Faraz Rabbani – Weekly Q&A How to Deal the Discovery That My Father Committed Zina
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The speaker discusses sensitive questions about a father committed child out of wedlock, causing trauma and difficulty. They emphasize seeking counsel from localoller or counselors and direct people to pray for guidance and seeking guidance to improve their circumstances.
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There's a very sensitive question that my father
committed
out of wedlock,
and we discovered that he had child out
of wedlock.
And
this is causing a lot of difficulty and
trauma.
May Allah grant you and your family ease
and assistance.
We
these are very sensitive matters.
The wrong is wrong and it's not acceptable,
right.
We whether
particularly if the person is repentant, whether we
have
the capacity
to forgive them.
We also have to consider what is the
best way forward for us ourselves
in our deen and in our dunya
with regards to
the error commit the the wrong committed by
your father.
And we also have to consider what is
best
for all involved
in accordance with the good pleasure of Allah.
There is merit in forgiving
and in rectifying
and in healing,
but sometimes there's also wisdom in being firm
being firm
until a person,
particularly if they,
if we want them to to to rectify
their affairs.
In such sensitive matters, it is critical for
you to consult
local
scholars
or counselors
to help you work through this. You are
not alone. You are not alone.
The prophet salallahu alaihi wa sallam
is a
has emphasized
seeking
the counsel
of the wise.
Shah wirul hukama, consult the wise.
And the prophet salallahu alaihi wa sallam himself,
though the most intelligent
human being
ever, he would always consult his noble companions
So we should embrace consultation,
you are not
alone.
And do do istighara,
Perform the prayer the istikhara, the prayer of
seeking guidance, and see what is it that
would be the best response in
your particular
circumstances.