Fariq Naik – Polygamy History, Rationale and Legality in Islam

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The Central Intelligence Agency in India has discovered that every man needs to have one wife, but it is not a rule. They see that every man needs to have one wife, and in some countries like India, the female population is more than a male population. The Central Intelligence Agency sees that every man needs to have one wife, and in some countries like India, the female population is more than a male population. They also see that every man needs to have one wife, and in some countries like India, the female population is more than a male population.

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			The fifth most common question or
misconception that is, in the
		
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			minds non Muslims is that why does
Islam permit a Muslim man to have
		
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			more than one wife? Why is
polygamy permitted in Islam?
		
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			Polygamy is a system of marriage.
wherein a person has more than one
		
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			spouse.
		
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			Polygamy is the wife did in two
types. polygyny and polyandry
		
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			polygyny is when a man has more
than one wife and polyandry is
		
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			when a woman has more than one
husband. In Islam, limited
		
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			polygyny is permitted. But as
polyandry it is completely
		
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			prohibited in Islam.
		
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			Quran is the only religious
scripture on the face of the
		
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			earth, which contains the phrase
mighty only one. Whereas the other
		
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			religious scriptures, they do not
contain this phrase marry only one
		
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			whether it be Hinduism, whether it
be Christianity, whether it be
		
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			Judaism, there is no restriction.
A man can marry as many wives as
		
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			he wishes. And even the same is
the case with Hinduism. And many
		
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			famous Hindu personalities even
they had more than one wife
		
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			according to hindu scriptures.
King Dasha, the father of Rama, he
		
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			had more than one wife, Krishna,
how many wives did he have? For
		
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			10 100,000 16,108? So if Krishna
can have 16,108 Why's why can you
		
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			Muslims are maximum for the same
is the crease with Christianity.
		
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			There is no limit. A Christian man
according to the Bible can marry
		
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			as many wives as wishes. It does
not restrict a Christian man to
		
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			marry only one wife. The same is
the case with Judaism. If you read
		
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			the Jewish Scriptures, Abraham had
three wives Solomon had 700 wives.
		
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			So Christian man, according to
Christianity can marry more than
		
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			one wife. It was later on that the
Christian church put a
		
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			restriction. The same is the case
with Judaism. A Jew can marry more
		
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			than one wife. It was later on
that Rabbi Joseph Ben Yehuda, he
		
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			issued an edit and he said that a
Jewish man should marry only one
		
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			wife. So Christianity, Hinduism,
Judaism, all of these religions,
		
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			they permitted their followers
according to their scriptures to
		
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			have more than one wife. And there
was an article, the Committee of
		
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			the status of women and slam
published in 1975. And on page
		
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			number 66 and 67.
		
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			It mentioned regarding the
polygamous marriages in India, in
		
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			the span of 10 years, from 1951 to
1961.
		
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			The Hindus they did 5.06%
polygamous marriages, among the
		
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			Hindus the percentage of
polygamous marriages it was 5.06%
		
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			among the Muslims in India was
only 4.1%. According to the Indian
		
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			law, it is illegal for a Hindu to
have more than one wife. But for
		
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			Muslim it is permitted according
to Indian law. Yet, even though it
		
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			is illegal, get the Hindus they
were more polygamous in marriage.
		
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			They were more polygamous as far
as the marriages were concerned as
		
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			compared to the Muslims. So, the
Hindu scriptures does not put a
		
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			restriction a Hindu can marry more
than one wife, as per the Hindu
		
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			scriptures. Now, let us look at
the perspective of Islam as far as
		
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			polygamy is concerned. The phrase
that I mentioned previously, marry
		
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			only one this is mentioned the
Glorious Quran and so to Alibre,
		
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			Inshallah, to Nyssa chapter number
four was number three. And let us
		
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			understand the context of this
verse. Allah subhanaw taala says
		
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			with danessa chapter number four
was some three phunki your whole
		
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			mouth all Bella Camino Nyssa must
now
		
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			that marry a woman of your choice
into threes or fours. But if you
		
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			cannot do justice, then marry only
one.
		
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			So Islam gives permission for a
Muslim man to have more than one
		
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			wife. And Allah subhanaw taala
says in the Glorious Quran, and so
		
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			to Mesa, chapter four verse, Psalm
129. Well untestable to untidy
		
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			lubaina Nyssa, you will have
hostile to me you may further work
		
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			and never will you be able to do
justice between your wives, but do
		
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			not turn away from them all
together.
		
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			Many people, unfortunately have a
misconception that polygamy having
		
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			more than one wife, it is far that
is compulsory in Islam, but
		
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			polygamy it is not fun, but rather
it is an exception. As far as
		
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			Islamic rulings are concerned, it
can be divided into four broad
		
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			headings.
		
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			First, that is compulsory mazahub
that is recommended.
		
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			MOBA that is optional. And the
fourth is macro that is disliked
		
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			and the fifth is haram that is
prohibited five categories. As far
		
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			as polygamy is concerned, it comes
in the category of MOBA optional.
		
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			If a person wishes you can do it.
So,
		
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			in Islam, a Muslim man is allowed
to have more than one wife.
		
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			Now, let us analyze what are the
logical reasons why Islam permits
		
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			a Muslim man to have more than one
wife. If you analyze
		
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			the males and the females, they
are born in approximately the same
		
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			ratio. But if you ask a
pediatrician, and the pediatrician
		
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			will tell you that, in the
pediatric age itself, the female
		
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			gender is stronger as compared to
the male gender. So in the
		
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			pediatric age itself, there are
more deaths among men as compared
		
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			to woman as life goes on, that are
dead due to drug addiction, due to
		
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			alcoholism, due to wars, due to
accidents. In all of these cases,
		
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			there are more men who die as
compared to the woman. So all of
		
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			these cases, there are more men
who die as compared to the woman.
		
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			For example, in certain countries
like India, the female population
		
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			it is more than a male population.
The reason is because female
		
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			feticide and female infanticide is
practice. And there was an article
		
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			that was published
		
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			that is mentioned in the Al
Jazeera. The UN report on the
		
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			sixth of July 2015. It mentioned
that every day in India, no less
		
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			than 7000 Girls are aborted.
fetuses have been aborted in the
		
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			womb, or immediately after they're
born Deeley 7000. And if you
		
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			multiply this by 365, the number
of days you will get no less than
		
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			2.5 million fetuses have been
aborted in the womb, or
		
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			immediately after the child is
born. Female fit side and female
		
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			infanticide is topping Indiana,
the country's the female
		
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			population, it'll outnumber the
male population. And according to
		
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			the CIA, that is the Central
Intelligence Agency. They see that
		
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			in the year 2015. It mentioned
that in USA alone, there are no
		
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			less than 4.8 million females more
than males in New York alone.
		
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			Point 5 million females more than
males in Germany alone. 1.2
		
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			million females more than males in
Bangladesh alone. 4.2 million
		
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			females more than males in Russia
alone. 10 million females more
		
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			than males in the European Union,
which consists of 28 countries. 10
		
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			point 2 million females more than
males. I'm asking the question
		
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			that if we agree that every man
needs to have only one wife, you
		
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			get asked for the statistics in
2015. That I mentioned get if for
		
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			example, in USA, every man has
found a life partner yet there
		
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			would be 4.8 million females will
not have life partners. In
		
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			Germany, there will be 1.2 million
females without life partners if
		
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			everyone has found a spouse. So
the only option for these woman
		
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			who do not have a spouse is to
marry a man who already has a wife
		
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			or to become public property. Some
people might say public property,
		
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			such a harsh word. It is the most
sophisticated word I can use.
		
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			Having mistresses is very common
in the Western countries in
		
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			America. 510 20 no problem but
having more than one wife does not
		
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			go down their throat. When a woman
she is a second wife. She has her
		
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			honor. She gets her rights. She
lives a life of dignity. When a
		
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			woman she is a mistress, she does
not get her rights, she does not
		
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			live a life of dignity. So in
certain situations a person needs
		
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			to polygamy
		
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			and the Western civilization
claiming to have lived a woman
		
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			that actually degraded the status
of concubines Mr says society
		
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			butterflies, which are male tools
in the hands of pleasure seekers
		
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			and * marketers, which are
hidden behind the colorful screen
		
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			of art and culture. Now let us
analyze few other reasons why
		
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			Islam permits a Muslim man to have
more than one wife. For example,
		
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			if a woman she's Thai, She's
biting and the couple they are not
		
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			having a child for several years.
So the husband wants to have a
		
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			child. He can marry another woman
so that he has an offspring and
		
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			the second wife can but natural,
provide and take care of the
		
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			family and take care of the first
wife as well.
		
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			For example, if a person marries a
woman at a young age and this
		
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			woman she
		
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			He becomes handicapped. And
because of this, she cannot do the
		
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			role of a mother or cannot take
care of the children. So the only
		
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			option the husband has is to
divorce the first wife, and marry
		
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			a second woman, or to keep the
first wife and marry a second
		
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			woman and the second wife will
provide for the family and take
		
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			care of the first wife as well.
For example, if a woman has some
		
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			kind of illness, and her husband
has married this woman, and this
		
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			woman she has certain kind of
illness because of which she
		
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			cannot take care of the children.
So in order to take care of
		
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			children, the man marries another
woman.
		
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			So the only two options that the
man has, if he wants to bring Papa
		
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			Blinky of the children, that he
divorces the first wife and
		
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			marries a second woman, or he
keeps the first wife and marries a
		
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			second woman. So from these
various reasons, logical reasons
		
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			we understand why Islam permits a
Muslim man to have more than one
		
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			wife.