Faraz Rabbani – The Rawha #203 The Blessings of Gatherings of Remembrance

Faraz Rabbani
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There there, again these

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gatherings are are considered gatherings of the akhirah,

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not gatherings of the dunya. These are gatherings

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in which

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala announces

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to the angels that everyone in this gathering

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when they stand up is forgiven.

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And we enter this gathering hope with the

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hopes that that be proven true for us,

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that we have the intention that Allah, execute

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our sins by these gatherings and raise our

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ranks by these gathering gatherings

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and make us amongst those who Allah

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says

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that they are such a people

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that those who sit with them will never

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be wretched. So we hope Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala makes us amongst those and joins us

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with that group.

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As just as these types of gatherings are

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given preference by Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala over

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other types of gatherings.

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And there are certain places which Allah loves

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more than other places like the Masjid over

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where the prophet said, salallahu alayhi wa sallam,

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that the most beloved places to Allah are

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the Masjids and the most

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odious places to Allah are the markets.

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And there is just like there is places

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which Allah has preferred over others,

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there are people who Allah has preferred over

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others.

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The the prophets are not equal to those

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who are non prophets. Those who are righteous

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can never be equal or can never be

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equated by those who are sinful.

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Allah says, should we make those who are

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Muslim and those who are obedient like those

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who are criminals?

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Allah has distinguished between people between people as

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well as well. Right? But just as there

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are places and people who are given preference

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over others,

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there are times that are given preference by

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Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala over others.

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Right? As the prophet said that that

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the the best of days is the day

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of Jum'ah.

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And the day the best day of the

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week is the day of Jum'ah.

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But just like that there are special occasions

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throughout the year

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that the one who is seeking Allah Subhanahu

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Wa Ta'ala will find in those days that

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which they cannot find in other days.

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They will find in those days opportunities

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which if they had spent

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years

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to to try to acquire of regular days

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they would not be able to to to

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pass that journey to to reach that

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that furthest extent. The prophet said that,

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there are no days

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in which in which righteous deeds are more

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beloved to Allah

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in them, other than the days of the

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10 days of Dhul Hijjah.

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And these are the days in which are

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most beloved to Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. Actions

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that are done in other other other days

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could never equate to actions done in these

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days because of Allah Subhanahu wa Ta'ala's love

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for them. So the Prophet gave us instructions

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at the end.

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He said faakthirufiha

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minat tasbihi

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wa tahmeeli wa tahaleeli wa takbir.

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So be abundant in those days in doing

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tasbih saying, SubhanAllah,

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Walhamdulillah,

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Wallaylalla,

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Wallahu Akbar.

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Right? To to gain the most of those

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days.

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And but

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because of the the sins of our hearts,

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because of the things that we do, it's

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very likely that we can be blocked from

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such blessings.

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Right? And the prophet he warned,

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alright, he warned in many different occasions about

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people because of their sins being blocked from

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the rewards of auspicious occasions. Right? We find

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in the hadith that are

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Ramadan where the prophet he climbed the mimbar.

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Right. 1 step, 2 step, 3 step and

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after each step he said Amin.

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Alright. 1 of the

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reasons,

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alright, one of the reasons he said Amin

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was that he said that

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the person who enters the month of Ramadan

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and is not forgiven, may he be far

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from the mercy of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala.

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Right. That even though that auspicious occasion was

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there for the taking, right. Even though the

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blessings were were flowing from Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala and descending upon his creation, that person

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still was not able to attain the the

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forgiveness of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala. Same thing

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in these days, the days of the 10

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days of Dhul Hijjah. And the prophet SallAllahu

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Alaihi Wasallam, he warned about 4 types of

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people who will be deprived from blessings on

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these days. And we ask Allah Subhanahu Wa

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Ta'ala to forgive us for what has passed.

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And we ask Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala to

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give us give us tafiq to right these

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wrongs if they are our reality.

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And he said, one of them is Qalti

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al Rahim, the one who breaks family ties,

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the one who cuts off people of their

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family.

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Right?

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The prophet he said right? Sorry. Allah subhanahu

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wa ta'ala, he says in

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Quran, right, that that they broke that which

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Allah subhanahu wa ta'ala has commanded should be

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joined.

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Right? That the

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the family ties,

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the prophet said that Jibreel constantly kept repeating

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to me about the about the virtues of

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the of the,

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about the family ties.

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Right? And the second one is,

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rukuqulwadidin,

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the one who disobeys their parents.

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The one who disobeys their parents. The third

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one is the

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the shari bulhamr, the one who indulges

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in intoxicants

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and who takes the verse refers to alcohol

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specifically because that was what was there, but

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the the reason is still found in other

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types of intoxicants.

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And the last one which is you probably

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the most

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difficult

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to remove

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is the one who holds grudges, the mushahen.

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The one who holds in their heart enmity

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toward another person for some reason.

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Right? And this

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is one of the root causes of the

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ego being stirred up. And the ego is

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is the biggest and the thickest

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and the darkest veil that couldn't cover anyone's

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heart.

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Right? The Nur of Allah Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala

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will not penetrate if the veil is too

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thick, if the veil is dark like and

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the Prophet said that when a person when

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the child of Adam does a sin, there

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is a black spot put on their heart.

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But if they desist

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and they they ask for forgiveness and they

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repents, it is polished away.

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But for

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but if they continue on that path

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that path of darkening their heart, one sin

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after another, one glance after another, one word

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after another, right, if

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if they continued on that path, the darkness

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continues to spread,

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until the the heart becomes hard.

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Right? So

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the the one who holds grudges on this

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day will be

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will be deprived of such blessings of these

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days. And the prophet salallahu alayhi wa sallam,

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he gave very beautiful instructions to one of

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the young sahaba and we'll close with this

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so we can hear from the other ef

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albil,

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that he said that

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That if you are able to spend your

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mornings and your nights and not have any

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enmity in your heart toward anyone, then do

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so.

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That is my Sunnah. That is my

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way.

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And whoever revives my sunnah loves me.

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And whoever loves me will be with me

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in Jannah. We ask Allah Subhanu wa Ta'ala

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to not deprive us in these blessed days

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of his his his divine generosity

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and his his beneficence. And we ask Allah

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Subhanahu Wa Ta'ala to forgive us what has

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trans what has,

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passed. And we ask Allah to give us

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to be obedient to him and what is

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coming.

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