Fariq Naik – Polygamy History, Rationale and Legality in Islam

Fariq Naik
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The Central Intelligence Agency in India has discovered that every man needs to have one wife, but it is not a rule. They see that every man needs to have one wife, and in some countries like India, the female population is more than a male population. The Central Intelligence Agency sees that every man needs to have one wife, and in some countries like India, the female population is more than a male population. They also see that every man needs to have one wife, and in some countries like India, the female population is more than a male population.
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The fifth most common question or misconception that is, in the

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minds non Muslims is that why does Islam permit a Muslim man to have

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more than one wife? Why is polygamy permitted in Islam?

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Polygamy is a system of marriage. wherein a person has more than one

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spouse.

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Polygamy is the wife did in two types. polygyny and polyandry

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polygyny is when a man has more than one wife and polyandry is

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when a woman has more than one husband. In Islam, limited

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polygyny is permitted. But as polyandry it is completely

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prohibited in Islam.

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Quran is the only religious scripture on the face of the

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earth, which contains the phrase mighty only one. Whereas the other

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religious scriptures, they do not contain this phrase marry only one

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whether it be Hinduism, whether it be Christianity, whether it be

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Judaism, there is no restriction. A man can marry as many wives as

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he wishes. And even the same is the case with Hinduism. And many

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famous Hindu personalities even they had more than one wife

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according to hindu scriptures. King Dasha, the father of Rama, he

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had more than one wife, Krishna, how many wives did he have? For

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10 100,000 16,108? So if Krishna can have 16,108 Why's why can you

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Muslims are maximum for the same is the crease with Christianity.

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There is no limit. A Christian man according to the Bible can marry

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as many wives as wishes. It does not restrict a Christian man to

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marry only one wife. The same is the case with Judaism. If you read

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the Jewish Scriptures, Abraham had three wives Solomon had 700 wives.

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So Christian man, according to Christianity can marry more than

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one wife. It was later on that the Christian church put a

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restriction. The same is the case with Judaism. A Jew can marry more

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than one wife. It was later on that Rabbi Joseph Ben Yehuda, he

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issued an edit and he said that a Jewish man should marry only one

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wife. So Christianity, Hinduism, Judaism, all of these religions,

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they permitted their followers according to their scriptures to

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have more than one wife. And there was an article, the Committee of

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the status of women and slam published in 1975. And on page

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number 66 and 67.

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It mentioned regarding the polygamous marriages in India, in

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the span of 10 years, from 1951 to 1961.

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The Hindus they did 5.06% polygamous marriages, among the

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Hindus the percentage of polygamous marriages it was 5.06%

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among the Muslims in India was only 4.1%. According to the Indian

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law, it is illegal for a Hindu to have more than one wife. But for

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Muslim it is permitted according to Indian law. Yet, even though it

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is illegal, get the Hindus they were more polygamous in marriage.

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They were more polygamous as far as the marriages were concerned as

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compared to the Muslims. So, the Hindu scriptures does not put a

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restriction a Hindu can marry more than one wife, as per the Hindu

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scriptures. Now, let us look at the perspective of Islam as far as

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polygamy is concerned. The phrase that I mentioned previously, marry

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only one this is mentioned the Glorious Quran and so to Alibre,

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Inshallah, to Nyssa chapter number four was number three. And let us

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understand the context of this verse. Allah subhanaw taala says

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with danessa chapter number four was some three phunki your whole

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mouth all Bella Camino Nyssa must now

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that marry a woman of your choice into threes or fours. But if you

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cannot do justice, then marry only one.

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So Islam gives permission for a Muslim man to have more than one

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wife. And Allah subhanaw taala says in the Glorious Quran, and so

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to Mesa, chapter four verse, Psalm 129. Well untestable to untidy

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lubaina Nyssa, you will have hostile to me you may further work

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and never will you be able to do justice between your wives, but do

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not turn away from them all together.

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Many people, unfortunately have a misconception that polygamy having

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more than one wife, it is far that is compulsory in Islam, but

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polygamy it is not fun, but rather it is an exception. As far as

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Islamic rulings are concerned, it can be divided into four broad

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headings.

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First, that is compulsory mazahub that is recommended.

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MOBA that is optional. And the fourth is macro that is disliked

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and the fifth is haram that is prohibited five categories. As far

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as polygamy is concerned, it comes in the category of MOBA optional.

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If a person wishes you can do it. So,

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in Islam, a Muslim man is allowed to have more than one wife.

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Now, let us analyze what are the logical reasons why Islam permits

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a Muslim man to have more than one wife. If you analyze

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the males and the females, they are born in approximately the same

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ratio. But if you ask a pediatrician, and the pediatrician

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will tell you that, in the pediatric age itself, the female

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gender is stronger as compared to the male gender. So in the

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pediatric age itself, there are more deaths among men as compared

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to woman as life goes on, that are dead due to drug addiction, due to

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alcoholism, due to wars, due to accidents. In all of these cases,

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there are more men who die as compared to the woman. So all of

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these cases, there are more men who die as compared to the woman.

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For example, in certain countries like India, the female population

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it is more than a male population. The reason is because female

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feticide and female infanticide is practice. And there was an article

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that was published

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that is mentioned in the Al Jazeera. The UN report on the

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sixth of July 2015. It mentioned that every day in India, no less

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than 7000 Girls are aborted. fetuses have been aborted in the

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womb, or immediately after they're born Deeley 7000. And if you

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multiply this by 365, the number of days you will get no less than

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2.5 million fetuses have been aborted in the womb, or

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immediately after the child is born. Female fit side and female

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infanticide is topping Indiana, the country's the female

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population, it'll outnumber the male population. And according to

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the CIA, that is the Central Intelligence Agency. They see that

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in the year 2015. It mentioned that in USA alone, there are no

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less than 4.8 million females more than males in New York alone.

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Point 5 million females more than males in Germany alone. 1.2

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million females more than males in Bangladesh alone. 4.2 million

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females more than males in Russia alone. 10 million females more

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than males in the European Union, which consists of 28 countries. 10

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point 2 million females more than males. I'm asking the question

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that if we agree that every man needs to have only one wife, you

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get asked for the statistics in 2015. That I mentioned get if for

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example, in USA, every man has found a life partner yet there

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would be 4.8 million females will not have life partners. In

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Germany, there will be 1.2 million females without life partners if

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everyone has found a spouse. So the only option for these woman

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who do not have a spouse is to marry a man who already has a wife

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or to become public property. Some people might say public property,

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such a harsh word. It is the most sophisticated word I can use.

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Having mistresses is very common in the Western countries in

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America. 510 20 no problem but having more than one wife does not

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go down their throat. When a woman she is a second wife. She has her

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honor. She gets her rights. She lives a life of dignity. When a

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woman she is a mistress, she does not get her rights, she does not

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live a life of dignity. So in certain situations a person needs

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to polygamy

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and the Western civilization claiming to have lived a woman

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that actually degraded the status of concubines Mr says society

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butterflies, which are male tools in the hands of pleasure seekers

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and * marketers, which are hidden behind the colorful screen

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of art and culture. Now let us analyze few other reasons why

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Islam permits a Muslim man to have more than one wife. For example,

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if a woman she's Thai, She's biting and the couple they are not

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having a child for several years. So the husband wants to have a

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child. He can marry another woman so that he has an offspring and

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the second wife can but natural, provide and take care of the

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family and take care of the first wife as well.

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For example, if a person marries a woman at a young age and this

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woman she

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He becomes handicapped. And because of this, she cannot do the

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role of a mother or cannot take care of the children. So the only

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option the husband has is to divorce the first wife, and marry

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a second woman, or to keep the first wife and marry a second

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woman and the second wife will provide for the family and take

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care of the first wife as well. For example, if a woman has some

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kind of illness, and her husband has married this woman, and this

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woman she has certain kind of illness because of which she

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cannot take care of the children. So in order to take care of

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children, the man marries another woman.

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So the only two options that the man has, if he wants to bring Papa

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Blinky of the children, that he divorces the first wife and

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marries a second woman, or he keeps the first wife and marries a

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second woman. So from these various reasons, logical reasons

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we understand why Islam permits a Muslim man to have more than one

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wife.

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