,

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I found myself dealing with 10 cases of

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divorce

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within 5 days.

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For half of them were old issues. We

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dealt with them before,

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and

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half of them were new issues.

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I understand maybe people were waiting,

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and then when I came back, they start

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contacting us. That's fine.

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But

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I decided to talk about it.

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So I would like to bring to your

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attention the severity of this issue in our

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community.

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And, of course, there are people who misunderstand

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our message,

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because we're not talking about names, we're not

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talking about families.

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We're not we don't mean any person. Nothing

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is personal here, but still we have people

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who misunderstand

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the message coming from the member.

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Rasulullah

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used to talk about

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communal issues on the member.

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He would say

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Why are some people saying this and this?

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And he wouldn't mention names

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and some people might know whom he's talking

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about

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but he has to talk about it because

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it has to do with the community, the

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well-being of the community

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And why are some people doing this and

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this?

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So people who are struggling

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and we are all struggling as humans because

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life is not perfect, it will not be

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perfect

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for anyone.

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And family

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life will never be perfect

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because there are humans who are dealing with

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each other.

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You have parents dealing with children or husband

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and wife dealing with each other.

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They might have different views. They have different,

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you know, level of education. There are many

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issues that are there, Knight. People look at

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things differently.

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She's a human being who grew up in

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a different family. He's another human being, grew

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up another, maybe another family, another

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environment.

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These sometimes come together and they form a

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family with and they have opposing views,

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and that's normal.

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That's normal. You don't we don't get married,

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didn't expect your wife to agree with you

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about

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anything you say anything you say she will

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say yes. Yeah. I agree with you. That's

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fine. That's not possible

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because it was not possible during the life

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of our prophet Muhammad sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.

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Rasulullah

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his wife used to have different opinions sometimes

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but he was the messenger of Allah and

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he was very patient

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and he taught us how to manage and

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how to deal with these issues.

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So what we need to do is

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learn how to manage these affairs.

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Zero issues,

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zero

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problems is not possible in this life.

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This is what we need to keep in

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mind.

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We are people who are being tested on

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this earth.

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Perfect life is in Jannah, alhamdulillah.

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Allah has created Jannah for us

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and per and life

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and this is what the ulama said. I

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mean it here.

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Life in Jannah is perfect.

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No problems whatsoever.

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It's perfect from every angle.

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There is nothing in Jannah that has a

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side effect.

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And

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and Jahannam is the house of pure evil.

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There's nothing good about Jahannam.

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Nothing good about Hawfa'ah

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this is a conclusion that our muslim scholars

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have made long time ago and we find

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it in the classical sources of knowledge

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but this life is good and bad

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Allah

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has promised that he will test us with

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good and bad

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and of course we have to exercise patience

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we have to learn how to navigate we

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have to learn how to deal with issues

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and problems it's all about knowledge and patience

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and also

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sometimes wisdom.

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So,

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again,

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I confirm this before

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and I because we hear people talking and

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I have to confirm it time to time,

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we're not here to judge people.

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We are in the business of helping

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people.

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Helping, we help each other

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and the children who are suffering from these

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issues they are our children.

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And if the imams do not care about

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their community then they shouldn't be leading the

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community.

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They should be in this position. They should

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not be in this position

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if they don't care

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about the well-being of the community,

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and this is why we have to talk

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about these issues, Yajuan.

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Again

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and again, it doesn't mean that the one

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who is standing up in front of you

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is perfect or has a perfect life or

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he's on the top here and everyone is

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down. No. That's not true.

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As I said before, my struggle is your

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struggle. We are all in the same boat.

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We all want our children to be saved.

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We all want our children to go to

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Jannah. We have the same issues. We have

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the same struggles.

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We do it

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together. And we help one another.

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We help one another. This is this is

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what is this is the purpose of talking

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about this this issues.

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Now

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this is a big issue, if one

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and, you know, when we talk about it,

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there are many

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you can talk about it from many

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from different angles.

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I'm not going to talk today about technical

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issues, how to

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deal with each other.

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The way what are the principles that we

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are supposed to use when we are dealing

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with family affairs.

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I usually start

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my counseling with the foundation

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and I'll tell you something this is what

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I share with the community I want to

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share it in this Khutba.

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I start with the foundation

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what is the foundation

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Our connection with Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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If I have a better connection with Allah,

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then I feel I believe and you should

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agree with me because without his help, without

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assistance,

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we cannot achieve anything. We cannot save our

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marriages. We cannot save our families without his

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help Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. That's why this foundation

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is very important.

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Spiritual empowerment,

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your connection with Allah, your relationship with Allah

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for both parties for the whole family.

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That's why I usually as I said start

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with an email

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that I share with the community. Whenever they

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contact me, they said, okay. I'll send you

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this email and then we can have a

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meeting later on and we can talk about

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issues.

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We can see how we can solve these

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issues.

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But I start with an email that has

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to do with our supplications,

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our daily players, daily routine, how to establish

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a strong connection with Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

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Spirituality

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is very important in our life

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and of course when I say spirituality I

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don't mean

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the western perspective of spirituality nowadays.

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What I mean

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is our relationship with Allah practicing the deen,

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praying on time the 5 daily prayers doing

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our sadaqat,

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doing afkaras Sabahul Masa,

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being engaged in your deen,

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Practicing the deen,

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making the deen your priority,

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making Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala on the top

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of the list,

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on the top of the list. This is

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very important Yahuwani.

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We're not here because this is part of

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our culture to be here.

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We are here because we want to go

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to Jannah.

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This is our deen, is not culture.

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We're not cultural Muslims.

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We're Muslims who want to go to Jannat

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Al Fardaus

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and that's why we Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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send us a messenger

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that we need to follow his way of

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life.

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We need to follow his way of life

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Ikhwar

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and most of the things that I share

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with people

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Rasulullah Sallallahu Alaihi Wasallam used to do them

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on a regular basis.

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Alaihi Salat wa Salam.

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So I usually

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start this email

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with a beautiful dua that I believe

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is the most

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powerful dua when it comes to family affairs.

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I'm not going to to explain it here,

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right. We talked about it before. Just a

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reminder to myself and my brothers and sisters,

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that this is a very powerful dua. We

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talked about it before it is found in

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Surat Al Furqan.

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Ayah 74,

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Our Lord grant us from our spouses and

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our offspring

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the coolness of our eyes and make us

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an example for the people of righteousness,

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the people of piety. I believe this is

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a very strong dua.

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What I believe is that a Muslim who

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wants to save his family, he should recite

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this dua on a daily basis. Very simple.

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On a daily basis.

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Even if you don't have issues,

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don't wait for problems to happen.

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Whoever wants Allah to answer his dua

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during times of difficulty and hardship,

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he should keep

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keep making dua during good times.

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You don't forget Allah when everything is fine.

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When you don't have no problems, everything you're

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happy with your family. You're happy with your

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business.

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Don't forget Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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Our problem these days when we get very

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happy, we forget about Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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or the rules of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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Especially during wedding these days.

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Janaza

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also we get very emotional when someone passes

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away and we try to just follow cultural

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practices and forget about the sunnah and what

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Rasulullah

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used to do during janaza and qedah. So

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when we get emotional,

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forget about Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala whether we

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are very sad or very happy.

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No. We need to be reasonable and

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we need to know what Rasulullah sallallahu wa

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ta'ala

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wants us to do during all times.

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The second du'a that I share with, with

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people

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and, of course, the first one is Surat

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Al Furqan. Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala told us

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it's the habit of Ibad al Rahman. So

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from ayah 61 or 60, he was talking

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Allah

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about he's talking about the the qualities

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or the character traits of those who

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are, you know, the best people. Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala is pleased with them. He called

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them the the servants of the Most Merciful,

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Ibadur Rahman.

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And he told us about their habits,

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their dua, their qiyamul layl and all these

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things. And he said one of the things

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they keep saying this dua,

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one of their habits is that they keep

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saying this dua. Go check this ayat by

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yourself

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from a 6061 in surah al Furqan till

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the end

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of the surah.

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The other du'a

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This dua, Rasulullah SAW

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told Fatima his daughter that you should repeat

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this dua.

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It's a very powerful dua because there is

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a possibility that this dua include al Ismail

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Adam.

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What is Al Ismail Adam the greatest name

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of Allah?

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It's a name that we are not sure.

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We don't know exactly which name is

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but there are possibilities. Some rulamandi said Al

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Hayil Qayyum could be the name the greatest

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name of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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Rasoolallah sallallahu alaihi wa sallam he said if

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it is used in our supplication then Allah

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will answer our dua.

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If you use this Al Ism Al Adam,

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the greatest name of Allah in your dua,

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your dua will be

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answered

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but he didn't tell us exactly which dua

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it's there are some versions

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different in in different hadith

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one of the possible

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options is this one

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But it is enough to know that Rasulullah

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used to tell his daughter Fatima,

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his beloved daughter, keep saying this dua.

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Keep saying this dua. Do not forget about

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this dua. And someone in the community told

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me during my crisis, this dua was my

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my best

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friend.

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O ever ever living one or sustainer of

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all,

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by your mercy.

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So we're begging Allah

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for mercy here. By your

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mercy, I call on you to set right

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all my affairs.

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And this is very powerful because it includes

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all your affairs, whether you talk about business,

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family life, your studies or anything.

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Set all my affairs. Set right

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all my affairs.

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Do not place me in charge of my

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soul

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even for the blinking

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the blinking of an eye.

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So this is the second dua.

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The the third habit which is an amazing

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habit

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is to the habit of reciting afkar Saba'hu

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al Masa.

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These afkar are very powerful ikhwan.

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They are amazing.

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They're good for risk. They're good for protection,

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for good health, good ending. There are some

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dua there.

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They are you're asking Allah for good ending.

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You don't want to suffer at the end

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of your life. There are people who suffer

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at the end of their life.

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You know, there are people who suffer and

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we feel sorry for them.

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We feel sorry for them. They stay 2

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years or 4 years or 3 years, sometimes

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in a very bad state. Their health

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is not that they're not able even to

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help some of them to help themselves.

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So you want

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and also good ending has a different meaning

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also

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dying on the shahada of la ilaha illallah

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Muhammadur Rasulullah

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that is Ursul Khatima right?

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You remember the shahada at the end of

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your life This is Usn Al Khatima.

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So so these these

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you know topics or these subjects are all

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of them included in this

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afkara Sabah.

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Afkara Sabahul Masa and they are found in

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a small booklet

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that is well

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known. Everyone knows about it. Hasan al Muslim,

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in English is the fortress of the the

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Muslim.

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You can download it. You can you can

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order it. You can they they have an

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app. It's widely available.

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No one has an excuse we just have

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to make the time for these supplications

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in the morning after fajr

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the best time is between fajr and sunrise

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and in the evening the best time for

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this adkar is between Asar and Maghri

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right

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and if you miss this time it's okay

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you can do them in the morning time

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till or

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in the evening after isha it's okay after

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Maghrib after isha till midnight

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you can still do this dua unless allah

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Alhamdulillahi

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rabbilalaminu

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salatwassalamu

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alaasharfin Musalim Sallinu Muhammad

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wa'ala Aalihi wa Saghbihi Ajmain.

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The 4th step, Yahuwal,

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something that we talked about again before

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is that we need to take advantage of

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winter time in in in Calgary.

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It's,

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during winter we have long nights

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and it's possible, I know it's possible for

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many people to wake up

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before Fajr by 1 hour or 2 hours,

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you can make wudu that's the best time

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for Dua.

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The last

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third part of the night,

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the last third part of the night

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our duas

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supplications are accepted,

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our salat, our tisbeeh, our istighfar

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are highly rewarded during that time.

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Actually in the hadith, in the famous hadith

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in Bukhari,

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Allah

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will say during that time,

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is there anyone seeking forgiveness?

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So I forgive him.

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Is there anyone who is asking for something

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so I should give it, I should give

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it to him.

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Yeah. 1, I know in the summer it's

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difficult

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to wake up before Fajr in the summer,

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summers of Calgary

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but during winter we don't have an excuse

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Fajr, we pray Fajr here in the in

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the Masjid at 7 o'clock.

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It should be easy for

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most of us to wake up at 5

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o'clock or 5:30

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1 hour before make wudu

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and pray to Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala between

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you and him because he is the one

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who has the power to solve your problems.

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He is the one who has the power

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to change the heart of your wife.

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He has the power to change the hearts

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of your children.

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Wallahi change is possible.

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There are people who lose hope

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and they keep telling some of their children

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you're gonna go to shahannam you are an

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evil person you get an And then they

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say no I lost hope in this in

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this child. I lost hope in this woman.

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I lost hope in this.

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Who are you to judge them?

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Even if they are your children, don't judge

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them. Say our children, I have the freedom

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to talk to you to them in any

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way I want. I mean there's still another

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human being who who deserve

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deserve they deserve Allah's mercy

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and you don't want to see them in

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jahannam on the day of judgment. You say

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it you're saying it because you are angry

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you're upset and you say sometimes I don't

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mean it.

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Okay if you don't mean it then don't

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use this language

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change it with something else

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make dua to to allah subhanahu wa ta'ala

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because as I said

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he has the power to change

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their hearts in a matter of seconds

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and we dealt with it with cases where

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parents lost hope

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and then allah subhanahu wa ta'ala at a

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certain point of time

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he decided to

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you know bless this family and there was

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a positive change that happened and everyone was

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happy with the change that took place.

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Number 5 is lis tafari akhwan. Lis tafari

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is an amazing

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cure for our issues and problems.

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Abdulla Abbas if I'm not mistaken him or

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another sahabi but I believe it was Abdulla

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Abbas.

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Someone told him came to him with a

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problem.

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He said

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in one majlis, a second one came with

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a different issue. He said Allah kabbalistilfar.

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A third one came with a different problem.

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He said Allah kabbalistilfar

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seek Allah's forgiveness,

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seek Allah's forgiveness

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so he gave

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one solution to 3 people who came to

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him with the 3 different issues

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and every time we would say

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seek Allah's forgiveness

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and as tafar is amazing Allah has promised

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that he will forgive our sins, increase the

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number of your children, increase our wealth,

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bless us with rain if we need rain

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so of course you know talking about people

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who were involved in the old days with,

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you know, agriculture and farming, but rain is

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needed all the time. Everyone needs rain.

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So and you can use any form of

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Istilfar as long as it is prescribed in

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the sunnah. There is no need to look

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for

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weird sometimes the people look for weird

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forms of thikr taken from other people

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you leave the sunnah of Rasool Allah a

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sallam

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and then you're gonna look for a dua

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supplication that is made up by someone else.

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I'm talking about this because I dealt with

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this issue

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I checked the dua it's weird it has

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words that are not

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clear

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you have simple forms of istifar that are

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very powerful

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Using these two names

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is very efficient, very powerful.

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I'm reviewing Surat Al Baqarah these days. In

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the first juz,

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Allah mentioned these two names

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in

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a context of Tawba and Istifar

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in the story of Adam alaihis salam, the

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story of Musa with Bani Israel and the

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story Ibrahim and his son Ismael.

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These two names mentioned in these three stories

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in the 1st Jewish of Surah Al Baqarah.

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Verily you are the accepting of repentance

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the merciful.

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These two names were supposed to empower our

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dua with the names of Allah Subhanahu wa

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ta'ala. As Sameer Al Anim, another two names

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that are very good for dua, if you

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wanna use them. But at Tawab Ibrahim, we're

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talking about the context of tawba here. So

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this is another beautiful form

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of the, of Istighfar.

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Another one that is famous and mentioned in

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authentic ahadith.

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I seek the forgiveness of Allah the great

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with whom there is none worthy of worship

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except him, whom there is not worthy of

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worship except him.

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You

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know, the other living,

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the sustainer of all

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and I seek his repentance or I repent

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to him. So this this form of istighfar

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is very powerful. Rasool Allah

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he said all your sins will be will

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be

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forgiven when you use this form of istighfar.

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You can just see use as allahmakfarli

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allahmakfarliwa

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our asafarullahatobullahi

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one hundred times. That should be fine every

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morning, every evening. It will take you a

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few minutes. Astaghfirullah wa

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atugooilei, one and a times.

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3, 4 minutes, and that's it, and you

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will be fine, Insha'Allah.

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Number 5, yahuwan or number 6. Number 5.

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Number 6.

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You know, making dua'u for other Muslims in

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their absence without their knowledge. We talked about

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it again.

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There is a famous hadith that is in

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Sahih Muslim

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that your dua'u will be accepted.

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That Allah will send an angel to you

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And this angel, you don't see him, but

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he's there beside you because you decided to

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make dua for other Muslims. You decided to

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become generous

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and include other Muslims in your dua.

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And it's a sign that you really you

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really care about them. Right? Because you're not

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making dua in front of them. You're not

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trying to please them. You're trying to please

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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This is a sign that you really care

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about your brother, your neighbor, your friend, your

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community,

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your your

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your brother in the community or your sister.

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So Rasulullah SAWHAN

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said it is accepted

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number 1. Number 2 the angel

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will say ameen to your dua and then

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he will say

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So the angel will ask Allah, look at

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this, the angel will ask Allah to give

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you what you wished for your brother or

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sister.

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The angel will make dua for you

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because you decided to make Dua for another

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brother in his absence. The angel will ask

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Allah to give you what you

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wished for your brother and sister.

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An angel making Dua for you, You don't

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make dua for yourself. So basically you're solving

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your problems by making dua

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for other other Muslims and this is well

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documented as I said in famous hadith

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in Sahih Muslim.

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We talked before

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about the power of the word.

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You can use it on a daily basis.

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The power

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of Another dua

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that I, I also share with people,

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somewhere else in the community.

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He said my this dua was my best

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friend

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during my crisis.

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So they had a family crisis

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and this dua was my best friend, which

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means I seek refuge

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with you. Oh Allah, I seek refuge with

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you from worry

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and grief.

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So

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when you worry about the future,

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what will happen in the future. Al Hazan

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is being sad about past events. Something that

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happened in the past

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is not

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there, but I I feel bad about it.

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You feel some pain about it. So we

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are seeking refuge in Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala.

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He want Allah to relieve you from these

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feelings. These are negative feelings.

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Right? And from incapacity

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and laziness. Incapacity is not being able to

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do things, solve problems.

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You have the skills, you have maybe money,

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you have you have the tools but you're

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not able.

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You don't know how to solve this problem,

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incapacity.

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The other one is laziness. You are able

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to solve your problems but you don't have

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the desire to wake up or stand up

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and do things.

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So both both states are very bad. You

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don't want these 2 things, 2 problems.

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From miser behavior and cowardice,

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and from being overcome by death

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and overpowered by men. So this

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dua

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Rasoolullah

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used to use it sometimes

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before

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the

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the the salam

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after tashahood

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after the ibraheem salat salat ala Rasulillah

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during our salat before salam

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he would use this dua and this is

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a good time actually for dua a good

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time when you are ending your salat of

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course when you're praying with the imam

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you'll follow the imam but when you are

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doing your nafila

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you are the king you are the boss

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you're doing your nafila you want to do

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your nafila turakas pray them in 10 minutes

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15 minutes it's your it's your business

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right you can do choose whatever dua you

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want at the end of your salat

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and it is and it is your salat

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your business with allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. Another

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one I'll end with this one rasoolallahu alaihi

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wa sallam he said the Awaatil Magroob

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and Makroob who is Makroob?

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The one who is facing kerb. What is

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kerb? It's a huge problem.

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Is a deep issue.

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Someone who is

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like carrying ness allah sallam alafi a big

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ham.

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Allah

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Allahu Rabbi laushirkubihi

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shayah

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Very simple yet very powerful because you're confirming

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your belief in the oneness of Allah and

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that's the best way

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the best way to approach dua

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and seek Allah's help. You confirm

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most of the powerful most powerful supplications

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they include

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declaration of faith

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or you confirming your belief in the oneness

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of Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala. So here it

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means Allah Allah is my Lord.

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I did not associate anything with him.

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You confirming your belief in the oneness of

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala and this is the

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first step in any process

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in any process we seek through

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help and we seek relief from hardship Miss

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Allah Subhanahu

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Wa

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Ta'ala.

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