Fatima Barkatulla – Life of Aisha RA #09 – Relationship with the Prophet & His Wives

			Bismillah Alhamdulillah wa salatu salam ala Rasulillah Dear brothers and sisters As salam o Alaikum
Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh and welcome to another episode of Aisha are the Allahu and her Mother of
the Believers.
		

			On the eastern side of the Prophet's mosque, there were a row of mud huts. And these were the living
quarters of the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and his wives. One of those huts
belonged to our mother, our Asia or the Allah Allah. And the heart was about 10 foot long, with mud
walls, and a roof of date leaves and branches was a very simple little abode. In fact, you could
even call it a room. The roof was so low that if you reached up, you could touch it.
		

			There was a door that went straight from her house to the masjid. And the door had some kind of
curtain over it. It was a very simple home, but it was a home from which the light of guidance
emanated and spread throughout the world.
		

			Dear Brothers and Sisters, when we hear about the life of a shadow of the law, and how with the
Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, sometimes we don't realize that actually, you know, when he
passed away, she was only 18 years old, which means that the majority of her life she actually spent
after the death of the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam. However, those years with Rasulullah
sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was so intense and so beneficial and so beautiful, that she narrated all
the information that we could ever want to know about those years. Right? Everything that she could
tell us about the Sunnah about living with Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi salam, that would be
		

			beneficial for us. Our mother, Aisha radi, Alana, used to tell us about
		

			and so through that we learn what is it to have a happy and positive marital life? How do problems
get resolved in marriage? All of the things the human things that we experience, you know, all the
interactions, all the ups and downs of life are sown allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam also
experienced some of those.
		

			We said last time that even though the messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was a
statesman, and was very busy with the affairs of the Ummah, He taught his companions to have balance
in their lives. We said that our Isha described him as he used to keep himself busy serving his
family. And when it was time for the prayer, he would get up for prayer. So yes, he was there for
his family. Yes, he was serving his family. But he always knew that the Salah, his connection with
Allah subhanaw taala was number one. And when it came for the time for prayer, he used to get up and
leave for the prayer.
		

			There were many special moments that are a share or the alarm on her head with the Messenger of
Allah. And if it wasn't for the fact that she was his wife, and and we had access to this knowledge
through her, we wouldn't know about these lovely moments. For example,
		

			I actually reported
		

			when I saw the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam with a cheerful face, I said, O Messenger of
Allah, make dua for me supplicate for me. The Prophet said, Oh Allah, forgive our Aisha for her past
and future sins in secret and then public. And Aisha was so happy when she heard this dua from the
lips of Rasulullah. That she said she laughed so much, that her head fell from his lap. So she was
lying there with her head and with her head in his lap, and asking him to make dua. And when he made
this Doha she was so happy ahead, fell from his love. The Prophet said to her, does my dua make you
happy? I just said, Why would you do and not make me happy? In other words, she realized that not
		

			only was it the Messenger of Allah who was making dua for her, but he made a dua that was so
comprehensive, that you know if it came true, she would definitely be a woman of Jana. Right all
your past
		

			future sins, sins that you do in public sins that you do in private. If they were all forgiven, then
you know what more could a person want.
		

			The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, By Allah, this is my dua for my nation, in every
single prayer. This is my dua for my ummah, in every prayer Subhanallah such a touching moment, and
such a special thing for us as the Ummah of Muhammad sallallahu alayhi wa sallam to know. Right? And
we wouldn't have known about this. If it wasn't for our mother, Ayesha.
		

			The Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was not shy to mention, and to let it be known that he loved
Aisha
		

			wants it to be bit Alas, Radi Allahu said that he asked the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam,
which person is most beloved to you? And the Prophet said, Asha.
		

			He said, I said, I mean amongst the men, and the Prophet said her father, her father,
		

			I said, then who are the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam said, Omar, then I'll hop up. And then
he mentioned some other men.
		

			In this narration, we see that Subhan Allah the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam was not afraid
to openly express that he loved his wife, even in front of men.
		

			And it shows you how much he loved her that when he mentioned the man who he loved the most. He
connected it back to her right, he said her father.
		

			I showed her the Lana was jealously protective over the Prophet salallahu Alaihe Salam.
		

			And, you know, we know that she was once she got up in the middle of the night, and she couldn't see
the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam there. So she felt around in the dark. And she felt the prophets
foot. So she realized that he was in prayer. And she said, Oh, what was I thinking. And other times
she heard him leave in the night. So she became worried that he'd gone to visit one of his other
wives. So she quietly snuck up behind him and followed him to the burial ground where he went, he
went to the burial ground of Bucky.
		

			And he went there to make the art for the dead. Then he started to go back home. And she realized
that she better go back home too.
		

			And he was going really fast. So she started to go very fast as well so that she would enter the
house before him without him realizing. So when the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam entered, he
found her at home, but she was out of breath. So he asked her, you know, why, why she was out of
breath. And she tried to kind of not mentioned what happened. She tried to conceal the matter, but
he insisted and he said to her, if she didn't tell him then Allah would tell him. So Asha, rather
than her realize that she'll, she'll have to own up.
		

			The messenger of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam asked her, was it you who was walking in front of
me? She replied, Yes. So the Prophet. Again, he said to her, Do you think that I would be unfair
towards you? Do you think I would basically go visit one of the other wives when it's your night.
		

			And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam then informed her that Gibreel had come and informed him
that Allah wanted him to go to the Bucky graveyard and supplicate for the dead. And that's why he
had gone out secretly. And he'd go out secretly because he didn't want to wake her up and didn't
want her to be scared that he was leaving her alone in the night.
		

			And look at our mother Aisha, even though this funny incident happened, and you know, she was like,
obviously, very sheepish by the end of this because she realized that the Prophet salallahu Alaihe
Salam had gone out for such a beautiful and beneficial reason. At the end of this, our Isha Dylon
has student quality still remain, you know, and she, she couldn't help it but ask us all Allah
salAllahu alayhi wa sallam, what do you add that she should make when she goes to the graveyard? And
this is when the Prophet salallahu alayhi salam taught her the Dar Salam why Allah Allah Allah, Dr.
Medina will Muslimeen
		

			and you know how to what to make when you go to the
		

			graveyard. So it shows you that even though you know she was, she had these kinds of funny moments
where her personality would really come out. She was still a student at heart. She wanted to know
how to please Allah, that was her primary concern. And she realized that she was with the messenger
of allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam who could tell her everything that she could ever want to know.
And that's why we see that she would ask him to make dua for her. That's why we see that she would
be so inquisitive and ask him anything that she could, that was beneficial.
		

			There was sometimes jealousy between the wives, we already mentioned that. One example was once when
the prophets Allahu alayhi salam was in the house of one of his wives. And it's been Malik says, one
of the Mothers of the Believers sent a meal in a dish, the wife at whose house the Prophet was, and
we know that it that it was Aisha, basically whose house the Prophet was in, she struck the hand of
the servant, causing the dish to fall and break. Okay, so in other words, the prophet is in his
house, and one of the other wives sends a dish of food, and Asha, or the LAN have felt some jealousy
because of this. And she struck the hand of the servant, causing the dish to fall and break. The
		

			Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam gathered the broken pieces of the dish. And then he started to
collect the items of food, which had been in the dish. And then he just simply said, your mother has
become jealous, right? So he kind of covered up, you know, her kind of misdemeanor if you like, and
he didn't make a big deal out of it.
		

			Then he told the servant to wait. And he went and asked, he asked, I Should I shut it down, had to
bring a dish to replace the one that she had broken. And so then she gave the dish and then, you
know, that dish was returned to the about wife. So we see that here,
		

			the Messenger of Allah instead of criticizing her, instead of, you know, making a big scene, he
overlooked those human feelings of jealousy that were natural for his co wife, the CO wives to feel
for one another. He was forbearing. And he understood that sometimes feelings and emotions can get
the better of a person.
		

			And instead of rebuking and criticizing, he focused on showing people including his wives, how to
make amends, how to fix things.
		

			In sha Allah after the break, we're going to continue with this topic. So until then, a salam Wa
alaykum Warahmatullahi Wabarakatuh.
		

			Bismillah Alhamdulillah wa Salatu was Salam ala Rasulillah Welcome back. We were talking about the
relationship of Aisha DeLanda with the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam, and also with with her
co wives. I showed her the law on her said, I never felt so jealous about any woman, as I did for
her deja vu, you know, Khadija de la Anna.
		

			I should have not even met for the job. You know, she had she had just been a child when for the
job, or the law and her had passed away. She had died three years before what I saw before I saw
allah sallallahu Sallam married Aisha.
		

			And I actually said I heard him mention her so often. And his Lord ordered him to give her glad
tidings of a palace in Paradise. And the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam would slaughter a sheep
and distribute its meat among her friends. So in other words, you know, sort of Allah salAllahu
alayhi wa sallam had such a such a special relationship with Khadija even after her death, he would
send gifts and he would remember her friends. And Alisha had heard so much about this great woman.
And so she felt a sense of jealousy towards her. And once she made a comment, you know, that Allah
has given you a wife that's better than her. And the Prophet sallallahu sallam said, no, no. And he
		

			made it very clear that her visa status was unmatchable. Right because she had supported him when
everyone else had abandoned him. She had given him wealth when everyone had withheld their wealth
from him. And she had an Allah had blessed him with two
		

			Aldrin through her as well. So although I should have been on her felt this sense of jealousy, it
didn't stop her from being honest and just when it came to Haneda and the other wives, so we find
that many of the narrations that talk about Khadija that give us information and you know, that tell
us about a mother Khadija are actually narrated by Aisha. We also find that later on, whenever the
situation came, where one of the wives of the Prophet had to say something about another wife, she
would always say something good, I should have done her, praised the other wives in various stages,
you know, in various situations. So, we see that that sense of jealousy is a natural sense of
		

			jealousy that sometimes bubbles up. But it didn't stop her from being honest. And it didn't stop her
from being just when it mattered.
		

			I shot a villa on her, had no doubt about who the head of the house was, you know, the messenger of
allah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam her husband was the head of the house. Although he served his
family and was very helpful towards his family. She also of course, served him, she obeyed him. She
supported him in his work. She prepared his miswak for him, for example, or his water for ablution.
She would need dough for bread, and she would wash his clothes and comb his hair.
		

			To Aisha the Prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam was a role model. You know, she famously described
saying his character was the Quran. That's how she described Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi wa sallam.
So in examining their relationship, we learned a lot about
		

			human interaction, emotional sensitivity between spouses and within families.
		

			So by now, I think we've all realized that the prophets Allah Allahu alayhi wa sallam had a very
special relationship with Russia or the law now.
		

			Now one group of people who knew that I had a very special place in the prophets heart, were the
hypocrites of Medina.
		

			Now, the hypocrites the Mona Cohn. They were those people who had not sincerely embraced Islam. They
were pretending to be muslims hoping that you know they could cause the prophets downfall one day
and eventually regained their status in Medina. And the head of the mafia Cohen was Abdullah bin
obey bin Salman. He was always looking for an opportunity to harm the messenger of allah sallallahu
alayhi wa sallam and his mission.
		

			And one of the things or persons enemies will do to get to a person is to attack them through the
thing that they love the most, and through the relationships that they love the most. And that's
what Abdullah bin obey, tried to do. One day, Abdullah bin obey got his chance to not only try to
undermine the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam and hurt him with regards to his most beloved, but
to try to attack his honor to ruin his marriage. And, you know, cause this into the disintegration
of the Muslim community.
		

			In the month of Siobhan in the fifth year of hijra,
		

			the Prophet sallallahu alayhi wa sallam led an expedition against bundle al metallic. During this
journey, a large number of munafo Hypocrites join the expedition, and they try to cause trouble
between the unserer and the MaHA judo and dancer were the Muslims of Medina, the natives of Medina,
and the hydrophone were those who had who had emigrated right from Mecca to Medina.
		

			Abdullah bin obey was publicly exposed by the unser during this incident, and he felt humiliated and
miserable. And because of this, he was looking for a way to hit back at Rasulullah sallallahu alayhi
wa sallam
		

			on will macmini in Arusha very eloquently tells us about this story in Viet and in vivid detail.
		

			And this is of course the story of the slander of Arusha or the Alana and our mother Aisha in very
vivid detail talks about it and explains what happened herself
		

			She narrates that when Allah's Messenger sallallahu alayhi wa sallam intended to go on a journey. He
used to draw lots amongst his wives. And so then through drawing lots he would decide which of his
wives would come with him. He drew lots amongst us during one of the other words, which were in
which he was going to fight. And the lot fell on me says Ayesha, and so I proceeded with Allah's
Messenger after Allah's ordering of the hijab had been revealed. So I should have been setting the
scene and the context, right? She's saying that basically,
		

			and this was in the fifth year of her journal, we said, you know, battle have been a bunny. stehlik
		

			Shana Dylan, who was traveling with Rasulullah, sallAllahu, alayhi wasallam. And this was after
hijab had been revealed. So she says, I was carried on the back of a camel in my hotel edge. And we
said that the hotel was like a little tent or a kind of a box that people could lift up. And inside
there was usually a seat of some sort in which on which our Isha Donna are one of the wives could
sit. And this was a way of giving the wives extra privacy, and you know, to be able to travel in a
dignified manner. So she says she, she was carried in how Dutch. And
		

			so she says,
		

			we went on, until Allah's Messenger had finished from that as well from that battle of his and
returned. When we approached the city of Medina, he announced at night that it was time for
departure. So when they announced the news of the departure, I got up and went away from the army
camps. Okay, so what was happening is obviously, a journey at that time was long, right? It took a
long time, you didn't just travel in a few hours, not even a few days, could take weeks and months.
So the entire caravan would stop at intervals, right? They would take all their things down, the
whole edge would come off, people would relax, they would maybe sleep, they will do whatever they
		

			needed to do. And then at intervals, then they would carry on right, they would pack everything back
up, and then carry on. So the Prophet salallahu Alaihe, Salam had announced that they were going to
go, so actually realize that she needed to go and answer the call of nature. And so she went away
from the camp. And she went to answer the call of nature. And she said she came back to her riding
camel.
		

			And when she came back, she said, I touched my chest to find that my necklace, so her own Onyx
necklace was missing. So she returned to look for her necklace. And she was looking and looking and
because of that she got delayed. And she was outside of her holder, of course. Right. So what
happened was, she says, In the meantime, the people who used to carry me on my camel, so those who
used to carry her Holdrege and lift it up onto the camel, they came and they took my whole dodge and
put it on the back of the camel on which I used to ride. They thought that she was in there. And she
says very eloquently in this hadith that she says in those days, women were light in weight, where
		

			they did not get fat. And flesh did not cover their bodies in abundance as they used to eat only a
little food. So she says In other words, she was really light in those days. And because of that the
people who were carrying the Holdrege they didn't realize that she wasn't in there. They assumed
that she was in there because everyone was ready to leave. So she must also be in there ready to
leave.
		

			She says those people therefore disregarded the lightness of the whole dodge while lifting it up and
carrying it. And at that time, she says I was still a young girl so she was only about 14 years old
at the time.
		

			She says they made the camel get up and all of them left to Pamela. So there is a mother Aisha a
young teenage girl. She is in the desert. And the entire Caravan has left. So she said she found her
necklace after the army had gone.
		

			And then when she came to the camping place, she realized everyone had gone and so what she decided
to do was just to sit there and wait. Okay,
		

			because she knew that it was the habit of traveling caravans, they would always send somebody one
like a scout to come back and look and make sure nobody had been left behind, or nothing important
had been left behind. So she realized they're probably going to send somebody. So she sat in the
middle of the desert, waiting and she fell asleep.
		

			In sha Allah in the next episode, we're going to continue with the story that led to the slander of
our mother Asha Delana. And see what happened when she was left in the middle of the desert. And the
caravan and the Messenger of Allah had left and already gone to Medina. So until then, desert Camilo
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