Fatima Lette – Exploring The Quran For Women Surah Yusuf #12

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The speaker discusses the difficulties of life and the importance of finding a way to be functional in society. They emphasize the need to be patient and communicate one's struggles, and the importance of finding a solution to sadness and sadness in difficult situations. The speaker also emphasizes the importance of learning from the experience of the day and taking time to change.

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			Until I make sure that being a means
		
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			okay, so he's gonna stay there.
		
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			And then we have this next ayah, where
		
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			it says irji'u ila abikum, go to
		
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			your father, fa-kulu and say to him,
		
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			ya abaana, O our father, inna banat tharaqa
		
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			wa ma shahidina illa bima alimna ma kunna
		
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			lilghaybi haafileen.
		
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			Tell your father, that O father, your son
		
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			has stolen, and because of that, we need
		
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			you to understand that we do not testify,
		
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			we're not bearing witness, we're not saying anything
		
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			except for what we know.
		
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			So we're not making a character judgment, we're
		
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			not saying that he's the worst son in
		
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			the world, we're just saying that this is
		
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			what we know and this is what they're
		
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			holding him back for.
		
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			And he says that wa ma kunna lilghaybi
		
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			haafileen, and we were not witnesses or you
		
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			would even say able to safeguard against things
		
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			that are, how could we safeguard anything that
		
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			was unseen, right?
		
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			And what that means was this is unforeseeable
		
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			circumstances that occurred, and because these circumstances were
		
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			unforeseeable, we were not able to protect Binyamin
		
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			in the way that we promised you that
		
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			we would, because we couldn't see it.
		
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			Had we known that this would be the
		
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			outcome of taking Binyamin there, had we known
		
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			that this would have been possible, then we
		
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			wouldn't have begged for him to come.
		
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			So they're essentially, he's essentially telling them, go
		
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			and set up the case for yourself.
		
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			And then tell him, was'alil qariya, give
		
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			him the ability to go and investigate.
		
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			So tell him and go and ask the
		
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			people, aleti kunna feeha, in the city that
		
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			we were in, and they had gone to
		
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			the city multiple times.
		
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			So remember, this is not the first time
		
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			that they went to the city.
		
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			It's not the first time that they interacted
		
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			with the minister, who is Yusuf alayhi salam.
		
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			So they said, go, and you can ask
		
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			those people, walayil aleti aqbalna feeha, and you
		
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			can also ask the people that gave us
		
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			a ride there, meaning the caravan.
		
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			So we traveled with people, we've been in
		
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			that city, and they all witnessed what happened.
		
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			Wa inna la sawdi kun.
		
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			And indeed, you will find that we are
		
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			truthful.
		
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			Now, when they say this to their father,
		
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			you can only imagine what the father's response
		
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			is.
		
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			Because they had once made a promise to
		
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			their father that they would bring Yusuf back.
		
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			They had once made a promise to their
		
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			father that they didn't want anything evil done
		
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			to Yusuf alayhi salam.
		
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			And where did that get done?
		
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			Or where did that get Yaqub alayhi salam
		
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			without a son?
		
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			And so now, they've made another promise to
		
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			their father that they will bring their brother
		
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			back, and Yaqub alayhi salam is still, again,
		
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			without a son for a second time around.
		
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			And so Yaqub alayhi salam's response was called
		
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			a bal sawwa latadakum anfusukum amran.
		
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			The same thing that he said in the
		
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			time that Yusuf alayhi salam was missing, and
		
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			they claimed that what occurred or what happened
		
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			was that a wolf came and ate him.
		
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			Then Yaqub alayhi salam tells them, no, there's
		
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			something that has enticed your soul.
		
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			And sawwa lat means that there was something
		
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			that was presented to you that beautified this
		
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			thing, that made it seem like the right
		
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			decision to make.
		
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			And then he says, fasawbarun jameen, so I
		
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			will remain and have a very beautiful patience,
		
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			which is the same thing that he said
		
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			at the time of Yusuf alayhi salam disappearing.
		
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			Now, beautiful patience is something that we've covered,
		
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			but I think it's important for us to
		
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			understand what it means, right?
		
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			Remember that sawbar is about restraint.
		
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			It's about, it literally is used when tying
		
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			something, tying your camel.
		
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			So it's about holding back the true level
		
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			or extent of emotion that's irrational.
		
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			You ever get to like, you ever be
		
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			like so upset and there's like a lot
		
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			of rationale, you're rational about it, but then
		
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			you get to that, like, you know, the
		
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			cliff is there and you just kind of
		
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			go keep going.
		
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			Yeah, sawbar is not going over the cliff
		
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			and going over the cliff is what gets
		
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			you to the Allah, why me?
		
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			I didn't deserve this.
		
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			Why would you do this to me?
		
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			I pray, I pray all the time.
		
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			I fast.
		
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			There's other people who like do far worse.
		
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			They have far more.
		
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			Yeah, that sawbar stops you from reaching that
		
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			point.
		
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			And it's important to not reach that point.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because even in the time of anger, okay,
		
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			even in time of anger, we may say
		
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			things that we do not mean, but imagine
		
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			you're having a conversation with your best friend.
		
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			Okay, imagine you have someone that you really
		
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			love and you care for, and you're talking
		
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			to that person, and maybe something triggers you,
		
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			you get a little upset.
		
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			And to that person, you tell them, you've
		
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			never done anything for me.
		
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			You were never there for me.
		
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			You've always been this way and blah, blah,
		
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			blah, and this and that.
		
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			You keep saying these things.
		
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			Then when you leave that conversation, you don't
		
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			feel very good.
		
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			But imagine how you make the other person
		
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			feel.
		
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			And though Allah SWT does not need us,
		
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			and He does not need our kindness, but
		
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			if we want to be the Wali of
		
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			Allah, right, we want to be friends of
		
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			God, then we also have to carry ourselves
		
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			in that relationship accordingly.
		
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			We wouldn't want someone to diminish the help
		
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			that we've given them.
		
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			So why would we diminish the help that
		
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			Allah SWT has given us through and through
		
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			in our life?
		
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			Because a bump has come in the road,
		
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			because a difficulty has occurred, because we have
		
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			an inconvenience, right?
		
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			I'm not by any means belittling what Yaqub
		
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			AS is going through.
		
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			Because Yaqub AS is the one who's saying
		
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			that I'm not going to belittle the help
		
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			that Allah SWT has given me in my
		
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			lifetime.
		
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			Yaqub AS himself is saying, I'm going to
		
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			endure, I'm going to take this difficulty, but
		
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			I'm going to take it in the most
		
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			beautiful way.
		
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			And the most beautiful way of taking a
		
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			difficulty is taking it with Allah.
		
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			And that means that you consult and you
		
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			talk to God, and you ask Allah SWT
		
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			for help throughout that difficulty.
		
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			But it also means that you acknowledge that
		
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			this difficulty, there's some khayr in it, there's
		
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			some good, there's something that you may be
		
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			able to get out of it.
		
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			So Yaqub AS then says, that perhaps Allah
		
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			SWT will bring me to bring them to
		
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			me all together.
		
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			So remember, his sons are now kind of
		
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			scattered.
		
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			Biamin and Yusuf AS, they're back in the
		
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			city, but his older son is in the
		
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			city too.
		
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			Because remember, his older son said, I'm not
		
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			leaving here without Biamin.
		
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			I'm going to sit here until I know
		
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			that his matter is taken care of, because
		
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			we made a promise.
		
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			And he wants to make sure that he
		
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			doesn't make the same mistake that he made
		
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			when they did what they did to Yusuf.
		
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			So he's staying there.
		
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			So Yaqub AS is not only grieving the
		
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			loss of Yusuf now, but he's also now
		
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			grieving the fact that Biamin is gone.
		
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			And then on top of that, his older
		
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			son is not there.
		
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			But the rest of the sons are with
		
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			him.
		
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			So he says that there, I know that
		
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			there's going to come a time where Allah
		
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			SWT is going to bring me back with
		
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			all of my kids.
		
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			And he says, And he refers to Allah
		
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			in two of his characteristics, two of his
		
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			ismat, two of his names.
		
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			The first one is that he says, I
		
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			know that Allah is all knowing.
		
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			He's all aware.
		
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			He's all knowledgeable.
		
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			He's all knowing.
		
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			And he's all knowing of the difficulty that
		
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			has befallen me.
		
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			But he's also all knowing of the solution
		
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			that's going to come out of this.
		
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			Sometimes we're in the thick of hardship, and
		
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			we feel like there's no solution in this.
		
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			You know, you feel like, you know what,
		
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			this is just going to be my life.
		
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			And it is what it is.
		
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			And some days is easy to accept that.
		
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			And some days it's very difficult to accept
		
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			it.
		
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			On the days that is easy, you say
		
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			I can live this life every day.
		
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			I don't like it.
		
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			It's not ideal, but it's fine.
		
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			But the days that is hard, it is,
		
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			okay, I don't know why Allah will put
		
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			this burden onto me.
		
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			But when you know that there is a
		
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			solution, Allah SWT has made a cure for
		
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			every single illness.
		
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			Allah SWT has made a solution for every
		
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			single problem.
		
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			Allah SWT has made a way out for
		
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			every single difficulty.
		
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			But sometimes the journey of the difficulty is
		
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			exactly what you need to go through in
		
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			order to know something or to learn something
		
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			or to develop and to grow.
		
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			Because at the end of the day, the
		
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			production of a diamond is not made by
		
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			being cute.
		
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			It's not how it happens, right?
		
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			It's difficult, it's hard, it's pressure.
		
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			Pressure makes diamonds, not pebbles, diamonds, right?
		
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			Yeah, exactly.
		
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			I can't do that.
		
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			It's not how I work.
		
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			You know, she's so funny.
		
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			We'll talk about it later.
		
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			But when you think about that, right, you
		
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			think about how the most valuable things that
		
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			you have in life, those things were not
		
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			made through the process of someone just sitting
		
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			around.
		
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			It was made through difficulty, through hardship.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because trial and tribulation allows you to know
		
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			who you are and the things that you
		
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			need to grow in, right?
		
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			It lets you know that these are the
		
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			things that I'm good at.
		
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			This is a response I'm not so great
		
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			at.
		
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			This is a situation that I could have
		
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			done better at.
		
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			Well, actually, I'm very proud of myself because
		
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			I got through this situation.
		
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			So different things allow for you to see,
		
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			different things allow for you to see different
		
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			outcomes and different ways of who you are.
		
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			But Allah SWT being all-knowing means that
		
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			God knows the solution to this issue.
		
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			Allah SWT knows when you're going to get
		
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			out of it.
		
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			And Allah SWT knows the exact type of
		
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			help that you need to get out of
		
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			it.
		
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			And then we have Al-Hakim.
		
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			Just because someone knows something doesn't mean they're
		
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			wise, right?
		
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			I can know a lot of things.
		
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			But you ever heard of a know-it
		
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			-all?
		
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			Who likes to know it all?
		
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			Nobody.
		
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			Nobody likes to know it all.
		
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			Because a know-it-all does not actually
		
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			know the right time and place to say
		
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			something.
		
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			So it's like someone's in the thick of
		
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			an issue and they're like seeking advice.
		
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			They just, and maybe you as a person
		
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			who's there as a bystander, know that that
		
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			person needs to just be told it's going
		
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			to be okay.
		
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			And this know-it-all is like, well,
		
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			let me tell you all the places that
		
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			you went wrong.
		
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			It's like, it's not the time.
		
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			It's not the place.
		
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			It's an honest statement.
		
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			But this is not the time.
		
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			It's not the place.
		
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			It's definitely not the moment.
		
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			It's not the moment.
		
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			So someone can have knowledge of something, but
		
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			not be very wise in how they communicate
		
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			that knowledge.
		
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			Not be very wise in how they navigate
		
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			it.
		
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			Not be very wise in the role that
		
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			they play in people's lives.
		
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			But Yaqub a.s. gives Allah subhana wa
		
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			ta'ala, or refers to Allah subhana wa
		
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			ta'ala in these two attributes, in these
		
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			two characteristics and names of Allah, recognizing that
		
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			I know that Allah is all aware of
		
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			my situation.
		
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			And I know that in the timeline that
		
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			he's presenting the situation, and how long the
		
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			situation has been going on for, and what
		
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			is happening exactly right now, that Allah is
		
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			all wise.
		
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			And there's something that is going to come
		
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			out of this.
		
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			And then you have in verse number 83,
		
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			that Allah subhana wa ta'ala says, وَتَوَلَّى
		
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			عَنْهُمْ وَقَالَ يَا أَسَفَى عَلَى يُوسِفَهُ He says,
		
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			I'm ever so saddened by the situation of
		
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			Yusuf.
		
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			Okay, I'm so sad.
		
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			Remember, now, typically, when someone tells you be
		
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			patient, they think that you're supposed to just
		
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			be like, happy.
		
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			Be patient means that you're so ecstatic, where
		
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			someone says, how's life, and life may not
		
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			be going that well.
		
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			And you're like, it's actually the best it's
		
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			ever been.
		
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			That's not what being patient means.
		
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			It doesn't mean that you lie.
		
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			Okay, it means that you don't enter into
		
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			a level of disparity.
		
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			That's what being patient means.
		
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			You don't despair in the in the rahmah
		
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			of Allah subhana wa ta'ala.
		
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			That's what being patient means.
		
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			But you can face sadness and difficulty and
		
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			acknowledge that sadness and difficulty.
		
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			But Yaqub al-Islam, what does he do?
		
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			He turns away from them, meaning that he's
		
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			not expressing his sadness to them.
		
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			Right?
		
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			He's expressing his sadness one to himself, but
		
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			he's expressing his sadness to Allah.
		
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			And he says, I'm ever so sad, and
		
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			there's so much sorrow that I have so
		
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			much sadness that I have, because of the
		
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			situation of Yusuf.
		
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			And Allah subhana wa ta'ala says that
		
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			his eyes turned white, because of how sad
		
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			he was, meaning that he cried until he
		
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			was blind.
		
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			He cannot see anymore.
		
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			And he was ever so sad.
		
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			Kadhim is so interesting.
		
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			Because kadhim means for someone to have not
		
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			only someone to be sad, but it actually
		
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			means for someone to be so sad, so
		
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			sad, but they bottled up.
		
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			Okay, it means like a sadness that one
		
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			does not express is a sadness that one
		
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			keeps inside of them.
		
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			And they don't really tell other people.
		
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			So Allah subhana wa ta'ala explains Yaqub
		
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			al-Islam as being kadhim.
		
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			Now, this is not an encouragement that you
		
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			bottle things up until you're blind.
		
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			It's not what God is saying.
		
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			But look at Yaqub al-Islam's position.
		
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			Was Yaqub al-Islam a normal community member?
		
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			No.
		
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			He was the one that people went to
		
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			for their sadness.
		
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			He was the one that people went to
		
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			for their problems.
		
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			He was the one who was the one
		
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			who had to be the solution-oriented human
		
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			in the community.
		
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			And it wasn't just a responsibility that he
		
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			put upon himself.
		
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			It was a responsibility that Allah subhana wa
		
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			ta'ala put upon him.
		
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			And so you know how they say therapists
		
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			need therapists, right?
		
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			Yaqub al-Islam, the one that he would
		
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			go to was to Allah.
		
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			That is why.
		
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			But it's true.
		
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			It is true that Allah subhana wa ta
		
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			'ala put people in your life for you
		
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			to be able to express your difficulty, for
		
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			you to be able to navigate that challenge
		
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			or that journey.
		
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			So Allah subhana wa ta'ala is not
		
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			telling you that you're not allowed to communicate
		
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			the problems that you're facing.
		
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			In fact, consultation, shura, is a part of
		
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			our tradition.
		
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			And I know we think about consultation only
		
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			in the facts of like, should I buy
		
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			a house, should I not?
		
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			You know, when we think about it in
		
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			the life of the Prophet ﷺ, should we
		
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			go to war, should we not?
		
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			But there's a reason why there's an emphasis
		
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			in that.
		
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			This emphasis is doing what?
		
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			It's showing us that the companions, when they
		
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			would want to make a decision, they would
		
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			go to the Prophet ﷺ and ask the
		
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			Prophet ﷺ, should I do X, Y, and
		
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			Z?
		
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			They would tell the Prophet ﷺ, I'm feeling
		
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			X, Y, and Z.
		
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			What do you think?
		
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			And the Prophet ﷺ would encourage them, or
		
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			he would give them advice, or he would
		
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			just spend time with them.
		
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			What is that showing us?
		
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			It is okay to have friends.
		
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			It's okay to have families.
		
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			It's okay to have communities.
		
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			It's okay to have people that care about
		
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			you and you communicate to them that this
		
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			is the thing that I'm going through, and
		
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			this is the difficulty that I'm facing.
		
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			But when you're communicating that, ask yourself, am
		
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			I doing this just to complain, or am
		
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			I doing this because I want a solution?
		
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			If it's for complaining purposes, then we're going
		
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			to hold off.
		
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			But if it's solution oriented, by all means.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because you're going to stick to the facts,
		
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			and you're going to address the situation accordingly.
		
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			And sometimes the solution that you need is
		
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			someone telling you it's going to be okay.
		
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			And that is okay.
		
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			It is okay to just need a pat
		
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			on the back.
		
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			It's okay to just need someone to say,
		
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			someone to kind of push you forward and
		
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			encourage you.
		
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			Where they're not taking anything off of your
		
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			plate, but they're giving you space, emotional and
		
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			mental space.
		
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			And it's important to know that wasfana does
		
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			put people in other people's life for this
		
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			reason.
		
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			So Yaqub, being described as kadhim, it means
		
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			that he was someone that was filled with
		
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			grief, but he held back on expressing it.
		
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			Which is why we don't find early in
		
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			the surah, that wasfana says that he was
		
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			blinded by his sorrow.
		
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			We don't find that early in the surah.
		
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			But there does come a point where sometimes
		
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			when the rain, when it keeps pouring, and
		
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			the difficulty keeps difficulting, that you do reach
		
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			a point where you're like, this is a
		
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			lot.
		
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			And you find that Yaqub is at that
		
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			point where he's facing so much difficulty, not
		
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			just the situation with Yusuf, but now the
		
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			situation of being a mean is a little
		
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			triggering.
		
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			It's a little triggering.
		
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			He was already sad with the situation with
		
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			Yusuf.
		
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			And now being a mean situation comes up.
		
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			So now we see that he really fully
		
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			expresses that grief.
		
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			But he still does it in a way
		
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			that is pleasing to Allah because he expresses
		
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			that grief to Allah alone.
		
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			Then you have, he says, that the people,
		
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			then his kids, they turn to him and
		
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			they say, we swear by Allah, that you
		
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			will not stop remembering Yusuf.
		
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			You just keep remembering him.
		
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			You keep reminiscing about him.
		
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			And you're going to keep doing this until
		
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			you become so sick.
		
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			Not marudan, marud means someone who's sick, but
		
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			it's an illness that's curable.
		
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			Okay, it's an illness that could be fatal,
		
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			but it's curable.
		
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			Then you have harudan, which is an illness
		
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			that is fatal.
		
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			You're going to worry yourself to death about
		
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			him.
		
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			Or you'll be amongst those who just are
		
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			perished or like lifeless, but more so means
		
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			that there's nothing left to you.
		
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			You're going to let grief eat you up
		
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			so much so that you won't be able
		
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			to be a functional person in society.
		
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			Then Yaqub alayhis salaam responds and he says,
		
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			innama ashkub bathee wa huzani ilallah.
		
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			He says, and it's such an epic response.
		
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			He says, I only complain of my suffering
		
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			to Allah.
		
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			You cannot say anything to me.
		
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			They told him, oh, you're so sad about
		
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			Yusuf.
		
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			And you're just always so sad about him.
		
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			And if you don't stop being sad about
		
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			him, you're going to die this way.
		
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			And it's just, you're just going to become
		
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			useless human.
		
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			And he says, I didn't talk to you
		
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			about it.
		
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			I've never complained to you about it.
		
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			I've only complained about my suffering.
		
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			He doesn't say my sadness.
		
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			Okay, he doesn't start with my sadness.
		
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			He says, bathee, my suffering, how heavy this
		
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			has weighed upon me, wa huzani and my
		
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			sadness ilallah.
		
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			It is only to Allah that I've complained
		
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			about it.
		
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			And I only complained to Allah about it
		
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			because I know about Allah what you do
		
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			not know.
		
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			Because he has conviction in Allah swt.
		
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			He has this awareness and this knowledge that
		
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			God will see him through a situation that
		
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			everybody thinks is impossible.
		
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			They were fully convinced that Yacoub alayhis salam
		
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			would never see Yusuf alayhis salam again.
		
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			But what does Yacoub alayhis salam say?
		
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			He says, I have hope that my Lord
		
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			will return all of my kids to me.
		
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			So I know that I will see him
		
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			again.
		
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			But just because you know something doesn't take
		
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			the emotion away from it, especially when the
		
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			timeline is unknown.
		
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			But we fast forward or we go back,
		
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			rewind, fast rewind, back to the beginning of
		
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			Surah Yusuf.
		
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			And we said that Surah Yusuf was revealed
		
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			at a time that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi
		
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			wa sallam was experiencing a lot of grief
		
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			and difficulty.
		
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			And one of the things that he experienced,
		
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			or two of the things, three of the
		
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			things he experienced was the passing of his
		
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			wife Khadija He experienced the passing of his
		
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			uncle, Abu Talib.
		
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			But he also experienced a difficulty that he
		
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			hadn't thought.
		
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			And you remember how we said when the
		
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			rain is raining and the difficulty is difficulting
		
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			and it's packing on and packing on, you
		
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			reach a point where you're like, this is
		
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			a lot.
		
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			It's a lot.
		
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			And you feel like it's the straw that's
		
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			going to break the camel's back.
		
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			Well, just like Yaqub alayhi s-salam reached
		
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			that point here.
		
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			And he says, I only complain of my
		
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			difficulty to Allah when the Prophet sallallahu alayhi
		
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			wa sallam goes to Ta'if and they
		
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			stone his feet.
		
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			It wasn't them like rejecting.
		
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			That was a lot.
		
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			But when they were willing to kill Zayd
		
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			and then they were willing to harm the
		
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			Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam so bad and
		
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			it's so hot and he's so tired and
		
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			he's walking, he was so kind to them.
		
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			All of those things were difficult.
		
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			But for him to see that they lined
		
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			up the children too, it was almost like
		
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			how terrible for people that you can make
		
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			children do such atrocious things and gave the
		
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			children and the slaves these rocks and pellets
		
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			and told them to stone the Prophet sallallahu
		
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			alayhi wa sallam's feet.
		
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			And that's what they did.
		
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			So you remember the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
		
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			sallam is sitting at this tree and he's
		
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			thinking about the difficulty that he's faced.
		
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			It's not just the difficulty he's faced at
		
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			Ta'if.
		
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			It is the three years of the boycott.
		
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			It is the Abu Bakr Siddiq R.A.
		
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			being beaten almost into a coma because of
		
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			his belief.
		
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			It is the passing of his wife.
		
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			It is the passing of his uncle and
		
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			his uncle is not Muslim.
		
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			It is the disrespect and the rejection of
		
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			the people of Ta'if.
		
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			There's so many difficulties on difficulties on difficulties
		
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			that the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam has
		
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			faced.
		
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			So the year of sorrow is not really
		
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			just a year of sorrow.
		
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			It was like 12 years of difficulty and
		
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			sorrow that all just came crashing down into
		
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			one year.
		
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			And what does the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa
		
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			sallam say?
		
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			Allahumma ilayka ashkul.
		
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			Same wording.
		
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			Oh Allah, it is only to you that
		
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			I complain.
		
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			Of the weakness in my power.
		
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			And how little control and support that I
		
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			have.
		
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			And how I've been made to be so
		
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			little and humiliated in front of the people.
		
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			Oh the one who is ever so merciful
		
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			and the one who's most merciful out of
		
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			the people who are merciful.
		
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			That you are the Lord of those who
		
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			are weak.
		
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			And you are my Lord.
		
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			Who are you going to leave me to
		
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			and give power over me?
		
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			To people who are so far from caring.
		
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			They're distant people.
		
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			They don't care at all.
		
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			Or is it to my enemy that you
		
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			will give control over me too?
		
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			Give them the control over my matter and
		
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			my situation and my life?
		
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			But if you're not upset with me then
		
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			there is no problem.
		
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			Do it all over again.
		
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			But you see that that same sentiment is
		
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			what the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was
		
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			feeling at this time.
		
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			And then this surah comes down as a
		
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			consolation to him.
		
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			And imagine you're going through something and life
		
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			is really hard and someone comes to you
		
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			and somebody that you respect and you love
		
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			and you care for and they said that
		
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			person also went through something similar.
		
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			And these were the words that they said.
		
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			And you're thinking to yourself like I said
		
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			something very similar like that.
		
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			All of a sudden it gives you a
		
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			little bit more strength.
		
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			Because you don't feel like you're going through
		
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			that situation alone.
		
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			And even though you may not have met
		
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			this person but just sheer fact that you
		
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			have so much love and respect for them
		
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			makes you feel like wow this is an
		
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			inspiration.
		
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			This is something that is keeping me going.
		
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			And so Yaqub alayhi sallam Allah SWT presenting
		
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			this portion of the story.
		
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			He kind of very well left it out.
		
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			But he wants us to get a glimpse
		
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			into what Yaqub alayhi sallam was feeling one
		
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			and two how he dealt with what he's
		
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			feeling.
		
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			And then he says I know about Allah
		
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			what you do not know.
		
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			You may think that I'm a crazy senile
		
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			old man that is crying about something that
		
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			would never be better.
		
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			But I know that my Lord will not
		
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			leave me empty-handed.
		
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			And this is the same thing that Ibrahim
		
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			alayhi sallam said.
		
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			He said over and over again there's never
		
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			been a time that I've made dua to
		
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			Allah and Allah has left me up empty
		
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			-handed.
		
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			Zakaria alayhi sallam says the same thing.
		
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			When he's making dua for the impossible a
		
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			child at a time when both him and
		
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			his wife were so old that it was
		
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			as if they were barren.
		
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			They were not able to have a kid.
		
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			And he makes dua to Allah.
		
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			He says Allah I've never been left empty
		
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			-handed when I prayed to you.
		
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			And so I know you won't leave me
		
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			empty-handed here.
		
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			But the beauty of dua like this is
		
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			that we have to understand what does being
		
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			left empty-handed mean.
		
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			Because for us you know if I ask
		
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			Allah for a Corvette and I don't get
		
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			a Corvette I'm like left me empty-handed.
		
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			But I have a nice reliable functioning registration
		
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			intact vehicle.
		
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			Have I been left empty-handed really?
		
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			No.
		
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			Because maybe there's something that Allah is protecting
		
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			me from.
		
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			And so it's important to evaluate the dua
		
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			that you're making but also what is it
		
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			that Allah has given you in your life.
		
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			And then we have here that he then
		
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			responds to them.
		
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			And he says Ya Baniyya, Idhhabu fatahassasu min
		
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			yusuf wa akhihi.
		
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			He says I want you guys all my
		
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			sons.
		
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			I need all of you to get up.
		
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			And you need to go out.
		
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			He doesn't just say go and like find
		
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			him.
		
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			He says go and investigate.
		
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			Figure it out.
		
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			Use your senses.
		
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			It literally means to use your senses.
		
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			I need you to go and use your
		
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			senses to see what's happened to Yusuf and
		
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			his brother.
		
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			Wala ta'asu min rauhillahi.
		
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			And don't go out there and lose hope
		
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			in the mercy of Allah.
		
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			Don't go and lose hope in the mercy
		
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			of Allah.
		
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			Because you won't know what happened to your
		
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			brother and you won't know what happened to
		
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			Binyamin, your other brother, when you go out
		
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			and use your senses that God has given
		
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			you.
		
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			So go and be smart.
		
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			What's interesting is that the brother's already interacted
		
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			with Yusuf so many times.
		
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			But you know when you're kind of like
		
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			not really paying attention and there's people you
		
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			should like recognize but you don't recognize.
		
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			It happens to me all the time.
		
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			People you should recognize you don't really recognize
		
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			them and you just keep it pushing.
		
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			That's what they're doing.
		
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			They're not paying attention.
		
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			So it's very interesting that he doesn't just
		
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			tell them.
		
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			Already?
		
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			Okay.
		
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			It's interesting that he doesn't just tell them
		
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			to go and look.
		
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			He doesn't just say look.
		
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			He says use your senses.
		
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			Investigate.
		
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			Go see what is happening.
		
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			And he says and don't lose hope in
		
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			the mercy of Allah.
		
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			Because it's only out of the mercy of
		
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			Allah that you're going to get the answer
		
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			that you you need to find.
		
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			He says innahu laa yai'asu min rauhillahi
		
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			illal qawmin kafirun.
		
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			That the only people who lose hope in
		
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			Allah are people who are disbelievers.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because a disbeliever does not truly know who
		
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			Allah is.
		
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			If you truly knew who Allah was you
		
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			would never lose hope in Allah.
		
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			What does this mean to us though?
		
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			It means that even in the roughest of
		
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			situations you know that Allah is going to
		
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			come and Allah is going to look out
		
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			for you.
		
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			That the blessings Allah has in store for
		
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			you he's going to present them to you.
		
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			You know that there's light throughout the tunnel.
		
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			You know that there are difficulties that you
		
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			face because this is life.
		
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			But your life is not all difficult.
		
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			You know that there is happiness in times
		
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			of just the really toughest time but you
		
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			still had a good time.
		
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			There are still times where Allah allowed you
		
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			to laugh.
		
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			There are still times where Allah allowed you
		
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			to enjoy life.
		
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			There are still times where Allah allowed you
		
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			to still see the beauty of the world.
		
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			We are now in a situation where we're
		
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			seeing so much atrocity.
		
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			And I know we're faced with this difficult
		
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			type of like feeling of do I be
		
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			happy for the good things that I have?
		
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			Should I always be sad?
		
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			But just think about the Muslims in the
		
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			time of Prophecy Salaam.
		
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			They're facing the battle of Badr.
		
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			Literally in the battle of Badr they're standing
		
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			and Prophecy Salaam is placing each of them
		
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			in in their roles.
		
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			And there's a companion there and he doesn't
		
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			have a shirt and Prophecy Salaam poked him
		
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			to get him into his role.
		
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			And then he looks at the Prophecy Salaam
		
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			and he says like he like acts like
		
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			he's like angry.
		
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			And he tells him, Ya Rasulullah, all is
		
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			not good with me.
		
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			Because Prophecy Salaam is like everybody's good.
		
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			You're in your position.
		
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			You ready to go?
		
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			He says no all is not good with
		
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			me.
		
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			Prophecy Salaam is like what are you talking
		
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			about?
		
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			He said you poked me.
		
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			And Prophecy Salaam is like what?
		
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			Like we're about to go for a battle.
		
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			He's like, Ya Rasulullah, you poked me.
		
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			And that it's an eye for an eye.
		
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			So Prophecy Salaam says okay go ahead, poke
		
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			me back.
		
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			And he says no I didn't have on
		
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			a shirt.
		
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			So you have to take off your shirt.
		
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			Because you poked me and I didn't have
		
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			on a shirt.
		
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			Prophecy Salaam took off his shirt.
		
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			And then he poked Prophecy Salaam back.
		
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			And it was just because he loved him
		
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			so much.
		
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			And they're about to go into battle.
		
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			He doesn't know he's gonna make it.
		
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			So his last memory that he wanted to
		
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			have with Prophecy Salaam was something fun.
		
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			Obviously he could have told him a joke.
		
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			But that was his way of joking.
		
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			But can you imagine like they know they're
		
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			about to face odds that are going to
		
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			be completely against them.
		
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			They know this.
		
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			And they know it's very possible they're not
		
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			going to make it out of this battle.
		
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			They know this.
		
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			They know they're going to go and face
		
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			their death and their mortality.
		
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			They know this.
		
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			But in that moment they still find happiness.
		
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			Why?
		
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			Because they did not lose hope in Allah.
		
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			And so for us, for us Maghrib is
		
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			in.
		
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			Which they lied to me when we started.
		
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			Okay just gonna let you know.
		
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			But for us what are we getting out
		
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			of today?
		
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			We're getting out of today that you can
		
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			never lose hope in Allah.
		
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			Not just because Allah is always there.
		
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			But because we're not disbelievers.
		
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			And what does Yaqub alayhi salaam say?
		
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			Only disbelievers lose hope in Allah.
		
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			As a believer it's like as a believer
		
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			we know who Allah is.
		
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			We know that Allah will take care of
		
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			us.
		
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			We know that Allah is just.
		
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			We know that Allah is kind.
		
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			We know that Allah is fair.
		
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			We know that Allah SWT holds oppressors accountable.
		
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			And we know that Allah SWT is all
		
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			wise.
		
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			He's all knowledgeable.
		
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			He's all aware.
		
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			And he's forbearing.
		
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			You know what it means for Allah to
		
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			be haleem, forbearing?
		
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			It means that Allah SWT will sit and
		
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			watch his servants disobey him every single day.
		
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			And though, and this is the definition of
		
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			Imam Ghazali.
		
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			And though Allah SWT has the right to
		
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			hold someone accountable, immediately he does not do
		
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			that.
		
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			He gives them time to repent or time
		
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			to dig themselves into a deeper hole.
		
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			And that is actually the mercy of Allah.
		
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			Because as believers we have a gift.
		
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			That gift is not perfection.
		
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			It's what?
		
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			Tawba.
		
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			So we don't lose hope in Allah because
		
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			we know Allah SWT to be merciful.
		
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			We don't lose hope of Allah because we
		
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			also know Allah SWT to be just and
		
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			hold people accountable.
		
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			And so with everything that we are experiencing,
		
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			it is time for us to take a
		
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			lesson out of the book, out of the
		
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			page of Yaqub al-Islam's life.
		
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			And to be patient, but not be patient
		
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			and passive.
		
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			To be patient and strong.
		
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			To be patient and have this level of
		
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			conviction in Allah SWT's ability.
		
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			To be patient and understand who our Lord
		
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			is.
		
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			To be patient and be educated.
		
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			To be patient and make the right decisions.
		
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			To be patient and push forward.
		
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			That is what sabr and jameel means.
		
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			Yeah, it doesn't mean be in the corner
		
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			and be complacent.
		
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			That's not who Allah created you to be.
		
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			Allah created you to be someone to fight
		
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			something with your hands.
		
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			Allah SWT created you to be someone to
		
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			fight something with your tongue.
		
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			And Allah SWT created you to be someone
		
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			to at least hate it in your heart.
		
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			So I pray that Allah SWT allows us
		
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			to benefit from everything that we heard here
		
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			today.
		
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			I pray that Allah SWT forgives us of
		
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			our shortcomings.
		
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			That Allah SWT allows us to be people
		
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			who are always on the right side of
		
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			history.
		
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			I pray that Allah SWT allows us to
		
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			gather in the gathering much better than this.
		
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			To drink from the blessed hands of the
		
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			Prophet Muhammad Sallallahu alaihi wa sallam.
		
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			Subhanakallahumma bihamdika.
		
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			An-nashadu ala ala ilaha ila anta.
		
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			An-nashadu ala ala ilaha ila anta.
		
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			An-nashadu ala ala ilaha ila anta.
		
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			An-nashadu ala ala ilaha ila anta.
		
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			An-nashadu ala ala ilaha ila anta.
		
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			JazakAllah khayran.
		
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			As-salamu alaykum wa rahmatullahi wa barakatuh.
		
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			Apparently the time goes back next week so
		
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			we'll have our full hour inshallah.