Faraz Rabbani – Weekly Q&A Am I Allowed to Marry a Woman Who I Fell into Zina With

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The speaker discusses the possibility of marrying a woman with her right reasons, but it depends on her suitable partner. He explains that it is possible for good people to choose the right step of marriage based on religion and good character, but it is sometimes difficult for some individuals to choose the right path. The speaker suggests that it could be a realization that one wants to take a different path, such as realizing that a woman was part of why they fell into sin and want to go back to consciousness.

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			The first question that we have is that,
		
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			is it permissible to marry a woman
		
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			with whom I fell into zina with? May
		
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			Allah protect us.
		
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			All from
		
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			and
		
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			the things leading to it.
		
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			It is valid
		
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			for those who have committed
		
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			to marry. It is valid
		
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			for them to marry.
		
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			However, whether they should marry
		
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			depends on whether they're suitable for one another.
		
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			Right? For which
		
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			one should one must
		
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			consult consider
		
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			that is this the right person for me?
		
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			All things considered, number 1. And number 2,
		
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			consult
		
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			those who know you and ideally consult people
		
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			of religion, also how you rectify
		
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			things. Right? So that you
		
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			your one error should not justify a lifetime
		
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			of errors.
		
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			It is possible for good people to have
		
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			fallen to then
		
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			one takes the means of repenting and rectifying.
		
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			And part of the solution could be marriage,
		
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			but it sometimes isn't. The person isn't suitable
		
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			for you
		
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			given where you are and want to be
		
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			at religiously
		
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			and in life
		
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			and in terms of their character and concern
		
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			in life.
		
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			Ultimately, one chooses to marry on the basis
		
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			of
		
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			of religion and good character. Sometimes
		
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			errors such as falling into
		
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			you know, unlawful sexual,
		
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			relationships
		
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			can be a reminder in wake up call
		
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			that I need to rectify
		
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			my
		
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			I need to fix my direction in life.
		
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			That could be a joint concern
		
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			that could lead 1 to
		
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			choose
		
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			the step of marriage together,
		
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			or it could be a realization that, look,
		
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			this person
		
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			was part of why I fell into sin,
		
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			and as a result I want to tread
		
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			a different path. I want to tread the
		
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			path
		
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			of
		
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			consciousness
		
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			of Allah
		
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			So that's what we can say regarding this.